Yes thanks for clarifying it isn't they are hiding their feelings they don't F-ing care💯

@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858

22 күн бұрын

And the sooner you know, the better. That way, you can find people who DO care. Goood luuck! It's a tough world out there. Bad people don't have signs on their head saying they are! ..

@KBowWow75

18 күн бұрын

We live in a world where people don't care. Don't take it personally. In the end your character is way too valuable for theirs.

@donnadie5882

17 күн бұрын

I do care, but I'm f-ing good at hiding it

@pollytopps3540

13 күн бұрын

EXACTLY!! NOBODY'S GOT TIME FOR NO F...KIN GAMES. EITHER YOU DO OR YOU DONT!!! YOU CAN SHOW ME BETTER THAN U CAN TELL ME!!

@nenahanderson3461

12 күн бұрын

Caring &NSA are 2different things

Don’t waste time on the wrong people. Focus on the people who brings you love and joy.

@luciajager5766

13 күн бұрын

It's easier said than done.When there were signs and life brought us a separate way.I'm sure about my feelings but not more sure about the other person

Yes, sad but true. Sometimes it's the best thing to walk away when someone is silent.

@ForeverXO

12 күн бұрын

I agree. I did that but my mistake was to second guess it years later giving the person the benefit of the doubt. Turns out they were never who I thought they were. It's sad. There's no trust worthy friends. They're left with prayer.

You can’t know people truly even if you think you do, they always have a side you didn’t see

@poetictriangle1037

18 күн бұрын

Its better to keep your sharp teeth hidden till they reveal their true nature. Wait for the right time and orchestrate the right scenario to give a final blow. 🥰 The last scorpio chick i dealt with will forever be conscious of respecting other's dark side because of what i did to her. Lesson taught and lesson learnt. 🤗

If someone cares for you Regardless of what happened, that person will contact you

@ForeverXO

12 күн бұрын

🎯👍✔

@anskubansku5614

8 күн бұрын

yeah i hope you know God enough well? God is always there for us and never leave us no matter what we do. as long as you still keep breathing, you can always have a new chance.

@rajeshmehta7778

7 күн бұрын

If both person follow your idea, it will leads to deadlock. 😂. Both will keep waiting for each other endlessly. I would say, if you care, talk to the person without making too much delays.

Biggest lesson of my life learnt. Don't accept behavior from someone just because you love them, when you wouldn't accept it from anyone else. I know it's not easy to let go but all one can do is to just pray for them and leave them to God. 🌸

Go where you're celebrated not where you're tolerated. 💯% Fact (Definitely a game changer).

@anul6801

19 күн бұрын

Narsisistic trap. Been there done that. After some months it was the complete opposite. Would prefer a woman that you grow closer together with over time.

I dont chase, I attract. But believed me what is meant for u is meant to be. U can control only yourself , but u cannot control out there, its about waisting energy. Be calm and concentrate to love yourself more😊

@mentorsvision9797

7 күн бұрын

❤❤❤

Even if they reach out, it don’t mean nothing. They can still careless

@Jac735

15 күн бұрын

Facts!!! Sometimes they'll do that cuz they feel sorry for you play with you or just bored because they have nothing else to do happend to me a while ago women are just weird these days straight up

@pollytopps3540

13 күн бұрын

@@christianhaynes4927 RIGHT!

Once upon a time I was stupid enough to chase and kept asking why everything changed just overnight after a couple of years of mutual affection. The more I pushed the colder she became. Then one day I thought, damn, I bet the She I dream about well might be just round the corner. And so it happened even quicker than I thought. And I learned one more lesson: if you love, it may be a blessing. But if you ARE LOVED it is a real happiness. Do not underestimate those who love you, for it is a very rare thing in this universe. Thank you for this video!

@mgtow6450

19 күн бұрын

If one chases someone, they'll run. It might have worked out if one would simply sit back and chill. Don't put others on a pedistal. Remember, YOU are the star of your life. Let others be your fans.

@stanpodol8233

16 күн бұрын

@@mgtow6450 👍🤝

@Taehyng145

9 күн бұрын

My case also same , we are in relationship for more than 1 1/2 year now my bf doing different... We are in long distance relationship from beginning we didn't met also so he want my presence so he saying not feeling excited all the day ... I'm giving all my love and support him but even though I lose my consciousness some times I get more angry on his behaviour and not time giving and asking made him cold on that moment... I'm pressing him more with my love and my expectations... I itself said break and I went again and now he is saying let's not contact for somedays so we will be okay and get time to focus on ourselves... I agreed but still I'm thinking him daily and I'm afraid what if he forget me fully... But I don't want to force my going again within one or two days... But I want to go 😔... I don't know what to do

Life is shorter than you think ,don't waste time with the toxic and negative..🙏♥️

they're not a great loss in your life if they don't contact you.😅

Single men out there, always initiate, reach out and be decisive with your intentions. Masculinity is all about persuit and persistence, so don't give up and go after the woman of your dreams. The woman who builds feelings for you will eventually stick around. Just don't give up until you know for sure it's over.

@creatureofstyle

20 күн бұрын

This is good advice. Even if the woman builds feelings, she may leave if she doesn't feel confident in the relationship and doesn't receive clear intentions from you. Women need to know that you won't give up on them

@TheDevilsInterval

14 күн бұрын

This is horrible advice. Of course, it depends on what happened, but if she pulled away, do not chase.

@intzeproduction99

14 күн бұрын

@@TheDevilsInterval Mate, the pull away rule only applies if you're in a relationship. Don't be doing that at the beginning. If you've reached out and she's flaking or acting cold, yes then you can pull away, in fact call it quits. I said "decisive with your intentions" for a reason.

@yesiltarla2320

13 күн бұрын

Well said 👍 I have just said in another comment that the man who is too scared to take risks will be deprived of the best things in life!

Absolutely....without the shadow of a doubt. I gave up a long time ago. Will never chase a shadow!!!

Yes absolutely agree They are definitely living there best life😢

@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858

22 күн бұрын

But no one has a perfect life. Things can fuck up any minute. No one's life is perfect. Problems can arise at anytime. Accidents, illness, job loss, etc. !

Be with the ones who want more FOR you, not the ones who want more FROM you.

He ignored me, I pinged. He ignored again this time for a month. I apologised not understanding what went wrong. He still didn't ping me back for a month. After 2 months I Said he could reach back when his anger is over for whatever reason. It's been 3 months, he didn't message me back. I stopped messaging. How ever , I do look at my last 3 message with mixed emotion. A part of me grieve for the self respect I lost . A part of me proud that I loved him whole heartedly. Btw, it was a 1.5 year long relationship wher he often said he would love to make me his wife. ❤ So ladies and guys, if they love, they will reach out.

@ReadingsbyDom

12 күн бұрын

If you were put in no contact, you didn’t qualify for the person that put you there. My heart goes out to females for the delusion created by social media. Apps provide under qualified females access to men they’d otherwise not have. These men are never seen in public with them, use them, & discard them. Sorry - It wasn’t a relationship. You weren’t dating. You allowed yourself to be used. There are a limited number of “10’s” in the world. Both male & female. Eat the ego cookie, get your ass off the couch, hit the gym, and appreciate someone that’s kind and reciprocal.

@daniellediaz2516

9 күн бұрын

He sounds like an Avoidant. There's a lot of videos on here about that. I suggest you look them up and watch. They'll blow your mind. Good luck 👍🏾

@anushkasaxena7050

6 күн бұрын

Why's this sooo relatable. It was for like a good 6 months. All of sudden he ghosted me. I didn't texted thinking may be he wants space. After a few days I reacted to one of his blogs n he blocks me after that. I really don't know when everything was fine what went wrong but now instead of guessing I say their loss n move on.

@TopIslamic-zu9ve

4 күн бұрын

Same story is happening with me🥺

"In a world where everyone's value is on the rise , don't sell yourself short"

What a quote that can be applied to almost anything we are trying to fight: “In world where everyone’s value is on the rise, make sure you are not selling yourself short”

I prayed to Allah about this situation...I kept feeling she felt something for me so I couldn't move on and I was shown this..thank you sir for making this video,everything u said matches with my situation.

@worthsharing7849

21 күн бұрын

Ameen, i am feeling same right now, I will pray for you, pray for me too

@solemagus4761

17 күн бұрын

You lost at allah 🤷🏽‍♂️ Why do you Abrahamists believe Yahweh the Destroyer is going to give you some 🍑? 😂

@yesiltarla2320

13 күн бұрын

Not necessarily. These issues are very culture sensitive. She might indeed have feelings for you but is waiting for you to make the move. Do it anyway so you won't regret it later. You can be tactful.. and respectful. She'll appreciate that.

@yesiltarla2320

13 күн бұрын

The man who is too scared to take risks will be deprived of the most beautiful things in life. And this also applies to religion by the way.

@shirleychandler2780

13 күн бұрын

Try talking to the Lord Jesus .

sO True! It hurts! let it hurt all it has to hurt! let arrogant or Indifferent person go! so a better person can arrive to heal & lOve our broken 💔 hearts!

One more comment for I read a couple that reaching to each other and clearing up should happen from both ends: Please note that there are some who would not willing to love you any longer but would not willing to lose you at the same time. Such persons would never give you any clear answers, just holding you on like a dog pet. No way to clear up anything with them.

I needed to hear this so bad. Thank you.

the fact that them reaching out doesn't always mean they care. sometimes they just want to abuse you more. so my point is.. never trust a person who abused you once.. they never change and will more likely end up hurting you again.

"In a world where everyone's value is on the rise, make sure you're not selling yourself short" Damn good one.

Praise God that I am living my best life❤🎉😊

We’re all so good at making things up in our heads, things we wanted but we’re never, ever there. It seems to just be a part of the human condition. I guess live with it for a while, but notice every day the complete lack of action on their part. Be honest with yourself, let reality sink in, and the truth will set you free.

Wow. I swear I know I was meant to see this. 😢

Yes I totally agree damn I'm a dumb ass. And thank you for making this clear as glass now.

That person probably is living the best life without me.

Going through a lotta shii, then KZread recommend this. It's a sign, thank you❤

And what if both people have this mindset? They could both want each other but they're just waiting on the other person lol.

@CandleSwift

20 күн бұрын

😂😂

@Artistnameellislaiinen

20 күн бұрын

True

@creatureofstyle

20 күн бұрын

Yup, I'm pretty sure that's true for me and my guy. It sucks because I keep interpreting his not reaching out as not caring about me or being interested but my intiution tells me that's not the case, yet the deep feelings I have are still so raw even a year later that I get panic attacks when I think about reaching out in any meaningful way... and I'm an extrovert. He's the most introverted person I know. If I feel this way there's no hope for him lol

@nivea2win

17 күн бұрын

Soo true 👍

@Hyperactive1101

15 күн бұрын

U can analyze the chat history if u send something the other side replies dry formal no interest in asking about it like before Its a hint You aren't interest for her/he

True. People should not sell themselves short, but, not everyones values is on the rise.

God Says Be Happy For them☺️

He rejected me, lied, and was carrying on with his ex, so my silence is not because I don't care. I still love him, but I must love myself more. My silence is self respect.

I was no contact for 4 months with the person to whom I have had super strong feelings because I knew that I have to work on myself So it’s not always true, especially when you wanna build the family and when you know that you need to heal yourself and change yourself

Communication is so important!! Honesty !!!❤❤

You're very correct 💯

Amen!! You are exactly right!! Thank you for sharing this amazing message with us!! God Bless everyone!! I really needed to hear this message!! I completely agree with you!! 🙏🙏🙏💜💜💜💜❣️❣️❣️❣️♥️♥️♥️♥️💙💙💙💙💙💙🙌🙌🙌🙌👏👏👏👏👏⭐⭐⭐⭐👍👍👍👍

Deep precious words.... Nature made me to hear this.... Somehow it got my sight that too early morning.... As a recommendation

I address the statements and prosperity to all who are under the gleaming radiance of the divine.Godspeed and prosperity to all!

I cared but I did not reach out!!!!! I was protecting my feelings !!!

@sweetbliss710

20 күн бұрын

Same…I’ve cared a lot and not reached out, certainly wasn’t living my best life, I was trying to get over my feelings

@creatureofstyle

20 күн бұрын

I think my guy and I are both there right now. It's a stalemate

@DeNyce-

18 күн бұрын

Same here! I haven’t reached out. I am not out here living my best life. I am just trying to figure my life out and sitting back waiting figuring out how long this will go on. However, if I happen to meet someone else in the meantime, I will just meet someone else and move on.

@FavDogBisquit

16 күн бұрын

@@DeNyce-how if you are waiting? For them?

@DeNyce-

16 күн бұрын

@@FavDogBisquit I am not waiting for them. I am trying to figure my life out in all aspects. If they act right and do right that’s cool. If not, I am definitely open to meeting someone else. My main focus right now is me, myself and I.

It hurts…. I still care so much and to him I’m just nothing now 😔

@tamikasinclair5478

13 күн бұрын

This video is spot on but it's a cruel thing for a person to just stop contacting you when they used to smh we have to let it go it's hard

Thanks for the guidance, one day we'll be gathering I told her that it's a God approved and soulmate connection, God tells me in prayer but she is still quiet and I'm waiting if she doesn't come, no issues God is with me every moment every time in Jesus mighty and loving name. Amen 🙏🙏❤️❤️💜💜

I needed to hear this so bad but it's just too hard I don't know I am just lost but thank you very much for posting this video it means alot.

Yes I agree with you but it is hard to let someone go. 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

@pollytopps3540

13 күн бұрын

@@trinityxayashrie3954 Whn someone starts to steal your Joy aaawwe its not that hard. I agree its a day to day process. Some people may take longer than others but nothin like some good old fashioned prayer cant change. Been ther! Done that!

Pride or ego will stop a person to contact you even they want you back

@ReadingsbyDom

12 күн бұрын

If you were put in no contact, you didn’t qualify for the person that put you there. My heart goes out to females for the delusion created by social media. Apps provide under qualified females access to men they’d otherwise not have. These men are never seen in public with them, use them, & discard them. Sorry - It wasn’t a relationship. You weren’t dating. You allowed yourself to be used. There are a limited number of “10’s” in the world. Both male & female. Eat the ego cookie, get your ass off the couch, hit the gym, and appreciate someone that’s kind and reciprocal.

Yes.. Of course. ... You read my mind...

I agree. No calls, no feelings. The end.

I have an ex-girlfriend we broke up this year on May, but I still love her, I hide one of her handkerchief with her cologne and one of her picture with me, and I'm still hoping that she calls me, text me, or chat me, I want to be the first to contact her but I always do that, I always shows my love to her, but she always punished me for loving her, thats why I'm getting tired to show my love, but I still love her and it is hard to move on and it feels like that I don't want to move on anymore, and I'm just gonna love her until the end of my life. 😭😭😭😭😭

@DeNyce-

18 күн бұрын

Time heals all wounds. Trust me as the more time passes you will be able to move on. In the meantime, it’s ok to miss her.

@ReadingsbyDom

12 күн бұрын

Dammit! Get yourself together! You were not “that” guy for her. A woman will make it easy if you are. Learn the lesson. Get rid of her stuff. Get to work on yourself. Stop wasting your precious minutes loathing while some other guy is blowing out her back. Respect yourself & move forward!

@J_m_98

3 күн бұрын

Thank you for both of you @DeNyce and@@ReadingsbyDom it is not that easy but I always trying to move on. Always take care both you...🥲

Yes, Thanks for Guidance 🙏🏻

Agree with you 💯

I didn’t contact. He did 😅 why with these games. I mean I’ve reached out 1st in the past. But it gets exhausting so I just stopped. And here he comes

@vishuchinu536

23 күн бұрын

But he’s not coming wat can I do

Abso-fuckin-loutely I agree 💯%

Yes I do agree with you 🙏🙏🙏

Exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you

Excellent advice. Fatherly and compassionate.

Yes. I think writing him after all these years, might’ve confirmed there was nothing really there, in the first place. That, perhaps, I may have saved myself problems, too.

My mind 100% agrees with you, but my heart is longing for them, 😭my heart opposed

Make sure you truly reaching out, there's a difference in talking at someone and talking to them. I like to assure people what you are hearing is coming from me and not my representitive that way we both can clear up any misunderstanding and decide where do we go from here...

Well said. Thank you ❤

I totally agree with your messages

Yes i agree with you on Sir.

All my questions answered , I'll stop being a fool now...... thank you so mucĥ for this video....... God bless you always

So true. Amen blessings

All the closure i needed.

Its their pride. No one wants to give in.

I needed to hear this

We dont talk anymore like we used to do🎵🎼🎶

Yes, I do . Thanks ❤

can’t reach out BLOCKED from everything I’m sure not reaching out I’m too busy reaching out to Yah/God I love it here💯♥️🙏🏾🙌🏾🔐

Very correct 💯

Yes I got the message loud and clear

I agree 100% living their best life

Yes, I agree with your words❤

I actually needed this right now

Yes I'm with you..

I agree with you!♒️

U tube knows everything about me .gives every recommendation at ryt tym

Yes but I used to get signs about him only. I am so confused and broken now. Inspite of signs still i am suffering. He is dating someone. But I always used to prayed whoever is mine please send him only. Lord Jesus i am lost again and again. I really don't want this life now. Please bless me with death now Amen🙏

@lilgeezy261

21 күн бұрын

Don’t b so hard on yourself there’s someone out there for you

@ReginaCruz-dx1ij

19 күн бұрын

You can learn to be happy on your own. Trust me - it's possible. There is so much more to life than just romantic love.

@DeNyce-

18 күн бұрын

Power is in the tongue. Be careful what you pray for.

@pollytopps3540

13 күн бұрын

@@DeNyce- RIGHT! AND QUIT LETTN A PERSON DETERMINE YOUR SELF WORTH!!. NOT EVEN THAT SERIOUS. IF U GIVIN UP BECAUSE OF A MAN. I PRAY FOR YOU IF A REAL LIFE CRISIS HIT..BEYOND YOUR CONTROL.

@ReadingsbyDom

12 күн бұрын

If you were put in no contact, you didn’t qualify for the person that put you there. My heart goes out to females for the delusion created by social media. Apps provide under qualified females access to men they’d otherwise not have. These men are never seen in public with them, use them, & discard them. Sorry - It wasn’t a relationship. You weren’t dating. You allowed yourself to be used. There are a limited number of “10’s” in the world. Both male & female. Eat the ego cookie, get your ass off the couch, hit the gym, and appreciate someone that’s kind and reciprocal. Get yourself together woman!

Thanks....I need this❤

Yes you are right.

I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU MAN..😂.

Your absolutely rite, and here i am second guessing, stressing, not knowing wht to dew. Feeln lost@ this moment. Its not the fact the person doesnt care, maybe thr goin through smethn.

that’s true literally whats happening to me now i just cant get over him 😔

True !

You are correct sir😊❤❤

Yes I agree definitely

Agree 💯

All so true yes agree

THAT'S RIGHT 💯 ❤

Exactly❤

Someone always gets hurt & someone always regrets...

Thank you x

Thanks

At to some extent yes I agree. But sometimes you still care, but you know they best thing to do is to stay silent, some times the other person is in another relationship already, sometimes the other person is stuck on drugs, sometimes the other person is abusive. Sometimes it's just best to stay away, even if you still care for the person.

If a person "who cares, reach out first". Then why don't reach out first? Why are you waiting passively?

Yes definitely

Agree with you

I think I should realise this