I'm very thankful I got a good wife. We're both 23 and expecting our first child in August. While so many of my old friends party and drink, I want to focus on building a strong and godly family

@MrChairmen1997

3 жыл бұрын

Damn dude that's awesome im 23 and would love to be at that point.. good for you God's speed👍

@Purifiedsams

3 жыл бұрын

Amen.

@will7953

3 жыл бұрын

These choices will have exponential meaning in the future. Straight to the point! Skip the bullshit, awesome

@sh1pme2themune9

3 жыл бұрын

Good for you, brother. Turned 24 today. Wife and I are starting next Fall. It’s a good place to be. Godspeed.

@tstarajayi

3 жыл бұрын

@powershel23 can’t live in fear

If you marry a good woman you will become happy if you marry a bad woman you will become a philosopher ~ Socrates

@thekosmokramer

3 жыл бұрын

poor guy :/

@YesitisDex

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@JohnDoe-id1es

3 жыл бұрын

If you MARRY a REALLY bad woman- you will be Destroyed

@SuperAspergersMan

3 жыл бұрын

@@JohnDoe-id1es you ain't lying lol

@k27ism

3 жыл бұрын

@@JohnDoe-id1es but before you get destroyed have fun regretting not listening to good advice when you could.

Virtue over beauty, purpose over women, God over everything.

@Francis_UD

3 жыл бұрын

Amen.

@d-vision2426

3 жыл бұрын

BINGO!

@bullymaguire2061

3 жыл бұрын

We need religion bro. 9/10 times atheists just act so arrogant. Christians are loving and kind

@d-vision2426

3 жыл бұрын

@@bullymaguire2061 religion is useless. It's ALL about a relationship with The Lord God our creator and loving Father. Peace!

@DreErdna

3 жыл бұрын

@@bullymaguire2061 I love the ones who disown their gay kids. Very kind & loving! 😂

"I'm not saying marry an ugly woman". FACTS

@TheTrueJDV

3 жыл бұрын

There's no such thing though

@YuggiGirl

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheTrueJDV ikr

@thestealthgirl3231

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheTrueJDV by ugly he means fat. never seen an attractive fat woman. unless she is photoshopped to look slim. america has a problem with obese women running around

@Friendly_Boo

3 жыл бұрын

JD what a pathetic simp. You would happily take the bottom litter and pretend shes a golden nugget.

@dorismahoney1440

2 жыл бұрын

@@thestealthgirl3231 men are obese also.

"Go where you're celebrated, not where you're tolerated"

@nimazsheik5152

3 жыл бұрын

This is my mood for 2021, thanks for the quote. I need to find a wallpaper for this!

@blingmomangie

3 жыл бұрын

I LOVE THIS!!!

Her heart is more important than her curves

@TheWhyme01

3 жыл бұрын

Her curves are just as important

@andrejdimitrovski5815

3 жыл бұрын

As long as you can tolerate her face the body can be built . Just join a gym together and make it a fun time . Within a year both of you should look AMAZING .

@bagh98

3 жыл бұрын

Attraction is the starting point but all other qualities seal the deal

@kamizumoku

3 жыл бұрын

@Melih k Long distance relationship makes the person you love, less of a person and more of a fantasy. That's just a sad truth. Unless you spend almost 90% of your time living together for 3-4 years, you won't actually know the person. That's also why most marriages fall apart after 5 years. I learned it the hard way. Basically if 70% of the time you are away from each other your mind fill in the gaps and when you start living with this fantasy person and see who she really is(and she does not have to be a bad woman, she could be a loving and caring person) you just loose attraction, because you were attracted to a mystery. Of course I don't know about you, I'm just speaking from my own experience.

@royaltylordprinceshamiyah1704

3 жыл бұрын

Mark Savoia 🔥🔥🔥

After dating several very attractive women, I realized that character is 10000% more attractive than looks, and is critical for the long haul. I also appreciate you saying these things that society shames us for saying (that some of us find quiet homemakers much more attractive)

@ulisesventura1212

3 жыл бұрын

100%. I learned from dating some very attractive women but rotten on the inside. A women that is kind and of good character is soo much better!

@k27ism

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I know those kind all too well. I dated some of these sexy ass women. Real attractive kind, shame they weren't models because they had the face and legs. But their attitude and behaviours was rotten. It was the only attribute that ruined all of that pleasure the eyes captured. I figured it must be because of how they are brought up to see people place the, higher up so they can't help but act this way. Anyways, let those go because they are dumb and even more selfish/narcisistic to find sense. You will suffer just trying to please her in a good way.

“Never wife the one you couldn’t get before you got on.” 🙏🏽

@synthesizerpatel7405

3 жыл бұрын

I don’t get that

@ston3dhomosapi3n

3 жыл бұрын

@@synthesizerpatel7405 me neither

@andrewbrame4944

3 жыл бұрын

Got on meaning successful, Stay away from Gold diggers 🤜🏼

@ston3dhomosapi3n

3 жыл бұрын

@@andrewbrame4944 awh definitely :)) thank you

@tinakuczaj3958

3 жыл бұрын

Uh, why would she want a man who has no means to provide for her and her offspring. She would be a fool. Unless she wants to work herslf to death and then raising her family stressed out and no energy for sex and then her husband is bitter.

Money can't nurture a child. A strong woman doesn't satisfy a husband or feed a child. A loving woman provides it all. But only a strong man deserves such a woman. Physically and mentally strong. But that can only be held up by God.

"Belly full, balls empty" XD LOL

@ghost.888

3 жыл бұрын

Thats true though!

@J4YAH777

3 жыл бұрын

very true

@CrimsonIzanagi

3 жыл бұрын

Words to live by.

Completely agree. For me, personality is more important than looks.

@shakarussanders9911

3 жыл бұрын

True! A woman with a good personality is something you want when you get older

There are a few girls like that at church I think. My girlfriend is Catholic like me and she's the sweetest, most gentle person ever. I feel the most fired up when I'm with her. Something about her kindness makes me 'rage'. Not in an angry sense, but in a sense that I want to get after it for her, serve others, and be a savage if the Lord is willing to allow me.

@adamczarnecki9523

3 жыл бұрын

I would strongly disagree. Being Catholic myself met some women very active in the Catholic community. By first appearance (not physical) seemed to be interesting. It turned out they were full of falsehood having the same twisted goals and behavioral patterns as westernized women which have nothing to do with God. SO BEWARE and do not automatically assume that a woman who SEEMS TO BE devoted to God will be good wife.

@a7dv7en7t

3 жыл бұрын

@@adamczarnecki9523 yeah I agree. We must always discern and do our best to avoid those types of people. Both women and men.

@summaiyarobi4915

3 жыл бұрын

@@adamczarnecki9523 sounds like a narcissist

@chrismccaffrey8256

3 жыл бұрын

I think the word you're looking for instead of "rage", would be "Passionate". She invokes your passion for life, for her, for family, for whatever

@a7dv7en7t

3 жыл бұрын

@@chrismccaffrey8256 yeah. You're right. Passion is definitely a word that describes it! Thank you!

One of my friends is a really good looking guy and dated loads of models and super hot women, but there was always some stupid drama going down. He recently married a fun, sweet, really lovely girl who was much plainer than we all expected. When I asked him about her he said "She will be a good wife and mother."

@RJGURRI

3 жыл бұрын

@@gabriellanoelle1606 I had a friend who was a total cadanova.. He finally found a great woman.. He says had he not met anynjof them and just met his wife he would have been better off.. IN ancient times.. At least in India.. We only had arranged marriages. Guys n girls both were virgind..the families would meet.. And horoscopes had to be matched to make it a comically great match

@RJGURRI

3 жыл бұрын

@@gabriellanoelle1606 basically lustful sexual encounters only lead to attachment and don't fulfil you.. Even the experiences I have had that were lustful were only a little pleasurable when they were happeping after they ended.. U know from inside it was a waste.. In thr west u might not know this because lustful interactions are normal and too prevalent.. Its actually better if u think about it.. Men and women stay virgins..dont go in small time sexual relationships.. Don't fall in and out of relationships.. Dont get their heart broken.. Focus on their careers and becoming strongest versions of themselves Then marry the one they are meant for Saves alot of bad karma

@JohnDoe-id1es

3 жыл бұрын

@@RJGURRI wise.

@RJGURRI

3 жыл бұрын

@@gabriellanoelle1606 agree.. Ealrier.. Families use to see like Elliott said.. Today Indian marriages are falling apart cz Indians themselves have become westernised.. Also good astrologers are very rare.. I know of my guru whose mother consulted 150 horoscopes for him before getting him married and whose wife consulted 300 horoscopes before getting her son married.. Astrology works 100% but 90% astrologers today are no good..

@tonyh1345

3 жыл бұрын

@@gabriellanoelle1606 more promiscuity and spontaneous sex makes it harder to pair-bond with a spouse, I believe there’s some pretty extensive research that shows this if you feel like looking into it.

Every time my masculine/spiritual pillar is damaged or needs work, watching Elliot always helps bring me back to my values and gives me direction. Appreciate you king

I agree with you. I notice a lot of people look down on me as a homemaker and stay at home mom because i don’t have career ambitions. My priority is my husband and our children. thanks for speaking on this.

10:30 this is so true. A lot of guys want a feminine woman but don’t want to be masculine themselves.

Starting watching Elliot when I was 15, now 22 this guy taught me so much, much love, Brother.

Right on Elliot. Been married to my high school sweetheart for 7 years. 4 kids in we have hit our stride and are ready to take on a noble purpose in the world. Keep making the great content!

As a woman I agree with alot of what you said. Especially about loud women. Even I cant stand to be around loud women.

@valeriet1338

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@User-uw7uw

3 жыл бұрын

It depend on what you mean by loud. Being outgoing doesn't reflect on having a bad character. Most of the worst kinds of women I know are very quiet

@m.claire621

3 жыл бұрын

Loud I agree. But I'm sorry being talkative is a supra feminine trait.

@andrejdimitrovski5815

3 жыл бұрын

@@User-uw7uw being outgoing as a woman is a sign of masculine energy . You might say I'm oldschool or whatever bs you wanna say but real men know real women are QUIET . Sure they talk to , they just aren't "outgoing" .

@YanaNova

3 жыл бұрын

I like your eyes! 😊 I too can't stand around such women, but sadly here in the West I cant stand around any women of younger ages. The only ones I like talking with are older ladies 40+. 😅

I’m a woman but I LOVE your channel! I’m so glad you mentioned Lori. I like her as well. She’s helping young women like me who aspire to have a traditional family someday :)

@julianagarces2389

9 ай бұрын

Who’s Lori? I’ve been looking for a traditional catholic womens channel

It’s crazy man, I was just thinking about you the other day. How much I enjoyed your workout videos and how you conducted yourself. I’m glad to see your doing good man. God bless

This just came on autoplay, and i really needed it today. Stay up bro.

Quiet and non-depressed women? My dream girl i guess.

Fantastic message, really refreshing and liberating, it's unbelievable how much we get hooked in the movie culture and view of things, thank you Elliot

Damn this hit home bud. I got out of a relationship last year that was based on lust. She would manipulate me with it like you described. As soon as we stopped, all we did was fight. Fast forward, I'm now with a more traditional girl. I respect her, she respects me, we're doing things the right way and being patient with each other. I'm the masculine figure she needs and she's the feminine figure I need. Nothing feels forced and we both truly enjoy each others company. Chivalry is not dead, continue to be good strong men my brothers. You will find the right woman if you can be worthy of her. Gob Bless Elliot and thank you for this video.

A strong woman is a nice woman. A strong woman is a quiet woman. A woman who has a goal to be a loving mother and honorable wife is strong. Tradition beats trends every day.

"Save the world?" No "save this family" 💯💥🔥

Nice to hear someone really speaking honestly on these issues. God bless bro.

Mood swings are normal, but if she rebounds back, totally cool in my books. I like what you have to say, focus more on character than looks. Could also argue that it’s okay to challenge each other, no one is necessarily dominant, it’s equal.

Values > Desires

@aaaaaa-iw2yj

3 жыл бұрын

@Antonius you might value good health but desire unhealthy tasty food. You might value long term relationships but desire promiscuity. Basically it's an animistic impulse in the moment vs. self-control and conscious sacrifice or abstinence from desire for good in the future.

Elliot just keeps dropping gems , hes on a spiritual fire right now !

Yo Elliot, can you make a video that expands on how to fullfil masculine duties in a relationship?

@loveistheanswer5924

3 жыл бұрын

Great idea

@loveistheanswer5924

3 жыл бұрын

Also look in the bible. It really is the best book for that.

Idk how but every video I get recommended from you are ones I need to hear in that moment. Thank you so much man

I use to watch all your videos back about 7-12 years ago. I've learned a lot from watching your videos. One of the things you use to say that really stuck with me till this day and has contributed to a lot of my accomplishments is that "successful people do what they need to do whether they feel like it or not". For whatever reason, I stopped and today I was curious if you were still posting videos and sure enough you were. This was one of the first videos I saw on your page and it was a topic that's pertinent to my current situation. Your perspective on this is something I really needed to hear, so thank you and hope you, your family, you community are doing well!

Oh man, this put a smile on my face while listening in the car. The girl I’m dating now whom I believe that I’ll marry fits in the ideal feminine female. “Don’t marry a useless woman” is a good one lol. Thanks Elliott! More power.

Good to see you back brother, thanks for the advice along the way

The way you and Coleen put each other ahead of each other. That's life in a nutshell. Vibration. Movement. Back and Forth. All settled upon a stable foundation. Within that stable structure, life animates (raising beautiful children that will be productive in society - aka life continuing).

KEEP IT UP MAN!! you a have a GREAT FLOW RIGHT NOW!

Couldn’t agree more, I’ve been preaching this for way too long.

A Bronx Tale comes up so much. My dad had me watch it as a kid and it's one of my favorite movies.

Awesome so much knowledge in just a few minutes. Thank you Elliott every topic always right on the button. Just genuine down to earth right next to us. So thanks again for helping us all grow Bro🤙

Really needed this Elliot. Thank you

St. John Chrysostomos is from the 4th century...glad you mentioned him. He's called Golden Mouth for a reason

For anyone wondering what movie Elliott is referencing around 17:00, it is “A Bronx Tale.”

This is a great conversation. However, it is becoming more and more difficult in finding a “quality woman.” “ With main stream producing more and more radical feminist content, it becomes more unrealistic. I really thought I had that person I was in a relationship with for five years. I have never been so close to anyone my entire life. When she “ambushed me“ with an affair I really lost hope. It’s been 19 months to the day and of course with this pandemic sure hasn’t helped in my mental recovery. All you can do is push forward and develop the best version of yourself. 🙏. I still have a long ways to go… Thank you Elliot for all of your wise words of wisdom for men

@Justinh102k

3 жыл бұрын

Youll get through it brother, stay strong

@dalilatosi4509

3 жыл бұрын

Same for men

@GYMJAX

3 жыл бұрын

@@dalilatosi4509 Plenty of descent men in America you are either obese or put a dollar sign on every man to determine his value.

@dalilatosi4509

3 жыл бұрын

@@GYMJAX explain yourself, please

@valeriet1338

3 жыл бұрын

Stay strong, don't settle. We still exist... it's becoming just as hard for us unfortunately

I am so happy you are still producing videos until this day even tho I don't watch everything, still, I thank you for that!

Tinder has broken a lot of women. Unable to become a wife/mother or even be in a committed LTR.

Opposites attract, 1. the more feminine a guy is and the more masculine a girl is the stronger the attraction, 2. the more masculine a guy is, and the more feminine a girl is the stronger the attraction, same energies do not work, a masculine girl is best suited for a very feminine dude

Real talk Elliott.. Thanks for this piece of content brother.

LOVE THE CONTENT ELLIOT💪🏽👑

Elliott you take it to a whole new level. Always inspiring to hear your view as it’s the cold hard truth for men and women and if people have an open mind they will see that.

when I was dating my present husband, back in 2005, I would actually lean to the side an pull the old lock up... and I remember thinking about that part in the movie mentioned. still, it was an spontaneous act. the feeling of opening the door for your date, as a woman, is really gratifying.

Great video Elliott ! Thank you

you inspire me brother. thank you for this video

Such a great video, thank you

Elliot HUlse thank you for helping me in my teens and now helping me as an adult

I'm a woman and I watch these. Thank you for your guidance, Elliot.

My boy is back

Damn. This makes me look back at my most recent relationship and say, “My relationship was effed in so many ways.”

Didn't watch yet but right on time brother 💯 #Pt

Yes! Spot on! The only thing I want to add is that she doesn't want to sit on the couch. I want her to work out with me and to want to go on trips, hikes, and adventures, and eventually bring the kids along too.

Such great advice

A Bronx Tale is easily one of my favorites. And has quite a bit of knowledge if you know how to listen

You must have been watching my search history. Needed this video and it came from god. Thank you

Appreciate this bro

Getting married is just so dangerous is today’s society

@JuniorStil

3 жыл бұрын

It’s dangerous if you pick the wrong partner. If you choose the right one it will be the best thing that ever happened to you.

@TH-cq7bj

3 жыл бұрын

@@JuniorStil facts

@YanaNova

3 жыл бұрын

@@TH-cq7bj You have to test women- especially nowadays.

@TH-cq7bj

3 жыл бұрын

@@YanaNova always

@YanaNova

3 жыл бұрын

@@TH-cq7bj Yep, but the majority don't know what good testing is 😀

I Love the life lesson, thank you much, Good Sir!!

Great video. Thank you

The distance from point A to point B teaches you

Is that kind of woman even real? if she is, she's probably 1 out of a million others.

Jimmy Soul sang it in the song.... "If You Wanna Be Happy"

Hoping guys would listen and take control back.. instead of trying to please every woman. Let em please u when u control your self.

I had the worst example of how to be the kind of man that truly loves and nurtures...i feel scared I'll never be able to maintain a real relationship cause I struggle with my own masculinity. Growing up with abuse and neglect really blows...life long struggle...

Ascend the mountain warriors

I totally agree! Without inner beauty outer looks are worthless 💓

Elliot is always unique...he blends old tradition,eastern spirituality in everything he speak or workouts knowingly or unknowingly... He must be born in india or asia in previous birth..he always steps in to the higher spiritual insights in whatever he does.. It's funny but true when elliot says ..I dont like or choose women with great ambition ..ambition to save the world😂 One of the kind vlogger ..

@frankc4364

3 жыл бұрын

India is in Asia and there's no such thing as a previous life your delusional and he's half white and black

Elliot, you are a great man and you will be a great father. Make men strong again! May God bless u

Great video brother

What a great video! Real talk here

This goes against *everything* a feminist stands for. I love it!

Excellent video!

I work my butt off, but my wife works too. We work in the same industry (business intelligence) I work for the Gov't and she works in Oil and Gas. We love each other very much, and recognize each other's gender roles clearly. We both come from an South Asian background (I'm born in the west and she is from the 'old country'). She was raised with the duties and expectations of a good wife for a husband. However, we both work to sustain the type of lifestyle we enjoy, but does it make me less of a man to help her with the cooking and home making stuff while she is pregnant? She is kind, loving, and very affectionate. So in turn I help her out around the house, in addition to my home maintenance and home construction duties (which I take 100% responsivity as a man). We are both our firsts in terms of marriage, and it has only been 2 years thus far.

"Keep his belly full and his balls empty." 😆😂 Priceless.

I did learn this the hard way

I’ve been on about 30 different dates in the past 5 months. Trying to find a woman. If I buy the dinner and don’t get a thank you text then I’m not asking them for a second date

@blingmomangie

3 жыл бұрын

Yikes! That's a lot of dates in a short time period. Have you found anyone yet that has made it past Date #2?

@tvbuster

3 жыл бұрын

@@blingmomangie I know! I’ve only been on 2 second dates out of all of those. But I wasn’t feeling the connection so I explained that to them and moved along.

Do you have a video about what are all the masculine duties we should be doing?

A better word than kind that I would've used is nourishing. Have to have a woman that will nourish you when you are weak.

Thanks for uploading your thought on this. I figured you already knew this, but wanted to hear your complete take on choosing the right partner. Take care, brother.

Nothing better than a woman who wants to be a woman.

good video and message

Hahha love you Elliott.. Much blessings to u and all fellow followers.. M laughing cz the YOOO ELLIOTT like someone commented always gets to me 😝

massively important

Lol this the one I’ve been waiting for

Preach it brotha!!!

"Gone. Done."

It has been suggested that you should always compare values, if these are different trouble follows, with the woman blaming the man.

Your strongest attribute is also your greatest weakness

Great video 👍

St John of chrysostom was a bishop in the 300s, during the Roman empire. I think I know which book your talking about and I thought it was crazy how we're still dealing with the same problems.

@ston3dhomosapi3n

3 жыл бұрын

whats the name of the book please?

@batrickpateman2086

3 жыл бұрын

On marriage: st John of Chrysostom

@ston3dhomosapi3n

3 жыл бұрын

@@batrickpateman2086 thank you 🙏🙏

Beautiful words ❤👍👍