Never go back, never. You might not survive the second time. Your peace is priceless

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

😌💯🙏

@fireupyourheartfortruth

4 ай бұрын

Agreed. Goodness so scarey. ❤😢❤❤😊❤. Prayers and Love sent to all here! Andrew! Thank you for this healing teaching❤😊❤

@openeyedguy

4 ай бұрын

I fear for my life if I ever have to be around her again 😢

@monalisa2662

4 ай бұрын

I did go back a second time and have been accused of everything awful lying (I was telling the truth), cheating (never have) poisoning him (never a thought) just to name a few. He has isolated me from his family and my stepchildren. He has revealed himself by his accusations. I deserve better. All of you on the channel do too!

@fireupyourheartfortruth

4 ай бұрын

@@monalisa2662 so sorry I fully relate. ♥️🥰♥️🙋🌅

Remember, they are only powerful if you give them power. Thank you Andrew!🍃🦋🍃🙏

@jacquelinemarie1078

4 ай бұрын

Not really. Sometimes one can't leave, maybe because of children, money or other reasons. Sometimes the narcissists just takes the power. They use the children or friends against us. The BLOCK is about the only way to get rid of them.

@ShirleyMostert

4 ай бұрын

Amen

The only good control is self control.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

💯💯😉

@jhavajoe3792

4 ай бұрын

Definitely! Emotional Control is Priority Uno in my new suit of the 3rd version of myself. Hundreds of thousands ended up in jail cells with regrets for that one moment when they lacked any of it.

They have a serious problem when they do. They thought they could sacrfice you to their demons. Now the demons will eat them up alive.

When we turn off our empathy for them, they automatically fall away from us.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

😌😌🙏

@flowerpower4944

4 ай бұрын

@Tanja that's very true,,and also when we pull back and show we don't need them,, they loose control and shrink small,,🌼🌟

@CoachK10190

4 ай бұрын

Is it really this simple?

@TanjaT-od4nw

4 ай бұрын

@@CoachK10190 yes! It's very simple. At least for me .

@TanjaT-od4nw

4 ай бұрын

@@CoachK10190 When you see that there is no empathy in them, you lose interest in further investing your energy in such people.

“You are in control of your energy.” You don’t know what this means unless you’ve been through it. Thank you for your guidance on the path, Andrew. ❤️🙏🏻

Nice. 😉 I see what you did there. *Andrews Background: Gray Rock/Stone Wall.*

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

🪨😊🙏

The longer I am away from my ex...I feel stronger and feel less pain....

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

💯💯😉💪

@marieeakin8534

4 ай бұрын

👍👍👍 🌈🎀😘

@empress9857

4 ай бұрын

Yesssss it’s the withdrawal for mehhh

Still financially fucked. Pardon the french here, it's an exhausting process. ❤❤❤ I put everything on hold with nothing in return. Wasted years giving and put into others business as they thrived and I survived. Pieces of shit, no way around it. I don't say this lightly, they will run roughshot and take your soul when your so tapped out. It's a magnanimous mountain to climb afterwards. Thanks for these precious videos. We all deserve peace and happiness.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

Welcome..😌💜🙏

@dvawva5197

4 ай бұрын

I tend to use curse words when describing my situation, too. They are so damn greedy that it’s nightmarish. They’ll step on human beings to get to have everything…then play the victim.

@hongtruong4576

4 ай бұрын

I can relate to that. I do the same thing when really angry. Thankful we are not around them 🙏@@dvawva5197

@wendydaniel1110

3 ай бұрын

When you finally feel more love for yourself you walk...Put your emotions away with Narcissist. Be logical and strategic...Go no contact period. Dump them and move on❤❤

I am feeling better day by day and I literally did lose myself in her. I am now getting all of the surgeries that I need so that I can heal from all of them physically, I am healing my emotions by going to therapy, and spiritually by talking to God, and verbally by giving myself affirmations and I will NEVER be a narcissist ever in life because I am such an empath. No more toxic relationships for me. You give great knowledge and you are a great soul. Thank you.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

Welcome..💜🙏💯😌

@marieeakin8534

4 ай бұрын

Beautiful... thanks for your share! Blessings 👍 🌈🎀😘

I don't consider myself a victim yet I still have no desire to date at all at my senior age. I never want to give up my peace.❣️

@user-dt1sf6vm8p

3 ай бұрын

After 2 narcissistic marriages and I did not know at the time they were! Years into my senior years I was victimized by another narcissist. I cut it off because it was so familiar, and then I found the videos after googling the narcissist behavior! Thank you Andrew for this information. I blamed myself for so many years! Now I have the wisdom and healing has begun! Truth will set you free.

So true. Just got the discard 3 weeks ago. Today at church after communion a peace came over me and a feeling of gratitude..

@SoulForce_

3 ай бұрын

I had that too, I was in a very nasty situation with no money, no food, no gas in an unsafe house, but after his discard a feeling of peace and gratitude came and the fog cleared up a bit. Still in shock, but these feelings seeped through anyway

Hello everyone and Mr.Andrew. after acknowledging how narcissist behaviors affected me, the worst in my life was to mourn my own self. How I, betrayed my own life. This has been the wound, that I am still healing... how could I put my self always last!!! . 🪷🌾Thank you, for sharing this video🌿🌵

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

Welcome..😌🙏💯💜

@richardhowe3951

4 ай бұрын

Felt oh so like this. Cuts to the bon. I really feel the words you spoke! Thats where I was when I found this channel. Never thought Iwould get past this for the longest time but slowly, day by daythis channel and all the folks here helpme hang on. hope it will be the same for you! Thank you for the reminder of where I came from!!

@susansacco7583

4 ай бұрын

💕

@donnahalsted7718

4 ай бұрын

That's the way we beat ourselves up - we all do and we all did! If only we had known! How could an empathetic person ever contemplate such evil in another. It is so foreign to the way we think, act and view the world. Then BLAM! We find ourselves smack dab in chains, ground under the soles of boots we never knew existed! Guess what! You're so very normal. Don't "dis" on yourself! Take this whole thing as a University course in life. We are all opening an encyclopedia of narcissistic behaviors. In the end, neither I nor you, nor any one of us, could have gotten this priceless knowledge without having invested so much "wasted time" with Narcs! My Brother nearly finished me off. But I'm recovering so well that a coworker narc is now just a joke! Yes, I have to swallow lots of humble pie, which I can testify is full of raw onions! But keeping quiet and letting her show her true colors is an exciting turn of events. I'm anxiously anticipating that the mud she throws at me will backfire and hit her in her pretty face. I'm not a vengeful person. But poetic justice is entertaining to see happen! I could not have achieved this point in life without my Brother's bulldozing my life completely and in every way! I'm grateful to be here where I have grown - and I still have a long, exciting journey still ahead, even at 74 !

@sandralindsay9739

2 ай бұрын

Hi!! You are healing...please continue to do so. We cannot blame ourselves..they are master manipulators. Just be happy to be free from that toxicity.

I went from being an avid gym goer, meal prepper, positivity pusher and self actualized person to a depressed, overweight, tired, isolated person with no real identity. Ten years and two newborns, she's gone and its over now. I lost a lot of time, but have regained the world. Listen to your gut, people show/tell you who they are in the beginning if you watch/listen closely enough.

Never ever, ever, go back. 100% No contact. Love yourself and take time to heal. Then live your best life! 💫💖💫

"You lost your identity to the narcissist" really shook me. This has finally put into words what I've been feeling.

there's nothing more that a narcissist hates when they lose control of their target's mind. when you grow mentally, the narcissist will feel threatened. the idiot narcissist will then try to control how others view you, when they have lost control of you. cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

😌💯🙏💜

@carparthero

4 ай бұрын

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone excellent subject matter andrew. power and control are at the heart of what the narcissist is all about! -cheers from the car 🚗 plant in oakville, ontario, 🍁

@jhavajoe3792

4 ай бұрын

Thanks, Steven. Correct with "growing mentally." In my case, as I was nearing the end of my tolerance for bad treatment, the Narc was 2 steps ahead and made moves with unemotional precision. It had absolutely nothing to do with love and honesty and added to the shock. I left feeling like an amateur and she, an old hand at the insidious game. Presently, I grew mentally and emotionally and won't ever give "short shrift" to what I learned from this education. 👍

@carparthero

4 ай бұрын

​@jhavajoe3792 glad to hear you made the necessary moves to put yourself in a better place. stay strong and keep your boundaries intact. -cheers, steven

@fireupyourheartfortruth

4 ай бұрын

​@@carpartheroThis is so deep and healing. Please Father Sky and Mother Earth, my Jesus help us and help us heal.❤😢❤❤😊❤🎉

"The narcissist does not deserve to see you, hear you, learn anything about you" ❤

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

💯💯😉

@ckn9503

4 ай бұрын

❤a

@ckn9503

4 ай бұрын

❤a

Full time job, 24/7 looking after the N.P.D. person, took every minute of my time, all my energy, all my money. 😢

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

💯😌🙏

@DoraMoran-hb2jg

2 ай бұрын

Same here,I feel for you…They are not humans!😢

There needs to be a national registry for these callous, phony losers. And no, he never apologized albeit that’s ALL I asked after he stole my money.. just ghosted me like a stone coward smh.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

😌😌

@andreakeener6378

4 ай бұрын

Mine stole too. But I went all in on his credit card fraudulent behavior and fixed it. I’m sure I was the first. Nor the last. I’d love to have a registry too! Blocked. Take care!

@cakensteak

4 ай бұрын

Sorry for you, I get it. Look how strong you are becoming!

@juliesaville9241

4 ай бұрын

Omg that’s what’s happening to me - he won’t even admit he owes me money yet he just stops answering me

@alethiamillner5603

4 ай бұрын

They will never give you what you want, but they sure deliver you in the things you never ask for.

"You had to deal with a toddler in control of your life."

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

😌💯💯🙏💜

@amyhand6075

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for your videos. Agree 100% with everything you said. I am no contact but someday its seems it doesn’t matter the damage the narc did has been done and I will never heal. Had no idea of the trauma bond that was created until I finally got away which was a huge feet all on it’s on own. 😢 to be healed and whole someday. Thanks a million for your encouraging videos.

@mvbigmagic4048

4 ай бұрын

@@amyhand6075 I've only been no-contact a few months, but every day I'm remembering and learning about things that the narcissist did that finally make sense. I also truly believe that experiencing all this shit has made me understand how to be a better person. I try to be kinder to those who are trying to be good people also. And I have BLOCKED all the narcs in my life -- former "friends" and flying-monkey relatives. Life keeps improving. Keep studying what happened, and you will see how the bad people stand out like sore thumbs, and how good people enter your life and help you! My prayers are with you.

@donnahalsted7718

4 ай бұрын

​​@@amyhand6075You WILL heal, Amy. Andrew's insights and those of this community are very helpful on the journey. Those insights are healing Don't expect much of yourself. Rejoice over the baby steps of progress. Really, celebrate each little bit of it! No one is holding a stopwatch on you. It's your own journey to take at your own pace, in your own way. If you keep a journal you WILL see actual progress. That's HUGE! One moment is all I can handle at any time. This moment is GOOD. I trust the next will be good, too. I face each difficulty as it presents itself and do my best to find a reasonable solution. With the Narc on the nag, it can be hard. I just have to keep remembering that the Narcs business is their own, not mine. They are living an unreal drama that has no solution because they can't face themselves. You and I become their DUMP! Nope! It's their garbage and we can walk away free. It does take strength and wisdom, both of which I pray for every day. Prayers for you, dear sister. It's ours to become extraordinary over all that WAS behind us! Blessings!

There is only One who is in control. And He knows Easter has arrived which was, and is, and is to come - the final face-off of Good vs Evil. Peace, hope & victory …. FOREVER 🙏🏻❤️🕊️

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

💜☀️🌸🙏

@user-ou3sd2vp3u

4 ай бұрын

They are awful 24/7 x

@BeTheLight624

4 ай бұрын

❤️

@debrabrookham6670

4 ай бұрын

Someday everyone will have consequences for how they treated others in this life. Believe in the Lord because one day your reward will take away all the pain that you suffered. Good will overcome evil and that is what many of these people are.

P.S,,I was just researching our 12needs in a Healthy Relationship,,,,the Narcissist didn't tick any of the Boxes,,,thought I'd share this,,,,it's no wonder we suffered so much,,,🌟🌼🌟🌼💜

@flowerpower4944

4 ай бұрын

​@@ESSIEMARIE1998🌟💖🌼🏞️🪴🌻🍃🌷

@marieeakin8534

4 ай бұрын

Thanks for the info flower! 👍❤ 🌈🎀😘

"You had to deal with a toddler in control of your life." Perfect analogy! Definitely experienced that. Thank you, Andrew! 🙌🪨👏🌸🦋☀️💜

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

💯💯😉🙏

Yes! So awful. Narcissists chew up,…….. unsuspecting empaths. And then spit them out. 🙈

Yes its lovely and free without that narcissist in your life,,,we got our agency back💯🌟🌟t.y. Andrew keep warm ,keep well,💜🌟💜🌟

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

Welcome..💜😊🙏

Yeah, they are the ultimate Con Artists, perfect parasites! Thanks, Andrew.

That's the toughest lesson to learn with them. You change your life to suit them, making sacrifices and changing your lifestyle to cater for their wants and needs. It really doesn't matter what you did, what you accomplished, the mountains you moved for them, they will still disgard you and that's what hurts the most..it's not the mountains you moved it's the shock you go into after realizing everything you did meant nothing.. when you pick your jaw back up off the ground it takes a long time to accept your love for them was exploited and there will never be any closure.. The shock value of that is the hardest part to get over... You learn over life to not trust every shonk and fur trader you come across, but when you are duped by the closest to you it's a whole different story...Your life is forever changed..🙏☮️

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing..😌💯🙏

@emmashaw8733

4 ай бұрын

This!

@donnahalsted7718

4 ай бұрын

Great post. True, true true!

@BeTheLight624

4 ай бұрын

So true Thedisgardedoptimist When you turn around and we in hindsight the magnitude and depth of deception that is the deepest cut and humiliation. It took me several months to recover from that shock, however, after experiencing that there’s no chance of accepting a hoover. Unfortunately the only way to get through this is to go through it. A difficult process to be sure but well worth it to get rid of that vermin.❤️

@empress9857

4 ай бұрын

😢😢😢😢 your sooo right then lie n say we don’t while in door beating you down when you step outside the expectations they place upon you

The EXIT plan is tantamount to your life-happiness, then no contact

It is over. They don't know it yet, but it is OVER. I am free from them. I am not part of them anymore.

Their "jokes" are usually deviously underhanded. I remember one of those that had me thinking. ---- why would someone who likes me say such a thing? Now i know. Also, he had a thing about a phrase that I used. One time (when he was expecting I would say it) he wondered why I didn't say it ...... Control freaks Now I know Thank you, Andrew. Blessings to you and the cimmunity!

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

Welcome..😌💯🙏

@MattyNelson-rs3ik

4 ай бұрын

My grayrockee told me she was probably not invited to a younger coworkers wedding, someone we had nothing in common with, big age difference, much younger than us,granted some younger people were invited, , maybe she's guilty by association, which was me.like what? Can u imagine someone saying that, someone you took to work and back, x 3.5 years,,she did not drive,supposedly ,even though she had a drivers liscense,took shopping, on many occasions, to ur church, and church socials, introduced to friends,even tried hooking her up to a professional divorced family friend,, because she was this younger woman's preceptor at work..so she was obligated to invite her?in what universe? she was paid to precept that person....so many incidents stuff said,caught in lies.unknown to her.mask dropping right in front of me thinking I did not notice...😮

@jhavajoe3792

4 ай бұрын

"I was just joking!"-- Right. Reply: "Well? I'm still waiting to hear something funny... and also, You got some mean body odor."

my father will never apologize for anything when he does something wrong thank you andrew please go somewhere warm 🔅❤ see you tomorrow andrew

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

Welcome..🌲💜😊

I was a walking apology for everybody. There was no limit to the blame I would not take. Self education is the key. One word is the answer. Stop. Life just keeps improving and discernment is so important. Peace is the result.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

💯💯😌

Hey Andrew and friends! 🙌🤗🤗🤗❤️💜❤️💜❤️💜

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

😊💜🙏

@flowerpower4944

4 ай бұрын

Hi Jennifer hope you are having a good day 😺💖🌼💖🌼🌟

@TanjaT-od4nw

4 ай бұрын

🌹❤️😊

@jennifernewton4637

4 ай бұрын

Hey Andrew, Flower and Ruby!!! 🙌😁🤗❤️💜❤️💜❤️💜

Love ur wisdom and I know ur pain had purpose thank u for helping many people u executed beautifully

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

Welcome..💯😌🙏💜

I was adopted when I was 5 years old by 2 narcissists. The house I moved into had 7 bedrooms and 4 bathrooms. It was a real fantasy experience for me. When I was age 15 they got divorced and they sold the house. My fantasy experienced burned down. My narcissistic parents ruined my high school years. I barely graduated high school. Afterwards I did go to college and went no contact with them.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing..😌💜🙏

Amen Andrew! I have finally realized I will never be enough or do enough for him. He is an empty unsatisfiable soul. I deserve better and so do all of you on this channel. I went to the gym last night and was accused of lying to him about where I was. He has cameras all around the house, follows me via telephone (I finally got my own lines and then he figured out how to follow me through "find your device") and checks all my social media. Most likely this comment as well. It is a pitiful existence . I have done nothing to deserve his accusations. He reveals himself by what he accuses me of. God bless anyone else going through this. My nerves are always on high alert waiting for the next awful accusations. I am tired of being followed and falsely accused. This channel has brought me some clarity and understanding for which I am very grateful.

@Cazgirl-hq4hi

4 ай бұрын

You will never change thses insecure freaks..they suck the life out of u and ur soul too..they are unique freaks,there’s no one like them..they are high maintenance ,depressingly so..they love the control the fighting,if the seas calm they create a storm where nones needed..they make u feel like ur going mad,all u can think of is them ,just because of the bad behaviour they do,you walk on eggshells all the time.lim beginning to think most men are narcs in some varying degrees,I’ve had my fair share of them..but the last one took it to a whole new demonic level..I still having nightmares..it takes time..best thing u can do is walk away .,ur never change them and don’t feel sorry for them ,cos they don’t give a shit about u..be free asap..good luck

@MattyNelson-rs3ik

4 ай бұрын

GO TO THE AUTHORITIES. ASK FOR A RESTRAINING ORDER GO TO A WOMAN'S SHELTER.NO ONE OWNES YOU...FOR PITY'" S SAKE .

@mvbigmagic4048

4 ай бұрын

After I realized my abuser was a narcissist, I looked back at ALL the things she accused ME and others of.... and I discovered they were things SHE was doing. It's a very sad thing to learn that your mother is a sociopath. Don't fall for their projections. Examine them, and you will see the truth.

Absolutely spot on about supply. The moment you don't give them what they want you are forever yesterdays news.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

🙏💜😌

@user-qh4qk7kv4u

Ай бұрын

Stop giving.. I figured them out and they took off….

You triggered a memory of me telling the narc to go back to his ex-wife....😂 I shouldn't laugh... but he was trying to triangulate me! I saw it and immediately laughed!

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

😌😌💯💜

@i.l.9546

4 ай бұрын

Same here😂 I even always called her "your wife" by purpose although they were divorced for 7 years when I met him. I also pushed him to speak to her, to meet her again because he obviously was stuck in the past😂. Triangulation failed🎉

@carolprivate418

4 ай бұрын

@@i.l.9546 What cracks me up more is that I didn't know what it was called.... triangulate. .I just knew I didn't like it! 😂

6 min of video and i laugh 3 times so i have to say it. My dear friends. I almost die in my relationship my heart is still broken. It's life changing experience. But we are all little peaces of God. We all just want to love. Give and take. But we get pain. A lot of it. However it is what it is. Now listen please! Juststay in the light and don't be afraid. You are divine and no on can take it from you! Just remember it! You still breathing, don't you.. There is reason for everything. We will make it! Peace and love to you all

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

😌😌🙏

They want to control what you think about yourself, very wise word and very true.

Your videos have made such a positive difference in my life. At first it seemed extreme, like my situation was not that extreme! But it was. I lived in narcissistic poverty for years of my life and it is the true sense of freedom and gratitude that being aware and away from them. Bless you Andrew

I finally got out approximately 3 weeks ago, the normal narc ending happened. Refused to pay me for his portion of the remaining bill, accused me of stealing forks & pictures, walked around the house like a crackhead the whole time I was moving, etc. I’m 100% NO contact with my brother, finally my mind and body are starting to unwind and relax. Thank you for your guidance and support.

Awesome message today.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

Thank you..😌🙏💜

You are so right. When you think of all the things you did. Only to find out, it was just a waste of your time, energy, and more important. Your heart. Something I am now afraid of sharing, any more. Great video.❤ ❤😊

I saw the mistake the Minute I arrived to move in with him…I knew I’d made a mistake . The control was like it’s My house and he said that twice…everything or object in their house I could look at was a contention ,a argument . What eve I did was wrong,whatever they lost it was my fault..they love making someone else to take the blame,they are never ever wrong . The constant drop,drip of their moods,and the sulks were tedious ,they wanted u to apologise for something they got wrong. Cooking was fun.the meals too hot,not cold enough.too big ,not enough..I gave up cooking for them in the end. It was the same with petty things,very petty things. You couldn’t discuss a subject ,cos they were all knowing big heads and even facts were wrong to them..another thing was u never knew what mood they were in..once they went into a a big sulk ,the worst was when u were washing up at the sink and his vile evil staring bad looks through the window,a vile evil stare as he walked past..the eyes like pin prick pupils glaring at u. Another favourite was they lead u to beleive u are in control..had big begable patch made for me ,only to have him take over and try and show u how’s to cut up a grow bag ,in which they made a mess of it..often not having a clue about a lot things ,they just like to do it their way. They are arrogant ,and cocky ,argumentative ..or nasty little remarks when eve they take a pop at u..vile control freaks..then tehy make u ill ..they make u have rage as bad as them..tbh thses loud mouth self servative Demonic creeps..they need sitting on their butt,by a big man . The rage and unsettled way they leave u ,even after they gone. They love adoration from others..they think they are it. They are often nice to others,but slag them off behind their back…well rid of thses evil freaks.

Still can’t get over the fact that I was stuck in that fog for so many years. There are so many of these Narcs patrolling the planet for supply! Stay away from me! Thank God for you Andrew. 💡💡💡and so many lightbulb moments of information have given me peace of mind. ❤

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 ай бұрын

🙏💯😌

Praise my Lord he guarded my heart for me from all of them. I am so proud of him for not letting me get attached to any of those abusers. He knew who they were, and who has my heart too.

One of your amazing backdrops. Love!! 💜🪨🙌

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

😊🤭💜🌲🪨

@MattyNelson-rs3ik

4 ай бұрын

I don't like rocks like that,I always feel a snake scorpion,or some critter will crawl out of the rock.and wrap itself around my face or neck😮

@Divinely_Guided444

4 ай бұрын

@@MattyNelson-rs3ik yes, I don't like 🐍 either, and know they love rock piles.

Bingo. You are describing my experiences exactly. While I knew our relationship was abysmal and I was in so much fear of my husband towards the endgame, it was not until after I divorced him that I did some research and, sure enough, a narcissist emerged. Now the struggle to regain myself has begun. Not easy.

Thank you for this video Andrew and have a wonderful long Easter weekend with lots of love and a little bit of chocolat ❤🐣😘💜

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

😊💜🤭

I’m in the process of leaving a 10 year relationship with a covert narcissist. Your channel has been a blessing and has made me feel like I’m not crazy for the first time in so long. I have also been isolated completely, so it’s great to feel like I have someone there for me through your videos Andrew. You are providing an enormous resource for me and the rest of the community. Hindsight is 20/20, but man if 100% of the things you say don’t ring true. So, I know with my whole heart and mind that I’m doing the right thing. Namaste.

@marieeakin8534

4 ай бұрын

Blessings & stay safe! 👍 The community is wonderful. 🌈 🎀😘

@MattyNelson-rs3ik

4 ай бұрын

Get out safely

A person can give everything to family in times of many needs and then realise that the family were rarely there at critical times when reciprocity was needed. It's tough to digest, but knowing helps strengthen, and when 'family' wants to play toxic games, it's best not to play and, instead, walk away. Colleagues, so-called friends and family can be insignificant when we reflect and are brutally honest with ourselves.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

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Thankful for all your videos. They helped me move forth with my divorce and going no contact. Thank you Andrew!

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

Welcome..🙏😌💜

I can't do this, I need my life back

@fireupyourheartfortruth

4 ай бұрын

Yes you can. This is difficult to see this. Please I suggest cling to Healing groups. I send my prayers and love and hugs. Do self care. Please love yourself. ♥️🌅♥️🙋🥀💃🌟🙋

@Thedisgardedoptimist

4 ай бұрын

This is what you are doing...Taking your life back! Be strong, carry that list with you - good vs bad and read it whenever you feel bad...also come to these places and talk! There are a lot of people who care.. you are not alone...🙏☮️

He was never there for me. But when he needed help I was the first person he called.

@Cazgirl-hq4hi

4 ай бұрын

That’s often the case.l when they are unwell everyone got to know about it,and how special they are they are hen ill,they expect u to look after them hand n foot,but if u are ill,they never ask how ur feeling or even acknowledge ur not well,and worse of all they don’t fking care..as long as u can make toddler feel better ,no thanks for it, no nothing..ignorant freaks..it’s all about them ,they can’t find anyone they love better then themselves that’s their trouble..stay well,clear.

@sandramoricle7485

3 ай бұрын

@@Cazgirl-hq4hi Thank you!!!!!!!!

He is right. Family, friends, partners, coworkers do not have our best interests at heart. What I made and have put on my wall: I have the right to exit. I have the right to be happy. I have the right to be successful. I have the right to love and be loved for who I am. I have the right to be me.

I appreciate you so much for helping free me from the narcissist abusive cycle.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

Welcome..🙌🙏💜

My mother is now 71 and still wants to cause me further pain.

@plumduff3303

4 ай бұрын

Same patsy and my sister too its exhausting

Actually all narcissist do deliver something. What the many shades of satan looks like

Thank you Andrew. Ive been free for one year now. You are helping me so much. I have value and am worthy of being truly loved. Thanks be

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

Welcome.🙏💯😌

Everyone, I big lightbulb just came for me!!! I remember when my ex narc wife would always say to me "I have a feeling that one day I'm going to come home and you will be lying dead on the floor" OMGGG!!!! Now that I have the wisdom, what she was really saying she wanted me dead!!!!

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

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Rest assure that the narcissist IS and WILL cheat on you every chance they get! With NO remorse, shame, and/or guilt. They feel they are entitle to do ALL that they want with NO consequences what-so-ever.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

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My ex said he could get his ex's back any time he wanted...but I have broken free after 23 yrs of abuse of every type all glory to God. Thanks for the videos...so helpful!

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

Welcome..😌🙏💯

Why Poem I wrote today The unanswered echoes linger, Silent truths buried in his silence, He, who ceased to speak, left me adrift pain persists. Still, I strain to see through veils, Thank God for radical acceptance, A whispered “yes” to life’s enigma. Where beginnings blur with consequence? Navigating blind, uncertain steps, In the thick of it Only hindsight reveals what’s kept.

@jhavajoe3792

4 ай бұрын

Beautiful and Healing for anyone.👍

Nobody moves faster than a narcissist who needs a place to stay 😂

🙏🏽

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

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"I'm just joking!" "You have no sense of humor!" "Chill out!"

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

😉😉💯

@marieeakin8534

4 ай бұрын

Hey there Emily ❤ 🌈🎀😘

@emilywilson7308

4 ай бұрын

Love you, Essie, Andrew and Marie! ❤ We have all been wounded by these comments and thought we were all alone. Now we know the truth.😢

@jhavajoe3792

4 ай бұрын

Put a stop to "put down humor immediately." It's a test on how far and how much you will take. You know the difference between a wry wit, dry wit and a nitwit.

@emilywilson7308

4 ай бұрын

@@jhavajoe3792Thank you, Joe!

THANKYOU ANDREW I LISTEN TO YOU EVERY DAY, BY GOD YOU HAVE HELPED ME ALOT, STILL GOING THROUGH IT, I WENT AND GOT HOOVERED ITS ALL STARTED AGAIN, JUST KEEPS TURNING UP. WONT LEAVE ME ALONE, BUT HE HAS A RUDE AWAKENING, NO WAY AM I GOING BACK, WASTED 10 YEARS OF MY LIFE. ( FOR WHAT) the lines on my face, I now have. THANKYOU ONCE AGAIN!.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

3 ай бұрын

Welcome..💜🙏😌

I'm going through this right now, and I am taking BACK control and watching the NARC wither away daily...ANDREW SAVED ME. I LOVE YOU BROOOO

Thank you Andrew ❤. He no longer has control!!😊

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

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Maureen, I always say, 'better late than never". Best wishes to you and our entire tribe.❣️

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

3 ай бұрын

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This is the most accurate information about narcissistic people. The need for control destroyed everything. That is what he wanted, of course. Understanding is half the battle in the healing process. Thank you, Andrew . So glad that Spring is finally here.

Move on and end the past story. It's around the corner and all you have to do is realize this. Change your frequency🎉

Andrew for narcissist president 2024 you got my vote kind sir 👍

Hadro get restraining order to keep him away from me. Yet in small community I live in have run into numerous people who knew what he did to me or I shared what he did to push me to that point and had to tolerate them saying how much they like him. Felt like more abuse. It seems to never end.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

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The judge just ruled on my ex’s assault of me. While the judge had, “grave concerns” about his actions they were okay dropping the charges, so long as he promised to not return to my city again. I explained to The Crown that it was never a crime against me as a person. This is a pattern. He did it before and will do it again, and his is escalating. I told them I tried and that the next assault is on them.

my narc-ex has never been faithful to any one woman, he feels monagamy is too controlling over him.. omfg, isn't that rich?!?

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

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I think happiness is now, even before you take your place on the summit. Its now.

I got out just before the disguard best thing ive ever done been 2 month now gettin stronger by the day

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

7 күн бұрын

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So well put Andrew. This is exactly what happened to me. My narcissistic spouse limited the time i could spend with him. He wouldn't be available for me. We were newlyweds and he wasn't the slightest bit interested in spending time with me unless it was for his benefit. It was so hurtful and lonely. Our marriage was just a game to him. The cruelty was so overwhelming, i had to get out of the marriage. But its still so painful

I used to think I was a creative and somewhat happy person until I hooked up with a narcissist. He never liked my friends or family. I also noticed he had no real hobbies or outside interests. Over the years, both my health and his have deteriorated. I don't want to die from neglect and abuse, but it seems too late now. My attempts to leave are always met with severe threats. I hope that your videos will help as many people as possible avoid such relationships.

Im doing grey rock now the messed up stuff they say I don't react to and just ignore it is exhausting but it makes you a stronger person because you see through their bs working on an exit-strategy with everybody in my life I need peace

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

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Thank you. So true what u said you cannot trust anything they say.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

Welcome..🙌🙏💜

Thank you for these videos… Empathic People are just tired of these People……

I think a good track for this video is, 'Never Going Back Again', by Fleetwood Mac. Another VG video, Andrew :)

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

Thank you..😌🙏💯

Good message Andrew I learn now I'm in control of my own life not him!

I got a couple apologies but they literally looked pained saying sorry and it didn't feel genuine. The third time, all I got was. "I shouldn't have done that." When he got caught and he claimed that was apologizing.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

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I know it upset the narcissist that he couldn't t separate me from my family and friends. I have a close family unit that gathers frequently fie events. He was very envious of that. It surfaced one Christmas when I spent the holiday with him. He became angry when I talked ro my sister and daughter on the phone...he gave me the silent treatment for a good while. Worst Christmas ever..and last with him

I agent with u whole heartedly but I also want to mention that I have a friend that a very giving g person and I just learned that she gets filled up by giving instead of spiritually I also see that she in a nice way tried to control others with what she wants them to do even when you say no she still pushes for her way. I know that her intentions aren't bad but by not accepting no as an answer the first time she continues to push it in a kind way still a form of control. We are to have self control not control others in anyway

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

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Mine was an evesdropper. Thought he needed to lurk around in case anyone ever had an UNAUTHORIZED CONVERSATION.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

3 ай бұрын

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You have a new friend in Europe. Thank you for your precious videos.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

Welcome..💜🙌😊

You speak the truth.

Always good to hear from you, Andrew! 🐇 HAPPY EASTER ANDREW 🐇

Love to you Andrew and Gods speed😘🐑🕊

Thank you. My breakup is new, and I know it was the right thing to do. It can get lonely at night. Thank you for the reminder. These videos help a lot.

Thank you Andrew ❤ what a superb video X a brilliant reminder of their destructive capabilities X thank you so much for how you explain everything so very well X I'm forever grateful I found you X I watch your videos daily X couldn't be without them x ❤️ Happy Easter x namaste x 😊

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

Welcome..🙏😌💜

😢but how if the narc is the child's father. We do limit interaction as much as possible

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 ай бұрын

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They do keep people apart from others. My narc sibling put a wedge between each sibling so the only one we communicated with was the narc. It stayed that way until one of the caring siblings couldn't handle the bullying and contacted me. We swapped notes and the pennies dropped for me as my ex was a narc. I was able to give understanding and support to this sibling. I am now no contact with the narc.

Great video Andrew! Wishing everyone clarity and peace.... 🙏