As soon as you said "that means hes not interested in you" my heart literally sank 😢

@amandah7239

7 жыл бұрын

Hana Ahmad same :(

@flamerlaka7422

7 жыл бұрын

same

@naomikinyanjui2728

7 жыл бұрын

Hana Ahmad omg mine too

@FlightNightVideos

7 жыл бұрын

Hana Ahmad yes me too

@x_xigga1436

7 жыл бұрын

Hana Ahmad Hey guys do i have a chance is because she Said it before But i havent talk to her only write to her and i dont fort balls to it But i dont know if i have a chance

This is so true. People WILL MAKE TIME AND MOVE THE HEAVENS THEMSELVES if you are the right person. Schedules and not being ready are a poor excuse and that person doesn’t care enough to be honest with you.

I have to disagree with this advice. It may be correct but not always. Sometimes not being ready for a relationship means that you are in fact interested in the person but you just want to get to know them a bit better before you agree to a relationship. When people have had previous relationships that didn't go so well in the past, it's only natural that they won't be quick to agree to a relationship and I'm speaking from personal experience. It's only fair to both parties that you both take the time to get to know each other before you agree to a relationship. And yes that usually includes sleeping with each other on a non-committed basis first.

@ESUTERURE

10 жыл бұрын

Best advice.

@johnmenanno2152

9 жыл бұрын

My heart just blew into a million pieces

@ESUTERURE

9 жыл бұрын

What?

@meghope8365

7 жыл бұрын

loogle Ok what you said it mad feel litter better thank you 👏

@sebastianosuna7157

6 жыл бұрын

loogle totally agree with you

I disagree right now I am not in the right place for a relationship and even if I met my dream guy I think that's what I would tell him. Sometimes people have issues in their life they need to deal with before they involve more people in their life intimately.

@Nairda1705

6 жыл бұрын

thanks for giving me hope!

@markmullins5822

6 жыл бұрын

Adrian He/She is not giving you hope they are just telling you how they THINK they feel

@Gamerdude1396

6 жыл бұрын

xxdeadgirlxx16 there is a girl I'm talking to she is the same way

@sometimesreviewsandthinkin5056

6 жыл бұрын

xxdeadgirlxx16 bs

@secretlyclever4062

5 жыл бұрын

That’s complete bs and I 5 years later I hope you realize that. If your dream guy came along I would bet my life savings on it that you would not pass him up. Everyone has issues in their life. Everyone has problems. When the right one comes along, you deal with them and figure out the relationship as you go. That’s how life is.

It's different for different people...some people know that when they love they love hard. Usually those kind of people end up being hurt the most. If you're tired of being hurt you're not going to jump into relationships after that. U could very well be interested and not ready. The guard is up and will stay up until they're ready... moral of the story is it doesn't always mean rejection. Sometimes it's for protection

alexis, just be her friend for now. If she starts dating someone else, that's a different story. She clearly likes you, but isn't ready for a relationship. And that's OK!

@TOMHICHIBAN

9 жыл бұрын

I've been talking to someone that is about 2 months out of a marriage where the other person cheated and told them they didn't love them when things got rough. They told me they like me a lot but can't start a relationship until they are happy with themselves. Should I bother trying to pursue this down the road or just let them go? We've only been talking about 3 weeks.

@jnb3030

8 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this it has truly open my eyes

@Enerystatic

7 жыл бұрын

Never be a womans friend if you have crush on her.. she is disrespecting you by keeping you hanging around..the time you hang around her you could try to find a better woman.

@mrhoody9620

7 жыл бұрын

Yo what does it mean if a girl rejects you but says your very sweet does she like you but is not interested in a relationship with you

@tonystewart123

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks! I asked this girl out before but she said I am not looking for a relationship AND SHE GOES AND DATES A SENIOR WHO IS AN ATHLETE! SHE LIED TO ME!

It's a way of letting you off easy. They don't want to be involved with you. If they loved you, they'd want to be in a relationship in a heartbeat!

Can I just say I loved this video ... It was a harsh reality watching it but thank you, it's happened to me quite a few times lately but as you said I'm not dumb enough to believe if you really like someone you wouldn't wanna be with them . Thank You x

This is a tricky situation. I agree with what Marie has to say for the most part. I have been on the losing end before and because I got so tired of chasing, I gave up on someone completely and started traveling and posting pics with all these girls on Facebook. What ended up happening is because I stopped pursuing her she had time to digest everything. She ended up practically begging me to get with her and I actually had to think about it before I said yes. Moral of the story, less is more. In the beginning of a relationship, try your best to not text or call someone too much. If there is a question that warrants a response then provide them with an answer and don't play games. However, try to lay back from meaningless conversation in between dates. We've all been there... we've all been on the chasing end. -Anonymous

this video was like 5years ago but thank you I hope you see this

Well...this is depressing there goes my hopes and dreams.

I really needed this, thank you!!

I have to watch these videos regular for strength : (

@ivanafox1279

4 жыл бұрын

Me too

@tooicysam7025

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

Thanks for the advice. I heard "im not ready for a relationship" from her. I know what not to do now. Thank you Marie.

This is pretty good advice, and I had already started backing off from someone I thought things were progressing with. We've been seeing eachother for about 1 month, and I thought this had potential, but then she gave the "I'm not ready for a relationship" line, and it really bummed me out. So, I pretty much am letting her contact me, I went on a trip this weekend by myself and didn't invite her, and it's funny how now she's contacting me all the time and inviting me over her place. It's a strange situation to be in because I really like her and want something more, but I have to consciously stay backed off. I'm not sure how long I can keep this up honestly, haha. I sort of wear my heart on my sleeve, so it's tough being aloof around her.

Thank you so much for this. I got those words just today on our first date. I feel miserable and pretty much worthless at this point. But your video helped a little

It doesn't apply to the majority of guys but it does apply to emotional guys like me who take rejection very personally, thank you for this video.

Dang, "she is not whe she thinks she is in your eyes", that hits 💯

Thx you so much for your advices this is one of the best videos I have watch thx you very much

Wow thank you so much for this Dean :)

I Giggly, it worries me that he wants to find someone else more "compatible." What he is really saying is that he will date you until he find someone better. That is inexcusable. You are a great catch and he should feel lucky he is with you. That is what the man of your dreams will feel like. Not sure if he is it, unless he changes his tune very quickly.

@Lavanyachawla55

7 жыл бұрын

Marie Dubuque hey can I talk to you

You really helped, thanks!

Thank you very much. I really needed to hear this.

Hey Marie, I got a question for! Recently I've started going out with this girl, but we are not "official". However she once was in a non-official relationship a few months back before she met me and she did end up making out with someone else, but the guy she "made out with" was trying to force his tongue down her throat so she was really not suppose to kiss her. Would you consider that as cheating and would you trust her? The reason why I'm asking is because I don't want to be cheated on again (has happened twice in my life with two different girls), she says that she really likes me a lot and wants things to work between the two of us (not that I got mad at her when she told me this). Thanks for reading and hopefully you may be able to respond back again (video or text, doesn't matter).

@mariedubuque

10 жыл бұрын

Movie, she is a cheater. And I truly think that is a hard pattern to break, no matter who she is with. Be very, very careful. And no, I wouldn't trust her at all.

Thank you soooo much,very good advice! Will heed it

Hey Marie! I was the one who wanted you to make this video two years ago after I basically got rejected after going on a date and he told me "he wasn't ready for a relationship" we were co workers and still are funny thing is two years later we started talking and then began dating, it's almost been a year now for us and we always laugh about the time he told me that and he told me he was in a weird place in his life at that point and just didn't think about dating. I just think it's funny how things work out because things just happened and never thought it would go like it did but I'm so glad because he's such a great guy! Two years later and I still thank you for this video.

@mariedubuque

7 жыл бұрын

Cajox, you have really grown in the past two years, I can tell.

I was dating my boyfriend for 3 years and he just broke up with me on Sunday saying he wasn't ready. It hurt me so bad

@vop4813

2 жыл бұрын

3 years is pretty long time to realize that. But how are you doing now when other three years has passed?

@HiroKitty

2 жыл бұрын

@@vop4813 to conclude, I'm still struggling mentally to love myself and learn how to make friends again(which has been difficult because of covid and my first year of college being online in 2020). Overall, my mental health has been so much better without him in my life. I hate that i have days where i miss him and being able to talk to him, but i think it's ok to have those days considering we grew up together.

Thank you so much Marie! its hard but i needed this!

amazing, thanks for your message to us.

Wow you're a genius. Thank you for this video . Made my day !

Thanks Marie! This video really helped me

I love you !thannks for the videos you do its a huge help thanx keep i it up ; )

Thank you for the help.

So I ask out my crush and then she says yes, after 2 days she says that she's not ready to date because she just got out of a relationship. She then says she wants to wait a couple months. I'm confused

wow, that is a brilliant advice mam. thank you so much

HI Marie, thanks for all the advice you have given me it was thoughtful and wise. I have a question, what can I do to stop feeling heartbroken when my girlfriend goes away. When she is around me I feel so happy, but soon she goes back to her place and I just get depressed. We are planning to move in with one another soon, I just feel sad cause I only get to see her ( with our work days so different) maybe twice a week. She knows this and seems fine...maybe I'm not strong enough or Maybe I'm too depended on her company? I don't know... Thanks in advance.

@mariedubuque

10 жыл бұрын

Isaac, you are too dependent on her. You need to have your own life as well. I understand you want to be with her all the time, and that's great. But you should also develop your own interests apart from her. And don't live together! Wait until you are engaged. But don't propose yet either. You need to be single for a while and living on your own, and prove your own independence.

Thanks for the upload. I just received the following text: "I don't wanna loose you and I wish that I felt ready for something more but at the moment I'm not and that's nothing personal to you, be it with you or anyone but I honestly couldn't think of a nicer man to be with". What do you make of this, Marie? Thank you.

Im basically in love with and he's like I'm not ready for a relationship right now but I have feelings for u I'm like wtf yea I'm cutting my ties as much as it hurts:(

Yo you really helped me a lot thanks 😊

Oh my gosh! Why can't you be my mom! This is the best advice ever! Thank you so much!

Thank you helped me so much

I have a question to ask Marie. I met her a couple of days ago and we began talking and texting pretty late at night and after I brought up the subject of hanging out she said of course and this is coming over to my place and watching a movie. She also said she wanted to see a scary movie. Then today she told me that her parents don't know me and they don't feel comfortable with her going. I said to her that I could get know them. But she responded that she doesn't want to be in a relationship right now. I mean it's obvious she's interested in me but I know what it means when she said that. Would this be a different interpretation?

It’s actually bad when your crush is you’re coworker.

I am watching all your videos right now and I am really happy to have found them. I was listening to what you were saying here and I have a question. I met a person and we are in a long distance "thing" - because I can't call it relationship (because she said we can't call it like this). I really care about the person, but i noticed that she doesn't care so much (I mean - the person is there, but not so much with cute-nice-lovers-messages or talks) - so I took some time off from messaging her and checking her facebook and all that. I am feeling like: "okay - if you are not interested in me and you don't want to have more than just a "thing" with me - well - I guess you don't like me that much, but you don't want to say it directly". Do you think I do the right thing with this?

@mariedubuque

10 жыл бұрын

alex, I would let this go completely. She only wants to be friends and you can do so much better. And long distance doesn't really work anyway, even if both people are committed. Honestly, she is doing you a favor. This won't work.

By the way your videos are great...very real and practical.

Best advice ever. Found myself in the exact situation! Lol. Thank you

Hi Marie, I went to look for exactly this kind of videos, for these words, and I want to thank you because I'm in a situation that is practically the kind you're picturing, and your speech is helping me, a lot, I'm processing this whole thing and being confused I really could use these wise words. Thank you again!

Hi Marie. Thanks for helping with this video. I've been hanging out with this girl who has never been in a relationship all her life for 2 months. She's great company and she's joining the military tomorrow. She told me she feels really comfortable around me but she's not ready for a relationship right now. She said she'd like to remain friends for now and if time permits she would like to go out with me again. After that she hasn't been receptive to my texts. What should I do??? Should I believe that she's not ready or should I tell myself she's not interested and move on???

@mariedubuque

8 жыл бұрын

Tong Shen Yong, I would stay in touch and remain friends, but don't read too much into this. She may or may not want to pursue a relationship with you down the road, so treat her as such. She is a friend and you aren't expecting anything else.

marie, you said to let her think u r not interested in here atm for a while.What do u mean with while? 1 month?

Hey Marie, great video, a quick question, I've liked a girl for about 4 months, we've not proposed to each other yet, but we've kissed, she's madly in love with me now, but I'm confused and feel that I really like her but, its hard to say if I love her and I need some time to accept things(if I ever feel the same way like she does for me) and get serious. What do you think is the nest thing for me to do at the moment? TIA. peace :)

I went on 4 dates with this girl, she was in a relationship for 5 years which she got out of almost a year ago. We would text throughout the day and tell each other how much we liked each other. She had made me meet her family on our first date and ever since then she always told me how much her family loved me. I told her I had a dream asking her father for approval to date her, and she said you definitely have his approval. She was totally into me. One day about a week ago I called her because she didn't message me for a whole day. I asked if she was losing interest, and she said I had nothing to worry about, that she's just busy with school work and her job, and she asked me if I was available to go out on a date within a couple of days. The morning of the day we were supposed to go out, she called me and said that she really likes me but that she isn't ready for a relationship. Any advice?

Thanks a lot for this video

So I've been trying to patch things up with my ex and he says he still loves me and cares for me, we hang out some times and its great we kiss and flirt a lot, but when I ask if we can be official he says he's just not ready emotionally, I need help because I love him with all of my heart and idk what to do.

Thank you so much! This video really helped me out. It was pretty harsh seeing the reality but I guess their are better people out there for me and I shouldn't wait or try for one guy who is making an excuse, no guy with worth the wait!!! Thanks again

awesome advice marie!

Hi Marie, thank you for the reply. If you said to wait for her i'll follow your advice. But can you tell me like how many days, weeks or months should i wait? This is the 13th day of not texting or communicating with her. I go for more details i ask a friend to add her on facebook. My friend tried to convince her to give me more chance but she keeps saying that "SHE TRIED but will not work cos she don't like me" I've been seenzone by her too before she blocked me (To be honest she only unfriended me but i dare her to block me if she don't want a communication between us then suddenly just a min or something she blocked me ) the thing is when my friend chatting with her she is replying but why not on me? Btw i consulted 2 girls (my sister and a friend) They said she just want a PAST TIME that why she agreed to make out with me. Should i consider what they said too? Your advice will be a great help!

There was this girl at work who I could tell liked me. Ive caught her staring at me on a couple occasions then she blushes and looks down at the ground. She finds ways to be with me and whenever I talk to other girls she always appears and tries to be the center of attention. She purposely bumps in to me in a flirty way and she asks me personal questions like what my favourite films are. So she OBVIOUSLY likes me basically. I told her that I really liked her but she says she doesnt want to get into anything with ANYONE and that she doesnt want a relationship at this stage of her life. I am SO confused and need some advice. I aslo have been in love with this girl since the day I first met her which is what makes this VERY painful.

This is bang on correct

Thanks I needed this

Holy crap. I don't usually go in for hyperbole, but this was the smartest thing I've ever been told about this situation and I wish I'd heard it years ago the first time it happened to me. You have saved my stupid little heart, and at the very least you saved me a few months of heartache. (I mean, yeah, it's still going to hurt, but not hearing this would have made it so much worse.) Thank you.

@mariedubuque

9 жыл бұрын

Guillaume de Machaut so glad I could help. You made my day!

A girl that I liked for a year is recently single, I asked her out but she told me that she would go out but nothing serious. should I continue to make conversation with her or let her initiate the conversation for now on.

Hi Marie, Need some advice. I been talking to this girl for 3 months(we're both in our mid 20's) and everything was good. We would go out, she would bring me food, go out her way to come and visit me, we would talk everyday, and set future dates. Seemed like we were in a relationship and like she was interested in me. But I brought the conversation of what we are and she responded "I'm not looking for a relationship." Later she texted me saying she was sorry for leading me on we can be friends but I understand if you don't want to. I haven't replied. My question is should I reply or leave it as is? Thank you in advance.

@mariedubuque

9 жыл бұрын

Alex Pulex as long as she is not seeing someone else, you are in a relationship. She just doesn't want to admit it. Afraid of getting hurt maybe. As long as things are going well, I wouldn't push it. Now, if a year from now, she still refuses to admit that you are her boyfriend, then rethink the relationship, but not now.

100% agreed, love your videos

So this is on the 3rd day of 7th grade and there is this girl that I really like and so I asked her out she had said sure. The next evening she come up to me ands says "I'm not ready for a relationship". What does this mean, how can I win her back, what do I do. -thanks

I need some advice. I asked this girl out not too long ago. She said she wasn't ready for a relationship. We dated for a short time in 8th grade and we are both juniors in high school now. I broke up with her after a week because as a young kid I was shy and the relationship was just awkward. I've liked this girl a lot and have since 8th grade. I know now that she likes long relationships. I want her to know that was 3 years ago and that I can give her that long relationship but idk if I should tell her that because I'm afraid of annoying her. What should I do?

what if her reason for not being ready for a relationship is because she can't understand/handle herself or she just want to find herself..,should I wait for her?

Thanks, needed that.

we are 3 years best friend i love him but he dont but we behave as a bf and gf but if someone tells him about me to as a gf he dont like it ... so i tried to stop talking to him and move on but again he came back and we spoke and he know i can do anything for him and i know he can do anything for her ....... so what to do now ??????

Really liked this video. Do you respond to questions Marie?

@mariedubuque

10 жыл бұрын

Steve, yes, go ahead and ask right here. I will do my best to help.

Hi Marie...I dated this guy for couple of months. All of the sudden he told me 'he has issues, it's not me...it's you, I'm not ready for a relationship' and all that "excuses" you just talked about in your video. BUT he wants me to be his friend and don't want to lose me and "want me in his life for good". I accept, BUT (again) I found out he's having some kind of relationship (Whatsapp/texting--apparently lives in some other country) with someone he recently met (for two months now). I backed off and he has kept calling and texting me. Should I answer? should I keep talking to him and still be his friend?

@mariedubuque

9 жыл бұрын

Agnes Collazo don't have anything to do with him! He wants what he can't have. And as soon as you start communicating with him, he will go back to the other woman. You can do much better than this loser!

I just got the answer that I was looking for. Thank you for helping me.

Hey Marie, this video helped me to see things clearly. I hate to say how heartbroken I was by her answer "I'm not ready for relationship", but some things are beyond control. So, I told my crush how I felt and she told me she wasn't ready because she hasn't gotten over her previous relationship and was afraid of being hurt the same way. She doesn't want to lose me as a friend either. However I was puzzled when she said I may still have a go to chase her in future but just not now because she isn't ready. I clarified with her if she would give me the chance to date her in future and assured her to give her some space at the moment. She said yes and wanted to see how things proceed. Do you have any more advise for me how to handle the situation please? I'd like to know if I still stand a chance. Thanks..

@mariedubuque

9 жыл бұрын

Dog & Fish Productions don't hold out any hope that she will go out with you in the future. She is just being nice. You can do much better. You want to be with someone who is ecstatic that they are with you, not someone like that.

So should you continue communication if after he tells you he not sure if he wants to be in a relationship ? I'm unsure if I communicate he feels I'm ok with this or if I respond I'm desperate

Hey Marie so there's this guy and he is a good friend of mine and a couple of days ago I told him how I felt about him. At first he hugged me and told me that I'm sweet, and I thought that this was a good sign that he wants to date me, he even said that he was glad that I told him, but I was wrong. He told me that he is not ready for a relationship and he started mentioning his ex, who he was dating for 10 months (she dumped him). I asked him if he did eventually want a relationship that if me and him would get together, and he tried to change the subject. He even thanked me for understanding that he does not want a relationship right now. My friend who is also really close to the guy told me that he finds me attractive, but he even told her that he does not want a relationship. In this case does this mean that he really does not want a relationship right now, or that he is not interested?

Hi I've been talking to this girl and we hangout and sit together and stuff but then she said she is not into dating right now should I back off or take it slow?? But she also said to my friend that if I asked her out she would probably say yes

@user-bs6us6fd9r

7 жыл бұрын

I'm in a similar position myself, I think it's best we take it slower, in my situation it appears that the girl is slightly overwhelmed by how fast we're moving, not sure if it's the same for you too though.

I'm in junior high, and I asked out a girl and she said "... I'm not ready for a relationship, I just want to be friends..." what does that mean?

What happens if you spoke to her 4 years ago and then we started talking again and realise the connection is still there...and then she tells me she's not ready for a relationship but likes me but then she messages me first without me messaging her first?

So this guy I like says he likes me back, but then he says he isn't ready for a relationship because he hasn't ever been in a relationship, so what do I do?

@mariedubuque

9 жыл бұрын

camiicam8790 keep talking to him and be patient. Don't force the issue. It will only push him away.

Hi coach My girlfriend broke up woth me over 2,5 months ago,she was insecure and lately we had lots of argument. But deep down we were in love. We been together for 3,5 years and shared same appartment for 3 years. And this is our worse break up. She told me she still loves me but not trust me anymore. So since then we been in concatc. She responds my texts we meet for coffe and drink sometimes but thats about it. She says she want to be friend for now and may be in the future something else. I been begging and pleading in the beggining but right now i am more capable to control my emotion. My longest NC was for 14 days. So my question whats your suggestion. Should i go to long no contact period? Or is it too late for that? Ps i told her i dont want to be her friend. I said we can start thing slowly from scratch Thank you for your help

Hi there, look I have a question. I had a date with this girl. We had the most amazing time, she said she cares about me, she said she likes me but she also says she is not ready, that she wants to go to many places with me before actually try something. What do you think about my situation? Am I losing my time? Should I keep trying?

Hi Marie, I met this girl and at first she was really interested and we texted/snapchat alot. when i asked her out she said she got out of a serious relationship a couple months ago, i was taken aback by this but we still messaged just the same , then for about a week and a half, nothing at all then, several days ago, the messaging from her started again. It's hard for me to meet people, whether in person or through tinder etc, so im not sure how to proceed with this. a friend of mine says that i should just try to remain friends, ( as i dont have all that many female friends) but im at a bit of a loss

@mariedubuque

9 жыл бұрын

Nicholas Heath I agree with your friend. It's good to have a female friend, but she does seem a little fickle. Still, treat her like a buddy and nothing more.And if she stops communicating with you, I wouldn't message her back until she contacts you.

I'm actually confused as to why so many people think these so called "rules" apply to every situation in dating. I dated a girl for a year who said she didn't like me and wasn't ready for a relationship with me.

Hey Marie, your opinions are truly wonderful and relatable. I've known this girl for about 6 months, we've been hanging out a lot, and I always felt she liked me, and we get along very well. I liked her from the beginning. She's a very shy, introverted girl and I always treated her with dignity. She and I both seemed to be the long-term types. So after about 12-15 'unofficial dates' I finally told her I like her, to which I got the 'not ready for anyone' answer, and left it open-ended by saying she'll let me know when she 'figures out herself'. She said she values me greatly, and feels comfortable opening up about herself, which is very difficult for someone like her. Do I have a chance at all?

@BDAPink

2 жыл бұрын

Focus more doing living your life. Enjoy the world around you. Invite her to come along with you occasionally. Break the touch barrier

Hi Marie:) thanx always for your great videos. I'm just really confused because of this guy. We live far away, about 14 hours flight:( we met up while he was back for his hometown and spent lot of time together. He told me that he likes me and he will miss me a lot. Apparently after 5 months, I'm going to be at where he is right now due to my work but that still means I can't see him for 5 months. He promised he would text me everyday but even if he doesn't, I don't think I have the right to be mad because we're not exactly dating. This makes me very sad..Do you think he really likes me?

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10 жыл бұрын

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Hello Marie I need your advice. I have a crush on this super shy conservative catholic girl at school. I asked her out to prom (without really knowing her) and she started blushing she replied 'can I consider this for a moment' she thought about it for a long time and said, 'I just want to go with my friends but thanks anyway'. This was six months ago. Now I noticed that when she sees me she avoids eye contact almost at all costs, but when I look away or pretend to read a book or pay attention to something else I know she's looking at me from the corner of my eye. This is really confusing me. Last week she went into the lunch room and walked in front of where I was eating, her face was tilted in another direction and she brushed her hair to her ears, and looked at me from the corner of her eye and walked away like nothing happened, It's really difficult to get to know her because she's really shy with boys, she only talks to her close friends who are all female. She's not part of the cool kids and she doesn't go on social media or go on her phone. I'm not sure whether she wants a relationship or even if she likes me. I don't know what to do. I've never had a girlfriend and she has never had a boyfriend. I have a feeling she doesn't want a relationship for now because she wants to get a good education and she seems really happy with her friends. Prom is coming again this year I don't know whether to try again or just leave it. I don't know how to approach her or even speak to her I feel really intimidated by her group of all females. Any advice?

@mariedubuque

9 жыл бұрын

KlassProductions I think she is just shy in general. I would keep trying to talk to her. The more comfortable she feels around you, the more she will open up.

@klassproductions2130

9 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot, it will really help me :)

im having trouble...so the girl and i like eachother, she just wont give me the emotional side because she said shes not ready for a relationship yet and says im too nice. SHe says I have everything else from her except the emtional side of things. What can I do to change this and to become official? shes asking me to give her until after summer so she can enjoy herself and love herself instead of giving her everything to another person for once. she is fresh out of a 1.5 yr relationship before we starting seeing eachother. She says everything I do is perfect and I could be the best bf ever but right now doesnt have an answer.

Great Advice Marie

I've been trying to get a girl but when I asked her out she said that she wasn't ready and she might think of it after our exams r over and now I don't know whether to wait or leave her alone. What do I do?

Thank you for this video I’m going through this exact same issue

I have a question so my crush told me that he likes me but he's not ready to date ? Can you explain what he means

@mmmr856

5 жыл бұрын

Alexi Herta Mine said the same thing, that she sees me as potential partner, but is just “too busy for a relationship right now”

Hi Marie I got a question that I confessed to the girl I like twice, at the first time, she was like avoiding to give me a actual answer for that, after that we were like forgot about that and kept chatting as usual happily. After few months, I found that I can't stand for that kind of situation anymore so I asked for the second time, and her ans was "I don't know how to answer you. I'm just right in between yes and nah, neutral, but I'm not ready for now." I think when somebody after they rejected the person that confess to them, they would just ran away n not talk to them anymore, but she don't, we still texting day and night like usual. I really like her, what should I do? Can you give me some advises? TQ

@1983shawty

5 жыл бұрын

Yewyang Yoong what happened in the end??

What if your ex said they don't want to be in a relationship right now

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@mariedubuque

10 жыл бұрын

***** I know how much this hurts, but at least you found out now rather than later. You have to move on from him! Don't wait around. If he changes his mind...great. But then it will be too late, because you will have found someone better. Get out there. Don't sit home alone. Call up some friends and go exercise. Follow healthy pursuits and force yourself to get past this.

@spearmint4093

10 жыл бұрын

Marie Dubuque Thank you for your advise Marie. I appreciate it and I will follow it.

I was on a deeply committed relationship with this girl, but she would always dump me, or be kind of mean to me, while I was always trying my best to be the best possible man that I could offer to her, literally supporting her every step of the way on anything she wanted I was there to have her back and hold her if she fell.. recently she broke off with me again in a very cold manner saying she was not ready for a relationship, but that it hurt her because she loved me. but that she had dreams and things she wanted to experience. I will be honest here because that really broke me. I'm doing what I can to stay strong and not call her, because she really has no tact regarding my feelins.

I don't know but the girl I like best friend told me she thinks she not ready for a relationship. Should I jus leave at that or what else

I recently told a girl I liked her and she said she doesn't want to be in a relationship but things change what should I do

Hey, I have a question. This girl just got out of a relationship last week and she already told me she liked me while she was dating the dude. And when i talk to her about relationships she says I'm done with them. She always got played in almost all her relationships. Should I give her time or just find someone else?

@mariedubuque

9 жыл бұрын

Megamanchamp1 give her a little time, maybe a month or two..and if she is still wishy washy, then I would move on.

Very nice !

I don't hope ever she would be coming back, even for a text.

what I was trying to find out if you're not saying anything I need to know what I'm trying to find out is if a man stated he's not ready for a relationship but he doesn't want to date anyone else is what I want to know what does that mean then they use an excuse stating they want to get to know you better to know you inside and out before they start a relationship what does that mean