"People who jiggle their foot all the time" I did not come here to be attacked this way

@cristalledbetter

3 жыл бұрын

I started shaking my leg listening to her 😭

@sing4you410

3 жыл бұрын

Me either 😞

@iknowexactlywhoyouare8701

3 жыл бұрын

Icucristal L nah you actually didn’t

@jessicatrulock4

3 жыл бұрын

AND THATS ON ✨A N X I E T Y✨

@Methylcloroisothiaz1

3 жыл бұрын

I do the same thing, its like a tick you can't really help it

Dealbreaker: people who judge you solely based on zodiac signs

@MelissaandCats

4 жыл бұрын

Omg lol YES

@anthonygutierrez8767

4 жыл бұрын

Astrology is so dumb

@elylopezgonzalez3668

4 жыл бұрын

Oh I hate that nonsense!!!

@sebastian7608

4 жыл бұрын

people who like astrolgy: why do you hate it so much it doesn't hurt anyone also people who like astrology: 0:54

@ali8922

4 жыл бұрын

As an astrologist, I 100% agree with this (and we don't claim those people lmao)

I'm starting to feel better about not being in a relationship.

@rahmafiakhatib3328

3 жыл бұрын

Its really not worth it

@ainaq5259

3 жыл бұрын

Same here

@kloeleiva1052

3 жыл бұрын

rahmafia khatib DONT DO IT 🔊 i fell in love and now i’m being ghosted so that’s kinda spirit crushing

@vcf520xx5

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂me 2!🙌

@tvds8350

3 жыл бұрын

Omfg sameeeee

"i can find beauty in almost everybody" someone give this man a hug

@dmitryduryagin6980

3 жыл бұрын

protect that man at all costs

@colbyculton7860

2 жыл бұрын

💎💪🏿

@lily2445

2 жыл бұрын

Omg that's what I thought

@elina9606

2 жыл бұрын

Literally 🥺

@SYSLOVE

2 жыл бұрын

that can get toxic too pretty fast so be careful. People use you

She's talking about oily skin like it's something people have on purpose lol.

@rensbrand5176

4 жыл бұрын

Is she though? She's allowed to have a preferance imo

@206robert206

4 жыл бұрын

You are what you eat.... Or nawwww?

@kavita2937

4 жыл бұрын

206robert206 I eat pizza all the time why am I not a pizza yet

@TheTomtah

4 жыл бұрын

Who cares. Most sexual/romantic preferences excludes attributes people can't help. Like height for example.

@merimalicina635

4 жыл бұрын

@@206robert206 I do fitness every day and I eat superhealthy (A few years ago, I lost 20 kilos so I know what it means to live healthy), and I still have an oily skin. What do I do wrong in your you-are-what-you-eat-opinion?

I hate that some people think that once they’re in a relationship, they no longer need to put in effort

@kaiserkhosrow3724

4 жыл бұрын

word

@sarcasticrayofsunshine75

4 жыл бұрын

PERIOD

@projectvodka7931

4 жыл бұрын

this hit home :(

@michellel5940

4 жыл бұрын

Yes. Omg, yes.

@ChelseaCallahan

4 жыл бұрын

FACTS

"People with weird laughs" Personally I find weird laughs very attractive, if they are comfortable enough laughing out loud when they are with you, probably means that they are genuinely happy. And that's attractive

@gloryfrank6481

3 жыл бұрын

Yess

@NiteshKumar-bq7gh

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah we can get used to their laughs in some time after that they are adorable

@kdlover1454

3 жыл бұрын

weird laughs are hot

@xxmichiirik

3 жыл бұрын

Yup

@MegaCheese48

3 жыл бұрын

I once knew a girl that laughed just like a donkey. Funniest thing I ever heard. It would make me laugh so hard I almost peed my pants. Got me every time. I wonder how she's doing now.

My dealbreaker: When people don’t ask me any questions but just talk about themselves all the time 😖

@junglajuan

3 жыл бұрын

Ufff I'm struggling with those tipe o women's all my life what's wrong with mee

@lakshyamongia3270

3 жыл бұрын

how you doing sierra?

@littlefucker4594

3 жыл бұрын

these niggas tryna get right in a yt comment section ^ 👀

@MrTheMiguelox

3 жыл бұрын

Omg I sometimes do that, but is because I'm always afraid of asking to much and being invasive, so I talk about myself in hopes the other person can relate and talk about themselfs

@sierrahultgren945

2 жыл бұрын

@@littlefucker4594 lol pretty funny

My dealbreaker: not being able to think for yourself / being closeminded

@lucytennesn3059

4 жыл бұрын

Totally agree!

@Digger-Nick

4 жыл бұрын

Far too many people like this...

@Nexils

4 жыл бұрын

Yes! Probably would've said this myself as well. My biggest dealbreaker are people who are really dependant on me, like, no. Go make up your own mind. Push back sometimes.

@AnxiousTrap

4 жыл бұрын

yes. someone who is a passive doormat Tim: "i love this movie!" Sam: "oh really i didn't like it so much" Tim: "oh yeah i guess it wasn't that amazing" have your own opinions PLEASE! Dont try to please and fit in.

@anoushkasood4383

4 жыл бұрын

republicans

Deal breaker: history of cheating and having no guilt about it, that whole 'it just happens' attitude

@projectvodka7931

4 жыл бұрын

if they have a history of cheating that alone would be a deal breaker for me.

@idek7438

4 жыл бұрын

@@projectvodka7931 Same. Chances are they're gonna cheat on me too. I'm staying the fuck away from that.

@AnxiousTrap

4 жыл бұрын

what about in their mid teens?

@TheGalacticGrizzly

4 жыл бұрын

It's not a dealbreaker for me, I'd just lower my expectations. At that moment I know it'll just be a couple of months of fun, and not a long lasting relationship. And that's fine by me. I'd just rather know the deal beforehand than needing to find out the hard way.

@prod.kashkari3075

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah but whose gonna admit that to you tho

Dealbreaker: someone who isn't interested in learning new things and someone who doesn't like to travel/explore the world. nope.

@thevillainist667

3 жыл бұрын

You got the money to travel?

@manuelpeters446

3 жыл бұрын

What people often don't realize is that you can explore the world without leaving your city. You can volunteer for refugee programs, shop at local markets, go hiking, learn a language, date outside your ethnicity, read books by people from other countries, etc.

@marinakliueva9634

3 жыл бұрын

@@manuelpeters446 I completely agree! What I meant in my comment is that the lack of curiosity to explore the world we live in (explore in a broader sense, like the examples you mentioned, not necessarily by traveling all the time) is a dealbreaker to me :) and to address the comment above - we live in the era when lowcost traveling is available to everyone. you don't have to have a lot of money to travel. to the other side of the world, yes, but to explore your own country and the neighbouring countries - I don't think so. You just need to want it.

@manuelpeters446

3 жыл бұрын

@@marinakliueva9634 I agree, lack of curiosity is definitely a turn off! I hope my comment didn't come off as argumentative, I just wanted to explain how people who hate to travel and those who are bound to their city for other reasons can find other ways to explore the world.

@shayx5168

3 жыл бұрын

@@marinakliueva9634 Even though I get what you're trying to say, low-cost travel really isn't available to everybody. There's a lot that can factor into you not being able to travel. I personally don't have any interest in seeing the world, but I completely understand how that doesn't mesh with some people. It's a beautiful world and curiousity is a marvelous trait humans have; my interests just lie elsewhere.

“Don’t lie to me,” says the cheater. (:

@pinklemonade1115

3 жыл бұрын

Tea

@christabellille4828

3 жыл бұрын

THE TEA IS SPICY TODAY LMFAOOOO

@bakbak2031

3 жыл бұрын

What's the time stamp

@bakbak2031

3 жыл бұрын

@@jinx2873 thank youuuu

@Whodaasiangirl

2 жыл бұрын

Oooooooh

I just want to know who's ferret hurt him and how they hurt him.

@MrRookitty

4 жыл бұрын

Probably burrowed a hole through his couch or something.

@Sophiaisawkward

4 жыл бұрын

ferrets smell really really bad

@ThisIsMissCheeky

4 жыл бұрын

Ferrets stink

@tearsintheraincantfeelthep475

4 жыл бұрын

*whose

@olliejr.6908

4 жыл бұрын

@@tearsintheraincantfeelthep475 you really have to be "that guy" bro?? 🤨

dealbreaker: people who cant read the room, or make other people uncomfortable on purpose

@jaylaj.5749

4 жыл бұрын

this is not talked about enough😂

@alexandraw2341

4 жыл бұрын

Thats an interesting one

@memelord3348

4 жыл бұрын

Huh?? Wait what? Tell me more

@memelord3348

4 жыл бұрын

How do I read a room?

@memelord3348

4 жыл бұрын

Why would I want to nake someone uncomfortable on purpose, like I already do without even trying & that is no bueno

I can’t believe no one said having kids or not having kids. It’s so important to agree on that!!

@martinaalvarez8423

2 жыл бұрын

Someone did say that 0:28

@ThisBlackFreeSpeeDeemedHarmful

2 жыл бұрын

There are people who talk about kids in the vid

@lia.isjusbetter

2 жыл бұрын

maybe the relationship isn't serious

Deal breaker: Arrogance is a huge turn off. Not to be confused with confidence which is attractive. A bit of humility goes a long way.

I see some of us have “pet peeves” confused with “deal breakers” here huh

@DrumaSmaidina

4 жыл бұрын

Well yeah, pet peeves are hella important. Can’t be with someone who annoys you 24/7

@khiaratt

4 жыл бұрын

mind differentiating then

@pookygirl

4 жыл бұрын

Khaith Salt pet peeves is just something that someone does that bothers you, like tapping the feet, chewing loudly, etc... a deal breaker is something that someone does or a way that someone is that bothers you so much that you could never date them, (for example, you talk to someone and find out that they’re a conservative and you’re a liberal, and you can’t handle the big difference in political views) however for most a pet peeve can be a deal breaker

@maryanderson7583

4 жыл бұрын

RIGHT lol

@bobbyseasons451

4 жыл бұрын

As a replier who got your message, ya most of the answers were hella shallow but maybe the vid was just meant for fun or unfortunately most people are not deep and that’s why we and you ain’t getting along with people??lol

Deal breaker: person who can't have deep talks

@hayman122

4 жыл бұрын

If you can’t have deep talks your partner is probably stupid lol but can’t do anything about that

@mixzoe6228

4 жыл бұрын

Omg yesss me and my current fling but hes hot lol

@kaiserkhosrow3724

4 жыл бұрын

@@mixzoe6228 that's when you say "deep throat better than deep talk". lol

@projectvodka7931

4 жыл бұрын

my boyfriend and I used to have deep conversations before we started dating. he doesn’t care about having them anymore :(

@mixzoe6228

4 жыл бұрын

@@kaiserkhosrow3724 lmao thats a good one. Gonna start practicing during quarantine

Ooooo the college degree deal breaker might come back to bite her. A lot of amazing and successful people don't have college degrees. Gotta get to know each person!

@tvbnine793

2 жыл бұрын

I'm graduating from CSU this December and I promise you, degrees, grades, credits, GPA, or exam scores do NOT equate to intelligence as much as we've been lead to believe.

@brooke9297

2 жыл бұрын

@@tvbnine793 indeed! Two companies I've worked for in the past 10 years have taught me this lesson: the degree isn't an intelligence certificate, nor is it the sole determining move that gets a person to where they are in their career/life. I managed an operations department in which 3 receptionists had a BA in English (one even summa cum laude) and spoke/wrote pretty darn badly, but the CEOs never got a degree (1 had put in a year at community college, the other had dropped out in his first year at a liberal arts college).

@tvbnine793

2 жыл бұрын

@@brooke9297 "3 receptionists had a BA in English (one even summa cum laude) and spoke/wrote pretty darn badly" oof I'm an English major and that makes me embarrassed

@RavenPendragon14

2 жыл бұрын

@@tvbnine793 She didn't say anything about intelligence though. College degree earners statistically have higher earning potential and maybe she is making sure that she and her partner can provide for a family one day. It makes sense.

@kushdax4888

2 жыл бұрын

If you want to do engineering or work in medicine, not having a degree makes that impossible

1:03 “1. Too bossy 2. Fights a lot 3. Eats my food 4. Doesn’t like boba” Man’s got his priorities straight

Girl: "Guys who talk to other girls" Guy right after: "Girls who are jealous" Well done editor. Well done. 👏👏

@vanassaevens

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@lvodniza

4 жыл бұрын

Also one persons was monogamy and the next was polyamory

@goldc4859

4 жыл бұрын

that’s not jealousy... she probably meant like flirting and stuff

@jibb3rish

4 жыл бұрын

@@goldc4859 Most girls that say "guys who talk to other girls" mean anything, texting your female friends, talking at all with them, etc.

@lvodniza

4 жыл бұрын

Casablanca Durant because people who want a trusting relationship are crazy. What is your point? That comment is irrelevant

My dealbreaker: if the person can't talk about emotions or have deep talks

@ellogaming7011

4 жыл бұрын

same

@panguru7664

4 жыл бұрын

Yesss i was about to say that

@bento4876

4 жыл бұрын

Don't try to force it.

@PurplePinkRed

4 жыл бұрын

That's what gets me too! It makes me feel like they are hiding things from me if they don't talk about themselves deeply.

@danica4077

3 жыл бұрын

omg same

My dealbreaker: someone who talks shit about their friends, family, people they are close with, etc. Cause that probably means they will be talking shit about me too lol.

@callanc3925

3 жыл бұрын

I dont trust anyone if they tell me things that were said to them in confidence

Dealbreaker: Someone that takes my love and affection for granted.

“They have to have friends”.... Me with no friends. Damn.

@prettyhamburger6462

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah that was mean 😥 some people have no friends locally because of an international upbringing, but I firmly believe this can change in a day, you just meet someone who's a kindred spirit and boom, you have a new friend. Or whatever a person's reason for not having friends... that is totally unfair. I've actually been broken up with before and part of the reason was that I have no friends... I mean I had at least one good one but apparently that wasn't enough for the person I was with 🤦🏼‍♀️

@bri_33

3 жыл бұрын

I'll be your friend! I just dumped a bunch of my old ones

@danica4077

3 жыл бұрын

i think that it can mean to many ppl that maybe something could be wrong with you, but its not always the case. Bc lots of ppl have lots of fake friends and lots of good ppl have no friends at all..

@jocelyncooper1738

3 жыл бұрын

Danica I know a ton of people who have massive “friend” groups but have no real friends.

@danica4077

3 жыл бұрын

@@jocelyncooper1738 exactly 🙂

That dude who said he won't date someone just cause of their sign (he won't date Libras) is a deal breaker for me

@ChatiseE

4 жыл бұрын

You don't happen to be a Libra, by any chance...?

@thegentleman2419

4 жыл бұрын

...what the fucks a libra?

@happycabby8488

4 жыл бұрын

@@thegentleman2419 a zodiac sign

@happycabby8488

4 жыл бұрын

Same it's dumb lmao

@thegentleman2419

4 жыл бұрын

@@happycabby8488 ah... apparently, I'm a Virgo

“That’s why I don’t date libras” Me a libra: 👁👃🏽👁

@lovelylove6193

3 жыл бұрын

Right like lol I'm not even a libra myself and even I was like🤨

@piw8572

3 жыл бұрын

Ikrrrrr lmao

@juanpedro4083

3 жыл бұрын

I have schizophrenia and I would like to smoke marijuana. Do you know something about marijuana? What to do? Can you help me?

@tvbnine793

3 жыл бұрын

I'm a Libra too but this is why I prefer the Chinese Zodiac

@parichawlaa

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr same lol

“They have to have friends” bitch i- Some people can’t help that lmaoo

@lindafarza3119

3 жыл бұрын

I'm seeing how much my dealbreaker has affected folks. I spent 10 years with my ex having close to no friends. ❤️

@nono-px3ot

3 жыл бұрын

@@lindafarza3119 ok

My deal breaker is someone who's too agreeable. Don't just say yes to everything I say. Have your own thoughts, opinions and perspective; then let's talk about it and grow together.

@ughmina

4 жыл бұрын

this omg

@oo-ss8md

4 жыл бұрын

Yes!!!

@myahgarza

4 жыл бұрын

YES

@jimmyhighroller5366

4 жыл бұрын

Yes.

@reham1486

4 жыл бұрын

THATS why i dont date libra

Most people: dishonesty, lack of integrity, smoking, height, hygiene, etc That one guy: I wouldn't date anyone with a ferret again 😂😂😂

@okayrye2445

4 жыл бұрын

A g a i n

@shabanac.3659

4 жыл бұрын

@@okayrye2445 exactly 😂

@shabanac.3659

4 жыл бұрын

@@andrewisnotdead Could be 😂😂😂

@eatapeeta6968

4 жыл бұрын

It’s absolutely true thought. Ferrets are disgusting. No matter how clean the owner is, the ferret always, ALWAYS, smells like urine.

@shabanac.3659

4 жыл бұрын

@Akash Sharma He really is a sweet guy

Ppl who use a zodiac sign as a dealbreaker is the LAMMMMMEST person ever

@buthaynahmae5937

3 жыл бұрын

They’re always the most boring people too

@thevillainist667

3 жыл бұрын

Imagine thinking that the month you were born in determines your personality 😂😂

@wanderlust7393

3 жыл бұрын

@@thevillainist667 dude 😭😂

@user-qr6sl8zd4j

3 жыл бұрын

that’s the same as people who believe in religion

@notoriousalien

2 жыл бұрын

imagine getting offended by astrology LOL

it’s interesting how it’s so different for each of us. its literally like the quote “one mans trash is another mans treasure”

@Jeff_Biden

2 жыл бұрын

@basic biatch who hurt you

Lack of critical thinking is my dealbreaker. If you repeat one thing to me you "read on Facebook" without any critical analysis, boy, bye.

@dead_beatbunny

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, girl! I'm with you! It's shocking how many grown ass adults cannot think for themselves.

@FroZenMemes

4 жыл бұрын

My mum does this it's lowkey irritating 😭

@CaliGTPT99

4 жыл бұрын

Great point. And hi clisare

@samuraichamploo585

4 жыл бұрын

Yes! Especially when it comes to poorly thought out conspiracy theories

@Allexz

4 жыл бұрын

Oh, this comment. Thank you! I am so tired of people around me, including family that simpy act like drewling fools.

imagine being a libra is a dealbreaker Edit: You guys are getting me wrong. I was actually making fun of the whole thing about choosing someone based on what part of the year they were born in. I don't have anything against or for being a Libra. I have a lot against not choosing someone because their month was wrong lmao.

@didilie6805

4 жыл бұрын

When was that

@damnidkwhyimhere

4 жыл бұрын

@@didilie6805 0:55

@pz9758

4 жыл бұрын

I would say being a scorpio is

@taimaajaloul6124

4 жыл бұрын

I know like what about Geminis??

@cherrybomb5189

4 жыл бұрын

@@didilie6805 0:52

some of these people are gonna be alone for a long time

@welikelethabo

3 жыл бұрын

😭😭😭

deal breaker: he doesn’t believe in commitment

@buthaynahmae5937

3 жыл бұрын

Omg yess I could never get in a relationship with someone with commitment issues when I date I want it to be long term

@callanc3925

3 жыл бұрын

Why would you even need to state that. Why would anyone wanting a committed relationship get with someone who doesnt believe in commitment lmao

People who get annoyed by everything and likes drama is a dealbreaker

@comkioxd

4 жыл бұрын

Aka snowflakes

@iiChLiiebeDiich123

4 жыл бұрын

That’s me

@morelove1111

4 жыл бұрын

Omg me 🥰

@chesneectp

4 жыл бұрын

Well you wouldn't date me because certain noises irritate me and I cant stand when people are loud

@veterpierinna

4 жыл бұрын

Yes yes

1:00 "rude to wait staff" perfect answer... tells a lot.

@adelibnfarouk5727

4 жыл бұрын

Hey, I am a french speaking person and didn't understood that, could you explain To me what it means?

@mayaa5522

4 жыл бұрын

Adel Ibn Farouk it means they’re mean to like waiters and servers.

@adelibnfarouk5727

4 жыл бұрын

@@mayaa5522 hmm ok, thanks maya, 😁😗

@Aethelhadas

3 жыл бұрын

Maya A thank you!!

@Aethelhadas

3 жыл бұрын

Senem Cakiroglu Yep I agree

Before we judge others let's remind ourselves of all our flaws. Relationships are about working around flaws and bringing out the best in each other, not about ultimatums and petty deal breakers.

When someone doesn't show initiative in anything : spontaneous dates/difficult conversation / working on bettering the relationship, yeah thats a bummer

Dealbreaker: a lack of empathy. It comes in many forms.

@skeptical_citizen

4 жыл бұрын

ugh yes. The comment I was looking for

@sofiarandal7376

4 жыл бұрын

That's exactly what i was gonna comment

@prettyhamburger6462

3 жыл бұрын

That's really good, you're right

@angelaggarrido7816

3 жыл бұрын

Yes yes yes yes sadly I had to break up with my boyfriend recently due to that.

@cct306

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, they have to be vegan!! (animals have feelings you know?)

“You?! I’ll smell it, for the camera. S- fUnkY smell... it’s like, bitter. Like you drink too much kombucha.” I love Dae’s inflection

@sansastark5810

4 жыл бұрын

he is literally todd from bojack

@alycias7345

4 жыл бұрын

Man they are based in washington but I’m not sure if he grew up there.

@metroplum

4 жыл бұрын

Is he a content creator? Can u drop his @ his personality was great

@ThisBlackFreeSpeeDeemedHarmful

2 жыл бұрын

Lol my ass who just got big into kombucha

@bela-sofia34

Жыл бұрын

Kombucha is NOT bitter.

Deal breaker for me is if they normalized abusive dynamics. You're applying to be the person who loves and supports me. Obviously if you do the opposite you're going to get rejected or fired from the position.

dealbreaker: people who can't/won't figure out how to do things on their own

@buthaynahmae5937

3 жыл бұрын

Bro I got so happy about this cause I have to figure shit out on my own but that bad part is I never let anyone help me either and then I stress myself out and if I can’t do it myself then it won’t get done I will never ask for help I’m very stubborn in the bad way lol and that can be a dealbreaker but it’s because I don’t like being vulnerable I don’t like showing people that side of me because it’s so soft but that’s something I need to work on and something a partner shouldn’t have to deal with

@holocene2164

3 жыл бұрын

No one is an expert at everything and we all needed help with something, sometimes... There's no shame in it. Today I might need help from you and tomorrow you might need help from me...

@buthaynahmae5937

3 жыл бұрын

@@holocene2164 I think she means like if you need help ALL the time and won’t even try to figure it out

@callanc3925

3 жыл бұрын

@@holocene2164 Needing help and refusing to figure out how to do stuff yourself are completely different

@Rachel-oi5tk

3 жыл бұрын

My ex didn't know how to open a can with a can opener ....

I like how some of these are pretty typical like, dishonest, unhygienic, bad at sex, etc And then there's the specific stuff: dislikes boba, moves feet too much, has a ferret

@gabrielledennis549

4 жыл бұрын

But who dislikes boba, and who hates ferrets?

@sola9219

4 жыл бұрын

@@gabrielledennis549 I have a friend who hates boba

@veterpierinna

4 жыл бұрын

Moves feet too much lmao. I felt attacked. I do it but I’m annoyed by myself too sooo

Lowkey wanted to see more of when they switched it around to "why did someone break up with you/what did you do in the relationship that was the dealbreaker?" love that kind of introspective shit,

@mMeFlora

4 жыл бұрын

i'm only commenting to boost this comments algorithm, hoping more people get to see this and maybe they'll make a follow-up

@cookiewondertime

4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely agree! I'd love to see if they agree with the reasons or what they think about them :)

@Aethelhadas

3 жыл бұрын

YESSSSS PLEASE

“Straight men” ok, relatable

@danish5532

3 жыл бұрын

Just don’t date lol, remain celibate if you don’t like men and aren’t sexually attracted to women

@voldemortsnose7331

3 жыл бұрын

@@danish5532 thanks for the advice nobody asked for 😊

@minmin4842

3 жыл бұрын

@@danish5532 You ever heard of bisexual men?

@bakbak2031

3 жыл бұрын

Snowflake

@edvinsebastian1290

3 жыл бұрын

I didn't get that one, does she mean she's not into men?

I feel like 99% of these can be fixed through communicating with each other.

If someone prides themselves on being "brutally honest" and refuses to speak with any sort of tact b/c "that's just who they are"? Run.

@cockycookie1

4 жыл бұрын

If someone refuses to be honest, even after multiple attempts at proper communication? Leave them. Life is all about balance.

@genericname8727

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, if someone says “I value honesty and direct communication” then I like that. If someone says, “I’m brutally honest” then they’re probably being honest about the brutal part. I find it’s often just their way of saying, “I’m rude and won’t bother to consider how I might upset you, nor would I care if I upset you. Your emotions are your problem, not mine, so if I straight up insult you and then you get upset then maybe you’re just too sensitive. If you criticise me for the things I say because you’re just expressing your honest feelings and opinions, then maybe you should consider that I’m supposed to be the honest one and only my thoughts and feelings on things matter to me.” Yeah, based on my experiences, definitely run from someone claiming to be “brutally honest”.

@dlein93

4 жыл бұрын

@@genericname8727 ^^yup, all of this

@CaptainCJ97

4 жыл бұрын

@@genericname8727 well put

@getrudenewman271

4 жыл бұрын

@@genericname8727 I love how you've put my thoughts into words

My dealbreaker: someone who is Sexist, someone who thinks my only purpose is to have children and take care of him

@nunaapop9201

4 жыл бұрын

i feel like i'm the only girl who loves that tho.. i mean i'm more than just that. but that's a role i'm down to play too Tf.

@opal5149

4 жыл бұрын

nunaa pop누나 팝 I think it’s fine if u personally want that role, but u should marry someone who doesn’t think that’s the only purpose of a woman. Yanno what I mean?

@ohia_lehua

4 жыл бұрын

@@nunaapop9201 I think you have to look at it with context. OP said their "only purpose" would be to be a mother and a caregiver to her husband which for many people can be unfulfilling and demeaning. Women can be more than that, women want more than that. But no matter what, to this day there are people who still firmly believe a woman is only good for the "family way." And *that's* where it becomes a dealbreaker. That's where it becomes sexist.

@nunaapop9201

4 жыл бұрын

but if I want a sexist men so be it. It isn't much of a dealbreaker to me. He can recognize me as that but if he's forcing me and screaming and me to pick up some damn clothes that's where i'm out. It's all about respect for me, if i'm not feeling respected i'm not with it. i guess everyone's different!

@Diamond-xl1vs

4 жыл бұрын

nunaa pop누나 팝 same but not to the extreme.

“I can find beauty in almost anybody” My insecure self: touching, but good look with this one 🤗

wow the girl who said "people with annoying laughs" that one kind of threw me off. A lot of people are insecure about their laugh because it sounds weird to others, but it is something that you can't control or change. Laughter is one's way of expressing happiness and to call it "weird" doesn't sit right with me :(

Inconsistency is a big deal breaker for me. Treating someone like they mean something to you one day and then the next doing a full 180 is such a huge turn off

People that can't take care of themselves. Not having goals in life, can't do any work in the home, and refuse to improve upon themselves.

@bobbyseasons451

4 жыл бұрын

Your life goal is to be snobby by societies validated rules. Mine are very high self introspection. You’d thinking I’m lazy or an idiot and maybe not attractive, but you’d actually be wrong.

@heekiwon

4 жыл бұрын

then you can never date someone with depression

@anikachoudhury988

4 жыл бұрын

@@heekiwon even people with depression can want to improve upon themselves. They have a legitimate condition that keeps them from achieving big goals, but they can still work towards smaller goals such as using mouth wash if they cannot find the energy to brush their teeth. Make the bed even though the rest of the house is a mess. These are all big accomplishments for them given their condition and I would be very proud and encouraging. But there's only so much you can do for people, if they refuse to help themselves.

@anikachoudhury988

4 жыл бұрын

@@bobbyseasons451 lol I can see why my response would come off as being snobby or elitist. I don't necessarily mean going to college and getting a high paying job, those are goal I personally would like to attain because I need to feel financially secure in life. It isn't something I need others to provide for me. What I mean by having goals, is having ANY long term goal, and a realistic plan for the future. Working towards being independent (by not burdening their aging parents with extra expenses while they lounge around.) Or saving even a little bit for retirement if they are able (and this does not include people who are stuck in the cycle of poverty, I understand how hard it is to get out of.) I feel like those aren't too much to ask for, I would like a partner, not a child who whines and makes excuses that I would have to take care of and coddle. And what do you mean by having introspective goals?

@heekiwon

4 жыл бұрын

Anika Choudhury i agree! but "not having goals in life" is something i've been trying to change about myself for years now but my depression just won't let me. no matter how hard i try i still can't have any ambition, any goal, or any strength to do so. it's hard, that's all.

Sad part about this is more people complaint about physical appearance than emotional

Both the "you have no friends" and the "you have no college degree" ones in particular really struck me as narrow-minded. Sure, if that's your preference then go for it. But I think you'd be limiting yourself. You can be a great person and a great partner, and make the other person grow, even though you lack these things.

@britishbuffalo21

2 жыл бұрын

In my experience, a person who has no friends expects you to pick up the slack of having no social life. Thus, they make you the center of their world and try to coerce you to do the same for them.

@blahblahblah6898

2 жыл бұрын

The college degree one is definitely narrow minded but the friends one really makes sense. It just depends on why said person doesn’t have friends and how they react to ur own friends. Did he/she changed locations and doesn’t have an established friend group? Thats normal. Is he/she an introvert and therefore doesn’t really seek out friendship ? Thats ok I guess But if they don’t have friends for neither of this reasons it might exist some underlying motive why they don’t and that motive is more often than not a red flag abt them (toxic behavior, being to clingy etc…)

My deal breaker is being too INTO astrology

@mixzoe6228

4 жыл бұрын

😂👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

@dhegadheer2600

4 жыл бұрын

Finally someone said it 👏🏽

@stefanokic406

4 жыл бұрын

My man is speaking pure TRUTH

@denz310

4 жыл бұрын

A girl didn't want to date me because I was an Aquarius. Our signs didn't match, smh. I hate those people

@meandmyinsanity

4 жыл бұрын

@@denz310 honestly you dodged a bullet 😂

Dealbreaker: person with violent tendencies. Getting involved in brawls or fist fight is a big no no for me.

@florhernandez1401

4 жыл бұрын

Don’t you want to feel protected? 🥺 lol

@alejandraclevesmorales1741

4 жыл бұрын

SAME! I’ll run from that. It’s a huge red flag if someone deals with their emotions violently and confrontationally. Obviously not talking about self defense situations.

@alexism7800

4 жыл бұрын

N H having violent tendencies is different from someone who is willing to defend their loved ones. If he’s getting into fights every weekend, it’s a him problem, not a world problem. It could also be a sign that he’s easily provoked and could lead to domestic abuse.

@emilie2667

4 жыл бұрын

@Draedon Apotheosis There’s a difference from protecting yourself and loved one and not letting people push you around, and getting into fights just for shits and giggles

@primo4915

2 жыл бұрын

@@florhernandez1401 How is fighting a random dude protecting someone? It's just hurting everyone, the world isn't a happier place because a dumb fistfight happened.

I laughed so hard when he said “that’s why I don’t date libras” 🤣

That wait staff thing does say a lot about a person

dealbreaker: people that are rude to waiters, or just the way people handle conflict in general

some of these dealbreakers have nothing to do with character... "chewing with your mouth open, a libra, oily skin, less facial hair than me, ashy skin..." y'all gonna stay single.

@rubyiskira8939

3 жыл бұрын

And most of them you can quickly fix especially ashy skin like come on buy them a body lotion and it's solved. And judging based on zodiac sign is just bad taste

@nalaa9618

3 жыл бұрын

Nah we good fam, don't worry. People who don't respect others opinions will stay single

@nalaa9618

3 жыл бұрын

@@DuchessTheAristocat Thanks man. Me and my 138 IQ take that as a compliment haha

@anaismontoya7

3 жыл бұрын

The oily skin threw me off ong

@upscaleavenue

3 жыл бұрын

Having poor manners becomes a character trait if the person refuses to change, even after they've been made aware of it. That is a dealbreaker for me!

"straight men" I have to say, as a straight man, that is also a deal breaker for me too.

people that are emotionally manipulative need to learn to look at themselves in the mirror 🙄

The guy who said rude to waitstaff is a keeper. Because chances are if they're rude to people like that in public, then they're even ruder to their partners behind closed doors.

@sophiapacione

2 жыл бұрын

Definitely.

Me liking comments about people's dealbreakers knowing that I've never been in a relationship : 🧿👄🧿

@Aethelhadas

3 жыл бұрын

Same haha future references I guess

@queensaharaice7376

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao, same! Single, never dated, squad!

@juanpedro4083

3 жыл бұрын

I have schizophrenia and I would like to smoke marijuana. Do you know something about marijuana? What to do? Can you help me?

@primo4915

2 жыл бұрын

@@juanpedro4083 buy it and smoke a joint lol, not that hard.

“That’s why I do not date Libra’s” I feel attacked 😨

0:51 this is the girl who said she cheated on all her partners. lmaoooo

People who will say things like “that's why I don't date Libras”...these kind of things make me feel like maybe we do deserve 2020 lmfao

@Burek_so_sirenje

4 жыл бұрын

He’s jealous he’s not a perfect Libra✨✨✨

@ChibiKawaii3

4 жыл бұрын

He said that as I was thinking of my own dealbreakers and I was like "oh yeah! People who believe in horoscopes are a deal-breaker lol"

@MartaValentin3

4 жыл бұрын

Libra’s are the WORST

@lanalough6653

4 жыл бұрын

MartaValentin3 why? As a Libra I’d like to know 😂

@lanalough6653

4 жыл бұрын

katie wtf ahaha I’m brutally honest my honesty has gotten me in trouble 😂

80% of these “dealbreakers” are so crazy.

@vinslungur

4 жыл бұрын

All people are heavily flawed and a huge part of relationships is dealing with their flaws. They will die alone looking for the perfect person.

@vaze7774

3 жыл бұрын

agree and just rude

@bananas.in.pyjamas

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, Like "You have to like my dog.. " Heh?

Everyone in this video is beautiful and it makes me happy to see such a variety of people.

0:47 “to be morally callous.” What a thoughtful answer

People who lack humility, that's a deal breaker.

Deal breakers: People who try to be condescending People who refuse to see multiple sides of an argument People who are mean to kids or animals

@sharksareamazing9199

4 жыл бұрын

So, trump supporters basically

@Assassin026

4 жыл бұрын

Man, then you wouldn't like my friend. Once, my friends and I were walking and an entire school bus drove past us, and they started waving - as kids do, we waved back like normal people and she decided to wave with her middle finger up. It bit her in the ass in the end cause the bus parked not far from where we were, and the kids started coming our way and as soon as they saw her they started yelling "Look, there's that rude lady," lmao

@attackhelicopter6811

4 жыл бұрын

Sharks are amazing!!! No, not really.

@LilThreat88

4 жыл бұрын

So yeah, mean to kids and animals really tells a lot about a person

@thekingofthefall72

4 жыл бұрын

Omg I love you.

My dealbreaker: a guy that hides his emotions

This is a really good video for people struggling with somethings that they may not like about themselves. Like, sometimes, its really not you!

Deal-breaker: people with a shit friend circle. If your S.O. has friends who share too much or talk about other's exes, best believe they'll do it about you. Company matters.

@genericname8727

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah the company you choose to keep says a lot about you imo.

@Mao93

4 жыл бұрын

My ex's friends were mostly snobs and he was angry at me because drinking with his friends any time he wanted was not my most important purpose in my life.

@pieckfinger7169

3 жыл бұрын

my friends share alot about their ex, what they always do, their convos and anything. I find myself not doing the same thing for them after my breakup and do not plan on doing either. Is that even possible?

@britt1953

3 жыл бұрын

I was just seeing a guy who told me all of his friends hook up with 18-19 year old girls because they're easy and "tighter" than women their age. Him and his friends are all around 24 years old. That comment made me realize he surrounds himself with a bunch of fuckboys and it was a definite red flag for me...it definitely helps to notice who your S.O. hangs out with

@kiwi.kiwi.

3 жыл бұрын

600th like

no one asked but mine is when someone doesn't have any goals or interests. idk if you're into k-pop, football, Warhammer, as long as u get passionate about something. caring about shit is attractive

The last guy is so cute . I see him in most of the videos and I think it’s safe to say I’m crushing 😍

“Doesn’t have friends” 😩😭 ok like attack me

Listening to this made me realize some of y'all are better off being single 🙃

@menna2287

4 жыл бұрын

they’re so shallow man 😏

@urban_rose4096

4 жыл бұрын

What does the upside down smiley face mean?

@suqmaddiqq

4 жыл бұрын

@@urban_rose4096 In this context, it is likely to mean frustration and irony.

@AmeonnaSal

4 жыл бұрын

Ikr? It's a dealbreaker for me if you're anoyed with silly stuff like that. Cmon. Don't like boba. Prob the longest reletionship hes ever been is max 3 months.

@lovelylove6193

4 жыл бұрын

Lmfao NOoO CaP😭💀💯

I feel like some of these people are confusing "dealbreakers" with "mild annoyances"

@emilyslaton2100

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah like the guy who said “doesn’t like boba” wtf 😅

@LordWinter

4 жыл бұрын

@@emilyslaton2100 ...or meal planning

@pmw5422

4 жыл бұрын

People are real shallow nowadays unfortunately. A lot of mild annoyances ARE dealbreakers for many. Just look at divorce rates 🤷🏾‍♀️

@docfabz

4 жыл бұрын

Eggsactly! I think dealbreaker has definitely been redefined in the video

@donsha007

4 жыл бұрын

was thinking the same thing 😂

“what’s your dealbreaker?” “if you’re ugly”

Dealbreaker: Someone who fantasize my races or gives me nicknames correlate with my race “Like you my chocolate boo thang”

@buthaynahmae5937

3 жыл бұрын

Right then white people are like “it’s a compliment” no you only think that cause it doesn’t happen to you nor does it affect you nobody goes around calling you “vanilla icing” lmao

@Ptitnain2

3 жыл бұрын

An haitian woman did that to me and it was such a turn off...

I met a girl who was really into zodiac signs. That was the first time I found out I had dealbreakers

@dylpicklethebugslayer

4 жыл бұрын

My dealbreaker is people not being into zodiac signs. *Sigh*

my dealbreaker: being aware of their manipulative actions and doing nothing to try and stop

@KukrejaAnamika

4 жыл бұрын

Oh my God, the worst. Somehow when they realise it they get worse? They use manipulation to cover for their manipulation. Like. Did you refer to a guide to be better at your game?

@ericwilliams8371

4 жыл бұрын

My current partner does this but I haven’t mustered enough strength to break up with them

@KukrejaAnamika

4 жыл бұрын

@@ericwilliams8371 please don't wait for it to get worse. It'll suck the life out of you.

@lilleigh8827

4 жыл бұрын

@@ericwilliams8371 it depends on if you live with him or not. if you don't then honestly you should just do it. the second I did it i felt 100x better than before, just be aware that he might sed pity texts in hopes of getting back with you. if you do live with him, im not really sure. maybe just tell him that you need to have some time off and then don't go back to it? I'm not sure, its a tough situation.

@nerdinvader6740

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly, or taking your love and affection for granted. Like that's simply a "no" for me

"I dOn'T lIkE iT wHeN a PeRsOn JigGlEs ThEiR fOot" I have adhd and legit can't help but always move

Whoever edits these videos is really really good at their job

the most important thing in a good relationship is to listen to your girlfriend/boyfriend. I think the biggest dealbreaker is if you can‘t talk bout everything tho.

@lovelylove6193

4 жыл бұрын

Anything*

I’ll be back in an hour. The comment section isn’t done cooking. Edit: oh shit I left it too long. It’s burnt 🔥

@lindymoyo9118

4 жыл бұрын

💀💀💀

@dhegadheer2600

4 жыл бұрын

LMAO 😭😭

@ramluvah

4 жыл бұрын

💀

@OreOmod

4 жыл бұрын

26min left.

@user-bl3fl7cu7p

4 жыл бұрын

lmao

"My deal breaker is someone that didn't graduate college" That's stupid. Not gonna lie alot of these reasons are childish and I can see why they're single

@koffaakakpo8184

4 жыл бұрын

Captain CJ 97 glad I’m not the only one, I listening to this like wtf

@vivianespinoza1549

4 жыл бұрын

Agreed that was shitty

@futurevspast32

4 жыл бұрын

Right everyone is entitled to their own opinion but that’s just ridiculous. I didn’t go to college and I’m successful.

@poke_warrior

3 жыл бұрын

@@yan7314 You think you have to go to college to be financially stable? You poor thing.

@xoxosalma6303

3 жыл бұрын

ikr? like just cause you didn't graduate doesn't make you a dumbass

i can’t believe no one is talking about 1:52, it’s easily the best response

the one who said he can find beauty in almost anybody🥺

@Aethelhadas

3 жыл бұрын

HES SO PRECIOUS 🥺🥺

Dealbreaker: - men who ignore women/automatically turn to the men in the group when the subject is music, movies or politics. Yikes. - ppl who can't differentiate between being unconfortable and being attacked. (for exemple: its fine you were jealous, we can talk it out and change the situation, but dont assume whatever made you jealous was an attack on you) - people who think its funny to be mean - people who dont like how important my friends are to me

@_______unknown_______

2 жыл бұрын

The first one? Ur just a crazy sjw

3:15 i love this guy

« Straight men » 😭😭😂😂💀💀

dealbreaker- someone who doesn't have similar core values to me. disagreeing on some stuff is fine, but if we can't agree on some of my core values, it's just not going to work out

@malow8755

4 жыл бұрын

That is the basis of a functioning relationship. Most differences besides values can be overlooked.

@LY-js7ff

4 жыл бұрын

which values for example?

@primo4915

2 жыл бұрын

@@LY-js7ff probably belief in god, ethical framework etc

"If you've got ugly feet" Well... I do ballet

@abbieamavi

4 жыл бұрын

I know right, it’s like what if they fell in love with a sporty person?(:

@KukrejaAnamika

4 жыл бұрын

Then you must be really graceful, and I think if anyone chooses foot beauty over it you can kick them.

@kerianpearson9796

3 жыл бұрын

Your ugly and messed up feet are a fair exchange for a different beauty

@Elizabeth-mf3dn

3 жыл бұрын

Lol!! They’ll look past that when they see such beautiful dancing

0:40 He reminds me Dwight from The Office

3:20 He's so adorable!