This video made me cry. I have a saturn-venus square, saturn 10th house and venus 5th house and something going on with pluto as well. I call myself a late bloomer. I just felt invisible, people just couldn't see me. At some point I just closed up because it was to painful. Family and friend just kept on going, your so pretty, why are you lonely? are you in to something kinky? One day I just made a decision to forget about it completely and focus on work this was for like 5 years. I moved to another country and in the place I was staying I met someone, I didn't expect much really but he put all in for me and I was so in disbelief, I was lovable. This was 3 years ago, I'm 38 now, we live together and have a very good, healthy and very much in love relationship, the fear is still there, it hasn't gone away, I put extra care in us and our well being as a couple, like responsability. He is the best that ever happened to me. Thanks Maria, lovely post.

@magicoflife1169

2 ай бұрын

Wow. You know I relate to your experience to an extent. I didn’t feel loveable until I met my husband who compliments me all the time and loves me. The relationship is hard work sometimes but gives me a sense of stability. Similarly to you I was in disbelief that I was loveable lol

@AnimalSpirit777

Ай бұрын

Your comment made me tear up, I'm so happy you found happiness ❤ I have it too and it's been a long hard road😢 I'm 32 now and self love is definitely getting easier

@mariej9176

Ай бұрын

@@AnimalSpirit777 hi, thank you. This post was a couple of years ago, we are now married and expecting our 1st child. I don't know your situation, but you are worthy of love, care and protection. Be kind to yourself, it will shine through. Hugs

This aspect is very hard especially when one has it in cancer at 0 degrees. One word, “rejection” constantly rather you like it or not. It hurts like hell but you have no choice but to keep going . Self love is a concept that in my opinion is unreal due to the fact we humans are social beings and need love from those that care about us. If you don’t get that, then you just need to move on and be the best human being possible for yourself. Go where you are wanted and appreciated. Give without expecting anything like putting time in a charity of your choice. That always works in my opinion.

You are right I always have to try so hard to get unconditional love - but have warm love, good love solid loyal love ❤️ yet my love is always betrayed not appreciated or I’m the woman that’s put in a position between a man and his ex or his female friend- I gave up on trying- and will not spend my time and energy being betrayed and rejected it has not been worth it for me- I have been the most content since I’ve developed boundaries from potentially toxic people- it is a breath of fresh air not to have anyone over my head causing chaos in my life- but it’s tragic that I have so much love yet I refuse to be vulnerable when 9 out of 10 it’s someone who will use and abuse me- it is what it is- my life will go into children creating an etiquette and mentorship program for children for they seem to be strongly attracted to me- but I must say your definitely on point- thank you ❤

Sometimes our parents go through their own childhood trauma and don’t know how to be healthy themselves. Imagine maybe what they went through was worse and they never recognized or healed themselves.

You’re right that we find it hard to accept! 🤦🏼‍♀️ for me this came from an inferiority complex when growing up because of not having enough money, not having nice clothes etc. definitely ugly duckling situation- with age I recognised my value, worth, beauty etc. When we love ourselves we can accept love from others- this is us with this placement

Oh my goodness! This literally put me in tears. You are such a beautiful soul and thank you for these beautiful words of wisdom!

My husband has Saturn opposite venus and venus opposite Pluto he’s so clingy and controlling but I guess this is why

It's a tough placement. I amlost cried. I attrach hot and cold then Saturn types. But ive been working on it over time. Self love

Wow! Venus square Saturn (one of the tightest orbs in my chart). This so resonated-and has been a constant in my life. Wow! Thank you, Maria. ♥️

Venus + Saturn in Aquarius ♒️

This made me cry. Everything you said is true 😢

Thank you for being vulnerable enough to make a video like this

This is an incredible breakdown, I thank you so much for this video ❤

Thank you so much for creating this video Maria, its helped me contemplate and gave clarity!

Thank you for sharing such deep lessons with us. I do have venus conjunction saturn and undestand completely what you are saying. It is a path to healing

Thank you so much for making this video! ❤ taking some time to heal after breaking up from my 7 years of relationship…… will take note on your exercises and journal them down 😊

This video helped me a lot!!! I just turned 31 and I’m hitting the wall with this love life and my own blind spots. This really helped me

This is so accurate, thank you❣️

Nailed it! I have Saturn in my 10th house ♒ squaring three planets in my 6th house ♏. Lots to unpack!

Maria thank you so much for sharing your experience 🙏❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

Thank you for the info ✨☀️✨

Thank you, for this… *big hug*

The part where you said about "addiction" to a certain pattern or behaviour, totally resonated. I have Sun/Venus/Saturn and Pluto in conjunction in Libra in the 12th house. Also Mercury in the 12th (but not in conjuction, it´s in earlier degrees) and to throw some more, Jupiter in Scorpio in the 12th also conjuction to my ascendant. My 12th house is like a crowded party, that im starting to enjoy just in the last 3 to 4 years (i´m 42 now - it´s time to play with the Uranus opposition 1st to 7th house). Up until then, the loud party inside my head drove me crazy (i still am lol, who isnt?). Best wishes!

This clarified so much for me.

Thank you ..always a betrayal worse than the last,have been told am beautiful,cant take a compliment.Giving ,giving ..yea we love ,we love deeply,loyally like no other yet we never get it back

I'm so grateful for this series. it means a lot for me to have access to this information. I'm an aquarius rising and Saturn is transiting a stellium nowadays, including Venus (which squares Saturn natally). I think I've got enough of Ice King/Queen energy. I want Ice Cream energy now 😅

I, too, have a T-square with these three planets. No wonder I found your video. :) Mine is Venus opposite Saturn and both of them are squared by Pluto. Tight orbs.

Thank you, Maria! My Venus(11th) is trine my Saturn( 2nd House), and they are in a grand trine with my Libra moon. I see this as a good thing.

@Yogis406

3 жыл бұрын

It is a good thing. This video is about hard aspects. You have the easy aspect.

this video is gold

@mafee-euphoricnostalgia

4 ай бұрын

thank you!

Malnourished? Im starving. Venus opp saturn, first one in libra the latter in taurus. And my asc is taurus too 💀 i dont like my birth chart at all

@iammidia5548

2 ай бұрын

Libra and Taurus are quincunx not opposition

I chose a some tricky ass placements. I struggle moment to moment to know who I am and what I want 😅

Love you for this

Thank you ❤️

Hahaha...OMG! This happened to me in High School. The cutest guy from school was into me and I thought he wanted my friend. 🤦‍♀️ I found out he was into me because of someone hearing him after seeing my picture. 😅🙈🤷‍♀️

If planets could be recognized as blockages in love, then doesn't the journey of love start with valuing & loving ones self?!🤔💝

Ugh I'm a cap moon, saturn square venus and merc it's been a long hard road. My story definitely feels like the Ugly duckling syndrome, I've even said that about myself. Being a venus dominant/venus in taurus in the 1st with other great aspects (minus the venus opp pluto) I'm quite physically attractive and get compliments all the time from strangers but never felt like it was true until i really did the work to love myself properly. And yeah totally felt like i was never worthy of love or had to earn any love or affection. At 32 I'm definitely feeling the best I've ever felt. Never had love in my life so far but hopefully one day ❤

Not gone hold you, I have synastry with someone who has a Venus/Saturn conjunction (coming from their 7H opposing their mars/asc conj in their 1H) in my 12 where my stellium is. I see all of this for them but im a cancer rising with a Taurus moon/venus conj in 11H. We both have sidereal Taurus/Libra 12H. He has a Libra moon. But I feel like I end up feeling love starved, breadcrumbed, like I’m out in the cold. I want to feel his warmth. I know it’s there (he’s a Leo) But he’s just now starting his self love journey and I’m so proud of him. i do think it’s a mirror (Gemini) of these things you mentioned

I have the sesisquare of venus with both pluto and saturn. I never could get the energy but once read sesisquares are like "rebelious ignorance" my maverick venus in Aquarius might just be guilty of that for sure. Doesn't help venus is conjunct mercury and in a stellium with my sun in 7th in whole sign or in the 8th in placidus. Either way it packs a punch. Thank you for this series. The sesisquare is able to be overcome and I finally think I am ready to do so 🙏

Enid Saturn in my chart so far shows up as - yes grew up somehow feeling like I’m not loveable enough. Met someone in my 20s- fell in love, he loves me too but through the years I’ve settled for stability in the relationship. Venus Saturn makes a person doing what needs to be done in the relationship, making effort etc. it’s not a negative aspect. The relationship may feel like an obligation and chores sometimes but through making the effort you get to have longevity and stability. Also I have ambitions when it comes to earning my own income. Working to create value and to have financial stability. Again, it’s good. Being a realist and applying yourself

Thank you so so much it has never been explained to me and makes so much sense and explained past relationships every aspect of it even when I get love pushed it away only when he died I realised the value of what he was offering me I regret that as he had a lovely giving heart Its now set a standard of what I now expect someone else to live up to , again thanks , what do you have for personal readings

@MariaDeSimone

10 ай бұрын

Hi Liza - for personal consultations, visit www.InsightfulAstrology.com

@aimeecastano2189

10 ай бұрын

Hi! With all the due respect what aspects do you have in your chart in your 8th H. I have Pluto Venus and mercury all conjunct in the 8th H in ♏

Damn read me like a book 😵‍💫 Scorpio moon and Scorpio Venus both square Saturn……… pray for me 🥴

how does Juno fit into a love relationship? it would be interesting to see a video on Juno synastry.

Can you please do time stamps..

Does anyone have insight as to what other aspects could lead to this experience? My natal Venus in the 10th and Saturn in the 4th aren’t aspecting each other, but Venus is in semisquare to Pluto in the 12th and Mars in the 9th. What Maria describes is squarely how I feel, so wondering what other aspects could bring this energy up

exact conjunction in cap 🫠 mars is also conjunct just not exact

My Venus is in cancer and Pluto and Saturn in Libra. Both Saturn and Pluto square my Venus 😔

Venus 3rd house Scorpio Saturn aquarius 6th house..squared ugh

Venus square Saturn and Saturn in the 7th as well as two t-squares with Uranus in the 7th 😅

Venus Saturn opposition

I have Venus trine Saturn… Why I resonate with this so much? :(

Im not a Venus Saturn person but the person I’m trying to convince of my love is. He has the opposition. What do I need to do to win his love? I know he’s interested but he comes off super cold. I’m not giving up on him but I need answers on how to break down that wall.

@malhajeri8485

6 ай бұрын

Looking for the same answer

@mafee-euphoricnostalgia

4 ай бұрын

he has to decide to let love in, it will hurt you to run again this wall but maybe if you just be present and don't rush or punish it with him he builds trust to let you in

@mafee-euphoricnostalgia

4 ай бұрын

if he is not letting you in with time you should love him from a far

so you are speaking natal saturn venus aspects. What about transits? I have saturn transiting my 7th house which will oppose my natal venus when it goes direct. Does the natal interpretation match the transits?

@Yogis406

3 жыл бұрын

Do you have a natal aspect of Venus Saturn? The transit affect will depend very much on this.

@slporter722

3 жыл бұрын

@@Yogis406 No I do not natally

@Yogis406

3 жыл бұрын

@@slporter722 ok well, it could be a time when you face a hard choice or realisation about love or romance, it could give you a sense of loneliness. Transits pass though so keep that in mind.

@slporter722

3 жыл бұрын

@@Yogis406 Exactly what I’m experiencing. Thank you

Venus conj. Saturn square Pluto 🙄