When Guilt Destroys our Sanity
Guilt is one of the most common parental emotions. It can eat us from the inside and tear us apart. It leads us to have poor boundaries and poor presence. In this episode, Dr. Shefali helps parents understand the root of their guilt and how to overcome it.
Dr. Shefali is a NYT bestselling author of The Conscious Parent, and The Awakened Family. She is also a clinical psychologist, an international speaker and a wisdom teacher, integrating Eastern philosophy with Western psychology.
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Children are our awakeners!! Brilliant podcast! Got me thinking about my own siblings and then the dynamic between my own children 💜
@doctorshefali
25 күн бұрын
Thank you! I'm glad the podcast resonated with you. Please follow and share the podcast! 💜🌟
This brought up a lot for myself. My middle child constantly bothered my fourth child while growing up. I was so unawakened unaware of the sadness and pain my daughter felt when her brother wouldn't let her be. Of course hindsight is 20/20 and I worked in therapy to repair my relationship with my daughter who felt she needed me more as a child. As a matter of fact I worked to better all of my relationships with my kids. Connection, to be seen and heard is all children need and desire.
@doctorshefali
25 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your journey. 🌟
This is illuminating ❤Thank you for your service,dr.Shefali!💌
@doctorshefali
24 күн бұрын
Thank you for your kind words! ❤💌
Excellent, dr Shifali!!! 👍🥀🪴❤
@doctorshefali
24 күн бұрын
Thank you kindly
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@SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd
23 күн бұрын
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@SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd
24 күн бұрын
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Having many kids is always FOR the parents, not for the children. Unless the children asked for it.
@doctorshefali
25 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your perspective. 🌟
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@SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd
24 күн бұрын
🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨👩👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉 ALL RIGHT ... PERHAPS, NOT EVERYTHANG, 🪻🧚♀️🪻OUR SUPREMELY, SOPHISTICATED🪻🧚♀️🪻 DR. 🪷SHEFALI🪷 🎎DOLL🎎 ... 🧘🧘♀️🧘♂️GODDESS🧘♂️🧘♀️🧘 👑🌞👑QUEEN👑🌞👑 KIND TEACHER, MA'AM ... FOR, MR. 🐯🤴🐯TIGER🐯🤴🐯 IS STILL ... DETERMINED TO INDULGE, IN SOME SUCCULENCE ... 🐯😋🐯AHA🐯😋🐯 ... 🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨👩👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉
@SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd
24 күн бұрын
🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨👩👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉 AWW, 🎈🙏🎈OUR DIVINELY, AWESOME🎈🙏🎈 DR. 🪷SHEFALI🪷 🎎DOLL🎎 ... 🧘🧘♀️🧘♂️GODDESS🧘♂️🧘♀️🧘 👑🌞👑QUEEN👑🌞👑 KIND TEACHER, MA'AM ... DON'T CHA L❤❤❤❤❤VE US ANYMORE, KIND TEACHER, 🥰😘🥰DARLING🥰😘🥰 ... 🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨👩👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉
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@SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd
25 күн бұрын
🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨👩👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉 WHICH, OF COURSE, PORTRAYS A SHIFT IN COMMUNICATION COMMAND AND THEREBY, NECESSITATES SOME DEGREE OF ADJUSTMENT, KIND 🪷🧚♀️🪷TEACHER🪷🧚♀️🪷, 🥰😘🥰DARLING🥰😘🥰 ... 🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨👩👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉
@doctorshefali
24 күн бұрын
Many many thanks
@cinderella407
24 күн бұрын
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@SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd
24 күн бұрын
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@cinderella407
24 күн бұрын
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@SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd
24 күн бұрын
🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨👩👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉 AND, LIKEWISE ... 🪻🧚♀️🪻OUR SUPREMELY, SOPHISTICATED🪻🧚♀️🪻 DR. 🪷SHEFALI🪷 🎎DOLL🎎 ... 🧘🧘♀️🧘♂️GODDESS🧘♂️🧘♀️🧘 👑🌞👑QUEEN👑🌞👑 KIND TEACHER, 🥰😘🥰DARLING🥰😘🥰: ❤️🪻🧚♀️🪻❤️FROM ❤️🧚♀️❤️A SENSITIVE WOMAN'S HEART SPRINGS❤️🧚♀️❤️ THE HAPPINESS OF MANKIND, AND FROM THE KINDNESS OF HER NOBLE SPIRIT COMES MANKIND'S AFFECTION❤️🪻🧚♀️🪻❤️. ~🥰😘🥰KAHLIL GIBRAN🥰😘🥰
🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨👩👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉 AHA, 🥳🌞🥳OUR EXTRAORDINARILY, BRILLIANT🥳🌞🥳 🧘🧘♀️🧘♂️CONSCIOUS🧘♂️🧘♀️🧘 DR. 🌷MOMMY🌷, MA'AM ... HAS BEEN, USING PROFANITY IN MS. MAYA'S PRESENCE 😮WOW😮 ... 🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨👩👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉
@SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd
25 күн бұрын
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@SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd
25 күн бұрын
🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨👩👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉 BUT, 🥰😘🥰YOU🥰😘🥰 ARE ELOQUENTLY, EXCHANTING AND NURTURING, 🥳🌞🥳OUR IMMACULATELY, ATTRACTIVE🥳🌞🥳 DR. 🪷SHEFALI🪷 🎎DOLL🎎 ... 🧘🧘♀️🧘♂️GODDESS🧘♂️🧘♀️🧘 👑🌞👑QUEEN👑🌞👑 KIND TEACHER, 🥰😘🥰DARLING🥰😘🥰 ... 🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨👩👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉