What We Have Given Up Since Becoming Mums | Reminiscing | Careers | Freedom ft Golden Tulip
Do you remember what your life was like before you became a Mum?
We do and we're doing so much reminiscing today. From the fun nights out to the promising career paths, we have given up a lot to become mothers.
What have you given up and what have you gained?
Tell us in the comments below 😊
You too can reminisce with your friends at the Golden Tulip Barbeque Night and band tonight and every Friday!
#motherhood #bumplove #parenting
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Do you remember what your life was like before you became a Mum? We do and we're doing so much reminiscing today. From the fun nights out to the promising career paths, we have given up a lot to become mothers. What have you given up and what have you gained? Tell us in the comments below 😊 You too can reminisce with your friends at the Golden Tulip Barbeque Night and band tonight and every Friday! #motherhood #bumplove #parenting
@abaineolivia6306
Жыл бұрын
U girls are really talking to me
@abaineolivia6306
Жыл бұрын
U have 💯 represented me
@liztatu9666
Жыл бұрын
How do I give you 1000likes❤
@jackiezcribbabycenter6168
Жыл бұрын
Honestly sometimes I feel like i have given too much to my hubby and children and gave up on myself. Whenever I feel exhausted, I break down and demand myself back. I would watch movies with hubby until like 1am...Hostle we enjoyed it together, Telemundo etc...I had to give it up painful. I bless the lord for family . To be honest I started discovering myself when I start following Bump love like 2 years back. I love all of you ladies, the beauty about Bump love, my hubby enjoys it too.....He goes, " have u heard your girls". Go getters, keep lighting our candles.
@brendahfar_see7308
Жыл бұрын
@@liztatu9666 through sharing this link and telling others to subscribe
I became a mom to a baby, Cerebral Palsy baby and I put everything on pause. Shen Baby made one year and I was daigonised with stomach cancer almost taking me out. My career,my work, everything seemed done.. This talk has really been the most attached for me.. Thanks ladies..
@ericahmoreenleah9952
Жыл бұрын
Love u
@tumwebaze
Жыл бұрын
lots of hugs to you mama
@rinahope
Жыл бұрын
Hugs joan❤❤❤ your loved
@viviennenabukenya2568
Жыл бұрын
Ooh dear❤️
@jdm3762
Жыл бұрын
Oh dear! You must be such a strong person to still stand. May your future be filled with easier and lighter days. 🙏
Pumla has lived many different lives in just one. It's awesome.
@julietmwesigwa8852
Жыл бұрын
Ooh my
@alicealice4426
Жыл бұрын
And i love how candid she is about.She is a true defination of know what you want or don't want. Not pretentious.
@jdm3762
Жыл бұрын
Or is she just so honest about who she is and her experience without apologies which isn't something we normally see. I LOVE her!
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Hahahaa Cathy. And imagine...I still have some more to live. Hahahaaaaa! P
@alicealice4426
Жыл бұрын
@@jdm3762 She is not your everyday African chic. .She has a Being Mary Jane kinda vibe. Love her too.🇰🇪
Pumla’s part of foregoing her PHD scholarship offer just to be there for her son...Beyond wowed! & the sacrifices of the other Mothers too🙌🏾.MOTHER is indeed a title just above Queen.🤗🥰
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
We can now go back and explore all those opportunities. Mothers truly are Queens. Thanks. P
Phew child!!! I can attest to what Manuela gave up. Manuela was definitely on track to lots of corporate success. That said, as someone that has followed in Manuela’s footsteps since primary school, I have been even more inspired by the detour she took. Manuela has incorporated all her skills from corporate into this amazing influencer journey. This is infinitely more rewarding and it’s no surprise it’s what led her to be shoulder to shoulder with Barack Obama, one of the greatest people of our time. I am so proud of Manuela. This is definitely what she is destined for.
@manuelap.mulondo
Жыл бұрын
Awwwwwwww, thank you for this message....so beautiful......
@britah-edwardstendo
Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤
@tkzeewendy
Жыл бұрын
She’s very brilliant. Went to school with her in primary but was 2 classes ahead of her. She’s lived a great inspiring life than I did. Very proud of you Manuela & still gorgeous. 😘
Racheal is the greatest Moderator ❤
Finding your page about a month back felt like finding that new friend. I love how vulnerable you have accepted to be to make it more relatable. May God bless you and your households.
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Maria. We truly are in this together. P
Who is not yet married but they're busy on every bump love upload? 🤭
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Hahahaha! They are many by the way era you need a special whatsapp group. We love you. Hehe! P
@kempangojacinta8422
Жыл бұрын
👋👋👋 We are very many 😂
Loved hearing Nabachwa and Rosette talk about hitting the pause button and coming right back once our children are older and don't need us as much. Times and seasons are such a beautiful thing..
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Yes. Times and Seasons. Listen to them. P
Angie, you have aged like wine. I love your whole outlook on the show. 👏👌 Thank you ladies for sharing Bambi. It was worth my time as always.👏🫶
Pumla is an amazing 100 people in one 🥰🥰🥰 I love her
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
100 people. Haha! Atte we are still living. P
I think this is the MOST IMPORTANT episode of Bump Love in terms of parenting resources. The affirmation, the advice, the reminders, the truth.Thank you soooooo much for this conversation.
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Love that it spoke to you. Was a reminder to us too. P
my future hubby shud brace himself, wat I learn from u guys is beyond me, n I appreciate you alot
What is parenting without you bump love family ❤thank you for always touching lives . Thanks for uplifting moms who were feeling like underachievers.
This episode has been by far the most important for me being a stay home mom, having paused my career for the kids. This is refreshing.
Spot on... I needed to hear this. Thank you bump love crew.
Am Soo glad I bumped into this channel. I was feeling like an underachiever because I have given up corporate job and money to raise my daughter but I feel so uplifted because I know am on the right path. Thank you Ladies. I relate Soo much to this content.
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Honey. You are on the right path. It's okay. P
@charlottembabazi6757
Жыл бұрын
You are doing the best thing you'll ever do
You have just spoken to me/my soul, thank you very much dear ladies.
This is soooooo good. Thank you bump love
We as kenyans love Pumla
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
And Pumla loves you right back 😘😘😘. P
U ladies are amazing thanks for bring such thoughtful discussions. Much love
Wow ! Mothers should not lose themselves in this journey. Thanks for this
I love these ladies so much 💕💗❤💓💖💛💕. Kati for Angie and Rachel, ur accent makes me feel like taking my children to the schools u guys went to . Love u guys
I waited for this🥰. Thank you ladies
I cannot express how much I love your show and you, ladies. 💗 I find you very reasonable and realistic. Kudos!
Oh, this is so wholesome. Honestly can't wait to be a mom 👩
Ladies, ladies ...this was just what I needed to hear. Very timely...thank you for speaking from your heart.
I needed to watch this. Thank you ladies💕💕
I needed this so badly .Thank you Bump love. I will definitely embark on my dreams when my babies are much older .
This is quite encouraging, when I thought I was loosing it all, having to pause my masters program , then my career but am glad I can go through this and then pick it up later own. Thank you ladies, I love the uniqueness you all bring to table. It feels awesome to be a mother despite all the challenges that come around. Proud of you all. Keep sharing the experiences you are changing nations.
This episode was for me.. thank you bump love team ❤️
Wow, what an episode! Well done Bump love, Wisdom!
This has tickled me so hard... I lost myself in parenting. And not just mine but my siblings and extended family. I am rediscovering myself
@shantalpanda7803
Жыл бұрын
Baby gal,this is so me. I am not even excited to have my own children because i have been a mother sinceee and its so tiringggg. Bump love should do ko for us aka episode
Seriously ladies you were directly talking to me and am here clapping hands for you 👏👏
Time! Thank you ladies.
Thank you so much ladies.. As a mother of two I feel so much better after watching.. everything will work out 🙏
Thank you ladies, this really spoke to me.
May God bless you abundantly dear lady's 🙏 u a impacting so many lives out there.. Am one of them
This was therapeutic. I felt like av lost some years in child care but I now know there is time.Thanks Ladies
I get u Rosette. Doing Careerer, school and kids isn't a walkover. Here trying to balance it and Like Angie has said it, support from Family and Hubby and God above it, the boat is balancing.
Thank you ladies.I thank God i allowed and am trusting the process
I love the whole bump love crew🥰. The dicussions and topic selections are always on point. I am actually learning lots of things from these discussions and its good that i now know what to expect in a marriage. love you guys for real❤🩹❤🩹
Thank you ladies ... not a mum yet but these shows are very reassuring, reaffirming & big sister talk for meeee..
Am with Rachael. Motherhood is a calling
Ok on the intimacy part Pumla is so me. Now I don’t feel weird anymore
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Hahahaaaaa! We are normal 😅. P
Thank you for this. This was so timely.
Thank you ladies. This was very insightful & it has definitely guided one of my career vs. motherhood dilemmas. Much appreciated
This is really good stuff, nice insights only. Thank you ladies. Blessings ❤️
Thank you so much dear mothers! How I needed to hear this so badly! I always tell myself….relax and enjoy your kids as they grow…. I know one day I will be that career woman I have always wanted to become… so help me God. Amen
I am so glad I tuned in. Thank you ladies
Wooow!!! Thxxx ladies for sharing, encouraging and teaching us. I needed this now. I bless God for you
Much love, thank you ❤
Yes am well represented & validated too thanks for the show ladies keep it up
I am taking notes. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Love from S. Korea
God knew we needed you mums in times as these 💕💕
Dear Lord I pray I hold my bby one day ..AMEN🙏🙏🙏🙏 thank u.ladies for this inspiring show
Thank you ladies!!!
Thank you ladies ❤️
My mother gave me the first 12yrs of my childhood and it is now that I realise its importance The self esteem, the love, the strong character....
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Kudos to her! P
@KaranjaAngela
Жыл бұрын
Please share more on this. Like how did her day look like practically. Been struggling with the notion of giving my children my years and feeling like im wasting away. Your help will be highly appreciated
This episode has spoken to me so much this season❤
OmG these ladies have given me so much hope, thank you very much, I have always bitten myself up that I decided to be a full time housewife and mum and first give my kids the time that they need, but with all the outside noise, I have always felt like a made the wrong decision, but you ladies have surely given me hope that I can still fullfil my dreams and goals at anytime, so thank you very much. #literallytearsinmyeyes
Wow.... THANK YOU ladies am always looking forward to these talks, Rosette love u gal
Wonderful ladies,great ideas, love love you ladies
For me i just don’t know how my dreams shuttered but thank you ladies and i give all the glory and honor to God for each and everyone of you for your experiences. Am encouraged each time you share on this platform, God bless you all.
Just know u are mentoring health and confident mums for the next generation ......bless u
Hi there ❤️❤️. I love this . Pls keep up ladies. 👍👍
Wow, Ladies with brains.....I will always say, that I like the way each one of u shares very honestly from your experience..........Thx alot.......we resonate and learn alot from each one of you. Thx thx thx.....
In retrospect, i feel i had my child at the perfect time. Partly could be because i had her in my mid 30's, so i had done all the good/bad/crazy/ curious stuff there was to do and was more than ready to transition into a new life of being a mother. Let me add having a child has immensely contributed to becoming better version of myself. Am not married yet, but sometimes i do wonder if i ever get married whether it won't change the dynamics i have with my daughter. We are just two curious souls who have itchy feet and enjoy each other's company.Though i look forward to what God has in store for us in the future. 🇰🇪fan
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
I tend to agree Alice. Being a mom has made me a better version of myself too. P
I relate to everything being discussed by the ladies but most importantly I relate to pausing my career growth. For now am taking care of my babies
You have surely humbled me
wow... you ladies have given me everything I wanted to know
I enjoyed this episode thank you. I Truly, we are having these kids for the countries and for the world.
I have enjoyed wat hing this episode all the way from 🇰🇪. I'm officially hooked because it was almost like sitting and chatting with my girls. Great topic. As a mother of young children I'm putting my hobby of travelling on pause.
Each of the ladies have a quality I love.....
Wow, reaching here seeing #Angie smiling 🙏🏻🥰🥰❤️❤️ hloo beautiful people thanks for the uploading
Thank you so much ladies❤
Really too much appreciation u made me hopeful thanks ladies keep it up so lnspiring
I so much appreciate the different personalities. Thanks a lot for touching my life. I am a new mum and i am learning alot from you. Sending love from Lubumbashi ( D R Congo).
It was crazy i appreciate the hope ladies you have given me wow I'm ready to bounce back
This been a very useful episode, thanks ladies 😍
This is the best as it directly relates to me
This is One of the best Bump Conversations I have watched. I loved it when Mrs. Mulondo talked about organisations setting up child care facilities for women in the workplace then Angie's point on women being there for their kids till a certain age. Thank you ladies 🤰
@manuelap.mulondo
Жыл бұрын
I really think it needs to happen
Just like Angie, I laughed when Pumla made Racheal confess that she is living her dream life. "This is the life you wanteeeed!"Ahhahahaha. It was like a scene in a movie 😂. You all represent different seasons of my life, some times am Rosette, others am Manuela, then Angie kicks in, then Pumla...and then boom...Racheal!
Thank you Ladies!Manuela you rock!
Ooooh God you don't know how much I needed this. Thanks ladies! This has sorted things
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
So glad to have been of help. P
Thank you so much ladies. I gave up my job for my beautiful children and many people have laughed at me..... I know there's a time when I will be able to do other things.
If I missed this episode I would cry, it's really interesting 🥰🥰💞💞💞
I loooove the show.lots of love from Cape Town!
Always looking forward to this day
I love bump love but this show has been the best so far🤗
You ladies are just heaven sent. You make us mum feel better about our decisions to become mothers.I wish I could subscribe again. I love love you ladies
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Bambi. We are happy with the subscription. Hehe! P
Ambitious mum of a 3 year old. Been "forced" to be a stay at home mum and it was killing me. But this has been encouraging. Gonna be a more focused mum.
Thank you thank you ladies
Very lovely affirmations. As much as the society assures women that we can do it all, which we can, but not at the same time or with the same energy and that's ok. I understood later that I don't have to have it all right now. Bless.
The episodes keeping getting better. This one blessed me. Gid spoke to me through you all. As a mom of 3 including a two months old, its encouraging to listen to you say all these things. So for me i gave up the corporate life, for motherhood n no mattter the season i have never regretted.❤
@nabagolejose5549
Жыл бұрын
Thx alot for the show, I have learnt much today because am also a victim
@MANUELA YOU'RE A DOCTOR ALREADY. I TRUST YOU GAL. i admire your enthusiasm.
Wow Ladies. Surely God is your reward 🙏🙏
Thanks ladies for that message. You are helping a mother like me who has been struggling how to catch up with my dream and parenting
@hildahkangoobe4117
Жыл бұрын
I love you gals, you inspire us alot.
I miss my life I can’t even watch this video in Peace….My father in law always tells me you are in your own prison…flesh Nakawere Nalongo But most importantly I miss serving in Church…..Shout out to my Watoto downtown family
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Mother for now. All those things will come back to you at the right time. P
Am not yet a mother and am not ready to become 1 soon but am enjoying yr conversation ladies... your so real... n av picked a few points from it ... thank you for sharing