When The World Becomes Small

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Have a safe and happy new year :)
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  • @gapeape3895
    @gapeape3895 Жыл бұрын

    this dude goes from peak comedy, to existential dread, to emotional nukes between videos. honestly one of the best channels of all time. never change, frank.

  • @thealexfiles303

    @thealexfiles303

    Жыл бұрын

    I believe you mean keep changing, because it's that constant growth and evolution that makes him able to hit all those notes so perfectly.

  • @StrChk1

    @StrChk1

    Жыл бұрын

    Could not agree with you more. 👍

  • @adityakhanna113

    @adityakhanna113

    Жыл бұрын

    You should really really watch old Ze Frank stuff if you haven't already. If KZread catches fire, those videos would be one of the stuff i save

  • @calligraphy4244

    @calligraphy4244

    Жыл бұрын

    @@thealexfiles303 I guess he meant never change in always changing

  • @andysiebert31

    @andysiebert31

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree. Also for anyone who hasn't yet seen "Critique of Monkey Farter"... you're welcome

  • @dregbash
    @dregbash Жыл бұрын

    Several years ago, my daughter was diagnosed with cancer. My wife was pregnant and was taking care of our first born. It was my duty and honor to stay with her at the hospital. My world became that room, and her floor. It was enough. There were stretches of 5 or 6 weeks when I never left the hospital floor. It was as if time stopped. Nothing mattered except me and her. I would sometimes walk her to the giant window that looked out over the city, just to remind myself that time was passing. She recovered and is now doing well. Years have passed. We have had wonderful memories since then, but some of my fondest memories are of that time and that place.

  • @daleryanaldover6545

    @daleryanaldover6545

    Жыл бұрын

    Sometimes the darkest moments in our life is when we shone the brightest. Glad things have turned out well.

  • @marcotrejo3900

    @marcotrejo3900

    Жыл бұрын

    Im so glad this had a happy ending or i would be crying all day 😭😭❤

  • @dregbash

    @dregbash

    Жыл бұрын

    @@marcotrejo3900 Yes, a happy ending. She just turned 16. A true miracle.

  • @Ricca_Day

    @Ricca_Day

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing. This is such a beautiful picture painted from within a time of darkness. Like our host’s clip.. Simply perfect. Blessings 🪷

  • @Ricca_Day

    @Ricca_Day

    Жыл бұрын

    Perfect.

  • @Maneir
    @Maneir Жыл бұрын

    My girlfriend loved your videos, and we would often watch them together. She passed away suddenly on the 3rd. The timing of this video is... oddly fitting, and much needed... Thank you for everything that you do, ZeFrank.

  • @boomrangyt

    @boomrangyt

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry for your loss, I wish you the very best

  • @saveriasardone844

    @saveriasardone844

    Жыл бұрын

    Wishing you peace

  • @karuma.-7618

    @karuma.-7618

    Жыл бұрын

    RIP

  • @davethat218

    @davethat218

    Жыл бұрын

    Sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you. Stay strong friend 💪

  • @QQChana

    @QQChana

    Жыл бұрын

    Sending love to you🙏🏻

  • @Katstandfield
    @Katstandfield Жыл бұрын

    So this will probably get lost among the million voices, but uh, a long time ago you wrote a song that I would sing to myself when I felt very small and very scared. I sang it many times when I was trapped in an abusive relationship. I sang it to myself when I was struggling to survive. I sang it to myself when I was giving birth, and to myself and my baby in those very dark days of post natal depression. I still struggle with my mind. I don't like myself very much. A lot of the time, the world feels far too big, and I want to be small, but not alone. I have this feeling of tar in my chest, and I can't breathe. But then you say Hey You're okay You'll be fine Just breathe

  • @whatthebeardoin3160

    @whatthebeardoin3160

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope you do better with each passing day, and your baby as well.

  • @TheSpiderChick

    @TheSpiderChick

    Жыл бұрын

    Kat, I could really use a song like that. Really a lot. If you're willing to share, can you tell me what the song is? Also, I send you strength and love. You are not alone. ❤

  • @M240D

    @M240D

    10 ай бұрын

    Glad you're still here

  • @ruidadgmailcanada8508

    @ruidadgmailcanada8508

    7 ай бұрын

    Your message didn’t get lost. Thank you for sharing your story, you are stronger than you think. 😊 I had someone too who just told me to breathe. Sounds silly. It was the perfect thing to say at the time and helped so much. ❤

  • @ruidadgmailcanada8508

    @ruidadgmailcanada8508

    7 ай бұрын

    @@TheSpiderChick (in case you haven’t found your song yet) You will find one that just touches you. You make the meaning in the song that just resets and resonates with you. Good luck 😊

  • @StoutShako
    @StoutShako Жыл бұрын

    Going to show this to my uncle, who has been diagnosed with cancer and has been fired from his job because he wasn't well enough to work. He lost his house as well and is staying with my mom until he can get back on his feet. Hang in there, Uncle Claude. We're there for you, no matter what.

  • @nietzchepreacher9477

    @nietzchepreacher9477

    Жыл бұрын

    Christ fuck that company. I hope he survives or his happy as can be if not

  • @kareningram6093

    @kareningram6093

    Жыл бұрын

    Hugs to your Uncle Claude and you and your family. I hope brighter days come soon for you all.

  • @ashtonpatton4207

    @ashtonpatton4207

    Жыл бұрын

    Imagine being fired for getting cancer

  • @FireMonkeyX5

    @FireMonkeyX5

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope your uncle gets better. That is some callous boss he has that fired him for having cancer.

  • @floccinaucinihilipilification1

    @floccinaucinihilipilification1

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ashtonpatton4207 It's ridiculous. But in that situation as a whole, I'd still rather be their Uncle Claude. Imagine being such a horrible human being that you find a legal way around firing someone who was recently diagnosed with the life-threatening reason for his change in performance. Being that person (using that word loosely), I couldn't find a way to sleep at night, let alone ever feel good about the person I truly was. Edit: Goddamned autocorrect.

  • @thenecroticraptor8338
    @thenecroticraptor8338 Жыл бұрын

    What an oddly emotional, comforting thing to hear before my final exam of this college semester. Thank you, zefrank1. You've made this stranger's day just that little bit less daunting.

  • @ChipCheerio

    @ChipCheerio

    Жыл бұрын

    Stuff like this got me through my organic and molecular chemistry courses in undergrad. You’re going to do fine though, worst case scenario, you take that class one more time. Even if you’re going to grad school, that’s not going to look bad on your transcript. You got this, even if you don’t.

  • @AttackOnPastrys

    @AttackOnPastrys

    Жыл бұрын

    right there with you!

  • @davidweber3498

    @davidweber3498

    Жыл бұрын

    Just about to take my circuits final, take courage we got this!

  • @TheGregamonster

    @TheGregamonster

    Жыл бұрын

    Weirdly philosophical coming from the guy who mostly makes jokes about animal sex.

  • @LordSleven

    @LordSleven

    Жыл бұрын

    Good luck with your exam friend!

  • @janetstreet7264
    @janetstreet7264 Жыл бұрын

    My youngest son sent this to me yesterday. I lost my Mom 2 days ago. She was 93, ready to go...I hadn't wept for her yet -- until I saw this gentle video. Thank you. Not only for my healing tears now falling, but for the sweet, kind way of understanding...Every one feels this way at some point...Small...💜

  • @ClanImprobable

    @ClanImprobable

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m so glad Zefrank helped your heart...

  • @NbSkaz

    @NbSkaz

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry for your loss, no one can replace your Mum. Take care tho x

  • @queend9814

    @queend9814

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm also sorry for your loss ❤️

  • @broannoying8765

    @broannoying8765

    Жыл бұрын

    May your mom rest in peace

  • @mattsoundguy

    @mattsoundguy

    Жыл бұрын

    Lost my Mom around the same time you did. Life really life-d all over some of us in 2022. Love and sympathy to you.💔

  • @shred316
    @shred316 Жыл бұрын

    Lost my mom to a heart attack in 2020. I was appointed administrator of her estate and suddenly my life was signing documents and running between law offices and banks and title companies throughout the week, which is still happening to this day. I had to leave my dream job and move across the country, and it’s felt like the death of my mom has crippled my own life and it’s made me angry and resentful. I loved my mom more than anything in the world, but I still haven’t had time to heal. My life is small right now, but hopefully someday it can get back to the one she helped me dream up

  • @shred316

    @shred316

    Жыл бұрын

    @@oya5638 thank you

  • @aoconnor2933
    @aoconnor2933 Жыл бұрын

    This year was hard. Went through a divorce. Lost my mom. Lost my grandma. Lost a couple close friends. This video resonated with me. I love your work Ze Frank. Thank you. 💗

  • @alexmoscatelli149

    @alexmoscatelli149

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry for your losses... Stay strong, i wish you the best

  • @aoconnor2933

    @aoconnor2933

    Жыл бұрын

    @@alexmoscatelli149 thank you. Lord knows I'm trying.

  • @alexmoscatelli149

    @alexmoscatelli149

    Жыл бұрын

    @@aoconnor2933 absolutely, and keep doing it. I'm sure things WILL get better❤️

  • @joelvelez78

    @joelvelez78

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry for your losses. I can only imagine how hard your struggles have been. I can understand a little bit of it as this year started with my divorce and it's ending with my mom fighting for her life against breast cancer. I hope you are getting the support you need to make it through every day.

  • @aoconnor2933

    @aoconnor2933

    Жыл бұрын

    @@joelvelez78 divorce is an animal in itself. I am sorry you had to experience that also. I really hope your mom beats cancer. 💓 I lost mine to it very rapidly. I am doing what I can for support. If is definitely a day to day process. Hang in there! Happy Holidays and New Years!

  • @terraterror6039
    @terraterror6039 Жыл бұрын

    Recently it’s just felt like world destroying asteroids left and right. Lost my very close grandmother, my dog is dying, and who I thought was the love of my life left me and replaced me in the span of 12 days after years of us. All in the span of not even 2 months. I don’t think I can explain how much this video means to me. Each day is a battle to get up and then go back to bed to start it all over again. Thank you for making at least this morning easier. ❤

  • @kerim.peardon5551

    @kerim.peardon5551

    Жыл бұрын

    My husband said that right after his ex left him, his dog got hit by a car and he had to have him put down. He felt kind of abandoned, too, by friends who had chosen sides in the divorce (even though it wasn't really acrimonious) and suddenly started to shun him. He ended up going to a therapist a few times. Then one day the therapist stopped and asked him, "Tim, why are you here? What is it that you're wanting to get out of these sessions?" My husband was surprised. He replied that he felt depressed and thought you're supposed to see someone when you're depressed. The therapist replied, "You're not depressed, you're sad and grieving. Grief is normal after what all has happened to you. I would be worried if you DIDN'T feel sad right now. If you want to keep coming here to talk, that's fine, but there's nothing I can do to help you other than listen because the grief just has to run its course. If you start to feel worse, start to think about harming yourself, or you don't feel better after about 6 months, then that can be a sign of something more serious, and then we would need to talk." My husband thanked him for being honest about everything and left. After about 6 months, he felt some better, so he never went back. A year or less after that, he met me and we were together for nearly 16 very happy years before he passed away. So I know, too, what it's like to struggle to put one foot in front of the other and grind out another day. But the grief does get better after a while. It's not a straight line--some days are better than others--but the overall pattern should be towards gradual improvement. And hopefully, one day, when you're very happy with someone else, you can run into your ex, as my husband did, and look at him/her and realize you feel nothing at all--no hurt, no regret, no jealousy. S/he is just someone you used to know, like a friend you grew apart from, because your life is so great with your new person that you are glad you're not with your ex. I wish you that kind of happiness, that will erase the pain of now.

  • @ruzterruzter

    @ruzterruzter

    Жыл бұрын

    sometimes the end of something is the beginning of something better. It hurts now, but there can be hope. :)

  • @Lambda_Ovine

    @Lambda_Ovine

    Жыл бұрын

    dang... I'm sorry to hear you're going though so much. Remember that this dark period is not eternal, as fast as it came about it can pass, and you'll heal and be ready to move on and discover new things. ¡Ánimo!

  • @Sarappreciates

    @Sarappreciates

    Жыл бұрын

    I worry for my husband. I have stage 4 breast cancer. I feel fine right now, but this isn't going away. It's not a "get well soon" type of thing. The day I had to tell him was the hardest day of my life, I think. I worry he will be lonely. Isolated. I worry he won't reach out to others to find any comfort. He's stubborn like that. I never wanted to be the cause of anyone's grief; I never wanted to hurt anybody. The idea of causing him that kind of pain to anyone I love fills me with such sadness I can't even describe. I want him to continue, to laugh, to love, to BE! I absolutely HATE the idea of causing any kind of change in him. He's so beautifully perfect. I can't bear the thought. *Please don't let this grief conquer you!!!* That's NOT what they'd have wanted to leave with you. They'd want you to remember happiness, and to laugh again! They'd want you to maybe adopt a new puppy and to giggle out loud at how cute it is when it can't find it's breaks fast enough and goes slipping across the floor. They'd want you to BREAK THIS GRIEF for them. They'd want you to LIVE because they can't live anymore, so you can still do that for them. Breathe, eat, have fun, sleep well, and dream big!!! Please keep dreaming of more! And let yourself ENJOY that. I know it's what they'd want for you because it's the same thing I want for my loved ones. *KEEP LIVING!*

  • @ritatodd1070

    @ritatodd1070

    Жыл бұрын

    Hang in there, you are not alone, hugs and strength I send to you.

  • @VoltaGhost
    @VoltaGhost Жыл бұрын

    I lost my wife in 2017...my world was literally destroyed...but I had to keep it intact because our daughter was only 1...now we have a world of our own...life can move on ❤️☮️

  • @gregorymerry5408
    @gregorymerry5408 Жыл бұрын

    This hit so hard I just burst into tears. Hearing the words "You are enough" was something I needed so badly even though it came from a complete stranger who will most likely never know me at all. From the bottom of my heart, thank you ❤️

  • @itchywitch5923
    @itchywitch5923 Жыл бұрын

    Sir… I lost my best friend three days ago. The last thing I was expecting was for you to make me cry and feel like my soul was being wrapped in bubble wrap at the same time. Thanks. I really needed this today.

  • @eloerch7

    @eloerch7

    Жыл бұрын

    Im so sorry for your loss. We are all sobbing together after this video. Makes me feel not alone.

  • @mrs.pantocow4747

    @mrs.pantocow4747

    Жыл бұрын

    @@eloerch7 So many of us are realizing that we're part of a group...and this wonderful man is showing us things will get better....good luck to all of us

  • @noisemagician

    @noisemagician

    Жыл бұрын

    That is deeply, deeply sad. My condolences, good luck and you can allow yourself to be sad...

  • @PurpleRhymesWithOrange

    @PurpleRhymesWithOrange

    Жыл бұрын

    This hit me hard. It has been 8 years since my fiance died. Last year I finally began a life changing process for myself. Shortly after my lifelong friend was diagnosed with cancer and I am the only one she has to take care of her.

  • @ToniAllen

    @ToniAllen

    Жыл бұрын

    I am so, so, so sorry for your loss. I lost my best friend of 20+ years this past summer, too. He decided to end his journey on this earth, and I sure do miss him.

  • @kiddykat
    @kiddykat Жыл бұрын

    This is beautiful As someone who became disabled from a sudden illness and whose world just collapsed in on itself... This reminds me and gives me hope and validation that I don't *need* my big, ambitious old life to actually mean something to the world

  • @TonyRampage

    @TonyRampage

    Жыл бұрын

    Stupid bots ruining this wholesome message. Keep strong friend! Hope you achieve all the things you want and let that be just a bump in the road

  • @mohammadjavadsalehi3227

    @mohammadjavadsalehi3227

    Жыл бұрын

    You be strong my friend

  • @kathigortman4074

    @kathigortman4074

    Жыл бұрын

    I know how you feel. Hang in there.🌹🍃

  • @richardlegaspi1502

    @richardlegaspi1502

    Жыл бұрын

  • @peggedyourdad9560

    @peggedyourdad9560

    Жыл бұрын

    I mean, even most of us able-bodied people end up dying without ever having made much of an impact on the world beyond our immediate friends and family and that’s okay. I dislike this idea in our culture that you have to have these huge world-changing ambitions and that you have to leave a permanent mark on the world, I feel like this puts a lot of unnecessary pressure on people and just makes those who don’t achieve such ridiculous goals feel like failures (which is extreme vast majority of people). There’s nothing shameful about downsizing your ambitions to just making a difference not in the whole world but just in *your* world of friends, family, and whoever you end up interacting with. You may not end up in the history books, but you will still be a fond memory for most people who knew you, even if all they just knew you as that one person they talked to that one time. It still sounds awful to have ended up disabled suddenly when you were previously able-bodied, I wish you well on adjusting to life and I hope it the rest of it goes much more smoothly for you.

  • @vertoatrum
    @vertoatrum Жыл бұрын

    For the first time in my 29 years, I've decided I want to live alone after my life is sorted out. I want to be with ME. I miss ME. I think it's not sad to miss being alone. By yourself, you're in great company. I needed this.

  • @humdrumbruin4001
    @humdrumbruin4001 Жыл бұрын

    Somehow ZeFrank just understands how to speak to the inner child in all of us. The reassurance and empathy in his voice is like a warm snuggly blanket, or like a close friend standing by at your loneliest point. It's remarkably touching. Certainly, this feels more relatable than someone saying "take it easy on yourself", that's for sure, haha. But yeah, I think I really needed to hear this depth of emotional understanding. Feels good on the soul Top notch narration and film production!

  • @Whisper_292
    @Whisper_292 Жыл бұрын

    I'm sitting in my safe space--my bedroom--at 2:30pm, suffering from agoraphobia, and as I watch this, suddenly I don't feel so bad about it. There are things to do in here to help me feel better and give me hope, and when I'm ready, there is a door to the rest of the house, and another door to the rest of the world. Thanks, zefrank, for making my day a little better.

  • @chezmoi42

    @chezmoi42

    Жыл бұрын

    Until you're ready to open the doors, you can find the world in your own droplet of water. ❤

  • @AmandaGeyerSnobahr

    @AmandaGeyerSnobahr

    Жыл бұрын

    I feel this. Your doors will be there when you're ready to open them. I wish you all the best

  • @garysmith3037

    @garysmith3037

    Жыл бұрын

    Sometimes you need to crawl into a small safe place, like the fish that crawls into the sea cucumber's......well, maybe that's not a good analogy....

  • @Whisper_292

    @Whisper_292

    Жыл бұрын

    @@garysmith3037 Maybe not, but it made me laugh!

  • @chezmoi42

    @chezmoi42

    Жыл бұрын

    @@garysmith3037 Spoken like a true Zefrank fan. 🤗

  • @user-zy4wv7yx1z
    @user-zy4wv7yx1z Жыл бұрын

    Reading all of the comments, I wish I could give everyone a big hug. My partner was recently diagnosed with kidney failure, is on dialysis, and has a super rare genetic disease called aHUS. Seeing what everyone is going through is a reminder to me to be more compassionate. A kind word or even a text message to someone you haven't spoken to in a while can mean the world. Let's all go into the New Year with more understanding and love for each other, the world could really use that right now. Thanks Ze Frank for bringing thousands of anonymous strangers together and moving us in our own unique ways.

  • @benives254

    @benives254

    Жыл бұрын

    *virtual hugs*

  • @rainbowconnected

    @rainbowconnected

    Жыл бұрын

    So sorry to hear that you and your partner are going through that. Big hugs to you both and prayers for it to be as gentle and peaceful as possible. Beautifully spoken and so very true. Your partner is surely lucky to have such a kind soul by their side. I hope you have people to comfort and support you at this difficult time too.

  • @CatsAndPokemon

    @CatsAndPokemon

    Жыл бұрын

  • @Manuelordorica880

    @Manuelordorica880

    Жыл бұрын

    I wish you, all the best, be strong. A big hug and blessings to you and your partner.

  • @darzia490

    @darzia490

    Жыл бұрын

    You write so beautifully

  • @manatea6012
    @manatea6012 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this. I didn't know I needed it. My life has been collapsing in on me over and over again for the past few years, no matter how hard I try to pull myself back up and recollect the pieces. I came from an incredibly abusive family, on both sides, so despite having really good grades I went to a mediocre local college to be able to escape them, and financial dependence on them. Im incredibly close to my mom, though. We survived hell together. My mom got breast cancer recurrence in 2019, my freshman year. 2020 happened. My aunt died September 2021. A close family friend died suddenly in December 2021. My grandfather died from cancer on my 21st birthday back in June. My house caught on fire twice that summer, which alone weren't that bad, but they then revealed 20 years of leaks all over the house. The front entrance needed to be almost entirely rebuilt. In August my mom had a severe stroke. For awhile we thought she was brain dead, I had even made the decision to dnr. My already broken world shattered in an instant. Miraculously, she woke up, but she is damaged. It's like she's a different person now. She's like a deceitful, belligerent toddler now that I need to care for constantly. She refuses to do the exercises that will make her better, and she is needy. I once walked a mile before school one day, just back and forth and back and forth between the bathroom, kitchen, and living room to attend to her constant questions and tasks. I know it's not her fault, but it's absolutely exhausting. Because of the aforementioned family problem, I'm mostly on my own. Again, despite straight A's I nearly had to drop out to care for her. Thankfully because of some of her old friends I was able to stay in school, but I don't know how long I can keep doing this. I'm 21, I'm just trying to starting life. I can't spend the next 20 years of my life being the single mom of a 140lb perpetual toddler. I never did anything to deserve this, or to invite any sort of this misfortune into my life. I initially had a therapist to help me through all this, but my psycho father went after her to the point of scaring her out of businesses . The world has been small for a long time. But that's okay. I will find my shape, and my capacity again. Something new will come.

  • @anniekim8990

    @anniekim8990

    Жыл бұрын

    Your comment broke my heart. I am wishing you everything good and hope life becomes easier soon for you. You are loved and seen and so incredibly brave. I hope this doesn’t sound cheesy coming from a stranger on the internet but know that I’m rooting for you!

  • @I_am_a_human_not_a_commodity
    @I_am_a_human_not_a_commodity Жыл бұрын

    That hydra was having a good ol' time spinny spin spinnin' around. We should all aspire to be like that. Your humor helps so much with my chronic depression. Thanks for being an uplifting part of my day :)

  • @zevallison9130
    @zevallison9130 Жыл бұрын

    After working my butt off in high school, community college, university, medical school for four years, residency for three years, my application to my dream job (cardiology) was rejected last month. I have felt so down-in-the-dumps for a month now, scrambling to redefine my purpose, begging for a chance to feel good about myself, but strangely haven't cried once (I'm a crybaby)... until I watched this. The tears are now flowing, and I am so grateful for the time put in to this video. I hope everyone in the comments section finds peace and positivity when the time for those is right. ❤

  • @KuvaPefo

    @KuvaPefo

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks.. :')

  • @KaladinVegapunk

    @KaladinVegapunk

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm curious, why are all the comments heartfelt genuine comments about loss and recovery? What prompted that? Just the profound video?

  • @alvaronavarro4895

    @alvaronavarro4895

    Жыл бұрын

    Can't you reapply again? :(

  • @barbarahouk1983

    @barbarahouk1983

    Жыл бұрын

    You can reapply. However, there are many medical doctorate positions. I am a psychiatrist but I couldn't ever have been a surgeon of any kind. I did my chief residency in consultation-liaison, now known as psychosomatic illness psychiatry. This is close to functional medicine. Only Functional Medicine is a specialty that is the whole body integrated and today can tell the FDA they cannot dictate their SCOPE OF PRACTICE. Obamacare gave the FDA the right to limit other physicians. Functional Medicine by definition is Integrated Human body. That trumps the FDA regulation ninnies. I HATE THE GOVERNMENT REGULATORY LIARS. I hate government in medicine since 1847 (creation of AMA). Government is cause of . the Exceedingly extraordinary expensive now inefficient UNITED States Medical Care. I watched as government took over from 1960's to Obamacare. It sucks.

  • @sworishina

    @sworishina

    Жыл бұрын

    You hadn't cried yet because crying only happens when you are ready to process the pain.

  • @ryanmarsh7661
    @ryanmarsh7661 Жыл бұрын

    My entire office was shut down and we were all laid off on Monday. I am terrified and crushed that this happened right at Christmas. This came out a perfect time. Thank you

  • @careyhickerson5077
    @careyhickerson5077 Жыл бұрын

    I've never cried more over something so... small

  • @substandard-apartment-complex
    @substandard-apartment-complex Жыл бұрын

    Lost my dogs earlier this year. In 2020 I lost everything that made me who I was. The people I was around. The world became small. But I found what meant something to me. Redefined myself. Now I'm back out in the world around people again. But after my dogs died the world was small again. Because I didn't want it to be big. I didn't want the world to be anything other than listlessness and loss. But I kept going forward. I wasn't ready- god, I wasn't ready. But we got new dogs, and I'm trying to do my best for them, and for those I lost. Because that's all you can do, when the world is small. You keep living for what you have, what you had, And what you loved. Thank you.

  • @aparker7777
    @aparker7777 Жыл бұрын

    I just lost my Dad to lung cancer last week, and my world right now feels so much smaller without him in it. I sat, petting his forehead while he passed, trying so hard to be brave for him... Small is going to be what I feel for a while

  • @TheoFizylkl

    @TheoFizylkl

    Жыл бұрын

    I was weak. My mom died of esophageal cancer and I wasn't there when it happened. I tried ....I didn't try. I was scared! I'm sorry mom I'm so fucking sorry

  • @alexmoscatelli149

    @alexmoscatelli149

    Жыл бұрын

    @@TheoFizylkl don't be hard on yourself, it's truly understandable. Don't be neither ashamed or feel regret, I'm sure she doesn't want you to. Try to think about the love and great times you had together. I wish you the best, my friend.

  • @joelvelez78

    @joelvelez78

    Жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you have friends and family you can reach out to so that your world can heal and start to grow again. My mom's currently fighting breast cancer and my biggest fear is how small my world will become if she loses the fight.

  • @alaskashot

    @alaskashot

    Жыл бұрын

    My condolences. You are very brave indeed. I assure you that he was thankful to have you by his side while passing.

  • @pablovirus

    @pablovirus

    Жыл бұрын

    Same, but to kidney cancer a couple months ago. Still think about all he went through every other night. It's been pretty hard, and my mother is acting tough but I can't fathom the hell she must be going through inside. Best wishes to you and hope you can make it through the hardships.

  • @mypal1990
    @mypal1990 Жыл бұрын

    Zefrank got me in the feels already. This video hits deep.

  • @zobr0s77

    @zobr0s77

    Жыл бұрын

    and that is how a zefrank doo

  • @MrJdsenior

    @MrJdsenior

    Жыл бұрын

    @@zobr0s77 ooooooo

  • @alishabounds8574
    @alishabounds8574 Жыл бұрын

    I don't think anyone understands how much I needed to hear this "small" message that contains such a big step ❤️

  • @ApothecaryTerry
    @ApothecaryTerry Жыл бұрын

    Did not come here expecting something this profound. I'm lucky enough to have none of the hard times others in the comments are facing, but this still made me cry a little bit...

  • @_BangDroid_
    @_BangDroid_ Жыл бұрын

    Sometimes the world becomes small Maybe you know Maybe someone left before you were ready or a future that was so clear just disappeared in a moment Sometimes life is like that Sometimes we fall ill Sometimes it doesn't feel safe to go outside and the world becomes small Sometimes small is what's needed Something simple Some time to run your fingers over familiar scenes to remember your shape to find your capacity again Give it time and it finds the smallest spaces and fills them with whole universes if you let it When the world becomes small there is enough You are enough to fill it with all you need Until you're ready for something new.

  • @KuvaPefo

    @KuvaPefo

    Жыл бұрын

    :')

  • @MrSplic3r

    @MrSplic3r

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the transcription.

  • @VampyreVladimira
    @VampyreVladimira Жыл бұрын

    Thank you SO MUCH for this. My mom died in June, and it's been a really difficult 6 months without her. I'm 37, and both me and her are disabled, so I lived with her for my entire life, and this is the first time in my entire 37 years of life that I've been without her, and it's been very difficult to navigate. I needed this video. I need this so much. Thank you. Just, thank you. ♥

  • @didisinclair3605

    @didisinclair3605

    Жыл бұрын

    Sending my heart to you.

  • @alisaurus4224

    @alisaurus4224

    Жыл бұрын

    💜💜💙💙💚💚

  • @revursa
    @revursa11 ай бұрын

    As I battle illness I keep coming back to this video. It's so comforting. Thank you.

  • @mattsoundguy
    @mattsoundguy Жыл бұрын

    Came here to laugh, ended up crying. Gosh darn you zefrank, you really surprised me today. Thank you for helping me feel my feelings. Rest in Peace Diane Lorene

  • @Mimix-o

    @Mimix-o

    Жыл бұрын

    Wait he died??

  • @mattsoundguy

    @mattsoundguy

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Mimix-o no

  • @chibiwolf1005
    @chibiwolf1005 Жыл бұрын

    Last night at work I heard an awful, terrible, shrill scream, and came to find my coworkers hugging and one of them sobbing. She had just received a call that her best friend was killed in a car accident. It was a hard, horrible night... December is truly terrible for myself and so many around me every year, and from a channel that usually just makes me laugh, you have me sitting here sobbing. Thank you so much for this.

  • @zendixie
    @zendixie Жыл бұрын

    So first off, it’s a little shocking to hear you so thoughtful and serious. I kept waiting for the punchline . Secondly, thank you so much. I just lost my closest friend . We had spent every day together for the last ten years or so. When he developed diabetes a few years ago I gave him his shots twice a day and made sure his diet was right and that he got lots of exercise . Even though he was small and had four legs he was the biggest thing to me. This video really helped. ❤

  • @CL-go2ji

    @CL-go2ji

    Жыл бұрын

    I am sorry for your loss.

  • @zendixie

    @zendixie

    Жыл бұрын

    @@CL-go2ji thank you.

  • @orangebeagle3068

    @orangebeagle3068

    Жыл бұрын

    Sorry for your loss. And the punchline, as I see it, was the pooping hydra.

  • @mrs.pantocow4747

    @mrs.pantocow4747

    Жыл бұрын

    Your closest friend knew how much you cared for him...he's at the bridge with mine, and we will all be together again...I'm giving you a virtual hug so you know you're not alone. 🤗

  • @zendixie

    @zendixie

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mrs.pantocow4747 ❤️

  • @ruthannap6446
    @ruthannap6446 Жыл бұрын

    Ze, I know you may not read all 2,500 comments on this video (so far), but I want to thank you, too. My life flipped over 12 1/2 years ago, and these years have been hard. I knew as soon as a started watching that this was going to be a different kind of video from you, and it certainly is. It means a lot to me and so many others. Thank you. Really, thank you.

  • @carritrj
    @carritrj Жыл бұрын

    Ze, this is the type of video that I miss. This is the type of video that made me fall In love with your style. I used to listen to your thoughts and they would help when I needed it most. From your whitty little bits like "Perfectionism may look good in his shiny shoes, but he's a bit of an ass hole and nobody invites him to their pool parties" to the existential gems like"culturally irrelevant, yeah those are crushing words". You put my feelings onto a mirror for me to look back at. You spoke how only my feelings felt and my words could not speak. You were someone who provided a service, who provided self actualization when I didn't know where to find it, and it helped me come to terms with myself and embrace my thoughts and feelings as ME. I know this sounds a bit much but I've suffered mental health issues my whole life and you truly helped when I needed it and didn't know how to look for help. Please continue to make videos like this and the ones from your past, they were good therapy.

  • @keithzillner1805
    @keithzillner1805 Жыл бұрын

    I lost my best friend of 20 years to suicide this year. My world has never felt smaller, but your tear inducing video and gentle voice is correct. Sometimes small is just enough to find yourself.

  • @ericthompson3982

    @ericthompson3982

    Жыл бұрын

    I lost mine to suicide, too. He wasn't just my best friend, he was my son's godfather and the best bass player on every project I ever did. I am so sorry for what you're experiencing, and want you to know that you are enough and are loved by a person who's never even met you.

  • @Super_Time_XxX

    @Super_Time_XxX

    Жыл бұрын

    I lost mine too. I'm so sorry you guys are feeling that emptiness like I am. We will get through it. If you need to talk just send me a DM.

  • @ericthompson3982

    @ericthompson3982

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Super_Time_XxX Likewise, and please take good care of yourself. I hope you have good people to talk to.

  • @sharonoddlyenough

    @sharonoddlyenough

    Жыл бұрын

    My brother just lost a close friend recently, and I could hear in his voice on the phone that his world had suddenly gotten very small. Thank goodness for his wife and girls, he has support, I went through the same thing almost 5 years ago , and I wouldn't wish it on anyone., especially if they're alone

  • @ericthompson3982

    @ericthompson3982

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sharonoddlyenough Yeah, people underestimate how important it is to have support until they need it, sometimes.

  • @samandthehams4496
    @samandthehams4496 Жыл бұрын

    I just lost my pet hamster on Saturday. Most people think you cannot bond that well with a small animal, but when the world is small something small like him can fill it with joy. 2 years and 4 months, he brought me nothing but joy and laughter. He was there through the big problems and the small inconveniences. And now he is at peace, I'll see you on the other side little friend. Until then, I will remember our fun. RIP Simba, Aug 2020 - Dec 2022

  • @bunhelsingslegacy3549

    @bunhelsingslegacy3549

    Жыл бұрын

    Sorry for your loss. I'm still grieving the loss of my best bunny Bun Helsing a year and a half ago. Sometimes the smallest pawprints on our hearts are the deepest.

  • @PurpleRhymesWithOrange

    @PurpleRhymesWithOrange

    Жыл бұрын

    I have gotten more upset by the loss of furry roommate than I have by people dying. Perhaps it has been the sense that the little fur balls can't understand what is happening.

  • @turnipton9871

    @turnipton9871

    Жыл бұрын

    Do not feel the need to downplay your hamster. He was a friend and a family member to you for almost his entire life. That is more that can be said for most of the people we meet. I'm sure he had a wonderful life with someone that cared about him so deeply. Thank you.

  • @livingdecay2570

    @livingdecay2570

    Жыл бұрын

    Bro, thats sux. I lost my 4 rats over 1 year. Had them for 3yrs but bro I loved them so much. Once they passed I had each cremated separately of course and pressed into 50cal BMG and set in display boxes with pics a footprint and a vile with fur and a whisker. This is one instance where size doesn't matter, ones love for their pets. Sorry for your loss my man...

  • @indianajones4794

    @indianajones4794

    Жыл бұрын

    RIP Simba

  • @theAstra_
    @theAstra_ Жыл бұрын

    I always come back to this video every once in awhile to tell myself it’s going to be ok. And things did turn out ok. Thank you, zefrank, for continuing to comfort me, whether it be through your absolute pinnacle of comedy or bombshell emotional artworks like this. It helps more than you could ever know

  • @justinpeterson2591
    @justinpeterson2591 Жыл бұрын

    This was such a deep and heartfelt video that i Didn't even know i needed. i clicked on this video expecting a laugh and now im having a much needed cry, Thank you Zefrankfor being the amazing person that you are.

  • @codyhagan7511
    @codyhagan7511 Жыл бұрын

    Was diagnosed with MS. Had a spinal tap two days ago and these last couple of months have been physically and mentally taxing. But I will admit my world suddenly shrank. My concerns were so spread out and now narrowed to this and making the most out of what little I can still do for now until I get proper treatment. I’m honestly enjoying my time stuck at home and my significant other’s company much more than ever before. My world has been shrunk to my home and yet I feel like there’s so much more I can do. I’m happy.

  • @extofer

    @extofer

    Жыл бұрын

    I was diagnosed with MS 10 years ago. I went through a spinal tap as well. Not certain which kind of MS you have but treatment has really excelled in the last 2 decades. I hope you get the treatment that works for you and allows you to live a full and wonderful life! Don’t lose hope!

  • @robotbutterflies

    @robotbutterflies

    Жыл бұрын

    I was diagnosed with MS 4 years ago and my world too, got smaller. I understand the frustration of waiting for treatment. Hang in there! In the meantime give yourself permission to rest and ask for support. Get to know and be good to the new you.

  • @KateCarew
    @KateCarew Жыл бұрын

    I’m weeping and I don’t know how this happened. I’m getting a loved one on hospice right now. I’m in the bathroom in the hospital…thinking of this. Thank you for this precious moment.

  • @carbon8ng

    @carbon8ng

    Жыл бұрын

    A stranger sends you a comforting and loving hug.... we are all part of the same world and love is what is holding it together.

  • @Voc_spooksauce

    @Voc_spooksauce

    Жыл бұрын

    Sorry to hear Kate, shit's tough but you're always loved by someone, never forget that

  • @Isabelb

    @Isabelb

    Жыл бұрын

    Hugs internet stranger.

  • @jamesbasinger6311

    @jamesbasinger6311

    Жыл бұрын

    I wish I could say it gets easier. The truth is it just becomes more real. Sometimes I get blindsided by the small things. I hope you find comfort and support throughout this ordeal.

  • @trublgrl

    @trublgrl

    Жыл бұрын

    Praying for you and yours.

  • @comfortablynumb2970
    @comfortablynumb2970 Жыл бұрын

    ...this is one of the most beautiful clips I have come across in ages. Short. Poinant. Both a gut shot, and a warm embrace. And that voice. So full of understanding and comfort. There is a loss approaching my family in the next few years. I think... I think that I will need to remember these words. That it is okay for my world to shrink to almost nothing for a bit, so that I can relearn how to fill that small space, and then grow again. Changed, but still me. Thank you

  • @adenweinberg8784
    @adenweinberg8784 Жыл бұрын

    Throughout half of my life I had the same goal of being a Paleontologist when I was older. But that all changed once I got I to middle school. Life became miserable, I felt depressed, I became anxious and doubtful of what I wanted to be with no clear vision as to what was ahead. Finally, near the end of high-school the world felt like this massive, intimidating place to be in and I felt lost. I felt small. Now, I'm on my second year of college and the world still feels intimidating, but I found new purpose in writing. Additionally, I plan on taking a gap year so I can make the world small again and "find my shape."

  • @axelprino
    @axelprino Жыл бұрын

    I find this so relatable, it really does feel like my world compressed itself into a tiny space during the last three years and I've been feeling guilty over not trying to expand it again, but maybe it's ok to give it its time, to take my time to properly heal.

  • @CL-go2ji

    @CL-go2ji

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes.

  • @KevinAlibert
    @KevinAlibert Жыл бұрын

    Thank you ZeFrank. My fiancée and I very recently lost our child to a miscarriage which also almost cost me the love of my life. This beautiful little video hit us both very hard, leaving us both crying. It genuinely felt like you were speaking directly to us regarding things getting smaller before preparing us for something new and it's definitely something we both needed to hear. Thank you for a year's worth of laughs and joy and this short, beautiful and emotional video.

  • @kareningram6093

    @kareningram6093

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Hugs to you both.

  • @KevinAlibert

    @KevinAlibert

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kareningram6093 Thank you.

  • @Scoots1994

    @Scoots1994

    Жыл бұрын

    Miscarriage was what came to mind to me for very personal reasons as well. Sorry for your loss.

  • @HarleyQ42

    @HarleyQ42

    Жыл бұрын

    We lost a child, too. There are no words to describe that kind of loss, but every now and a then, a bright spark like this arrives, and gives you a new perspective. Thoughts of you from someone who know how hard this is, and how much the little things truly matter in life.

  • @koreyhayden1368

    @koreyhayden1368

    Жыл бұрын

    Reading that made me tear up big time...I hope you can find peace and keep it, I couldn't imagine the emotional tole something like that takes

  • @beautifulmind7091
    @beautifulmind7091 Жыл бұрын

    "Maybe someone left before you were ready". Aww

  • @kylerosenberg2508
    @kylerosenberg25089 ай бұрын

    I'm an environmental microbiology undergrad and have recently gotten over an 8 year long battle with severe depression. This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you for making this.

  • @yasha.hartberg
    @yasha.hartberg Жыл бұрын

    I'm the sole caretaker for my mom, who has Alzheimer's. Lately, her dementia has gotten much worse, and it shows no signs of plateauing, requiring near-constant vigilance and constant care. My world has, indeed, become very small. Thank you for this.

  • @ClanImprobable

    @ClanImprobable

    Жыл бұрын

    Take care of yourself as much as you can. It’s not selfish, it’s necessary. Be well...

  • @abdelilahchaibi8255

    @abdelilahchaibi8255

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope your mother gets better, and I hope you can remain strong enough to take care of your mother, what you are doing sir is what every caring son should do to their parents, be strong because when it's all done you will have no regrets and you can think back and be proud of yourself, some people would give all their positions so just that a loved one would come back for just a second. prophet Mohamed said: Your Heaven lies under the feet of your mother. I hope you the best my friend

  • @musicmamma
    @musicmamma Жыл бұрын

    Going through a deep depression over a loss of my youth, son, etc- this helped more than you know. Holidays are hard as I'm aging alone, kids grown & gone.

  • @PowPowPixie
    @PowPowPixie3 күн бұрын

    Wow, this took me completely by surprise. So emotional and profound. Then I read the comments, and now I'm crying 😭

  • @ItsAMeJMe
    @ItsAMeJMe Жыл бұрын

    My husband and I watch your videos together as our "together time". We absolutely love them because they are not only incredibly informative, they're hilarious 🤣 I have been really sick lately and this video really just hit directly what I need to do for the time being. Thank you for doing what you do. You're amazing. 🥰

  • @wrenbeck3370
    @wrenbeck3370 Жыл бұрын

    The fact that the True Facts guy managed to make something legitimately beautiful and heartwarming is amazing. Next time I'm extremely stressed or sad, I'll make sure to watch this.

  • @barabg
    @barabg Жыл бұрын

    This is one of the best things I've ever seen made. Beauty, optimism and forgiveness. You've made the world a little better today, and a little brighter. Well played.

  • @kelseydobrydnio4536
    @kelseydobrydnio4536 Жыл бұрын

    My fiancé and I watched your videos together. He hung himself a year and a half ago. My world became very small since at 20 years old, I lost the life I had so carefully planned with him. The comedy in your videos had always helped me but this was needed in a very different way. Thank you

  • @flohercus9756

    @flohercus9756

    10 ай бұрын

    😢 so sorry you had are having to go through this. I bet your fiancé was a beautiful person he would want you to try and carry on. You are so young give yourself time and hopefully you can find happiness again ❤ sorry I had to reply something your comment struck a cord. I wish nothing but good luck and best wishes 🙏🏻

  • @Jennamatic
    @Jennamatic9 күн бұрын

    Somehow this video always pops up in my feed just when I'm feeling at my lowest. As much as it hurts, it's a good, bittersweet ache, like growing pains of the mind and soul. You remind me to slow down, take a breath, and just appreciate what I have. Small is hard when the world keeps telling you that you ought to want more. I don't think I'll ever understand when or why simplicity and joy stopped being the goal. I've said this before, but thank you for this reminder. I seem to need it, every time.

  • @YvonneWilson312
    @YvonneWilson312 Жыл бұрын

    I so needed this today. My world has shrunk so much since I became disabled. I try to fill it with things that bring me joy but sometimes that is a mighty struggle when you have anxiety and depression on top of constant pain. This video gave me hope when I was feeling utterly hopeless. Thank you, Zefrank. Thank you.

  • @christine4223

    @christine4223

    Жыл бұрын

    You are enough. You matter. You are not alone. You are so much stronger than you know and you will find new ways to make your world bigger when you are ready.

  • @koreyhayden1368

    @koreyhayden1368

    Жыл бұрын

    Keep ya head up😊☺️

  • @eldermillennial8330

    @eldermillennial8330

    Жыл бұрын

    I’ve been subtly disabled most of my life although I was only diagnosed late, but I had been managing. Then recently because I was afraid of becoming MORE disabled over a medical disagreement with my foolish boss, I was fired and have been unable to find work because so many employers also have that disagreement at least until recently. Things are changing, however, so maybe I can get out of the rut I’ve been in, maybe we both can.

  • @Whisper_292

    @Whisper_292

    Жыл бұрын

    Seems there are a lot of us in the comments. It's good to know we're not alone.

  • @papadelta316

    @papadelta316

    Жыл бұрын

    There is a whole mess of people who are in a deep deep hole. Just know that you aren't alone. I've been in that hole, myself...fortunaly I had a spouse that would hate me no matter how much I tried to get her to hate me. Belive me...I tried my hardest. But if you try to look at the "destionation" you will get overwhelmed, just take it a day at a time. Hell if you need take it one hour at a time. Stay strong AND alive!!

  • @rumdiculous7990
    @rumdiculous7990 Жыл бұрын

    Zefrank has the ability to make me sob like a baby with a few words. I had a really bad injury last spring and it left me bed ridden for a month and chronic pain I'm still dealing with. I remember that the event was so traumatic to me but the world kept going on without me. I felt so...isolated because of that. Like, how dare everything not stop because of what happened. Which is silly and narcissistic but in that moment and now dealing with the pain, it just separates you from everyone. You can be surrounded by people and, yet, when in pain every day, feel so alone. Thank you, Zefrank. This was beautiful.

  • @eloerch7

    @eloerch7

    Жыл бұрын

    We sob together. I wish u love.

  • @joshgiesbrecht

    @joshgiesbrecht

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm in a very similar situation and you've explained the feelings I have better than I can. The whole world is moving on with their lives, yet we're stuck in a moment in time.

  • @queenb67

    @queenb67

    Жыл бұрын

    I totally feel this.

  • @CharGC123

    @CharGC123

    Жыл бұрын

    I totally understand, I was wheelchair bound for months after a traumatic accident , isolated, and alone... and felt the same way, even when I had visitors. Even now, some days it feels like being on Mars and earth is just a speck in the distance... even though it, and everyone else, is just outside the door, going on as usual. It was far worse though after I lost my son years ago... I will always have a huge hole where my heart used to be. Pain is so isolating.

  • @colleenuchiyama4916
    @colleenuchiyama4916 Жыл бұрын

    Almost every single comment here is from someone who is experiencing pain and loss. I can’t write to you all personally, but I can tell you that life does get easier. The pain eases. But you all need to know how important every single one of you are, and that everything you feel is ok. It’s ok to feel sad, bereft, lost, frightened…it’s part of how we process these sadnesses, and it helps us to recover. Taking a chance to downsize at this moment, to be comforted by the smaller, maybe inconsequential things, is what is needed. I hope you can feel these words I send you, because you matter me, I hurt to know of your suffering, and I send my very small, yet potent love to help you all on your journeys.

  • @EnygmaINC
    @EnygmaINC Жыл бұрын

    Thank you. I lost so much this year. My uncle, a few best friends exited my life, my favorite person in the world walked away, my car is messed up, my father's health has declined, and I just feel so lonely and broken sometimes- almost every single day. Thank you so much for this little piece of encouragement and comfort. Here's to good times... hopefully.

  • @sonic5577
    @sonic5577 Жыл бұрын

    I lost my mom back in 2020 to breast cancer. A day before her birthday and around 2 weeks before mine It still feels like yesterday. I still feel so lost. She was my whole world and I'm still picking up the pieces. So to hear that it's ok to feel small was something I didn't know I needed. I'm standing here crying while making Coco wheats like she used to make me when I was a kid. Thank you ZeFrank for all the content you've made over the years and thank you for this message. I think I'm going to go visit my old neighborhood soon. Walk around my old complex, the old stores we used to shop together in. Thank you.

  • @mrs.pantocow4747

    @mrs.pantocow4747

    Жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry to hear about your mother. I lost mine last year, but she was 93 so it was just her time...I miss her and the rest of the family I've lost. I have a wonderful man in my life that I can talk to, but lately I've felt so much pain that I'm afraid to say anything...we watched Zefrank's video together and I opened up to him...he let me know I'm not alone, and I felt the spirits of everyone I've lost...know your mother is watching over you, and there may be a time where you feel something you can't describe, and realize it's her...I hope you find peace.

  • @garretmangio9756

    @garretmangio9756

    Жыл бұрын

    I lost my mother in 2018. Diabetes complications. Now I have it. My life is in more shambles than I had realized. I never knew how much I had not mattered to anyone until my mom passed away. But in the end, Zefrank was right: I do matter. If I didn't, I would've had less friends than I had realized. Even if my world is small and insignificant. I miss my mother. More or less terribly than you do, but even saying so is a moot point. We both love and miss our mothers. That's what matters. Just like you matter. I won't ask that we walk the same roads as we are strangers. But, I do implore you stay strong. I can't say I'm strong, because I feel I don't do it enough. Not until I meet the end, living the best I can. But you can be strong. Stronger than me. You got this. And I'm sure you have people who got your back. As the song, "My Silver Lining" by First Aid Kit, suggests, don't take the easy road.

  • @AND-od5jt

    @AND-od5jt

    Жыл бұрын

    *hug*

  • @micromundoasmr

    @micromundoasmr

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi stranger, I'm very sorry to read this.... Your mum lives in every little space that you inhabit, between your cells and your thoughts... and within them. I know this maybe feels stupid but I'm sending you love and strenght from far away

  • @barbarahouk1983

    @barbarahouk1983

    Жыл бұрын

    Grief is the process we have to go through to break the bonding of human to human. The better and deeper the bond, the greater the pain in breaking the bond. Death is non negotiable in having to go through grief. I know a version of your pain for I have lost my parents and a sibling. Kubler-Ross wrote "On Death and Dying " . She covered loss. There are 5 stages; one does not go through these in any order and may repeat any stage any number of times. Anger Apathy Bargaining Depression Acceptance I found talking to others helped. I talked to many a nurse in the hospitals in which I practiced (I am a retired psychiatrist, MD, now but was active at the time of my mother's death). No one nurse heard a story over and over but I was able to talk about these things over and over. This helped me process. In breaking this bond, it is like building a box with putting the important things into it that were gained during the relationship. One day, I could smile at the memories and not cry. I appreciated what I had more than I could not be with her. Ther will always be a hole, "something missing" but the deep pain passes. Yes my small world is ok. As a psychiatrist, I learned if on puts off this process, then clinical depression can build. So I do hope you have supportive people. If you do need to see a psychologist to start the process please seek help. Remember when there is no bonding, there is no grief. Grief is a sign of losing an important (to you) relationship. Federal law requires me when I leave medical information to tell the reader this information does not make a doctor/patient relationship. Consider this a public service announcement.

  • @apokailyptic2899
    @apokailyptic2899 Жыл бұрын

    Wow. This is the first piece of media to ever make a tear fall down my cheek. This hits very close to home as someone suffering with an incurable chronic illness. Thank you Zefrank, this is beautiful.

  • @starryeye6511

    @starryeye6511

    Жыл бұрын

    Ditto

  • @brianpotter2135

    @brianpotter2135

    Жыл бұрын

    Mush luv

  • @FireskysNightfall
    @FireskysNightfall Жыл бұрын

    Watched this one three times in a row while getting ready for work. I needed this, truly needed it. I even asked my SO the night before if it was "alright that I didn't do more than survive the night", my space was that small. I used to call moments like that "tiny" and this really hit the nail on the head on how sometimes the personal world is just small.

  • @deceased_sock
    @deceased_sock4 ай бұрын

    Thank you for the clarification on the pooping hydra. I appreciate you letting us know, that even if the world becomes small, there's still a sense of humor in it.

  • @kweenkuma3258
    @kweenkuma3258 Жыл бұрын

    Man, this takes me back. I love the animal videos, but I miss the days where Ze would just sit down in front of his cool bookshelf and have a philosophical talk about life with us. He’s always teaching me so much. 😄

  • @sabrinavw08

    @sabrinavw08

    Жыл бұрын

    Totally brings me back to A Show with Ze Frank ❤I still sings ‘the song that I sing when I’m scared of something’ 😊

  • @caffinatedredpanda9964

    @caffinatedredpanda9964

    Жыл бұрын

    Wait, WHAT! I need to see this.

  • @yajuvendrasinghrajpurohit7888

    @yajuvendrasinghrajpurohit7888

    Жыл бұрын

    @@caffinatedredpanda9964 me too i watched them yesterday they were amazing too.

  • @sarabrown159
    @sarabrown159 Жыл бұрын

    The timing of this is perfect for not just this season and how bad my depression gets, but with how deep I am in a bad situation with awful people. It makes me glad for the day I can leave it. Just surviving in my little droplet for now.

  • @krissidee
    @krissidee Жыл бұрын

    I've had a rough few years, and this reached down and touched my soul. Thank you, Ze Frank.

  • @alliebean3235
    @alliebean3235 Жыл бұрын

    what a perfect moment of peace for such a stressful time of year. thank you.

  • @elliotnutella8044
    @elliotnutella8044 Жыл бұрын

    I never expected a zefrank video to be somewhat emotional, but this was a welcome change of tone.

  • @TheMrMused

    @TheMrMused

    Жыл бұрын

    You need to watch some of Ze's non-True Facts work. Look for it, it's on here. It's worth every bit of effort and then some.

  • @elliotnutella8044

    @elliotnutella8044

    Жыл бұрын

    @@TheMrMusedI've a lot of the non true facts videos

  • @CL-go2ji

    @CL-go2ji

    Жыл бұрын

    Try "Damselfly and Beatel". Similar vibe.

  • @samanthamorgan2188
    @samanthamorgan2188 Жыл бұрын

    In the last 18 months or so, I was diagnosed with an auto immune disorder, which resulted in being declared leagaly blind and a more likely than not shortened life span. To say it's been difficult is an understatement. This video is one of the most Inspiring things I have listened to. Thank youfor reminding me thatw who I am now is enough .

  • @mrs.pantocow4747

    @mrs.pantocow4747

    Жыл бұрын

    I don't know you, but I want you to know that I will be thinking of you every day. I hope that you have more good days than bad.

  • @rockinbobokkin7831

    @rockinbobokkin7831

    Жыл бұрын

    A good friend of mine had something that sounds a lot like that. Enjoy everything that you can , while you can.

  • @Magpie2497
    @Magpie2497 Жыл бұрын

    I don't know of the intention of this video was to be an emotional piece, it definitely touched me. It was so calming and gentle. I am unexpectedly in tears now.

  • @stephaniecampbell-heron5417
    @stephaniecampbell-heron5417 Жыл бұрын

    I am a veterinarian, and with the current veterinary crisis, I have little opportunity to laugh. I almost hurt myself laughing at some of this gentleman's videos, but this one surprised me with its beauty and relevance. Thank you, Frank. It takes a guy with curiosity to do these videos, and that is one of the greatest compliments I tend to offer. Curious people are the best kind.

  • @ritatodd1070
    @ritatodd1070 Жыл бұрын

    I am going to save this and play it when ever I am feeling down and out, and think of my son Robert who passed because of covid, he introduced me to you zfrank, RIP Rob, Thank you zfrank.

  • @christine4223

    @christine4223

    Жыл бұрын

    My deepest condolences on your loss.

  • @ritatodd1070

    @ritatodd1070

    Жыл бұрын

    @@christine4223 Thank you, much appreciated.

  • @rodotto11
    @rodotto11 Жыл бұрын

    I needed that. Perfect timing. I'm in a small place. But now it's okay after hearing it from that perspective. ❤

  • @Six-Of-Me
    @Six-Of-Me Жыл бұрын

    My husband and I just lost a once, CLOSE, friend that completely lost it because we didn't vote for HIS guy. I tried telling him that it's more important to be happy than it is to be right. I even told him that it should be OK for us to be wrong... he just ghosted us. Now he's dead. No resolution. No closure. He was a VERY large man. My whole world just got a lot smaller. This video made me cry. Thank you Zefrank1. 🙏

  • @clrobinson1776
    @clrobinson1776 Жыл бұрын

    This is wonderful. Thank you. I’m sorry that so many of us can relate to this but it is comforting to know we’re not alone.

  • @GrimDMasterMind
    @GrimDMasterMind Жыл бұрын

    This was unexpected. Why did it hit so hard? Thank you. I hope you remember your own words, and remember that you are enough too.

  • @ClanImprobable

    @ClanImprobable

    Жыл бұрын

    What a lovely thing to say. I myself was wondering if he knows how important he is as well.

  • @themosaicshow
    @themosaicshow5 ай бұрын

    i’ve never cried because of a youtube video, but this one got me damn close. thank you, ze. i hope the world gets bigger soon.

  • @bjkwolf9578
    @bjkwolf9578 Жыл бұрын

    just found out my grandpa has Cancer in both lungs. just clinging onto God's grace and words. thanks for this ❤

  • @Sovennix
    @Sovennix Жыл бұрын

    God I needed this right now. My fiance just broke up with me and I feel like my entire life has been upended. I'm so lost and drowning, and I feel so so small. But small is okay for now. Today is the first day since it happened I feel like things will be ok eventually. Thank you

  • @mommamonster1476
    @mommamonster1476 Жыл бұрын

    I am only 43 and I am having heart surgery next month to fix an array of problems and it's been weighing heavily on my mind. I don't know if it is the universe reaching out to me, or coincidence, but seeing a new video by you and it being this all of the videos you could have uploaded today; it put me at peace. Thank you, thank you, thank you so much. ❤❤❤

  • @Fruit_bee

    @Fruit_bee

    Жыл бұрын

    If your arteries are clogged you might consider going whole food plant based , i lost my colleague who was 28 because of heart decease i don't want people to harm animals and die , this world is our off is mind...

  • @mommamonster1476

    @mommamonster1476

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Fruit_bee Luckily, they are not. I have congenital deformities we just found out about last year, but thank for the comment. I do try to eat very clean, which probably is one of the reasons I didn't have issues until I started aging. I no doubt would have had symptoms earlier.

  • @ClanImprobable
    @ClanImprobable Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Zefrank, for this generosity. I hope you receive the kindness that you’ve given here.

  • @peepeepoopoo5089
    @peepeepoopoo5089 Жыл бұрын

    I’ve always loved your videos for the comedy and education but for some reason, today, this made me cry. Not because of sadness but because of the message. I lost both parents, step parents and grandparents to unnatural deaths, lived as a homeless person in the city, struggled with anxiety and ptsd, and try to take care of my autistic sister at the end of the day. I don’t know why I came across this video of yours today, but I cried. Knowing I’m lot alone. Thank you. Please keep educating us and making us laugh.

  • @zefrank

    @zefrank

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you. I’m sorry for your loss

  • @flohercus9756

    @flohercus9756

    10 ай бұрын

    So sorry for your loss you ate having to deal with a hell of a lot. Hopefully things have got a little easier for you and your sister 🫶 best wishes to both of you and I hope you are both well ❤

  • @ericthompson3982
    @ericthompson3982 Жыл бұрын

    Ze, today is my birthday, and that almost felt like a personal gift to me. Thanks for that, and for everything you do. You genuinely make this world a lovelier, more tolerable place.

  • @gerbenp394

    @gerbenp394

    Жыл бұрын

    Happy belated birthday

  • @ericthompson3982

    @ericthompson3982

    Жыл бұрын

    @@gerbenp394 Thank you!

  • @geoffo7920
    @geoffo7920 Жыл бұрын

    5 months ago, I lost my mom. This hit me pretty hard. Thank you

  • @Nonakame
    @Nonakame Жыл бұрын

    2022 can go away now. I lost my Mom, my Uncle and my best friend of 40 years. I've had enough. Thank you Frank for all you do. You bring smiles and laughter to us when we are hurting and down. God Bless.

  • @barbrishaw6883
    @barbrishaw6883 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this, Frank. My boyfriend of eight years died on April 4th, 2022 from blood loss. The radiation that killed his cancer eventually killed him too - it scarred his flesh so badly that the fibers of his skin, muscles and veins could no longer hold themselves together. He had asked me if I was willing to spend the rest of my life with him just three months before. I'd said "yes," of course. My world has been very small these past months, as I get used to life without him. We were each other's emotional support animal and source of strength. When you lose your one-and-always-person, and their support and strength are taken away, becoming small and still is all that's left. It's how you survive the unthinkable, while you rediscover your own strength. Thanks again, Frank. You helped me see what I'd been doing. And you showed me it was a good idea.

  • @mikemast411
    @mikemast411 Жыл бұрын

    I love how every now and again you drop a video brimming with humility and compassion. This, without exception, has successfully tugged on my heart strings.

  • @givenjoyness

    @givenjoyness

    Жыл бұрын

    Totally agree, incredible and thought provoking ♥

  • @jimmyforbes5761
    @jimmyforbes5761 Жыл бұрын

    It's always odd how comforting I feel after he gives a message like this. I know he's not trying to be profound, or anything of the sort, but I do love hearing what he has to say

  • @dragun207
    @dragun207 Жыл бұрын

    ngl I read this as when the world becomes snail, but did not expect this. I guess the world gives you little blessings like these when you really need them, so thank you

  • @MineCraft-nz9pg
    @MineCraft-nz9pg Жыл бұрын

    lost a kitten this month ,we found her in the corner of the street ,starving ,her belly bulging from a worm infection ,She was so tiny I could fit her in my palm . We took her home, fed her milk, got rid of the parasites ,and she grows so fast and healthy ,even grew bigger than the much older cat that we have,She was so happy and playful, but She died of an accident. I always imagined her being a mom 😢 . But in just a few seconds she stopped existing and there was absolutely nothing we could do to save her.

  • @GeneralBumpkis
    @GeneralBumpkis Жыл бұрын

    This is automatically one of my favorites. I had almost forgotten how eloquent you are at this sort of thing. Thank you for being you, Ze, for making us laugh til we cry, but also legit cry by touching those tender spots of our humanity.

  • @ClanImprobable

    @ClanImprobable

    Жыл бұрын

    So beautifully said, and I agree. Thank you.

  • @angelnickl
    @angelnickl Жыл бұрын

    My world has been small for many years now, this hit me when I needed it. "You are enough." Thank you Zefrank, for always brightening my small world.

  • @sparkpenguin
    @sparkpenguin Жыл бұрын

    come for the inspiration and peaceful calming "it's okay" moment. stay for the credits to seem less like an art project and something through which the creators are actually interacting with us. so real. thank you. and his work is amazing! thank you seriously for the nice credit roll

  • @shlingusdingus4174
    @shlingusdingus4174 Жыл бұрын

    I lost a friend just a few days before Christmas. Our relationship turned sour, and I found this video before things turned for the worst. I'm glad I could come back to this, as I saw this when it was first released. I needed this. And perhaps so does she. I'm glad that this could comfort me, and everyone else struggling with something right now.

  • @parkery371
    @parkery371 Жыл бұрын

    Zefrank, I usually watch your videos for the reasons I’m sure everyone does. The humor, the knowledge, the cute (or disturbing) footage of animals. Today, I needed this video. This year, I needed this video. I’ve been struggling, today more than usual, and my world has been so small for so long. And it’s hard for me to remember that even throughout all of this, I am enough. Thank you.

  • @torondin
    @torondin Жыл бұрын

    These past couple years have brought people to the breaking point... I think the words you speak, and how you speak them... They are *exactly* what so many people need at this moment. Excelsior Frank.

  • @orangebeagle3068

    @orangebeagle3068

    Жыл бұрын

    Pooping hydra

  • @bensartakamcas1n126
    @bensartakamcas1n126 Жыл бұрын

    My dad who went through a stroke adored the videos ye all made, wonderful comedy, amazingly well thought out and easy to understand explanations made my father smile, it reminded him of Steve Irwin, Uncle Roger, and Bob ross. Now each video ye upload comforts me in a way only my dad could, ye have a similar voice to him the warmth and timber of how ya speaks. Makes me feel right at home with him beside me watching paintings of Bob, Gary Jenkins, and Teddy's Operation. I thank ye for the warmth mate.

  • @apocalyptian
    @apocalyptian Жыл бұрын

    No matter where you are, or what you do, or what you been through, we all know sometimes we all need to hear this (or we need to share it with a loved one who also needs to hear it) Thank you so much for this little ray of hope! I wish you all the very best in 2023!

  • @TheMrMused
    @TheMrMused Жыл бұрын

    Damnit. If anyone needs me, I'll be sitting in the corner, rocking and crying. Ze .. this was an utterly beautiful, deeply needed Christmas present. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.