First sign of any trouble in a bar I am out of there .

@STEADY599

5 ай бұрын

Don't blame you

@ekko6757

5 ай бұрын

Yea I've run into my fair share of trouble makers in bars in pattaya looking for a bust up. I always move on just because I don't want to end up in a thai prison lol. Only people who scare me in Thailand are the cops

@RetireandGo

5 ай бұрын

Yep me too I see it, I start paying and walking out The yelling The finger pointing When Thai ladies start yelling it’s not going to end well

@RetireandGo

5 ай бұрын

@@ekko6757I agree! You don’t see them , but when you do … not good ! I’m up and out of there

@peterandben1

5 ай бұрын

In Thailand you leave at express pace as the expat will be at fault and local authorities are unlikely to be sympathetic. Plus omeone could be waiting for you oustide where life is cheap

You don't lose your girl you just lose your turn. Can't get too attached to a bar lady.

@addamr2052

5 ай бұрын

@ tommym1966, some of these idiot as hell farangs lose grip on reality .could very well be the excessive ammount cheap Charlie happy hour Charng warm beer swirling sessions .

@smrriles5668

5 ай бұрын

If I had a penny for every time I've heard that...

hi Eddy, that's the problem with staying anywhere in Thailand for a while, it's very easy to get involved in relationships, especially if you're a guy who is not familiar with Asians mentally regarding money.. If your looking for love.... buy a dog.. cheers 🍻

@philliproberts7294

5 ай бұрын

Buy a dog isn't that the sad very sad truth the older I get the More accurate that is as for this situation the guy is totally out of order and should know the real world at his age what most falungs don't realize is a nasty Thai can make a falung disappear for not a lot of baht the Thai Mafia is all over Pattaya you just don't see them but trust me they are a phone call away and if you see a Thai man drinking at a bar on his own or with another Thai man run Forrest run😮

The ladies job,no emotion just money get over it..

This is Pattaya ! Happens every minute of every day and every bar ! 😃

@keekwai2

5 ай бұрын

Bullshit. What an exaggerating drama queen. LOL

You can take the girl out of the bar but you can't take the bar out of the girl

What a load of rubbish! This happens every hour in Thailand. A storm in a teapot.

Extremely hard to believe that there are people that age in the world that still don't understand the game going on in the bars of Thailand. *SMDH*

If he wants loyalty in Thailand buy a doll or a dog..

There's dozens of men on each flight leaving Thailand that truly believe the lady they left behind at the departure gate at Suvarnabhumi will love them long time and stay absolutely faithful to them. First rule in Thailand. Know the game, play the game and don't fall into the trap.

Arrive with zero expectations then you never get disappointed. Personally I'd never kick off in my own country never mind someone elses.

Best bargirl tee shirt i saw was my boyfriend go home today so im free tonight 😎

@stephenboyes5189

5 ай бұрын

I saw one in Thailand it had a big arrow pointing downwards say heaven is this way 😂

@peterandben1

5 ай бұрын

thats perfect that sums up girrls from isaan in pattaya perfectly. He is already forgotten before he reaches the airport. Next my legs are now open for donations to my families bank account

simple facts eddy is hes been had over ,if hes been wit h her 5 months ,and she has propably milked him in that time ,same old same old with bargirls ,once on the plane home theres always the next mug,to be milked ,after all its thailand, see it all the time

Men, Women and booze mix them together and chaos ensues

The guy obviously wasn't going to sponsor the girl after returning to his home. At the age of 50, a man should know the score.

@terenceclark6858

5 ай бұрын

Exactly...

@peterandben1

5 ай бұрын

100% agree the girl was looking for a benefactor the lease is over She is only in it for the money generally so when stops and guy leaves Thailand she moves into another guys bed and you cannot be salty about i. If you want to keep the girl you have to pay whether you are in thailand or not. If you have no dosh then she goes screwing someone else. The massive risk is when you not in thailand you have zero clue what she is doing you could be one of five customers whose bank accounts she is draining at the same time Know a girl from isaan who introduced her husband as her brother whenever the expat sponsor was in the village. So when the expat not in thailand thai husband and wife together and when expat in thailand husband would stay with other family members went on for a long time.

Unfortunately Pattaya does have a tenancy to attract idiots. Great story though Ed, safe and happy travels! 😁

@addamr2052

5 ай бұрын

@ scottg3456, on the exception of a few that check their brains in at the airport only to pick them up on the way out six months later if they're still alive or not busted a$$ broke .

@scottg3456

5 ай бұрын

@@addamr2052 Indeed! Needless to say Pattaya can chew you up and spit you out if you're not careful 😃

@232beachroad

5 ай бұрын

I think she was playing the old make him jealous routine, because why didn't she wait until he went home before flirting with the punters, flirting in front of him while he is still in the bar its obvious, of course this is a dangerous game and things can get out of control

@scottg3456

5 ай бұрын

@@232beachroad yeah, she was probably trying to cause waves!

It sounds like the European guy was a bit naive and felt like he was having a relationship with the Thai girl...if only in his own head! It could've ended a lot worse, the Thai girl 'implicated' your friend in this drama which could've had unfortunate repercussions for him despite him being an innocent bi-product of the whole scenario! All in all, a 'tough lesson in life' for the European guy, he should've read ''Five Go To Pattaya'' before heading there! 🤣

@victoriapenny5607

5 ай бұрын

No the European guy explained to the guys at the bar "It's OK fellas nothing against you, it's just me & the girl!" Eddy exaggerated for max effect...the other guy at the bar Welsh Webby already told the story.

Where theres a circus, theres always a clown!

I have a Thai wife who lives with me in the Uk.I have visited LOS on many occasions and if I see any trouble in a bar ,I drink up and pay and move on…..this guy was making some serious problems for himself…

Do not confuse Pattaya with the rest of Thailand..it is a tourist place ,full off bars etc..Rural Thailand is totally different.

If i could afford to retire it certainly wouldn’t be in Pattaya.

@properjob79

5 ай бұрын

i often think about it as i'm 10 years away,i would certainly have to change the way i behave and who i would associate with.

@wanderer299a

5 ай бұрын

​@@properjob79have a look at the Philippines. Not Angeles or subic, one of the islands. Lovely people

This would be a regular event all through Thailand. Blokes need to understand that you don't have rights to a lady just because you give her money. Or because you have known her for 5 mths. It is what it is over there. Great story Eddy. A Common one at best.

You summed the whole situation up best Eddie by stating the obvious that She's trying to make a living & that for these girls that is always the bottom line which is understandable. Seems that the real issue was the guy not seeing the reality of it all or being blinded by his infatuation. Either way he was bang out of order.

She's done that to get shot of him. Otherwise, why lose a potential repeat customer, especially if it's been a five month gigg.

@properjob79

5 ай бұрын

who knows,she got the last drop out of him and probably found out he spent "her" money on a short time or two during those 5 months

To me this is a petty issue and the guy was obviously very upset. Probably it was more of a threat to send the photos to her mother than an actual deed.

He thought she was different ( the one ) until a two week millionaire walked into her life and lit up her eyes with delight 🤣

The male Hilda ogden has spoken 😂😂

Basically Eddie, been 85+ times and all I can say is that guy was very, very lucky the lady didn’t call her REAL boyfriend, husband, or scooter Taxi mates…..if she had, he would be in a very painful and sore place right now….

@roosterbooster3265

5 ай бұрын

... as so often happens in Thailand.

That's why I made the decision to play the field. Life is too damn short for drama.

Having been to Pattaya over 30 times this last 30 years or so..... And several visits to Phuket. You just need to remember something that someone told me years ago.... You don't lose your woman in Pattaya, you just lose your turn......!! 😁

@peterandben1

5 ай бұрын

plus lose your life savings home and pension if you fall into the trap

Ha! Ha! Webby relayed the same story Sunday Live Stream! I see this type of behavior all the time in Pattaya as Thai Talk w' Dan shows making a living with the gossip. Better move on Eddy plenty to do around Thailand

Short time is the answer eddy😂

“These things happen! These things happen! “ 😂👍👏🏻

Same old shit, just a different day.

Get out of Pattaya Steady while you still have a chance!

These gullible fools falling in love with bar girls blow my mind 🤣🤣

I cannot believe that this occurred in pattaya the most honest city in the world 😢

I just wanted to know how he got the mother's number to send the photos There more to this.😅

He's looking for love in all the wrong places 😂

There's always at least 3 sides to every story. Be careful out there and be lucky.

Ridiculous both of them really. Best to avoid people like him and her

I imagine the Thai woman had milked him for every penny he had, then was moving on to the next John. Probably told him that she loves him bla bla bla. You know how it guys. The guy fell in love with her ( never fall for a bar girl ) then found out she was just using him all along. Understandable he was pissed off with her. He was naive, a lesson to all newbs

It's a learning curve isn't it ... Don't get too attached Don't expect too much Understand the nature of their work.

I think the world is a bit of a struggle for people like him, because those kinds of people keep ending up in stupid situations because of their own "personality"

Just another day in paradise.

Love the story Ed. As Robert De Niro said in HEAT ...DO NOT ALLOW YOURSELF TO GET ATTACHED TO ANYTHING THAT YOU ARE NOR PREPARED TO WALK OUT IN 30 SECONDS IF YOU SPOT THE HEAT AROUND THE CORNER...

@alisiddiqi6659

5 ай бұрын

In many instances they will walk out on you long before you decide to walk out on them

@timwalker2458

5 ай бұрын

You can use these " " rather than capital letters 😊

Eddie was the guy's name PAUL HOSKIN 🤯🤣

On reflection Ed, as a Scouser who knows the score ,this guy was lucky to get away in one piece .I have seen things turn very nasty in LOS and whether the culprits are Brits, Russians ,Indians or whatever….the Thais will always come out on top..one call to this lady’s friends and he would have finished up in hospital at best …let common sense prevail

he was on his way home shortly his value was running down with the clock

It happens again and again to lots of lonely punters. It's unfortunate that it happens. Guy mets girl thinks he has her the entire time unfortunately guys do it too. She in a bar to make money not relationship. Great video 😊

Don't get attached, be realistic, be nice and have fun. And this goes for any age, but particularly if you're 50+. I'm 57, come on, you know the score.

As we speak, the Thai mother is now sending the 'intimate pics' to the guy's employer and all his relatives back in Europe. The gloves are off..... and a lot more besides.

@properjob79

5 ай бұрын

that's brilliant tbf

She’s not yours it’s just your turn 🙏🏼

Basically, her customer was going home...she doesn't care because she was working and has no real feelings for him. The guy is mad because he fell in love with a girl he was paying to like him.

"Revenge Imagery" is illegal in most Western countries.

H Eddy, things like this have happened a lot to me over the past 25 years in Thailand. Jealous Farangs losing it in the bar making a big mess. I have to admit it is a horrible feeling when your vacation time is up maybe even after a couple of months and you have to leave behind the one and only girl ( ;-) ) that you're in love with while she's already securing her future income ...... this is Thailand

I feel sorry for you friend next to you caught in the middle! You’re looking well Eddie. Thanks for sharing!

@STEADY599

5 ай бұрын

He thought it was funny. Good to hear from you.

They’re called ‘working girls’ for a reason. These women in bars are always working and it’s always going to be transactional - if think it’s something more, you are mistaken. Bedroom fun, OK. Something more, not going to happen. Search for a potential partner elsewhere - a woman with a proper job who is educated and can pay her own way is a much better prospect.

A brass is a brass . Wether your picking the girl of the street in Manchester or a high end club . Its just a brass

@elterrifico9522

5 ай бұрын

I hear Manchester girls are the best in the world

@porkpie8667

5 ай бұрын

@@elterrifico9522 I doubt that mate 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@wanderer299a

5 ай бұрын

Can't compare the two at all. Most of the girls in Thailand are sending the money to their families, Manchester girls sending money to their dealers.

He must have had a fairly close relationship with this woman over the 5 month period in order to know how to contact mother. You would have thought she could have at least waited until he stepped into the airport taxi before trying to tap up the next punter. She was obviously trying to provoke him for whatever reason. However, he should have just drunk his drink, said bye bye and then calmly walked away. A little bit of blame on both sides here I think Ed.

The guy was been very stupid. You simply don’t act that way in Thailand, unless you want big trouble.

@grahamgadd4786

5 ай бұрын

As he learns it's a learning curve.

People confuse the two "L" words. - "Lust is not Love"

I've been to Thailand many times and I'm afraid to say that's its the school of hard knocks over there as far as bar girls are concerned,and for a first timer over there it's an experience I've been taken to the cleaners a few times at the beginning of going chasing rainbows but it's still a wonderful country to visit and all I can say is learn by your mistakes and the sooner the better

Pattaya is an illusion it’s all a game

@ekko6757

5 ай бұрын

Not for some gals, some take it to deadly extremes when they lose a sponsor.

@Daniel26448

5 ай бұрын

It's just a fantasy

Best horror story I've been part of was last July Me and my friend were in a bar on Soi Buakhao talking to the girls just having a good time my friend had a girl sat on his knee playing flirting for about an hour then out of nowhere a German guy ( looked about late 40s early 50s ) comes into the bar shouting at the girl doing crazy hand gestures then the girl ( mid 20s ) shouting back he was saying he loved her he could look after her then started insulting her basic horrible names, She returned fire with you're just customer saying he didn't treat her good following with you are cheap not good man then she kisses my friend who looked at me mouth open Up until now the German guy was never angry at my mate but now he just wants blood he tries to throw a drink over my Friend but falls over he just got up n walked off shouting and screaming

@STEADY599

5 ай бұрын

Don't you just love Pattaya

You can’t believe a bar girl. I agree that the bloke should of known better, but sounds like typical bar girl behaviour. Money money money. It’s tit for tat by the sounds of it

Hey there young Eddy! The guy was wrong. He just couldn’t accept reality. Like you say, ‘she’s a working girl’. Was before she meet him, and will be after he gets on the plane going home. I’m just next door in Vietnam. Been in Saigon a week. Headed to Nha Trang today. Then back here Saturday for a few more nights. Enjoying the warm (hot) weather. Food is lovely. Lots of good lookers running around. Back to the Euro man… like one of your fellow vloggers says, ‘This is Thailand’. Stay fit. Enjoy the life. Back to Sanremo beginning of the month. Your friend, Bobby

@STEADY599

5 ай бұрын

Have a great time, Bobby

@wanderer299a

5 ай бұрын

I'm in Saigon on Sunday for a few days. Recommend any bars? Good story Eddie. Enjoyed it. You're right, if he had agreed to send money to her, this scenario wouldn't have happened 😊

There's some seriously good comments here. Your audience have been there, done that. The guy should be angry with himself for being so ignorant of the rules/culture. If she's a bargirl you're just a customer. If she's not, she might be your geek, faen, phrrya (f*** buddy, girlfriend, wife) as long as you remain their ATM. You will always be a poochai gae (old man) to them. A lot of respect for them and generosity goes a long way and will make your life happier.

Memories: I was at Diana Estates for a few months. Next to McDonald's. Across from Tree Town.

She did him a favour, showed him she didn't GAF and saved him a messy, expensive future.

Someone needs to explain to the 50 something guy “it’s not your girlfriend, it’s just your go!”

Keep out the bars late at night it's where all the trouble is

She stopped paying her basically Nd she dumped him. I recon she milked him for a few months 😂😂😂

Life is a lesson money is there God not you

2ND Hand Gossip!! com'on Steady Eddy you can do better than that, Nob Head Webby was 1st

Why was he so fixated on one single girl the entire time that he was there? I bet he had regrets when he boarded the plane for the flight home that he had used his time better. Pattaya is supposed to be a fun place where men move around and meet and enjoy themselves with a variety of fun and beautiful women; not get obsessed with one single girl who is obviously going to go off with somebody else as soon as he boards the plane home (or earlier, as was the case here).

One needs to keep in mind that being accused of your own successful suicide is a thing ……

What I gather is the girl sure gave him the GiRLfriEnd experience for a while, and the guy got carried away.

Some guys just never understand the subtle difference between love and lust in their endeavour to get the other four letter word that is common to both.

the business deal was over .a new contract was being made ...its not rocket science ..

I would just play forgetful and Mr. Magoo my ass to another bar and forget about it. But I dodge bars for this reason unless I'm properly convinced to.

Nice little story Ed,,, I think its obvious he had feeling for her,,, But to her its business,,, and she gotta make a living best way she can right. Maybe he should go to Blackpool for his next Vacation. I thought it was gonna be a sequel to your next book when I herd it,,, very Dramatic. Best Wishes Ed

20 years ago i met a girl in gogo bar. She had been , before my arrival, wined and dined by a couple of foreigners for the best part of the entire night. I asked her about those other guys, she said don't worry about it and left with me about 20 minutes after i arrived. Normal night in LOS so the guy in this video should have seen it coming.

Maybe he will have more luck with the girl's mother!

It looks like the guy got emotionally involved. I think that is not good especially with a night woman. Also a man needs control his emotions in front of a woman. Personally, since I don’t get emotionally involved with women, it’s very easy for me to cut them off just forget about it, there are thousands of Asian women available to date. You cannot force anyone to be with you and if you lead with your wallet be prepared to pay.

Hey ED, is there more to pattaya then beer massages and other things , any interesting sites to see and do tourism type of things thanks mate ,

@alucardcount9478

5 ай бұрын

Boring

Ting Tong Guy. He should know the score with bar girls.

Sad situations. I pray that I don’t face a similar situation in the future. Good luck to both. Cheers 🍻

5 months, probably broke n she refused a freebie..555

Thai Ladies will never like losing Face in front of family and friends and will always want the last word. Guys you don't own these Ladies and if a previous boyfriend starts talking to her Ex don't cause a scene just let her handle it her way. Seen many a fight when a guy turns up at a Bar believing she had left the Bar and even though he might be with his Lady for the night it still kicks off. I don't feel sorry for the Guy that humiliated this women . Childish behaviour by him making threats . instead of Boxing with him she got her own back by showing him that she's the Real Boss . We have all suffered from the Honey Trap so just move on to another Lady , there are more than enough for any Man . Bottom line start acting like cheap Charlie they will leave you and look for up grade .

@STEADY599

5 ай бұрын

Well said, James.

I'm in hua hin now.as soon as you step into the bar Streets you become part of a soap opera.

They both sound like trouble, you and your mate would have been best to pay up and take off instead of letting her take photos with him etc. Stay away from drama and damaged people...nothing but trouble. I’ve seen jealous boyfriends do some crazy and dangerous things in the heat of the moment.

noone was sending photos to anyone’s mother. fighting over pv$$y is the stupidest fight in the whole world, but especially in southeast asia, where there is always more and better. seriously.

I think they where both out of order winding each other up, what is the saying at the airports, tears on departures then a quick freshen up and smiles on arrivals, cheers Ed.

@TBM1121

5 ай бұрын

Tears on departures, freshen up and straight to arrivals! Love it gotta remember that.

@wanderer299a

5 ай бұрын

Very very true. I know from experience.

To many cockerals in the chicken pen fighting for hens that have stopped laying eggs

That is Thailand eddie I be go for 17 years lad must know crack about going on well ❤ Thailand love country and people I retired 6 months time so you know where I be good luck with your channel eddie

Good story Ed. You should write a book ❤️🇹🇭🙏

@STEADY599

5 ай бұрын

I have done. It's called Five Go To Pattaya. Sequel coming soon.

@stevierug8733

5 ай бұрын

@@STEADY599 sorry i know mate. It was my poor attempt at humour 🙏

There are lots of 'holiday husbands' over here for one visit per year and they actually expect thier Thai lovely to be faithful when they are away. Wake up, long-distance relationships hardly never works IMO.

Doesn't matter how seasoned your are. We're not robots.

Happens every day in pattaya 555