When a kid calls on a parent or elder, the police should never reveal that fact. That can cause more abuse once the parent is allowed to go back home.

@Jasmine-bn9ex

26 күн бұрын

Literally when she said “Erik don’t cause more problems when they leave” or whatever that sentence was should have been an automatic arrest for interfering and should’ve been seen as a threat.

@cheryldahl9192

26 күн бұрын

@@Jasmine-bn9ex I agree.

@prosperitystar

23 күн бұрын

At least that was recorded​@@Jasmine-bn9ex

@Englishroserebecca

23 күн бұрын

Those poor boys. Their voices sound so hopeless. What kind of childhood they have to endure. It’s so sad.

@sharkladyindisguise

22 күн бұрын

@@Jasmine-bn9ex yeah that poor kid is absolutely going to have it worse after this. I hope he got the help they needed.

Why do the abusive jerks always cry like babies when they are caught?

@sweethistortea

29 күн бұрын

Because they’re cowards.

@brookelynnwu8016

29 күн бұрын

They think they can mänipûlate others into feeling bad for them and ignore the awful things they’ve done.

@ennuibarbie

29 күн бұрын

Because they are usually people who pick fights with the vulnerable or someone who couldn't win against them in a physical fight. So when they are shown they have no power they freak out. My mom has a saying for people like this "That person would choke a book they couldn't read"

@CaleanWsh

29 күн бұрын

Because that is what bullies do when caught. That, and blame the victim.

@jacksongoodman3625

29 күн бұрын

Because they are pussies when caught

The dad saying "Did my kids call?" sent chills down my spine. I could feel the anger and rage hidden behind this calmness, that if he left without being separated from those boys that something bad would happen to them

@sophiap8102

10 күн бұрын

literally i’ve heard that tone before and it’s always just rage that’s just ready to bust i hope those boys are in a safer place now

@ermaek2145

6 күн бұрын

I hope those boys made it out of there and never had to face their father again!

@chloscorner

4 күн бұрын

He only got probation....

@adamarixadoptme

2 күн бұрын

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@adamarixadoptme

2 күн бұрын

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the boys in the first one keep calling their dad big. He's not really that big, but they all see him as being so big and scary because of the power he has over them and the pain and violence he causes. heartbreaking

@dorisa.gonzales6729

10 күн бұрын

poor babies. :(

@Sally150

7 күн бұрын

By big, they mean fat. He's probably been doing this their whole lives.

@norbertvidarramberg7024

Күн бұрын

My old man was like that ,but often worse. Beatings with different things, verbal abuse ,outright hate and despise for me, Thank God he is gone now, I was afraid of him, even when i was bigger than him in the end.

@Nikalette100

3 сағат бұрын

He is slanting his legs out so he looks smaller.

He has 3 records of CHILD ABUSE and they keep letting him back to his kids??!!! What the hell!!! Poor kids, I hope one grows to be 18 and they just emancipate immediately and adopt the rest

@lisapun20

29 күн бұрын

Sadly it’s not uncommon, me and my siblings fortunately were place in state care and eventually adopted. But there were plenty of kids I knew who were constantly in and out going back to parents. And the worst one I know of is my adoptive parents left their home open for emergency placements for children and 3 sibling boys ages 2-5 had been placed with us for 6 months before going back to mom and this was 2nd time she tried drowning them and one time abandoned them on the road. It doesn’t make sense.

@SuperMichelleDJ

29 күн бұрын

Because his stupid psychiatrist thinks he's okay to go back to his kids. it's obvious because of the Mental Health evaluations that he clearly keeps failing.

@kingjellybean9795

29 күн бұрын

The mother is worse. She left them with him.

@UnscrupulousAgitator

29 күн бұрын

Not that simple. I'm a foster parent (FP) I see children with responsible, loving family members who would love to take the child, but unbeknownst to most people, DCFS, CPS & the courts #1 priority is to keep the children with their parents. It doesn't matter what they did, except SA. Even when children plead to not go back, from ages 0-17 they are treated as emotional children with no say in the matter. The child's attorney "GAL" will tell you "I will listen to what a child wants, but it really doesn't play into my decision". Every "support" person for the child is there to gleen info to use in reuniting the parent with the child. As FPs, we are required to make sure the children in our care meet every court ordered & CPS "suggested" plan of action, or we are subject to criminal charges. The reason children are moved from FP to FP is, a majority of the time, due to the parent, who doesn't have custody, requesting it because where the child "is an inconvenience" to them or their worker has children in a certain area and this child is moved to be in that area. Since the workers children come and go, and new ones are put in their care, a child can be moved a lot. So why do I continue to be a FP? Because I'm hoping that each child I have, for however long, will feel love, support, & that a spark of hope will ignite in them. Knowing that their lives can be so much better than it is now. To work hard on improving themselves better through academics, sports, whatever. That it IS their choice how their story is written. ❤

@jinxesinshadows1994

29 күн бұрын

It’s crazy but plenty of GOOD fathers end up without their kids for no good reason

Cops should NOT have told that woman who called the police. Put that boy in danger.

@TaylorMG47

29 күн бұрын

As soon as she said that I was like nooo 🤦‍♀️ They must be new to these kind of cases

@SuperMichelleDJ

29 күн бұрын

The woman would've found out anyway

@nonhotrovatounnomemigliore9221

29 күн бұрын

If the woman has common sense she had understood who called the cops from the start

@ariadneschild8460

28 күн бұрын

​@@nonhotrovatounnomemigliore9221if she had common sense we would not be seeing her here.

@MizzKillercult

28 күн бұрын

Why do you think she has common sense in the sitaution we are finding her? You seem to be lacking common sense yourself 😂​@nonhotrovatounnomemigliore9221

Daughter: Hope she is sober then... Son: Hah! That came directly from the heart.

@msacras

12 күн бұрын

That and "tangerine time" made me laugh amongst all the horrible stuff.

@Collin-to1oe

Күн бұрын

Those kids have infinite fucking patience and love for their mother.

Child abuse should be a mandatory jail sentence, and tell everybody in there what he/she did.

@glittergamer765

9 күн бұрын

Exactly, you're ruining that child's sense of stability and how they respond to stress, their entire mental health and self esteem is ruined along with their future as an Adult even, unless they make enough money to be able to afford extensive help from professionals.

@Garruslove4me

5 күн бұрын

Agree

"I beat my kids but I have anxiety and I'm gonna pass out" 🙄🙄🙄

@Fluffy_B1u3_p0t4t0

28 күн бұрын

Mf really wasn’t expecting his kids to call the police💀

@KayPrescesky

28 күн бұрын

And seizures, to boot? As a person with the inconvenience called epilepsy, we don't claim him. /l

@Sonic-gy7kq

27 күн бұрын

@@KayPrescesky It's cuz he abuses benzos, which is why he gets angry. It's called "Bar rage" as in xannax bars. Benzos make your anxiety worse big time to the point you will have seizures just from not having them. Most likely what this dude does. Pops a couple bars, looses all fear, then beats his kids because he is not scared of being reprimanded... until the high wares off.

@neuesachlichkeit6919

27 күн бұрын

Mental health is only real when it's THEIRS, ever notice that? Now ask them about THEIR "really" abusive childhood and how lucky their kids are that they don't "really" abuse them.

@slhkslhk2998

24 күн бұрын

And poop the pants

" Shut up and don't say nothing that you're gonna regret later". Very smart of you to say that in front of a police officer

@blobbertmcblob4888

19 күн бұрын

They should have arrested her too, because that's technically a threat.

@kweenz109

18 күн бұрын

@@blobbertmcblob4888witness intimidation for sure.

@D0NCH33T0

16 күн бұрын

​@@blobbertmcblob4888It's advice to not get yourself in trouble. It's not a threat.

@sammerwammer

15 күн бұрын

@@D0NCH33T0braindead freak?

@jaspurrz

15 күн бұрын

​@D0NCH33T0 it's very clearly a threat... why is he going to regret it later and who or what is going to make him regret it? the tone of her voice said it all

When I was 14, my dad beat the living shit out of me. When called the cops he told them I had done it to myself and had me thrown in a mental institution, where I was then forced to “admit” I had made it all up before I was aloud to leave. He was president of the HOA and high up at his company. Abuse isn’t just in crackhouses. If a kid is asking for help, for the love of God, please help them.

@amandacantrell1146

14 күн бұрын

I'm so sorry this happened to you. May GOD Bless You and ease your pain now. I hope the rest of your life is absolutely wonderful and peaceful, because you absolutely deserve it. Again I'm so sorry you had to experience any kind of pain as a child. No child should suffer especially at the hands of the people that are supposed to protect them and love them the most.

@gingerweasel2

13 күн бұрын

@@amandacantrell1146 "No child should suffer especially at the hands of the people that are supposed to protect them and love them the most." Says the one who's talking about "GOD". The "all-powerful being" that picked out this gem of a father for this child. Where was god's "love and protection" then, hmm?

@LongLostInideQueen

13 күн бұрын

I am so sorry that happened to you…I hope you’re living a better life now ❤

@amandacantrell1146

13 күн бұрын

@@gingerweasel2 GOD doesn't prevent evil. He can only be your saving grace.

@samcarlsonofficial

11 күн бұрын

​@@gingerweasel2Please don't speak like that in this context. We understand your stand point, and as another Christian it is valid, but do not ever speak like that in this situation. Like the previous reply said, God doesn't prevent evil, even if he has the power. He can only save your life if you choose to believe in him. Acts 16:31 says "And they replied, "Believe in the Lord Jesus and you will be saved, you and your household."" Take that as you will, and have a wonderful day.

As an abuse survivor myself, I applaud these young individuals for their courage in exposing the evil that they experienced in their lives!

@LilDummy-364

14 күн бұрын

Holy- are you okay?

@geraldstamour1312

14 күн бұрын

@@LilDummy-364 I am okay. Thanks for your concern!

@GillKennedy-tm9xx

18 сағат бұрын

Same ❤ Living my best life out of spite, works for me ❤

My heart sunk when the little boy said “he’s not small he’s big” knowing he’s terrified of his own dad.. this is literally disgusting behavior towards your kids.

@liamevans1508

15 күн бұрын

Yeah the kids were worried about the officers’ safety, too, 😢

@jablanbukvovski

9 күн бұрын

soon they will be bigger than him. that's gonna be a fun day for fatso

@tennysonparks2059

8 күн бұрын

He was such a disgusting puney little boy too, that dad?

@thomaskoneck3352

7 күн бұрын

Facts!

@kristinlong4409

7 күн бұрын

I literally started crying at that moment

That person who said to Eric to "Stop causing problems" is an *enabler* and is the reason *WHY* victims SUFFER in silence because of people like that.

@kweenz109

18 күн бұрын

Made me so angry. Poor Eric is surrounded by Some real dumb women

@urblondeangel

18 күн бұрын

that was the grandma I think

@kweenz109

18 күн бұрын

@@urblondeangel Eric's grandma not mom's grandma

@victoriabradshaw1384

17 күн бұрын

my grandma did that too..would always tell us to "not make mom mad"

@mi-da2920

17 күн бұрын

I've been Eric until I was 18. Long story short, my mom was a piece of shit. My extended family were very much aware that my mom is a horrible person, yet blamed me for "causing problems." And then they wonder why I stopped seeing every family member on my 18th birthday.

The first guy had a prior child abuse case and the court gave him probation on these charges? The system is broken. Those poor kids are in for it. So sad.

@MsMaryPatricia

10 күн бұрын

But he took a parenting class (sarcasm in case anyone missed it).

No way Eric’s grandma switched on him and said “stop looking for problems.” My god i hate family members like that! Please protect those kids.

@estefaniatorres4579

4 күн бұрын

The enablers of abusers are JUST as bad as the abusers!!!

When these parents ask “who called the police” it makes me so scared for those kids.

@runr100

24 күн бұрын

Yup. That's the only thing a narcissist wants to know. Who needs to be punished for revealing family secrets?

@aquadiamond5499

18 күн бұрын

Agreed the ammount of stories ive heard of the kids calling the cops or cps and they tell the parents the kids called and the parents are let off they will put those kids in danger

@itzrachei

16 күн бұрын

fr

@annied1827

16 күн бұрын

Lol, at least things have changed, Im impressed the police actually did something, im so happy there are police that will actually do something now 😀 its so much better than what i got, the police out right told them I had called and done a statement, Then i was told it was perfectly normal disaplin and i should behave myself and do as im told and not break the rules, then i wont get disaplined in the first place. To be honest i would have never even reported it if the doctors and my teacher didnt make me do it as i said to them it was pointless as its my own fault for breaking the rules, but alas they made me. And i was totally correct it was totally pointless, !! the shock on both the doctors and teachers faces when i told them what the police said was hilarious 🤣 oh my crime i shut a door too loud, no i didnt slam it i just shut it too hard, my punishment my spine fractured in 5 places 🙄 granted the police were correct if i hadnt shut the door too hard i wouldnt have been punished so yes it was my own fault, however after been told by both a doctor and teacher that i must report it , only to be told by the police what i said all along left me very confused, seriously what was the point in making me report it if nothing was going to be done other than me getting punished again for reporting it 🤣

@Mewsette1

13 күн бұрын

You say anonymous tip

Having a bad day, suffering with the deaths of family members, or even having mental illness DOES NOT GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO ABUSE YOUR CHILDREN, ever.

@ItsAllLove4Real

26 күн бұрын

Absolutely nothing but the whole entire truth....I have CPTSD and if I slip and snap, I'm devastated! It's only words, but the way I can say a thing would make a person cry, so I hold myself accountable with my sons....They deserve my best regardless of what I'm going through, they are amazing and aware and are very protective of my mental health, as I am about theirs, the world doesn't need any more angry men with Mommy issues.

@Himbeaw

26 күн бұрын

@@ItsAllLove4Real Absolutely, as a parent you are the very bridge to your child’s upbringing and how that bridge is paved and how they’re taken care of crossing that bridge will effect them for the rest of their life.

@nancyslaughter3807

22 күн бұрын

​@@Himbeaw😊😊❤

@ChristopherMichael-dw4wt

22 күн бұрын

Mental Illness may not be a right to do so, but it is more understandable. Not saying that it's right or anything, but when someone is in the midst of a mental breakdown, they have no control of their actions. That's just how crazy works.

@daralynndehnicke5112

22 күн бұрын

He is clever at coming up with answers but still did enough stalling on answers that was'nt obvious to give him just enough time to think.

Dad can’t even remember the reason why the kids were “disciplined” but they will remember this day forever

“I DON’T WANNA TALK!” Keeps talking.

I hope Eric is doing all right. The grandmother seemed quite aggressive as well, with wanting to take him for a ride, and he better not say anything he'll regret...

@polarisperson

29 күн бұрын

yeah . . and the fact the first thing she did was scream loudly when the police came, and then cutting off the police, to try to avoid exposing her crimes. .

@carsonthegiraffes

29 күн бұрын

Don’t say anything you’ll regret, it’s literally telling a child to shut up cause the adults are gonna be in trouble. I hope he is ok as well, It takes a strong man to stand up like he did, he’s a hero ❤

@louisemarsden2527

28 күн бұрын

The mother, going mental with the 3 boys, is a pissed off mama, no time for drunks

@DeeBraynt2010

28 күн бұрын

All honesty, the thing (I refuse to call her a human or any form of the word mother) that stuck their head in the room and made that comment should have been arrested as well for trying to intimidate Eric into not giving an honest statement. Not a single one of them should be surprised when he moves out the second he can and cuts all contact with them

@renaestevenson1361

27 күн бұрын

Yes, this mom was the worst to me. All she was concerned about was pegging her son for calling cops (and what he contended against her) - SHE was way more concerned about blaming her son - SO CONCERNED ABOUT BLAMING HER BOY - ALL POST BREAKING GLASS, POST INABILITY TO SPEAK TO OFFICERS, POST THREATS, etc. They (mom/gma) both should be removed from these kids' lives!! They are toxic as hell - I pray for those children. Please God, get these women away from these children (young men)! These gross adults are not okay and will not accept that fact - not better themselves. Breaking glass, SCREAMING LIKE A BANCHEE, and threatening to beat son like a man - DISGUST!

How the fuck did the first guy only get Probation (especially on only 2 accounts when there were three kids) when he has a track record of child abuse?

@Sonic-gy7kq

27 күн бұрын

F-ing florida. Some states allow child abuse and call it "discipline". Notice how the two time offender picked up words from his previous court appearances "disciplining". Piece of shit. The older the state... the older the laws. Florida/the south and the midwest are notorious for this.

@clipsedrag13

27 күн бұрын

He makes his kid rub his back and sht. What a fcking weirdo.

@heathermatthews8286

26 күн бұрын

I hope they at least took the kids away

@blindinglogic5458

25 күн бұрын

They probably didn't, most calls don't even result in arrests. Calling 911 or cps does nothing - a kid who had to report his father more then 6 times with nothing happening

@Icymanization

25 күн бұрын

My dad gave my sister a black eye that had to be covered with makeup for school the next day. Older sister and i feared for our lives growing up with him around. School caught on, cps and cops were called. Even with the extra questioning of me, my other sister, and my mom he still got away with child abuse. Two months of supervision by my paternal grandpa and no contact. Didnt change a thing after the two months were up.

The adult women in Eric’s life are poor excuse of motherly figures! My heart goes out to him. Crazy mother and the grandmother making excuses for her behavior!!!

@MsMaryPatricia

10 күн бұрын

I was so happy when the cop told grandma that it was his choice to arrest Christine. It used to be that victims could be bullied into dropping charges for domestic violence by their abuser.

@kingdoc5143

4 күн бұрын

Not the grandmother threatening Eric in front of the cop... "Don't say nothing your going to regret "

Hearing that young kid say "my mom just got out of jail and my dad I don't know I guess" is sooo heartbreaking to hear :( I hope one day he knows what the love of a family feels like

@sandrabeck8788

14 күн бұрын

That’s a LOT of kids, especially kids of color in poor neighborhoods.

"Mom you can't lie to a police officer" might be the most heartbreaking thing I've ever heard. That's a smart kid who finally had enough of his parent's reckless behavior and had the bravery to tell the police, despite the love I'm sure he has for his mother.

@Torirme17

14 күн бұрын

This whole video shows TWO different types of moms. One who CLEARLY cares about her child’s wellbeing and future and one who CLEARLY DOESN’T and got behind the wheel DRUNK with her child in the car.

@kathleendobens6648

14 күн бұрын

Exactly and also probably back we with th e m sickos.

@anastasialaguardia3848

2 күн бұрын

@@Torirme17 I would have to say that yelling at your kids, shaming their kids and grounding them for a month is emotional abuse and verbal abuse. It’s not discipline. That’s not what a loving and caring parent does. Screaming/yelling/raising voices at kids doesn’t work. Screaming/yelling/raising voices at kids can provoke them to anger and cause them to shut down. Yelling at kids can harm a child’s developing brain and it can also damage the relationship between the parent (or even a caregiver or even a grandparent) and the child. Also, shocking news, according to Legal Eagles, excessive and harmful yelling can lead to intervention by CPS, and in extreme cases, chromic emotional abuse may result in criminal charges. 4 reasons to stop yelling at kids: 1. It makes behavioral problems worse.
 2. It teaches kids that’s okay to scream/yell at someone when angry
 3. It can lead to depression and anxiety
 4. It shrinks the developing brain
 5. It affects physical heath
 Just like physical punishment, yelling, as a form of correction, teaches a child that problems are solved best with violence, rage and aggression, therefore, perpetuating the cycle of sinful behavior inside the home. Yelling is the new spanking. Many of us struggle with yelling because we did not have caregivers who modeled the Fruits of the Spirit (Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Gentleness, Faithfulness and Self-Control), emotional regulation, Christlike behavior, or effective non-violent communication to us in childhood. We also have caregivers who claim to know God, but do not understand child psychology, do not understand the Hebrew context behind the Bible verses, and have their hearts hardened against God and are continuing to live in sin. Yelling as a form of correction can increase anxiety, depression and stress according to a 2014 study in The Journal of Child Development. Humans instinctively yell as a form of PROTECTION, but when used as a form of correction, yelling creates relational tension and floods a child’s brain with stress hormones. Yelling as a form of correction can alter and even damage emotional & brain development. A recent study has found a link between consistent negative childhood experiences, including verbal abuse, pedophilia and child grooming, and physical conditions in adulthood such as arthritis, bad headaches, back & neck pain and other chronic conditions. Yelling has been shown in multiple studies to stunt the growth of the pre-frontal Cortex, responsible for the development of logic & reasoning (among other things) and the Amygdala, responsible for assigning the right emotional responses to a given circumstance. She also should have never cussed at the kids. That’s not showing what being a good role model nor what being a loving caring mother looks like. She should have prepared for such a problem by predicting what might happen (based on past experiences), prepare a response, then practice that response. The response must find that she is in complete control, must demonstrate to the child that she is not about to be intimidated, and should the child behave violently, clearly understood earned consequences will be borne immediately by the child. I would recommend taking away privileges calmly, in caring and in love, that last no more than a week. Not in anger. A month is too long. This will look like this: “I’m sorry you choose to do that and because of it having denied yourself your Xbox privileges for a week. I forgive you, but that does not mean that you are keeping your Xbox for a week because of your choice.”

@anastasialaguardia3848

2 күн бұрын

@@Torirme17 She also doesn’t realize that obedience is actually based out of trust, not out of fear. Intentionally inflicting physical pain on a child to coerce obedience is not an act of love. It’s an act of fear. The word obey means willness & following through, to carry out wishes of others because of trust. Parents, pastors caregivers, teachers, grandparents and in-laws that call themselves a Christian think Biblical obedience is a high value of compliance and behavioral control. They have a fear of getting it wrong or they may feel like, “I don’t know how to get that compliance without at least having this threat in my back pocket to pull out”. In communities, parents reward compliance. Parents have been complimented on their “well-behaved” children. Other families that have “well-behaved” compliant children are kind of seeing as something to aspire to. Satan wants the world to believe that parents who have different goals than behavioral compliance are that the children are not compliant. Here’s the truth. Demanding your children to do something without question is not teaching Biblical obedience. Demanding your child to something wrong and sinful is not Biblical obedience. Blind first time every time obedience isn’t Biblical obedience. Blind first time every time obedience does not reach the heart. God has never said He wants complaint people. I would also not recommend the counting to 3 technique. The counting to 3 technique is a “quick fix”, but it doesn’t solve any problem at all. By counting to 3, we give children a chance to ignore us and trigger us to snap and rage. The counting to 3 technique supports the authoritarian style of parenting, and also the narcissistic, tiger & neglectful styles of parenting. Blind first time every time obedience (which again, isn’t true Biblical obedience), which lead to more escalation and causes us to be more angrier instead of solving the problem. Blind first time every time obedience will cause harm to our relationship with children. Kids are not trusting parents because they continue to support physical punishment, emotional punishment, verbal punishment and other forms of physical abuse and verbal abuse against them, and even unforgiveness, authoritarianism, rageness and grudges against them. Blind first time every time obedience will also make children easier prey for the predators, like pedophiles, and even the Devil Satan. While strict and responsive parenting style (authoritative, attachment, unconditional, positive, and gentle) without physical punishment, emotional punishment nor verbal punishment produces the best outcomes in kids, strict, satanic, abusive, harsh and unresponsive parenting style (authoritarian, narcissistic, neglectful & tiger) produces adverse outcomes includes low self-esteem, self-control issues, sinful lifestyles like gender change, same-sex relationships, same-sex marriages, illegal drug use, tobacco chewing, weed smoking, tobacco smoking, porn watching, mastrubation, sexual abuse, domestic violence, alcohol drinking, rudeness, disobeying parents, false witness, taunting or harassing characters, murder, & mental health problems. Kids raised with satanic strict authoritarian parenting, neglectful parenting, narcissistic parenting, physical punishment and/or tiger parenting are more likely to be unhappy, more depressed, & become bullies, brats, meanies, or sinners. Kids raised with satanic strict authoritarian parenting, neglectful parenting, narcissistic parenting, physical punishment and/or tiger parenting are also more likely to commit suicide. Kids raised with satanic strict authoritarian parenting, neglectful parenting, narcissistic parenting, physical punishment and/or tiger parenting are most like to rebel.

@anastasialaguardia3848

2 күн бұрын

@@Torirme17 Obedience is not simply about following rules without questioning. It isn’t blind obedience. It is, first and foremost, relational. And when we realize that not only does Yahweh call His people to shema His word. He reciprocates that shema towards His people, we can see how our modern understanding of obedience might be a little bit upside down. In John 14:15, Jesus says to His followers: “If ye love me, keep my commandments”. Jesus communicated the relational nature of obedience: it is born out of love and trust. In Matthew 21:28:32, Jesus shares a story about a son who says he will obey his father, and one who says he will not. It is the one who first states that he will not obey, then later decides to do it, that Jesus says “does the will of his father”. When we understand and factor in the Jewish understanding of obedience (to consider, listen and thoughtfully respond), we can understand why it is the brother who changes his heart who is counted as obedient. So, Biblical obedience is actually developing trusting relationship overtime, not blind first time every time obedience. Trust, not force, is the key that unlocks Biblical obedience. There are times when it’s right to disobey earthly authorities in order to obey God. Even little children & toddlers can be taught this truth, that there is a time when it’s right to disobey earthly authorities in order to obey a higher authority. There is a time when it’s right to get help. Like for example, if earthly authorities in the government that are part of the Illuminati forces the world to wear masks & be physically distant from each other, then we must disobey the earthly authorities in the government that are part of the Illuminati because masks can cause carbon dioxide poisoning, initiate you to the new 6.0 edition of the One World Government, and symbolizes blind allegiance to the AntiChrist, and social distancing can lead to PTSD, depression, more stress, decrease of the chemical oxytocin, and symbolically separates you from God. If someone forces you to get the COVID vaccine, then you must disobey because the COVID vaccine has microchips named Luciferase that can change your DNA and turn you into a hybrid human/animal, and it also has graphene oxide in it that will make you become a zombie. If Catholics force you to pray to Mary or the saints, then we must disobey because God says that we should not bow to any grave image that represents anything in Heaven or on the earth. If an authority figure forces a child to do wrong, like get the COVID vaccine or spank a baby, then the child is not culpable, but we can actively teach them that God doesn’t require them to obey a parent who is abusive, narcissistic, forces vaccinations and/or committing crimes.

I hope those 3 boys at the beginning are safe. Shame the dad got off with just probation

@rapmastac1362

26 күн бұрын

It’s really telling how his major initial concern was not whether the alleged events happened, but who made the call. My mom dated someone like this when my sister and I were kids and he was just like that. First he pointed at our mom, and then at our grandparents next door, and then eventually to us.

@robyne.1082

25 күн бұрын

They live in constant fight or flight mode Everyday.....I know how they feel😢 It will never stop until they cut ties with the dad.

@daniellediller5070

24 күн бұрын

​@@robyne.1082 Yep and that will cause a laundry list of problems

@Ashujalemro

23 күн бұрын

They got turned over to their mothers care and he was ordered to have no contact with all 3 of them

@rein3417

21 күн бұрын

@@Ashujalemrothat’s a relief. Poor kids.

As someone who was abused and consistently assaulted by their own mother, seeing other kids get justice from abuse makes me so happy

@AlphaMinke_OFFICAL

16 күн бұрын

Sorry you went through that pain with your mother

@cecenooooo

15 күн бұрын

@@AlphaMinke_OFFICAL life happens i guess, just glad i'm out of it now. thanks for the reply :)

@FatimahMohamed-le2xj

10 күн бұрын

I know this comment won't do much but im so sorry for what happened with your mom hope your doing good now

@estefaniatorres4579

4 күн бұрын

Thats what I’m watching this for!! So nice to see these kids get pulled out of these situations.

"no shes not goin to walk CHLOE!" just love that line😂

" get an attorney" "My attorney just died" Umm okay, my condolences, get another one? Wtf kind of excuse was that???

@melanieharrison5597

18 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂 right

@munky342

18 күн бұрын

Yeah, I didn't realise we were restricted to one. Guess I took someone else's that one time.

@ninjavibez4696

18 күн бұрын

Catching lobster lol

@AuroraTheIdiot

18 күн бұрын

How do you die lobster fishing? Getting pinched to hard???

@cassamoroll

17 күн бұрын

LMFAO?????

I feel so bad for eric. His family is trying to make him feel like he's in the wrong for wanting to live in peace

@scottevans2685

24 күн бұрын

If he doesn't already, Eric's going to grow up to hate women.

@michellewhite70

19 күн бұрын

This makes me so sad.

@demifolk8940

18 күн бұрын

@@scottevans2685bro what, i was abused by my mom too but i never hated women. thats fucking stupid

"Eric please" "Nuh uh" why did that get me laughing 😭

It’s very healing to see narcissistic parents getting arrested, but hearing how the man in the beginning had three offenses and was still able to see his children is disgusting

Dude that grandma needs to be locked up for Eric’s sake. She’s just as bad as Christine. She basically threatened him.

@ebtheceleb7933

18 күн бұрын

Oh it's generational for sure

@itzrachei

16 күн бұрын

fr

@LowkeyKyu

16 күн бұрын

Fr. I’m hoping he’s safe from the grandma

I feel like the Grandma in the second case should've been arrested for tampering with a witness, obstruction of justice and impeding in a investigation.

@Scottyjscizzle

28 күн бұрын

Was thinking the same, you can hear the attitude in her voice when she comes outside to confirm the cops again, definitely a family trait.

@Sonic-gy7kq

27 күн бұрын

Intimidation too?! of a minor + victim. I was surprised the cop let her do that.

@laurali7105

27 күн бұрын

The grandmother is the big enabler. That’s why the daughter is as she is. Poor boy, finally brave enough to call out for help and they let him down. Glad the police took her but she’ll be home soon again sadly.

@emneeson

27 күн бұрын

It annoyed me that the police let her come in the room and talk to him when he was trying to tell the police what was happening. That should've been shut down straight away

@IllustriousCrocoduck

27 күн бұрын

​@@emneesonyes, she definitely intimidated him on the spot.

41:33 "She was charged with DUI, Resisting, and child abuse" *HEAVY GUITAR SOLO*

@daethegr8test

7 күн бұрын

🤣🤣rolling

Children are always so calm and trying their best to cooperate with the police.... I hope they're safe now.

The fact that Eric’s grandma cared more about her daughter than her own grandchild, HER LINEAGE, THE ONE THAT WOULD TELL STORIES ABOUT HER FOR THE REST OF HIS NATURAL LIFE, that says that there’s something else wrong.

@IllustriousCrocoduck

27 күн бұрын

This is why blood ain't shit. Biology means very little. Family is who ACTS like it.

@FoxrosePettipaw

26 күн бұрын

Yup, my Grandma was like that too. She'd watch me get abused day in and day out and called me ungrateful when I said I was uncomfortable living under those circumstances. Later on my mom told me she planned to evict my Grandma and steal her money she put in the house (both bought the house but only my mom had her name on the deed). She told me I was trying to start shit and that I was a looser son and grandson. I moved out as soon as I had a job and place to live. Not 1 year later and guess who got kicked out of the house 🤪 now my Grandma is suing my mom and I'm just eating popcorn the whole time lmfao like honestly if my Grandma stood up for me I'd have been a witness for her against my mom because my mom is an awful person. Cheats and steals from people. But nope! Never heard a thing now :P

@eluramarymartinez3102

26 күн бұрын

It was her granddaughter tho so I’m thinking she didn’t really care about her either all she cares for was herself she didn’t want to ruin her reputation and her families reputation in my family so,etching similar happened and the saying was “if no one knows then it isn’t happening” so I’m guessing that’s what was going through her kind as well

@louniece1650

25 күн бұрын

​@@IllustriousCrocoduck💯❣️

@shadowsoulless6227

25 күн бұрын

The fact that the grandmother cared more about an adult woman making bad decisions than a minor that has no ability to support themselves and directly relies on their parent to live..... How about that instead of some stupid nonsense about lineage???

That first dad put a lot of emphasis on life being extremely hard for him. But notice how he only made it about him and being the victim. No matter how difficult life is a parent should never allow their anger or stress being turned into physical violence or physiological abuse.

@nikolvitanza4746

18 күн бұрын

Classic narcissism. 💯

@Robinsunshine83

16 күн бұрын

Those poor boys are absolutely aware this is not ok . That man needs prison not probation like damnnnn he only going to do more violence than before.

@CraigGrant-sh3in

14 күн бұрын

​@@Robinsunshine83, I'm sure the cops will be back . He knows the boys called for the police. I'm sure there will be punishment for that

@Groot573

13 күн бұрын

Life probably is hard. It’s hard for everyone. He may not touch his children in the way he did on all three occasions he was proven abusive. And for all of the other times

@Robinsunshine83

13 күн бұрын

@@CraigGrant-sh3in these poor boys are dead meat ..they wanted to go ..they are such innocent good boys it's a shame : what's the options run away live on streets . These poor boys knew it's more than discipline...and there's much documentation. God this upsets me to fullest ..this man ain't dsnt " like" technology..think there's going to be a phone ...anywhere for a mile of these kids next time...sick fuk like this guy ...he gonna male them pay ...if they off his you know what i. The middle of night though they the ones going to do time still he w I no serve time. ..just probation with what full custody still. Teavisty.

It always annoys me when the cops tell the suspects that their kids were the ones that called. Most likely they’ll end up back with their parents and it’ll be even worse because of that.

The contrasting mothers in the cases with the kids on the road and the drunk driver were fabulous. One mom instilling discipline and life lessons. One mom ignoring the DUI laws and her son instilling the lessons!

@anastasialaguardia3848

3 күн бұрын

I would have to say that yelling at your kids, shaming their kids and grounding them for a month is emotional abuse and verbal abuse. It’s not discipline. That’s not what a loving parent does. Screaming/yelling/raising voices at kids doesn’t work. Screaming/yelling/raising voices at kids can provoke them to anger and cause them to shut down. Yelling at kids can harm a child’s developing brain and it can also damage the relationship between the parent (or even a caregiver or even a grandparent) and the child. Also, shocking news, according to Legal Eagles, excessive and harmful yelling can lead to intervention by CPS, and in extreme cases, chromic emotional abuse may result in criminal charges. 4 reasons to stop yelling at kids: 1. It makes behavioral problems worse.
 2. It teaches kids that’s okay to scream/yell at someone when angry
 3. It can lead to depression and anxiety
 4. It shrinks the developing brain
 5. It affects physical heath
 Just like physical punishment, yelling, as a form of correction, teaches a child that problems are solved best with violence, rage and aggression, therefore, perpetuating the cycle of sinful behavior inside the home. Yelling is the new spanking. Many of us struggle with yelling because we did not have caregivers who modeled the Fruits of the Spirit (Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Gentleness, Faithfulness and Self-Control), emotional regulation, Christlike behavior, or effective non-violent communication to us in childhood. We also have caregivers who claim to know God, but do not understand child psychology, do not understand the Hebrew context behind the Bible verses, and have their hearts hardened against God and are continuing to live in sin. Yelling as a form of correction can increase anxiety, depression and stress according to a 2014 study in The Journal of Child Development. Humans instinctively yell as a form of PROTECTION, but when used as a form of correction, yelling creates relational tension and floods a child’s brain with stress hormones. Yelling as a form of correction can alter and even damage emotional & brain development. A recent study has found a link between consistent negative childhood experiences, including verbal abuse, pedophilia and child grooming, and physical conditions in adulthood such as arthritis, bad headaches, back & neck pain and other chronic conditions. Yelling has been shown in multiple studies to stunt the growth of the pre-frontal Cortex, responsible for the development of logic & reasoning (among other things) and the Amygdala, responsible for assigning the right emotional responses to a given circumstance. She also should have never cussed at the kids. That’s not showing what being a good role model looks like. She should have prepared for such a problem by predicting what might happen (based on past experiences), prepare a response, then practice that response. The response must find that she is in complete control, must demonstrate to the child that she is not about to be intimidated, and should the child behave violently, clearly understood earned consequences will be borne immediately by the child. I would recommend taking away privileges calmly and in love, that last no more than a week. Not in anger. A month is too long. This will look like this: “I’m sorry you choose to do that and because of it having denied yourself your Xbox privileges for a week. I forgive you, but that does not mean that you are keeping your Xbox for a week because of your choice.”

@anastasialaguardia3848

3 күн бұрын

What the mother could have done to her boys to discipline them was to stay calm, and say this in an authoritative, firm, bold, though controlled voice (no shouting, no shaming and no pointing fingers): “Hello, boys. It’s very obvious that you’re having a good time, huh? Yeah, and you 3 have been caught by the police for polluting the road by throwing rocks and trash on the road. I’m sorry that your evening haven’t gone well. Since you are now arrested for throwing trash and rocks on the road, here’s what’s going to happen. You will spend time in the juvenile detention center and you will suffer the full consequences of the law. Furthermore, you are going to lose every single privilege that my home has to offer, including the use of an Xbox, the phone, and so on! Now, before you do anything for which you’ll be sorry for, I need you to go with the police officers and think it over while you’re in jail. Your father, your grandmother, your grandfather, your aunt, your uncle and I will be in court for the sentencing.” Then the mom will stand there, calmly looking at the boy straight in the eye. She could have been in control, firm & composed since the teens were out of control. Then in gentle tones, as the boys are in handcuffs and going to to police car, she could have said, “I’m sorry you’re having a bad evening, Son, and I’m sorry you’re upset. Go with those police officers now so you can regain your composure in jail. Then let’s talk about it whenever I visit you.” Then while the boys are in handcuffs and as they are walking to the police car, the mom will walk over to her son, put his arms around him, gave him a hug, a kiss on the cheek, and told him that she loved him. Then the boys went to the jail station and that is the end of throwing rocks and trash on the road.

@anastasialaguardia3848

3 күн бұрын

She also doesn’t realize that obedience is actually based out of trust, not out of fear. Intentionally inflicting physical pain on a child to coerce obedience is not an act of love. It’s an act of fear. The word obey means willness & following through, to carry out wishes of others because of trust. Parents, pastors caregivers, teachers, grandparents and in-laws that call themselves a Christian think Biblical obedience is a high value of compliance and behavioral control. They have a fear of getting it wrong or they may feel like, “I don’t know how to get that compliance without at least having this threat in my back pocket to pull out”. In communities, parents reward compliance. Parents have been complimented on their “well-behaved” children. Other families that have “well-behaved” compliant children are kind of seeing as something to aspire to. Satan wants the world to believe that parents who have different goals than behavioral compliance are that the children are not compliant. Here’s the truth. Demanding your children to do something without question is not teaching Biblical obedience. Demanding your child to something wrong and sinful is not Biblical obedience. Blind first time every time obedience isn’t Biblical obedience. Blind first time every time obedience does not reach the heart. God has never said He wants complaint people. I would also not recommend the counting to 3 technique. The counting to 3 technique is a “quick fix”, but it doesn’t solve any problem at all. By counting to 3, we give children a chance to ignore us and trigger us to snap and rage. The counting to 3 technique supports the authoritarian style of parenting, and also the narcissistic, tiger & neglectful styles of parenting. Blind first time every time obedience (which again, isn’t true Biblical obedience), which lead to more escalation and causes us to be more angrier instead of solving the problem. Blind first time every time obedience will cause harm to our relationship with children. Kids are not trusting parents because they continue to support physical punishment, emotional punishment, verbal punishment and other forms of physical abuse and verbal abuse against them, and even unforgiveness, authoritarianism, rageness and grudges against them. Blind first time every time obedience will also make children easier prey for the predators, like pedophiles, and even the Devil Satan. While strict and responsive parenting style (authoritative, attachment, unconditional, positive, and gentle) without physical punishment, emotional punishment nor verbal punishment produces the best outcomes in kids, strict, satanic, abusive, harsh and unresponsive parenting style (authoritarian, narcissistic, neglectful & tiger) produces adverse outcomes includes low self-esteem, self-control issues, sinful lifestyles like gender change, same-sex relationships, same-sex marriages, illegal drug use, tobacco chewing, weed smoking, tobacco smoking, porn watching, mastrubation, sexual abuse, domestic violence, alcohol drinking, rudeness, disobeying parents, false witness, taunting or harassing characters, murder, & mental health problems. Kids raised with satanic strict authoritarian parenting, neglectful parenting, narcissistic parenting, physical punishment and/or tiger parenting are more likely to be unhappy, more depressed, & become bullies, brats, meanies, or sinners. Kids raised with satanic strict authoritarian parenting, neglectful parenting, narcissistic parenting, physical punishment and/or tiger parenting are also more likely to commit suicide. Kids raised with satanic strict authoritarian parenting, neglectful parenting, narcissistic parenting, physical punishment and/or tiger parenting are most like to rebel.

@anastasialaguardia3848

3 күн бұрын

Obedience is not simply about following rules without questioning. It isn’t blind obedience. It is, first and foremost, relational. And when we realize that not only does Yahweh call His people to shema His word. He reciprocates that shema towards His people, we can see how our modern understanding of obedience might be a little bit upside down. In John 14:15, Jesus says to His followers: “If ye love me, keep my commandments”. Jesus communicated the relational nature of obedience: it is born out of love and trust. In Matthew 21:28:32, Jesus shares a story about a son who says he will obey his father, and one who says he will not. It is the one who first states that he will not obey, then later decides to do it, that Jesus says “does the will of his father”. When we understand and factor in the Jewish understanding of obedience (to consider, listen and thoughtfully respond), we can understand why it is the brother who changes his heart who is counted as obedient. So, Biblical obedience is actually developing trusting relationship overtime, not blind first time every time obedience. Trust, not force, is the key that unlocks Biblical obedience. There are times when it’s right to disobey earthly authorities in order to obey God. Even little children & toddlers can be taught this truth, that there is a time when it’s right to disobey earthly authorities in order to obey a higher authority. There is a time when it’s right to get help. Like for example, if earthly authorities in the government that are part of the Illuminati forces the world to wear masks & be physically distant from each other, then we must disobey the earthly authorities in the government that are part of the Illuminati because masks can cause carbon dioxide poisoning, initiate you to the new 6.0 edition of the One World Government, and symbolizes blind allegiance to the AntiChrist, and social distancing can lead to PTSD, depression, more stress, decrease of the chemical oxytocin, and symbolically separates you from God. If someone forces you to get the COVID vaccine, then you must disobey because the COVID vaccine has microchips named Luciferase that can change your DNA and turn you into a hybrid human/animal, and it also has graphene oxide in it that will make you become a zombie. If Catholics force you to pray to Mary or the saints, then we must disobey because God says that we should not bow to any grave image that represents anything in Heaven or on the earth. If an authority figure forces a child to do wrong, like get the COVID vaccine or spank a baby, then the child is not culpable, but we can actively teach them that God doesn’t require them to obey a parent who is abusive, narcissistic, forces vaccinations and/or committing crimes.

You could tell Christine was a raging, lying, abusive person. She just seems like she would do anything to save her own skin

@Cloverkitty

27 күн бұрын

Reminds me of my mother. The moment she's confronted by ANYONE, oh God the world must be ending! Tears and tears and screaming nonsense. Ugh.

@cheesygreasy470

23 күн бұрын

She acted like she was on crack which she probably was

@Shrimptoast21

23 күн бұрын

​@@Cloverkittysame as soon as she came on screen I was immediately reminded of my own mother.

@dishmeup

19 күн бұрын

​@@Shrimptoast21she reminds me of my ex who also just had a kid so i feel bad for that kid because ik what it has to deal wirh especially with an ex crack addict and alcoholic for a father and the mother herself being an ex meth addict its a grear combination why i feel we need licensing for having a kid you need one to drive a car which needs far less maintenance daily than a kid yet anyone can just get preggo and then kill the kid because of their mental issues

@MsMaryPatricia

10 күн бұрын

There was no mention of Eric spiting on her until she thought it would get her out of trouble...... because we all know it didn't happen.

That Grandma shouldn't have been allowed to wander around when the cops were there. Definitely should have not been allowed to interrupt that interview.

@multipletanksyndrome

28 күн бұрын

That's witness intimidation.

@multipletanksyndrome

28 күн бұрын

That Grandma definitely guilty of witness intimidation. She walked into that interview and told him not to say something. Lock her up too. Women get away with so much.

@wyntermassie7027

24 күн бұрын

As soon as the mom was being put under arrest and she got up to go after him I was like nah I’d arrest her right there

@TheSidgriff

21 күн бұрын

​@@multipletanksyndromeyea bro totally cuz it was a women 🫠🙄

@introvertedaz9963

16 күн бұрын

​@multipletanksyndrome So did the man with the 3 separate cases of child abuse apparently. Don't make it a gender thing dude.

I want to cry for those first three boys. Living like that and they still had the courage to call the police for help

Michelle is one of the most bizarre interactions I've seen...She needs a mental health eval.

I remember calling the cops on my parents. My mom told the judge she would kill me when she got the chance. They had to put me under protection in the system so that my immediate family couldn’t figure out where I was until they moved me with family in another state. It was awful but overall saved mine, my niece and nephew and my parents lives

@smileymctrashbag3589

14 күн бұрын

Holy crap, that's really awful. I am so sorry you had to go through that. I hope you're able to start healing. I also hope she can never find you.

@shannonlambson6319

14 күн бұрын

That was really brave of you, must have been so hard. I hope that you have found healing.

@Iwoasasaned

13 күн бұрын

I guess with „my parents“ you were talking about those who really loved and cared for you, your biological aunt and uncle who grew into your parents? Did I understand that correct? Thanks to the Lord for them loving you so much to go through all the legal and safety stuff and even move out of state. What a blessing, glad you had them

@LongLostInideQueen

13 күн бұрын

Sorry,I’m confused

@Halo44327

11 күн бұрын

That was pretty badass of you.

3 big kids and dad crammed in a camper, he makes them give him back rubs and doesn't let them have phones? Creepy af

@missbae28

16 күн бұрын

I seriously feel they need to ask those kids more questions. Something doesn't sound right. He better not be abusing them sexually as well...😢

@rennoc6478

15 күн бұрын

@@missbae28I’d be surprised if they didn’t ask more off site

They should take grandma into custody too, saying he’ll regret it if he talks to them.

“Your Xbox is gone for a month!”. Smartest thing any of them said.

@estefaniatorres4579

4 күн бұрын

I would have done TWO months!! One for each time a deputy had to call her 😣

@anastasialaguardia3848

3 күн бұрын

What the mother could have done to her boys to discipline them was to stay calm, and say this in an authoritative, firm, bold, though controlled voice (no shouting, no shaming, no you-blaming statements and no pointing fingers): “Hello, boys. It’s very obvious that you’re having a good time, huh? Yeah, and you 3 have been caught by the police for polluting the road by throwing rocks and trash on the road. I’m sorry that your evening haven’t gone well. Since you are now arrested for throwing trash and rocks on the road, here’s what’s going to happen. You will spend time in the juvenile detention center and you will suffer the full consequences of the law. Furthermore, you are going to lose every single privilege that my home has to offer, including the use of an Xbox, the phone, and so on! Now, before you do anything for which you’ll be sorry for, I need you to go with the police officers and think it over while you’re in jail. Your father, your grandmother, your grandfather, your aunt, your uncle and I will be in court for the sentencing.” Then the mom will stand there, calmly looking at the boy straight in the eye. She could have been in control, firm & composed since the teens were out of control. Then in gentle tones, as the boys are in handcuffs and going to to police car, she could have said, “I’m sorry you’re having a bad evening, Son, and I’m sorry you’re upset. Go with those police officers now so you can regain your composure in jail. Then let’s talk about it whenever I visit you.” Then while the boys are in handcuffs and as they are walking to the police car, the mom will walk over to her son, put his arms around him, gave him a hug, a kiss on the cheek, and told him that she loved him. Then the boys went to the jail station and that is the end of throwing rocks and trash on the road.

@anastasialaguardia3848

2 күн бұрын

I would have to say that yelling at your kids, shaming their kids and grounding them for a month is emotional abuse and verbal abuse. It’s not discipline. That’s not what a loving parent does. Screaming/yelling/raising voices at kids doesn’t work. Screaming/yelling/raising voices at kids can provoke them to anger and cause them to shut down. Yelling at kids can harm a child’s developing brain and it can also damage the relationship between the parent (or even a caregiver or even a grandparent) and the child. Also, shocking news, according to Legal Eagles, excessive and harmful yelling can lead to intervention by CPS, and in extreme cases, chromic emotional abuse may result in criminal charges. 4 reasons to stop yelling at kids: 1. It makes behavioral problems worse.
 2. It teaches kids that’s okay to scream/yell at someone when angry
 3. It can lead to depression and anxiety
 4. It shrinks the developing brain
 5. It affects physical heath
 Just like physical punishment, yelling, as a form of correction, teaches a child that problems are solved best with violence, rage and aggression, therefore, perpetuating the cycle of sinful behavior inside the home. Yelling is the new spanking. Many of us struggle with yelling because we did not have caregivers who modeled the Fruits of the Spirit (Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Gentleness, Faithfulness and Self-Control), emotional regulation, Christlike behavior, or effective non-violent communication to us in childhood. We also have caregivers who claim to know God, but do not understand child psychology, do not understand the Hebrew context behind the Bible verses, and have their hearts hardened against God and are continuing to live in sin. Yelling as a form of correction can increase anxiety, depression and stress according to a 2014 study in The Journal of Child Development. Humans instinctively yell as a form of PROTECTION, but when used as a form of correction, yelling creates relational tension and floods a child’s brain with stress hormones. Yelling as a form of correction can alter and even damage emotional & brain development. A recent study has found a link between consistent negative childhood experiences, including verbal abuse, pedophilia and child grooming, and physical conditions in adulthood such as arthritis, bad headaches, back & neck pain and other chronic conditions. Yelling has been shown in multiple studies to stunt the growth of the pre-frontal Cortex, responsible for the development of logic & reasoning (among other things) and the Amygdala, responsible for assigning the right emotional responses to a given circumstance. She also should have never cussed at the kids. That’s not showing what being a good role model looks like. She should have prepared for such a problem by predicting what might happen (based on past experiences), prepare a response, then practice that response. The response must find that she is in complete control, must demonstrate to the child that she is not about to be intimidated, and should the child behave violently, clearly understood earned consequences will be borne immediately by the child. I would recommend taking away privileges calmly and in love, that last no more than a week. Not in anger. A month is too long. This will look like this: “I’m sorry you choose to do that and because of it having denied yourself your Xbox privileges for a week. I forgive you, but that does not mean that you are keeping your Xbox for a week because of your choice.”

@chels4723

7 сағат бұрын

@@anastasialaguardia3848i definitely felt like it was more a way of trying to show the cops how good of a mum she was.. but like we all know she isnt a good mum if she just got out of jail, has no baby daddy and has her preteens strolling along the highways at night

@anastasialaguardia3848

4 сағат бұрын

@@chels4723 Yelling at children and being harsh with preteens is not how a loving and caring mom would do. Also, cussing at the preteens is not how a loving and caring mom would do. If parents want children to use inside voices and stop cussing, then they must show it thru example by modeling clean language and inside voices. Being harsh, tough and mean on kids provokes them to anger according to Ephesians 6:4 & Colossians 3:21. Satan wants parents to be hard on children. False prophets will take Ephesians 6:4 & Colossians 3:21 out of context and misuse those verses to support the spanking in love technique. Let’s take a took at the Greek words behind Ephesians 6:4 & Colossians 3:21. The key verb isn’t discipline, it’s “bring them up”. The Greek word for “bring them up” is “ektrephete”, which is from the root word “ektrephó”. That word is only used twice in the New Testament. But, the root of it, “trepo” is used quite a few times. What Ephesians 6:4 & Colossians 3:21 actually mean is to feed, nourish, or fatten up to maturity. The root “trepo” is often used once as “to nurse”. So, you can see the nurturing aspect there. Those verses also mean to be mindful of your child’s emotions. Ephesians 6:4 and Colossians 3:21 are the only 2 commandments that God gave to parents in the New Testament. Parents who call themselves a Christian that practice tough love parenting aka authoritarian parenting because they believe they want to toughen up the child. They mistakenly believe that being harsh and mean to a child will make them strong and Godly. However, they are often harsh and full of rage, and lack both warmth, empathy, sympathy, setting boundaries and respect, making their love not feel very loving at all. Harshness does not win over a child. Being tough and harsh has the opposite effect---leading ultimately to more disobedience, more rebellion and perhaps even worse sinful behavior down the road, like lying. Harshly punishing a kid who can't quite always do the right thing isn't going to help him or her develop the skills he or she needs to live a Godly life or regulation skills. It is going to give him or her the message that he or she is bad, that she or he is an accident, that she or he is worthless, that she or he is a disappointment, that he or she is a mistake, he or she is evil, he or she is disrespectful and so on. We don't need to be harsh, mean and abusive when we discipline our children. We need to be kind, but firm, precise, immediate and well-planned. If that mom was committing physical violence against her children before they were preteen, like hitting/beating on the rear end with a bare hand or an object like a spoon, a rope, a plastic tube or a belt, then she could have gotten in jail and could have gotten a court mandate to take the Nurturing God’s Way parenting class along with Attached at the Heart parenting class.

the first man needs to not be let around his kids anymore.

the second cops should not have told her who called for the cops....

@ataridc

29 күн бұрын

that last video was pure chaos LOL

@Australian_Made

27 күн бұрын

Agreed

@yxe_amy1736

20 күн бұрын

otherwise she probably wouldn’t have talked AT ALL and she probably figured herself

“He called because I was gonna call!” And then proceeded to scream at the officers for being there beforehand

Gotta love how the parents will freak out that stress will make them throw up and pass out, but completely disregards the fact that assaulting his sons is likely the most stressful and scary thing they have ever dealt with.. But apparently the parent's own stress is waaay more important.

Driving drunk with a child in the car should carry a mandatory minimum ten year driving ban

@Fetidaf

23 күн бұрын

Honestly that should be a prison sentence or at the very least “you don’t have kids anymore” along with license revocation. It’s a shame the US doesn’t have the infrastructure to actually help kids in those situations though.

@Bootyjuice..

22 күн бұрын

I think a forever ban tbh, you drove drunk first off all risking the lives of strangers but second of all W YOUR KID ? You don’t even care abt your own blood?!?!? you def don’t care abt anyone else then fs… no license in this lifetime or any after that !

@rayrayqbaby

22 күн бұрын

I often wonder if people truly think through some of these totalitarian "comment section sentences" they purpose & are just fine with the distopian outcomes they would have on our society. Or if they are just making emotionally charged statements without fully understanding the full reaching impact of what they are proposing. For the sake of the future, I'm sincerely hoping it's the former and not the latter.

@Fetidaf

22 күн бұрын

@@rayrayqbaby I’m not generally one of those “any criminal should be in prison for life!” People… but driving while drunk with a your child should be aggravated attempted murder and child abuse. You absolutely should not be let behind the wheel for a long time as you show callous disregard for not only the safety of the general public, but your own family as well.

@rocky-fuller

19 күн бұрын

That doesn't stop people from driving unfortunately

Poor Eric, if he knew the level of gaslighting he's experiencing... People are monsters

Handled so badly, revealing information that will cause further abuse and allowing unsupervised contact with them even after being convicted of child abuse should be a criminal offense!!!

The first dude just being given a probation... I'm sure that made those boys never want to call cops again as the abuse must've worsened

Michelle, the woman in red had to have been on drugs. Something. The cop said, "because I know you Michelle, I've been dealing with you for 12 years!" Lmao

@stephanieemerik

14 күн бұрын

Hall marks of a meth addict

@Iwoasasaned

13 күн бұрын

It’s horrible to imagine what addiction did to this family - especially the kids. They must have been kindergarten age when she fell into the abyss

@legendssecurityservice1871

11 күн бұрын

I believe she was on LSD mixed with a different mild drug

@Bowiebonolennon1982

11 күн бұрын

I thought it was meth…

@parzivalsmom

10 күн бұрын

na. i just think shes kinda slow. honestly, that one kind of heart warming.

Makes me sad how these parents treat these poor kids

@MsAmique

29 күн бұрын

I sometimes think about how any given moment, some child , somewhere is being treated poorly. I say a prayer and remind myself to stay vigilant and not turn a blind eye.

@Fluffy_B1u3_p0t4t0

28 күн бұрын

Fr, one reason why I no longer want to be in this world, and people act like its the happiest place on earth.

I remember when my aunt abused me and almost killed me when I was 11. The cops came and she hid me in her room acting “nice” and she made me sleep in her bed with her. I couldn’t get help and come out and talk to the police. It’s so powerful that those kids talked to the police or called them, it’s EXTREMELY Terrifying and hard to do that. Proud of them, I hope they are safe now.

Lmao that cat at 23:34 ran around the corner and was like, “oh shit wroNG WAY MY BAD” 😭 Caught me off guard

Brave children. I hope they grow up to be better parents than the ones they have.

@kelleygreengrass

29 күн бұрын

They surely will since they know it's wrong

@Fluffy_B1u3_p0t4t0

28 күн бұрын

They should work for the police or become one, they would serve well.

@chlyri

26 күн бұрын

if they even choose to be parents.

@puddingpye

23 күн бұрын

They usually follow in their abusive parents' footsteps due to learned behaviour . Not all but some.

@user-ne4oh8lg3k

20 күн бұрын

I grew up in abuse (in the UK) and severe violence (we were caned, beaten, belted, locked in our rooms with a bucket to piss in when children). I am expecting a little boy (my first child) and will protect him with my life.

The Mom in the red shirt is absolutely vile. I feel so sorry for her daughter who still defends her and begs the cops not to hurt her.

They're scared he's going to come out. Poor kids, I pray they get out of there and get love.

The fact that the last woman's friends let her leave with her young son to go home OBVIOUSLY drunk is a crime within itself.

@MsMaryPatricia

10 күн бұрын

"Wine" moms. She's probably a lush too.

That last mom is so crazy, she clearly taught her son to be COMPLETELY honest to police but then will commit crimes right in front of him😂

@scottevans2685

24 күн бұрын

"You ratted me out, you little bastard!" "You taught me to do it, Mom." "D'OH!!!

@MrGible

20 күн бұрын

Rules for thee..

The grandma needs a reality check. What a joke these adults are!! I hope they all go to jail .poor young man😢

Got no patience with this drunk woman! Go to jail !

The fact the 3rd child called his mother out, recognising the lying and trying to get away with it to the police breaks my heart, children shouldn't have to be their parents moral compass. What a wonderful kid.

the fact they let that lady come into the boys room and manipulate him into not saying anything to protect the mother is terrible. they should have talked to him in complete privacy

"you weren't invited" "We're not vampires"

That 3rd lady is a PERFECT EXAMPLE of why DRUGS ARE BAD KIDS. USING her children, causing problems with the daughter’s boyfriend and the daughter who CLEARLY has a heart of gold, is still begging the cops not to hurt her mom. If my mom EVER did that and I love my mother, but I’d just walk away. Let ‘em do their job. She wants to be difficult. Fu** around and find out.

The last clip had a Good Mom with a disobedient child and an Awful mom with an intelligent, respectful child. Crazy video Hope all these kids are doing better

@wolfling2039

29 күн бұрын

All it needed to be a three ring circus was a clapping seal. The officers did a good job as Ring Masters though.

@Meechy37

28 күн бұрын

Yeah it took me a second to figure out what was going on once the drunk mom showed up. Pure chaos but the cops handled it perfectly. I laughed so hard when the kid snitched on his mom (rightfully so)

@someidiotnamedtricks6397

28 күн бұрын

I have to say it was slightly funny hearing the actually good mom going nuts over her kid nearly being it and how she does both a good job of ensuring he gets the point but also making sure he knows how worried she was

@beesonbandit6639

28 күн бұрын

It’s sad, I can see my own mom in the that cared about her kid. A father figure is important in a child’s life for guidance and a good example

@dfsgirl

25 күн бұрын

I’m surprised the cops didn’t get overwhelmed with everything going on. I would have lost it! They handled it great tho. Poor kid with the drunk mom most have been terrified

It’s sad that these kids are more mature than their parents. Some people shouldn’t have custody of kids.

@Fluffy_B1u3_p0t4t0

28 күн бұрын

Fr, don’t understand why people even have kids just to treat them like shit.

@Bdfhvj

27 күн бұрын

A lot of times- not always obviously- but my experience is you gotta mature early cuz the adults are trash.

@Fluffy_B1u3_p0t4t0

26 күн бұрын

@@Bdfhvj yeah, but sometimes people grow up thinking abuse is the answer

@deijix

24 күн бұрын

As someone who grew up in an abusive home, it’s a survival tactic. Our brains now we can’t afford to be naive and act like children so something clicks in our brains where we just start to mimic the good parts of the adults we see. My first memories are of consoling my mentally abusive mother bc her physically abusive husband hit her (but she didn’t leave before he started hitting me and worse)

Child abuse needs to stop they're traumatizing their children😢😢

All of these excuses piss me off so much my abusive ex-husband always had an excuse that his work was so stressful and that's why he acted the way he did to our children and me he's a correctional officer.

“We can’t go back in there” 😢😢 those boys especially the one in the jersey, and the one thrown. Praying they’re ok.

@debrakelly4505

21 күн бұрын

Yes, praying for these children- they were obviously terrified of their abusive dad

@1976mcfarlane

18 күн бұрын

I really really hope they were never reunited with their dad. 🙏🙏🙏

@ChocolateEClaire16_

18 күн бұрын

@@1976mcfarlane thankfully they’re all of age that courts would absolutely not send them back if they requested it. But praying the justice system works in these boy’s favor for once 😭🤞🏼

@melmelbry5754

17 күн бұрын

Did the stup*d idi0ts give the give the kids back this THIRD time he got caught abus*ng them?! Stop giving kids back to horrible parents!!!

The one living literally rent free in her kids home is just crazy, it doesn’t look like any of the words the police or anyone are saying are going into her head.

@Sonic-gy7kq

27 күн бұрын

She was definitely tweaking on meth. Washed her hands 2-3 times. Turning random burners on and off on the stove. "Reading" a paper on the table all of a sudden for 2 seconds before doing another thing. Poor kids put up with it too "you can come back tomorrow but just not now". Because they know she'll eventually come off the meth high. And it wasn't even a mega meth tweak you'd see online but just enough to be blatantly obvious.

@Maxbtwshow

23 күн бұрын

@@Sonic-gy7kq it's a sad situation, but also cop: she started eating a tangerine boyfriend: yeah that's her game LOL

@Sonic-gy7kq

23 күн бұрын

@@Maxbtwshow Thats her son...

@LaenayaSathe

22 күн бұрын

One of my best friends had a mom like that. They didn't call police on her and just live switch her being completely unstable for years until she died a couple years ago. All three of her kids are grown now but the scars they carry from her aggression are deep.

I’m glad these kids are getting some justice. I remember telling my pastor that I was being abused and he just prayed for me and said to think about it from their perspective

My attorney died help why did I laugh 😭✋🏻

Poor chloe i feel so bad that she practically has to parent her own mom :(

@SamanthaMagdalena

29 күн бұрын

That woman was so damn high like damn

@kikikitten15

27 күн бұрын

i feel her, done that my whole life growing up, wish i have called the cops, hope she stays in jail or gets help for chloe's sake

@ritaalvaosantos5122

20 күн бұрын

and i dont see anybodyyyy talking about that girl... it blows my mind the maturity that she had to gain, and its shows. the mother was in a caotic state and she was still worried about her, about the way the cops were carring her

@christy1563

20 күн бұрын

Fr and her pleading them not to hurt her and even telling her she's welcome tomorrow just not today 😭 Poor girl, she's too sweet, I hope they're doing ok

@sploompdoomper

20 күн бұрын

My mom isn't nearly as bad but growing up with a drug addicted parent is hard and still loving them and wanting the best for them is even harder

How many times can someone be charged with child abuse before they get the children out of there into a safe and loving environment? I feel horrible for those boys.

@sunflower-xj6pe

14 күн бұрын

Same problem in the UK, it corrupted the system

@MsMaryPatricia

11 күн бұрын

There's not enough foster parents or funding so only extreme cases get taken away. It sucks for the kids and it perpetuates the cycle because some abused kids grow up full of anger and end up abusing their own kids. I'm not saying every abused kid does it because they don't but there's definitely a cycle of abuse when kids don't get the intervention and support they need in early years.

Why is the elderly Mom, (the owner of the house) living in a tiny shed in the back!? Eric should live with Gma in Gma's home! Crazy Ma needs to go straight to mental helth hospital for a hold and evaluation straight from jail. If either of my kids so-called "spit in my face" they would get slapped and learn not to ever disrespect others

These poor boys. Their Dad needs to be under the jail cell.

That grandma was unbelievable talking to Eric like that. She should be ashamed of herself for sticking up for her daughter. Disgusting

@LongLostInideQueen

13 күн бұрын

Exactly

So you have a boy (17) who says he is afraid of his mom, no one in the house likes his mom because she is a dramaqueen. The house and car are owned by the great grandmother. But oh no, the grandma decides it needs to get handled internally??? And even guiltblames the son?? Get that freaking enabler out of that house too!!

The way Eric said “and nobody likes her”😢

He starts crying are you serious? What a disgusting so called man. Beating on his sons. Prison please.

My mother, in a rage, broke everything possible on our kitchen. I don't remember how old I was, but do remember that I stayed in my bedroom all day. Only 1 plastic cup survived. It's a blessing to become an adult and not have to be around people like her anymore

“They called the cops on their dad?” No, they called the cops on their abuser.

@ThatOneMaggieOFFICIAL

15 күн бұрын

Yess

@Lamkabam

15 күн бұрын

fr a dad is someone they should go to and feel safe but in this case there is no dad at all

Thay little kid in the back of the car has some balls to call his mom out like that. Good kid.

The second one I started crying, I feel so bad for the son and I love how nice, patient, calm, and sweet to Eric. It’s horrific that parents will threat their own kids… it makes me ache.

Second call. Cops didn’t keep everyone separated. Needs more training. Grandma kept interfering. Sadly mom’s charges probably got dismissed and she’ll never get the help she needs.

Hope that teacher loses seems like a real nice son she has. So sad

These children are all so brave. I hope they all grow up and break the cycles.

I am almost 45 now. But I wish I had the power to call the Police everytime when my Mother beat me up as I was a child. This is following me every time now. I'm in mind with these Kids.

@woahicantbelievethat

29 күн бұрын

Just wanted to let you know that you did nothing to deserve it. Abusive parents are repulsive and against nature, I'm so sorry that happened to you. Wish you serenity and peace in your future

@Sonic-gy7kq

27 күн бұрын

Right :/ People would call the police and my siblings and I would lie through our teeth because we generally feared for our safety if we told the truth. One of the first things in the first video the kid said "Can we please get out of here" that shit really resonated with me. Went down my spine. I felt that sh1t. Then one of the only other things the same kid said was "He's not gonna like police all in his area". The kid is only concerned about how all of this is going to make his dad feel and the consequences his dad will dish out. God I hate abusive parents. I pray hell is real for these people.

@fionarielly1232

27 күн бұрын

When you have abusive parents who emotionally and physically abuse you,it affects you for life mentally.Been a victim myself with my mum who emotionally abused me,as a child,and as a adult.The scars maybe not visible, but they cut deep In your soul.💔 Sending strength,peace,and healing vibes, to all children/adults of abuse. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@user-ne4oh8lg3k

20 күн бұрын

I was beaten up as a young girl on a daily basis often, caned, beaten, you name it. I am expecting my first baby - a little boy and promise to love him so very much and give him the childhood I didn't have.

@sascharoth177

20 күн бұрын

@@user-ne4oh8lg3k I know what you mean. I am happy, that I became no dad. Because my futured-ex-wife often beat me up too. My children have to look with happy eyes to their childhood, not with sad eyes. And because I want the devorce the Kids will be sad. Now I have none.

Every Child deserve Parent's but not every Parent deserve a Child!!! My Heart broke for the three Brothers!! How scared they are🥺.

@lovemerealbadd

29 күн бұрын

My parents beat me constantly and dcfs didn’t care nor did they do shit sick. I hope these poor babies get the fair chance in a great life and a wonderful loving homes ❤😊

@gordanagrizzanti6370

29 күн бұрын

@@lovemerealbadd i'm so sorry that happened to you🥺.

@Fluffy_B1u3_p0t4t0

28 күн бұрын

@@lovemerealbadddid you try and tell others that could do something? Like police, teachers, friends parents or trusted loved ones that weren’t aware of the situation. I hope your doing fine now ❤

@lillthso8254

27 күн бұрын

​@@Fluffy_B1u3_p0t4t0 I know you comment wasn't directed at me, but a lot of the times even if they told someone they don't help most of the time unfortunately. I've seen many cases of cps and police believing the parents story compared to the kids. Like my aunt hit my cousin with a boot and my little cousin hit back but the cop was going to take my cousin to jail. Even though there was proof of my aunt starting it and leaving a bruise. Family tries to help, teachers ect. Unfortunately she can only leave when she turns 18

Them first kids were so itchy from hiding in the woods. What a waste of a father to abuse your kids. Good job young men. Stay strong and be better than him!

That guy with the three boys... 36 months of probation, parenting course. Tsc Tsc... While the kids are even more abused

Why did William, the first man, get so many chances? He had a case in 2012 and 2015, yet he still had the ability to get ahold of his kids again and again. At that point, there’s a thing called a pattern, and usually that tells you he needs to be neutered as to not make any more walking punching bags, as well as get him a jail cell with a 6’5” 229lb man named Bubba, who’s feeling quite romantic at the moment.

@daisygage7557

25 күн бұрын

With any amount of luck , he will go there with Bubba and pretend they play football - goes in as a tight end and comes out as a wide receiver . This man should be locked up for life .

"I'm not talking to you!" Proceeds to NOT shut up!!!