Woww.....Allah never holds anything against you

Interesting topic, good response 👍🏻

very informative video ma shaa Allah. we often underestimate the fact that our sins can continue to haunt us if we share them unnecessarily. May Allah protect us, Ameen.

General rule is that you will get what you are exceptional cases are always there. I am not married but I hope I get who I am if I have any relationship with any girl, I hope that I get the woman who did the same, If I commited physical zina than I aspect to get the same woman. May Allah give us what we deserve. AMEEN!

0:12 sheikh Yaser Birjas looks so different :P

That so true ..

Why not ask about haram relationship? That can affect the marriage if certain repercussions such as images or videos get leaked that can destroy the image of the family. This can be bad for the other spouses mental health

Amiin ya Allah

That's is ok. But I don't think so it's gonna work again you will definitely go to that path if u start lying.

@kinchydink

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this... Best comment on this video.

@shilpavachheta2472

3 жыл бұрын

I also agree. I do have an example for the same.

@mariemaa25

3 жыл бұрын

We can't speak about our sins. It's totally haram. Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Everyone from my nation will be forgiven except those who sin in public. Among them is a man who commits an evil deed in the night that Allah has hidden for him, then in the morning he says: O people, I have committed this sin! His Lord had hidden it during the night but in the morning he reveals what Allah has hidden.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 5721, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2990

@mariemaa25

3 жыл бұрын

If Allah forgive, then you can't say nothing. You will love your spouse as she is, respect her, isn't ur business her past. She also wouldn't ask u questions about ur past.

@raiyanchowdhury6302

3 жыл бұрын

@@mariemaa25 I didn’t preserve myself to accept her ✨past✨

Ameen

so what i am not marrying a non virgin if i am a virgin, i will divorce her if i came to know she fornicated

Freaking. Women loosing virginity should be spoken. Men who has committed Zina before shud kept close. Why? (in my opinion it hurts me 10000 times when my spouse has already engaged in such stuff)

@multipolarworld2484

2 жыл бұрын

I also think the same... What if the husband comes to know about her fornication from other sources. It can ruin their marriage.. This issue needs more explanation

@s7_wys

4 ай бұрын

Men can have 4 wives, will he tell every wife when he was intercourse with the other. No, because it will hurt. Woman on the other hand should, they should only love one man and if they engage in Zina in the past, it will affect them when they engage in intimacy with another man in the future. Therefore, it is best for the man to know because you don't want it to get to the point where they have trauma in bed and it's affecting the marriage. Sisters just basically need to stay away from Zina before marriage. And if they marry someone else other than the man they committed Zina with, then I feel sorry for that man because he has not been given a pure wife.

@s7_wys

4 ай бұрын

​@@multipolarworld2484It's not only that, how does the wife keep that hidden from him for her entire life. It will cause mental struggle and difficulty in the marriage for her. Knowing another guy has had her in the past. That's why it's best the woman should say if she has committed Zina or not in the past, so that the husband can make a judgement whether he will still marry her or not. If he says no, then you have to respect his decision because he wants a pure wife like most Muslim men do. If he says yes, then be grateful you found a man who will not judge you for your past and go ahead with the marriage. End of the day, sisters need to stay away from Zina, men aswell, but then sin can be concealed due to our nature of being able to love more than one woman in the first place. Allah has created sisters in a way such that they can only love one man at a time which can cause further distress if the relationship (halal or haram) was to end in the future. And it can then cause even more distress when they persue another relationship. That's why it's best that the sister acknowledges this, acknowledges this stain on her purity, and tells her future husband.

The situation is that someone who has committed fornication cannot hide and cannot tell the truth. If someone tell then there will not peace, love and respect for both and if not tell then other one will live in deception.

@mariemaa25

3 жыл бұрын

We can't speak about our sins. It's totally haram. Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Everyone from my nation will be forgiven except those who sin in public. Among them is a man who commits an evil deed in the night that Allah has hidden for him, then in the morning he says: O people, I have committed this sin! His Lord had hidden it during the night but in the morning he reveals what Allah has hidden.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 5721, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2990

@reezis1619

3 жыл бұрын

@@mariemaa25 It is haram to lie and deceive people, it is clear in the quran. Just because you should not expose your sin it does not mean you can lie.

@abdullahajaz1844

2 жыл бұрын

@@mariemaa25 so what i am not marrying a non virgin if i am a virgin, i will divorce her if i came to know she fornicated

@mohammedabdurrahman4795

2 жыл бұрын

@@mariemaa25 This women seems like too worried to hide the dirty past, listen, I didn’t preserve myself to accept her ✨past✨

@mariemaa25

2 жыл бұрын

@@mohammedabdurrahman4795 That's not even islam akhi. Judging and removing what Allah have forgiven is just haram. Our prophet's first love was Khadija, she was married before but our prophet didn't care about that, he loved her soul. And you think are better than him? You prefer vaginas instead of souls instead of a woman's real value. Also, as I said in the comment, virginity has no sense since many women still virgin even after they give birth. Many of them, their body return to the original status. It's called biology of the anatomy. Abu Huraira (RadhiAllahu ‘anhu) reported: The Messenger of Allah (Sallallaahu ‘alaihi wasallam) said: whoever says: سُبْحَانَ اللهِ وَبِحَمْدِهِ `Subhan-Allahi wa bihamdihi (Glorified is Allah and praised is He), one hundred times a day, his sins will be forgiven even if they are equal to the extent of the foam of the ocean.”

Here is the truth ; surah noor (24:3) Let the fornicator not marry any except a fornicatress or idolatress and let the fornicatress not marry any except a fornicator or an idolater. That is forbidden to the believers. Surah noor (24:26) Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men for corrupt women. Good women are for good men, and good men for good women. They are innocent of the calumnies people utter. There shall be forgiveness for them and a generous provision. Be careful brothers and sisters. Don't believe in everything you hear even if it is from a famous scholar. May Allah forgive you and Bless you.

@Code8564

Ай бұрын

These scholars are preaching what ALLAH never said in the Qur'an. These scholars give importance to some hadiths rather than Qur'an.

The past is nobody's business they just ask to do chaska

@jasonsamuel6601

10 ай бұрын

Yes the HIV that I got is no one's business

So Muslim marriage should be based on secrets and deceptions? 2:33 "it's allowed for you to lie about it or to say it in a way that it will not tell the full truth if you think it will cause a damage." I can see that Muslim marriages are built on very "strong" foundations.

@gokulee1652

Жыл бұрын

Here is the truth ; surah noor (24:3) Let the fornicator not marry any except a fornicatress or idolatress and let the fornicatress not marry any except a fornicator or an idolater. That is forbidden to the believers. Surah noor (24:26) Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men for corrupt women. Good women are for good men, and good men for good women. They are innocent of the calumnies people utter. There shall be forgiveness for them and a generous provision. Be careful brothers and sisters. Don't believe in everything you hear even if it is from a famous scholar. May Allah forgive you and Bless you.

Sir I hv a past affair...that means not this kind of any sexual relations...thn we brk up for 2 yrs and he got married..My qstn is when should I told my hus about this affair.. Just pennu kandu poyi...apo njn onnum paranjilla..ipo marriage urappichu..ini njn parayano oru affair undayirunnu ennu.

@lollol-mr4pt

Жыл бұрын

Don’t expose your sins ukhti, Allah has placed a blanket over your sins, by exposing youre ripping the blanket, which is a sin in itself.

@Code8564

Ай бұрын

​​@@lollol-mr4ptOhh akhi, so ALLAH is the main cheater here, cheating her spouse ?!!

So long story short don’t ask about their past. Only necessary part if need be is if they’re a Virgin and if they ever contracted an STI/STD. Other than that any sins from when they were young and ignorant should be avoided.

Well, there you have it... your marriage may well be built on a secret... you may well be associating with a man/men who banged your wife without knowing it... not only are you married to a woman you would not have married had you known the truth, but you are possibly exposed to all sorts of humiliations... alhamdulillah

@freilezjawa8328

6 ай бұрын

Ah ok so you are Allah now and know better than Him? Great I have some questions then Allah. How about just listen to the Quran and Sunna and stop being an emotional bitch. The Quran is there for the good of society and yourself so if it states that then you can be sure its going to be alrigth. If you think the quran or sunna are explained wrongly then you can go debate that but dont come here with weak atheist opinions because of your emotions.

In my opinion,We should tell her about our past and not force her to tell hers.

@tashinuddinchowdhury4900

Жыл бұрын

ur opineeon sUUc@Ks

@siqbal8586

Жыл бұрын

No

@SamirSiraj8542

Жыл бұрын

No

@hassanqureshi773

5 ай бұрын

Yes and marry a whore

@hassanqureshi773

5 ай бұрын

WTF is that logic

Videos like these teach us not to get married, thanks.

How’s about the truth! How’s that!!!

What if i get married and not tell my wife that i m married before is this ok.

@Code8564

Ай бұрын

Curse of ALLAH be upon all these so called "scholars"