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So we've been in an international marriage for 5.5 years, together for 7, are living in Japan, and speak to each other in both Japanese and English (although Jun's English is WAY BETTER than my Japanese). There are a lot of things we've adjusted to when it comes to cultural differences, but there are some things we just haven't. And some of these things we maybe still argue about. Okay some of these things we definitely still argue about.
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  • @TheDansonT
    @TheDansonT7 жыл бұрын

    I'm sure you two can agree that Tidus and Yuna's famous "laughing" scene in Final Fantasy 10 is equally cringe-worthy in both English and Japanese.

  • @quixoticsonnet

    @quixoticsonnet

    7 жыл бұрын

    Oh god, that laughing scene. Japanese Tidus sounds like a seagull being sat on.

  • @ninochka4410

    @ninochka4410

    7 жыл бұрын

    quixotic sonnet A SEAGULL HAHA.

  • @TheDansonT

    @TheDansonT

    7 жыл бұрын

    That is the PERFECT analogy, but now I'll never be able to un-think that image! hahaha

  • @RachelandJun

    @RachelandJun

    7 жыл бұрын

    +quixotic sonnet I just watched it and now I'm crying at your comparison oh god kzread.info/dash/bejne/dJV40cWsis69e5M.html

  • @odizzido

    @odizzido

    7 жыл бұрын

    FF10 voice acting in english was just terrible. I like the game, but geez. I didn't have as much of a problem with the japanese version but there were a ton of words I didn't know so I cannot judge as well.

  • @evelina3207
    @evelina32074 жыл бұрын

    Happy-Jun: •-• Sad-Jun: •-• Angry-Jun: •-• Neutral-Jun: •-• Sorry-jun: •-•

  • @pokedex1152

    @pokedex1152

    4 жыл бұрын

    When WWIII happens Jun: •-•

  • @shermanator00

    @shermanator00

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@kallistaanne eeeeeeeeeeee

  • @imtotallyrandom681

    @imtotallyrandom681

    4 жыл бұрын

    Frisk : - _-

  • @shalice7784

    @shalice7784

    4 жыл бұрын

    He has a bigger eyes when he’s scared

  • @miscyal2810

    @miscyal2810

    4 жыл бұрын

    no one : jun : •-•

  • @imforrealsoamazinglikeitscrazy
    @imforrealsoamazinglikeitscrazy4 жыл бұрын

    "can you use more....emotion?" "I'm SoRrY."

  • @SynthwaveJade

    @SynthwaveJade

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lmao

  • @louiedisasters7503

    @louiedisasters7503

    4 жыл бұрын

    moe

  • @user-et4uc1iu8w

    @user-et4uc1iu8w

    4 жыл бұрын

    moe

  • @louiedisasters7503

    @louiedisasters7503

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@user-et4uc1iu8w moe

  • @gamesincharacter5106

    @gamesincharacter5106

    4 жыл бұрын

    ThePotatoUnicorn lol I’m just like jun i say everything calmly while my mom is really well not calm. I think jun teaches everyone a good lesson always be calm never mad or frustrated

  • @yujiehu6825
    @yujiehu68254 жыл бұрын

    “What’s wrong with you”, when I learn this phrase in school, the textbook says it means “checking if someone is ok, and this is to show your concern about the person”. Well, when I said this to my American friend one day years later, I received a mean face......can’t forget.

  • @AK-jt7kh

    @AK-jt7kh

    3 жыл бұрын

    Haha. Aww that is cute but sad 😭😜

  • @adde9506

    @adde9506

    3 жыл бұрын

    "What's wrong with you?" implies that the person is crazy. The question "Why would you do that?" is usually also implied. Hmmm... Think of it as adding "with you" implies that the other person is not like you, you can't understand them and are demanding an explanation. When you ask "what's wrong?" the person is like you and you have a general understanding of the problem, but need specifics to help or sympathize.

  • @oscarmendez1477

    @oscarmendez1477

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@adde9506 That was very well explained , thanks!

  • @Kuriousspirit

    @Kuriousspirit

    3 жыл бұрын

    You can say it to british people, we know what you mean 😊✌🏼

  • @brattrox2939

    @brattrox2939

    3 жыл бұрын

    Even my fiance who speaks only English messed this up once. It's technically right, but connotation is just where it goes wrong. If you say it with the right emotion, Americans might understand that you don't mean it as an insult but that's pretty difficult.

  • @MrHarshaagousta
    @MrHarshaagousta2 жыл бұрын

    as an asian guy i can confirm : when we are being cute to our partner, we dramatized the word like "i am sorryyyy :( :(" but when we are really sorry for what we did, we put serious face and say "i am sorry" with strong dedication like we are ready to whatever punishment you will befall us.

  • @prudence8808

    @prudence8808

    2 жыл бұрын

    More like americans are way to emotional right? I feel like serious calm apologies are more sincere because it shows you were able to rationally think about your actions and truly acknowledged your mistake

  • @elliewuzzup7689

    @elliewuzzup7689

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@prudence8808 Haha. Just cultural differences as what is perceived as sincere. 😌 I can see how Americans would seem too emotional and how Japanese may be seen as emotionless, it's all about cultural perception. The best we can do is work to understand the feeling behind the apology so we can communicate better between cultures which is what I think Rachel and Jun do very well! ❤️

  • @dancingbymoonlt

    @dancingbymoonlt

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@prudence8808 As an American we are too emotional in comparison lol 😂 but while I can tell Jun is sincere now if I was angry I could misinterpret it as him being passive aggressive. The tone he is using isn’t the tone we use to sincerely apologize, it’s more done when you don’t mean it (like when your mom forces you to apologize when you’re a kid). A sincere tone for English (in America any way) has more inflection and as Rachel requests a bit more emotion. Monotone is considered to be rude, judgmental, or condescending here. It’s the tone teenagers use the most when they want to irritate their parents.

  • @LeavesAbove

    @LeavesAbove

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m not to emotional, fight me

  • @Zaicumber_UMBER

    @Zaicumber_UMBER

    Жыл бұрын

    a lot of people say I have no emotion and just have it when im really sad/happy over something

  • @LittleFugueFlute
    @LittleFugueFlute4 жыл бұрын

    I don't read Jun's apologies as emotionless, I read them as full of terror

  • @itzreaps

    @itzreaps

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@thomasnguyen9947 dude,, no. first of all, its polite to give emotionless apologies in japan, tHEY LITERALLY SAID THAT IN THE VIDEO- second, im pretty sure youre the only one who does that

  • @midhubbs3395

    @midhubbs3395

    4 жыл бұрын

    hahahhaa!! that's the expression

  • @tenkaiandtransformerfangir7814

    @tenkaiandtransformerfangir7814

    4 жыл бұрын

    I read his actions he does with his emotions more than his words

  • @normahmansoor2888

    @normahmansoor2888

    4 жыл бұрын

    it has the same energy as *I'm sorry you felt that*

  • @lillypharaoh5945

    @lillypharaoh5945

    4 жыл бұрын

    Cause what's there to be sorry about 😂😂

  • @krowkovtuber
    @krowkovtuber4 жыл бұрын

    basically americans being extra and japanese being chill for 8 minutes straight

  • @spacewolfcub

    @spacewolfcub

    4 жыл бұрын

    To be fair, as a cashier or other service jobs I've always enforced fairness when someone tries to walk all over other clients like that. It's not extra to refuse to accept rules being broken, otherwise why bother lining up at all and not just mob the counter? These social rules exist for a reason, to avoid drama not make more.

  • @liyanns8998

    @liyanns8998

    4 жыл бұрын

    Americans are generally extra,that's normal for them but not for a Japanese or maybe some other parts of the world too

  • @IsraelCountryCube

    @IsraelCountryCube

    4 жыл бұрын

    I find it hot or cute? That Jun is cool and Rachel is funny and I also thought she was Asian....at first and then I thought is that red head real?! I was like nah I can see black hair but then Jun mentioned that she’s American AND SHES A REAL RED HEAD!! BOI THAT IS PROBALY THE MOST HOTTEST COMBO EVER! I NEVER IMAGINED THE DAY WOULD COME! A JAPANESE BOI AND ONE HOT REDHEAD their both hot *no homo jun it’s just fair to say that cause your wife isn’t the only hot one.....if you know what I mean* 😏😏😏😏 by that I meant jun is so frigging Ho- -Israel country cube has left the chat-

  • @markhaus

    @markhaus

    4 жыл бұрын

    As a Swede in America, I don’t think any description covers the difference better than “extra”

  • @user-ix4nq9yz8k

    @user-ix4nq9yz8k

    4 жыл бұрын

    Israel Country Cube boi chill

  • @esthykechan
    @esthykechan3 жыл бұрын

    Rachel: rants in English Jun: switches to Japanese and does the same thing 😂

  • @ditsyghost8609
    @ditsyghost86093 жыл бұрын

    “You are being passive aggressive with me?” “I don’t know what that word means” LMFAOOOOOOOOOOO

  • @rrysrats

    @rrysrats

    2 жыл бұрын

    "..." ">:(..." "gomen nasai ._."

  • @queenie24
    @queenie244 жыл бұрын

    He sounded like Ice Bear when he apologized.

  • @yunhoho

    @yunhoho

    4 жыл бұрын

    neomu areumda areumda what if jun is secretly ice bear 😳 HAHAH

  • @jen22608

    @jen22608

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@yunhoho broo 😳😳😳

  • @NorNor-dr5hb

    @NorNor-dr5hb

    4 жыл бұрын

    OMG XD

  • @ellaprukop764

    @ellaprukop764

    4 жыл бұрын

    YESSS!!

  • @gingerbreadbrat9285

    @gingerbreadbrat9285

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yesss

  • @taerium3019
    @taerium30194 жыл бұрын

    what jun says: *gomenasai :|* what he really means: *don’t kill me*

  • @LJXrot

    @LJXrot

    4 жыл бұрын

    Fax 😂😂🤞🏻🍵

  • @gamesincharacter5106

    @gamesincharacter5106

    4 жыл бұрын

    taerium gomen nasai is I’m sorry in Japanese

  • @gamesincharacter5106

    @gamesincharacter5106

    4 жыл бұрын

    taerium or put on English subtitles ^^

  • @taerium3019

    @taerium3019

    4 жыл бұрын

    L {real life detective} nah i know, i’m currently living in japan so i kinda know a bit of nihonggo :))

  • @user-by5bs3ek6b

    @user-by5bs3ek6b

    4 жыл бұрын

    Totally.😅(by japanese)

  • @jacinthlilly3148
    @jacinthlilly31483 жыл бұрын

    *"Every cultural difference"* Rachel: You do this for what though Jun: Why not Rachel: But why Jun: Why not

  • @traiamadelyn7309
    @traiamadelyn73093 жыл бұрын

    Oh my gosh, they're so cute

  • @williamwren4677

    @williamwren4677

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m dying from the cuteness 😭

  • @lalicoca1844

    @lalicoca1844

    3 жыл бұрын

    I was about to write the saaaame words 😂

  • @faithangel1254

    @faithangel1254

    3 жыл бұрын

    Haha ageed

  • @abhinav1690

    @abhinav1690

    2 жыл бұрын

    WOMEN

  • @sanich0811

    @sanich0811

    Жыл бұрын

    Women moment

  • @miglesakalauskaite9060
    @miglesakalauskaite90604 жыл бұрын

    She is just an extrovert who found its introvert

  • @haruhisuzumiya6650

    @haruhisuzumiya6650

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's a a shoujo romance trope

  • @AniWho268

    @AniWho268

    4 жыл бұрын

    +migl3 31673 Nah, Rachel is actually an introvert. If you look a bit closer during their early videos you can tell. Plus, Rachel revealed in a previous video that she is an introvert.

  • @AniWho268

    @AniWho268

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Endorphinn_ Are you replying to the original comment above?

  • @Endorphinn_

    @Endorphinn_

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@AniWho268 Yes. I don't know why the nickname isn't there. I thought it was automatic like for yours at the beginning of this comment. I surely made a mistake somewhere.

  • @AniWho268

    @AniWho268

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Endorphinn_ Oh ok cool. Just making sure.

  • @mariasasanami7603
    @mariasasanami76034 жыл бұрын

    this is so cute she’s like “are you passively being aggressive to me” “idk what that means” *intense stare* “i’m sorry”

  • @pangestusandyaetnikosiagian

    @pangestusandyaetnikosiagian

    4 жыл бұрын

    Haha nice call back

  • @narakarrarr6191

    @narakarrarr6191

    3 жыл бұрын

    Tha was hilarious 😂

  • @mariem24601

    @mariem24601

    3 жыл бұрын

    That was A+ skit writing right there.

  • @tylerblack3962
    @tylerblack39622 жыл бұрын

    Jun’s soft spoken and almost deadpan chaos is hilarious “So maybe it’s the cat food i use as a secret spice”

  • @joaovicenteribeiro1468
    @joaovicenteribeiro14683 жыл бұрын

    In Brasil, most specifically in Rio, no One would argue with a Guy who’s cut in line. Not because we’re not trying to make a scene, but because we don’t wanna get stabbed or shot.

  • @fandarzelig

    @fandarzelig

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think in the US women tend to be more vocal about things like line cutting because if you're a man you're expected to "back things up". I always just assume if someone cuts they're just looking for a confrontation.

  • @renanterezan9922

    @renanterezan9922

    3 жыл бұрын

    Não só no Rio, parça. Barato tá loco em todo lugar.

  • @chuuyanakaharas

    @chuuyanakaharas

    3 жыл бұрын

    ...oh god..

  • @priyotomo203

    @priyotomo203

    3 жыл бұрын

    OMG

  • @waffleisnice

    @waffleisnice

    3 жыл бұрын

    Uhhhhhh 😳

  • @Anna-bb6rz
    @Anna-bb6rz5 жыл бұрын

    Rachel: ARE YOU BEING PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE WITH ME?!?!?! Jun: o_o

  • @maryudomah4387

    @maryudomah4387

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jun: *HELP ME*

  • @genocidesniping5181

    @genocidesniping5181

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jun: gomenasai™

  • @xaladlovesgames2986

    @xaladlovesgames2986

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jun: *poker face*

  • @aaronmontgomery2055

    @aaronmontgomery2055

    5 жыл бұрын

    I get it though, when my wife speaks in her native dialect I can't understand her when she gets mad at my

  • @floridaturtleark4914

    @floridaturtleark4914

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jun: put your brain in 🍚

  • @schmoyoho
    @schmoyoho7 жыл бұрын

    the struggle for non-confrontational people is real

  • @JohnDoe-wx2oo

    @JohnDoe-wx2oo

    7 жыл бұрын

    The real problem is when "non-confrontational people" chastise others for not being a doormat. I'm not going to eat an entrée I didn't order just because you would :)

  • @becauseican5821

    @becauseican5821

    7 жыл бұрын

    schmoyoho what the hell is schmoyoho doing here?

  • @schmoyoho

    @schmoyoho

    7 жыл бұрын

    John Doe true--i don't think either should chastise the other type, they're both livin their lives

  • @becauseican5821

    @becauseican5821

    7 жыл бұрын

    schmoyoho who are you replying to?

  • @betylaguerrera

    @betylaguerrera

    7 жыл бұрын

    yes!

  • @matthewtheobald1231
    @matthewtheobald12313 жыл бұрын

    She just seems very excentric and extroverted and he is shy and quiet. Even if they were the same culture they probably wouldn't understand each other haha

  • @supereggtartersauce6464

    @supereggtartersauce6464

    3 жыл бұрын

    Opposites attract

  • @melonachii

    @melonachii

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@supereggtartersauce6464 yep

  • @feignreigh

    @feignreigh

    3 жыл бұрын

    yup i was just thinking these are alot of thing my introverted bf does and were bother americans

  • @feignreigh

    @feignreigh

    3 жыл бұрын

    both*

  • @franceskacostamagna1036

    @franceskacostamagna1036

    3 жыл бұрын

    Very true. I’m American and I’m very much like Jun with the customer service or cutting in line thing. I get so embarrassed when people I’m with confront people over what I consider small. I’ve never ever sent food back or called someone out for cutting in line.

  • @gothictrashqueen9109
    @gothictrashqueen91092 жыл бұрын

    Rachel: “Are you being passive aggressive with me?” Jun: “I’m not sure what that means.” Rachel’s Mind: *commencing count down sequence* Jun: *i m s o r r y*

  • @jasmin-ij9oe
    @jasmin-ij9oe5 жыл бұрын

    are you being passive aggressive with me?!? >:V jun: 👁👄👁

  • @XCBXII

    @XCBXII

    5 жыл бұрын

    👁👄👁

  • @simpleman8236

    @simpleman8236

    5 жыл бұрын

    And gomennasai

  • @beverage7335

    @beverage7335

    5 жыл бұрын

    👁👄👁 ごめなさい。

  • @SAGIRAHH

    @SAGIRAHH

    5 жыл бұрын

    🇯🇵🇱🇷

  • @hb6789

    @hb6789

    5 жыл бұрын

    LovinqLucky lmfao 👁👄👁

  • @JJ-ml7pq
    @JJ-ml7pq4 жыл бұрын

    “Are you being passive-aggressive with me??” “I don’t know what that word means.” Somehow I found this very amusing.

  • @gleaming8103

    @gleaming8103

    4 жыл бұрын

    no only you ^^

  • @SarahAbramova

    @SarahAbramova

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @perishih9687

    @perishih9687

    4 жыл бұрын

    i replayed it

  • @cleong5585

    @cleong5585

    4 жыл бұрын

    I do too. Hehe

  • @baskervilleBerz

    @baskervilleBerz

    4 жыл бұрын

    That I'm sorry at the last. Lmao...

  • @Reismiilch
    @Reismiilch3 жыл бұрын

    "What´s wrong with you?" damn languages can be cruel

  • @nins7457

    @nins7457

    3 жыл бұрын

    I know right...and unforgiving too. 😅

  • @SongOfChaos1

    @SongOfChaos1

    3 жыл бұрын

    It reminds me of some languages that have multiple words for "why". If I recall correctly, both Russian and Japanese do this. "Why are you crying?" gets dicey if you use the wrong method, as one implies information about the situation while the other implies intent. So, "Why are you crying?" as in 'what happened to make you cry?' versus, 'for what purpose are you crying?', the latter being somewhat... accusational. When you ask "What's wrong 'with you'?" it sounds accusational, depending on the context, intonation, affect, etc. At it's core, "What's wrong?" can only reference the situational wrongness, while 'with you' can mean all kinds of things, mostly negative because it puts the attention to 'you' as the subject of the question, rather than (or in tandem with) the problem, and then it just gets all ugly from there. If 'with' had separate words for 'in your space' and 'in you personally', it'd probably be less a thing. (One of the benefits of complex case systems.)

  • @lightylight7590

    @lightylight7590

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@SongOfChaos1 in Russian we have two words that are constantly messed up by the learners: "pochemu" which means "why", and "zachem" which means "for what purpose?" And we also have "dorogoy" which means "dear" and "expensive" at the same time😁. That's why we can say "dear car" instead of "expensive car".

  • @barbarradevlin9111
    @barbarradevlin91113 жыл бұрын

    I always come back to this video because it really does show a American Japanese language learner the way Japanese people do emote. The way Jun says I’m sorry is so full of respect, and that’s how they show their sincerity. English is such a nuance language and honestly you could consider it to be quite tonal. We kind of express emotions over the top. We heavily rely on body language as well to express our feelings. In Japanese you rely on your words, because each word has a deep and strong meaning and is dependent on situation.

  • @pcmcpse7572
    @pcmcpse75724 жыл бұрын

    Being an asian, i also agree that jun’s apologise sounds sincere 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @lovemekitten

    @lovemekitten

    4 жыл бұрын

    abcd1234 Sameeee

  • @yuchongliu7788

    @yuchongliu7788

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same lol

  • @Ghost_with_Bow

    @Ghost_with_Bow

    4 жыл бұрын

    I didn't think it was insincere, but I would expect more emotion. I find that quite interesting how it can sound different depending on what culture one grew up with.

  • @lingro2366

    @lingro2366

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m black and I don’t show emotion lol

  • @beef2897

    @beef2897

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah! It’s weird how some people take emotion differently! I thought it was pretty sincere! In my opinion, he sounded serious like “I’m sorry” rather than “IM sO SORRYY!!”

  • @CazTails
    @CazTails6 жыл бұрын

    Jun: Gomenasai Translation: please don't kill me

  • @juanwyatt

    @juanwyatt

    6 жыл бұрын

    Epic translation 😂

  • @kristinabaker4433

    @kristinabaker4433

    6 жыл бұрын

    🤣

  • @arinanamjin2622

    @arinanamjin2622

    6 жыл бұрын

    No problem

  • @giangngo6826

    @giangngo6826

    6 жыл бұрын

    I thought it was I’m sorry. I guess captions suck.

  • @Brextol

    @Brextol

    6 жыл бұрын

    Mythical Miko It was a joke lol.

  • @smolkidd
    @smolkidd3 жыл бұрын

    jun: dont worry about it just let him cut in line rachel: why? jun: (rmbrs the yakuza)

  • @thisismyname2255
    @thisismyname22553 жыл бұрын

    As a half japanese person his sorry in the beginning sounds very sincere to me😂

  • @milys8902

    @milys8902

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤣😂😂OMG how!!!!?

  • @Speed001

    @Speed001

    3 жыл бұрын

    1:08 that's a sincere "I'm sorry", as is 1:30

  • @rubyrock7302

    @rubyrock7302

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m Indian and thought that seemed genuine as well. I can see his sincerity through the blank face haha 😂

  • @AbsentWithoutLeaving

    @AbsentWithoutLeaving

    2 жыл бұрын

    I feel like the quiet unemotional verbal apology is sincere, but the flat out unblinking stare right into your eyes is aggressive, so if someone apologized to me like that, I'd be wondering what the heck was going on. EDIT: I just went back and watched it again, and on second viewing, I think the stare is more of a "deer caught in the headlights" look, so it sort of carries the emotion of the American "I'm SOOOO sorry!!" without actually using the words. 😂

  • @firassk
    @firassk5 жыл бұрын

    Who finds it satisfying when he talks in Japanese?

  • @ft.myself2894

    @ft.myself2894

    5 жыл бұрын

    meeeeee

  • @QueenBee-sf6zd

    @QueenBee-sf6zd

    5 жыл бұрын

    It’s very calming to me,

  • @kanvianas

    @kanvianas

    5 жыл бұрын

    Firass Kiki yesss

  • @rommelvlog9709

    @rommelvlog9709

    5 жыл бұрын

    Mee

  • @Mike_tsu

    @Mike_tsu

    5 жыл бұрын

    meeee

  • @Classic_Berry
    @Classic_Berry5 жыл бұрын

    "Are you being passive aggressive with me?" "I don't know what that word means." *Intense stare* "Gomenasai." I just lost it at this part. So funny!

  • @jinjjaninja

    @jinjjaninja

    4 жыл бұрын

    Tiffany Grant gonenasai means **please don’t kill me**

  • @DropsOfJupit3r

    @DropsOfJupit3r

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂 Yus, I lost it at this point.

  • @bisexualbean2529

    @bisexualbean2529

    4 жыл бұрын

    ごめなさい

  • @asuna932

    @asuna932

    4 жыл бұрын

    I don't know what that means either. Someone could explain to me? I'm a brazilian.

  • @teddybear8443

    @teddybear8443

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@asuna932 if you have subtitles on you can see it says I'm sorry lol

  • @kesayo
    @kesayo4 жыл бұрын

    My wife is Japanese, and we always communicate in Japanese because that’s how we started our relationship. But it’s frustrating for me because I feel like I’m at a disadvantage in arguments. Sometimes I have really good points I want to make, but I can’t adequately explain them. But on the plus side, it forces me to think before speaking instead of blurting out emotional retorts, so our arguments rarely get out of control.

  • @deovolente5867
    @deovolente58673 жыл бұрын

    "They suppose to wear masks. He coughed in my face". Wow still relevant and scary.

  • @banterisk
    @banterisk5 жыл бұрын

    “Are you being passive-aggressive with me?” *I dUnNo wHaT tHaT wOrD mEanS*

  • @heheboi8108

    @heheboi8108

    5 жыл бұрын

    (with VERY EMOTIONAL voice)

  • @donatcsonka1371

    @donatcsonka1371

    5 жыл бұрын

    (-Rachel's look: "Jun! I'll kick your ass!!")

  • @devonoknabo2582

    @devonoknabo2582

    5 жыл бұрын

    I DUno WHat THat MEanS

  • @wephoy

    @wephoy

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me to :p

  • @feliscaaurelea4915

    @feliscaaurelea4915

    4 жыл бұрын

    Banterisk ee

  • @AbroadinJapan
    @AbroadinJapan7 жыл бұрын

    WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU?! (I especially liked Jun's scary potato chip surprised face at the start)

  • @Sophie-cw3fb

    @Sophie-cw3fb

    7 жыл бұрын

    Abroad in Japan Hey Chris!

  • @arsenymun2028

    @arsenymun2028

    7 жыл бұрын

    you wanted to say crisp

  • @lunacruz8237

    @lunacruz8237

    7 жыл бұрын

    noloco

  • @TheNoobShow57

    @TheNoobShow57

    7 жыл бұрын

    Never had 2 words mean the difference between smack in the face and a hug.

  • @SamRock3888

    @SamRock3888

    6 жыл бұрын

    Heya Chris!

  • @Panmico
    @Panmico4 жыл бұрын

    Rachel: Americans don’t wear leopard print shirts !!! Me wearing a leopard print shirt: 🤨🧐😦

  • @Nami-bu2qf

    @Nami-bu2qf

    3 жыл бұрын

    American *men lmao well not straight anyway which is the majority of men

  • @magk2524

    @magk2524

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Nami-bu2qf this might surprise you but um wearing a leopard print shirt doesn't make you gay.. or means you're gay.. honestly most people don't wear leopard prints.. it's just women and not men in general,but if a man wears one it doesn't mean he is gay

  • @jbertucci

    @jbertucci

    3 жыл бұрын

    You have to be a super badass, universe-saving tier FF hero to wear that. And emo hair.

  • @downey2294

    @downey2294

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@magk2524 yea it just means he really likes men.

  • @magk2524

    @magk2524

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@downey2294 because obviously leopard=gay

  • @mochi1i794
    @mochi1i7943 жыл бұрын

    I like how they’re arguing quietly about talking to the line cutter, and their friend is just standing there like: ‘This is fine, everything is fine’ like a rpg npc

  • @cherriegetison6093
    @cherriegetison60937 жыл бұрын

    I honestly read Jun's "Gomenasai" as "Please don't hurt me."

  • @j.j.s.7083

    @j.j.s.7083

    7 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @claudiachin5860

    @claudiachin5860

    7 жыл бұрын

    Cherrie Getison TRUE

  • @sleepy1697

    @sleepy1697

    7 жыл бұрын

    There was a sad puppy-like look there, with hints of, "I'm cute right?" and "Don't stomp me". It finishes with a big, "Those eyes hurt my soul"

  • @moomoodeadcow

    @moomoodeadcow

    7 жыл бұрын

    This is what men actually mean when they say: "I'm sorry." We're not sorry. We don't even know why we're sorry. We just don't want to be killed or neutered. That's bad. Please don't do that.

  • @explosivefruits

    @explosivefruits

    7 жыл бұрын

    Cherrie Getison lmaoooooo

  • @charlotteshanagher4816
    @charlotteshanagher48165 жыл бұрын

    Smart man. "I'm sorry " is always the correct response.

  • @lillylazer429

    @lillylazer429

    5 жыл бұрын

    I love how chill Jun is

  • @TheCastle357

    @TheCastle357

    5 жыл бұрын

    That's a sign of weakness

  • @thatsveryverysweetofyou9023

    @thatsveryverysweetofyou9023

    5 жыл бұрын

    You can also say, “Forgive me.” If you want to be extra.

  • @valonzhubi4321

    @valonzhubi4321

    5 жыл бұрын

    TheCastle357 lmao kids tryna act "manly" but behind screen they're weak

  • @user-lu6ug6hf5f

    @user-lu6ug6hf5f

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@valonzhubi4321 I agree

  • @CallMeDean97
    @CallMeDean973 жыл бұрын

    "Are you being passive-aggressive with me?" "I don't know what that word means." Aaaand *that's* where I lost it.

  • @mystii7717

    @mystii7717

    2 жыл бұрын

    THEN THE EMOTIONLESS “I’m sorry” AFTER ALSUSU

  • @thegentlemanpirate6844
    @thegentlemanpirate68443 жыл бұрын

    Jun: "I'm sorry." Rachel: (X) Doubt

  • @cin9663
    @cin96635 жыл бұрын

    Jun: 👁👄👁 Rachel: ... Jun: I am sorry 👁👄👁 Rachel: ...👁➖👁 Jun: 👁👄👁 I am so sorry

  • @milkchocobearbar

    @milkchocobearbar

    4 жыл бұрын

    Rachel*

  • @phuphu1867

    @phuphu1867

    4 жыл бұрын

    LMAOOO😂😭💀

  • @generaldefenseyt6517

    @generaldefenseyt6517

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@milkchocobearbar r/whooooooosh

  • @generaldefenseyt6517

    @generaldefenseyt6517

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@milkchocobearbar r/whooooooosh

  • @milkchocobearbar

    @milkchocobearbar

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@generaldefenseyt6517 you dont know how to use a r/whoooosh do you?

  • @scarrios5742
    @scarrios57423 жыл бұрын

    Rachel: Say something Jun: *thinks Rachel: Say something Jun: *thinks

  • @shortcut101
    @shortcut1013 жыл бұрын

    Wait "what's wrong with you?" and "what's wrong" has different mean and use in different situations?? Ok I learned something new today lol

  • @kisatorimuru6627

    @kisatorimuru6627

    3 жыл бұрын

    One implies a fundamental issue. When you say "with you" it ties the issue with you as opposed to just the current situation.

  • @KitsuneFyora

    @KitsuneFyora

    3 жыл бұрын

    As an american, I know the difference is that "what's wrong with you" means that you're the problem, and "what's wrong" means something isn't right and the person can help you. Knowing that Jun is from another culture though means he is probably being sincere with his question. Us Americans are a bit too cutthroat at times 😅

  • @Godongo

    @Godongo

    2 жыл бұрын

    "What's wrong with you?" Is like "What's your issue?" Problem = you Kind of like if a player doesn't work. It has an issue. "What's wrong?" Is like "What is the issue?" Problem = ??? It's not connected with you

  • @Bambuskus505
    @Bambuskus5055 жыл бұрын

    And THIS is why I'm single. Cuz I can't talk to people even in my own language

  • @elenemelashvili3284

    @elenemelashvili3284

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hello, Same, Byeeee,

  • @whattheheckamidoinghere4305

    @whattheheckamidoinghere4305

    5 жыл бұрын

    Or you're afraid that you Mom may rob you in your sleep?

  • @gays4beomgyu

    @gays4beomgyu

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yo sameeeee i cant speak fluent tagalog without thinking if its wrong or right ghdhdjvyjdjdj

  • @MadPixxy

    @MadPixxy

    5 жыл бұрын

    Seen 109 likes and got irritated so enjoy 110 likes. 😂✌

  • @clairebear7869

    @clairebear7869

    5 жыл бұрын

    YES SAME!

  • @wendyyg9135
    @wendyyg91354 жыл бұрын

    My boyfriend is Japanese and I’m Mexican American, and we encounter so many similar problems lol. We speak 3 languages, I don’t think anyone can understand us sometimes

  • @nobodyxiii4611

    @nobodyxiii4611

    4 жыл бұрын

    Suena triste y divertido ;-;

  • @weiaisee

    @weiaisee

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hope everyone

  • @bobross7744

    @bobross7744

    4 жыл бұрын

    If that's your real name it's a perfect example of your American and Mexican

  • @meybae39

    @meybae39

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thats just soooo cool haha

  • @jadebayoba7073

    @jadebayoba7073

    4 жыл бұрын

    Bueno el hecho de que te comuniques casi perfectamente con un Japones ya es un chingo de avance sabes :^

  • @Achinime013
    @Achinime0134 жыл бұрын

    4:53 Ignis is a real name of latin origin meaning "fiery". Same with the names of noctis w/c is latin for "night" and luna w/c is latin for "moon"... 😁 Sorry. I like name meanings a lot. 😆

  • @icetiger-4760
    @icetiger-47603 жыл бұрын

    These two are the perfect wholesome sitcom couple!~ Ahhh!~ they make me happy seeing how they are so different but strive to be better and understand each other!~ Love lvl 1000

  • @nickieb2636
    @nickieb26367 жыл бұрын

    His sorry in Japanese seemed like he was ready to sacrifice his life for your forgiveness!!

  • @theone8329

    @theone8329

    7 жыл бұрын

    NickieB lol for real tho

  • @dankayur2910

    @dankayur2910

    7 жыл бұрын

    I don't get it. It's practically toneless yet so ridiculously polite and sincere.

  • @emilgoubasarian9822

    @emilgoubasarian9822

    7 жыл бұрын

    NickieB This comment made me crack the fuck up LOL

  • @Jay.T4NA

    @Jay.T4NA

    7 жыл бұрын

    what? Really?? It sounded sooooo deadpan and just... toneless XDXD Wow

  • @ruedelta

    @ruedelta

    7 жыл бұрын

    Dan Kayur It's all about choosing the right type of apology. Even if it's toneless in delivery, the fact that he's giving a very long and involved apology makes it very polite. Delivering it in an effective context is where you get sincerity from; in front of a crowd at the incident doesn't show sincerity, but privately with no one else watching is much more sincere. If we judged apologies by delivery, it would mean that we'd have no leniency against kids or people who are learning the customs we grew up with. It'd be too inflexible, though some people do it anyways because they're more judgmental.

  • @megitsune_
    @megitsune_7 жыл бұрын

    "I'm sorry..." *Jun's poker face* Princeless! XD

  • @anothersheep9748

    @anothersheep9748

    7 жыл бұрын

    what does princeless mean?

  • @dankayur2910

    @dankayur2910

    7 жыл бұрын

    It means he has a princess instead.

  • @dankayur2910

    @dankayur2910

    7 жыл бұрын

    In this usage, yes. More generally, it just means so good you could never put a price on it.

  • @TheGamer-nj9if
    @TheGamer-nj9if3 жыл бұрын

    Juns chill level is godly

  • @oscarmendez1477
    @oscarmendez14773 жыл бұрын

    Body language, diction and intonation will change from culture to culture but I think in most cases most men across the world when it comes to apologizing to girls they try to be sincere but appear as cold, not genuine and lazy about it.

  • @sadirahharris9604
    @sadirahharris96047 жыл бұрын

    6:12 "are you being passive aggressive with me?" "....I don't know what that word means" 😂

  • @onwun4292

    @onwun4292

    6 жыл бұрын

    I don't know what that means neither, anyone explain "passive aggressive" to me plz ?

  • @blackbunnie1389

    @blackbunnie1389

    6 жыл бұрын

    нυrrιcane 500th like

  • @ricod3871

    @ricod3871

    6 жыл бұрын

    gomen nasai...

  • @oneopinion1986
    @oneopinion19865 жыл бұрын

    Actually laughed out loud at the cat food secret spice scene. The use of "what's wrong with you" was so clever and cute.

  • @1zin1

    @1zin1

    5 жыл бұрын

    Omg same..

  • @You.Tube.Sucks.

    @You.Tube.Sucks.

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same. Can't believe I found KZreadrs who are actually funny.

  • @HelloChampionWin
    @HelloChampionWin3 жыл бұрын

    "Omg he coughed on me why wasn't he wearing a mask so gross!" Watching in 2021, COVID-19... so ahead of her time.

  • @RedWolfRun
    @RedWolfRun2 жыл бұрын

    It makes me so happy to see married couples that work so well together. Keep loving each other guys!

  • @terdexeusaur5067
    @terdexeusaur50675 жыл бұрын

    6:04 best part Rachel:ARE YOU BEING PASSIVE-AGGRESIVE WITH ME?! Jun:I dont know what that word means *o_o* Rachel: >:( Jun: :| *im sorry*

  • @joannemarieaso5971

    @joannemarieaso5971

    5 жыл бұрын

    I like your jollibee profile hehehe

  • @terdexeusaur5067

    @terdexeusaur5067

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thx

  • @riolenztimbol6286

    @riolenztimbol6286

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ey! Filipino boi

  • @riolenztimbol6286

    @riolenztimbol6286

    5 жыл бұрын

    I am filipino too :)

  • @luisfelipecorrea4219

    @luisfelipecorrea4219

    5 жыл бұрын

    And he ended up apologizing hahaha best married guy face ever hahahaha

  • @RachelandJun
    @RachelandJun7 жыл бұрын

    Pls enjoy our dumb skits video We had a lot of fun fighting for you

  • @vovowo9252

    @vovowo9252

    7 жыл бұрын

    Rachel & Jun Thank You!

  • @thebyun

    @thebyun

    7 жыл бұрын

    I enjoy it ssoooooo muuuchhhh

  • @vovowo9252

    @vovowo9252

    7 жыл бұрын

    Rachel & Jun this made my day!

  • @kleoonyoutube

    @kleoonyoutube

    7 жыл бұрын

    xD this is absolutely fantastic

  • @PrometheusV2

    @PrometheusV2

    7 жыл бұрын

    AAAAAAaaaaaa yes thank you for fighting for us! XD

  • @white_cheshire
    @white_cheshire3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the video, it's adorable. Hope you two will be able to understand each other better

  • @MSinclairStevens
    @MSinclairStevens3 жыл бұрын

    I'm an American woman with a British husband and he's EXACTLY like Jun. I think it's a guy thing...especially guys from small, island nations. Non-confrontational. Doesn't want to make a fuss. Especially in public situations.

  • @m.b3839
    @m.b38394 жыл бұрын

    Rachel: Hey have you seen my- Jun: **downing Rachel's food** Rachel: - snacks... Jun: **windows shutdown sound**

  • @karthikaregunathaperumal8711

    @karthikaregunathaperumal8711

    4 жыл бұрын

    Workman concept!

  • @mitchellbarton7915

    @mitchellbarton7915

    4 жыл бұрын

    Gomenasai °¬°

  • @redtiny802

    @redtiny802

    4 жыл бұрын

    Read that as "Drowning Rachel's food"

  • @kaitlinpontius8767

    @kaitlinpontius8767

    3 жыл бұрын

    Jun.exe has stopped

  • @TheOneMastodon
    @TheOneMastodon7 жыл бұрын

    "American hair *cannot* do that, that is Japanese hair" LMAO

  • @Lsaldana92

    @Lsaldana92

    7 жыл бұрын

    TheOneMastodon I said the same thing XD

  • @nermket4849

    @nermket4849

    7 жыл бұрын

    European hair can't do that lol

  • @Lsaldana92

    @Lsaldana92

    7 жыл бұрын

    Native American hair cannot do that

  • @kingjeffy

    @kingjeffy

    7 жыл бұрын

    Dominican hair can't do that

  • @dassahscott2659

    @dassahscott2659

    7 жыл бұрын

    black people hair can not do that

  • @user-fi4pr
    @user-fi4pr10 ай бұрын

    1:35 "I don't knoooow" 😂😂😂Has to be my favourite part of the clip! See, Jun, that's showing some emotion 😂😂😂

  • @dean8147
    @dean81473 жыл бұрын

    i seriously remember the days around 2010 , watching Rach & Jun make videos about Japan. The fact the channel is so large is incredible. I thought 200k subs was a lot when i first knew of the channel lol. You guys have done so well and im proud of you!

  • @pumpkinmomma155
    @pumpkinmomma1554 жыл бұрын

    They're a really good looking couple

  • @elr1cbros

    @elr1cbros

    4 жыл бұрын

    They are definitely some beautiful humans

  • @hisoka4595

    @hisoka4595

    4 жыл бұрын

    Right? I'm jealous of both of them 😳

  • @corsaircaruso471

    @corsaircaruso471

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes, indeed.

  • @miqamarflor

    @miqamarflor

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, while I'm here being single.

  • @deepbluebada

    @deepbluebada

    3 жыл бұрын

    i can hear the bisexuals coming hehe

  • @ezka_T
    @ezka_T4 жыл бұрын

    “Are you being passive-aggressive with me?” “I don’t know what that word means. ... GOMENASAI."

  • @levy7096

    @levy7096

    3 жыл бұрын

    Really I like that sound ahhaha

  • @meadowlarkb.427
    @meadowlarkb.4273 жыл бұрын

    Kudos to you both. Showing patience towards another is caring!

  • @roisenguyen9350
    @roisenguyen93503 жыл бұрын

    I love the way she moves her hands when she speaks and he just calmly and intentionally listens to her. What a lovely couple!

  • @shalaulaw
    @shalaulaw7 жыл бұрын

    Jun: I don't know what that word means... Rachel: *death stare* Jun: *monotone* I'm sorry. This part made me laugh so much because he brought back the (seemingly not) genuine I'm sorry xD

  • @danseb6415

    @danseb6415

    7 жыл бұрын

    Laura my favorite part too lmao

  • @Chew1964

    @Chew1964

    7 жыл бұрын

    At least he recognizes the Death Stare.

  • @KuroiHato69

    @KuroiHato69

    7 жыл бұрын

    I fell out laughing at that as well! (^O^)

  • @snoopyslu

    @snoopyslu

    7 жыл бұрын

    Laura yes this cracked me up too!

  • @FancyHatching

    @FancyHatching

    7 жыл бұрын

    I laughed so hard I accidentally pushed over the folded laundry pile OTL

  • @Lokiiotta
    @Lokiiotta4 жыл бұрын

    The way he said “I’m sorry, I’ll get better.” in the moment...Sounded pretty sincere to me.

  • @yadiiLucille

    @yadiiLucille

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah! it sounded so cute and thoughtful of him

  • @melissadupre1422
    @melissadupre14223 жыл бұрын

    Omg Jun's last deadpan "I'm sorry" made me spit out my drink I laughed so hard 😂 I love these videos

  • @lubnaalrifaie5639
    @lubnaalrifaie56393 жыл бұрын

    WE WANT PART 2!!!

  • @meiii37
    @meiii376 жыл бұрын

    “ARE YOU BEING PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE TO ME?” “.... I don’t know what that means...” “...” **angry glare** “Gomenasai.” I’m laughing so hard-

  • @grapppilixiousilse7979

    @grapppilixiousilse7979

    5 жыл бұрын

    Meihua MZ same

  • @szaboagnes7448

    @szaboagnes7448

    5 жыл бұрын

    AHAHA SAME 😂😂

  • @TinyCloud90

    @TinyCloud90

    5 жыл бұрын

    best part so far 😂 they are funny

  • @ingakovalska1072

    @ingakovalska1072

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me too😂😂😂

  • @katiehoffman6022

    @katiehoffman6022

    5 жыл бұрын

    I laughed much harder than in was supposed to🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @nikinak8042
    @nikinak80426 жыл бұрын

    OMGGGGGGGGG, 6:05 had me rolling!!! Rachel: "Are you being passive-agressive with me?" *glare* Jun: "...I don't know what that word means..." Rachel: *intense glaring* Jun: "gomen nasai"

  • @sooyan5476

    @sooyan5476

    6 жыл бұрын

    I know XD I couldn't stop laughing at that point

  • @freedomsky1090

    @freedomsky1090

    6 жыл бұрын

    Niki Nak *laughing*

  • @ayeshahoque399

    @ayeshahoque399

    6 жыл бұрын

    Niki Nak i was deadddd

  • @emilysiemens4559

    @emilysiemens4559

    6 жыл бұрын

    I knew it had to come xD

  • @5up3rp3rs0n

    @5up3rp3rs0n

    6 жыл бұрын

    To be honest tho, what is passive aggressive in Japanese? Or in any other language? Translation is hard :(

  • @briezzy365
    @briezzy3653 жыл бұрын

    I expected Jun to pronounce “sorry” like a Canadian because he’s so nice! 🤣🤣

  • @songyi221
    @songyi2212 жыл бұрын

    I watched this me and my boyfriend are both Japanese but I’m Japanese Canadian and was raised by a western family and I thought we had major issues tell I watched this cause you guys fight about all the same stuff so I now understand for couple like us this is normal I got a good laugh out of this and some comfort thank you both 😂

  • @kamikze6622
    @kamikze66226 жыл бұрын

    less facial expression and tone = less yelling *or reversed*

  • @ecahbromo6295

    @ecahbromo6295

    6 жыл бұрын

    kamikze i know that feeling.

  • @trinityvp

    @trinityvp

    6 жыл бұрын

    kamikze armyyy

  • @mixedmaws2767

    @mixedmaws2767

    6 жыл бұрын

    My parents tho

  • @vivie5187

    @vivie5187

    6 жыл бұрын

    kamikze relate

  • @soberbri

    @soberbri

    6 жыл бұрын

    that pfp tho 😂

  • @jackandamy
    @jackandamy5 жыл бұрын

    Me(Korean)and my wife ( American) . We do have same issues!!! Haha I love your video! Thank you!

  • @shadowmod3

    @shadowmod3

    5 жыл бұрын

    as a Chinese i used to date a Canadian and an American. they would always say that i am expressionless when i am at the verge of giving up a limb. i gave up wondering why do they need to be so dramatic. somedays i wonder if i just exercise my freedom of speech and let everything out in utter disregard without any due consideration of the others around me would i fit in better. LOL

  • @iantumulak6723

    @iantumulak6723

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@shadowmod3 .... lol! I love your comment.

  • @muptezelkomedyen4316

    @muptezelkomedyen4316

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Five_tailed_fox Because show must go on.

  • @alyssarose3880

    @alyssarose3880

    5 жыл бұрын

    You have a beautiful family! God bless

  • @johnbaker517

    @johnbaker517

    5 жыл бұрын

    I am Canadian and my girlfriend is Korean. Idioms and expressions confuse, anger, or upset her, even if I am trying to be sincere. The "what's wrong with you" is the tip of my iceberg.

  • @mzizHatake
    @mzizHatake3 жыл бұрын

    I love how honest this video is. Most couples act like they are perfect and never fight. But these guys are so honest!

  • @ThePeytonLeigh
    @ThePeytonLeigh4 жыл бұрын

    “Are you being passive aggressive with me?” “I don’t know what that word means....... Gomen-nasai," Busted a gut laughing. Way to take it full circle.

  • @DinosaurNick
    @DinosaurNick4 жыл бұрын

    "Are you being passive-aggressive with me?" "...I don't know what that means." *Death stare* *Proceeds to apologize in Japanese.* I'm dead XD

  • @ThePerksdeLeSarcasmeSiorai

    @ThePerksdeLeSarcasmeSiorai

    3 жыл бұрын

    Passive-aggressive behavior is described as having hostility against someone but rather than confronting the person, you avoid openly expressing your negative feelings. And as a result, you keep doing subtle things that might annoy the other party greatly. For example: avoiding a person, giving sarcastic comments, pouting, backhanded compliments, insulting a person while smiling, refusal to do something without a solid reason, refusal to acknowledge any problems, etc.

  • @riishuro
    @riishuro4 жыл бұрын

    Jun: *speaks japanese* Rachel: arE YOU BEING PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE WITH ME??!1!?

  • @transplantman2287
    @transplantman22873 жыл бұрын

    How does Jun keep the serious face at the beginning without cracking up?? 😆

  • @transplantman2287

    @transplantman2287

    3 жыл бұрын

    One thing that’s interesting for me is that, as an autistic person, the “robotic” Japanese apology is much more natural to me even though I’m American. Having to be dramatic about my apologies and “show emotion” is performative and very fake for me. So if I say my piece, it’s the words that count, not how I say it. Because I literally don’t really know what my voice/face is doing or how it’s interpreted to neurotypical people, so I have to guess based on what I see them do. But it isn’t sincere.

  • @Kitty294_
    @Kitty294_3 жыл бұрын

    This was intriguing and wholesome

  • @LisMuler
    @LisMuler6 жыл бұрын

    As a Brazilian dating a Korean for almost 7 years, I can confirm "I don't know what that word means" is the sentence we say the most to each other.

  • @ohno5

    @ohno5

    6 жыл бұрын

    hwalism You’re not Brazilian

  • @lulusf721

    @lulusf721

    6 жыл бұрын

    ToxicCircuit well looking by some channels she subscribed...seems like she is o.O

  • @memes5434

    @memes5434

    6 жыл бұрын

    Bagabones Felis how do u know??? I look full on white but im 100 percent Mexican

  • @ohno5

    @ohno5

    6 жыл бұрын

    chelsey horta lies

  • @memes5434

    @memes5434

    6 жыл бұрын

    ToxicCircuit pinche mamón mis padres son de michoacan guey si aprecio estos youtubers pero acusando a una persona nunca sabes 😡

  • @Nezumi99
    @Nezumi995 жыл бұрын

    "Look at his hair,look.at his emo hair...that's japanese hair" lmao

  • @Vixen_Rose6404

    @Vixen_Rose6404

    5 жыл бұрын

    Especially Sasuke

  • @lugami

    @lugami

    5 жыл бұрын

    No thats anime hair

  • @CarpetHater

    @CarpetHater

    5 жыл бұрын

    He has the same hairstyle that 80% of anime characters have. (I thought we were talking about Jun)

  • @romanntaylor7648
    @romanntaylor76482 жыл бұрын

    I just found this video and am dying watching these two, the comedy level is off the chains!!!

  • @jcampbell100
    @jcampbell1002 жыл бұрын

    We have been married for over 50 years and we are both native English speakers and we have the exact same problems. You will be OK. Just focus on all the positive, which I am sure you do.

  • @nynaevealmeara7335
    @nynaevealmeara73355 жыл бұрын

    I think it's pretty hilarious when you look at the differences. Americans can feel uneasy when a lack of emotion is involved but the Japanese seem like they see that as well mannered.

  • @GoldLove21

    @GoldLove21

    5 жыл бұрын

    What i really want to see. A Japanese and Italian couple. Imagine that argument.😄

  • @annettebonteri3234

    @annettebonteri3234

    5 жыл бұрын

    Or a japanese man and a mexican woman...yikes 💀💀💀

  • @orangesoda2424

    @orangesoda2424

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@annettebonteri3234 😂

  • @kairi5792

    @kairi5792

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@annettebonteri3234 Oof, I'm like a mix of Mexican and White and I'm over here wanting a Japanese soulmate. Let's see how that goes in the future lol

  • @savvx2738

    @savvx2738

    5 жыл бұрын

    Cheopsticks Trash you can’t pick the race of a soulmate

  • @zzzzzzzzzz098
    @zzzzzzzzzz0986 жыл бұрын

    "He just cut in line" "Uh huh, yeah?" *Studies bottle*

  • @dietowo

    @dietowo

    6 жыл бұрын

    Eddie Roy *studying intensifies*

  • @coronavirusokboomer9537
    @coronavirusokboomer95374 жыл бұрын

    5:10 im Swedish and i always say "whats wrong with you" in a nice manner(well..I try to) but it always comes out rude to foreigners

  • @hyperplaguerat
    @hyperplaguerat3 жыл бұрын

    Jun's ごめんなさい is so funny! He says it with such a straight face and tone I can't tell if it's serious.

  • @wedsa95
    @wedsa955 жыл бұрын

    That's a great "what's wrong" and "what is wrong with you" comparison.

  • @tenettagriffin5644

    @tenettagriffin5644

    4 жыл бұрын

    'm American. I took it to mean ok honey tell me more about how you are feeling. Elaborate further so that maybe I can help you.

  • @tracys169

    @tracys169

    4 жыл бұрын

    This is so funny because I'm not a native English speaker so like Jun, I thought that's the correct way to say it (I even thought it's more polite/formal). Believe me, back then the English courses I took, didn't teach the subtle differences of those types of phrases. I learned that saying that would only make your partner even angrier LOL even though I really wanted to know what happened to him, if something bad happened :D

  • @S-Kara

    @S-Kara

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@tracys169 what's wrong with you is okay for any politeness. the biggest problem would be the tone, and since many people are using the phrase "what's wrong with you" to address someone of being annoying or stupid. now read it loud when it's capitalized... "what's wrong with YOU?" "WHAT'S wrong with you?" "what's WRONG with you?" "what's wrong WITH you?" if you know which one is the polite one, then you're good to go

  • @ashenone2630
    @ashenone26307 жыл бұрын

    I can see a meme of something bad happening and a zoomed in clip of Jun's face saying "I'm sorry" 😂

  • @ireneflamel9899

    @ireneflamel9899

    6 жыл бұрын

    DJMxmstr12 this needs to be a meme

  • @CHloE748

    @CHloE748

    6 жыл бұрын

    I've never wanted something to be a meme more than this

  • @ghoulishartist

    @ghoulishartist

    6 жыл бұрын

    I will probably end up doing that, and send it to one...Or all of my friends..

  • @raya733

    @raya733

    6 жыл бұрын

    Master Chief!

  • @jonhillman871
    @jonhillman8712 жыл бұрын

    the performances in the the little skits were amazing. you guys are good actors.

  • @edenduffley6871
    @edenduffley68713 жыл бұрын

    I watched this video years ago and came back to watch it a second time. It’s still funny! 😂

  • @MissEileenL
    @MissEileenL7 жыл бұрын

    its only been 17sec into the video and im already dying at Jun's: "Im sorry🤖" 😂😂

  • @MissEileenL

    @MissEileenL

    7 жыл бұрын

    I love you guys💕

  • @anandaditha4671

    @anandaditha4671

    7 жыл бұрын

    Eileen Lopes same 😂😂😂

  • @LayersOfJenn
    @LayersOfJenn7 жыл бұрын

    OMGGGGG I always want to call out people who cut in line !!!!!!!!! My fiancé (Japanese) always tells me not to say anything lol.... Although one time, he did and ... I HAVE NEVER BEEN SO PROUD 😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @aurevoir5857

    @aurevoir5857

    7 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ko-lq7vu

    @ko-lq7vu

    7 жыл бұрын

    それもおもしろいだ😂

  • @kananjarrus3689

    @kananjarrus3689

    6 жыл бұрын

    osharegilol

  • @drakke125Channel

    @drakke125Channel

    6 жыл бұрын

    I'm from the west and i hate people who cut in line in china, this happened at the world expo. gawd made me sick to the stomach (cuz its my motherland so to speak)

  • @kagome2420

    @kagome2420

    6 жыл бұрын

    Seriously? I went “EHHHHHH!” In the loudest voice ever and I make sure the entire store heard me. Mainly because I am tiny and look like a child. So everyone now know this huge dude just bullied and cut in front of a kid. Ultimate embarrassment.

  • @heidihol
    @heidihol3 жыл бұрын

    I get you so much, Rachel! 😅 I'm American married to a Czech and we have these same communication breakdowns. I guess it makes things interesting! 😁

  • @irofpap9303
    @irofpap93033 жыл бұрын

    Loteraly this is the best video ever. I have lost count of how many tomes i have watched it.