To be desired, respected, appreciated, cooperation with loyalty. Respect is love to a man.

@MsLotusBlooms

8 ай бұрын

I heard that.

@SquallSZ

8 ай бұрын

The feeling of being desired is a lot more important for us than the mere act of sex.

@kevinmac6508

8 ай бұрын

That basically encompasses it. Not that difficult, or overly complicated really

@mikemaldonado9402

8 ай бұрын

Say it again for the people in the back!

@rayelliott8141

8 ай бұрын

If I could I would give this comment a thousand likes

I learned this by experience. I grew up without a father figure so I was always in the lead. I always had this masculine energy. I always asked him to be what I wanted him to be to please me. We almost destroyed our marriage. One day I woke up and tried a different approach. I kissed him more. I praised him every day and I even let him lead the family. He started to match my positive energy. We have so much peace in our marriage today. If you really love the person you are with, let the ego go. Put them first. They will mirror your atitude. We’ve been married for 21 years.

@phillipbroussard5224

7 ай бұрын

You are an amazing woman and your husband is a very lucky man. Keep each other for life!

@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp

7 ай бұрын

what made you change and why?

@LadieBjj

7 ай бұрын

@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp we were at a breaking point and he still wanted to work things out instead of leaving me. I realize that I was going to lose a man that truly loves me and never once said the word “ divorce “. What made me change was the fear of losing what it could be a great relationship over ego and pride. The grass is greener where you water it. I started to be more appreciative.

@kw7796

7 ай бұрын

Please continue to share this with other women. Especially the younger gals. They don't know this. Nice job.

@thomasnickel1278

7 ай бұрын

Do you have a sister?

Men want to feel needed, desired, also there’s a fine line because if you turn your girl into your mommy or your counselor.. I promise she’ll eventually leave. You need to be a leader, so be careful. If you tell your girl all your problems, tell her your solutions or show her. She wants to know you can handle it, or she won’t feel safe and secure

@aperson2730

7 ай бұрын

Wow very good point

@frofroify

7 ай бұрын

Sharing your burdens is not weakness anyone that perceives it as such isn't worthy of you. Don't settle

@V.D.22

7 ай бұрын

Unfortunately this is true.

@Xjoeblowx

7 ай бұрын

@@frofroifyit is. They’ll use it against you. You don’t listen to a woman about what I guy wants

@ishika710

6 ай бұрын

​@@Xjoeblowxsame goes for men, you don't listen the men preaching what women wants, I do blv there are women as mentioned in the comment and so is the other way round.

Perfectly said, been married to a woman that understands this for 30 years and we give each other everything we need. And, our kids all waited until marriage because waiting will prove devotion, strength, and the moral fortitude you need to raise children TOGETHER! Stay away from narcissistic people who need attention and like I told my sons…stay away women who already gave it away to another.

@jess-vw3gh

7 ай бұрын

Did you also tell your daughters to stay away from men who already gave it away?

@kikataye6293

7 ай бұрын

@@jess-vw3ghI’m sure that their mom gave them that bit of info 😉

@xoxjelloxox

6 ай бұрын

What if the man had slept with many women. Mostly when I’m relationship but also when they are not

@xoxjelloxox

6 ай бұрын

@@kikataye6293how can you tell how many they have had?

@prahlee

5 ай бұрын

Well did you tell your sons that their mum already gave it away before she met their dad?

Everyone, male or female, want to be treated well, with love and attention.

@andrebeauchamp6897

8 ай бұрын

Stick to the topic which is men ONLY. We’re not the same as women nor are our wants and needs which is why so many women like you don’t understand us and some of us tend stray because we’re not getting what we want and need from our women. 🙄

@anthonycraig274

8 ай бұрын

Love to a man is loyalty above anyone else as, and the occasional sandwich (my sandwich is Apple crumble) Love to a woman is attention and validation, if the man doesn’t combine that with strength and is too nice, a woman will go elsewhere for her attention and validation.

@BiggiesBabyEntertainment

8 ай бұрын

😢 it's sad how we want to make villains out of every men-friendly podcaster.... Men should also be focused on!

@bconni2

8 ай бұрын

but for the relationship to thrive, the women must adore the man. yet it's totally incumbent of him to be a man worth adoring.

@lobofka.1543

8 ай бұрын

stay on the topic ffs

My husband always knew how amazing he was and I told him every day. In 17 years we never had a real fight. Respect and support is no longer found and the games and drama are overwhelming especially during the holidays. I miss him every hour since he passed.

@415campos4

7 ай бұрын

Sorry for your loss.

@didierbaudot

6 ай бұрын

Sorry for your loss

@Noverificationneeded

6 ай бұрын

I have a lot to say in response to your post but, I won’t. What I will say is: I’m sorry he’s no longer physically with you. Don’t know how long ago that was but, try to focus on the time y’all had together. He was a blessing to you and you were a blessing to him. Your friends and families also benefited from y’all’s relationship. 👍🏼

@ahmadyusof2480

6 ай бұрын

Your family's experience is everyone's dream.

@nathanwood4048

5 ай бұрын

So sorry for your loss

This woman is saving my relationship ❤

The emotional Intimacy in my Marriage has been the key to making every day seem like the first date. Even if physical intimacy isn’t possible, the ability to laugh every day and goof off and admire one another and communicate has held us together even with the language barrier and cultural barrier. Just don’t say Borsch is soup!

@alonalohman2947

Ай бұрын

Borsch is soup though

@lillianpilto2377

Ай бұрын

@@alonalohman2947 don’t say that to a Ukrainian

Woman want to feel special and wanted, men want to feel appreciated and needed

@TheDavveponken

7 ай бұрын

We want to feel wanted just as much as women do. Need and appreciation is for a waiter, and we aren't that.

@teresawatson9032

7 ай бұрын

@@TheDavveponken Well then I suppose it is different depending on a guy, bcs other man have told me differently. However your right I was speaking to generally everyone wants to feel special and wanted by their significant other and they should.

@RonnieHeaden

7 ай бұрын

This is the problem with many women right here. They think they know everything, we have two ears and one mouth for a reason, you should be listening twice as much as we're talking. You might actually learn something.

@MercySunitha-hy4fx

7 ай бұрын

Maybe I was doing something wrong because these 2 guys that I got close to did not want any of what she's saying in this video. And sometimes, honestly, I don't know if all that this lady is saying is what a man is looking for. Goodness alone knows.

@kevinlemarchand5714

7 ай бұрын

This woman is a jewel.

I am mind blown how well she explained it

@StoutProper

8 ай бұрын

So hard to explain to a woman that making me a sandwich when you know I haven’t return without me having to ask is going to make me fall in love with joy. Women just say “oh that’s sexist I’m not doing that”

@Mrs.miatayn

8 ай бұрын

@@StoutPropera women taking care of her man is sexist now? Ugh this society 😅

@kennethrussell1158

8 ай бұрын

She is also so easy on the eyes. Gorgeous woman.

@jon-snow-GOT

8 ай бұрын

You must be female

@unforgivable_236

8 ай бұрын

She only described that men need to become weak ...but I'd argue that that's terrible advice ...men should never become weak ...or else the world won't function...let the women handle the weak stuff like feminine emotions...and let the men deal with the masculine dominant role ...the it should and have been since the beginning of time ..

Wow. I really felt this one! Took me the better part of two decades to find out. Someone who allows us to be open, honest, heard, respected, that's the person. Right there.

As a man I surely agree with this. Over the years I did learn to talk more about my emotions as well. And I feel way more comfortable telling that or talking about that towards a woman who cares, or even better if she also loves me and this love comes from two sides. Another important one is trust and faith.

This was always clear to me. Unfortunately I've met some men before my husband who weren't aware that it's the same for women. We also want someone who's interested in how we are doing, what we need and helps us take care of our health.

@BlkOnyx0508

8 ай бұрын

This!

@krisrogers9090

8 ай бұрын

This is all men are taught from about age 5.......maybe try to pick better men.

@larwatc3839

7 ай бұрын

I'm sorry, but for most women, they already assume men to be doing that for them already. Some women will have a man/husband who gives them that already but will leave that man for another man because women get bored

@helgaioannidis9365

7 ай бұрын

@@larwatc3839 yes some people are like that. There's men and women who take a caring, loving partner for granted and get bored and cheat. This isn't related to gender, this is related to personality traits.

@RonnieHeaden

7 ай бұрын

And of course a woman will make it about them 😅, narcissist

More complicated than that. Mature people want to be able to have intimate conversations in a trusted relationship.

@rodneyshannon5759

8 ай бұрын

It's never complicated, It's simple have the conversation. You only say it's complicated because of fear.

@bconni2

8 ай бұрын

not really. intimate conversations on a repetitive basis is actually quite boring to women. a man is better off being funny and light hearted most of the time, and keeping those intimate conversations to a minimum. she'll respect him a lot more if he takes that approach, as those rare intimate conversations will hold more value. and remember, women feel love by showing respect, and men feel love by receiving respect. you flip that dynamic the other way around, and the relationship has almost no chance of survival.

@ReisePiece

8 ай бұрын

The men that make those talking points about women just need to be a source of sex and peace are dense and not self aware. Don’t take it too seriously

@TriciaWilliams-fg2co

8 ай бұрын

Hey

@knownasxristako3321

8 ай бұрын

Dear sir, God bless you for this comment. It's been at least 8 years since I had a proper mature mind stimulating conversation with my partner. It is the first thing I honestly crave for in a relationship. As we grow older we go into compatibility mode,in day to day things necessities which keep us away from our inner selves. I hate being alone while being in a relationship.

She is describing my hubby 100%😮 all my guy wants is just to see me n the kids after work at home, cuddle with us, doing bedtime stories, he is so perfect and not complicated..of course not forgetting complimenting him, telling him how grateful i am, and the good seggs play a very important role. I love him so dearly,cant imagine my life without him❤

@OGlucky24

7 ай бұрын

Does you guys both work, or are you a stay at home mom?

@crystalthow5533

7 ай бұрын

@@OGlucky24 we both work，he works longer hours, i am at home for the kids when they return from school

@xoxjelloxox

6 ай бұрын

What determines good sex? I have Heard the term many times but I only been with one person

@crystalthow5533

6 ай бұрын

@@xoxjelloxox when you are with someone you truly love, the same one you wake up with, the father of my children,the loving man who makes me feel beautiful and needed. If you get that feeling from him,then the seggs will be great. That is my opinion. He is the second man in my life,will be the last.

@lisa3341

5 ай бұрын

​@@crystalthow5533does He Tell you how grateful He IS?

Peace is not nagging, not being argumentative, not bossing, and controlling.

@2bituser569

15 күн бұрын

I totally don’t get her, “they don’t define what peace is”. She’s allegedly so “brilliant” but can’t grasp that a man doesn’t want a hyper emasculating boss beach at home to nag him to death.

Yes, she's right...however, he must be open to receive that love etc, if he's not, she will not be motivated to do such...it goes BOTH ways. A woman need to feel loved & safe in order to reciprocate that to her man tenfold

@10minutebooks-ww1nh

8 ай бұрын

We know the women want that but this isn't about women is it, it's about men.

@rl7329

8 ай бұрын

Women are terrible at communicating most times and fail to show love until it’s too late. If she acts how she would towards a man like she did for Chad, then the men would be more at ease and more capable of receiving the love. Most females are seeing 10 dudes at a time in 2023 and can’t even do this simple task of showing affection

@shivamgusain5185

6 ай бұрын

If he has to basically tell you everything in detail do you even love him? 😂

You can only be emotionally invested in a man who is honest and loyal.

@var5723

8 ай бұрын

That's the wrong attitude. Like most men ( not the top tier ones most women chase after who have abundance ) who readily give and show affection, the correct attitude is to emotionally invest first. The s/o would automatically open up and be honest and loyal when he/she feels needed and loved. To expect it the other way around is delusional.

@vinny6967

8 ай бұрын

Hahahaha you know fcuk all about men

@taramay8174

8 ай бұрын

Amen

@Him_one_0121

8 ай бұрын

💯

@cross-eyedmary6619

8 ай бұрын

I recently met an honest and loyal man, but I can’t get invested in him emotionally because he can’t hold a decent conversation. Soooo funny when men call women gold diggers because it would be so easy for me to find a man to take care of me, but instead I’m dirt poor and always will struggle…but I won’t be intimate with someone I don’t love.

Allah bless this sister and show her guidance to act accordingly to your will. "ameen"

One of the best and simplest explanations of what a man wants from his woman

@Magicisreal66

7 ай бұрын

Everything she said is also what a woman requires but rarely ever gets. I'm sick to death of hearing what men want. What men need and it's the woman that falls to the wayside almost completely. When a man is a divine masculine, a real man, He shall be treated Buy a woman as such. However, if he is a indoctrinated and infected human male, Then he will most definitely be treated as such. The only thing women want is for him to be a real man. A divine masculine. The problem is this world is infested with the inverted generic form of- empty shell.

My man told me that we could never sleep together again and he'd still love me and want to be with me. He said "The way you know I think you're different is that I actually want to hangout with you. I can enjoy being with you and I could be around you forever and actually still like you and that's not something I've ever had with any other woman." It touched my heart so deeply. 😢❤️ Men definitely do want to be loved and appreciated and to most men sex is important but it's not as important as feeling that love and appreciation.

I became my man’s emotional support when i realized the deep emotional struggle he was going through and i watched him bloom and our relationship did too

As a man when we say a woman should bring peace in a nutshell it means, don't create pointless drama, don't nag all the time, don't reject us if we want to express affection, don't disrespect us. Peace for God's sake. 😂

@girlcode3564

8 ай бұрын

Women want exactly the same thing

@Mikeyprs21

8 ай бұрын

Nailed it.

@shivamgusain5185

6 ай бұрын

​@@girlcode3564but don't give it to men 😂.

@2bituser569

15 күн бұрын

@@girlcode3564hmm, most women create drama and struggle thinking a man wants her to be a challenge.

Their relationship with God and then how much love I give him in different ways ❤❤❤❤ appreciation, respect, affection, loyalty, encouragement, a listening ear, my body ❤❤❤❤ and for me to talk to/treat him like a baby and kiss his forehead when he is stressed 😂😂❤❤

I remember having a dream one night of my partner crying in his mums arms and her saying “you’re supposed to be his peace”, that was me subconsciously taking in this sentiment. I hope I’m doing him proud ❤ It’s important to be your persons peace, their home.

Allelujhia !!! If only the world would have WOMEN like her ... we are in a better place .... AMEN !!

@red---paulvanravenswaay2247

5 ай бұрын

Amen, Amen

Unless he’s a covert narcissist. I gave all this and more but he cheated regardless bc that’s his emotional wound. You don’t cause your partner to cheat. No one can “keep a man (or woman) happy” that’s something we need to do for ourselves.

@tylerdurden3722

8 ай бұрын

For a woman, the single most critical thing to understand for a relationship or marriage to work, is that men and women are not the same. Fail to understand this and any relationship you attempt is already doomed. Men are not emotionally wired the same as women. We do not have the same emotions. We do not exist the same existence. We are not attracted to the same traits in the opposite sex. We do not have the same ideal situation in terms of romantic interaction with the opposite gender. We don't even experience the same emotions, in the exact same situations. We don't experience love the same. Words like trust, loyalty, respect, etc don't mean the same things to us as those does to women. Which is why it's a mistake for a woman to try put herself in the shoes of man to try and understand his thoughts, emotions, experiences, etc. She'll come to the wrong conclusion everytime, because all she'll get from that attempt, is to understanding her own emotional experience in his shoes, and not HIS emotional experience in his shoes. Women, are biologically hardwired to find the most ideal man they can find, and then develop a kind of tunnel vision for just that man (as long as he remains that man in her eyes). Men are not biologically hardwired like that. Men and women are not the same. Men are biologically hardwired to seek variety, in terms of romantic partners. It's not caused by emotional wounds...it's the default hardwiring of all men...even gay men. Monogamy is the ideal for women. Polygamy is the is ideal for men. Any society where male preferences take precedence, e.g. Muslim societies, polygamy tends to be common. Any situation where a man is given absolute power as a king or emperor, he'll have multiple wives and an harem of women. This is the biological hardwiring of men. It's not caused by trauma or other things. It's caused by DNA. The male and female dynamic is an ironic situation, where it's impossible for both to obtain their ideal. For a woman to be in a polygamous relationship, is not ideal and it would be a sacrifice for her to accept such an arrangement. And for a man to be in a monogamous relationship, is not the ideal...it is a sacrifice for a man to accept such a non ideal arrangement. As such, a polygamous man with multiple wives must understand that his wives are making a sacrifice, and he needs to go above and beyond to compensate for that sacrifice to minimize negative developments and outcomes. And focus on easing the emotional triggers that arrangement has one women. In the exact same way, a woman in monogamous relationship with a man must understand that her man is sacrificing his ideal, and she needs to go above and beyond to compensate for that sacrifice to minimize negative developments and outcomes. As well as minimizing the emotional triggers that arrangement has on man. A man's biological impulses for polygamous variety is something that haunts him every second of every day (men are not wired for monogamy like women are). And its effect is similar to alcohol...as it builds, it induces impulsiveness, short-sightedness, impaired decisions, etc but without the visible physical impairment. It's impossible for 1 woman to sexually satisfy a man, because 1 is the opposite of variety...it's a cross he has to bear if he chooses monogamy. The only reason I haven't cheated on my wife, is because she actively makes that sacrifice more than worth it, and she understands and doesn't poke the polygamous demon any man in a monogamous relationship must keep at bay. She isn't under any delusions that just her mere existence is some sort of compensation. Most men can't attain multiple women... simply because most women don't want most men. They can barely get 1 woman, which is why most men are content to settle for monogamy...it's not really a sacrifice to them, because they cant sacrifice what they don't even have (variety). But, there is a small portion of men who do have the ability attain multiple women. That's because most women want and aim for this small portion of desirable men. The majority of these men, will cheat regardless of what the women does. Statistically, most of them only cheat once and something called post-nut hits them hard. After sex, men momentarily become monogamous due to changes in two hormones...our minds become clear again, guilt and regret floods in...even when a single guy masturbates he gets hit with such weird emotions...now imagine a married man). Individuals experience guilt differently...some don't experience it at all (the type who never apologizes)...so post nut doest work on them. There are many things a women can do to either minimize or exacerbate the hormones that are part responsible for men's polygamous hardwiring, but even if the women does everything perfect and is perfect herself, it would still not be enough...because she alone can never provide variety. Costumes and roleplaying will only keep that impulse at bay for so long. The men who are exceptions are rare. It's either the man is very religious (and belongs to a monogamous religion and culture), or the woman and children has a big impact on him. Or he cheated once at one point, and got hit hard by the post-nut and ran back home never to repeat that mistake. Most men tell women whatever they want to hear, paint them pictures with words they want to see only, to avoid offending and to conserve the peace. But it's a form of dishonesty, manipulation and cowardice. These men will cheat, if they're able to (most men aren't even able to). Men who are honest, risk offending to be honest, and risk being called and labelled an ashole.

@cutiepiea3687

8 ай бұрын

@@tylerdurden3722wow this some real shit

@truffaut650truffaut6

8 ай бұрын

​@@tylerdurden3722this is why I stay single. Marriage is an overrated thing from the past. Love and peace is priceless.

@eugenewaddington

8 ай бұрын

Neglecting your partner by working long hours or spending more time with the kids than your spouse is the catalyst for bad things to happen. Balance in any relationships is the key ingredient.

@Yoshiecatattck

8 ай бұрын

@@tylerdurden3722 wow … I feel like instead of saying most men or most women maybe you should just speak for yourself…

What’s keeps a person happy is their own choice to be happy. You can’t make anyone happy but you can be loving and kind to your partner but at the end of the day it’s their decision as to whether they want to be happy or not.

This has to be the REALEST, Sadia has EVER spoken!

A Man that truly understands where a Woman is comung from will see and innerstand that Her main role in His life Is to grant him Emotional Stability. Great message. ⚘

She's so right this is my strong point as a wife and hell we have survive more stuff than most people do. I do minimal cleaning and cooking but he doesn't give a shit because the emotional investement is through the roof!!

I've invested in my man in an intense way. Cared for him, trusted him, cleaned, cooked, protected him, listened to him and he pulled away, lied and turns out he was cheating.

@robbiedaw3415

8 ай бұрын

Yeah thats how it gets when u pick meshas do everything for a little man😂 the man always have to invest more in the woman to stay.

@shahzadfarooqi920

8 ай бұрын

Yo keep yours act ❤️❣️he kept his🫤🫤

@thamikhumalo4369

8 ай бұрын

Were you respectful and cooperative?

@Kellie_stars

8 ай бұрын

I am so sorry to hear that really

@stealthdeath8962

8 ай бұрын

How rich he is ?

That’s part of peace, you can say what you want in the privacy of your home and it won’t cause a fight or some situation, it’s peaceful and accepted.

A woman who understands … 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Whoever gets that from her can feel himself to be the luckiest man alive

The first woman to actually understand that men have feelings too. Yes we're HUMANS as well. Yes we're strong and protective will take on the world 🌎 for our loved ones, but through all that we mainly want to be loved and appreciated just the same. We need the nurturing care of a good woman.

@MercySunitha-hy4fx

7 ай бұрын

I was told otherwise by the guy I cared most about. Maybe he wasn't meant for me despite the unconditional love and care that I gave him. Who knows!

@Magicisreal66

7 ай бұрын

​@@MercySunitha-hy4fxEverything she said is also what a woman requires but rarely ever gets. I'm sick to death of hearing what men want. What men need and it's the woman that falls to the wayside almost completely. When a man is a divine masculine, a real man, He shall be treated Buy a woman as such. However, if he is a indoctrinated and infected human male, Then he will most definitely be treated as such. The only thing women want is for him to be a real man. A divine masculine. The problem is this world is infested with the inverted generic form of- empty shell.

A women to trust and love truly is a blessing.

Happiness comes from within not from someone or anything else. And she should know this.

Very well said. Most of us manly men still want a big warm hug and hear the words “I love you”. When we were little, our Moms and Fathers used to do that. As we grow that becomes a hand shake from Dad, but later in life we return to wanting those warm hugs before one of us is no longer here.

Not only is this lady spot on in her assessments and ideology concerning men’s true needs, she is drop dead gorgeous doing it.

Sometimes the only luxury you have is a best friend to vent to emotionally 😊

she's awesome. the thing about Sadia is, if you watch interviews/podcasts of her, she always surprises herself with how well she words things. it is because she speaks through her intuition. she has the knowledge & background, and understands it so well that when she speaks, her words are able to intuitively flow from within. she is always genuine & she's just so mf intelligent. you go Sadia I see you gorl.

A woman is unable to express what men really want in a relationship. Just as a man is unable to express what a woman wants out of a relationship. This madness needs to stop.

Somebody give this woman and award for having some sense

I think that's for everyone not just men

@DouceMimi100Terres

8 ай бұрын

😊 Coz mens are human been too 🤭....

We need more women like you

I'm a proud feminist and I agree with this. All human beings need love and affection. If you treat your man well, he'll spoil you with his love and devotion. ❤

This goes both ways , and nowadays men want multiple partners or waste our time, peace needs to go both ways. I need peace too, loyalty and love!

the highest expresion of love for a man is respect

All sounds lovely 🥰 But does he do that for her as well? We all want emotionally invested partners

@lisamarieb3853

8 ай бұрын

Exactly! I did all she said. I threw myself into his emotional, mental and physical wellbeing, and every bit of it was taken for granted and he antagonized me throughout our entire marriage.

@spencergrant8449

7 ай бұрын

Of course, it can not be one sided. Nobody should tolerate someone who doesn't love reciprocally. But she is just making the point about how men receive love in this short video, which is commonly misunderstood, whereas how women receive love is a little bit more common knowledge. But yeah, it works both ways. Don't put up with bullshit, that's a given.

@tikka300wsm5

7 ай бұрын

The topic is men's needs. Once again, women cannot stand the topic being about men so they have to make it about women.

@RonnieHeaden

7 ай бұрын

Narcissist warning ⚠️⚠️⚠️ 😅😅😅

@2bituser569

15 күн бұрын

Whenever we talk about women it’s always what about men what about men. When people diss men no yells what about women. Women always trying to deflect off topic.

Bonding from a genuine loving place.

YES, this woman hit the nail on the head!! Proverbs 19:14😊😊😊 Exactly!!

First time I'm hearing a lady talk absolute sense... Bow down to this lady! Respect! 🙏🙏🙏❤️

Just appreciate what he does for you on a daily basis, and tell him he did a good job. Watch what happens.. A Man shows his love trough actions! Edit: if you are a real man and you agree, slam that thumb!

No matter how much you invest, nothing and nobody can satisfy a narcissist.

@lauraashley1

8 ай бұрын

Umm... Knowing someone is a narcissist we consciously do not be with them.

@aniakolobius2186

8 ай бұрын

@lauraashley720 narcissists wear masks, you will never see true self untill is too late.

@jonettemathias6560

8 ай бұрын

I was seriously looking for this comment…… so true

@elenapabon9507

8 ай бұрын

I believe that part of one being a “narcissist” includes hiding their true nature. It easy for a vulnerable person to fall head over heels for the wrong person. Narcissists knows their pray. We “women” are beautiful, smart, strong and capable of accomplishing anything that’s given to us. It’s in our nature. But most of us fall very short when it come too “emotional intelligence.”

@tylerdurden3722

8 ай бұрын

There's a saying: "you are what you attract". Women tend to choose the same type of guy over and over and over. Actual narcissists are rare. So finding yourself picking these needles out of hay stacks over and over is not a random coincidence.

This pretty lady knows what's up. Respect Ma'am

Translated: A man is always seeking the comfort of a caring, attentive mother. His quest in life is to replace her if she was distant or abusive, or to find a replacement her replacement.

I can't believe how dumb we've gotten. The idea that "caring about another person's well-being" is somehow revolutionary.

So true about men now having people to talk to about their emotions.. we don’t have the luxury of having friends to do that with. It is just not the same.

I like how wise she is, but oh maaan, she’s sooo beautiful 😍

You speak the truth!!!! . What a man wants deepest and most along with that is he wants to make the one woman he loves. " Happy, fulfilled, and loved.""

I did this and some are liars they want the chaos, drama, sexual activities, some you have too starve them and find your peace in yourself , love yourself first and make him give you peace, love, and attention, then they can recieve these things , make this mistake she talking about and they will take you for granted each time and you will be left heart broken, always , make him stand on what he say or do, stand ypur ground do not lower your standards or live alone the rest of your life, Amen

@JoseCruz-ce2vp

8 ай бұрын

This sounds just like the emotionally immature bullshit that the red pill community talks about with women. You attract immature men because you sound immature and that causes mature men to reject you. The only thing you said that was correct was "love yourself first".

I wanted to be all that for him but he chose cheating just because "that's what everyone is doing" his words exactly 🎉

@DarlingLove-ku3eu

8 ай бұрын

Nah y’all weren’t compatible, it’s ok they have others who are willing to love you

@annaisis7510

8 ай бұрын

@DarlingLove-ku3eu still struggling to put it in my head hard pill to swallow 😪

@marilember

8 ай бұрын

That doesn't sound like a healthy normal average man's thinking. Sounds like a narcissist or psycho, who is detached from his humanity.

@annaisis7510

8 ай бұрын

@@marilember God knows I suffered

@wyleecoyotee4252

8 ай бұрын

​@@marilember It is the average man's thinking

Men want the woman to be on his team, to be for him, to be his helpmate, confidant, cheerleader, supporter. When she badgers him to produce more, argues with him, that takes away peace and demonstrates she is on her own team, self-centered. They need to be on each other's team. It's WE.

Over complicating things… she had it right in the first sentence!!

Peace, and security go hand in hand. Peace is when I come to you at my worst I know you won't hold it over my head an not make me regret breaking down around you, I can be genuine with you, and you won't belittle me now or later about it. Peace has an incredible amount of intricacies to it, which is why people don't have a true definition to it. It's like how vaguely people use the word love or hate.

@jayfxdx

8 ай бұрын

Sadia doesn't understand how different a man's life path is from a woman's. This is why women in general don't understand what it is to "bring peace" into a man's life.

It is same vice-versa. Woman wants the same from man.

@JhnnyBoy

8 ай бұрын

Of course. You are the woman she’s referring to. You couldn’t contain yourself to let this just be focus on a man’s needs. Bet you celebrate Father’s Day for yourself too

@madeleinetepa4455

8 ай бұрын

Thank you

@MrTsukudu

8 ай бұрын

Like we haven't incessantly heard about women's wants for ever. Why do you hoes always have to center yourselves. Always being selfish when the conversation for once isn't about what you want. Do you even posses the capacity to care about anyone else but yourselves? Jesus 😂

@dullknifefactory

8 ай бұрын

Stop making everything about you

@andrebeauchamp6897

8 ай бұрын

But she’s discussing men. Why can’t you stick to the topic? That’s the problem, many of y’all always want to make it about y’all which demonstrates selfishness and entitlement. You NEVER see or hear a man enter a chat whereas the topic about what women want and need and make it about them. We tend to listen and learn to help us better understand y’all. Give us the same respect and courtesy. 😒

She gets it ... Bravo, you figured it out lady.

She is so very correct in her words

It's amazing how wrong she can be while appearing to be intelligent!

@odinanithegreat7544

8 ай бұрын

She sounds so stupid. Talking about men can't go to their friends to express their feelings.

@makhabzaranamane6869

8 ай бұрын

Facts

Nailed it!

I would love to see her explaining all this when she is in a real need. She is committed to her beautiful Ego and keeps collecting all the positive confirmations where she is right. People completely lost track of what wisdom is. Wisdom does not “build” itself. Wisdom comes brand new every moment. Her “knowledge” is obsolete.

SO ABSOLUTELY RIGHT YOU ARE BABY GIRL. 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯

And when she finds a man that is in touch with his feelings and wants to be acknowledged…wants to talk things through…that man is seen as dramatic and man up…safe to say that man is not with that woman anymore…

@azazelviper155

8 ай бұрын

That's girls your talking about, when that same emotional safety net is provided to a REAL woman, we naturally want to give that back, especially if we've never been given that, a genuinely good person knows how that feels and doesn't want anyone else to feel like that, but a genuinely good person in general also gets tired of being taken advantage of, that works both ways in every relationship, it's a mutual effort

@kevinmac6508

8 ай бұрын

​@@azazelviper155 I've seen it from grandmas to little girls. You can handle it if you are not invested, but if it is someone you rely on, it's different. It's almost a biological proclivity. You won't understand it. Just a feeling will manifest within you.

She's absolutely right

She totally hits the nail on the head!!! Perfect!

I think the woman has to be special enough to notice and take care of our struggles and our deep wounds. Because if it really hurts, and we feel powerless, we won't tell it to our female partners!! But it's damn SPECIAL whe she shows support in a moment or an area in which we don't even feel comfortable sharing, and she identifies it. Show support and doesn't even talks directly about our vulnerability

@saritahumat5994

8 ай бұрын

Spot on. Totally agree.

What she’s saying is that you have to in some way’s be there mothers 😊

@moemeneldukany4191

8 ай бұрын

So true, only women should get emotional support fr

@ST-yc7uj

8 ай бұрын

a mother naggs

@wyleecoyotee4252

8 ай бұрын

You got it. A mommy wife

@marvinwhitlock6763

7 ай бұрын

Wow so caring about your man's happiness and feelings is being a mom smdh

She is absolutely right

Dang, you hit the nail on the head . It is what it is

I disagree with her statement that men cant go to their wives for emotional support. The problem is the chose to to cheat and gain addictions. Not everybody wants to be healed, unfortunayely. Some people love to sin. We are in a different time. If you cant go to your wife, get one you can talk to.

You are absolutely correct you nailed this one perfectly ❤

This woman is just too much ya'll Bless her heart and her man is a blessed man 💎🏆

They cheat cuz doesn't matter how much you love, they lost something within them that can not be fixed or healed. So they cheat and will do this forever. Dont mistakes this with "if i love him enough he will never leave." He will leave and he knows it but he never tells you that

@karolinawww6834

8 ай бұрын

Good point. Blaming women for men's infidelity is just wrong

@joebrossett

8 ай бұрын

​@karolinawww6834 I agree. If a man isn't wired to be loyal, he should just be honest. Women should have a choice. Surprising how many women will still be part of a relationship knowing they won't be the only one.

Wow, beautiful words from a beautiful woman ❤

Respect more than anything. Married 13yrs

Honestly, im in love with his ladys compassion and understanding of a man emotionally. Good luck in life your the diamond in the dirt.

I respectfully disagree. So it’s the wife’s fault again if he cheats because he needed more attention at home .😳how does work. It’s a choice to not say as a grown man what they need

@shivamgusain5185

6 ай бұрын

Most wife and gf i know are a complete 5 year old with their partner always shouting, starting pointless drama, startting cinversations about things which are nowhere related to them always on their nagging mode, loose their minds during their periods and eventually all the shouting and nagging becomes 100 times more women are a tension its just women dont see it women never see the amount of peace they destroy.

Holy shit !!!! I needed to hear this ! Thank you 🙏🏽 ❤❤❤❤❤❤

Very well said and summed

So true. This woman gives the BEST advice, hands down.

What if u do everyting and still they abuse u verbally , make u feel abt u past relation what will you do? Then

@crimson6172

8 ай бұрын

That means you chose wrong. Nothing to do with him being a man, he is just a bad person. A man can also do everything right for a woman and gets betrayed.

@seraphina2293

8 ай бұрын

Leave

@moonchild650

8 ай бұрын

Sounds like a narcissist. Leave him and cut all ties with him. He might try to manipulate you back into the connection, promising you that he will change. Don't fall for that.

@TIZZIME-si7rx

8 ай бұрын

THEY WONT

Although most man like to go to a bar or a coffee shop to just talk about their problems with their male friends. Doesn’t matter how nice a woman is or how much effort they put to be emotionally involved with their husband or partner most man dont like to share anything from outside or talk about their problems. They are not wired like that

@kevinmac6508

8 ай бұрын

Well it's like a woman talking about her period to a man. We can try to understand, but we can never truly understand the burden. Where as in a few words a guy is going to understand our issues, and a good man will give solid actionable advice.

She nailed it for what I look for in a woman...well said

@tjturner3916

6 ай бұрын

So a silent, voiceless, interchangeable cum dumpster that asks nothing of you and has zero standards for how you treat her.

It's more than you describe. He needs support, safety, someone to rely, etc.

She knows nothing about what a man wants.

Yes, we feel, we just don't articulate it the way women do; we're far more likely to smile and hug you because you made us a cup of tea when we got in from work 😊

That makes more sense than all I've heard.

You gotta remember one thing. We all grow up being tormented from our parents. But we're still fine. People grow out of it when you find it.Realize that you're on your own. Make the best of it

I would love to see videos of the women needs and how to keep a good women happy

@Crystal-45369

8 ай бұрын

Here we go making it about women agian. You're missing the point. Lol

@QQ-lw9uh

7 ай бұрын

​@@Crystal-45369here we go 🙄 how'd u get that from this comment? They'd love to see a video of the opposite they didn't say anything bad. Yet u wanna assume sum? Get outta ya feelings girl. Have a good day

@Crystal-45369

7 ай бұрын

@@QQ-lw9uh Please 😆

This is 100% true. My shirt marriage so far has taught me that there is indeed an emotional side to a man. He can't name these emotional needs, label them or describe the eloquently, but listen close, he'll say what he needs and DO NOT dismiss him. Love is a verb!