What is “Winning at Life” for a Man? -Full Discussion
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Lets settle this : 1 in the chat if you good with one woman. 2 in the chat if you want 2+ Women
@Je_suis_Jefe
Жыл бұрын
1
@DFluent
Жыл бұрын
1 I've had multiple already and it's honestly draining...I got things to do
@desaadd
Жыл бұрын
@@DFluent that's facts
@Lurch685
Жыл бұрын
1. I like looking at women but I don’t wanna fuck every one I see.
@LawOfDistraction
Жыл бұрын
@@DFluent respect💯
“I don’t care about getting married, but I want a big wedding.” Wtf lmao
@KeaganZyzz
Жыл бұрын
hedonistic mentality.
@savagedan6274
Жыл бұрын
Just wow The flawed mentality in these ladies
@horacebinns8069
Жыл бұрын
Minds are warped
@mcbiggy1322
Жыл бұрын
The nerve of these 304s
@kaecake9575
Жыл бұрын
"Women are like fish, they don't think, they just do shit." -Patrice O'Neal
She cares more about the wedding than marriage boi we are DOOMED
@Mrcheesydancer
Жыл бұрын
that's all women... that's why you don't get married
There's really no winning for men. My goal in this life is to not lose too badly.
@tonyluong6732
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God that hurt, I feel that bruh
@billymurray1687
Жыл бұрын
You gotta hold yourself to a higher standard than that bro
Myron took the L on that argument about why a dad doesn't need to be there for their child
@sbz1234
Жыл бұрын
His point was the Dad doesn’t need to be there ‘Every day’ !! Listen with logic not emotions!!!
@ProdbyWilliam
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@@sbz1234 Okay Fanboy
@xhysteriaahh
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Not necessarily. A struggling father, financial wise, in this country, can hardly be there for his child. A rich father devotes his life to work as well. In both scenarios the father is hardly present, but that is why they must maximize their few time together.
Winning for a man is being a leader and provider to and for those around you. Leading a successful household, taking care of your community, and being a role model for young men. Because I can tell you this, if you're a billionaire and no one shows up to your funeral, you lost. You're not gonna be on your death bed thinking about the deal that did or didn't go through. You're going to be thinking about the relationships you've built.
@ThatBrunetteFromCali
Жыл бұрын
Spoken like a REAL man. A lot of mob bosses lived by that creed. My father taught me that you could be the richest man in the world & be the loneliest if you don’t have family & good friends.
@R_W_Goodson
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Women/relationships, Men/accomplishments
@Mrcheesydancer
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So I'm busting my ass, WASTING time working while I could be doing things that I love (aka activities that don't make a lot of money) so I can give it all away and feel good about it 🤣🤡 Fuck providing, I don't like spending money unless it's on me! (and my kids but I don't have any so...)
@briandexter5762
Жыл бұрын
Lol if no one shows up at your funeral u wouldnt care coz you're DEAD! That doesnt mean that you shouldn't do good deeds for your family and community but that whole point is mute
Winning as a man is living life on your own terms.
As soon as he drops you as a gf he will be winning in life.
@VoidVintage
Жыл бұрын
Cut your losses fellas while you're ahead
I thought she was the most sane one on the panel then she started talking, then we found out it's been 8 years, then we found out she wants an expensive wedding but is not worried about being a wife, then we find out... see? Jesus these females dude. I have a feeling in 5 years he is going to marry a 25 year old... just not her.
@rossdavis428
Жыл бұрын
@Sal Bill Yes, she has shown her true intentions: To use him up for his acquired resources. However, relationship-savvy men knew that this result was to be expected from the Modern Women though. They all act just like her: Selfish, Bratty, and Evil to the core~
No ONE is naturally loyal or good or content . Those are strengths and skills everyone has to develop or adopt .
She doesn’t want to be married. She just threw out that ridiculous figure of $100,000 dollars to her man so he’ll think the reason why their not married is because of the wedding instead of her just not wanting to marry him. He’s a great boyfriend but not the man she envisioned as her husband.
@DangeloGedeon
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She wants a wedding not a marriage. The wedding is for her Instagram to get likes and views. She isn’t wife material at all. If she really loved that guy the way she says she does, all that lavish shit won’t matter. She’ll take the fastest route to be that man’s wife.
Winning in life for a man is having financially stable situation and a woman who is loyal to him (and actually wants to be). That's what the average man wants.
@ThatBrunetteFromCali
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Loyalty should be a two person system. Not just on her part
@BobaDavis
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@@ThatBrunetteFromCali Loyalty has different meanings for the two sexes because the expectations are different.
@ThatBrunetteFromCali
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@@BobaDavis loyalty is loyalty. There is no difference. The only reason why a “difference” came around is because men AND women have been brainwashed into believing an open relationship is healthy. It’s just a “morally accepted” way of cheating without worrying about the consequences. The literal definition of loyalty is Someone who is loyal remains firm in their friendship or support for a person or thing. [approval] They had remained loyal to the president. Synonyms: faithful, true, devoted, dependable. Romantically it means faithfulness, dedication, honesty, trust, and support in a relationship. Not trying to gaslight your partner into making them believe cheating is ok. You stick your genitals in another woman, that’s cheating. You bend over for another man, that’s cheating. There is no different definition. Loyalty is loyalty
@BobaDavis
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@@ThatBrunetteFromCali No it isn't. A relationship is built on trust and that trust is a promise to adhere to a routine, whatever it is that you promised to keep to one another. Furthermore, human beings are neither monogamous or polyamorus, exclusively.
@BobaDavis
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@@ThatBrunetteFromCali Oh, never refer to a book that most people have NEVER lived by. Human beings have never been monogamous or polyamorus exclusively, I think I said that before and that is not an opinion.
I think the guys at Fresh & Fit don't circulate with wholesome strong men with faith, so they can't see that Jillian (virgin in red) can still find a high value man who will remain faithful and is a virgin (a lot of faith based men are). Jillian can still find them before they make the money and if she treats them right, they won't look elsewhere. They don't have to have multi millions but they can be highly successful.
The most argumtative ones, are ALWAYS the ones that bring up some fake ass reality show.. amazing
The problem with a lot of this girls is that what they say doesn't match with what they do, they always told me if a girl doesn't do what she says stay away from that girl cause some girls will say they don't care if u hang with other girls, but the moment she sees a girl much prettier talking and laughing with u then what she said about she doesn't care about hanging with other girls doesn't match with what she does, also I find interesting a lot of girl like the guy she knows going to hurt her and then she will complain about that kind of men but 5 min later guess with what kind of men they going for.
@dedricklane4899
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Women are attracted to the shadow of a man and quite frankly a lot of them enjoy pain so they chase it but unless your a man that knows this woman will never admit that they go after bad boys because the lifestyle and what comes with like the roller coasters of problems and extreme emotions stimulate them on a daily basis and gives them that rush of passion and danger. it’s not until they get burned a few times do they start to get practical and understand just because that’s something I get pleasure from in the moment being logical and pragmatic she’ll change her natural taste to a man bringing more stability and long term security although a lot women don’t stop chasing that shadow and you see it in women in their 50s trying to get with the ex convict. Men look for the light in a women and women look for the shadow in men but it would be hard to take advantage of being a female if every man knew she was a freak that runs towards danger. Most do though even when raised right but they’ll never admit it.
@REAL88E
Жыл бұрын
It's just a show where low class men with money interview low class women mostly from the streets. Nothing more nothing less.
The lady in a 8-year relationship and not married is in complete denial despite all the evidence showing he may not be taking her seriously.
All 8 years aren’t the same. 8 years from 17-25 is completely different than the 8 of 25-33.
Translation “ I know I’m wrong but your not supposed to tell me that because your a man”
I prefer stability and consistency. Multi-tasking is a recipe for disaster. We need to do what's optimal. Probably not the most easy choice. I don't like to live life on easy mode.
@ejam1117
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I like this. Most dont see it. Multitasking is just another way to say lack of focus.
Kings, sultans or a feudal lords practiced polygamy in the manner Myron describes. There is though a reason why a past tense is applied to their time. It is unsustainable. Married for 30+years. During that time I have been tempted to stray from fidelity. Why I never did is that part of the marriage vow is "Forsaking all others". but I do realise that marital fidelity is the most sustainable and honorable sexual contract.
@palkys.
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Religion is control, remember that and rethink. If you are literally fighting your biology, something's wrong. It's not easily applicable now because of the internet, where you see what's happening in the other side of the world. Take that out, and polygamy works well. For men with that option, that is.
@alphabogeyman7462
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It is only past tense in the West (legally),all the richest men in the world are divorced because their wives claimed they cheated,so monogamy doesn't work even in the West.
There is this great Asian folklore ,where a young boy is sent to the wilderness , he has to grow up so the tribe tells him he must pass the test , his mother pleads that he might get eaten by tigers, alligators and snakes .He was given a some food , clothe and a stick and thrown in the middle of the jungle , he comes back and the leader asked him what did he learn , he said he learnt how to hunt and protect himself , the tribe leader took away the stick and told him to go back again , he came back and the tribe leader asked him what did you learn , he said I learnt how to cook , start a fire and survive in harsh conditions , the tribe leader took away everything and they took him to the deepest part of the jungle , he was doing okay but it got to a point where he realized that he would be thrown back into the jungle again , so he decided to stay.He later comes back and the tribe leader asks him what did he learn , he said "I learnt how to Strive,Thrive and Survive but most importantly I learnt is that if I live for myself I will die and no one will remember me in this jungle , but if I take care of my family , community, be responsible ,be a good example and live a life of purpose then I don't need anything".
Bridezilla: a derogatory noun for a soon-to-be married woman whose behaviour in dealing with her wedding is regarded as both obsessive and excessively demanding. So by that definition, the 8 year relationship girl who wants an extravagant and expensive wedding is not a Bridezilla. She’s more of a greedy, selfish, spoiled brat.
I disagree with Myron here as I usually do when he talks about infidelity. U can argue tht man’s biology is to sleep with as many women as possible an I can concede to that but not most men would cheat if given the option to. It’s not about just havin the ability to cheat but also what your morality is. A strong man with certain upstanding principles it doesn’t even have to be religion any1 who believes cheating/stepping out of a relationship is weak. Not every dude wants or does cheat. I believe it’s a weak society if a man can’t control himself. Which we r definitely living in one I also strongly disagree with the father not rlly havn to be involved with his children having a healthy relationship with ur father is one of the most important aspects of a child’s upbringing. If a man has 20 kids from 20 different women it will be very hard to devote ur time to each of them.
She wants to spend his money and have a wedding that cost 100’s of thousands of dollars but doesn’t care that much about being married. That marriage is doomed. I give it 2 to 3 years max after the wedding. And I am being generous. My advice to him is run. You will save yourself 100k plus
I’ve been married for almost 30 years and it is true that I would like to have a different woman every week. The desire is there but I know it’s wrong according to my Father and the vows I took before Him.
biologically this should never even be an argument
Why does myron talks like he knows everything, there are men who stay faithful to one woman and doesn't even want to cheat.
"It's a celebration for me." FOR ME! And not US. Pay attention people.
100k for a wedding instead of investing LOLZ, WAAAAAAMAAAAAN!!!
Run man ,ruuuuuun!
This idea men don't like monogamy is laughable. Most men have been monogamous throughout history. It's a biological drive to seek out a wife and build a family
No Man says Yessssss, I get to be with 1 women, for the rest of my life.
Notice how they all addressed it from their own pov's instead of a man's pov, and that the 1st 2 starting off with "I feel...". He didn't ask what you felt- he asked whether or not you knew what winning to a man is...Jfc, if more women cut their emotions from having the ability to make decisions, then we as a societal whole might be able to progress
Regarding her (potential wedding) she really said “well eventually it’s not gonna be that much money”. The fact she wants to wait, she doesn’t realize it’ll cost more as year by year, inflation increases the cost of everything let alone what she’ll want in a wedding
I gotta say that this might be the first time I feel like the hosts are ruining the episode.. like the women are all great and giving good answers. And they keep interrupting with immature comments and really bad responses like "guys want a bunch of chicks" I stopped there cause I was getting annoyed
"Women are like fish, they don't think, they just do shit." -Patrice O'Neal
Some chick had the greatest answer at some point on this show… The guy can have a side chick as long as no part of the relationship enters or strains the house. -no lipstick on the collar -no diseases -no bastard kids -no drama
8 years is a stop sign.
8 years and not married but waiting for a big wedding. That’s funny. It’s funny because the other women understand. That’s why they are quiet and not budding in to talk. The woman is most delusional/crazy when one woman is saying dumb stuff and other woman don’t interrupt like always.
25 -30 years ago there was NO such thing as dad's always around or there. This has only become the norm be ause social media portrays that shit
16:40 “why would you want to do that to your man?” She doesn’t care about what he wants and straight up said it. This is the cringy truth for many. After that is the long line of excuses of why it’s ok to be like that. “Have you heard of Bridezilla?”😬😬😬
A BIG PARTY and an extravagant wedding are 2 different things. There's a reason he is not getting married. Finalizing paperwork could have happened before an extravagant wedding.
17:00 And they wonder why men don't want to get married 🙄 🤦🏽
Rumor has it, she’s still single.
@17:47 holy ph uc smfh this b is cray cray
The girl in the red wasn't the issue. The other chick was clearly the side chick an hated her cuz she knew the guy they were both dealing with made the girl in red his main who would be his future wife.
It kills me how men can sit down and tell woman how men are and they deny it all the way.
Her mommy and daddy are supposed to pay for the wedding. That's the tradition
You Need to Unlearn, what you have Learned. Everyone in Yoda Voice
It’s all about her she wants the wedding but she’s not a wife
They will be fine if she stays with him. He has stayed with her for eight years. He is not leaving. 20:12
On this 1 the females have a point to a certain extent. With Nick Canon having an 💩ish load of kids with seperate females not being in their lives is a bad move. Some of the kids that I went to high school were gangsters & on drugs cause the dad was working extra hours Monday-Saturday on a 9-6 yet alone Nick Canon/Entrepreneurs/CEO. & Myron is right that girl should forget about that extravagant pointless wedding & just be married if that's what she's aiming for. She's not going to be 25 yrs. For 8 yrs. She's only getting older & less desirable for Men.
Women want the huge party in her name, not being with the guy for lifetime. Totally celebrating wrong thing sad
4 or 5 chicks'd be cool... a blonde, an oriental, hispanic, mixed race, gothic... sometimes together haha
The girl in the red dress, was she on Just for peral? She sounds like her.
He definitely not gonna marry her 🤣
9:00 most women but obv she is not one of those women this is what I'm talking about
25+ single woman = 🚩
I love this man so much 💯👍
The fact that she thinks spending “hundreds of thousands” of dollars on wedding is reasonable tells you what a walking disaster she is. She was the life of a pro athletes wife. Sad
Man. If I could live in the La La Land women live in.
Winning for a man? Not falling for modern day women’s thirst traps . Oh and he has a passport. Felled, get your passport
Where this money coming from that this girl thinks she’s going have millions of dollars to pay for 1 day and then pay for kids and whatever else she has in mind.
If her guy's watching this he'll be thinking 'Do I want to commit myself to this woman?' Because it's all about her, did you notice? What she wants. No, what she demands! What he thinks about it all is irrelevant. He's just a bit actor in her drama. I'd be getting cold feet, I know it. She's only going to get worse when they've tied the knot. She's going to be nagging when he gets home from work...
Isn't it funny how a man want multiple chicks is unsafe and immoral but a 250000 is perfectly fine.
Dimples is seriously whacked if she thinks her "fiancé" gon wife her up
Not to be a hater.. truly, but I really don’t see the value fresh adds to this show.
These young women are so easily brain washed.
Wtf is emotional success
Shie is pathetic😢 poor guy for 8 years
when see this kinda stuff i think mgtow is a great choice
The woman sitting next to Myron, I think this is the pretty soft spoken chick that was on justpearlythings that was wearing the mask.
Society can sustain itself via polygamy. That is how society was built. Men have always had the wife and the mistress or side chick. Prostitution is the oldest female profession in history and thrive even when marriage rates were at their highest. Majority of ken that use hookers/only fans/sugar babies etc are married men or men in relationships. Females outnumber men so to sustain society and allow every female to have children in a family setting, polygamy is the only way aka 1 man with 2-3 females.
Knowledge is power and STDs would demolish every argument defending hyper sexual men not wanting one woman.
Myron is a cut flower. He is so close but ultimately so wrong about life, as he only sees things through a selfish lens.
@celebritychronicle
Жыл бұрын
Lol protecting and providing for women is selfish. You're giving women too much credit man when men have been maintaining the infrastructure of society for a long time for women to just say they are equal to men lol
@R3dPeel
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Yeah somewhat. I agree with some stuff he says, but saying that all men wanna cheat is crazy. Dont include me into the minority. There are a lot of men that want monogamous relationships. And then the part about letting your kids suffer from a dad that sleeps with multiple women is also messed up too.
@celebritychronicle
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@@R3dPeel He is not saying they do. He is saying it's a BIOLOGICAL URGE that they WANT TO.
@jiggatoni4082
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@@R3dPeel not true he says if given the chance all men would sleep with other girls if their main girl wouldn’t leave
@R3dPeel
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@@celebritychronicle literally what I just said. Dont include other men into your opinion. There are men that are loyal and dont think about other women to have sex with.
Male libido is what makes him imperfect, it's what makes Chads, and simps. Thank God for Christianity, that brought monogamy and by extension the best in human flourishing.
@ejam1117
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Was there not monogamy before christianity?
@omofumaighodalo432
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@@ejam1117 Systemic monogamy, even to the extent that kings had one wife.
@ejam1117
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@@omofumaighodalo432 yes.....and thats not older than 2000 years?
@ThatBrunetteFromCali
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@@ejam1117 but y’all like to use the argument that biblical men had many wives so what’s the problem
@ejam1117
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@@ThatBrunetteFromCali hello athiest here... idk who youre talking about. I dont think monogamy is the natural way of things. The thing is though that marriage used to be a compromise for both. The man got a virgin the woman got protected and provided for. That was the fair trade. Men are still expected to protect and provide, but for what? A hoe is the answer in most cases. The deal isnt fair anymore so many of us are out.
You think Elon musk or Jeff bezos suffered lol
@calebgao6931
Жыл бұрын
jeff definitely did, he's marriage failed despite with all the wealth
@iykyk8736
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@@calebgao6931 yea he did with that I’m talking about growing up suffering like didn’t have food didn’t have a stable place to stay
@20willsdude
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@@calebgao6931 i truly believe he didn't give af. he was with hotter women before the divorce
@rossdavis428
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@IYKYK Both of these men have suffered greatly in order to become the high value men that they are today. Elon's father never showed Elon any appreciation for his genius capabilities when Elon was a child, which is why Elon pushes himself so hard to be the best at the time. Elon has admitted this fact about himself in interviews after he started getting attention for revolutionizing the Tesla Motors company. Jeff comes from a broken family since his parents divorced back when he was only 4 years old. Furthermore, the dude had to build himself up from working at McDonalds as a cook to the CEO of Amazon that he is today. Please do yourself a favor and accurately research a topic before making claims that are based in ignorance like you originally did here. Seriously, Google Searching is not hard to do~
@dep3031
Жыл бұрын
@@iykyk8736 building companies is easy ?
I think the girl in red is an actor lol