When Less is More

Minimalism isn't built on the idea that we should just get rid of stuff. Rather, it is a fundamental mind shift that be releasing physical things, emotional baggage, and more, we actually add to our lives in ways that are hard to ignore. Today, we will look at 10 simple ways Less is More in our lives.
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  • @travelwithxavier
    @travelwithxavier25 күн бұрын

    So true less is more and when you get older you start to see it much clearer .

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    23 күн бұрын

    😊😊

  • @christianjenkinson1779
    @christianjenkinson177921 күн бұрын

    I’m a 49yo Aussie having constant thoughts about who am I, what have I got to show for all these years after failed businesses etc etc… I found myself glued to your video, there was so much simple, useful information which I found intriguing. Intriguing in its simplicity, I now realise I have a beautiful wife, 2 gorgeous adult daughters and a best mate in my 15yo son, I actually have everything! Thanks for helping me see it.

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @kristinvenable842
    @kristinvenable842Ай бұрын

    “It’s coffee people” 😂😂😂

  • @sct4040

    @sct4040

    Ай бұрын

    So true.

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    Ай бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @marciabyram6003

    @marciabyram6003

    Ай бұрын

    Yep, I can only drink decaf and that is maybe once a week. I don't miss caffeine a bit. ☕

  • @amritabhattacharyya4882

    @amritabhattacharyya4882

    25 күн бұрын

    😅

  • @kristiflores9758
    @kristiflores9758Ай бұрын

    Hi Tim - thank you for your channels & honest look at your life, inspiring & insightful. Soo.. I have never related more to any post than this one. Last year with my 60th looming & after being a widow for 5 years I made some drastic changes that I now realize was a quest for simplicity. I shed the extra 80 lbs (via keto) I’d been dragging around for most of my adult life, quit the now soul sucking job I’d had for 10 years & treated myself to 6 month semi retirement to figure out who I am NOW. I realized yesterday when I went to pick out a top for a date today, 1 of my options is now 4 sizes too big, has a loud print & deep v neck. It’s now headed for the resale shop. My choice for the date fits the simplicity that now is my life. A black Old Navy T shirt with rouched sides & a scoop neckline & jeans with simple, meaningful jewelry. The life I was looking for is Simplicity. It is my jam now in ways it has never been, with my mental outlook, body, new boyfriend & future employment. I now live simply & flow on my own kayak that’s on my own river instead of following the masses. 😊

  • @user-mh9kz3ty2u

    @user-mh9kz3ty2u

    Ай бұрын

    I so enjoy your videos. I am very - very - old and live alone and now have the simple life I love. I have many happy memories of my marriage, young children and holidays but love just being at home now. I too get up early (but not as early as you!) and have my main meal in the early afternoon - and that is it. I try to drink plenty of water (and enjoy my coffee). Eating early means I always sleep well and am ready for the day (especially if the sun is shining!). As you are still very young! just stick at what you are doing; my advice would be to eat smaller portions (a smaller dinner plate) and do eat fruit too.

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

    😊

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

    😊

  • @Michelle-bw1xg

    @Michelle-bw1xg

    Ай бұрын

    Your comment is truly inspirational to me, thank you for making the post. I never married but older, have 80 lbs to lose and in a job over 10 yrs that is shortening my life with stress and overwork. Burdened with high housing costs. I too am seeking simplicity, yet to take action on some things but planning my path to a freer and simpler life. Congrats on all you've accomplished and what is yet to come.

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    Ай бұрын

    😊😊😊

  • @lorrainejarvis1390
    @lorrainejarvis139018 күн бұрын

    It’s taken a long time to realise that all my ‘stuff’ has kept me a prisoner. Like being attached by invisible strings to all the clutter. Having let go of a lot of possessions in the moving process it has definitely freed me from emotional attachment. ‘Letting go’ in a lot of aspects in life has been so freeing. Thank you.

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    16 күн бұрын

    👍so true

  • @wanderingangelstudio1359
    @wanderingangelstudio1359Ай бұрын

    Being 65 myself, I can appreciate everything you said in this video. I’m now on the road to less is more. All I can think about is what happens when I pass away and my adult children have to deal with my belongings. I’m determined to significantly pare down my possessions so in their grief, they aren’t stuck trying to go through my things. I’m an introvert and I’m fortunate enough to have mornings all to myself. It’s the quietest time of day around here so I get a lot done.

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

    😊

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    Ай бұрын

    😊😊

  • @marthahubbard9463
    @marthahubbard946315 күн бұрын

    Great advice. 10 years ago I started living a minimal lifestyle. It’s ongoing and it’s a sense of freedom and peace. Living alone makes it easier than people that have families. I often see families that have hoards of clutter and are overwhelmed, but still unable to get rid of their stuff. One family comes to mind in particular. They have two children and a massive house that is beautiful but it’s disastrous with the amount of useless possessions. They won’t quit buying. Every day something new comes through the door. Whatever the newest thing is, they buy it, thinking it’s going to make their life better. Thank you for your wisdom in “less is more”.

  • @victoryamartin9773
    @victoryamartin977314 күн бұрын

    That was a breath of fresh air. Good for the lungs. Now to get rid of all these stinky overstuffed living room chairs and set up my little dinette & wooden chairs in their place.

  • @user-je2lp2iz7e
    @user-je2lp2iz7eАй бұрын

    Lynn here I am 75 and I have two sons and I already asked them what they wanted one said photos the other wanted family items. It’s done now we have just what we need. And I have no worries . I love my sons and they will never have have to worry about STUFF…..

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

    😊

  • @Anna-tw4bq

    @Anna-tw4bq

    Ай бұрын

    Great idea!

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

    ❤😊

  • @colleenisaac6647
    @colleenisaac6647Ай бұрын

    I have tried to embrace “less is more” in so many aspects of my life. I’ve been decluttering and eliminating so much. It makes me happy to see my linen closet decluttered, my basement starting to get decluttered as well as cutting down on buying crafting supplies. It’s a good feeling and makes me feel calmer and less stressed.

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

    😊

  • @k26kv31
    @k26kv31Ай бұрын

    One of the things I am decluttering is the garden. As I redo the garden areas surrounding the home we moved to after we retired, I am only using a few types of interesting, low maintenance bushes in my design. I can cut back on the equipment that I need in my garden shed as well as the amount and types of fertilizers that need to be bought and stored. More time to enjoy the garden, less time maintaining it.

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    Ай бұрын

    😊❤

  • @bitrudder3792

    @bitrudder3792

    29 күн бұрын

    At some point we were expecting a hurricane and I realize just how much stuff was out in the yard. I decluttered all but the basic useful functional items from the yard. i've also had a general attitude that a plant cannot live in my yard unless it conserve I've more or less benign neglect. Every Season I enjoy taking little drives around my area to see what thrives and what doesn't… In the heat, after the worst of freezes. I notice what expensive Hardscapes go awry when people leave trees planted too close to them. I observe shrubs that get leggy and ugly because they're not maintained scrupulously. each season I try to do sensible things in the direction of low maintenance beauty. Some seasons don't work out because of injury or illness or lots of things going on in life. My good choices keep going, behaving well. And everywhere I have failed to clear things out, I am sorry that the delay has created more work for me. I wish someone had taught this to me from the very beginning.

  • @GodLovesUtheMost
    @GodLovesUtheMostАй бұрын

    The older I get, the less “stuff” I want. I always tell people not to buy me anything I have to dust! I don’t have a headboard on my bed or bed skirts. To me that’s just something else to have to clean. When I want to purchase something, I think, “Is this easy to clean?” “Do I want to clean this?” Since I hand wash my dishes, I don’t buy cups, glasses, or mugs that I can’t fit my hand inside.

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

    😊

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    Ай бұрын

    👍

  • @bitrudder3792

    @bitrudder3792

    29 күн бұрын

    I feel the same way about every point, but I do have a wooden bedstead that is very basic and rocksolid. And I can disassemble it easily and move it and reassemble it myself as needed. Come to think of it, the mattress situation is the same way. Simple, non-toxic. Manageable. My husband brought home some glasses that were narrower at the top then at the bottom and my hand didn't fit in. One by one they keep breaking, and I'm looking forward to win the last one goes! He really likes them😂!

  • @bitrudder3792

    @bitrudder3792

    29 күн бұрын

    oh, and one more thing… I literally am giving this advice to the young women I know who are getting married! They don't always listen, they are in love with building their nest, understandably, but I hope some of it sinks in!

  • @SoulEscapeHealing

    @SoulEscapeHealing

    18 күн бұрын

    Hahaha I also think about the cleaning aspect. Thought I was alone in this. 😊

  • @sheriw53
    @sheriw53Ай бұрын

    The quiet is what I resonate with. I never have the radio on when I drive and rarely do I have the TV on. Maybe sometimes in the evening. I do however play at least 2 of my albums a day of mostly 60' & 70's music to keep me motivated on what project I am working on and sometimes when winding down after a busy day I will put on some easy listening in the evenings. The biggest change I have made is when I drink my coffee in the morning, I always drank it in front of the computer where I would find myself lingering for hours. Now I am going out on my porch, sitting quietly and listening to the birds. I have a more peaceful calm in my life now.

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    Ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @MariofromNY
    @MariofromNYАй бұрын

    In the consumerist world in which at a very young age we are pushed towards the idea that possessions = worth. Living with what is necessary sometimes upsets others especially in a family, I found out quickly I can not push others do live this way. I came to understand that material possessions is many times a physical manifestation of what is going on inside. So rather than minimalism I choose simplicity by removing the things that distracted and took time away from the things that I enjoyed. Another great video. Have a great day.

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

    😊

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    Ай бұрын

    ❤😊

  • @brentk9520
    @brentk9520Ай бұрын

    i am enjoying my retirement too. i wake up slow by drinking coffee and sitting on the porch listening to the many birds singing in the peaceful quiet time of the morning. sometimes our procrastination may be gods perfect timing.

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

    😊

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

    😊😊

  • @stephaniecranston8134
    @stephaniecranston8134Ай бұрын

    One of the important things I learned during lock down was how wealthy I really am. I was driving way less, shopping way less, slowed down way more. I was filling the gas tank once a month. I could buy whatever I wanted to at the grocery store. We were lucky in that my husband is a CPA and I worked with him in the office, so we still had our usual work. I still drive much less than I used to. I shop so much less. I also do most of my food shopping here in town, even though some of the prices are higher. Now that we are retired I don't need the same type of wardrobe as before. I am a thrift store shopper and do that so much less. I love the treasure hunting, but by staying out of the shops, have much less temptation. MY treats are looking around when I drop off a box of things that I am down sizing. My daughter and i still do thrift visits together, but it is more about our combined joy than about bringing home lots of stuff. And by clearing up the stuff inside our home, I am finding new joy and a sense of satisfaction that I am hoping will grow into more peace and ease of cleaning. It is a worthy goal.

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

    😊

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    Ай бұрын

    😊😊

  • @bitrudder3792

    @bitrudder3792

    29 күн бұрын

    I love this Stephanie, and I agree. Also, as we age, it's just smarter and safer to not have so much stuff in our house. Time feels like it's going by faster, and sometimes our bodies are going slower when it comes to cleaning and caring for things.

  • @alegna4132
    @alegna413229 күн бұрын

    Always remember my late mum saying that when she was at school she was punished with writing 100 lines of 'Procrastination is the thief of time' - she never forgot that lesson and nor do I.

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    23 күн бұрын

    ❤😊

  • @janbagdasar9165
    @janbagdasar9165Ай бұрын

    Exactly what I needed to hear this morning. I too have been trying to embrace the quiet. Your videos are exactly what this stressed out retired school nurse needs!

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

    👍🏻

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    Ай бұрын

    😊😊

  • @nanettesue1287
    @nanettesue1287Ай бұрын

    Wisdom, wisdom, wisdom! Thank you!

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

    ❤😊❤❤

  • @lynxeyes3690
    @lynxeyes3690Ай бұрын

    Honestly, distracted working as I listened to this but the words I did hear are soothing and thoughtful. Your voice is a kindness, the care you show for others and yourself is a blessing. Deep breath and striding forward, while also taking a moment to just enjoy the small calm moments. Each day is a joy, but sometimes we just haven’t realized it yet.

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

    😅

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    Ай бұрын

    😊😊😊

  • @sheliagentle8127
    @sheliagentle8127Ай бұрын

    this one is worthy of a relisten, . thanks for taking the time

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

    👍🏻

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @slyborg1
    @slyborg1Ай бұрын

    Great observations. Thoreau declined the offer of a doormat from a friend because he'd only have to shake it to keep it clean. I'm with him.

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

    😊

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

    ❤😊

  • @suewilkinsonmorrobayca6590
    @suewilkinsonmorrobayca6590Ай бұрын

    “It’s coffee people” hahaha. Thanks for sharing.

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

    😂😅

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    Ай бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @BChou-ri3xw
    @BChou-ri3xwАй бұрын

    i stop 'pushes' to my phone. Way back, when I got a smart phone, I decided to NOT load my email, NOT add Facebook app, NOT turn on notifications, except emergency ones. I use those features at my chosen time on my laptop at home. On my smartphone I answer to texts, and to phone calls I recognize. Everything else is quiet. Sorta by happenstance, but keeping it that way. If they really need me, they call me. Or leave me a message. I've enjoyed my boundaries and looking up at the world, rather than down at my phone. Life is good!

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

    😊

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

    😊😊

  • @Good-DaySunshine
    @Good-DaySunshineАй бұрын

    💯% Wisdom!

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

    😊

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

    ❤❤😊

  • @lose999
    @lose999Ай бұрын

    This video should go viral. Everyone could benefit from this content.😉

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @hbrealhousewife2270
    @hbrealhousewife2270Ай бұрын

    Procrastination = CBA with me. (Can’t be arsed). Especially over the winter months. Now if it would only stop raining I could stop procrastinating and get some gardening done. Also I have got to the age where the constant blaring of music everywhere gets on my nerves. So much that I never play music at home now and only occasionally have a 70’s radio station on in the car. Thanks Tim. x

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

    😊

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

    😊😊

  • @user-if6px7ty1r
    @user-if6px7ty1rАй бұрын

    I am 74 now and seek less chaos in all aspects of my life. I want less, so I shop less. I no longer seek to be surrounded by people all the time, so I have learned to be content with the quiet hobbies that I enjoy. I still work a few hours a week, but I work by myself most of the time, so I am able to avoid workplace drama. I don't watch much tv and never watch the news or talking heads. I do, however, watch youtube videos and movies, although I am trying to limit exposure to all social media, specifically influencers. I have a home with many nooks and crannies and I am trying to stop procrastinating and start throwing stuff out 😂, so theres that. The truth is, all this stuff is creating chaos for me, but every time I start to think about clearing some of it out, the very thought of it is overwhelming.

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

    ❤😊

  • @intherockies
    @intherockiesАй бұрын

    I feel called out 😂 Eating a swiss roll while procrastinating on cleaning. I try to use non toxic products that are not tested on animals. Alot of people put it out of their mind but Beagles are being used for testing extreme high amounts of the products we use. These dogs never get to be a normal dog, its horrible. Changing the subject, I sat outside this morning, no phone, just listening to the birds and the wind blowing through the trees, it was so nice 🌳🐦🏞️

  • @TheNewRetiredMe

    @TheNewRetiredMe

    Ай бұрын

    :)

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

    😊❤

  • @bitrudder3792

    @bitrudder3792

    29 күн бұрын

    yes. Beagles are treated horrifically. and this is where ignoring the news (as many people suggest we do for our own peace of mind) allows evil to continue. Meanwhile, I'm responding to your comment and listening to this video while I procrastinate. This will be my last response this morning then. Don't forget what Dr. Fauci did, or under his leadership: they held beagles down with their heads pinned under a net and they let sand fleas attack their heads. Because they're curious. What would happen? And this is mild compared to the immoral and pretty much unlawful experimentation they did on Children: you can find the PDF of the journalists report online for free, it is called "the house that aids built." If we do nothing, decades go by and the same bad actors are continuing to do bad things. We need to pay attention to some of the stuff and call it out. I had no idea about this when it was going on! Neither did most of the people who followed this man's directions The last few years. And I can tell you as a nurse that it was backwards from the get-go.

  • @SueLW65

    @SueLW65

    29 күн бұрын

    Omg, I never knew that about beagles! That’s so sad. I love dogs, and unless they’re being used to test nutritious dog food or treats, this should be illegal.

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

    😊❤

  • @tuesboomer1623
    @tuesboomer1623Ай бұрын

    I could have been talking word for word about myself with your thoughts on negativity. Thank you for that! The Starbucks scenario on patience had me laughing hysterically! The family wondered what was so funny. Well done!

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

    ❤👍🏻

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

    ❤😊

  • @wildcycles1
    @wildcycles1Ай бұрын

    So many good points and things to think about and improve. When you talked about gossip, I was reminded of a quote I heard once regarding gossip that went something like "Those who speak to you will also speak about you." Additionally, I've had two old timer friends in my life that refused to participate in gossip. They would listen , but never had a negative word to speak about anyone. Both of these individuals have passed on. They had many other positive qualities and were always seemingly in a good mood and quick to speak positively of others. I am approaching retirement myself and so much of what you talk about is relevant for me. I am getting rid of so much "clutter" in my life. It feels good to give some of my unneeded things to someone who either enjoys them or will put them to use. We live in a "noisy" world these days as you mentioned. Not only the audible, but the overwhelming visual noise that is also "clutter."Please keep up these worthwhile discussions. Your delivery makes it feel like a discussion or chat with a friend and I believe this is something many people respond positively to. Kindest regards

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

  • @brigittehewitt6210

    @brigittehewitt6210

    Ай бұрын

    Is dropping music out of our live more ? Good music which nurishes our soul is def more.

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    Ай бұрын

    😊😊❤

  • @laurennguyen1008
    @laurennguyen100829 күн бұрын

    We sold both our houses-"starter" home we lived in for 28 years and our beautiful lake house we had for 20 years and bought a beautiful 1 story house close to my brother in law. It was a lot of work to get rid of all that stuff and I don't want to fill up this house. I do have too many clothes and accessories so I have to stop that shopping. Too much stuff is stressful.

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    23 күн бұрын

    😊😊😊

  • @leokreiser3028
    @leokreiser3028Ай бұрын

    With age comes Wisdom! Loved this video. I will be 65 in October. My motto has Always been Less is More in every aspect of Life. Things- being selective with who I choose to be friends with. What I watch or listen to. Self Awareness is so Important for your Well Being! Thank - You for sharing your thoughts: As Always - Inspiring! Take Care & God Bless RK ❤

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

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  • @lindamay2630
    @lindamay2630Ай бұрын

    You have no idea of how much I needed this today. Thank you

  • @TheNewRetiredMe

    @TheNewRetiredMe

    Ай бұрын

    You are so welcome!

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

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  • @anitasimmons3599
    @anitasimmons3599Ай бұрын

    Thank you for another meditation. After a little over a year of decluttering, dealing with loss and moving on, I have found that, "less is more", had become essential again in my life. I used to say it out loud when I was a young adult with unsettled living arrangements. I would imagine having to move anything I was considering purchasing. Marriage, rearing children, careers all buried that phrase, but as I was packing a vehicle for a trip, about 10 years ago, it kept popping into my head. I wrote it on a 3x5 card and put it where I could see it every day. This was before my husband and soul mate passed away and it helped me to start decluttering my life. I'm so thankful that I had started the process before I lost my spouse, because it has truly helped me declutter more than just physical stuff. As more leaves my home it stays neat and clean longer and it is easier to cook, do some maintenance or even to leave it for an adventure. My main motivation to keep going through all the accumulation of a lifetime is to leave less for our adult children to deal with when I am on to eternal life too. Gossip, I finally just offered one of my neighbors because she is a terrible gossip and I just did not want to listen to her anymore. I am not normally a rude person but sometimes it is necessary for your own peace. It is really nice to be able to work outside in the front yard and not have to deal with her. Her husband does not hold it against me 😊. A few of the neighbors told me she was spreading really bad gossip about me for a while and I would just say, it is worth it for peace. She has since moved on to nicer people that me. Thank you again for your videos, I like it when you leave me with lots of homework. You are the best teacher ❤😊

  • @TheNewRetiredMe

    @TheNewRetiredMe

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

  • @simini1837
    @simini1837Ай бұрын

    I am 46 year old female with a husband and two kids and I really appreciate your outlook on life!

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

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  • @Kate42
    @Kate42Ай бұрын

    Your honesty is refreshing. You are so right about junk food because every time I fall off the wagon with sweets I feel physically sick. That is our bodies trying to tell us that it's harmful to us. Your coffee order cracked me up. I bet you can't say that three times fast, lol.

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

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  • @ARLimitless
    @ARLimitless22 күн бұрын

    I have recently adopted frugality, patience and some general principles of stoicism. Life feels like a cruise now

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

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  • @EcomCarl
    @EcomCarl26 күн бұрын

    Absolutely, embracing minimalism can indeed clear the clutter not just physically but mentally and emotionally, paving the way for profound impacts on well-being and productivity. It's fascinating how simplifying one's lifestyle can amplify focus and fulfillment, truly embodying the essence of 'less is more.' 👌

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    23 күн бұрын

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  • @traceyshoun1005
    @traceyshoun1005Ай бұрын

    Thank you! I so enjoy my morning “it’s coffee people” with you. I find myself with a smile on my face and more than an occasional laugh by myself. Your wisdom and way of thinking is inspiring. Noticed you are nearing 50k subscribers. Keep it up.😁😂❤️

  • @TheNewRetiredMe

    @TheNewRetiredMe

    Ай бұрын

    You are so welcome! Thank you!

  • @Kiki-wi7px

    @Kiki-wi7px

    Ай бұрын

    ​​​​​@@TheNewRetiredMe Tim, There is NO Place to Leave Comment's.I Usually Do Leave One. I am Looking at Some that were Left.

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

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  • @sallymoffit3751
    @sallymoffit3751Ай бұрын

    Less is more certainly does apply in multiple areas of our lives. It's a more healthy lifestyle as you have covered so well.

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

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  • @kareningignoli2272
    @kareningignoli227226 күн бұрын

    Hello Tim, I very much enjoy❤ed this video. You are so right about all those things. I too retired forma teaching hob last year so much much of what you said resonated with me. Two months ago I moved from the big city (London) to a small coastal village in the south of England and boy have I had to learn to slow down. The local bus only runs once an hour and stops operating after 6pm so I have been walking much more. I shall be visiting a friend in Texas in a few weeks for a fortnight and the travel insurance was extortionate and I’m a healthy, medication-free adult but I’ve decided to focus on protein and healthy fats (full fat not low-fat or zero) and greatly reduce my sugar (the silent killer) intake in order to keep healthy should I want to visit the US or further afield in the future. Brisk walks on the beach very early in the morning give me time to be thankful to God for his blessings and to plan my day. Thank you for your words of wisdom.

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    23 күн бұрын

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  • @nancygraham8940
    @nancygraham8940Ай бұрын

    Great message for EARTH DAY…..

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

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  • @lynnek4226
    @lynnek4226Ай бұрын

    You are spot on with the effects of processed food. I started Noom 6 months ago and lost 28 lbs by eliminating most processed food from my diet and eating more fresh fruit and vegetables. Noom also helped me with my relationship with food as it is psychology based program.

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

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  • @sharathahuja8261
    @sharathahuja826112 күн бұрын

    Distilled Knowledge. Thank You Tim.

  • @onlygrace2012
    @onlygrace2012Ай бұрын

    Procrastination……. Ahhhhh yes! I have recently discovered that I get caught in a cycle of procrastination…. Anxiety… and procrastination….. if I just take ANY action, the anxiety is gone! Trying hard!

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

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  • @user-je2lp2iz7e
    @user-je2lp2iz7eАй бұрын

    P.s. Lynn here thank you I gave up our car I bought a cart and walk to the store . I love your videos. 😌

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

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  • @livingsimplytosimplylive6817
    @livingsimplytosimplylive6817Ай бұрын

    I just love your videos. They’re just packed full of useful information for everyone. At the 14 minute mark, which is where I’m at right now you talk about driving without the radio and embracing the quiet. I am going to start taking it to heart. I’m either listening to the radio or a podcast or watching or listening to a KZread video. I run and bike a lot and maybe I should just be quiet and be still while I’m doing it. Thank you.

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

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  • @MJ-ti6oh
    @MJ-ti6ohАй бұрын

    I enjoy your posts. Thanks.

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

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  • @RitaVernoy
    @RitaVernoyАй бұрын

    It’s interesting to me that having spent 40 years here in South America, so many of these things are the norm here. Every time. Visit the USA I find myself very stressed and flustered. It’s all just too much. I see that consumerism/materialism has stolen our quality of life. I have a lot of work in these areas, thank you for sharing. The coffee thing made me laugh. My husband says he doesn’t like to “perfume” his coffee. Of course, we get great coffee down here.

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

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  • @mnp870
    @mnp87024 күн бұрын

    Hmm! When you are young the ambition to achieve in life is natural & good but not OCD. The older one gets the more we realize our goals change. The Bible tells us not to put our hopes in things where rust and …… Matthew 6: 19-21 How true. One day we will leave it all behind.

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    23 күн бұрын

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  • @rhondadownes207
    @rhondadownes207Ай бұрын

    This planet is a gift and it makes me so sad to see how we are treating it and I can’t even imagine what it’ll be like for future generations. I never liked futuristic movies, like Mad Max, because I would hate to live in a world like that and I feel like that’s what it’s becoming, as extreme as that sounds. Reducing stress is a big thing for me right now, as I’m sure with many people. I’m trying to learn to breathe and remind myself to just do what I can do when I’m standing, with my one or two reusable grocery bags, behind someone that has a cart full of plastic grocery bags. I am trying to do better at so many of the other things that you mentioned as well. Thanks for the video! Oh man, the coffee thing. I think people want to like coffee but have to dress it up so much to enjoy it or they really just want dessert! 😂

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

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  • @mc5366
    @mc5366Ай бұрын

    Love your thoughtful outlook, thank you for this grounding message!

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

  • @shelleycharlesworth5177
    @shelleycharlesworth517724 күн бұрын

    I'm a senior and have been getting rid of stuff for 2 years now. I volunteer at a thrift shop one day a week and many seniors come in who are lonely and they buy "stuff" to fill a void of loneliness.

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    23 күн бұрын

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  • @helencantimagine
    @helencantimagineАй бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts and encouraging words. I'm blessed to have no internal monologue and no "Minds Eye" (aphantasia). Nothing is going on in my head in the way of negative talk or images. Procrastination is my middle name, but my mind doesn't beat me with negative thoughts. I like your honesty and vulnerability.

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

    😊😊

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @bitrudder3792
    @bitrudder379229 күн бұрын

    I love to bring my own glass resealable containers when we go to restaurants, which isn't very often. They always serve too much, and I feel a lot better if I don't eat the whole thing.

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    23 күн бұрын

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  • @peggysu52
    @peggysu52Ай бұрын

    Since retiring I'm now living in a very small space, so trying to fit things in, I'm now leaving items that I think I need in my amazon cart longer. Giving myself time to realize how much work is involved with the so called easier way to modernize my life. Sometimes new gadgets are just dust collectors. Trying to be happy with what I have and even eliminate what I really don't use much anymore. When I let go of things, life becomes less stressful, more peaceful, simplified even. I'm learning, it's definitely a process, not a race. Thank you for your insight into these areas of life. And I enjoy the quiet. Sometimes with music or tv on, it's like shut it off, the quiet, peaceful feel of the room is so fantastic then. Have a great day peacefully.

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

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  • @annandersen3185
    @annandersen3185Ай бұрын

    Love your coffee explanation. I’m impressed. Love from Australia 🇦🇺 🐨 🦘

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

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  • @sheilak4493
    @sheilak4493Ай бұрын

    Amen and Amen… I needed to hear this so much this morning! Thank you

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

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  • @cherirooney8879
    @cherirooney88799 күн бұрын

    Your a smart man! Iam 65 as well and work hard everyday! Less food, bed early and early to rise. Very blessed ❤

  • @maryflanagan3193
    @maryflanagan3193Ай бұрын

    Absolutely loved this post with many helpful suggestions for simplifying my life. Thank you so much. Don’t beat yourself up for taking so long with this video. It was perfect!! Thanks so much.

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

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  • @susangetz9202
    @susangetz9202Ай бұрын

    Younger life: Want stuff Middle life: Get stuff Later life: Get rid of stuff Very true😊

  • @TheNewRetiredMe

    @TheNewRetiredMe

    Ай бұрын

    😀

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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  • @linda4853

    @linda4853

    29 күн бұрын

    😂😂😂 oh, so true

  • @paulb1383

    @paulb1383

    28 күн бұрын

    True...But I still have too much! Although every year I get rid of more & more. I now following my mom's advice...if you buy something you have to get rid of something. More of a break even but atleast not more. I may try to tweak that....buy one, get rid of two ;)

  • @amritabhattacharyya4882

    @amritabhattacharyya4882

    25 күн бұрын

    😊☺

  • @yolandawatson9949
    @yolandawatson9949Ай бұрын

    Thank you! This was so good to hear, I'm recently retired and I tell everyone do not buy me anything "Less is More" When the weather permits I love sitting on my patio early in the morning with a cup of coffee

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

    😊😊😊

  • @debjohansen7867
    @debjohansen786710 күн бұрын

    Oh, where do I begin... I'm still chuckling because I could identify with everything you discussed. How did you get to be such a brilliant, honest, and funny person? I do enjoy your videos. Keep up the great work, and thank you for all you share!

  • @brendapurser5137
    @brendapurser5137Сағат бұрын

    You are so right, thank you

  • @bethbranson9050
    @bethbranson9050Ай бұрын

    “It’s coffee people!”😂🤣😂I have found that after retiring, I spend a lot more time in better positive self imaging and quiet than I did while I was crazy busy in the work force! I crave what really matters now, not all the things that I was so distracted by as a younger adult, parent, and human just trying to get through every day! I relish my quiet thoughts and time to reflect! Loved your thought content for today! Thank you, Tim!

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

    ❤😂

  • @1960stephen
    @1960stephenАй бұрын

    You have hit a lot of nails right on the head with this video. I hope others see the benefits of the "lifestyle" you shared. Well done

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

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  • @justmaria5806
    @justmaria5806Ай бұрын

    Well, Mister, what a thoughtful and positive way to begin one's day. It's all about timing, isn't it? Changes in one's thoughts, attitudes, and behavioral patterns can certainly change the trajectory of a person's life. I, too, am a work in process. One of the biggest and hardest lessons has been to get out of the way of myself. I am finding out I'm not the big "smarty pants" I believed myself to be. One thing I know to the deepest depths of my soul is life, and the opportunity for self-improvement are some of the the greatest gifts presented by God. 😊

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

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  • @logcabinstitcher7274
    @logcabinstitcher7274Ай бұрын

    Exactly! First time watcher and subscriber. Have been on the journey to simplifying our lives for almost 3 years. Life changing! What started just in decluttering my sentimental items lead me more and more into the ideas of minimalism. My husband and I got rid of over 60% of what we owned and it allowed us to sell our home and move to another state to be able to afford a home without a mortgage so my husband could retire from his construction job which had deteriorated his body. Now, we are purposeful with what we bring into our home and the space and neatness is so stress relieving. Food addict…yes! The Keto lifestyle was best for my mental and physical health and I’m working my way back to it. Mental and emotional stability in addition to a huge weight loss. All of the things you talked about have been so beneficial in my life. Glad to find another ‘mature’ adult talking about the benefits of the life I need to continue to live. Less IS more!

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    Ай бұрын

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  • @phylliswark4968
    @phylliswark4968Ай бұрын

    I enjoyed listening to your entire talk. You should get invited to TED Talk for this 👏👏👏

  • @TheNewRetiredMe

    @TheNewRetiredMe

    Ай бұрын

    I did a TEDX talk once in Knoxville. It was fun!

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

    🎉❤

  • @bexp436
    @bexp436Ай бұрын

    So much of this video lands with me and my life since retiring. We are rarely alone in our way of being. Thank you so much. Oh and shoes!!! For me i got rid of so many pairs of "work/dressy shoes". I think i bought them as a reward for having to work😅

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

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  • @lisecousineau2788
    @lisecousineau27889 күн бұрын

    A lot of people are the same, so we Have to work for are life no body will for us. You are write about everything. So lets do it.💪🏻

  • @tombryan1
    @tombryan1Ай бұрын

    Talking the talk, now walk the walk. So many content creators and just people in general discuss what is good, healthy, productive use of time, resources, but it seems to become projection or good intentions because so few take their own advice.

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

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  • @dominic8218
    @dominic821827 күн бұрын

    Absolute common sense. Thanks for your vlog 👌🏻

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    23 күн бұрын

    👍💚

  • @nedimuzey
    @nedimuzey11 күн бұрын

    Desire for more has two fundamentals. Better living standards and influence people around us. When you get older, you realize neither one help you happier. It’s family and friends!

  • @valeriedison8838
    @valeriedison883813 күн бұрын

    Just found your channel yesterday! Watching the video about leaving a legacy, i started a KZread channel 6 weeks ago and had the same thoughts 😊 my videos will always be there for my kids and grandkids and my great grandkids 🥰

  • @amandarolle8176
    @amandarolle8176Ай бұрын

    I could listen to you all day long. Thankyou x

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    23 күн бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @suzannemichell7985
    @suzannemichell798516 күн бұрын

    When I was 45 I had to clean out my parents house. It was a profound experience, and I declared that no one would ever go through that when it came time for someone to clean out my house. I read Marie Kondos book on decluttering and housekeeping, I now decluttering something every day. It has been a journey. Some things are easy to get rid of. Others are very difficult. Thank you for your affirming less is more. It is so true more positivity, more uplifting more kindness more joy.

  • @tanjaaufdermaur9468
    @tanjaaufdermaur946828 күн бұрын

    Great content!🙌💖 For me less thinking more being present in the moment and not thinking what's next (controlling, planning, doing, analyzing, judging, achieving, perfecting etc.). It's a challenge😉😂

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    23 күн бұрын

    😊❤

  • @Nakkisampyla
    @Nakkisampyla27 күн бұрын

    More free time is only thing I want more

  • @jicalzad

    @jicalzad

    27 күн бұрын

    I hear ya. Time is the most valuable resource for me

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    23 күн бұрын

    ❤😊

  • @lorenajules4651
    @lorenajules4651Ай бұрын

    Right now I'm downsizing and I can't believe how much stuff I have. I can see now that I don't need all those things to be happy!!!!

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    23 күн бұрын

    😊😊😊

  • @carolinegathercole8473
    @carolinegathercole847312 күн бұрын

    I sell stuff from home and am surrounded by tons of stuff! Doesn’t affect my mental health at all, love it, seeing it excites me, brings me joy and comfort. Could not live in an empty shell, staring at 4 blank walls. Have no tv, hate the radio when I’m driving, find that very irritating

  • @kimperfect2295
    @kimperfect229513 күн бұрын

    I like to see this from a man’s point of you . Thank you so much!!!

  • @alphabeta8403
    @alphabeta84032 күн бұрын

    6:00 Eat REAL food 11:50 Reduce stress 12:55 Embrace quietude 16:10 Physical activity 18:00 Stop gossip 19:15 Patience

  • @katethielmann4244
    @katethielmann42442 күн бұрын

    Great video. Really enjoyed this I've taken on minimalism and it is indeed freeing. A simple life is also an abundant life because it is decisively organized and prioritized. I have time to enrich myself with what is important Quiet Time/ Faith Nature/ Gardening Solitude/walks Health/Cooking The weights were never meant for us. We can care for what we need to and be responsible and effective and this has been the greatest aspect.

  • @aliceaustin3603
    @aliceaustin3603Ай бұрын

    Right on, on all counts!

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

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  • @rosemarieklei5438
    @rosemarieklei5438Ай бұрын

    I think many in teaching emotionally eat in their days. How many times we were rewarded with food? I practiced minimalism in my classroom as clutter makes one unfocused. Retired I am doing the same with my home. I like your videos, you are real and expose the human that you are..... Thanks

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    23 күн бұрын

    😊😊😊

  • @mindcache5650
    @mindcache565027 күн бұрын

    A minimalist word soup of any subject under the sun

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    23 күн бұрын

    ❤😊

  • @dawnwolfe6541
    @dawnwolfe6541Ай бұрын

    This was informative and thoroughly enjoyable. Thanks!

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

    😊😊

  • @paulb1383
    @paulb138328 күн бұрын

    Very good and sound advice! 💥 This video is loaded with gems! 👏

  • @JasmineBrownOttawa
    @JasmineBrownOttawaАй бұрын

    Thanks for your post, I always enjoy them! I have been on a minimalist path for many years, and am still looking for ways to simplify. This post makes me think of our younger generation who may not have this mindset as they quite literally don't have enough. Not enough income to afford an apartment, for example, or a budget that can barely afford groceries. Many of them are in a scarcity mindset because resources are scarce for them. No thinking exercise about abundance will change their bank account, and they cannot afford basic things. Many can't afford to start a family. And it doesn't look like that will improve any time soon. Perhaps those with some generational wealth are in a better situation. So my thoughts about minimalism are changing still....right now I am open to the idea that minimalism is structurally a bit classist. Those of us who can afford the choice of minimalism are inherently privileged to do so. The working poor (which by definition is a large swath of our young people) don't have the luxury of this choice. Anyway....just my rambling thoughts on a Friday morning :)

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

    😊❤

  • @marklawson2871
    @marklawson287114 күн бұрын

    I want a double decaffeinated half caff with a twist.

  • @TheNewRetiredMe

    @TheNewRetiredMe

    14 күн бұрын

    😂

  • @karenstairs8273
    @karenstairs8273Ай бұрын

    I listen to classical music when I drive. I live in the city and the music from the cars around me can be very harsh.

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

    😊😊

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @PamHaynes-oo3ck
    @PamHaynes-oo3ck29 күн бұрын

    Tim thank you, you have the Patience of Job!!!

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    23 күн бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @PamHaynes-oo3ck

    @PamHaynes-oo3ck

    17 күн бұрын

    ​@@akontarini😂😂😂

  • @jsolethedj
    @jsolethedj28 күн бұрын

    Great video Sir!

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    23 күн бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @user-hw9vf4pl9s
    @user-hw9vf4pl9sАй бұрын

    Another fabulous one Tim! I am trying to practice driving in silence, I kinda like it : ) did it recently on my trip to AZ for about an hour just looked at the road in front and thought about what's going on in this world right now and how much more I need to declutter and simplify even more. Loved the coffee order....so weird these coffee people who really want a dessert....coffee be coffee, maybe some fresh heavy cream and sweet and low if really feeling like I need a treat. Have been doing Ketovor for a few months and am down 20+ pounds. Have a great week Tim!

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

    ❤😊

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

    😊❤

  • @augustineadeyanju9638
    @augustineadeyanju96388 сағат бұрын

    Great job , sir.

  • @eyeonrecovery8319
    @eyeonrecovery831928 күн бұрын

    Good video. I mostly agree with it except for the toxic productivity stuff, blech. Also, ironically, there was a recent study by a major university that showed that gossip is actually productive, as long as it's accurate.

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    23 күн бұрын

    😊❤

  • @tiahill832
    @tiahill832Ай бұрын

    Well said! Thanks for sharing! Have a great week! 🙂😘❤

  • @kzZnAT0r

    @kzZnAT0r

    Ай бұрын

    😊😊

  • @akontarini

    @akontarini

    18 күн бұрын

    ❤😊

  • @81aherna
    @81aherna12 күн бұрын

    So true and so powerful.