This is exactly what is happening in my life..I'm 40 years old and I still feel this. I feel unloved by my parents. There needs to be a balance...either extreme may not be ideal. Children need protection ..I have v low confidence due to my parents teaming up...Thank you for bringing all this into light 🙏

I agree 100%. I faced the same issue in my childhood. But with my kids I support my kids when necessary.

Sir please make a video on loosing father at young age say 8years and how society relatives ,neighbours try to dominate the widow and her kids and how all this effects the kids mentally,please sir

@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal

6 ай бұрын

Will try to make a video on a topic relevant to you.

@olive0eyes0

6 ай бұрын

a cruel world eh

It needs great courage to bring such topics in frontof public. Thanks sir for this video.

Yes my mom dad and my grandparents gang up on me cause I was dating a girl from different religion. It was a straight 8 yrs of physical and mental abuse before I was able to run out of the country. Not worth it. My grandparents are no more and now mom and dad complains they feel alone. I give "em all financial help but now unable to emotionally connect with my family. Reality of many indian families 🥺

@emailshe

6 ай бұрын

So did you marry her in the end? Very few people back then were intelligent and brave enough to think beyond what the Religions leaders have instructed them. Even now, you can see that religions practices are used as vote banks and the public goes on the follow this stuff. Like don't eat Beef, Don't marry outside caste etc just when many western countries do not care about it anymore. So in a way you need to understand that they are not bad, but they were not Brave and didn't have the intelligence to think beyond the rules or out of the Box.

@madhavraj1650

6 ай бұрын

Give no financial support

@thetoothtutorr

6 ай бұрын

Iam facing something similar, I dated someone my didn’t like…..after they got to know about it it was one year of mental torture. I was preparing for NEET at the time and failed miserably bcz of the stress. I could hear my parents bitch about me and my bf at 5 in the morning at one point I was so devastated that I burnt my own hand on a candle flame, there was no other way to let my anger out. I still don’t know am I supposed to feel guilty for loving someone. My parents are good people, but how do I solve this dilemma of feeling like a victim and culprit at the same time. Meanwhile, my brother became the favourite child automatically, I want the three of them to be happy and just let me be…..bcz they’ll probably never understand but it hurts. Right now I’m in a govt dental college (missed mbbs by 20 marks) but I never heard and words of appreciation instead all that was expressed was regret. I feel detached, unloved and unable to love.

@reviewwithrathore1692

6 ай бұрын

​​@@thetoothtutorr you are doing great no need to feel guilty if required get help from psychiatrist , it will save your coming years .

@thetoothtutorr

6 ай бұрын

​​@@reviewwithrathore1692 I was diagnosed with anxiety and depression a few months back, which was basically triggered by my college ragging....my parents did not show any serious concern over that, they simply don't want me to die 😂 On the contrary my mother had a high BP reading yesterday, and my brother was really concerned, I was not too concerned as she's in her 50s and it runs in her family. So I was told by my brother that I have no emotions for my mother, now this has triggered up all the past incidents and maybe that's why I'm here. This mixed feelings where your family is your culprit but somehow you want to win them over is fatal to one's emotional health

Whatever said and done you are considered a rebel when you question your parents or elders in the family. Mental abuse is not at all considered as a kind of harassment. Sometimes they are clever enough to abuse only by their looks and body language without even uttering a word. Such things they know can't even be questioned but can leave you bitter.

My problem during my 7th standard with my parents was that they give 0 value for my opinion on anything, they were like "what do you know, you are just a child". Once, They told me to put papaya milk on my foot cracks because it is natural cure and they read it in some magazine. My foot started slightly burning which was worse than the open cracks after I put that thing from the back yard papaya tree. When I told them, they didn't care and said the Ayurveda Doctor in magazine can not be wrong. 🤨 After this, They even suggested papaya milk to my neighbor when they were casually talking about foot cracks 🙄. I was too scared to intervein as I knew they will embarrass me in front of the neighbor. But in my friends house they treated him the opposite. His parents were about to buy a plastic tiffin box from a door to door sales man when I was at his home. He came checked it and said, No its not worth don't buy it and his parents returned it to he sales man and let him go. I had a mixed feeling of happiness, jealousy, surprise and sadness when I saw this.

Sir, why you are taking up such a sensitive topics🙊...but on serious note, unfortunately todays Indian family system is not working...bad parents creates bad person and bad citizen.. I dont understand, why people think parenting or begetting children is easy>? Thanks for taking this topic...no wonder why todays youth is deciding not to have child..

Wow. The bell rings and still the dog is sleeping

I can't forget my past, whether it related to my parents or spou ,now what i realised being alone is the best way to live life, every one who had dominated me ,hurt me , insult me were the one whom I had given authority to do, what they did to me, feeling so helpless and fed-up at this poin of life,pls be a person who understands the heart of a person then only u can be a good perent , don't make ur children traumatic, don't snach there confidence and happiness.

Binging his videos, and I feel like someone is just narrating my own life experiences to me lol and i am not even 25 i feel like a damn 40 year old

@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal

6 ай бұрын

😂🙏🏻

This is one of your finest and most insightful videos. Great job my friend

I have the same problem with my parents, I’ll never forgive them.

@sanhitakelkar3691

6 ай бұрын

It's a very difficult feeling to process when u can't forgive ur parents. But at least free urself from the negative emotions. Keeping negative emotions on ur mind and psyche is harmful to you. It takes time, but it can be done. Forget about them, life is too short to waste on negativity.

I am one amng 4 children and alwys questioned my existence.. lol.. and than being dffnrt in terms of looks only adds to the agony.. was alwys compared and teased.. that led to so much self doubt and low self esteem and no interest in life at all..

I have an identical story ❤ Thank you for your insightful talk.🙏

much needed topic thankyou..

This is so true, its better to stay away from parents like these, pure narcissim and toxic behavior.

😂😂😂 sir mere sath bhi यही hota tha😂😂

Thanks!

Sir thankyou so much for sharing these tips along with ur personal life experiences . NOT EASY for anyone to reveal their personal issues in public esp with their parents. many salutes to u n ur spirit 👍 M a proud mother of 2 grownup kids n did all i could ( same as u did ) n hav no regrets till date becoz i know i was right. But after watching this video i m feeling very very proud of myself too for being a just parent throughout. My husband n i alwez disagreed on our respective parenting style as our bringing up was not similar at all . My parents were much more easy going than his . i alwez kept d balance but while doing this i bore d brunt million times but i never made my kids feel left out. I request all mothers here to support ur children at any cost . Trust them . N trust me they will never ever deceive u , will alwez remain close n above all SHARE EVERYTHING with u . Extremely grateful to you Sir , thanku very much once again 🌹🌹 please keep sharing 🙏

@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal

6 ай бұрын

🙏🏻 thank you also for sharing your journey. Glad you could be a good mother by upholding your kids

@moniccaarora7042

6 ай бұрын

​@@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal🌹🌹🙏

Ek laute bete hona per jo guzarti hai uss se zyada mushkil ek lauti bahu hona hai

How did you overcome your illness?

You said right as if someone is misbehaving the other person needs to tell. Like my mother-in-law was used to to bother me a lot but my father-in-law never said anything to her. Once we were going to her daughter’s house and suddenly she started to said my neighbor was asking your daughter in law is visiting oh she is so skinny and thin, then my husband said she is not good herself my mother-in-law started to scold him that since you got married you are very bitter even she was saying wrong but my father-in-law didn’t say anything to her. So many times she was openly wrong but he never said anything to her. Personally he was a quite nice man but in that matter I blamed him that he should correct her that time.

My parents were always united in terms of parenting. So my sister and I felt as if we were brought up by two strangers/ step parents. Although both were very good human beings and their love for eachother was way beyond my description. My father had the last say on every matter. We knew at times mom did not agree with him but she never protested. I was sad then ( not talking about my sister as she may have her own opinion) Now that I am married with 2 kids my husband is just the opposite. He never ever supports me when I correct my children. So our relationship has became a little weird . The children love their father undoubtedly , more than me as they feel their dad will do anything and everything for them.( In terms of supporting them and otherwise also) He is blind to their flaws as well. What did I get from this life? I wonder !! I am very frank and friendly with my children but I don't shy away calling a spade a spade. Thankfully both my children have grown up to be good human beings. But my grievance with my husband will remain as I was lonely ( in terms of parental support) before marriage and nothing changed after marriage.

sir aap bilkul sahi bolte hai par solution kya hai mujhe apna munn kah kaam krna hai par mere gharwale izzat or emotional krke mujhe mere sapno se durr krhe bohut kuch hai mehne life ki har cheez akele phase krli par iss cheez meh atak gya kya krun solution sir?

Waiting for the dog to come and ask for petting

1st at last,,,, within 10 minutes

Are u kannadiga?? Your hindi is too good

Sir mujhe raat ko need nahi ati mere parents mere sath nahi rehte mai relatives ke sath rehta hu mujhe yaha rehna bilkul acha nahi lagta. Please ispe koi video banaiye ki isse deal kaise kare.

@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal

6 ай бұрын

Theek hai

@ninanani4085

6 ай бұрын

उनके साथ क्यूं नही रहते

@Cypherx444

6 ай бұрын

@@ninanani4085 padhai karta hu issiliye 🥺

@thetoothtutorr

6 ай бұрын

Try sleep meditation videos by micheal sealey

@peengoo

4 ай бұрын

Aghhh I can relate with you. I was in your situation. Today they are your host , tomorrow you'll be their host. This loop will never end. If you don't like to live with them , please opt another solution... soon. Hostel, PG or something else. Try to be good in your career path and become financially independent soon.

Sir please make q video on narcissistic parents

I’m an only child and it’s always been this way it’s them vs me

can u make a vlog of ur parents i think its a love marriage during 1960s ....... interesting to compare with todays dating etc 🤔🤔🤔

@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal

6 ай бұрын

Sure, will talk about it.

Naxal????

@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal

6 ай бұрын

Yeah

@vedantchandila1398

6 ай бұрын

@@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal I respect your truth sir

Sir make a video on how to lose friendship with the parent

@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal

6 ай бұрын

Why would you want to lose friendship with the parent?

@olive0eyes0

6 ай бұрын

@@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal dono or ek narcissistic parents hoga

ಗಳಸ್ಯ ಕಂಠಸ್ಯ == गलस्य कंठस्य , यानी चड्डी दोस्त जैसा बराताव

But what your parents has done is good for family system

Sir karvi bolne wala ohh mahila ka antim kaise huaa 🙄🙄🙄

@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal

6 ай бұрын

Bahut bura

Krishnaraj is fed up with life. Life is not cake walk. Family is most beautiful secure way and fulfilling for all members development. Krish is hiding something which he is unable to express.

@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal

6 ай бұрын

The secrets I am hiding are safely buried under the famous Statue of Unity in Gujarat. If you dig under the statue, you will find all those things. There is a treasure waiting for you there. Now take a spade and leave immediately😂

@Thecooltransition

6 ай бұрын

Balwan not everyone has a good family life. You must have read the quote from Leo Tolstoy “Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way” There is so much mental trauma inflicted on kids by elders and this needs to be exposed so that future generations don’t suffer

@damn7637

6 ай бұрын

​@@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal💀 bro