She puts zero effort to look nice for her boyfriend, but puts maximum effort to look nice for strangers...RED FLAG!

@steevehoyoufat9155

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@BryceLarenz

3 жыл бұрын

Her boyfriend is probably a slob, just like she is.

@GoddessGalaxy

3 жыл бұрын

Yes she very awkward and that makes no sense your man should matter more than being on TV. It says a lot about her and what she values.

@thematrix2661

3 жыл бұрын

Thing is she is funny if she know how to take care of herself her husband would be happy instead he is pondering

@DailyThingsInLife

3 жыл бұрын

She's with a beta male, so that's why she doesn't put any efforts

The girl in the purple is the type to drag her friend away from you in the club when you're trying to flirt lol 😂

@ZackSuru

3 жыл бұрын

Definetely 😂

@Ludavelli

3 жыл бұрын

Utter facts yeet

@Wgz945

3 жыл бұрын

Yupp the big bruiser in the crew

@ericjohnson9356

3 жыл бұрын

you got that right""""

@curtisstones9628

3 жыл бұрын

You're a 100% right

"Men are out here just trying to get to know women and they call it sexual assault" You have no idea how much this hits home. I was talking to a girl who approached me for about 2 or 3 months just casual conversation and the next thing I know I was being called into the office at work being accused of god only knows what and being told I need to stop asking her out.... I never once asked her out and for the past week prior I was dealing with some personal issues and staying to myself barely talking to her. I was like what the actual fuck. Because I stop talking to you, you get mad and pull that shit? Thankfully there are cameras all over my work or I could have lost my job.

@colbalt95

2 жыл бұрын

I'm guessing nothing happened to her and charges were dropped.

@TheNatfrog

2 жыл бұрын

@@colbalt95 Nothing happened to her but to be frank nothing happened to me. Multiple people got involved without me even asking and my manager even told me he had the final say so in the matter and had seen her approaching me not even 2 days prior to say hi. It's shameful because I consider myself a nice guy so I already know I'm "disadvantaged" in the dating relm but several years ago I decided to basically go MGTOW. I flat out refuse to ask females out anymore and honestly, I sometimes get lonely but the vast majority of the time I'm happier than I have ever been.

@Lucifurion

2 жыл бұрын

@TheNatfrog I love being a MGTOW. It got so exhausting constantly dealing with exactly the same type of woman that I just ended up quitting the search for someone. The relief I felt afterwards was absolute bliss & I haven't looked back in years.

@gregs2143

2 жыл бұрын

False accusations are very damaging and illegal in many cases. Please tell me she was fired.

@JMO_8111

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheNatfrog what you mean to be frank ain't nothing happened to you?...well ain't shit was supposed to happen to you especially if you say that you didn't do anything,but she should've got in trouble because the system let women do as they please so they can lie on a man whenever they want and the guy will get in trouble and lucky for you there was cameras because of there wasn't you would've gotten in trouble and all you can say is to be frank

It's always the unattractive women that say, "I don't feel that I should have to dress up (or look nice)."

The look of disgust on Steve Harvey’s face when she said this is the best she’s looked in a year 😂🤣😂

@ericjoel5363

2 жыл бұрын

Imagine not “trying” to look good for your boyfriend but you dress up for total strangers 💀 and she still fails to look good lmao

@poriccrompton

2 жыл бұрын

@@ericjoel5363 that’s an oooof

@CeeDoubleU

2 жыл бұрын

@@poriccrompton big OOF

@poriccrompton

2 жыл бұрын

@@CeeDoubleU massive OOOOF!!!

@s.tanh9818

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭

"I don't care how I look, it's my mind and personality that matters" then dresses up for tv to impress people. Got it

@kiwiproductions4510

2 жыл бұрын

Not to mention her mind and personality seem a bit repulsive to me.

@jhb1493

2 жыл бұрын

Great point - and you just made me click mentally that this was her version of "dressed up". Like when the potato sack is made out of the nice, extra fancy burlap.

@hrrspaul4

2 жыл бұрын

Wow on point 🎯

@IsraelCountryCube

2 жыл бұрын

*She actually does care how she looks but no for her boyfriend but for her female egotistical narcissistic character trait that usually females contain so her saying her mind and personality is a lie and she only cares that she looks good for humans she doesn’t know because she’s socially nervous to not dress good around other humans but she doesn’t produce the effort to better her relationship with her boyfriend*

@BlackChrishi

2 жыл бұрын

my point exactly... the reality is that probably 90% of why we look good or want to look good is for other people. even that little bit that's for ourselves is due to how we perceive ourselves based on the overriding/impacting perspective we consciously or unconsciously adhere to in our lives (i.e the "confidence she mentioned) it's a big cap to say I dress a certain way just for myself, like the exposed thighs and cleavage is for my own benefit and not for others to perceive me in an intended way (this isn't a morality pov, it's just logic)

11:12 Steve: "You can't know us in 20 minutes" Woman: "You can't know us in a year" Truth: You don't know them until you divorce them.

“We can’t ever know you” Steve hits hard all the time

She has low self-esteem. She KNOWS she’s not the best looking woman so she’s decided not to try...and she’s pretending that it’s coming from a place of empowerment but it’s really because she’s scared to try and fail.

@TomikaKelly

3 жыл бұрын

Plot twist: there all different types of women who present themselves according to how they want to present themselves. Some women like sweats and others like dresses and neither is necessarily a reflection of their self esteem.

@liveandlearn4445

3 жыл бұрын

You don't *have* to have low self-esteem to not want to dress for other ppl where did you get that idea. Sure it's possible but it doesn't have to be the case.

@zubileegluckgluck

3 жыл бұрын

@@TomikaKelly plot twist: We can all see what she looks like, and hear how lazy she is about her image, as well as her obnoxious defensiveness about it all.

@RaffineDebauche

3 жыл бұрын

@@TomikaKelly Plot Twist: I understood all of that BEFORE I wrote my comment...and I STILL stand by what I said. Thanks for womansplaining tho.

@TheChadShow9

2 жыл бұрын

🎯

I like Juanita's response. "I want to bless my husband by looking beautiful."

@ngozijones5697

2 жыл бұрын

the only time woman and blessing fit in the same sentence. some of them feel they are the prize, she keeps reminding him that he won it

@proudexmuslim2354

2 жыл бұрын

@@ngozijones5697 they can be prize but not all of them can be.

@proudexmuslim2354

2 жыл бұрын

@Blinded Fate yes

@KP-hi1om

2 жыл бұрын

That's why she is married and the lying girl in the purple isn't. She sounds desparate "wanna make out". I bet her dude is low quality and likely very bitchlike.

@huntercarey2667

2 жыл бұрын

She's a real one.

she is the literal equivalent of "God, if you can't make me skinny, please make all my friends big"

When he said “oh we know” 😂 IM DEAD

@SouthsideSTA

Жыл бұрын

Deceased 😂😂

"Women live in this world of how it should be and not what it is" nailed it there 👌

@jhb1493

2 жыл бұрын

100% agree - except I'd just say "as they want it to be", not "as it should be".

@thatbooknerdoverthere7899

2 жыл бұрын

That doesn't even make sense... it's the other way round: men live in a world where they want the women to be like dolls 24/7... but that will never happen because we're not talking about dolls, women are people and they're not bound to be sexy 24/7 for a man 🤷‍♀ esp if the man in contrary is a slob and unkempt all the time... no person can be sexy all the time

@MrSPIDEY21

2 жыл бұрын

@Trøüt no because “how it should be” means how it’s supposed to be…that’s completely different to “what they want it to be”

@bujharvard9313

2 жыл бұрын

@@thatbooknerdoverthere7899 Not at all. Women refuse to accept simple truths about men, people and the world in general. For example, a woman dresses in sexy, revealing clothing, then expects not to be ogled by men (well, men she doesn't find attractive anyway). Completely illogical. A woman denies her boyfriend or husband sex, but thinks he's some kind of monster if he goes and gets it elsewhere. In her perfect little fantasy world, her man is a slave to her poon. I once told my female friend "Everyone would be much happier if women understood and accepted that all (straight) men like to look at naked ladies." She immediately snapped "Unacceptable!" and stormed off. A simple failure, nay, an unwillingness to accept and adapt to that truth. Men may not understand WHY women are the way they are, but we understand THAT they are the way they are, and we operate within that system. Women simply refuse to accept the way men are, and so they make things difficult for all.

@Lucas-dd1se

2 жыл бұрын

@@jhb1493 i agree with u i guess

As a stay at home wife, I look as sexy as I can at home for my husband. I don't leave home looking crazy out of self respect and to represent my husband.

@emmalou9067

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!!! You are the first person I have hurd mention about being a representation of our husbands! This point seems to be lost. I'm not big into dressing up and tbh didn't own a dress till last Yr🤦‍♀️ but I try my best to look as good as I can for him. Same as making sure your night wear is decent. I'm not talking about overly sexual or all out.... But not stained ripped and disorganised. Totally agree xx

@josea.3763

2 жыл бұрын

That’s why you’re married. 👏🏾

@RealYRM

2 жыл бұрын

It's odd in this day and age to even find a woman who spends time thinking about what she brings to the relationship, or what she can do to improve things. While no relationship is perfect, when my wife puts in effort, I try to reward that to show her that I appreciate her. When I put in effort, she does the same. It makes the relationship better. Good for you.

@ms.helpmeet4753

2 жыл бұрын

@@emmalou9067 absolutely girl!

@ms.helpmeet4753

2 жыл бұрын

@@josea.3763 🎉 right!

You're right on with the women wanting the world as they think it "should" be. I want what I want, without effort or ownership or consequence - anything else is patriarchy and toxic masculinity. Given the amount of constant reinforcement female entitlement gets from the media, movies, novels and social norms, it's kind of shocking they aren't WORSE. As for the sack of potatoes, good for her. She got herself a man with little effort and a bad attitude. I'm sure he's worth having, and I'm sure it will last.

@XXgenderloveXY

Жыл бұрын

😆

"If you're gonna judge me on my looks, no. Sorry. Swipe left." Anyone else catch that?

She said, she's the one who made the move. Of course you did. Cute women don't have to make any first move.

Purple girl definitely picks up drunk men at the Bar lol

@suntan4538

3 жыл бұрын

😂🥴

@chasefreedom5178

3 жыл бұрын

And when he awakes his trama is real. A hangover + getting himself out of here without her waking.

@MrHairyballs13

3 жыл бұрын

She is a hand grenade

@abigailslade3824

3 жыл бұрын

Physically picks them up and hauls them home

@billywilliams4183

2 жыл бұрын

Beer goggles on 🍻

“A lot of men don’t want to approach women anymore because we don’t know if we can do that anymore” that hit home. Women today have their signals everywhere. I don’t go up to females anymore because they like to waste time. Here’s my follow and here’s my dead-job interview-like personality. Best advice men, travel outside the country. Best relationships and female friendships I’ve had were from girls that lives outside of America. Being humble comes a long way.

I tried wearing a suit for a week to see how the affects benefited me. I got complements and a level of respect from my peers and those around me. Looks matter.

Women - "i don't care how I look, it shouldn't matter how I look" Same Women - "how come I don't get high value men"

Did you notice ? It's never the pretty slim ones thinking that... It's the ones who know they already lost the genetic lottery. And that voice ... come on. Not pleasant to look at , not pleasant to listen to...but still entitled and deserving to get a ring from Bruce Wayne but want to wear flip flop and sweat pants.

@nlytend1

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@DLloyd-bb4wk

3 жыл бұрын

Easy on the eyes. Easy on the ears. That’s the first test lol

@TheAoussa

3 жыл бұрын

"They lost the genetic lottery" ahahahahahahahaahaha sir you just made my day. Thank you

@logic3730

3 жыл бұрын

Bingo

@ZackSuru

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheAoussa 😁

I'm confident that the female in the purple looks like a football player. We were watching a Raspushah moment when she was in the sandbox telling Norbit; Come own', you my boyfriend now. That was her at the bar. 🤣👈👀. 🤦🏿👈👀. GoldProfessor

"I don't care how I look, it's my mind and personality that matters" She's got a point. But here's the thing. I cannot know your mind and personality when i first lay eyes on you. There is no sign saying "faithful wife, has great sense of humor, likes to cook, can actually cook quite decent, not argumentative....and so on" These character traits i literally cannot see when walking up to you for the first time. all i have is my visual impression of you. first you are some kind of blob in my field of vision, then that blob gets a certain shape when i get closer, then the rather unimpressive shape becomes more...shapely and interesting. and then i start to actively notice you. then i notice little details about you. because now you got my attention. not just as a potential obstacle in my way or potential threat. but as a fellow human being. and then i start noticing more and more, maybe even things i like. the more things i like i find on you the more i think you are attractive. reach a certain threshold and i will come up to you and start a conversation. and THEN i get more interested in your mind and personality. because that will not spark my attraction and interest in you, but KEEP IT. now, let's say that quote actually was true, let me ask you this. Why is it, that when going out on formal functions the males dress up in (more or less) bland/generic suit and tie - like the first guy did - and the females dress up flamboyantly, with makeup, facy dress, heels, all the works? if it's the personality and mind that matters and not the looks? so who are you trying to peacock to? Me? yourself??? you know who you are, so no need to impress yourself. other men? other women??? If looks aren't important then why are you comparing yourself to the latest supermodel? why is there beauty standards and who sets them?

@andreasessa1168

Жыл бұрын

"I don't care how i look" is the biggest lie in history. One can have "the best personality", (or better say "the personality which better suits you", because "best personality" means nothing) but if he/she looks like a freaking monster nobody is willing to have a long and stable relationship with (unless he/she looks like a monster too). At the end of the day (or better, of the night) you will get up from bed behind somebody you can't even look in the face, for the rest of your life, and nobody wants it. This is why we want in our houses and even kiss cats and dogs, but nobody (not mentally disturbed) would kiss Cockroaches. This is the reality, and if she doen't like it, well, she can live forever in the world of fantasy until it lasts.

I'm married and stay at home mom. I shave my legs everyday, workout, wear real clothes everyday, put on my makeup, and fix my hair. It's those little things that your husband will appreciate. It also keeps the days from melding together and getting frumpy.

@Va13chka

2 жыл бұрын

You can laser or wax it will be less burden to do it everyday. Shaved legs get prickly too fast it drives me nuts.

@leedave9314

2 жыл бұрын

Good for you, it’s good for yourself and your husband. Effort goes a mile and a half both ways

@HeyItsChuanTe

2 жыл бұрын

Excatly,I as well 👍🏾

@SayMyName316

2 жыл бұрын

Your a housewife..? What's a stay at home mom

@leedave9314

2 жыл бұрын

@@SayMyName316 💯

So she’s not naturally physically attractive, doesn’t make the effort, has a terrible voice AND has a high body count? Who the hell wife’d her? Damn...

@simbaABR

3 жыл бұрын

Some desperate ass nigga.

@damienkirksey7026

3 жыл бұрын

A simp

@RW2996

3 жыл бұрын

I guarentee he is not a great catch.

@williamadolphe7921

2 жыл бұрын

She claims that he is her boyfriend. a) i doubt he thinks that he is. b) he is looking for and/or seeing others already.

@isadorealire5722

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, we all saw the movie Misery with Kathy Bates.

Its always been the opposite for me, like a girl could be raggedy and in pjs and walk the street and probably ask 2-3 people and find a date, a dude looking bad trying to get a date will be maced and put on a sex offender registry😂😂

@gr33ndr3am8

Жыл бұрын

Facts

I really appreciate you keeping it real, that's why I watch your videos. We all need to have these conversations and be alright with being uncomfortable and not just saying the "nice" things

Just off the top....but did you look Steve gave after she said this is the nicest I've looked all year!!!! LMAO 😂😂😂😂

"Because confidence is sexy" Facepalm, there women go again trying to tell men what we like. +What she calls a confident woman usually means bchy with a bad attitude.

@rollinOnCode

3 жыл бұрын

exactly

@BloodofEli

3 жыл бұрын

*fat

@derfalschejunge

3 жыл бұрын

She's just projecting what women find attractive in men on men.

@Kingepticon

2 жыл бұрын

Bingo

@UnitedPacci

2 жыл бұрын

She only said that because she has been rejected a lot. I know a fat girl like her who also is never looked at but her friends (women) who look much better and hot always get male attention and compliments. Clearily she is sour and started to use these arguments like looks dont matter it's all about the inside. I notice either ugly women or fat girls saying that. Trying to get beautiful women to hate men or to be on her level😂😂

"When I met my boyfriend, I'm the one who made the move." "Oh, we know." Man, that got me good.

I think it is also how you were raised. I was raised more casually than my husband, so he was more likely to wear a button shirt instead of a t-shirt when we went somewhere. I was more likely to wear t-shirt and jeans UNLESS we were going someplace where dressing nicer was expected. He gradually became more casual and I gradually became a little dressier. We were married nearly 52 years and never worried about or commented on how the other was dressed because we observed the social expectations in our culture.

I have never heard a man describe confidence as sexy unprovoked. Ladies, YOU find confidence sexy. Men don’t really give af as long as you aren’t so insecure you can’t stay faithful.

@klove5974

3 жыл бұрын

You know what? Wow, come to think of it I don't know any who has.

@simonsays5193

3 жыл бұрын

I've also never heard a guy say they care about what job a woman has or their degree or income lol.

@ngozijones5697

2 жыл бұрын

@@simonsays5193 yup, only career a guy actually cares about is if she's a gymnast. That career puts you at the top of most guys list

@Figment-

2 жыл бұрын

All women are insecure or they wouldn't do all the things they do.

@ryankelly9032

2 жыл бұрын

Only if that confidence is accompanied by competence.

"if you don't want to compete, just say that" .... 💯 Bro.

‘We can’t ever know you’ Truest shit right there

Me to my wife: “Why are you getting all dressed up, we’re just going to the dollar store.” My wife: “Because I’m with you and I don’t want to embarrass you.” This is a woman that does her hair, put on dresses and jewelry to sit around the house. I appreciate that.

I'm dropping 70 pounds so I look good for my husband. I want him to be proud of me when we are out. He never said I have to... I do it for him, cuz I love him and I know what he wants.

A married man goes to work for his wife and his family.... but my wife can not dress up for me unless she wants too? 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

@therealsouthernbelles

3 жыл бұрын

Right disrespectful. I would never I appreciate my s/o the least I can do is make sure I look appealing for him. He is Providing for me.

@TomikaKelly

3 жыл бұрын

Chances are she's probably also staying home and taking care of the house and kids or going to work and still taking care of the house, so they can both just wear sweats and call it a night.

@c.o.s_dre888

3 жыл бұрын

@@TomikaKelly I appreciate your explanation.... but her own words... her husband accepted her at her worst and she’s basically bragging about not dressing at all in a year not even for the person who loves her but she dressed up for the Steve Harvey show... you don’t see the disrespect in that?

@TomikaKelly

3 жыл бұрын

@@c.o.s_dre888 Disrespect? For how she wants to dress? No love, I see the entitlement.

@klove5974

3 жыл бұрын

Welcome to the poison that is America.

You nailed it with people, mostly women, always talk about how the world should be and ignore how the world really is.

We're presented with just two options: Looks or personality. How about a 3rd option: BOTH

Thanks for reminding me to keep up my appearances for my boyfriend. He does so much for me. I truly cannot complain. I am going to school full time, so I'm not working. He does and pays for literally everything and pays for getting my hair done like clockwork. The least I can do is keep myself together, physically and emotionally. I'm gonna go put on a dress. Love your videos.

@filetmignon9978

2 жыл бұрын

based on this comment hes a lucky guy :D

@ofalae13

2 жыл бұрын

ill never help a woman the way i have...

@its_MSR

2 жыл бұрын

@@filetmignon9978 she's lucky to have him, she's doing bare minimum while he does everything on his part infact over and above of what he's supposed to do

@MUIDYLANICE

2 жыл бұрын

@@its_MSR you can’t judge a relationship like that saying who is doing their part and going beyond what they have to, the only thing you know about them is that he pays her bills and she’s a full time student who wants to look nice for him, How you can judge off of that exactly what’s “required” in their relationship and how you could judge any relationship as if it’s a business like that I have no clue

@igordasunddas3377

2 жыл бұрын

@Game Rap yes, though people are mostly free to chose their relationships and if he's with her, she must've something to her for him to care that much. And I am sure she has. My wife doesn't always dress up, but she does so every now and then. She also runs the household mostly, which gives me the freedom to concentrate on work, career and income. She will be going for work, too, next year - which might make it more difficult for me, but hopefully better in general. In my opinion helping her level up is great of him, but he doesn't do it entirely without a reason.

She will hit a treadmill the minute she gets dumped. I had a girl once who’s sister had been married for 14 years and had let herself go and they didn’t really have sex anymore. My girl used to say “that’s just how it is when you’ve been together that long” and I told her, “if they split up, she’d be on a treadmill tommorow.” Don’t let your girl get comfortable, or else she will

@theperfectbeing

2 жыл бұрын

I worked as a trainer for years and the amount of women that break down crying during the consultations when asking them about weight gain, impacts on their life, their romantic life, etc is so high its ridiculous (I'd say 90% of them cry). Many of them were the "I don't care what people think about me" types and usually freshly single and as their perspective trainer I had to call them out on that bullshit because if someone is gonna pay you thousands of dollars to low grade torture them into good shape, they better have reasoning upfront and honest so you can plan for them accordingly. Plus the positive feedback is easier to give when they are improving and you can use actual measuring tape/clothes to show them how much better they look after the fact.

@VRDejaVu

2 жыл бұрын

@@theperfectbeing "gonna pay you thousands of dollars to low grade torture them" - Loved it!

@theperfectbeing

2 жыл бұрын

@@VRDejaVu Yeah you get a lot of "Why do hate me, this routine is awful" type texts and "my whole body hurts"

@billyin4c514

2 жыл бұрын

In some ways that's a hard lesson for women, because women can be absolute Rex and still get sexual attention. What they usually won't get is commitment, or attention from high-caliber Men. They can still get good looking dudes though, but it's usually guys that have some kind of personality defect, or they're playing poor

@RLxDRMpG

2 жыл бұрын

@@billyin4c514 or they have some sort of Chubby chaser fetish

Juanita’s a real one. Beauty isn’t a subjective standard. When we try and make it a subjective standard, it’s a part of ruining something that’s very fundamental and that’s always not a good idea.

That cackling landwhale is capping hardcore. She's straight up imagining everything that she said. She didn't walk up to a guy and ask to make out. She's lucky to get a call at midnight for a guy doing a drive by cuz he's been in a drought.

Juanita's response. "I want to bless my husband by looking beautiful." The only time woman and blessing fit in the same sentence. some of them feel they are the prize, she keeps reminding him that he won it

Why is modern feminism so polarizing? You can look good for yourself and men. Feminists treat femininity like it's a chore. My morning routine lifts my spirit and gives me confidence for the day.

@enchantressdch1207

2 жыл бұрын

I think there are many of us like this, but women like the purple dress lady, are often the loudest. She was very overbearing, kept overspeaking, drawing attention to herself to try to sound unique for doing all the things that people don't expect her to do. I am a bit curious about what her BF looks like and how be behaves. I would imagine he is very submissive.

@VRDejaVu

2 жыл бұрын

@@enchantressdch1207 the only thing "unique" about her is that unnatural high pitch that she keeps forcing...

@Dr.Spatula

2 жыл бұрын

Because modern feminism isn't real feminism?

@VRDejaVu

2 жыл бұрын

@@Dr.Spatula it is. Hitler didnt get to power by pointing his exact intentions since the beggining. Same with feminists. Its a slipperu slope

@Dr.Spatula

2 жыл бұрын

@@VRDejaVu lmfao. K, incel

Women are CHOSEN for their looks, men are CHOSEN for their performance 🎭 If a woman's looks drops off or if a man's performance dips to much to long that's when we start looking for another partner.

The stance on this topic changes drastically between two people who are happily together, vs someone single looking for someone. If you're happily together, when that woman or man rolls out of bed looking disheveled wearing only a shirt can be one of the most attractive things you can possibly see, but that is because you know whats under it all already. Clothes AND skin. As for being single, looking good can raise confidence which is also attractive on both sides, but being comfortable with yourself also shows through too. Find the middle ground, but be aware of what you want and want to attract and dress accordingly.

I dated a girl who usually put effort into her appearance for me, but I noticed when she was going out with her girlfriends she always looked nice. I brought it to her attention that didn't appreciate that she seemed to put in more effort when she was going out without me and that she was dressing like she was single. She seemed baffled and slightly offended that it bothered me. She tried to explain to me that I had it all wrong. It was a sign and I was not blind to it, but ignored it because I listened to her. Eventually she broke up with me because she said she didn't feel the same way about us anymore. This was not a surprise to me, since I saw the signs, but was surprising to me is how in denial she was when I called her out on her behavior. Fellas, don't ignore the signs, even if they deny it. Be observant and trust your gut.

@melindapierre6616

2 жыл бұрын

She did you a favor. You ain’t need that kind of selfishness in your life. Let her be single with her single friends. Boss up and watch her try to come back. She an X for a reason

@geeloxoxo2574

2 жыл бұрын

Lol did u wanted her in her pj's while she's going out with her frnds 😅 I'm not judging depends on how she dressed going out with her frnds If it was inappropriate clothes you're right to calling her out but if it was her just looking gd!!! Man that's ur loss tbh Idk if u expected her to solely dress up for u!!! Most women actually dress up to impress other women lol 😆 It would've been a problem if she didn't put effort n look gd to u, n she only dresses up for other ppl!

@CadeTheReaper

2 жыл бұрын

@@geeloxoxo2574 a guy can tell if a girl is dressing to look good and dressing for attention and based on how it sounds she was dressing for attention

@naveenkrishna407

2 жыл бұрын

@@geeloxoxo2574 i dont think he wanted her to go in pajamas either, it depends on the situation

@geeloxoxo2574

2 жыл бұрын

@@CadeTheReaper lol guys are too dense they don't even get the girl trying to get their attention 😂 N as i said "if it was inappropriate yess he's right to call her out but if was just fine then it's his issue " i used "if" cz it's just an assumption based on his story cz i don't knw them obviously

Bruh your face when the fat girl was talking about making out with the dude has me in tears 😂😂😂😂😂

@CamTheStudent

3 жыл бұрын

💀 You right

Thank God I’ve been married for 10yrs. I’d hate to have to deal with all the crap today in the dating scene. Lol.

“I’ll have you know that I made the first move!” “Oh we know.” Lol lol lol.

This is so ridiculous. “As women we have to dress for ourself “ anything to not have to cooperate with her man that’s all that is. I’m tired of women telling men what we should desire and covet😒

@Shaq34332

3 жыл бұрын

Islam bro...

@asiaticman3070

3 жыл бұрын

@@Shaq34332 facts Fam I’m just sayin

@TomikaKelly

3 жыл бұрын

How women you have no relation to dress has nothing to do with you though...

@asiaticman3070

3 жыл бұрын

@@TomikaKelly not directly

@Patrickf5087

3 жыл бұрын

@@TomikaKelly yea they should be able to go to Walmart in a bikini if they want

feminist: I dress half naked only because it make ME feel good me: yeah, it makes you feel good because YOU GET ATTENTION FROM MEN

People in general gravitate toward people who show pride in their appearance and their health. It's evolutionarily prudent to want to be with someone who appears like they can take care of themselves in a variety of ways, including their health, body, and appearance. Trying to buck against that is ridiculous. We all strive to do and be the best we can, and want a partner who does the same. If you personally don't value appearance, or physical fitness, or whatever: fine. But don't try demanding that everyone else follow suit just because YOU think they should.

I'm watching this in December and god damn you've blown up this year! tryna get 40k in may and sitting over a quarter mill by the end of the year. Congrats bro, keep it up

Amen to this! I dress to impress EVERY DAY! I get compliments daily from men and women. What's on the inside is displayed on the outside with my attire and how I carry myself. I have a responsibility to represent my husband well when I go out into the world. My looking good speaks to how he takes care of me. I saw a video where a girl says there is something called "Pretty privilege". Basically saying pretty women should tone it down, so those who are overlooked won't FEEL slighted. People need get healed from their insecurities. Now we are trying to make people feel bad for being beautiful??!! Miss me with that!

@Lasse3

2 жыл бұрын

And Men appreciate you looking good, even if they realize they won't have a shot with you. When a man sees a girl that takes care of herself and as a result looks attractive, he is reminded that he needs to be at his best, because he desires her instinctively. The girl who looks disgusting, won't inspire anyone. But this example can easily be turned around, It goes both ways.

@analyticalhabitrails9857

2 жыл бұрын

The greatest attractive women we can get is according unto the WORD OF THE KING of kings, LORD of lords!!!! HIS WORD gives me chills! 10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. 11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. 12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. 13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. 14 She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar. 15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens. 16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. 17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms. 18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night. 19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff. 20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. 21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet. 22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple. 23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land. 24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant. 25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. 26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. 27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. 28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. 29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. 30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised. 31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.

@IsraelCountryCube

2 жыл бұрын

@@Lasse3 it really goes one way it can’t go both ways. Because females in society will always have men who support their pathethic excuse to be alive and not be good women to men. Men are the ones expected to look good and be better than women.

@John_DoeMusic

Жыл бұрын

Yeah its even more attractive when the woman acknowledges the truth and makes an effort! Kudos to you!

@vilhelmhammershoi3871

Жыл бұрын

Nicely put! What is this 'pretty privilege' crap? Some people are more attractive than others and there is no toning it down. People have got to get a grip.

🤔Ole big girl talking about "I approached my guy" and I think we all collectively said "Yeah we know!" Ain't nobody checking for her like that, confidence or not. She's a PRIME example of why some of them are out here the way they are. There's always some beta (refer to the chad sitting across from them) to pick up the pieces saying "yOu lOoK beAutiFuL juST ThE wAy YoU aRe!" 🥴

@zubileegluckgluck

3 жыл бұрын

I've never, ever heard a man say the words, "I'm so attracted to that woman's confidence." and I damn sure never heard one say, "I don't care how she presents herself." The fact that these women believe this nonsense is bizarre.

@bertha4304

2 жыл бұрын

For the fatties onstage: You're both hotties only at closing time.

@TactiWolf1979

2 жыл бұрын

I've said that before. To makeupless, new word, hot women.

@UnitedPacci

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂🤣

@jhb1493

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Not to be a jerk, but I could not help but think "if I saw a lineup of the male partners of these women, I would 100% be able to pick HER man out."

Damn you are so on point with everything you say. I've watched many of your vids, but today I subscribed. Keep telling the truth and God bless!

Like the song says: "Those buffalo girls go 'round the outside, 'round the outside, 'round the outside"...and should stay there.

Nowadays women dress nice to impress other women.

@TomikaKelly

3 жыл бұрын

Right. Go to any women's brunch or girls trip...

@caltagironeorologi8

3 жыл бұрын

Forever. Women are competitive among themselves. Men, too but in different ways.

@Lurch685

3 жыл бұрын

And for the likes on IG

@AnotherDuck

3 жыл бұрын

Women are generally more critical of women’s appearance than men are, in my experience.

@melanindonnaricca9645

3 жыл бұрын

@@AnotherDuck Lmao this is true. This is why I dress for everyone, but first and foremost my husband and myself. Like the woman in the yellow and the white man in the blue suit said on this video clip *EVERYBODY* is judging how u look make a good impression.

Its amazing how delusional some women are, the man in the purple dress needs a serious reality check.

@chriskirsten8221

3 жыл бұрын

lol

@God_Above_All

2 жыл бұрын

Goddamn.

1. I was often cold-approached while I had no or little makeup. A city park was #1 place I was cold-approached, since I frequented them 3-4 times a week. So, I was usually pony-tailed & in shorts. but, if I agreed to meet the guy later I wore makeup & styled my hair. I think it is important for a woman, in the beauty of youth, to be comfortable being seen without makeup. I think men sense this & agree there is something wrong with being too made up. 2. When I was a stay-at-home mom with a newborn, I hated my grubbiness. My husband would never complain--out loud or inner thoughts. He understood it was hard times for me. I was very pleased when I was able to find the energy & time to get the haircut, put on makeup, & wear attractive, but simple, clothes.

Good point about dressing for strangers and not the boyfriend.

"I approached him". That's all I needed to hear. Her boyfriend shaves his legs and his favorite color is pink.

@ricflair4052

3 жыл бұрын

Pink Under Wear u mean? hahahahah

@suntan4538

3 жыл бұрын

7:55 exactly.

@BlankxxPage

3 жыл бұрын

Bro, I look good in pink but I wouldn't date that purple girl if I was blind and I'm half blind.

@BronzeLincolns81

3 жыл бұрын

@@BlankxxPage I'm sure her guy thinks the same.

@jacquil6718

3 жыл бұрын

And he probably pees sitting down.

“Men fall in love with their eyes - they like what they see - and women fall in love with their ears - they like what they hear!” ~Zsa Zsa Gabor

@christopherjoyce9788

2 жыл бұрын

Little outdated

@jacquil6718

2 жыл бұрын

@@christopherjoyce9788 But nonetheless true. Times change, human nature, not so much.

@TurboSke

Жыл бұрын

@@jacquil6718 The players change, not the game.

@jacquil6718

Жыл бұрын

@@TurboSke The players change, but human nature does not.

Those HBO moments really do work. Your content is so refreshing and well spoken, that HBO reflection had me logging in to subscribe.

The “we know” after she said, that she made the move on the guy, killed me 😂

My girlfriend tried to push this narrative with me. I told her that she will be LEFT AT THE CRIB, if she refuses to dress up when we go out.

Even the crowd left her when she proudly said “ I made the move “ 🤣😭, they picked up on her desperation

@eddiejackson1566

2 жыл бұрын

50 bucks he live in his mom's basement

@analyticalhabitrails9857

2 жыл бұрын

Ouch.

@trapnupe1911

2 жыл бұрын

"Oh, we know." 🤣🤣🤣☠

@kingvic2015

Жыл бұрын

@@eddiejackson1566 .

@johndough8199

Жыл бұрын

Fat girls need to be freaks, or they won't get none. It's just the facts.

“We can’t ever know you” that’s real talk Steve!!!💯

Lol. This guy in a Nike hat and a sports shirt shaking his head in agreement at "you should always dress to impress".

This video finally shown up on my feed. My wife of going on 10 years is a tomboy through and through and I absolutely love her for that. Time to time she will dress up to make herself feel pretty and Damn every time she does it reminds me it makes my heart flutter. Everyday I trim, shave, stay clean for myself as well as for Her. Hell, I even exercise to keep my weight healthy and to her ideals to make her happy.

@IsraelCountryCube

2 жыл бұрын

Don’t think she’s a “tomboy” to impress you I know of females dressing as males as degenerates. It’s not appealing to me. You see males wearing clothes that are for females as morally correct? For me to know females wear clothing belongs to males is the same and stupid. A kink is what it is No difference. Can’t respect anyones existences when I see that woman are allowed to wear clothing that doesn’t belong to the female sex that she has been born as. It’s disgusting and it’s not my opinion it’s fact.

@thatbooknerdoverthere7899

2 жыл бұрын

@@IsraelCountryCube "degenerates" omg just shut up caveman lol

@gigachad4247

Жыл бұрын

@@IsraelCountryCube You know what else isn't morally correct ? Bombing children to conquer their father's land.

@seneysrey989

Жыл бұрын

@@IsraelCountryCube That's still an opinion, you can't make it a fact because you want it to be wanker.

@geofftottenperthcoys9944

Жыл бұрын

@@IsraelCountryCube Let me guess, religious?

You can tell she doesn't care about her appearance and doesn't want to invest the time, energy or exercise

@BlackPRanger

3 жыл бұрын

If she’s not trying @24 imagine what that poor guy is gonna have to deal w/in 10 years

@kenshinhimura9387

2 жыл бұрын

@@BlackPRanger she's 24? I thought she was at least 40....

@Evil-Rod-Farva

2 жыл бұрын

On the bright side if the dude she’s dating marries her, he has no fat grenade to worry about.

@scoobydoo4242

2 жыл бұрын

@@Evil-Rod-Farva yea it already went off before he got there

It really made me feel weird when my wife used to be dressed sharp for work, come home a get into her pajamas. I said it sure would be nice to see you in your nice clothes for dinner. She actually said, ok I’ll keep them on until after dinner, and that made me feel special. I gave her tons of compliments too. I have always dressed nice for my wife, and stayed in shape. She really appreciates me for that, and that makes me feel good too. She showers me with complements and that’s awesome too. It’s easy after several years of marriage (28 for me), to forget that it’s never too late to dress to impress. It seems like dinner dates.

I like the premise of the thumbnail: "Feminist" vs. "Logic". And that sums it up.

When my girl gets dolled up and looking good when we go out I love it. When she looks good my confidence goes up. When my confidence goes up she likes it.

lol i bet you if you see that lady in purple today shes added 50 pounds more and is now single but obviously she decided she wanted to be and now is in a relationship with a cat named peggy.

@BHanif1996

3 жыл бұрын

Or the guy she's with is a beta.

@lm3729

3 жыл бұрын

That’s a dumb cat name

The one quote said it all: “If I don’t feel like putting on a dress for him, I’m not going to.” It isn’t about the dress, it’s about the fact that whenever it’s about doing something just for him…forget about it! Everyone in the audience is either insecure or hypocritical; they all got dressed up for the camera and others.

my girl said to me same few years ago(my life my choice type shit..) so i started looking bad when ever i am with her(calling it my life my choice...), and that made her realize the truth.....( it won't have ever worked if she wouldn't be in love for me, in that case she might've left me for my looks)

"I should be able to do nothing and expect the world to treat me the same." -these broads

@Blobby192

2 жыл бұрын

feminism also "i should be given jobs and titles i didnt earn because im strong and independent(needy)"

I was once told by the 80 year old man next door "If you look good FOR her and you're giving her your best you're telling her that she's worth it, that true for her too." If she doesn't even try to look good for you she doesn't value YOU enough. She's looking fine on her way to work I bet.

@sandrakay287

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, like slap on that makeup. Put on yoga pants, most women look good in them if they’re not in a dress. Men can’t appreciate nothing if you’re in sweatpants and looking like you just rolled out of bed

@mypud4068

2 жыл бұрын

@@sandrakay287 very true but there is quite a lot of women that get offended and actually don’t feel like they need to dress up because then men can only “objectify” them more. I’ll never forget at a bar one time like 10 years ago this girl had unbelievable cleavage showing and we were talking totally calm and it was pleasant and she drunkenly snapped out of nowhere for staring at her chest which I actually wasn’t I mean I absolutely saw it you couldn’t not haha but that scarred me for awhile, you never know what if even saying hello to them will be a problem, it hasn’t happened to me but I’ve seen guys gets called creepy or looked at real weird just for a simple hi. Not all women are that way I know it just seems like it’s the whole feminist movement that has told women they shouldn’t put up with a guy who is only interested in yours looks when that’s the first thing we see and is why we come up to you in the first place, idk why I just ranted lol sorry I obviously needed to get something out

@sandrakay287

2 жыл бұрын

@@mypud4068 nah, you’re right. Heck yeah, the first thing everyone notices is how you look. Regardless of gender. Let’s be real. If you don’t find me attractive, then why would I want you around saying how ugly I am? That wouldn’t be a happy place. If a guy looks at my cleavage, I don’t care. I’ll continue talking. Now if the guy is brain dead while looking at cleavage, I’ll say “hey, are you ok? Did you hear what I said? I can zip up my sweater if they’re that much of a distraction. Talk to me.” Simple as that. I hate when women go off on men, as if we don’t stare at them like a piece of meat too. We all appreciate looking at someone we find attractive. My man can think of me as a hot piece of ass and respect me too. It’s not an either or thing. I’m more modestly dressed in a relationship because I don’t want to draw any unwanted attention. Case by case basis The girls that yell at you, run! Run from those women cause they’re single for a reason and if they’re doing that for every little thing…there is no winning.

@mypud4068

2 жыл бұрын

@@sandrakay287 i think I'm in love! lol, but exactly and I really felt like she and other girls that do get offended by it must be looking for trouble because then why would you wear a shirt that leaves very little to the imagination, I'm certain I have drunkenly stared that way but it was always at girls I already knew and I knew they that im just drinking otherwise I am extremely mindful not to do that just out of respect. I also appreciate you acknowledge it works the other way around to, of course im 100% making stereotyping but its just generally it doesn't bother men as much

@sandrakay287

2 жыл бұрын

@@mypud4068 as long as nobody is slapping people’s asses, looking doesn’t matter. If you noticed, I said people. I saw a male security guard get groped by some women. It was disgusting. I told those ladies to act right. They were all like twice my age and acting like idiots. I apologized to the security guard on their behalf. He said no woman has ever spoken up for him and he’s groped and women slap his ass daily. That’s disgusting. That’s where the line should be drawn. Just don’t mind those people that want to start problems where there are some. We need to focus on the real problems.

I feel more confident when I make an effort in my appearance even just to go to the office or to go out with the girls etc. it’s called respecting yourself. I want to look my best whether it’s for someone or myself. It feels good

The purple chick lost me as soon as she started belting out "HYUCK HYUCK HYUCK HYUCK."

11:16 "We can't ever know you." That's a pearl of wisdom there Steve! 👏

A true story about dressing nice when going out even to a grocery store. This happened back in the 1980s. My mother was getting ready for the day when her sister-in-law called her and asked her if she wanted to go with her shopping. She just needed a few things from the drug store. My Mother told her she was still getting ready. Literally had curlers still in her hair. My aunt told her it wouldn't matter they were only going out for a minute. She put a veil over her head to hide the curlers and went out with my aunt. And they went to the drug store. So why am I telling you this story? Because while my mother and aunt were shopping, the drug store was doing a promotional. Photographers and all. My mother and aunt ended up on the front of the advertisement material that was later publically released. Mom was embarrassed as hell. Dad got a good chuckle out of it. I don't think she ever left the house again without touching up her beauty routine first.

@jhb1493

2 жыл бұрын

I can't remember who it was - one of the great Hollywood Beauties - Ava Gardner, maybe? Anyhow, I remember reading some advice from her for women - she said dress well and be put together even if you are just taking a bag out to the bins - because you NEVER know who you might see, or what might happen. Do you have to have flawless makeup and an amazing outfit all the time? Clearly not - but make an effort, and make it part of your routine. This is just like telling people "dress for the job you want".

I’m glad that one of the few societal leeway’s we get is that we just have to look clean and tidy.

Bro said,” Oh we know” lmao

Who gave these busted pillsbury biscuit cans microphones?

@CloseCash

3 жыл бұрын

AYOOOOOOOOOOO lmaoooo

@bagofrats3464

2 жыл бұрын

The simp steve

The narcissistic tendencies in that woman in the purple is mind blowing

@chefboiardeeznutz9881

3 жыл бұрын

The exact kind of woman to pump and dump. That simple.

@ashishdas1696

2 жыл бұрын

@@chefboiardeeznutz9881 no thank you. I am good.

@rizkiramadhan9266

2 жыл бұрын

Woman? She doesn't deserve to be called that

@rizkiramadhan9266

2 жыл бұрын

That specimen is such a mistake that God Himself abandoned her when He made her and let an intern in Heaven haphazardly assemble her and throw her half-baked tmr of a body on Earth.

@rizkiramadhan9266

2 жыл бұрын

Also KZread is retarded for censoring comments

That's one of the most rage inducing voices ever.

First time I see your reaction and I must say - you are on point. Very impressed.

She has the nerve to say she made out with boyfriend and was the pursuer. I know he’s a beta and a simp. Great video.

Best line I've heard in a long time. "If you're ugly, you're ugly. Stop talking about inner beauty. Men don't walk around with xray glasses that can see inner beauty."

Steve’s body language sitting next to the big purple nurple speaks volumes. He wants away from that noise.

Girl in purple can’t think outside of her own experiences.

Disguising laziness for "confidence" is the same reason she's overweight.

@Kratos-of-Winterfell

3 жыл бұрын

Yup. But she’s strong and confident though😂

@TomikaKelly

3 жыл бұрын

Confidence is what you feel most comfortable in. If that's a miniskirt then so be it. If that's sweats then so be it. In the absence of a medical condition, she's overweight because she consumes more calories than she burns. Even if she isn't "lazy" her weight will depend on caloric consumption. That being said, everyone should do what makes them happy.

Bruh. While she bragging about not looking good for you. While cleaning up for Steve. Pack up, grab your R2 unit and take the escape pod.

@rollinthunder8671

3 жыл бұрын

Beep boop

I wanted to hear Steve's inner monologue when she said she approached her boyfriend. That look he gave was 🤣

When a woman tries to look good for her man, it makes her man feel wanted. It's that effort that in itself is an important spark to maintain. It adds to the overall flame and HELPS to keep the relationship alive.