I’m thinking a lot of people are crushing on Scott. I like listening to him talk. He’s just great and he has such wonderful energy.

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

😮

@twirlingparasol_

Ай бұрын

Well speaking for myself, for sure! 🙈😅

@shirleymason3853

Ай бұрын

Well I think he’s a really nice man and it shows and he does have a good voice for enhancing sleep

@51page

Ай бұрын

I Totally Have A Man Crush on All 4 of Them

@wendieking4184

Ай бұрын

He has a very calm voice. I often rewatch older eps, when I’m crafting. Tinnitus in a quiet room, is stressful, so voices especially calm ones help. In a chaotic world.

I was abused and am hyper aware of everything to the point of I'm not comfortable unless I'm alone.

@mzmoth

Ай бұрын

I get you. I joke that one of the pluses to being bellowed at when you're in someone's way is that you get 360° vision and never miss a trick 😅

@yanceyparnell3900

Ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing. All three of you.

@conclavecabal.h0rriphic

Ай бұрын

@@yanceyparnell3900 Are you thanking the two people who commented on this thread before you? Who is the third person? Am I missing something obvious? Are you referring to a different group of three people? Am i just thinking too deeply into a typo? Seriously asking plz tell meeee 😅

@yanceyparnell3900

Ай бұрын

@@conclavecabal.h0rriphic Haha - Honestly I’m not sure! I’m not good at following conversation threads on here. I was sort of commenting generally, although I might have specifically been responding to the person I @‘ed. My overall point was that some people respond to extreme abuse by going down a really deep dark hole afterward, with an “At least I’m the one in control of what’s happen to my body” mindset. It really frustrates me when people have their characters assassinated because they cope with trauma in an unhealthy way. I’m not even remotely into anything degrading now, but at the time it was…I don’t know how to describe what was going on in my head - except that I was empty and just trying to feel SOMETHING. I just wish that, when people come across behavior they don’t understand, they consider the fact that they haven’t lived that person’s life, and it’s not fair to judge how another person responded to trauma.

@yanceyparnell3900

Ай бұрын

@@conclavecabal.h0rriphic See - even when I was responding to you I didn’t know what post YOU were responding to! 🤣😂🤣

I would feel very safe in an interview with Scott. My anxiety is sorta crippling. Scott is very approachable. And to me that is unusual. I get overwhelmed fast. Thank You Scott.

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

You sure are welcome. You hang in there. 👍🙂

@NicolaMaxwell

Ай бұрын

I'm the same way! Scotts great, maybe that's why my teenager loves his stuff he can learn from a great teacher and he enjoys it. I'm such a proud Mum with this kid and learning body language 😁

@NicolaMaxwell

Ай бұрын

@@whatifschrodingersboxwasacofin Of course! I believe that is why the feeling was stated not fact lol.

I appreciate your humanity and appeal for others to be gentle.

At an old job of mine we had a new assistant manager join the group who had Asperger's. He really struggled to connect with everyone at first, cause we were a kind of weird group. So we all sat down & had a good chat. Part of what made us such a tight group was the in team banter & mickey taking. He'd thought we were bickering & being a bit mean to each other. So we explained the rules. When he needs to talk business, tell us. That needs attention. But us throwing insults & things at each other broke down walls & made us closer friends. So if he didn't need to talk business, join in with the banter. But a few rules. It's all meant in good humour. If you ever do poke a tough thing for someone, they'll talk to you about it. & most importantly of ALL. It goes both ways. If you can't tale a light hearted joke, don't make fun of others. Just throw in normal jokes & stuff to get us all laughing together. As soon as he learned that he became a very valuable part of the group. Lovely guy & a VERY sharp whit. If you take the time & work together to learn, that helps individuals like him become better alongside everyone else

22:00 As an identical twin I have some valuable insight to share. Identical twins experience life much differently than individuals. Overall, it's wonderful BUT it's difficult. Deprived individuality, you are 'them' not I or me. You are treated as public property. Unthinkingly people talk about you as if you aren't there and constantly juxtaposition you. Who's oldest, who's the boss, who's sugar, who's salt. Who's the angel, who's the devil. You'd be shocked how often that last one gets asked. You are the circus act. You get attention you'd rather not have. It's daunting. Dressed the same with the same friends. As the healthier, larger twin I spent my life protecting, explaining and caretaking my more fragile twin. It's what lead me to be a people watcher. I had to navigate challenging life situations for two people. I often was not allowed to excel because parents naturally want both to succeed equally well. My parents were dysfunctional but even great parents often lack the skill set needed to foster twins as individuals but a rare gift. Even if they could be great parents, they can't control the inquiring world. My best advice is ignoring that someone is a twin. Treat them as an individual. Let them decide when to share their fascinating twin stories of which they'll have many. We, twins love our twinness, but folks aren't entitled to know and often it squelches individuality. I'm special because I am me type of thing. I have thousands of funny and insightful twin story's and feel blessed to be a twin but first and foremost I'm just a me. Unless of course I look awful, then I'll pretend I'm her! 🤣🤣🤣. Lastly, I'm 62 and my twin died 2 years ago. I still feel like my DNA got cut in half. Like half of me is missing even though I know she's in heaven. From the moment the cell divided we were together. I'd rather be a set again, but it makes me realize the double blessing of having been born an identical twin despite its challenges.

I used to share a room with my younger sister when we were kids. She talked in her sleep. I could have a conversation with her and she'd tell me the truth about things she wouldnt admit to if she was awake. Was fun!

@megonvi

Ай бұрын

😅 Hahaa. That reminded me of some close relatives that are sleep walkers and sleep talkers. They're brothers. Once one of them was sleeping and started yelling something, and his brother would reply back to him while being asleep too! That was so curious...

@aletha460

Ай бұрын

@@megonvi that's funny. Wonder how that happens? Maybe people slightly wake-up from dreaming but aren't fully conscious and the convos happen then? In between dream-states or something? I don't know. I just know I could tell if my sister was hiding something, so I'd wait till she was asleep to get it out of her. Would sometimes be v garbled and make no sense-other times though, she'd be much clearer.

@megonvi

Ай бұрын

@@aletha460 Right, I wonder all those things too 🤔. I noticed what you say about it sounding garbled sometimes, but then other words and phrases being crystal clear. So, it wasn't like a regular conversation when people are awake, but they seemed to be in sync or understand each other at some level... Your advantage is that you were awake. Did you ever confess to your sister that you were trying to get info from her on her sleep?

@aletha460

Ай бұрын

@@megonvi yes, I was open and told her she talked in her sleep, plus we had conversations. If I knew she'd be upset about certain things she'd said, then no, I wouldn't tell her. I was a protective older sister-i never told anyone else about what she said when asleep. I think it was just a childhood thing-i hope so, anyway-she hasn't exactly been the faithful wife in her marriage!

@megonvi

Ай бұрын

@@aletha460 Oh ok, I see

Thanks for making these videos and putting them on KZread, Scott. You’re wonderful! ❤ I really appreciate the learning.

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

Thanks Barb. I’m glad they help. 🙂👍

😎thank you Scott for finding value in your day to share here as you do!

@shirleymason3853

Ай бұрын

I second that emotion!

A FEN is a wetland with a particular type of soil and drainage. It is a specific ecological niche for unique plants and animals.

❤ I love you compassionate heart ❤ blended with professional experience and integrity ❤

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

Thank you Mandy. 🙂

It's true; my grandson with autism has learned so much from theater arts especially and from movies about reading social cues.

Hey Scott, THANK YOU for your night series!❤ I've always had problems sleeping. Right now, that series is the thing that can make me fall asleep ❤️

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

Yes!👍

I'm in a family of 4 generations of diagnosed autistics. My father and brother are fairly oblivious to their own behavior, but have a fair amount of charm and get by. I am socially awkward with Americans, but found my niche working with Asians, where my body language naturally is comfortable for both of us. I sent my sons through our heartland counseling as little kiddles. They worked with them starting as toddlers figuring out, naming, and recognizing body language and emotions. My grandkids did the same. They are socially comfortable and connect with others easily, and have families and friends. Body language is a struggle for me. It takes so much of my executive function to analyze and emulate, exhausting. I think often of the the autistic quote "The NTs are saying things with their eyes. What are they saying?". We know it's going on, but can't tell where it's directed or if it's important. Makes us very nervous. One other thing, we drive people away with our need for clarity and parameters. After some time, people feel "grilled" by us, but we're just trying for conversation. I love talking with other autistics in my field -- it's a glorious, heady, rush of information and attached autistic humor. I can spot the other aspies in the room. We all crack up at things (often incongruity) and the NTs look at us, wondering what the hell is so funny.

My Dad used to sleepwalk, often acting out heroic acts, clearly during nightmares. He was a police officer and ww2 vet.

Love you Scott!! 😘🥰

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

Yay for me!

@twirlingparasol_

Ай бұрын

@@ScottRouse I mean, that's what I think every time you upload! You are appreciated. Hope you have a great day.

Switzerland is nice -- but it's super expensive there. Go south a bit to Italy and you'll find paradise! I lived in Naples, Italy for four years and it was heavenly. LOVE the Italian body language -- so very expressive.

I liked when you spoke of neuro divergent ppl. When I heard you say they were very sensitive, I did an audible "aww", with a right slight head tilt. I don't know anyone like that but thank you for teaching me awareness. Life is hard enuff and it is possibly harder for them.

“Getting people to sleep by what they listen to.” Ironically, I usually listen to binaural beats, but the other night I fell asleep watching a History Channel documentary on KZread. When I woke up, I was excited to write down what my dream was about. The documentary I was watching had nothing to do with what happened in my dreams. At some point in the middle of the night a 3.5 hour video “THE KYBALION - A Study Guide For Hermetic Philosophy” played. I woke up and had all these random facts that I didn’t know before. I was completely dumbfounded by the intensity of my dream and wanted to check facts online. Turns out, the facts were correct. I looked on my KZread account and realized I only knew those facts because of a video that played while I was asleep. Wild!

@danf7411

Ай бұрын

I usually sleep to low music lots of talking videos like that. One time an hour long ad for a science lecture started playing. I dreamed I was in my living room with a man lecturing me while watching the tv.. all this stuff about atoms and the nucleus was animated on the TV and the scenes would change as he lectured. Idk how long I dreamed but when I woke up I was halfway through the hour long ad that was a lecture. It blew my mind how my mind could conjure up images of things I don't really understand and the fact i could hear everything while asleep

Scott: I did the lifting eye brows to a baby in Dr office. (You suggested)AND that baby followed me with his eyes and kept looking at me!! ❤ It worked! I'm gonna do it again thank you! ❤

@gazpearce3700

Ай бұрын

😂😂 awesome, I tried it on my sister's new born (my niece) might be a bit young she watched me for 40/50 second's, she did raise her eye brows back but cracked up laughing. But my sister came up and laughed at me and said what the .... are you doing 😂😂 I said watch I just put a spell on her she will keep trying to look for me, didn't go to well but again she might be to immature to get it, also Bub's might be to young 😂😂😂. I did explain what I was doing so I didn't look even madder

My eldest was a big sleep walker, when he was young i learned to guide him to the toilet, then back to bed when he was done. As an older teenager you could tell he had been eating in the night. I did a lot of research and there are some very common triggers. Being tired, new places, stress. Then physical needs like using the toilet. Creepy when you wake up to people 'staring' at you though.

Ha ha! Just watching the sleep walking bit so far, when I was younger i was staying at my friend's house , we were sharing a bed... now i knew she had a history of sleep walking because her mum warned me, anyway there was one night I was woken up to her getting up out if bed, she stood for about 5 minutes staring into space, then she left the room and went downstairs. 5 mins later she came upstairs sat on the bed with an empty bowl and proceeded to 'eat' from the bowl with a imaginary spoon 😂 i was so spooked, because she just wasn't aware of anything, then she put the bowl down got into bed and went back to 'sleep' haha

I sleep walk/jump. I once jumped out a window, and once I dove through a door and down a flight of stairs. Ive always warned everyone NOT to interfere, because youll become a part of my dream, which is usually a terror, and I have super human strenth when it happens. It was my ex husband chasing me and trying to stop me that caused me to go through the window. It's as dangerous to others as it is terrifying to me when I begin to wake up and I'm in both worlds at once. Do NOT interfere with sleepwalkers!!!

@livewithmeterandnomeasureb1679

Ай бұрын

Depends on the person. And the type of parasomnia.

I have ASD and have recently stumbled across your channels. I have found myself learning from your videos, they are very informative and done in a way where I can actually make sense of things.

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

🙂👍❤️

I'm from Boston and "Fens" is a kind of marsh that has been cut off from the Atlantic Ocean. The water in them gets neutral and a limited type of plants will grow there and they are referred to as the fens. Also, it is why Fenway Park got its name. It's near the fens.

I live in Switzerland! Canton de Fribourg. That was lovely to hear (about Zürich)!! ❤ Yes, we Swiss people are very calm. We talk slowly, walk slowly, are friendly and many of us speak several languages 🙂I speak French, which is my usual language but I also speak Spanish, Italian and English. This is the best country to retire! P.S. I LOVE Scott's voice!

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

You’re very lucky to live there. I absolutely love that place. Love it.🙂

Switzerland has the most beautiful landscape all over the country! Really, really beautiful landscape. I'd love to live there.

The most soothing voice, I could listen to forever. Love you Scott

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

🙂

Fens is an old-time word for isolated marshland that is usually not connected to a larger waterway. Fenway Park. Back Bay Fens.

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

THATS EXACTLY WHAT IT WAS TOO! I never knew that. Thanks. 👍

One example of two things speaking at once is dupers delight coupled with any other body language. Sad, mad, bad, glad, but those eyes are smiling.

22:58 Scott, you’re on your own show right now 😭♥️

Scott, you need to explain to Mark that hanging out in parking lots and going to the bootlegger are considered formative experiences in the South.

Pretty much the whole fam is Asberger’s. As they got older socializing was easier. Even the schools were mean. My daughter’s Asberger’s just put people off enough to keep the jerks away. As adults their stillness makes it hard for others to get a reaction ;)

My daughter is a sleepwalker. I'd wake up in the middle of the night to her just standing there. As soon as I talked to her sshe'd stammer and stutter about something. I'd cheerfully get her back to bed, tuck her in (even as a teen) and she'd just cheerfully ramble something and that was it lol.

The best example I know of two conflicting emotions at once is a good memorial service, where everyone comes out crying and laughing at the same time. Mark will no doubt be able to add some stuff about Greek drama! ❤

My son is 16 and has autism, thank you for explaining so clearly how they interact and understand

Scott, you appear to be so comfortable talking to the camera! Have you always been that way? - By the way, when you told the story about getting kicked out of RiverDance, I was laughing so hard, I was crying!! 😂😂😂

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

😮

Appreciated the bit on asbergers....took me 2 years to clearly see a microexpression in real time, I was so stokes, there were 2

I'll say it again - kids should be taught these skills. My son read Scott's book when he was 12, loves his meditations for sleep and TBP. If I learned this younger I'd have saved myself a lot of heart ache! 😬 If you have younger kids in your family James Pyle has a fantastic body language book for kids.👌 Scott's book is fab for teenagers as well as adults. My son's going to do the body language tactics course with me soon too. So proud and grateful. Love and light to you all, from bonnie Scotland.🙂

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

Thanks Bonnie! 🙂👍

When my sister first went out to live on her own in a high rise apartment building, she woke up in the middle of the night where she found herself down the hall from her suite, across from the elevator, trying to get into a locked door of a utility room. When she woke up there, she was NAKED!!! She said she ran down the hall back to her suite and didn't think anyone was around to see that. It was common for her to sleep walk while we were growing up, and she still continues to do so as a married woman.

@lorcashine

Ай бұрын

Got to worry about those Ring doorbell cameras through those hallways though!

@yourconnection9303

Ай бұрын

@@lorcashine Good point.

I drove to the petrol station and filled up in my sleep once. Left my 6 year old daughter alone while doing so. So had to install a new lock and put the new key in my daughter’s duvet cover. Knowing if she waked up it would wake me up.

Swiss folks speak Swiss German & prolly Swiss Italian, depending on which country they’re living closest to. I lived in Germany for 11 years & visited Switzerland about 10-15 times. It is by far my favorite country in North America & Europe.💖 The geography is stunning!

@lorcashine

Ай бұрын

I loved it too. Seems so sane compared to other countries. Clean, safer, pride in beautiful villages, food and welcoming personalities. Would love to live there, but I don’t have a very good ability with foreign languages and I’ve tried for years.

One time my husband was in Switzerland on a business trip, and he was excited about seeing the watch factories. He was walking along on a path that ran behind some of them and he snapped a few pics on his phone. A security person came out from one of the factories and stopped him and called the police. 😆 There I was, sitting at work back in the U.S. and I get a call from my husband and he says he's in the back of a police car and they're heading to the station and he doesn't have time to talk but just wanted to let me know. I was like, what is happening? They let him go without incident, but they are SERIOUS about the watch stuff!

Yep, Switzerland figures. We only visited for a couple of days but it was totally relaxed like you say and it#s so unbelievably clean.

I want to go to Switzerland. Good to know that they speak a lot of English. Although I'd like to learn German too.

@stephanied.701

Ай бұрын

They speak Swiss German in Switzerland. Slightly different. I’m German and we learn English in school. So everyone can at least speak a little English ☺️

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

You’ll love it. 🙂👍

@trinitristant3527

Ай бұрын

I live in Switzerland 🙂Almost 50 years here 🙂 Wonderful country, wonderful people. Very peaceful. There are 3 main "regions": The "Swiss German" where many people speak English, The "Swiss Italian" region and The "Swiss French region" where I live, just besides the "Swiss German" region.

@therealdeal3672

Ай бұрын

​@@trinitristant3527oh that's so interesting! Thank you. I did study French years ago. But I would probably pick it up more quickly than Swiss German. Not that I shouldn't learn another language. Are you an expat from the USA?

@trinitristant3527

Ай бұрын

@@therealdeal3672 People in Switzerland are known for speaking slowly. So the French you speak should come back easy! Not like, for example, in Paris, where people speak fast. The (French) region of the Lake of Geneva which we call "Lac Léman" is beautiful. My mother was half German, half Irish. My father is French. At the time they were married, they lived in Peru. I was born there. So the first language I learned was Spanish and a little English from my mother. When my parents split up, I was 10 years old. They sent me alone to boarding school here in Switzerland and I just stayed here the rest of my life. My brother stayed in Peru. My mother didn't want a girl. And my father was occupied with a new girl friend with whom he later on had 2 children. My children were born here so I stay here 🙂 If you plan on travelling to this country, you could explore the 3 regions!! It's a tiny country so it doesn't take too long! There is a 4th region which many people don't know of and is called something like "Suisse Romanche", they have their own language.

"They both married a woman named Gladys." 🤣🤣 I love you so much, Scott. You're a national treasure.

@ScottRouse

11 күн бұрын

😮Thank you 🙂!

Adults Definitely have rivals- team blue and team red are very contentious

Scott, thank you for your service and support. The mentorship I have received remotely is priceless, and respectfully professional. Stoked, you know I ain’t no Pinocchio . 🙏🌻🍝💯

@ScottRouse

11 күн бұрын

👍❤️🙂

Learn body language while I sleep, sign me up! I will look for those videos…awesome!!

Yep,, I live in a different country in a foreign language, so yes, one does become more aware of differences.

It's interesting about ASD (which I have). I don't do well in my home country, but am universally accepted overseas, particularly in non English speaking countries as there is an automated acceptance of cultural differences. I'm just a crazy Brit as opposed to someone 'different' I can't recognise different human faces, in addition to being unable to read facial expressions. Despite having read books on body language for 45 years I still have to do it analytically. Animals on the other hand I can read instinctively.

@bettyjean740

Ай бұрын

I am very curious about that, not recognizing human faces . Do you mean the emotions or feelings on a face or the individual recognition of someone you have met as opposed to a complete stranger. That would be very exhausting or would take extra energy to constantly have to figure out who people are

@rottweilertrainingUK

Ай бұрын

@@bettyjean740 both. I can’t recognise expressions, and worse still I can’t recognise faces. I know people analytically by height, accent, weight, hairstyle and the way they walk. Often in films if there are two brunette women or two blonds men with beards (for example) who are similar in height, accent etc I can’t tell which is which. I wouldn’t recognise my mother in the street if she wore a wig, different clothes etc. I have made some REALLY big blunders at work, including when the CEO borrowed a trainers office and I went in and asked when he thought he would get off his phone and get some work done He was quite amused after the shock 🤣

@cathwalsh9921

Ай бұрын

@@rottweilertrainingUKthat did make me laugh about the CEO 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Crossing my arms is either because I'm cold, or I'm trying to hide fat, or I just have to put my arms somewhere! 😁🤷🏻‍♀️

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

I’m hiding fat. 😬

@jillspianomusicstuff9972

Ай бұрын

@@ScottRouse 😁

@lonestarbellepk

Ай бұрын

Sometimes I cross arms when I'm angry and holding it inside....or cold 🥶

@Jenn_80

Ай бұрын

😂😂

@Sbw1976

Ай бұрын

I love this comment! 😄

You might find this interesting - our youngest son, 25 years old now, has always slept with his hands behind his head in what you're describing as the Cobra position. The funny thing is, he did that in utero, when he was lying transverse, before he was born, I could feel and even see his elbow poking out, and it was confirmed through ultrasound. So if there's associated body language, he was giving us clues about his personality and behavior pre-birth. LOL

I was all over Europe, as a child. I remember so much from then, and it was the mid 1960’s.

Scott, I really needed to hear the "just do it as yourself" bit! I am currently on job hunt and I tend to get in my head about how I should behave in a professional setting (even 16 yeats into my career) cause I am quite a casual person privately. Thanks, man! 🤘

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

Yeah man. Good luck!👍

I have younger twin brothers and they are so different, personality wise. Looking identical is where they stop being similar.

Zurich sounds great!! But please try some high-end Belgian chocolate, like Neuhaus- my understanding is that Belgian chocolate uses a different cocoa source.

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

Ah. I’ll check it out. Thanks.

@user-bz4uz8jj2t

Ай бұрын

@ScottRouse it was the first time with an assorted box of chocolates that one was satisfying enough that I didn't need a second one lol. If you so try it, let me know how it measures up!

A fen is a marsh. Most of Boston was a marsh until it was filled in.

My daughter has always talked in her sleep. She was learning Korean on her own since she was 11 and sometimes she would speak Korean in her sleep. Otherwise we are bilingual, English and Swedish. She can still manage conversational Korean. She lived in China for a year. She was working so much she didn't have time to learn much Chinese, but found people to speak Korean with because the province was close to North Korea and had many Koreans living there.

Most countries in Europe are multi-lang. I speak Danish, Swedish, German and English (or brit, as we call it)

Speech language pathologists often teach (ids on the spectrum, or adults with tbi, how to read body language or social curs.

Sitting comfortably in an armless chair - or any chair for that matter - is a different matter when you're short and only your toes touch the floor. 😒.

Replay crew! Hit the like button please. Thanks for doing these, appreciate you! It's 7am, got broken ribs which kindly gave me pneumonia so I'll definitely be listening to your sleep meditation today!😴 Learn whilst I rest and recover.🥰 Hope you and yours are doing great Scott! 🙏♥️

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much. I hope you feel better!🙂👍

@NicolaMaxwell

Ай бұрын

@@ScottRouse Thank you, your meditation helps a lot! 🙂

I was put on Ambien for about a week because I have narcolepsy. When I came out in the morning I saw the dirty egg cups and smelled fake bacon from the microwave and thought, "Who cooked?" We discontinued the Ambien. It's the only time I've walked in my sleep, but I've TALKED in my sleep all my life, written poetry, and in 1969 dreamed an 8-sided Stones album called "Brighton Blues." I could remember one song for about 20 minutes after I woke up.

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

😮

@chriseggleston7573

Ай бұрын

Ambien messed with me too. Couldn't distinguish between what really happened and what I dreamt

@AdeebaZamaan

Ай бұрын

@@chriseggleston7573 It's been prescribed more carefully since several people reported sleep driving.

It's been my dream to go to Switzerland. I lived in the Netherlands for a while and everyone was so relaxed and nice. The big chocolate stores, bakery, cheese. I'd LOVE to go.

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

Do it. You’ll love it. 🙂

@NicolaMaxwell

Ай бұрын

@@ScottRouse Going to go next year, my youngest doesn't like "touristy places" 😥

Scott, I can't believe you said that about you starting to learn body language as a kid. I was a sensitive perceptive kid, and I always knew when I was being lied to. Or if an adult said they were going to do things with you, but you knew it was never going to happen. I considered myself as somewhat of a body language reader before I even knew it was a thing.

Scott, you do have a great voice. I consider it similar to Garrison Keillor, which I refer to as a buttery smooth voice. I'm not crushing. I love people and all their unique qualities, etc.

That's a good idea, playing informative stuff to the subconscious. Might try. The things you repeat on a daily basis will eventually become subconscious too because our brain knows that when something is being done on repeat, we need to make it subconscious so we can go on autopilot and expend less energy doing it. That's also how you get lucid and form a connection between the two minds, by paying more attention to dreams when you're awake!

Thank you for the comments on people with Asperger’s! My 21-year-old son was diagnosed at age 8. He has had so many issues through his lifetime with peers misunderstanding him. He was bullied mercilessly in elementary and middle school. He has a heart of gold and is highly empathetic, but he legitimately cannot read social cues like neurotypical people. I wish I could find a coach like you for him. Do you know of a network of people like you who specifically help adults with Asperger’s to read body language??

My maternal grandmother was Swiss so Switzerland is on my bucket list. Swiss Chocolate is definitely a thing.

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

You gotta go. You’ll love it. 🙂

Scott,l think you need to do a sleep tape for yourself. You re safe, loved, your hairs good, your nose isnt big, and you re not fat.:)) In fact, maybe you should do a body image sleep one too. You d be fantastic at that, And it s so needed right now . Sky s the limit. So many possibilities going through my head right now.

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

Those are great ideas. Thank you so much. 🙂

As you speak of another country with such enthusiasm and the points you make, it does throw a light on the supposed America the great etc, the so called freedoms you have. The freedoms that almost make you like in a security bubble , there is no freedom to be nice etc.

Yeh, with Asperger's differentiating a smile from a smirk for instance, can be a challenge because often you can only see one part of the face at a time.

Oh Scott you even describe autism so beautifully 🥰 thank you 🙏

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

Thank you. 🙂

All 4 of you from the Behavior Panel are each a treasure trove of fascinating and useful information… thank you, I always learn something new!

Always brilliant and informative. Thank you very much

On the topic of blends, I've seen a superficial tertiary expression of sadness in a fear anger blend. It only occured in the upper face while the fear/anger expression involved the whole face. When you consider the muscles involved in fear and anger, it's understandable how it came to be. It's like a phantom expression that is less visible than the felt expressions and probably without meaning.

I LOVE the sleep videos! I don't know which I like best, but i sleep perfectly. Thank you ❤ ( btw, when you get a chance, would you add them all to the playlist in your channel? I think there are only two so far.)

"The Fens", perhaps? A fen is marshland or swampland. Obviously they're often near bodies of water. Its an older word that I wouldn't be surprised to hear in New England.

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

👍

My daughter sleep walks sometimes when she is really stressed. She has done so since she was little, and still occasionally does so at 17.

@joannesuzieburlison7128

6 күн бұрын

She might need therapy? I slept walked a ton earlier in life but I had all sorts of depression issues and have ADHD, I mean she might not think its worth it, I didn't realize I was depressed for a long time, I just thought my life sucked.

Great one, Scott. Thank you. I'm going to email you about my sister and I. We are 14 months apart, met when we were 20 & 21, a lot like twins separated at birth. It's wild how many things we have in common. I mean REALLY wild. :)

Scott, I love the personal stories you share. You really are so personable and funny!! Enjoy the channel very much, it’s always interesting and informative.

Yes, my question got answered! :D I'll be sure to come with more. Thank you again. Love your videos and the stories you put into them.

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

You sure are welcome. That was a great question. 🙂

How interesting. I’ve never really thought about it, this blend of more than one emotion at the same time! But when I think about it, yeah, people do it all the time. I’m going to watch for that in people if I can remember. That’s cool

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

You’re learning! Yes!

Some good questions in this one for sure. I've had girlfriends tell me that I both laugh and cry while sleeping, no sleep walking though. If I ever saw someone sleepwalking I wouldn't know what to do, in the old-timey cartoons the trope was that waking up a sleep walker could be dangerous for everyone involved, lol.

..."Probably what's wrong with me today." 😂 Funny story, NOW. But boy, that would have been awful at the time. Glad you can still do what you do. Thank you!

I love your anecdotes, they’re hilarious!❤

Scott is so entertaining and informative. Highly enjoy these videos. Thank you sir 💯😎

I just love your private channel Scott!

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

Thank you Lynnette! 🙂

Thoroughly enjoyed your references to your Zurich visit, fascinating. I knew it was very civilized, organized and clean. But had not considered the people, shall put that on my bucket list! Thank you.

Thank you. As always great learning.

Thank you so much Scott!!!❤

Be kind to each other. Stay safe. Love to all

After watching this, I’m convinced I need to visit Zurich. Scott for the record you are not a fat guy

I’m laughing. My mother-in-law is from Zurich. She is the most humorless, uptight, judgmental human on the planet. I have know her for 37 years and I have never detested a person more. She comes twice a year and her ability to play nice ends between 36 to 48 hours. I keep a bottle of wine in my room and go to bed early. Zurich is a lovely city, I will admit.

@ScottRouse

20 сағат бұрын

I loved it there.

Thank you Scott!

Love everything about learning and finally sleeping!! Great job Scott

I'll try to keep my comment brief.

@ScottRouse

Ай бұрын

Nicely done, Kim. Nicely done. 👍

Totally agree about John Hamm, he walks in large and in charge. lol

Scott, thank you for including the footage of the Switzerland chocolate shop and your words on your trip there. Enjoyable!

@ScottRouse

12 күн бұрын

Thank you so much. 👍🙂