In case I haven't said it lately: THANK YOU for watching! We are so GRATEFUL for you-- it is a privilege to support you on this journey!!! - Dawn

@TheAtWhatCostBlog

3 жыл бұрын

You ma’am, are a genius! Love this!

@pameladascanio7890

3 жыл бұрын

Your videos and Take Your House Back course have been life changing for me!! Thank you for all that you do to inspire us all!!

@annfarrell6479

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Dawn for all you do. ❤️

@karenwilliams2889

3 жыл бұрын

Always lovely to see you. I do think we could be friends! Every day I work on one draw, one cupboard, one room. Slowly it’s coming together. I made myself try to remember everything I had taken to the second hand shop one day and I couldn’t remember a thing 🤪Minimalism is so freeing 🙂

@Inja101

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, I love your videos!

The two biggest things that have changed my relationship with stuff is looking at it as inventory and looking at my house as a container.

@ramonasurprenant2122

3 жыл бұрын

EXCELLENT!

@eimeardolan3587

3 жыл бұрын

I agree the concept of inventory is effective and makes me reframe how i look at ..it moves it into practical project. Clearing out helps us pare back so it becomes a restful home where there is more time to just be !

This is, in a nutshell, the concept of the sunk cost. Most people don't get it but once they do, there's no looking back. Bottom line - the money is spent and you can't get it back, therefore, the only sane thing to do is to cut your losses and move on. Changed my life. ~ Lisa

@nitaulloa-pedroni7744

2 жыл бұрын

this reminds me of a company I sell clothes for, some are selling their clothing on a super sale that they have had over 4 years ago! Why do they still have those items? I sold mine pennies on the dollar and got some money back out, but no longer have to deal with OLD styles.

Sacramento recently started a “Library of Things” where you can check-out tools, small kitchen appliances, craft things like sewing machines, etc. It’s pretty new so they don’t have a huge inventory of items but it is a wonderful idea.

@rosiejean6153

3 жыл бұрын

That is an amazing idea!!!

@hopeschambach2576

3 жыл бұрын

Wow, that amazing and something every community needs! We could all donate our still good and working appliances and useful items there for other to use so that others don't need to clutter their homes.

@naomireaves3742

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! Our Library in Florida does as well and it's awesome! Giant yard games to laser levels and vacuum sealers. Talk to your librarians! It's better than donating brand new items to the thrift store, and still know where it is when you need it.

@ediethiel3026

3 жыл бұрын

Wasn't there a story about this type of lending library on "60 Minutes" several years ago?

@fatine88

3 жыл бұрын

I LOVE this idea.

When my mother died and then years later, my father, my siblings and I had to sift through a lifetime of stuff and figure out what to do with it all. It took months. Ever since, I promised myself that i would minimize my own things so that, should i die tomorrow, my boys would not have as much of a chore to deal with. Do i want someone i love to pick up clothes off the floor, or have to sort through drawers and boxes of unnecessary junk? I keep the house tidy and more minimal now, to help them later.

@lavenahenley3547

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!

@thelmakatherine5396

3 жыл бұрын

I thought this same thing when after a family member died. I realized what a chore it would be for my loved ones to have to go though all my stuff. I am so glad I did it. I was in my late 30s at the time and it took two years to do the job (I had kids ages 10, 8, 6, and 2), but I never regretted the time I took doing it.

@loracorwyn3713

3 жыл бұрын

Yup my grandparents died 2019 and had the same thing, luckily they had 4 kids to split the chore between and it wasn’t just left to one person but it still took months as they were hoarders

@agnessymon8869

3 жыл бұрын

Totally what I'm doing.

@laurasullivan-king5930

3 жыл бұрын

This is the concept that underlies the process of 'Swedish Death Cleaning' - much less scary than it sounds!

When Dawn says “I love you,” I really believe her, even though we are total strangers! ♥️

@suzishealthyhome8678

3 жыл бұрын

I know right?! I even had a split second thought of inviting them all to dinner.. Then remembered we're complete strangers and they're KZreadr's not local friends! 😂 ...mind you, they might still love to come over, we live in Australia 😃😂 haha!

@madamepatate5228

3 жыл бұрын

I believe that too !! But we may not be completely strangers... I think we could be friends ! 😉😄😄 And you are very welcome in France too, if you want to make a tour of your subscribers ! 👍👍

@littlebirdie

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! And we love her too! ❤️

@MegDesignsCA

3 жыл бұрын

She's SO genuine!!! She feels like a friend

@anaalves3658

3 жыл бұрын

She can pop over to Portugal on her worldwide fan tour 😁👍.

Honestly, I think this is the video people should start with when decided to minimalist/downsize. It helps me set some important expectations.

@pameehanson3866

3 жыл бұрын

Yes for me it started with a capsule wardrobe about 3+ years ago and finally last year i arrived at what works for me. Now I am applying the same to rest of our small apt. We have too much inventory and our container is too small. Some can do all of this in a month or so but some of us it takes time to adjust and letting go gets much easier the more you work at it and follow others who have done the same journey.

@reclaimedtreasures5749

3 жыл бұрын

@@pameehanson3866 I have been on a wardrobe culling journey as well. The things I'm learning about myself are sometimes surprising. 😱☺

@janettegaudiesus7533

3 жыл бұрын

I agree this concept should be learned first before starting that journey!

@laurasteenson8505

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, this one, the Kitchen Declutter video and the one about the closet. Those are the life changing ones for me!

@chriss7552

3 жыл бұрын

Christen , Hi, you are right. I needed this video.

Just a heads up for anyone interested in borrowing things... make sure the "terms" are clear in the beginning of the exchange! When my daughter was a baby, my sister in law "gave" me a bunch of her girls' things. I went through it all, and kept the things I thought I would need, and gave away the things I didn't. Then, years later, she was pregnant again and asked for her things back!! I didn't realize she just wanted me to "borrow" the things, not keep them! Eek! I felt horrible, because I had given away a bunch. Anyway, just a tip to clearly specify if things are being "given" or "lended"!! :)

@cathrino

3 жыл бұрын

That is a great advice. I struggle a little bit with he fact of borrowing, because things get used, they break, people get upset,... Also, if I choose to live with less, but expect others not to, so I can borrow it from them, that doesn't seem quiet fair. BUT, maybe instead of borrowing, you and your neighbor could go in on something together. My husband got invited to use an ice house from his friend Charlie. Charlie owns this ice house with two other friends. They take turns, or share it. Not every person needs to own one. I think there are many things like that. But even with that, it's important to have clear "terms". 😀

@fifilemew7524

3 жыл бұрын

Oy, great point! I bet stuff like that happens a lot and not something you think much about until you've been there!

@jmcast3195

3 жыл бұрын

So true. Borrow often turns into "keep forever"

@TheDriftwoodlover

3 жыл бұрын

Excellent point Megan. In addition, things get damaged through normal use ... and if it’s borrowed hard feelings can sometimes ensue. Loaned two electric tools to a friend and both were returned unusable.

@annetrowbridge6773

3 жыл бұрын

Happened to me as well.

This made me think about the Children of Israel and the manna, how they weren't supposed to take more than they needed for each day. And also the bible emphasis on taking each day as it comes.

@almaur703

3 жыл бұрын

Awe so true. Would you please reference where it says to take each day as it comes? thank you

@cinnie2543

3 жыл бұрын

@@almaur703 Sure! Matthew 6:34 "So do not worry about tomorrow; for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." Verses 25-33 are leading up to it, all about God's care for us.

@almaur703

3 жыл бұрын

@@cinnie2543 THANK YOU!

My mother got cradle kit, my brother built it, with each grandbaby ot moved to the new parents house, babies names recorded on the bottom and it moved on to next grandbaby. Thru 13 grandkids.

@angeliquemaez5569

3 жыл бұрын

That is so cool!

@lili721

3 жыл бұрын

Lovely! 😍

@rachelbard4985

3 жыл бұрын

What happens if there are two grandbabies who are the same/similar age and they both need it at the same time?

@howbethdoesit5695

3 жыл бұрын

@@rachelbard4985 luckily we never had that happen.

@ramonasurprenant2122

3 жыл бұрын

I adore this♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Dawn, I love you and THANK YOU! You are the first person who has broken the messy chains that have bound me for decades. That means I failed at FlyLady, Messies An., The side-tracked Home Ex, More Hours in my Day, etc. You have truly changed my life sharing your simplified tips that work if you are a messy person or not.. I tam using all the tips you and Dianna offer, but it was actually a comment Tom made that made me feel this could work for me. You were telling that Tom didn't really notice when you started simplifying and He said that was because "it read the same." That made me feel like I could try this and my husband would never know if I failed yet again. I started downsizing storage spaces first. It was the pandemic so I used just giving the excess away for free out by the road and it was totally worth it. I kept repeating the process, but the house read just the same when he would come in (chaos). I kept working and also had motivation of having a secret and knowing that I was getting closer and closer to the finish line - even though he never even knew when I started. At last with a small inventory - I started arraigning room by room. He did notice that but of course, (after 28 years of messy), I'm sure he thought it couldn't last. I am not bringing anything but consumables into the house. It is lasting. :) He keeps asking me - what happened???? :) I am so proud to tell you my story.

Seriously. I discovered you about six months ago, and hearing you refer to stuff as inventory and stuff you had to mange really clicked with me and gave me an “A-ha!” moment. My house is so full of stuff and so chaotic with 3 kids that I just never even want to be home. I’ve been in a deep depression for a couple years and am medicated for anxiety. When I heard you talk about inventory in one of your older videos, I realized that that’s the root of a lot of my issues. I’m smothering I junk that I don’t need. I’ve been decluttering since then, and it’s been a slow process with the kids and a job (and a husband who keeps bringing random junk home lol), but I’m finally getting to a point where I can breathe a little easier. So, thank you for that 😊

This is random but, I really enjoyed the style of this video, with you filming in your car and showing clips. I found it very refreshing!

@BookButler

Жыл бұрын

Agreed. It's weird, but I sometimes find myself frozen in my car for a few minutes before going into the store - like I have to overcome some kind of mental barrier to get out. Seeing someone comfortably and happily doing a productive thing in that same position is oddly reassuring. *shrug*

Borrow! Yes, I work in a library. We have books, magazines, dvds, audio cds, every type of media you can image. No need to buy. Use your library and enjoy these things you already pay for with your taxes. Many libraries now also have kitchen and tool lending libraries too!

@barbfrank917

3 жыл бұрын

Love the library

@pameehanson3866

3 жыл бұрын

It is hard as our library's closed last March and only do books by mail. I miss my library , I could use their computers and print out the things i needed at no cost. It was a place to explore and meet people. They had classes there in all kinds of things and I really miss it. Can't wait for the day it opens back up.

@midlife_minimalist

3 жыл бұрын

I try to to ebooks through the library but they only allow 2 week check outs. I work full time in an often mentally demanding job and usually fall asleep when I try to read at night so it takes me a really long time to finish a book. I’ve started doing non-fiction with audio books through library but often need more than two weeks on those too since I listen while I do quiet cleaning (not vacuuming) on weekends. They also don’t always have what I want.

@TRuth.T

3 жыл бұрын

Our libraries have been closed for months....

@stillwatersfarm8499

3 жыл бұрын

We don’t have library access out in the country. The fee to get a card at the nearby town library is so high; it’s not cost effective for us. If you got it, use it!

I love how minimalism has reduced our more permanent household goods significantly. When it comes to consumables like groceries or toilet paper, our family is not minimal. Every family has to find their own comfort level, but we are fine to fill the designated spaces for those consumable items. We have a space boundary that I work within, but I still like to stock up on sales of things we use up. And twice a year I do a pantry challenge, using up what we have as a reset. So in our case, having more in stock does not lead to food waste. With the uncertain times we are living in, I’m fine to have some consumables well stocked. Toilet paper supply in March showed us that you can’t always count on what you need at the store to be there the day that you need it. We went to our regular store and also found no fresh meat and I was really glad I had some at home in the freezer. Where we live, we have plenty of stores nearby but if our family needs to quarantine again, I’d like enough on hand to make good meals for several days. But the pandemic has also been freeing (in our situation), with the realization we don’t need more clothes, housewares, furniture, etc.

@jamiemiles08

3 жыл бұрын

I completely agree!!!

@harschfam

3 жыл бұрын

We live the same way for a decade now, and we love it! I have 2 “stores” in my house. Both are walk in closets in my hallway. One for food and the other for everything else. Consumables we use every day bought in bulk or on sale and savings galore! However, for the rest of “stuff” I reeeeely like the approach she shares on this channel! The clothes and kitchen ones got me started, then I moved to paper, and she just nails the “why” of keeping things. Love her and her sister!

@annettemartinez4063

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!!! We are the same. Thanks to my husband’s prepping knowledge we were comfortable in the beginning of the pandemic and also during the 2021 freeze in Texas while others were struggling.

@intherockies

3 жыл бұрын

I never worried about toilet paper or meat to eat during the Pandemic. If I needed too (which I didn't) I could of used Kleenex, wet wipes, or paper towels, etc. Meat is not something that is a requirement. The more red meat we eat the greater our risk of heart disease and stroke. More people are low on fiber than will ever be on protein. People can get protein from veggies. I got off topic 🤣😂. I think your idea is great because it works for you and your family!

@katharinabaendl1997

2 жыл бұрын

@@annettemartinez4063 yes, the snowpocalypse was no joke. It made me realize a lot of important things! So, in a way, I'm glad it happened, and at the same time I really wish I don't have to live through something like it again. But at least now I'm halfway prepared!

During this socially deprived time in our history, watching your channel has been such a gift!! I truly feel like I am sitting down and visiting with you, Diana, and Tom. I do "think we could be friends" and I am thankful for your videos which give such wisdom and cheer for my day!!

I love your videos. Joshua Becker just quoted Thoreau in one of his videos - the real cost of a thing is the amount of life that is required to be exchanged for it. My whole perspective has shifted about how much of my life I’m willing to give up for things. Working for the money to buy them, shopping, cleaning, finding storage, and ultimately disposing of them. My most valuable possessions are my time and my energy, and I’m not giving those all to stuff. Thank you once again.

I thoroughly enjoyed the January declutter series ! Please do another collaboration soon!

@TheMinimalMom

3 жыл бұрын

First two weeks of March!

@wildminders2233

3 жыл бұрын

Yay! 🥳

@miriambair

3 жыл бұрын

I agree, I loved the January playlists I watched all of them. Thank you for putting it together, it is a ton of work organizing those things. I would love more.

@PatfromJamul

3 жыл бұрын

Fantastic series of videos! I enjoyed getting to view some different approaches from a variety of people. Some of these "video-makers" I had not known, so that opened up new ideas. A wonderful collection. Thanks to Dawn,@@TheMinimalMom for organizing these and including them in this grouping. Outstanding concept and a great job.

My kitchen is really small and with this pandemic, I had to buy extra things because I couldn't go out as much and also because I don't live close to supermarkets or stores. So I decided to use a small space in the basement, but in order to avoid having to buy doubles or not knowing what I have, so I have a list and everytime I take something out it gets scratched out of my INVENTORY and is used. When I make my shopping list I just restock what is NECESSARY.

@KiyahArchuleta

3 жыл бұрын

Having a larger inventory is fine! What matters is not having more than you can manage. The amount of inventory that can be managed is going to be different for everyone :)

My wife suggested I watch this video. I confess I rolled my eyes but, boy, I was wrong. This was hugely helpful for this husband and father!

One thing you said made me think of something I've thought before about making mistakes, particularly around a misguided purchase: I've paid a lot more money in college tuition and learned less than I did buying something I should not have purchased. Sometimes the money we spend in error is something akin to "tuition" that we pay to learn a life lesson. It's not the end of the world. Thank you for this post -- I really appreciate what you have said.

@kaseyc1350

2 жыл бұрын

I say, "sometimes we learn the hard way. Sometimes we learn the expensive way."

I take “inventory” on groceries every Wednesday & order grocery pick up as needed each Friday. Its changed our household waste & budget.

@ivsportiv

3 жыл бұрын

Same here! I take inventory on thursday, go through different online sites of supermarkets for sale items, combine them to a mealplan and on fridays me or my husband get all the fresh foods at the market and do a round of supermarkets. Saves us so much money, waste of food and time!

@lauramitchell6725

3 жыл бұрын

I do the same and also wipe out and reorganize the fridge to accommodate the new groceries 😀

I literally had this light bulb moment last week!! It happened about 3 weeks after I cleaned out my kitchen, minimized and organized what I had. then in the last 3 weeks I realized that I had a crazy amount of food in my house at one time and that we have an Aldi 5 minutes away. D.U.M.B!!! To give myself a headache to store organize and take a long inventory each week when I can just buy what I need and USE it! :) Thanks for all that you contribute!!

I needed a fan for about 2 wks and that was all. I knew I didn't want to buy one (even though they aren't expensive) so I borrowed one from a friend. That way I wouldn't have to store it! I want to add that I gave her a gift card when I returned the fan to her just to show appreciation. Yes, the gift card cost more than the fan. But the idea was to NOT have to store the fan if I bought one! :)

@kellymhanson

3 жыл бұрын

Love it!!

I love this analogy...Mistakes happen but you don't have to beat yourself up about the mistake. Accept that fact you will make mistakes but a wise person will learn from them. Thanks for taking the time to research and share what happens even when a company has "paid personal" to manage inventory and "THEY" make mistakes. HAPPY CAMPER HERE!!!

While watching this I was at the comp. and opened the closet door beside me to show my winter/summer "good" clothes. There was space between items and nothing was in there that I do not wear. I just smiled and sighed in happiness. Thank you for helping me reach this point in almost my entire home.

So, so good. I hope you know that you are a TREASURE and do not take your talent and gift of SHARING with us for granted 💕

Thanks, Dawn! Good message! I wanted to mention that you inspired me to try intermittent fasting in the form of restricted eating hours. I’ve never been able to stick to the goal of not eating past 7pm, but this mind shift has been pretty easy for me! I started with eating 8:30am to 6:30pm, and now I’m doing 9am to 6pm. I haven’t changed what I’m eating, but that will be the next goal. I can tell I’ve lost some weight, and I’m snacking less between meals or not at all. I used to be so tired after work that I would often need a nap, but I don’t struggle with that any more! I am about 170 pounds overweight, and am thankful to have found something I’ve been able to stick with so well! Thanks, Dawn, for inspiring me in so many areas of my life!

Dawn - this spoke to me - connecting Walmart to the process as you did is freakin' amazing - very clear - and so so helpful in my mindset going forward - and helpful in terms of being more gentle with ourselves knowing this reference - thank you so much!

I had to get out of the mindset that I needed to hold on to inventory for my family and friends that might need to use it. Like Walmart, I cut my losses. Now I operate on a "season" of inventory. Continued blessing to you and your family!

@kaseyc1350

2 жыл бұрын

Right, because Dawn and Tom need to borrow it because they're living minimal

When COVID started, I found it helpful to ask myself “what would happen if I ran out of _____ and couldn’t get it for a few days?” This question helped me to see alternatives I could use around my home and stops me from buying too much paper towel, toothpaste, hand soap, etc (inventory as Dawn would call it).

@psymompa

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed. I have also learned that neighbors will share in time of need ❤️

@sunshine3914

3 жыл бұрын

Some folks don’t realize stuff like; toothpaste, anti-perspirant/deodorant, antibacterial items & facial treatments have an expiration date. It’s a waste of money & space to stock up on such items.

@jennprescott2757

3 жыл бұрын

@@sunshine3914 yes, but if you have a working prepper pantry then it doesn’t expire. I was glad to have extra stuff when we had serious lockdowns and shortages in my area (northern Canada)

@Courtez52

3 жыл бұрын

In one video she and Diana talk about how we see how resourceful we can be when we actually give ourselves the opportunity. They said it better but I love that reminder. We can do without many things and when needed, we can get creative.

This video is GOLD! One of my favorite ones you've done. And I have been a faithful watcher for almost a year.

@reclaimedtreasures5749

3 жыл бұрын

Yes. I feel like it's one of my favorites as well!

@jackthebarber25

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, great video! Her channel is growing and growing! Great content

My Grandma had access to a toy library when she was a daycare provider (we're talking 1960/1970). Would have loved that when my kids were small. Also, I put "logistics manager" in my profile on social media, cos all I do all day at home is move stuff around!!!

My husband's job is inventory and I wish he would have gotten on the train I am on earlier. He is just now getting it after the mega purge I did this summer. He helped unload kitchen items and helped make a list of needs and wants for multipurpose items so we could could unload 3 things to just get 1 that can do the job of 3. He plans to start the garage once spring hits.

Love the concept of borrowing instead of buying! But sometimes it can be uncomfortable asking neighbors or family members to borrow their things, so there's also the option of renting! Think outdoor tools like wood splitters, hole diggers, etc. You rent for the day, then return, no hassle with storing it or maintanence, etc. Just use it and return it! This excites me for some reason! ;)

@ruthtorphy2204

3 жыл бұрын

When you buy good expensive tools ,I hate when hubby gives to people he barley knows. Like a friend of a friend of a friend. He is too giving. Plus when some gets something for nothing they don’t always take care of it.. often item comes back broken. Makes me mad 😡

@megan2176

3 жыл бұрын

@@ruthtorphy2204 I hear you! And it actually makes me anxious to borrow someone's things, I get so worried I'll break it or lose it! :)

@carole6779

3 жыл бұрын

@Megan and @Ruth Torphy, exactly! Borrowing can be a real challenge. If something breaks, gets lost or if somebody gets hurt somehow, that can damage relationships. Renting is a good option because there is also a specific timeline, then the item has to be returned. So you have to get the project done! 😊

@edianegrubbs6748

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you darling it's wonderful but I second the motion about borrowing. The owner of the tools has to maintain them and when they break they have to fix them and very often the borrower Is nowhere to be found

@beckypennies1637

3 жыл бұрын

The Word of God says "Neither a borrower nor a lender be!" Hurt relationships is probably the reason why.

Genius! You are so right!! How many men out there have multiple tools because your space isn't organize. Other examples are food in the pantry and fridge. If you can't see it you don't know it's there! Step one- get organized!! Thanks 😁

@laurasteenson8505

3 жыл бұрын

My mom is famous for having 3 open jars of (fill in the blank) in the fridge. The day that happened to me, I realized something needed to change! It's a slow process, but we're getting there.

Places like Walmart is the reason people have too much stuff they need to declutter! 🤣

@GM-jv9jz

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Cheap garbage from China.

@jennprescott2757

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, but where else can I get a box of 6 1/2 gallon mason jars for 22CAD!?

@Courtez52

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe....but there is also a lot to be said for having self control....

@elizabethnichols2284

3 жыл бұрын

I've heard someone say, though, that she didn't hang on to so many craft supplies because she viewed Walmart and Michaels as her craft cabinet. She kept two small boxes of materials. I'm definitely not there, but I admire hey ability to simplify that much and find a way to rethink things.

I am FASCINATED by this perspective. Love seeing your marketing education at work, it helps to understand at a level that removes judgement against myself for my misteps. I appreciate you!

Mental management fatigue** so true. That’s why I hate ‘stuff’. My hubby is pack rat and is always upset he can’t find stuff even though he is tidy (and if course blames me for losing it, lol). This is totally motivating to keep on keeping on in my life goal to continue living in a minimal state.

You are right. Keeping things we bought by mistake is punishing ourselves. I kept many expensive projects related to arts and crafts. They were for my fantasy self and she somehow never had the time, ever. Covid-19 had one redeeming feature; spare time. I told myself it was now or never, complete all the projects or ditch them. Decades of guilty secrets hanging over me gone. Phew!

Borrowing is great! As with tools, returning items clean, in working order and promptly is paramount. Also being willing to loan items to those you borrow from is also important. If you borrow often from someone, a small thank you gift would be appropriate (Starbucks gift card..if you bake a homemade pumpkin bundt cake lol). Thoughtful and showing gratitude.

This is so true- as a former Walmart manager, that is exactly what happens 😉

I truly love your channel! I've been decluttering and simplifying my home since late January after finding your channel, and tonight I just found my adoption papers with my family history that I assumed I had accidentally thrown away two home moves ago! I have two wonderful, loving parents but I'm looking forward to potentially finding my birth parents and learning more about them.

@kaseyc1350

2 жыл бұрын

Don't do it. Genetic Sexual Attraction is way too common - and that's the people who ADMIT it!

I changed my whole way of thinking once I became a minimalist. I think there's so many ppl out there with nothing , especially during this time of covid .Millions are out of work and I think there's always ppl worse off then us !

When I used to smoke I had a coworker who asked me for cigarettes every day. Finally I got mad and said why don’t you buy your own and she said “do you have any idea how much they cost? I can’t afford them. But I could. Borrowing things from people who have paid for those things just isn’t a good thing to do. Each time you use that guy’s chainsaw it shortens its life.

@jessicar2490

3 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY... and if the chainsaw breaks on your watch. You need to buy a new one for your neighbor.

@mindiherren3103

3 жыл бұрын

I thought the same thing. I feel like it’s taking advantage of your friend/neighbor. If you find you are borrowing all the time, buy your own. I have a neighbor that never talked to me unless they needed something. Very annoying. The tool they wanted was only $40. Buy your own!

@jessicar2490

3 жыл бұрын

@@mindiherren3103 next time tell your neighbor NO.

@melissaesposito7858

3 жыл бұрын

Generally speaking, other people are generous with their friends and neighbors and the favors are returned. We do certain favors for our neighbors and they ask different ones of us, but it balances out and no one feels taken advantage of. If you don't want to let someone borrow something, you can just tell them no next time.

@mindiherren3103

3 жыл бұрын

@@jessicar2490 I did. I told her how cheap the tool was.

I’m wearing a medical boot for a few weeks because of a sprained foot, and my house is somehow not a disaster! I actually know how it’s possible - it’s in large part because of your guidance helping me scale way back on the inventory I have to manage and your encouragement to keep up with daily tasks. My house now rarely turns into what feels like an unmanageable project. Loved the Walmart inventory analogy, especially because the Walmart headquarters is a few miles away from where I live. :)

@NdnUrbanCat

3 жыл бұрын

Awesome!

Love how you use a giant symbol of consumerism and over abundance into a lesson on what we really need!

TAKEAWAY - Dawn integrates these concepts in all areas of her life - Lessons surface once you understand the principles

@pameehanson3866

3 жыл бұрын

Yes as I did not understand Minimalism at first thought it was for those who wore Brikenstocks and ate vegan. That is so untrue and when I started following Dawn and now doing the class with her it all makes sense. My mother was a hoarder and she passed last year and I don't need to share anything else as we all know what happens.

@wildminders2233

3 жыл бұрын

Pamee! This made me lol... I love my ‘’Birkies’ and turned vegetarian in the new year 🙋🏻‍♀️🤪😂

@jmcast3195

3 жыл бұрын

@@pameehanson3866 my mom and grandmother were hoarders too and it is so healing to face this generational curse and create a different path

My husband always used to say that all our inventory was being stored at local shops. 😂😂😂

@theampski3794

3 жыл бұрын

My father in law says the same thing.

Love you too! Don't know if I have thanked you for reducing the guilt factor. Thank you.

8:35 - Hear! Hear! Part ways with possessions that make you feel bad or guilty, whether its a poor purchase decision, a broken friendship or unfulfilled dream. Great work as always, Dawn!❤️

This women is a God-send. God bless you 'The Minimal Mom' 💞

Thank you! My grandmother would wait for sales on things she used, such as bar soap, hair spray, etc, etc, and then buy what she used for that year only. She saved a lot of money, had it on hand, and it wasn't so much to handle. Everything was so tidy in her house, even I knew where she kept things. I haven't yet mastered that technique, but trying.

I just went into my closet this morning and found a shirt , with tags on it that i cannot remember buying, and i love it. How did I forget about it? Anyway I found a new treasure and i’m excited about it.

What I love about minimalism is you can have different levels. It doesn't have to be cold feeling and extreme. Do what matches your style!

Hey! I know this comment is more related to other videos... I’ve been catching up and loving your channel the past month! It’s helped so much! I also wanted to let you know, some of your conversations about keeping a home clean for your husband might not be well received because there are many out there with husbands quite different from Tom and what you’re used to. My sweet husband was basically blind to all responsibilities at home for years. Seriously. Finances, yard work, trash, car maintenance, holiday/family events, kids clothing and hygiene needs, dr appointments.... it wasn’t until I made a list of every possible thing it takes to run a home and family and asked him to confirm what he felt he took responsibility for, that his eyes opened up. And we both work full time. Just wanted to let you know that there really are women out there, that are trying to do it all for their families and husband’s, and maybe need to be directed that this advice (to create a peaceful/clean home) is not necessarily going to solve the arguments regarding house chores if 1 person is truly doing 95% of the home & family management work. I appreciate all you and your family put out into the world through this channel! Just wanted to give another perspective. God bless!

You are amazing Dawn! A born presenter and educator with such a good heart! I am so thankful for your videos, they resonate with me so much!!! Thank you, thank you, thank you for all the lessons you’ve taught me and permission you’ve given me to get rid of my stuff! It’s something I’ve struggled for a long time. But having just separated from my 2nd husband and becoming a single mum of 3 it’s never been more real to me the need to simplify! I’m slowly getting there! Please keep making your wonderful videos.Lots of love to you and your family from Australia xxx

Thank you for this video Dawn. You are helping me save my own life.

@rebeccaconde610

3 жыл бұрын

Dawn you have such a talent for simplifying how to simplify. I have been in a rut trying to finish my master bedroom and closet and this was such an inspiration to see it through to completion. You are a blessing to so many. Thank you for sharing what you have learned through the process to help others.

The key to all of what I have been learning since signing on and also doing the "Take back" series was we live in a container and within that container is the places we store our items (today was about our inventory) This was something I have struggled with in 2 areas my makeup and art supplies. These are 2 things I enjoyed. So yesterday as i begin the real purge (some of my makeup was 5-10 years old and I would not let go) ran out of room years ago and just kept adding container to house it...I got rid of 85-90% of my make up and how did I do it, I put most of it into Quarantine. Since I retired i do simple makeup and it fits into one container. I am now applying the same thing to my art supplies (these go back years ) and in this past year I gave away at least 50% and still have too much. I know what I really like to do and the rest I am donating to my ex-co worker who teaches Sunday School and they love the supplies i gave them last year and now I have another load to give them. When you find a "good cause" that helps me to let go of the guilt and then it is not money wasted You often suggest Market Place but think about Women's shelters (if you have new clothing and it is work appropriate), I also think I could donate to a senior center my art supplies. Thanks Dawn this Walmart story is something we can relate to and also learn not to guilt myself for mistakes.

@kaseyc1350

2 жыл бұрын

Art supplies - especially high quality - retains most of its value on the secondary market. A worthy cause may appreciate the money raised by a sale of your supplies more than the supplies itself. Especially stuff like oil paints or canvases ... unless it's simple arts and crafts, resell it to artists who need the discount.

At least when we slip up and make a mistake it doesn’t cost us millions of dollars! Just donate it and move on! Lol 😂

The currency of KZread...Hauls and Declutters lol 😂

@ramonasurprenant2122

3 жыл бұрын

So true🤣🤣🤣🤣😘

@bittersweet6507

3 жыл бұрын

I watch the hauls just to reinforce that I don’t need all that stuff. The ladies who are constantly redoing their home decor are the ones who give me the most angst, but in a good way.

I had my first realization of "inventory" when I started college, although I wouldn't' have been able to explain it that way. Growing up, my room was always messy, and even after cleaning it wouldn't take long to be messy again. My dorm room only had the basics, clothes, books, etc. I enjoyed keeping things tidy and organized. The challenge is doing that with kids and a busy life. I found your channel this past summer, and your description of inventory helped me further simplify. I've also noticed that if I hang on to things I've bought but I'm not using, I'm more likely to make the same mistake again. (Because in my head, I still think I'm going to use it- someday.) If I acknowledge the mistake and give it away or donate it, I'm less likely to make the same mistake again.

Inventory Management as a concept in my home has CHANGED MY LIFE! I'm a person who always intentionally buys multiples so we never run out and then feels overwhelmed by quantities in my home. Inventory Management put it all in perspective!

If I would be pregnant with my first baby again, I would buy a lot more second-hand stuff. We did buy secondhand and we even borrowed some things. But we could have done way better.... we just started to sell our baby gear and it is nice to see that there are people who can use the stuff. I really like your approach with managig inventory. It helps me a lot. We are still in the process of decluttering our house. Today my hubby drove to the recycling center again with a car full of unusuable stuff. Even the kids start to declutter. They decided to let go of some toys very easily when we asked them. I was surprised but it showed me that they observe how we are doing.

This is such a great idea, Dawn!! Thank you very much for this. I have been boycotting Wal-Mart for 20 years at least because of what they've done to communities, the environment, and their labor relations are abominable, etc. It's so refreshing to hear you talking about borrowing instead of buying, buying, buying (especially from a place as horrible as Wal-Mart). Thanks again!!

Thank you Dawn, this is a valuable resource and this perspective has changed my life, and my habits.

Agree with most of this, but not the borrowing tools. It irks me when my neighbors want to borrow my tools. Each use shortens the life of that expensive tool. Ive had tools returned in poor condition and needing repair. It makes me feel like people are mooching off of me.

Such excellent comments! Well said. I always say "Walmart (Home Depot, Costco, etc) stores it for me, and I pay a small storage fee when I need to go pick it up and use it!"

Great video! Thank you for the comparison with Walmart! It finally makes sense when you talk about handling our inventory.

I APPRECIATE you putting "chapters" in your videos, and I loved the tips you shared here! Thanks to you, I cleared a ton of inventory at the beginning of 2020, but now I have the awareness that I stopped (I don't know why because it was awesome!). Thanks for today's tips! PS - this video is so nice I watched it twice!

I love the more natural (less "choppy" sounding) intro of your name! ❤️

Lol I was just at Walmart and hadn’t been there in a while. Strolled around to see what they had but left with my 5 items that I went in there for! Thanks Dawn

You've really gotten to a whole new level with your videos and I love it. Your explanations that appeal to logic are thorough and more helpful to an intellectual personality than the practical ones

@anitas5817

3 жыл бұрын

Yes I agree with this. There are tons of videos on KZread with people showing how they decluttered their kitchen or clothing, etc, but Dawn (and Joshua Becker) have made the most difference to me in rethinking how I want to live.

I have never though like that, I was the inventory manager for years in a big company and now I am in charge of the logistics department in smaller one, but never though to run my house as I do my job. I am going try to do my grocery shopping as I do ordering stock for the company I work. I will have to do some previous work but then it may work. Grocery shopping it is my problem as home. My family may think I losing my mind.

@lk1869

3 жыл бұрын

As someone who oversaw the inventory at third party warehouse/ deliverer for my employer... do it!!! I have been living by this principle for 5 yrs now. It will become second nature to you. Promise!!!

@pameehanson3866

3 жыл бұрын

WOW I too had to manage inventory at work, we did not have a storage issue but I could not run out of certain supplies and that was a constant. What i got from that is when to buy and when to not buy. I struggle with my "panty" and now i know that I have way too much and I live across the street from Safeway LOL, They can store my pantry for me and only keep bare essentials on hand.

This video seriously helped me see why I've been beating myself up for YEARS. I always wondered how I could be so organized but things always feel so out of control. I've been downsizing for a while now, but always felt like there was something wrong with me. The problem isn't with my organizational skills, it's saying NO to all this excess stuff that is stressing me out. I put her lesson into a formula: Less Inventory + Organization = Peace Thank you, Dawn! I agree with Christen Jones - it should be the very first video someone should watch before decluttering.

This video has been very helpful. I don't want my house to become a warehouse for wal mart , hobby lobby , home depot or any other store. I just keep only what is actually used and keep home decor down to a minimum. This just made decluttering so much more easier and letting go was no longer a major emotional battle. Hobbies no longer take over my house. If repairs have to be done that require expensive tools,, it's best to call someone to do it instead of my husband doing the repair which is once in a lifetime and the garage or backyard ends up with a lot tools that are never used again.. We just have to accept that we are not Master carpenters , electricians,, plumbers ets.and it allows someone else to earn a living doing what they are experts at. I don't have spend all that money on tools and in the process make a lot mistakes.that just end up costing us more . Thank you Dawn,, Cass, and Dana. Enjoying this new found freedom.

Inventory mindset is a beautiful concept to live by! Thanks for inspiring Dawn!

I seriously love your inventory analogy. This was so good!

Dawn, the biggest reason I’m even posting this is because I want to thank you if u ever get to read this. I can’t imagine how you keep up with these comments. But after I send this, because of you I am getting up and going extreme. I’ve been watch ure videos and u are just amazing. Pure beautiful heart. I’m the same. I’m fighting for my kids because I was misdiagnosed and got addicted to pills. It went one for about 8 years. I was with my ex 14 yrs. we have three kids and I lost him. I had an opportunity to get clean and no one thought I would. I left and did it at a friends house cuz I didn’t want my kids bullied for their mom being in rehab. I lost myself but never them. I love the way u raise them. Rn my mom turned on me cuz she controlled me my whole life and won’t speak to me cuz I spoke to my biological dad. She’s the one who turned my husband against me and most my everyone else. I had help moving half a house when he decided he was moving back in with his parents and it’s been taking up the house I’m in. It’s memories and my life. But lately things have been going a little better with the custody. I spend a lot of time with them. And that’s what keeps me driven. Your declutter videos wouldn’t make me fell so excited to do this. It resonates with everything im going thru with all areas of my life. I just want to give thanks. 🙏🏼

My 17 year old has been giving me a hard time because I got rid of big things like old vans, a trailer and a campers.... he wishes I would have kept them but I told him we don’t have the space! We live in town so we don’t have room to store extra stuff.

Hi Dawn. Thanks for your videos. I wish I had this concept when I was a working mom raising my kids. So freeing. I want my house to be a home, not a storage facility. But it is something I am even finding useful now as my kids are each graduating college. We are in a state of transition and I am getting rid of sports equipment, school related items, etc. If we no longer have a use for it - I want it out. As they move out - I have them go through their things and purge what they don't want.. I am finding this younger generation does not want to be burdened with stuff especially paper items like photos and momentos. If they really want to "keep" it - they will take a digital picture and let go of the items. We will always have the memories of the experience. I also want a simple cleaning routine - which is more achievable with less stuff to clean! I love that you and other minimalism moms I watch are confident and express that minimalism should be whatever you want it to be. Just simplify to a level that gives you more life and joy in your day!

Thank you! Now I have a better idea of inventory. And inventory doesn't just have to be material things, skills can be a great trap for gathering clutter. Out sourcing a few tasks removes tons of equipment, supplies and waste from your home (unless your lawn care folks have to use your own lawn mower, or your house keeper has to use your vacuum cleaner, etc.)

This was such a pivotal question for me. Do I want to manage inventory. NO!

True Dawn. Face the fear and realize it's exciting to get rid of stuff and on the other side is a funner and lighter life!! Life becomes about enjoying the company of others. Our inventory are our resources to enjoy activities with others!!! I am writing as the daughter of 2 hoarders.

Love it...THANK YOU! I never thought about the idea that the big mistake was keeping a badly thought-out purchase.

Yes. Borrowing has been a big help for me. Ongoing process to pare down inventory. 🌞

I just wanted to say that I was feeling the exact same way almost thirty years ago when my kids were little. I wish I understood then what I learned now in your videos. When you talk about managing less inventory it was a major light bulb moment. I appreciate you so much!!

Thinking about all the goods in my home as "inventory I have to manage" has made my life so much easier! You're the best, Dawn!

We recently got a new Michael's store in our area. The very first week it was open, I went there to shop. I was amazed to find that they had a CLEARANCE section already! LOL Just had to share...

@angeliquemaez5569

3 жыл бұрын

Wow, that’s crazy and interesting!

First, I Love you & your Family. I am in Florida & y'all are in Minnesota, however there is something very special about you. You are such an encourager, watching you & Tom is such a Joy. You 2 are Amazing. Thank you for all that you do.

Thanks for the helpful video on our crazy snow day here in PA! Your videos always motivate me!

I have been realizing a lot about my wardrobe. Ty to you and Erica Lucas. I’m taking in to consideration of what colors I like on myself. When I get a complement on what I’m wearing or if someone says that color looks good on you. ❣️I remember that when buying myself clothes. I have given a lot of clothes away. Now I pick and choose what I want. Not what’s on sale. Ty

For a long time I was upset with my accumulation of things, and I was trying to find a solution among the innumerable contents on minimalism that exist on social networks. But I tried again and again following their advice and immediately gave up because the ideas they defended didn't work for me in the end because they were too frivolous or superficial. I've finally found you a few weeks ago and I finally see the practical side and I'm beginning to understand the philosophy of minimalism that does agree with my personality. Thank you very much for your advice and I will continue with you

You articulated this so well!!! I knew I had this problem with buying extras and storing too much but I could never really explain it. My husband only buys things when he needs it and he does run out of things but he is such a minimalist and it seems less stressful sometimes to live like him, with less inventory. He also purges a lot easier than me bc he doesn’t have that much to begin with. 🤯🤯🤯 This was such a helpful video about explaining the pros of downsizing and making more conscious choices about buying/storing less.

@lauramitchell6725

3 жыл бұрын

One way to find the balance between the two types.When half of it is gone,put it on your list.You don’t overstock but you won’t run out😉

In New Zealand we have toy library so we go and borrow a high end item or items like other toys, books and baby swings etc we cannot afford and return it. Toys in New Zealand are very expensive compared to usa. I had a toy that cost $280. In nz. It cost $80. In the USA. I was sooo lucky to get it for $2.50 in America. Very rare if I found that in nz in a used thrifty shop. People tend to pass on goods or sell on line to recap some $$

Where I live there is a DIY center in the public library for lending tools and commonly needed items like wedding cake tiered pans, sewing machines, craft tools, wheelbarrows, shovels... They also hold classes on how to do the jobs for which these tools are used - such as sewing or installing wood/laminate floors. All of the tools needed for one Scout's Eagle project were borrowed from the DIY center - 4 wheelbarrows, shovels, metal rakes, hammers, etc. It's a big plus for those with small homes and little storage - like the once or twice a year a rake is needed.

LOVE THIS. I have come across so many organizational videos trying to be the next smartest hack - because no ones original organizing ideas stay implemented - but they're just skipping over the bigger problem... It's not that we aren't good at organizing, but we have too much stuff TO organize!! So thankful for all of these principles!

I love the little neighborhood libraries where you can borrow and donate books! In our town many folks in need check them for other things, so it's a great place to donate small items like mini soaps and travel size items. Non perishable foods that can be consumed w/o cooking are good too.

Until yesterday, I didn’t understand what you meant about “managing inventory.” Some days, I wake up with the thought that I need to get rid of a particular item. It could be an item in the garage, or a pair of shoes in the closet… Yesterday, it was our electric can opener. I had put that in the garage along time ago. We might not have used it for a couple of years. I’ve been using a handheld one. I kept it because I was worried about my arthritis, but they have so many easier to use inventions now. The thought of using that Hamilton Beach can opener, wasn’t attractive to me. So I’m guessing that somehow, my brain keeps track of what we own. Because I never have found i have problems finding things. I’m very organized. Come to think of it, I went to dollar tree 2018 and got all those shelving units because I needed to have more space before! Thanks for your awesome tips

I skipped this video when it came out and then came back to it. I’m glad I did. This was just what I needed to hear. Thanks Dawn!