Just wanna say there’s a big difference between “I’m going through a lot” and “i got a lot going on”😂😂😂

@antonskor8127

Жыл бұрын

enlighten us por favor

@d1sc0urs3

Жыл бұрын

Yes please, explicate

@AbrahamLincoIn

Жыл бұрын

@terrim.9002 like what?

@ivanafloyde2948

Жыл бұрын

I’m going through alot is me emotionally so I might be depressed or overly anxious. I got a lot going on is family so usually it’s crazy on families end and I am waiting for the volcano and whatever comes out of it to settle.

@bgrego88

Жыл бұрын

I'm going through alot... I am currently emotionally or physically overwhelmed by the day to day of my life I got alot going on... I am too busy to care about or entertain whatever you are asking about or whatever you may want from me

The last time I told a man I had a lot going on was May 2022. My mom died in March, my grandpa died in April, my sister had a baby in April so I left the state for days to help her, I graduated from grad school in May, I had 2 full time jobs and I was behind on all my bills and I didn’t want to bring anyone into my mess. Sometimes we just have a lot going on.

@jessii7642

Жыл бұрын

Wishing you so much healing🥺💗

@DianaP617

Жыл бұрын

💜💜

@ms.emotions

Жыл бұрын

❤❤

@thenaturalfloh

Жыл бұрын

I hope things are brighter ❤

@laurencameron3150

Жыл бұрын

I think men make those types of assumptions from 1) they lie like that and 2) insecurities

I feel like Fuhad and James have too many inside jokes that we don’t know about 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I just laugh like I know them 😂😂😂😂

@yah7130

Жыл бұрын

Same here. It's like I'm sitting there bussing up with them😂

@zanelemkhwanazi1003

Жыл бұрын

Me too they laugh so hard you can't not laugh

@christellefrancios2038

Жыл бұрын

Some of them are song and movie references.. the “Attitude girl” is from the song ‘duty wine’.. he’s says 3 of dem 4 of them

James “you at deaths door, drink water 💧” I felt attacked 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@merp9211

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂

🤣 I felt attacked when they mentioned the women who haven't eaten all day and go to bed past 1am. Lord, I need to stop, lol.

@Antoinettemayers

Жыл бұрын

100%….Personally attacked! 😂

@hottmessxm

Жыл бұрын

I haven't got to that part yet but YASSSS

@alayhamichelle3368

Жыл бұрын

I've never felt so exposed and judged 😂😂

@balungilemalusi1663

Жыл бұрын

Same 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@droge410

Жыл бұрын

This happens a lot to us ladies we work take care of home the kids our mate you just forget to eat. Or you are like me eating in the car rider line picking up the kiddo at school cause that’s your only moment of peace. 😂

His description of "last boy scout" is just as good as the movie

@joshuabrigden4820

Жыл бұрын

damn you got here first

@Akahfool

Жыл бұрын

aye bless you, mane

@carl4300

Жыл бұрын

Then she said that he's never around and she's lonely... Bruce: then get a dog. Classic line

@BeeeepBoooop

Жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/pZloxrqQmsTUnKg.html

@GenX-Gemini

Жыл бұрын

👍

“You’re on death’s door!” 😂😂Apparently dehydration is something girls have in common across all races

@rosenoanyie7982

Жыл бұрын

I drink a lot of water though

@stargazer1835

8 ай бұрын

​@@rosenoanyie7982because you were previously dehydrated

@xariashire

8 ай бұрын

@@stargazer1835LOOOOOOOOOOL

@SweetEssie

3 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@saintthomas8371

Ай бұрын

How did I read this as he said it

“I got a lot going on” means she’s putting you down easy and hope you leave her alone 😂

@astronomical5405

9 ай бұрын

😂 exactly we have a lot going on and you won’t be added to the list right now 🤷🏾‍♀️

A guy not understanding how women feel when they don't get their hair done, is weird. Especially when if they can't get a haircut for whatever reason.....they act like Jim Carrey in The Grich who stole Christmas. 😂😂😂

@indiashante1560

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@takalaninemutandani1085

Жыл бұрын

Huh

@yaboiibfreezeGaming

Жыл бұрын

How are we supposed to know 😂 it’s a totally different world on hair cuts . Haircuts for men you immediately notice a difference it’s night and day. For Ladies it’s hard unless it was a drastic change in length or hairstyle or color.

@Annathegem

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@prettyinpinky5937

Жыл бұрын

@@yaboiibfreezeGaming that right there is how we see a haircut on men and us getting our hair done! That’s the problem with men, you act as if we’re a different species and what applies to you doesn’t to us. We don’t notice when your hair isn’t cut like you don’t with ours being done and we feel we can really see the difference with ours. 🙄

James screaming at a girl to drink some water is literally me to my bestie every week when she tells me she doesn't feel well... Girl, tell your husband to cuddle you and bring you a glass of h20 and maybe a piece of fruit, damn 🙄

@elenam9435

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@melxmari

Жыл бұрын

CRYING😂😂😂

@SamiiRSMT

Жыл бұрын

Cringe

@startwithsharon

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@leorose6039

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

“I’m gonna start acting how I look.” That’s exactly how we feel which is why we have an attitude lol

The attacks got real personal when they started the comparison between ignoring the car maintenance and ignoring red flags because I've done both and sufferer the consequences 💀🤣🤣

I feel personally attacked by the “what have you had to eat today? .. a redbull” 💀💀🤣🤣🤣 I’ve had many a days

@kajeeeeeee

Жыл бұрын

Right😂😂😂

@shaniqua830

Жыл бұрын

It's a monster for me

@Je551kuhhh

Жыл бұрын

Not my husband dying laughing at this comment bc this is ME

@Sheque3185688

11 ай бұрын

Head hurting too lol 😂😂😂

James: “When’s the last time you had water?!” Me: sips water “point taken”

Bruh, I deadass bought a pallet of Gatorade because my girl doesn't hydrate. I'll drink and then pass it to her. Honestly worked like a charm 👌

@dangamaas

Жыл бұрын

You are a true hero

@Annwylr

Жыл бұрын

I don't know whether to be impressed or offended, this reminds me of the girl who bamboozled her cat to drink more by drinking out of a cup and leaving it around for the cat 😂

@ayandasperanza530

Жыл бұрын

I just realised this is being used on me right now

@latenitetubing

9 ай бұрын

Smart

@Myaccount923

7 ай бұрын

Gatorade doesn’t hydrate anything…try rapid rehydrate or another brand for electrolytes

“The thing rattles open!”😂😂 Fuhad tells the best stories

*6 months into watching this podcast Me saying something “Sweetened me” even though I’m not from the UK 😂

@mesidye

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@samanthagarcia1398

Жыл бұрын

no fr.

@claymuroo5681

Жыл бұрын

😂 it’s sweeted

@esemac

Жыл бұрын

SAME 🤣🤣🤣

@aprizegaming875

Жыл бұрын

I say it’s jokes now

" they just want to be cuddled they don't care about water" 🤣🤣🤣 that's literally me loool. Yes James we just want the cuddles!!!!!

I just saw that Bruce Willis clip yesterday...I don't even know why. He was like I see someones been in the shower but your hair is dry. She definitely was gaslighting him. She was indignant! I loved it!!

@wordeeone4996

Жыл бұрын

@@allaboutaliisha last Boy Scout I think

@sashell2980

Жыл бұрын

Lol I knew exactly what he was talking about as well because I saw the same short

“i’m going through a lot” = something is going on/happened in my life that is putting a toll on me mentally/emotionally “i got a lot going on” = i’m busy (but could potentially be an excuse for not interested)

I’ve got a lot going on right now, but listening to you guys realllllyyyy brightens my day. 😂

@blackceasar2141

Жыл бұрын

@sunshineandsoul " how you feeling today, beautiful "🤣🤣😉

@muleyamwiinga3988

Жыл бұрын

Is it Arnold or Lazarus?

@samira14knox

Жыл бұрын

Lmao

@Thelucky23

Жыл бұрын

Hahahahahahahahhaha. 😅😂😂😂😂😂

@moonchild66

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

It IS that deep James. I have literally broken down crying out of nowhere because I had to go through the entire weekend without my hair done. I'm 40 years old, and this was a few months ago. It never stops being that serious.

@neoloanderson6676

Жыл бұрын

😳, you need some plan b hair styles 🙉.

@callanc3925

Жыл бұрын

You need therapy

@BB25_25

Жыл бұрын

Why???

@NoName-nj4mw

Жыл бұрын

@@neoloanderson6676 i thought I had one but it didn't work. And on top of that I look weird af in wigs so my own hair is my only option lol

@NoName-nj4mw

Жыл бұрын

@@BB25_25 i felt so ugly lol

Man said, "I couldn't cut my hair during lockdown & I couldn't see happiness" I'm screaming 😂😂😂😂

Fuhad is the best story teller 😂 Almost better than the movie! And James saying "you're on deaths door!" love these two 🤞❤

@jakaliabrown4294

9 ай бұрын

What is the movie?

@morrisahj

9 ай бұрын

@@jakaliabrown4294The Last Boy Scout

Omg I was on the floor when James started quoting Tony Matterhorn Dutty Whine lyrics 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@MilaTejana

Жыл бұрын

🤣😄💃🏾

@shodanea5439

Жыл бұрын

I died!! 😂😂😂😂😂

This is how life needs to be, sitting and laughing with people you like being around

"Up past 1am and only eat once a day" I never felt so attacked in my life 😭🤣

“I couldn’t see happiness” 🤣😂🤣 legit made me lol

I feel like girls in the USA, or maybe just around me, are crazy about making sure you drink enough water lol. We're all looking ridiculous with a "cute" gallon water jug from Amazon on our desks 😂. Let ANYTHING be wrong with you, not even health stuff, you can say you have a flat tire, and all these girls will ask if you drank water. It's even more annoying because I make sure I have enough water too 😂😂.

@_Jai_

Жыл бұрын

even tho the tire is flat, you’ll feel better about it bc you’re hydrated.

@Antoinettemayers

Жыл бұрын

😂

@marielaberge8236

Жыл бұрын

I remember reading a YA novel where that was a common thing that people noted when others became upset, a reflexive "you're upset? have some water" and it took the main character coming out of cryogenic sleep to note that actually wasn't A Thing in her time? What's that about? And that's how the people discovered the habit became a cultural thing cuz their government is drugging the water to keep them mildly sedated at all times.

@leena5875

Жыл бұрын

you don’t rlly have to drink that much water it’s excess. you get water absorption from the food you eat too

@prettyinpinky5937

Жыл бұрын

Had that stage in high school here in South Africa.

It's The last boy scout with Bruce Willis and Damon Wayans

@BetweenThePagesWithLouLou

Жыл бұрын

Thanks.

@natiaamoani7846

Жыл бұрын

I was thinking Die Hard

"The Last Boy Scout". An ABSOLUTELY CLASSIC action movie.

🤣🤣🤣 I'm the first one to not let a drop of water touch my lips all day and then be like, "That's weird, I feel dizzy".

@ummeiguess

Жыл бұрын

oh nooo 😂😂😂 🚰🚰🚰🚰

@itseby3642

9 ай бұрын

💀 me lol

I love that this podcast is slowly growing

@Obatala_Vibez

Жыл бұрын

Everytime I blink my eyes they up by 100k 🔥

@naomicampana

Жыл бұрын

Or rapidly?

@mbach003

Жыл бұрын

Too slow my guy

@wendypoet6487

Жыл бұрын

@@mbach003 Is proof of a sronger foundation.

Fuhad is hands down the best story teller😂😂😂 he took us there 😅

The movie Fuhad was talking about was "The Last Boy Scout" Also starring Damon Wayans and Hallie Berry

I don't know why but James gasp at 4:52 killed me 😂

@LokisWife-fromGermany

Жыл бұрын

And fuhad smirk trying not to laugh at James reaction 😂😂 I love them 😂

You deserve all the growth and attention you're getting. Your videos have me weak everytime. Respect. 🙏

I feel so called out with the not eating, no water, headache part. Like why y'all spying on my past?😂😂😂

The way James says "water" kills me 😂😂😂

These two aren't even comedians and they provide us with tons of laughter. You rock,guys. ❤️

@shahee6579

Жыл бұрын

They're literally reading

@haddingtoniangcp2464

Жыл бұрын

@@shahee6579 you don't find their reactions to what they are literally reading funny?

@jesschristabel4900

Жыл бұрын

@@shahee6579 exactly. The fact that even just reading and chatting is funny to a lot of people, shows natural talent

@shahee6579

Жыл бұрын

@@jesschristabel4900 you're proven my point J

"If you can stay positive in a negative situation, you win."

I never knew British people actually said Waha instead of water until today I thought that was just a joke in comedy 🤣

@goranpersson7726

11 ай бұрын

they dont, londoners mostly or the younger generation does. london and the areas/towns surrounding it is a bit of it's own country, the people there are the ones you'll find saying it like that but older generation and people outside of the london area tend to actually enunciate it

@Cajun_Seasoning

8 ай бұрын

depends where you live and your personal preference really. I used to say it too. Its weird because saying it like that feels both natural and unnatural. I eventually forced myself to pronounce the 't' because it sounds less ugly like that.

@Devinw1213

8 ай бұрын

gotcha interesting, wonder what caused younger generations to start saying it like that? that area of people @@goranpersson7726

Fuhad reenacting the Bruce Willis Scene lmao. That was crazy doe, women wildin'😭😭😭

@SouthSideDiva

Жыл бұрын

I think it’s the movie the last Boy Scout

I'm so happy that I've found a space that actually has helped me with my anxiety this year. God bless you both 🙏🏾 ❤🫶🏾

I'm female and if I say ''I've got too much going on'' to counter a male's interest it is legit I am feeling bad vibes or seeing red flags but I am too scared to say it like that because of what might happen when he understands I'm not interested. x_x

@ummeiguess

Жыл бұрын

this sucks - having to be subversive for your safety Males need to learn to handle their emotions better - and Society needs to Teach Them, and Let Them smmfh but everyone needs to learn to Give Grace - sometimes ppl really are in a bind, and your need to be in their space is another complication for them smmfh - let ppl Breathe

A guy wanted to meet up for the first time and I told him I’m available in two weeks. He got very angry and told me f off. I told him I got a lot going on. That was a lie. I just needed two weeks to lose 12kg before I meet him 😂😂😂. At the end of the day, I dodged the bullet because of his anger issues.

Half of these jokes hit harder because of y’all accent😂😂😂 she wants to be cuddled doesn’t want to hear about water is facts😊

As the only sister and living with seven brothers, I always have a lot going on 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@fattysl26

Жыл бұрын

I have 6 brothers, I understand the dramatics of men!!

@dr.hanniballecter5622

Жыл бұрын

@@fattysl26 I actually have eleven, but only seven live at home..... would you like any?

@fattysl26

Жыл бұрын

@@dr.hanniballecter5622 Nah, I'm good with 6 👍🏾

@EllePlowPlow

Жыл бұрын

Reading this thread 😂😂😂

@dr.hanniballecter5622

Жыл бұрын

@@fattysl26 Damn it.....I was hoping you'd want at least two

I absolutely loved hearing that Bruce Willis scene described in that way.

You guys 🤣🤣🤣 I hope y'all feel all the love being sent your way! You guys keep us cracking up!!

the last boy scout is a bonafide hood classic

@KidFromQueens

Жыл бұрын

They had stunts n explosions...that's a Blockbuster hit! Real hood flicks use drano bombs for special effects!🤣🤣🤣

@karaokekingskingdom

Жыл бұрын

@@KidFromQueens i said it was a hood classic, not a hood flick.

The answer to this for me was due to depression/anxiety or just flat out not wanting to be bothered. I was either tired, hungover, unhappy with where I worked and what I did for work or just wanted to be left alone 🤷🏽‍♀️

@OWFTWD

Жыл бұрын

same

@peli201

Жыл бұрын

Facts. Let me be, I don't want no damn chit-chat

@waitwhat6056

Жыл бұрын

This. This is me rt now; and I am exhausted and just can't muster up the energy for any more interaction than the bare minimum required for work.

@rosenoanyie7982

Жыл бұрын

This is me too

I love the movie scene re-enactments - I KNOW no Bruce Willis Hollywood film has dialogue like that, and it makes the scene even funnier! 😂

@texasgirl75

11 ай бұрын

okkaayy The Last Boy Scout babbbyyyy!!

James at 8:22....GOLD

But some of us really got “a lot” going on. I “listen” to these guys when I’m getting ready for work at 5am

Yo that last one about leaving things to the last minute. I don't know why but I always feel like I can do more things in such a short amount of time, and then I get mad when things don't go my way.

"I'm just gunna start punching stuff" .... broooo 😂

Ain’t gonna lie, as a female, I’ve experienced #2 and the ones like it. The wrong guy texting me, ugh!!! Go away. Also though, it can mean, “I don’t want to talk right now I’m soooo overwhelmed.” Give her a hug and that’ll tell you everything. If she melts in your arms, there’s no one else.😉💋If she resists, she’s lost feelings, if she ever had them in the first place. Harsh but, true.

@ummeiguess

Жыл бұрын

lol even this if I'm overwhelmed in the moment, i don't necessarily want to be touched either 😂 I'm busy - we'll do feelings when I'm done with this pprwk etc. lol **if we have a future Date on the horizon, let me get thru this, so i can be ready for the cupcakin later 😁**

Lmfao dying at the drinking water and one meal a day thing, its facts, the amount of times I've had that conversation is scary

James came for my throat with that deaths door bit 😂

Bruh you guys made it. So ducking stoked for you

LOOOL this channel and the other randomly popped up on my feed a few days ago and I have been binge watching both! Y'all got me cackling every time🤣

You're content is wonderfully consistent. Guaranteed to brighten whatever day I have. Thank you 💜💯💜

I LOVE your podcast . Makes me laugh EVERYTIME . Keep them coming .

"The just want to be cuddled, they dont want to hear about water." Idk why that made me chuckle SO loud. 🤣🤣🤣

The film is called The Last Boy Scout and that reenactment was spot on.

0:16 I’m this woman, my favorite guy is back 😂😂😂

Ok but eating once a day and goes to bed at 1am.. I feel personally attacked 😂

Omg “break if you’re gonna break “ that’s pure jokes 😂😂😂 8:34

I believe Fuhad was describing the scene from "The Last Boy Scout". He knew his wife was cheating on him. It was freaking intense 😳kzread.info/dash/bejne/g5mIw7CmntqseNI.html

@cemmehmet382

Жыл бұрын

Head or gut !

@LowercaseKev

Жыл бұрын

And then the guy got blown up in the car people thought was Bruce Willis not 40 seconds later 😂

@touchtherapy4kidz

Жыл бұрын

@@LowercaseKev Dude, when I first watched that scene, I was like 👀👀👀!!!

@LadyGoolsby25

Жыл бұрын

Bless you…I’m going to watch it today😊

@samappleyard4464

Жыл бұрын

Such an elite movie!

The last boy scout, is the movie's name.

The one time I actually remember saying it to a guy, was when I was trying to figure out if I liked him or not, turns out I didn't (too many icks) so I used it to cut ties 🤷

It’s the “I remember” flashbacks they have that get me every single time! The flashbacks are better than the responses lol!

Love these! Stumbled upon them one day and well, keep coming back. Ps, the movie is called The Last Boy Scout.

@MmRaven-vk8vu

9 ай бұрын

thank you

Just listening to "the last boy scout" description 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 haven't seen that in years. That part is the start.... man dies anyway🤣

Every video is a banger❤️😂😂

I'm just going to say that when he said 'That's why your heads hurting, you're on deaths door' I howled laughing knowing that he's taking about me 😂 I'm going to think of this every time my husband asks me what I ate today 😂

My brother described "The last boy scout " scene and makes you feel like you're there🙌🏾🤣

@Thriiil3r

Жыл бұрын

u the real mvp, thank you

@lionesstemple6185

7 ай бұрын

The comment I was looking for

😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭I can’t breathe! Episodes just keep getting better ❤️

I actually mean exactly that when I say I’m going through stuff. No alterer motive. I’m going through shit with family & my ex assaulted me stuff I wouldn’t want to actually talk about with a man pestering tryna fuck me. These replies were funny tho

You know what's sad, how true all this is, cuz as someone who was raised by a single mother with two sisters, I became the person they vented to, which ultimately made me into a good listener and thus I ended up acquiring alot more female friends than male. So as we would have these hours long conversations and I would also give my own honest opinions from a male point of view, they all eventually trusted me to the point where their telling me the most inner details of their romantic lives and being even more honest with me than they were with themselves. So with All that said I can honestly tell you that most adult single women are still hung up over someone, and they can date you for years just because you treat them well without developing any real feelings for you. Plus women are creatures that mainly focus on self preservation, so yes they will keep other guys as back ups while in a relationship with you, and yes most women will leave a man that treats them well for someone they never truly got over.

@azielcardinal9524

9 ай бұрын

@hishenmathurin2844 facts 2023 is just fill with women that want you to pay for their EXISTENCE, and even then they will still cheat on you with a dude they want to fuck, shit isent worth it anymore

James casually saying the intro to dutty whine is my moment for the day😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

the dutty wine reference 😂😂😂😂

“…where he’s actually dead. But he’s talkin to the yat.” I lost it

😂😂😂😂😂😂 not the city high quote! i love it here!!!

I’m zooted rn for the first time in ages and one of your videos is exactlyyyy what I need😭

How funny! 😂 Women don’t eat when we’re stressed 😘 drink water your at dead’s door 😂😅 Ordering clothes the night before the event!! 😂😂

The water part👌😂😂😂😂so true💯

It is exactly what it is. I kid you not last year I told this dude that a relationship would not be possible for me because I have too much on my plate (I’m taking care of my pets, I help out with my grandma, I’m also dealing with heaps of school work, my work hours are way too long to make ends meet). He agreed and said that he would make sure that it would be mutually beneficial for both of us. It was not. He went on to be inconsistent, call me at odd hours, did not do anything for Valentine’s, made the conversations sexual despite me telling him that it was too early for all that and accused me of playing games when I refused to give him nudes or phone sex. Happy to say I blocked him and we are mutually ignoring each other.

the way i was exposed cuz i’m that chick who doesn’t like water and stays up past midnight doing nothing 😂😂😂😂

1st time i have ever spit my drink out laughing all it took was " i'm just gonna start punching stuff".

Okay but James is giving in that Jacket today 👏🏽 🔥😍

Why did I feel like James was talking about me when he said “ my head hurts” but she hasn’t eaten for days😂😂😂😂😂😂

The name is the Bruce Willis film is "The last boy scout" Fun fact it was his partner who was cheating with his wife and after being caught got in his car that exploded as he starts the engine. Honestly that movie is a classic and a must watch

Work is working me is new favourite term for feeling stressed 🤣🤣🤣

If I say "I got a lot going on" I usually mean leave me alone cuz I want to take a nap in peace. It's like my vocal "do not disturb sign." 🤣🤣🤣. And yes if my hair is not done I'm damn near in deep depression. That's why I learned how to do my own hair. Lol

Not James signing “Dutty wine”😂 -“Attitude Gyal!, 1 a dem…”

the film is the Last Boy Scout, with Willis and Damon Wayans... Great flick from the 90's

You guys are the funniest duo 😂

Fu's long winded yet vague movie description was 👌