For the people out there struggling ill leave this for you. My ex broke up with me in May 2023. It was a bad breakup and i thought absolutely no way we will get back together. I moved on, went travelling, did the work and got into the gym. It was hard. Every single day she was on my mind but I kept watching the videos, doing the workbooks and levelling up. 5 months had gone by and my ex reached out to me. She said she thought about me every day , would cry herself to sleep and was pretending to be ok on social media just for show. We did end up getting back together. However, i did the work. She didn't. I broke up with her last week because i realised that the relationship was not right for me. Stay strong guys and girls. Not all endings are bad and not all beginnings are good either. When you have full condidence and strength in yourself nothing can keep you down. Do the work.

@user-ok5ez1ls1k

2 ай бұрын

Thanks so much for this comment.

@learnitnow6265

2 ай бұрын

Wow! I applaud you. The second time around you quickly saw it wasn't right and had the courage and strength to be truthful with yourself, and end it.

@lanefaurot

2 ай бұрын

You’re brave. It’s appreciated by more than you probably realize. Good for you!! 😊

It’s so hurtful because it wastes someone’s time. It’s so selfish.

They may be lining up someone else behind your back, whilst still keeping access to you sexually as well as continue to enjoy some of the other fringe benefits of a committed relationship. It is the height of self serving cowardice.

if they're direct about it . i would let them go at ease. i hate the "idk what i want" or " im not sure of myself" like just tell me if u still want to be together or not . simple as that , i just don't get these dumpers for real , i ask many times to her and i couldn't get a single answer

It's all bout control & they r cowards FUTURE FAKING

This happened to me with my avoidant ex girlfriend. She did say nothing was wrong and everything is fine and I knew something was off. I felt lead on for awhile and didn't know what was happening. After confronting her about it,she had every excuse from having to shovel snow when there wasn't any to watching her niece and nephews. She actually started to get mad for me simply asking Within a week i was ghosted,she had went back on her word to going to the movies with some male coworkers (orbiters) and broke up with me shortly after. Thanks for the video. As usual great stuff guys.

sometimes the dumper is unsure.. it's not easy until the dumpee gets sloppy about the anxious manipulations.. then the dumper can lose patience and get angry.. the dumpee loses sight of the inner world of the dumper and is compelled to get the object of their love secured again.. mine mine mine.. loss of empathy

@carlfreiermuth5424

2 ай бұрын

i did the workbooks 💪

Get on coach craig smashing it 7 months ago, I watched these videos religiously and your studied your workbooks. Now I merley come on just to top up my knowledge and skills. Cheers for getting me through the worst break up off my life. 😊 This is spot on my ex did exactly this ans remains in our family home whilst I stay pay the mortgage...

Earlier this month, my wife of almost two years (we’ve not lived together) said she didn’t think she could “do this” and felt “done.” Haven’t heard from her since, she’s not filed for divorce or anything. I’ve not reached out and don’t plan to, even though we still have a lot of each other’s things and she has a house key of mine.

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I even said I didn’t feel safe to talk about something sensitive…but he pushed and it became the end of the relationship. For me, his drinking was a problem. How do I address this? Please cover this as a concern for how to react to someone who endured a bomb dropping, where the dumper blows up. How should someone say this isn’t the right time to talk about this without fearing their reaction? How do I deal with someone who drinks daily when I don’t drink at all? I see what happens through each drink…he is in denial there’s any problem at all and I’m just a selfish whiner 🙄 Btw, we are now broken up. I’m really struggling with it

What was your favorite part of the video?

@camellia8625

2 ай бұрын

That you covered assurance faking as well as future faking as well as them leaving without providing any sort of closure

@Troy12-fitnessmodel

2 ай бұрын

Seeing you 😂

@PeacefulCake-oz9et

2 ай бұрын

The way coach Victoria looks at you 🤭

@Aaron-ii2lq

2 ай бұрын

Coach Victoria

@Cancer.Awareness.ForAll

2 ай бұрын

When you said « sometimes you can sense it »: never ignore your gut feelings

Yes,I had an angry reaction I let my emotions get the better of me. As she kept seeing me & having sex with me 3 yrs,after she ended the relationship with me. So I'd get drunk & send texts once a month for the 3 yrs as she knows that I love her she said I know that you do yet it wouldn't come back so it got to me. As she didn't want to work things out with me & her family didn't support me either just judged me. I miss her as,we have chemistry & a connection she has admitted that Now she has blocked me & is seeing someone else. When I asked her for support she wouldn't she would support her friend So I'd kick off I want her back 😢❤