“You should go where you are celebrated, and not where you are tolerated.” ~ Jessica OS~

@robbieolive1393

2 жыл бұрын

Dope!!!

@higurashianduminekoconnect1702

2 жыл бұрын

Well someone could text to much and they can create the environment to be tolerated. Texting to much can ruin relationships. I had this experience but the other way around. I had a girlfriend who texting me way to much it became overwhelming. Also i felt smothered. There's no limt to talking. Texting however is overwhelming.

@evans_KE

2 жыл бұрын

Hehe

@cnoise83

2 жыл бұрын

Super Facts. Move around

@ndingirene7895

2 жыл бұрын

That's deep

I’ve learned my lesson. No response is a response. End of story. Move on!!

@doncastillo2818

9 ай бұрын

👍

If she didn’t respond to your message- It is straight up blatant Disrespect! She saw your message, her phone is gorilla glued to her head. If her dream man messaged she wouldn’t ignore it. Men, you deserve that level of interest and commitment out the gate, nothing less. She ignores = Bye! Disqualify! Cancel Her!

No matter how busy a woman is, if she's INTERESTED, she will FIND TIME out of her busy schedule to reach out to you. TIME is money. Therefore, don't give your precious time to a woman who doesn't deserve it. There's plenty of fishes in the ocean so no need to continue chasing one fish that keep running away from you. If indeed she's interested, trust me you will be the very first person to find out. Cheers! Rich Fofana

@mikea.4477

2 жыл бұрын

Very true! If somebody is interested it doesn’t take a lot of effort. Of course many women won’t just fall in a guy’s lap but having to double and triple text is a waste of time. Nobody is that busy! Best to move on to someone who respects your time.

@morelions4014

2 жыл бұрын

Plenty more women out there to break your heart or mess with your head. They seem really good at it these days. Maybe they've got too much high expectations to finding the perfect guy. Of which noone is perfect.

@siradjodiallo5173

2 жыл бұрын

You're awesome

@hermanlucaslucas846

2 жыл бұрын

@@mikea.4477 Amen I don't have the patience trying to read a womans emotions I have a life to live also people are too busy until they are not busy.

@twiston43

Жыл бұрын

"I didn't have time to replyyyy...." Yeah right, I see them with a fork in one hand their phone in the other at the restaurant...

I have been ghosted in the past,I hated it. “No response is a response” if you let her go and she comes back , she loves you. Let her go and live your own life.

@sw5018

2 жыл бұрын

No if you let her go and she comes back it’s because the grass wasn’t greener

@thyeocroft205

2 жыл бұрын

Just move on

@hansonbabson7504

2 жыл бұрын

if she comes back ghost her

@NashBenzotv

2 жыл бұрын

@@sw5018 so now what should be done in this case ! Ghost Her or string her along to take revenge ?

@NashBenzotv

2 жыл бұрын

Loving somebody takes a little bit of time So if she ghosts you that means she’s giving that attention to sb else She might come back if she does dont have her back if you do Make sure to not trust in her again Coz ghosting sb that likes you its a redflag that the person disrespect you nd see you like nothing to they eyes

You cannot force friendship nor love

Plenty of fish in the sea my dear friend, dont get ulcers by hoping, praying and even fasting for someone who's ghosted you. Women really check their phones every second it pings. Flat and simple its the games women play by judging a book wrong and us men get the brunt of it. Be a king, hold yourself in pride, for one who has not acknowledged you three more are praying to have you in their lives.

Bro, if she's leaving you on read, just simply leave her alone, it's that easy

@mike_myers2.000

2 жыл бұрын

@BLACK BULL she keeps me added everywhere and watches my shit

@mike_myers2.000

2 жыл бұрын

@BLACK BULL bro same with me she called me cute and baby so ain't not one tell me this girl be done

@LoveIsWar977

Жыл бұрын

@@mike_myers2.000 I say, let her watch, and keep watching for eternity.

@twiston43

Жыл бұрын

And delete or block her number.

This is a very important message that needed to be said. I had to grow up and learn these points the hard long way. How I deal with it is, if she no longer shows interest, I never push. I delete the number and move on, and be at peace with it. No hurt feelings. If she calls or messages, I'll respond but in my mind I've already moved on. It helps me avoid all stress from unrealistic expectations. It works every time. So liberating

@jamesjones7214

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks

@suiyvenelvis3549

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks, the perfect way to deal with her. Delete her number and move on

@IetjeWongsodikromo

Жыл бұрын

I want to be like you

@davebibs4948

11 ай бұрын

“I’ll respond but in my mind I already moved on” - that’s exactly how I feel - that behavior is a turn off / sketch.

@rwyo83

11 ай бұрын

Don't delete or block her, otherwise she won't feel the pain. If you ask her for a date and she doesn't show interest, get a reaction from her, then ignore her and then move on.

If she doesn’t respond to the first, then it’s clear. No need to send more messages, she’s not thinking about you

@devilisbackk

2 жыл бұрын

My girl did that few days ago actually this is not first time but many a times..... I guess this should be final and I should move on 🙄.... I was actually ignoring those red flags all these days cos I love her a lot 🙄

@dannytennial5311

Жыл бұрын

Amen. Move on.

@johntez25mc-supercop

Жыл бұрын

@@devilisbackk move on,,,,, kindly

If a woman do not respond to my text in a timely matter I am moving on to the next woman real quick! I have no time to play games!

I like your analysis from a woman's perspective. As a 58 year old man, I keep it simple. After 24 hours of a text and voice mail, I move on. A person will make time for you or excuses. If a person ignores you they aren't interested. We don't ignore our interests.

You are just the best and I thank you a lot. I used to be very depressed before but since I started following you I'm knowing much I took for granted and gaining strength. Thank you for giving us a sense of direction

7:08 The double text is a classic no no, a sign of neediness and definitely an attraction killer. If a girl doesn’t text back by the end of the day you can pretty much be certain that you’re a low priority in her life. Trust me guys…don’t overthink it. She’s probably not worth the trouble. Just move on! ✌🏽

@cnoise83

2 жыл бұрын

Right. Most likely not the trouble n energy. Every issue gonna be because of her not communicating or playing u in some form because of lack of interest

@johnnybrison4150

2 жыл бұрын

until women start winning they have no leverage 😂

@archiij1707

2 жыл бұрын

Thats facts, don't ever text back jusy move on and call it a day.

@TheFadewolf

Жыл бұрын

But bra they getting freaky with everyone else

@irenetetteh1480

Жыл бұрын

It applies to men as well

DON’T … EVER… DOUBLE…TEXT.

😂 let's no sugar coat this. " She's not interested, move on" I have been left on seen hundreds of times ! 😂

@ProtoIndoEuropean88

4 ай бұрын

In other words, women in general are uninterested unless there is context

I'll say this a million times. Jessica... I really appreciate your videos. You speak reality and facts.🙌

@4hinson777

2 жыл бұрын

I came across this video and I must say, It was refreshing to her a beautiful 👰🏽 Sister declare and confirm: *Go where you're celebrated not where you're tolerated.* -- "Priceless 💎 "... Thank you, Jessica Os!

Just the video I was waiting for. Jessica you're a life saver 🙌

Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!

I love the way you respond to those little distractions, it makes the video authentic 😀

@JessicaOS

2 жыл бұрын

🤣

Moving on, I think is the right step. No response is not interested simple as that. Jess your number one is my caveat.

@paulcolin9071

2 жыл бұрын

True

Jessica. In the past months, I've watched as many of your videos that I could find. I've never seen you out of character saying, jokingly, " I'm gonna go find that bird and strangle it." I laughed so hard at that moment for at least 10 minutes or so afterwards . 😂 I've always listened to you seriously with my full attention. But at that moment, you let your guard down, and it was different. Thank you and God bless you and your channel. I've learned SO MUCH from you and your channel. Much love to you Queen.

One thing that absolutely bothers me about this dating scene is the terminology we use to give women the power of choice like they are a prize to be one. The arrogance today is something I cannot fathom.

@paulokello5981

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly, social media made them think they are the prize

@StreetsidePhotoOnline

2 жыл бұрын

@@paulokello5981 it's weird af like they've become superhuman or something good lord they need to be humbled. Then when a man says all they have to offer is set its wrong but with these attitudes, arrogance, but NO RESULTS NO MARRIAGE OR FAMILY TO SHOW they sound like these videos and TV like robots.

@larrybutler8524

2 жыл бұрын

Streetside, this is one that we as men have to ride out, because in the end, we truly do have it the best. It may seem like women are winning at the moment, but when you look at it from a long-term, they're actually losing out big time because as they age, the games go away and then reality hits them in that they don't have the protection, stability, and security they need from a Man. It's sad, but in the long run, men will come out on top. I use to let the dating scene bother me, but after listing to Kevin Samuels and Alpha Male Strategies, it has really changed my outlook on all of this dating scene. If you have the time to read a little, check out this book by Richard Cooper called "The Unplugged Alpha". It will really expose the life and society today that we're in when it comes to women.

Right on Jessica! Life is about moving on. Thank you👏👏

@yourfave2593

2 жыл бұрын

u

@so3710

2 жыл бұрын

Spot on🎯👍🏼

Thanks so much for this video. This is something I've been trying to wrap my mind around for sometime now. You made it understandable for me.

Jessica, I like how you deal with mishaps during your shoots! So calm and composed! However, your content always stands out!

*Excellent and Priceless! 👌🏿Thank you, Jessica Os* 🥇

The bird came to get some tips too, he chirping in on the conversation.😂🌳🐦

Just love the way you speak. Really clear.

I get that too. I realize that I am not priority, so I just move on.

Just discovered you yesterday.. and I love everything about you already much love from Kenya

Thank you Jessica. I really appreciate it.🤝

Sometimes i don't understand why *love* should be complicated smh🤔

@felipazo2

4 ай бұрын

Isn't love it's pure selfish

I don't dm or text women for a response but if I did I would only text or dm one time...women knows what they want or don't want and a man they intrested in dont need to text or dm twice...

@fredrickkoech8396

2 жыл бұрын

True

Lashing out is never a good thing, because that can cause a huge problem. Just move on after the 2nd text.

@humblekingjay7245

2 жыл бұрын

Facts but first time she lose my# get it again then don't use it or reply back wtf I gotta move on she wasting my time

@cnoise83

2 жыл бұрын

Right when no response occurs. It reveals her fake character especially if she gave her # to u , knowing u are interested in her it's almost disrespectful when she could of just said no in a few ways from the jump. Misleading. But don't text or call again then u win!! Now u know at least

Guys, I honestly think that understanding women is difficult !! You need to pay attention to not only what is said but to what is not said too😊

@mike_myers2.000

2 жыл бұрын

You don't have to understand women you have to understand that one for you

@mikea.4477

2 жыл бұрын

Trying to overthink and analyze a woman’s actions will drive a man crazy. Women are more emotional and less logical so there’s no point in trying to rationalize them. Bottom line if a woman is feeling you it won’t be hard to tell.

@gundamt437

2 жыл бұрын

@@mike_myers2.000 but how will you know the one for you, if you don't try to understand women?

@mike_myers2.000

2 жыл бұрын

@@gundamt437 there a lot of women out there but that one will make sense to ya even when she don't make sense to the world you get her she gets you

@gundamt437

2 жыл бұрын

@@mike_myers2.000 ok. So therefore, there needs to be a level of understanding a man needs to have for a woman. 👀 If there isn't any understanding or learning, then how is a man supposed to know when she gets him as you say? See where I'm going with this..👀

I use to text a woman I liked and she would reply a couple of hours later, however when we were in the pub as part of a group and she was messaged, she would reply to the text immediately, I moved on pretty quick.

Facts 💯Words only hurts whenever they are true 💯

In a relationship and in Life it's important to know when to hold on and when to let go. Letting go might be painful but sometimes holding on cause more pains

@vistv5921

2 жыл бұрын

So true 👍

@samuelsam117

2 жыл бұрын

True

@cnoise83

2 жыл бұрын

No lie nooooo lies

@NashBenzotv

2 жыл бұрын

@Michael Davis you are not alone Woman so flaky nowadays you never can tell when they bout to change up on you Be aware never believe in what a girl says to you when you first meet her She could say or do things to make you feel great which can be a trap Sometimes she must’ve got dumped by some dudes that she liked recently And Choose you as comfort to make her over that guy and soon as that guy comes back she starts stringing you along and walk away before you know it

Hello jessica? Actually this is what i have been waiting for😊 i salute you thanks.

All i can say is thank you @jessica OS you really helped me through my hard time with my break up.

Thank you Madame J , I have been following your posts.

Great content Jessica, great men would bow just to learn from you...

great advice sis! plus dont get bogged down with unimportant bs....its not worth it....

What a superb video !!! Thanks a lot Jessica

And the sad part is that 1 simple response from her makes your day.. then next respond will be in 3 months 😭 thank you Jess

@JessicaOS

2 жыл бұрын

😅😅 i feel your pain. Some of my sisters can be....

@yaaqubmasoud6580

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂💯💯

@laminecisse5048

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂🤦🏿‍♂️

@aarongunnz9513

2 жыл бұрын

I've been there. They call it silent break up. The bitch did that, few months later she wanted to come back. I refused to take her back but now she is crying foul

@greymaterresources

2 жыл бұрын

Ha ha ha.....what a savage!!!

Great again Jessica! I think one of the most important things you said is the one about priorities. This is equally applicable for both genders. I wish I could claim originality here but I can’t. “Don’t make someone a priority who only sees you as an option.” That says it all!

@morelions4014

2 жыл бұрын

Irs alright for some that actually have options and can just another person so easily. For some have to wait years just for a woman to even show any interest. When that happens you really appreciate the very few woman that do come into your life.

@gregorycarlson6632

2 жыл бұрын

@@morelions4014 Absolutely right! Relationships are hard. Even the best of relationships can be very difficult at times. Loving someone who doesn’t return that love is one of the most gut wrenching experiences one can deal with in this life. Thanks for the reply!👍

@hermanlucaslucas846

2 жыл бұрын

@@gregorycarlson6632 don't love any one who doesn't return it you're asking for trouble.

Thank you for this! I'm experiencing this now. But the crazy thing is when you back off and stop texting, then they reach out weeks later with a "hey how are you doing" text🤷🏿‍♂️ I don't understand 🤦🏿‍♂️

@JessicaOS

2 жыл бұрын

Ignore them for weeks before you also reply

@alhassanabugurago640

2 жыл бұрын

Bruh, never in your life reply that message. If it's on WhatsApp, give her blue ticks forever. Ladies need to be straight forward in order to save us from wandering whether to hold on or to let go.

@hightopfad

2 жыл бұрын

@@alhassanabugurago640 amen! You are right! Female text me the other day saying " I'm just seeing this" 🤦🏿‍♂️ I didn't even respond nor am I going to respond!

@tholimphilodlamini5356

2 жыл бұрын

Don't reply, i flopped and replied her "hey wasaup" text after weeks of ignoring her. I was supposed to ignore her some more😂😭now it looks like she's got the upper hand. Forgive me guys😂😭😭. That's what they do, come back just to make sure they still a priority in your life and leave again. Don't fall for it brother, let her burnnnn🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

@hightopfad

2 жыл бұрын

@@tholimphilodlamini5356 amen and yep burn baby ❤️‍🔥

I honestly wished that your KZread channel was around when I was dating because it definitely would have helped me understanding women thank you for sharing.

@cnoise83

2 жыл бұрын

Honestly we been knowing this stuff all along. We just don't wanna accept what we are being shown. We fear walking away too early. The truth always there chilling witta cigar in our face

hi Jessica I really appreciate your teaching I feel so relieved, you are a good teacher thanks so much " love respect ❤❤🙏🙏💯

You are saving many lives on a daily basis Jessica 🌹🌹

If you're at the point where you're worrying about a text or response or even rejection you're the problem....life's too short to worry about any of that...live and let life take its course whatever happens happens

@NashBenzotv

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the motivation tips Im screenshooting this for sure

@SR-hf3hx

2 жыл бұрын

@@NashBenzotv it isn't worth it...I've been alone for almost 2 years because I won't settle for crap, so be it if it lasts forever lol hopefully not....but you get my point , live for your purpose and don't even worry about women they will come when they are supposed to

@NashBenzotv

2 жыл бұрын

@@SR-hf3hx you right im actually going through love issues Ive been wrong that girl i thought my gf wasn’t really the one ! I texted her she’s not engaging in texting back the way she used to ! Im so hurt this wont happen to me ever again Luckily i haven’t dated her for that long ive been knowing her for a month

@SR-hf3hx

2 жыл бұрын

@@NashBenzotv don't feel bad...I spent 10 years with a woman who never cared for me at all....totally fake....its God strengthening you and preparing you for the right woman

@mike_myers2.000

2 жыл бұрын

@@NashBenzotv aye bro girl I've been seeing for 8 years basically decided to dip on me we both fucked up in the relationship but we kept fighting for each other 2 weeks ago she met these new friends and now she's cold and distant but she hit me up outta the blue saying she thought of us and the good times said she loved me called me all the cute names then boom dip take it from me don't wait for the girl or stay hung up she already took 8 years of my life not letting her take another second

Well said, you are phenomenal.

Never double text a lady.what made you think she didn't see your message.Bro she ghost you,she ignore your message,that says a Lot.

Thank you ..i had under her shadow for years 5years but this contents helps a lot

Your sponsors were just checking in on you. 😅😊 Thank you for this video. Tough to hear, but needed.

I'm glad to hv an opportunity to hear from you again

Thanks for this Important Message Jessica !

A women doesnt get mad at you unless she cares for you.

Ghosting is often written off as a petty thing, but for people genuinely trying to pursue a long-term relationship/love, it is very disturbing. Especially for men, who already have an uphill battle to fight in the dating world. I always try to give the benefit of the doubt to someone for about a day, but after that I can tell it's done. If a woman is interested in you, she'll make the time for you. No excuses.

Jessica our deliverance minister kkkkkk, many thanks for insightful videos.

Loved that gorgeous bird on the backgroung!!!!thanks for the vid

In communication we say, "You cannot not communicate." The silence or refusal to respond to the message is in itself a message that you are unwanted or at best being tolerated. Move on

@hermanlucaslucas846

2 жыл бұрын

Well said sir🤛

thank you Jessica you're the real deal😍😍😍...

Thank you Jessica Very real Kevin x

Thanks jes you have helped me end a long-term relationship with everything you said here i wasn't noticing them but you help me so to do thanks

Thank you, great advice as usual, re the bird dont kill it the natural world was a lovely addition to your message. 😊

@JessicaOS

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣

Thanks Jessica ✊🏾 However I gotta say I loved the sounds of the birds 😆

Thank you beautiful queen you are a 100% right again love you for that keep it up.

Your videos help me move forward, although I’m already aware of things. It’s always good to hear it from a woman’s standpoint . Now I’m moving on , towards my career with a brighter future ahead 💯🙏🏾

Thank you needed to hear this I'm running away

The moment I pressed play I was hit with your powerful aura.

Be on your purpose and this will never bother or happen to you

@stephenofosu536

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely!

@isaiah2810

11 ай бұрын

Meaningless platitudes

@johnAcDaniels

5 ай бұрын

Alpha males get cheated on too bruh.. the only difference is their indifference and ability to cut them off unperturbed

Your words speak volumes...thanx hey

So persistence is not the key. Got it.

Jessica.. .wonderful video.Hats up✌

I love your work Jessica.💪

you were awesome Jessica keep going the 4th reason was awesome

Always awesome insights 👏 👌 👍Jessica Os Happy Easter !

Really appreciated this one 🤞

Greta video, quality, audio and advice! Bless!

@JessicaOS

Жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

Point 4.... they never get it 🤦🤣 Great video as always Jessica 👏❤️

@sirfelix3937

2 жыл бұрын

🐦🙄🤣🤣🤣🤣

@sarahboakye7691

2 жыл бұрын

@@sirfelix3937 why 🤣

so insightful, thanks J

I can relate to this because there were times where I would send a kind message like hi or hi I'm jordan and what do I get, nothing I just left on seen and trust me when I tell you, it's annoying as heck...

@cnoise83

2 жыл бұрын

Disrespectful and fake!!!. But no point of persuing or trynna convince her to talk. Keep it pushing. Don't need nobody u really don't know anyway!!!!

@jordanyoung1836

2 жыл бұрын

Whoa, what did I do

You are such amazing ma, God bless you abundantly watching from Qatar I learn a lot from you content 💙💙

This is the best advice I herd this is what I always do

..i love jess's reaction about the plane 😊

Much appreciated Jessi...such a moving session... thanks again....n oh I do wish to touch down in The Mother Land....N definitely I will 🛫🛫 from City to City....

@JessicaOS

2 жыл бұрын

Awesome

Hello...your advice has really helped me...i know the ladies i can mix and avoid...i had relationship stress long ago..but now theres a lady that checks on me each amd everyday and when am mute she will ask why and she always understands when am busy.

Jasper the bird gave you some nice background sound by the way. I can tell you’re a perfectionist from your concerns about your video.

I usually give two calls and a text, then blocked 🚫 her number...🤔

Thank you for the episode the message was good

Wonderful reasons to just give up on this childish, immature struggle and finally find peace elsewhere.

I agree, people are so rude these days, you're just trying to be friendly yet there's always something about your "friendliness" that they feel warrants such rude behaviour from their side. It never makes any sense and yet we just have to accept it? Why?

Hi Jessica, love your content always. can you make a video on thing to do consistently to keep a relationship with your woman?

I had the same problem with the woman I was trying to reach out so I decided to lash out on her and told her that if she feels like I'm irritating her she must tell me so that I can block her and delete her number and never trouble her again.

Thank you Jessica!

Well said Jessica

Always Insightful 😊

well this mighty helpful. on what to do. thank you.