What Would You Change About Each Other? [CC] / Squirmy and Grubs
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Here's today's Daily Question! Shane and Hannah discuss the things that they would change about each other.
Hannah and I absolutely love making videos for you. If you would like to support our work so that we can continue sharing our life and relationship with you for years to come, you can do so on our Patreon: / squirmyandgrubs
Thank you SO much!
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Shane was born with a neuromuscular disease called Spinal Muscular Atrophy that requires him to use an electric wheelchair. He is the author of several award-winning books, the President of a nonprofit organization called Laughing At My Nightmare, and a renowned public speaker who has performed across the country at places such as Harvard University, The University of Florida, The University of Connecticut, Princeton University, and many more.
Hannah is a senior at Carleton College, studying sociology and anthropology. She works as a researcher for an educational consulting firm. Her future aspirations include attending law school and owning a goat sanctuary. She films and edits the “Squirmy and Grubs” vlog.
Shane and Hannah have been dating for over 2.5 years and living together in Minneapolis in recent months. Their interabled relationship often confuses people, because much of society still cannot fathom people with disabilities being involved in loving, intimate relationships. Anyone who watches these episodes will quickly see their relationship is just as “normal” as any other. Sure, Hannah helps Shane use the bathroom and brush his teeth, but those activities do not detract from the emotional, intellectual, and physical connection they experience together.
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“Butt level” “Isn’t that right where you want to be?” “Yeah, pretty much” I agree with you, Shane.
@evertonfanjuan9212
5 жыл бұрын
😏
@brotherhh2491
5 жыл бұрын
Hahahah
@furrylockstar
5 жыл бұрын
what a great ass!!
@rafareyes7276
5 жыл бұрын
I agree
@RobertBryk
5 жыл бұрын
Amazingly beautiful 😍
“HANNAHS ANGRY AGAIN” I AM CRYIN HAHAHA
Is it wierd to be in love with another couples love?
@lynkent677
5 жыл бұрын
No....It is called empathy!
@vegetablepimps
5 жыл бұрын
I'm right there with you.
@lollic307
4 жыл бұрын
I just discovered these videos and I'm so glad I did. I'm 39 and have mental health issues (maybe reversable..maybe not) ..but watching this couple puts things in perspective for me..and makes me want to be a better person..and greatful for what I have in this life. I am alone and struggle with healthy relationships. I'm scared of people and dont get out much. I am a nurse. I take care of severely disabled individuals to give their parents a break at night. I've been taking care of people my whole life and put my own health on the back burner. I've struggled with addictions and self esteem issues. I dont know where I fit in. Emotional and psychological support is so important and I dont get it from my parents..and that is hard to accept. I want to thank you guys for sharing your life with us..your special relationship gives people hope in humanity and inspires. I am overly empathetic and very sensitive..and American culture is lacking in empathy. You guys are a breath of fresh air. God bless you. You're a great team
@lollic307
4 жыл бұрын
@Julie Sprik mine too. I've come to the conclusion that God is the answer..and with prayers and positive experiences and people in your life..the fear will fade. I'm working on myself and this couple is an inspiration
@psyifinotic
4 жыл бұрын
Lauren carl hey. thank you for doing what you do. without a very special nurse i would have passed away a year ago, but life is a gift. i know it might not mean anything but this random person on the internet is sending you love
There is something about this video, among the other ones I’ve watched that really captures your love for each other. You both picked things you wanted changed about each other that would only help and better yourselves it wasn’t about what you don’t like and wanted changed for your own desires. This is rare and beautiful and shows how much you truly love each other!
Question: Do either of you get jealous of past relationships or others expressing attraction and how do you deal with it.
@bbbbhbhjjj7222
5 жыл бұрын
@MaaaarrJ why not ? He probably had loads more then you
@3601Cecilia
5 жыл бұрын
MaaaarrJ Go home, troll!
@destinymorales4538
5 жыл бұрын
MaaaarrJ that’s freaking rude, go away!
@angelnohalo7652
5 жыл бұрын
@MaaaarrJ Fuck you. You've probably never even had a relationship. People that are insecure tend to talk shit about others to make themselves feel better. Now, GTFO!
@gabbygmoney
5 жыл бұрын
@MaaaarrJ he actually had a gf before her
I WAS SO WORRIED ABOUT HIS HEALTH! I always told myself in the back of my head “He definitely does P/T and everything in his power for his health”. Guess I was wrong. Better get on that, Shane!
hannah: “our poor neighbors!” shane: “they’re like oh, hannah’s angry again!” 😂😂
@marinad6228
5 жыл бұрын
I never saw Hannah angry ..
@jonathanpotter8760
5 жыл бұрын
I fucking died 😂😂😂😂😂
@miguelvega8557
5 жыл бұрын
😞
@swzettart597
5 жыл бұрын
Emily Peterson Emily when are you going to give me a chance???
@denisehenrickson-dear7605
5 жыл бұрын
Emily Peterson 🤣
SHANE YOUR SENSE OF HUMOUR IS THEEEEE BEST! 😂😂😂
@chalvo6801
5 жыл бұрын
Walter White lol
@DevinC12
5 жыл бұрын
What's your SnapChat Chezlyn.? 😉
@mstanton2916
5 жыл бұрын
@@DevinC12 I think it is... GetTheFukOn
@mattcraft8610
5 жыл бұрын
Lol
@shariwatkins3207
4 жыл бұрын
I Love Your ATTITUDE!
Dude! I also have muscular dystrophy and I love my Bi-Pap. It takes getting used to but you will feel SOO MUCH BETTER if you use it regularly! I've been using mine since 2002.
@martinanather627
5 жыл бұрын
Hey there 😊 as I am not a native speaker, would you mind to explain to me what a Bi-Pap is? That would be awesome! Thanks in advance ☺️🤗
@derrickwayne3225
5 жыл бұрын
I have muscular dystrophy too and I didn't use to wear mine it took something to happen to me but now I use it every night, i have gotten use to it likes it's not even there
@laramaaike3050
5 жыл бұрын
@@martinanather627 I tried google it, and I think it is a sort of oxygenmask.
@Wagon113
5 жыл бұрын
♥️
@derrickwayne3225
5 жыл бұрын
@@Wagon113 thanks 😊
I always find myself smiling during your videos 🙂🙂🙂
@rainydaysurvivor
5 жыл бұрын
Jaime Reynolds Lucky you! I always find myself trying to hold laughter and coffee.
@jaimereynolds258
5 жыл бұрын
@@rainydaysurvivor 😂
@Bratenzie
5 жыл бұрын
I just realized I was smiling when I read this 😂
@Cognitoman
5 жыл бұрын
Me too haha
@shivvypoppy
5 жыл бұрын
Heyyyyy GORL!
I admire the level of respect, trust, and love that you two have for one another to be able to have a respectful discussion about things you dislike about the other. That's real love.
@VanessaSxoxo
5 жыл бұрын
So true, this is exactly what I thought. The chosen words were so respectful and wisely articulated. Loved that!
@nitrousoxide2265
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah except she skipped all the most obvious things she'd change about him
@jakemackinson4162
5 жыл бұрын
He’s fucked ima dick down his girl and show her the real movement he can’t do 😂
@freshlove7926
5 жыл бұрын
Marion Church - omg you are such a cutie
@luislol3995
5 жыл бұрын
Jake Mackinson 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭I’m sleep
Even when complaining about each other, you do with such a respect and love, jeez So much to learn here!!
Realest cutest couple on KZread... real talk.
@ElsaInCa
5 жыл бұрын
So true!
@roseragan-mcwain2395
5 жыл бұрын
I WISH I COULD LOVE BUTTON 2000 X... YOU CANNOT KNOW HOW HELPFUL YOU ARE TO OTHER SICKIES! Thank You for being HERE for ME!
@4spillthebeans4
5 жыл бұрын
for real tho them and Jenna and Julien are the best KZread couples
@Jrdarknessking
5 жыл бұрын
Think Tim Tracker has them beat haha
@YG-rh7ji
5 жыл бұрын
Vivi H-B stfu stop lying
Thanks for answering my question! I’m honoured...
I really love the way you guys talk to each other. It’s really exemplary of a healthy and loving relationship, which is so fantastic.
Laughing so hard at Shane’s fake cry😂y’all have such a good sense of humor! I love yalls channel!!
I share your vids with my mom and i love the fact you have captions (and good ones!) on your videos. She is deaf and the biggest complaint about youtube is there is such a crap system for captioning. You two obviously understand disability and accessibility. It’s something little but the extra effort it takes to do that is so cool. I love your vids, keep up the great work! I love seeing your channel grow!
@emilychisholm8124
5 жыл бұрын
Yes I am deaf too and love how the captions are already there! Makes it so much easier and one of the many reasons why I love love love squirmy and grubs.
@lc4life369
5 жыл бұрын
Im not deaf and Still benifit from them. sometimes it's hard to understand what someone said or I can't hear it very well cause they said it very quiet so I love captions.
@Christopherjamesmurphy21
5 жыл бұрын
Emily Chisholm question.. when you think to yourself, do you picture ASL in your head, or do you have a voice inside your head like I do, do you picture words? Very curious on how this works for deaf people.
@jordandieppa756
5 жыл бұрын
Saaaame! I'm hard of hearing so sometimes watching KZread I have to rewind a lot and try and listen again and strain to do it. But the CC make it so much easier to understand so I can just focus on enjoying! :)
@hashimotoqueen7227
5 жыл бұрын
J.London Same!!!!! I’m deaf too
I’m a very passionate person too Hannah so I totally understand! Also, this shows how stable and mature your relationship is to do this and not feel insecure. Love you both!!
That mayonnaise and rice combo is NOT a Pennsylvania thing, that is a weird Shane thing.
@brimmyburner7530
5 жыл бұрын
Sue Z AMEN
@christiancentofanti4257
5 жыл бұрын
I actaully love mayo and rice and I live in Australia
@radiatorbacon5239
5 жыл бұрын
@@christiancentofanti4257 flog him!
@jonaypalmer3683
5 жыл бұрын
Right
@datsaltyperson2541
5 жыл бұрын
I can confirm (my name’s also Shane). White rice with mayo actually tastes pretty good. So does cheese and chocolate ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
You 2 bring light and love into this world. Thank you for sharing yourselves with us.
As much as I love these little videos every day, I miss the vlogs!! Please bring them back ❤️
I love how Hannah's thing to change about Shane is something that ultimately benefits his health and well being. Aww. :)
How have I never found this channel? This is so whole hearted and it’s absolutely great.
I just came across your channel. You are 2 of the most amazing human beings I've ever seen. Congratulations on finding each other
i just wanted to say thank you so much for adding captions to all of your videos. i don’t have hearing issues but i do have some processing issues so i find it difficult to enjoy a video or movie without captions and i often have to watch things twice to fully enjoy it. thank you so much for doing this small thing, cause it really makes a difference! 💜
You both make me smile so much. Thank you.
I always cry when I see your videos. To think my problems in life are challenging! Because of both of you, I'm learning to smile more and not take things for granted. Thank you so much!!
It's so awesome to see how respectful they are to each other about things they dislike. It's so easy for a discussion like that to turn into a fight, but they worded things nicely and listened.
I absolutely adore you both!! I don't think I've seen humans more real and "raw" than you two. The love AND friendship (you need both in a relationship) is so evident! So refreshing, the two of you are!!!!
You guys always make me smile 🙂🙂
I've just discovered your channel and I've been watching for hours. Its the most genuine thing I've ever seen, I've laughed, cried and then more laughing. I've been going through my own stuff right now and I feel so much better about my outlook on life just by experiencing a bit of your life. Thank you
I stumbled upon your story but accident and ADORE you both! Intelligent AND humor?? Killer combination!! Your a joy to watch!
*YOU GUYS ARE AWESOME!*
Hannah: being sweet and affectionate Shane: inappropriately timed burp* Hannah thinking: that’s number 2 of the 1,000 things I would change! Just kidding. Love you both! ❤️❤️
@leamarye923
5 жыл бұрын
Moonmaidenfairy my boyfriend does that. i’ll lean in for a kiss and he lets out a huge burp 😂😂
Amazing! You guys are touching peoples lives on so many fronts. Thank you both!
I think you guys are my new favorite thing on KZread!!!!! It’s so fun to see how you guys live and learn and interact!! It’s also sooooooo inspiring to see Shane doing the norm just as easily as anyone else would without a disability
Hearing Shane talk about mayonnaise and rice gave me second hand acid reflux, lol. Love you guys!
@mindyvaughn8217
5 жыл бұрын
Kayleigh Beato Me too, 🤢
@shelleysmith2877
5 жыл бұрын
Warmed up mayonnaise!? Thats disgusting
@barbara9267
5 жыл бұрын
It's so good tho.
I see a TLC opportunity coming. You guys rock.
@taylorhunter5828
5 жыл бұрын
Pamela Jane oh my gosh!!! That would awesome!! Come on TLC
@davinashaffer8916
5 жыл бұрын
Pamela Jane, great thinking, I'd so watch it...
@mlc2522
5 жыл бұрын
I kind of hope not because I much prefer them on KZread. Here they can be completely themselves without having to water down their content if a producer doesn't like it. Don't get me wrong I want them to have the best opportunities but I don't think tlc would do them justice. I'm scared it would be overly produced and wouldn't stay true to the heart of this channel. Not to mention all the commercial breaks *shudders*
@mindyvaughn8217
5 жыл бұрын
Pamela Jane Oh yes!
@laramaaike3050
5 жыл бұрын
@@mlc2522 I hope so too, that they won't. I don't have a tv. And only watch YT. And what you said, they wouldn't be them anymore, bc TLC wants this and than that....
Why did this video make me cry 😭 I just love the raw honesty and the true desire to build each other up.
You guys are freaking awesome!! I wish you both nothing but greatness.
My wife and I just found your channel tonight and love it!!! You guys don't let his condition define anything, you conquer it together and be your goofy selves despite it!! The support and love between the two of you is awesome and reminds me of my wife and myself!!! I have Brain Cancer and MS mixed with a bunch of learning disabilities!!! I don't let any of it get in my way and my wife helps me every step of the way!!!! Diseases don't define your life or ruin it unless you let them!!! Live your best life despite them and rise above them!!! I am now a big fan of yours and cannot wait for your future videos!!!
@Ada-tv7zl
5 жыл бұрын
Stay strong! Wish you and your wife all the best for the future and many more wonderful moments together!
@beholden1663
5 жыл бұрын
very encouraging words. Thank you.
i love your channel so much. you make my day better every time you post. you all are such amazing people !!
What a funny and enlightened video! You both have incredible insight. It's definitely not hard to see why you're bonded so much. Love you guys!
Awww you guys had the best answers! It's so obvious how much you care about each other. I am in love with your love!!!
@plantfoodrocks4071
5 жыл бұрын
yeah, I loved that their critiques were so thoughtful and respectful. I was touched by that!
Maybe you can change the name from "daily question" to "todays question", that way you don't have to apologize or hurry so much ;-) You just do a question whenever you can.
I just found out about this channel, and this is actually amazing. We as a human race need more people like you two in this world, people who don’t judge and are more interested in the person they truly are on the inside, and to have to go through so much in life and still be able to wake up every single morning with a smile on your face and not question why this happened to you but to make the best of what you have and just be genuinely happy, you two are some very incredibly strong individuals and together I can see from the short 7 mins of this video you two have a bond some people spend a lifetime looking for. If the world was full of people like yourselves we would actually have a world full of peace and love. Idk if you two are religious in any way but God bless you guys always, I wish nothing but the best for you two and in all of your future endeavors. Much love.
This is one of your best videos so far, you were honest about what you’d want as a change…
You know what I've just noticed? Pretty much at the end of every video, I have a HUGE grin on my face watching you guys be so funny together. Thanks for brightening my days
“I can’t narrow it down to one” 🤣🤣🤣 🤮 rice and mayo. Omg the love between you two ❤️😭❤️
The rice and mayo thing makes my stomach heave. Dear god no. Just no.
@laurajimenez7878
5 жыл бұрын
Code Name my nanny used to love it too and I always thought it was disgusting but somehow she dared me to try it and it actually wasn’t that bad lmao
@together-one9184
5 жыл бұрын
It's actually very good. I use to eat it as a child. I'ma do it tonight
@patrickslitzker7313
5 жыл бұрын
I do this with tuna
@chefhuncho2048
5 жыл бұрын
I add cheese and ketchup
@chakalacka488
5 жыл бұрын
Code Name tried it, that shit smacks.
I can tell you love him so much. Your eyes light up with everything he says. He's hit the jackpot.. a beautiful lady with a heart of gold. You had said in another video you guys get hate as a couple but I see a genuine relationship full of respect and adoration for each other.
@haroldi.6450
5 жыл бұрын
She prolly fucken other niggas behind his back
I love these too.I also plan to try that cucumber sandwich.Hannah is definitely a great motivation for healthy eating.I appreciate that.
Yeah l saw you on the Today Show in Melbourne this morning. It was awesome to see you and you're becoming professionals now lol. Love you guys xx💞
i loved this daily question videos truly shows that you love each other even with their bad qualities (because we all have them)
I can't stop watching these videos hahaha its like 5 am in Ireland and I've been up all night watching them, tears of laughter and such overwhelming emotions to see how much love exists between to beautiful people! Sorry Hannah but I also love Mayo and Rice! You guys are amazing I want to hang out with you both so much ahah!!!
That was some really good advice from Shane, not just for Hannah, but for a lot of us who notice anger or sadness or whatever emotion dictate how we respond to the events of the day. I’m going to carry that “reframe the situation” note with me for the next time I’m feeling upset and start to feel it spiraling.
you guys are great, i can't stop binge watching you. you're so hilarious 🖤
what is your favorite feature about each other?
@mindyvaughn8217
5 жыл бұрын
Cat Garcia You know Shane likes having Hannah’s back side at eye level. Look at how he looked at her with that sideways glance.
@jackbeavers1414
5 жыл бұрын
Omg as gorgeous as Hannah is I love every single feature she has.... yummy...
Just found this channel. Y'all are incredible. You guys have more positive things about you than your average person. Wealth comes from within. God bless
This was such a beautiful example of communication in a partnership. Wow. Thank you for being so brave.
Lucky guy, glad you have a gorgeous loving girlfriend, wish I was that lucky. I'm paralyzed chest down.
@jasonsiu1441
5 жыл бұрын
Angelo Garcia there’s many fish in the ocean for u
@quieteyes307
5 жыл бұрын
If you make the right woman laugh, and make her feel beautiful, her heart will gravitate towards you.
@phatcalk5844
5 жыл бұрын
@@LaurenLinguist i love them
@tragictransformerelectra3319
5 жыл бұрын
If you don't mind me asking, what happened?
@marinad6228
5 жыл бұрын
god has plans for you to Angelo Garcia..
I found these two individuals today and I find myself tearing up, watching them. Im not sure why, this does not usually happen to me
@lindat8507
4 жыл бұрын
I found them today and have been tearing up and smiling while watching them. I am quite moved.
Thank you for putting closed captions on your videos!!!
I just strolled across your channel the other day and love it. You two are so down to earth and real. I love watching your vlogs!
You guys are actually hilarious! I mean I knew you were funny...but I am laughing so much right now 💞
"The disabled boy is having a breakdown." 🤣🤣🤣 I can so see my neighbors saying something like that. But Hannah, the random burping. I'm with you. As a mom to 4 kids who take after their dad in random gassy moments that only they think are hilarious, I empathize. 😂
I love these two!!! You two are awesome!! I just got hip to you guys today and haven’t stopped watching your videos!
Hannah, you're patience is so inspiring.
Love you guys, watch every video this far, all the best from Canada 🇨🇦
@mathewmaki4133
5 жыл бұрын
Lisa-Marie me too
@sairahwalsh9074
5 жыл бұрын
Where in Canada? I'm in Toronto. We should get them to come here!
@mathewmaki4133
5 жыл бұрын
I’m from Saskatchewan
You two are so damn cute together, makes me smile everytime i watch your videos :)
Shane, I can’t stop laughing at your sense of humour, you really have a vivid imagination,love it!..
So glad I stumbled across your videos. Thank you for sharing your lives.
I’m from Australia! The Today Show is a big deal!! Congratulations guys! 🤠
@Freefall_AU
5 жыл бұрын
No it's not. The shows ratings have never been this bad... Anyway, i will suffer throught the show long enough until you guys have been on, then switch it off "Today show a big deal in Australia". 😂🤣😂🤣😅😁
@jenjendarkness5713
5 жыл бұрын
I hope they gain more aussie followers I missed them on the today show I was so gutted.
@MM-dq2pi
5 жыл бұрын
lucky Karl is off air, he could've been inappropriate
@tubester4567
5 жыл бұрын
@@jenjendarkness5713 It will be posted on youtube in no time. Also if you go to Today's website at 9Now dot com they posted the interview there.
@candiceobrien4455
5 жыл бұрын
Tim Woo thank you for your negative opinion.. in my opinion the today show is great. Good luck to you.
This was such a good funny video 😂 ♥️ loved it
I love you guys so much, thank you for informing and educating me (personally) about disability ❤️🍇
yall are absolutely adorable i smile every time i see yall
How did your first FaceTime go? Btw, love you guys
"Strong emotional response system" LOL! Brilliant.
I love watching your videos. You both have enlighten me so much!
Hannah I completely understand the anger thing, its a daily struggle for me and my relationship. Im hopeing one day to be rid of that strong emotional reponse.
What kind of song do you want to play at your wedding?
I literally discovered you guys last week. That same night i found you guys i binge watched ALL your videos and went to sleep super late lol. I told myself i needed to stop and finish later but didn’t listen lol. I don’t regret it. I absolutely love you guys 🥰🥰🥰🤗🤗🤗
@maddison9510
5 жыл бұрын
Rebecca Radilla this is me right now lol
You two have such an awesome relationship! I love your videos they always put a smile on my face!
Way to go Hannah, you made Shane cry!!!! LOL!!!! Love his sense of humor!!!!!
Mayo and rice took me out 😂😂
You are on Daily Mail and all our Aussie news websites!!! 😍
I don't understand how your videos are so perfect?!
Hahaha! Oh man, Shane, you are the funniest dude. I was literally laughing out loud at my desk just now. The whole crying bit into the stretches was priceless. Love you guys.
Shane, I am very envious of you, my friend
All I can say is 🤣 and I love you both and pray for your continued happiness!
I just started watching your videos, I’m obsessed, in a non-creepy way! You two need your own show on tv too. I’d pay to watch. Great relationship!!
I just adore how both of you are able to not only comment on something that you would (seriously) change about the other, but that the other person is also accepting of that! It's so important to be able to have those types of discussions in a relationship (in my opinion, obviously, but it may be different for everyone else haha)
Such a beautiful relationship
“The disabled boy is having a breakdown”😂
Hi...SHANNAH...!!!U guys r doing great...U make every Lil bit of life look so in place....what I wuld change in me is my attitude towards life...that's what u guys taught me today...
I saw you guys on the Today show. I have already been following your vlog for a while now, and it made me so happy to see you on TV here! Australia loves you :)
The funniest, sweetest and cutest couple 😂😂😂 I love them
I just re watched the fuddruckers video and I’m laughing so hard it was so cute
So I have been binging your videos all afternoon.. and I love how you two are together!!! Just so fun and a great couple.
You have a very lucky women in your life , she’s willing to do everything she can to ensure your happiness , you both are blessed and very good people , I love the vids !