I’m only 12 minutes into the video and I agree with you 100%. Before coming to know God - I had 2 children out of wedlock. Now that I’m married with 4 children total, the consequences of my actions never seem to stop. I have to deal with a man who abused me every week (through texting, phone calls, and dropping off my kids) And further more, I put my husband in a position to be reminded of my past actions every time he sees my ex. It’s hurtful to him as a man, although he never holds it against me. It also hurts my children, having to split their time between our homes. Forgiveness is given, but the consequences don’t just disappear. I wish I had someone like you in my life to guide me when I was much younger. Keep doing what you’re doing! Anyone who feels like you’re judgmental, is either ashamed or doesn’t want to be held accountable.

@organizacomingo126

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Thank you so much for your honest words so many women will just ignore there consequences and blame it on someone else it's so refreshing to see woman who accept their past and consequences and still are able to accept God's forgiveness.

@bangibabs

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Shoo you spoke the truth 💝🙏🏾. May God bless you always 💝. Your humility and the fact you are open minded will be your saving Grace. God loves a repentant heart. No one is perfect and being not defensive helps us grow in maturity.

@holyfire327

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I'll be praying for you Sharon ! What you said was refreshing and also very transparent! His grace is sufficient for you! Just know too that anyone who is in Christ is a new creature.. Old things have passed away and all things become new ! I know that it can be difficult, but with the Lord , he can help make it Better through time by his grace

@thehappysouledwomen7832

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I’m in the same exact situation. I understand your feelings completely about the consequences of having children with someone out of wedlock. I wouldn’t change my kids for the world but man do I wish my husband was their biological father more than anything.

@starlash-a

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This literally just encouraged me... I had 2 babies out of wedlock as well...aspiring to be married. Dealing with the baby daddy stuff right now. I also wish I had this same wisdom in the beginning !! Thank You for your boldness.

As someone who was divorced at the age of 21, I wish someone had told me the truth about marriage and divorce! By the grace of God after being divorced for 4 years my husband and I re-married and our family has been restored. I hope that this message reaches countless women and that they receive it into their hearts and minds.

@SisterCarolee

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Wonderful sister!

@francinagriffith7022

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Congratulations!!! May God bless your REunion!

@Vbe796

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Thats is great to hear! Same with me…my husband and I were separated for about a year, living in two different households and managed to work through our issues and get back together. We are now happier than ever. It took alot of internal work on both our parts, but definitely worth it.

@parinazaz4044

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HalleluYah

@sarah_eli

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Beautiful testimony

I wish we lived in a culture that valued & protected this wisdom for our young women… the sad truth is that many of us weren’t guided up in a way that made us aware of these things. While I have been married to my husband for 10 years and my only child is born of our marriage, we still had our fair share of mistakes with other people before we met. Even little encounters like those are not free from spiritual consequences since I feel convicted every time I hear content like this. Younger sisters please hear me: the pleasure of sexual encounters does not last, but how you see yourself will. Please protect your purity and I promise it’ll be the biggest reward to know that you’ve guarded your honor before the Lord ♥️

I’m married 5 years now, and these are the kinds of things I wish someone would have told me before getting married, the cold hard truth. I wouldn’t have changed my decision to marry or to whom but many choices and situations I’ve been through could have been avoided if someone talked to me like bindi talks here on this channel.

Agreed. I divorced my unbelieving spouse as the believing spouse. It wasn’t until a few years AFTER his death that I came to understand what I did was unbiblical in divorcing him. He didn’t want a divorce and I did just because he didn’t believe. I was very repentant. I am SO thankful to the Lord that He brought my current husband into my life.

I love the point of forgiveness is not freedom from consequences. We love the Bible stories where God gives grace and mercy But we gloss over things like David being the apple of God's eye and still allowing his to die as a consequence of his sin.

Amen. This video hits home. I can attest to having a child out of wedlock and facing the consequences and other issues. Thank you Jesus for using Bindi Marc. Please share this video with our sisters and even out men. I wish I had heard this years ago. I’m so happy I’m hear. Thank you for this content.

Such a great, powerful, biblically sound and necessary video sis! Keep being obedient to The Holy Spirit. ❤️ 🙏🏽🌸💕

@Yapah.S.Da.K.O.S

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I want to find the Melinated couples online that have put in time and work in their marriage being led by Our Hamashiyact.

You can be forgiven and still have consequences applied; thank you very much for this statement it really transformed the way I view sin. ❤

Excellent teaching. I agree with you whole heartedly. It is a hard teaching but it is true. I'm married to a Godly man and it will be our 35th anniversary next year. I love being married, but it is not for everyone. Let God lead you. Don't marry an unbeliever or even a believer who is not walking fully with the Lord. Seek wise counsel from true believers. X

Praise God for this KZread Channel 🙏🏾💕🥹 I’m still single but the biblical wisdom I receive off this channel will definitely help me in the future if marriage is in God’s will for my life 🤍 keep up the good work sister 💕

I absolutely agree...I also think it is extremely important that we not rush into marriage and consult God wholeheartedly in the discussion of who we marry. I believe if we truly do that we will marry the right man...not perfect but that man God has set aside for us to come together as one with

Thank you for making this! I’m 17 (not married) and this is what I really needed to hear! The last part of the video, about celibacy for those who have self control vs. marriage for those to whom it might be better, reallyyy spoke to me. God bless you and your household!

@edenredeemed

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I wish I heard this at 17 lol. God bless you sister.

@akailah

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@@edenredeemed haha! I’m very thankful for the resources I have available to me and the mind CHRIST has given me. Most of my peers aren’t in their right mind 🥲

@TriciaRP

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@@akailah I want to Be RESTORED and didn't have to mess my body and life up. I want God and not be continuing in SINS I feel TV AND MOVIES Immorality in Ignorance has made me sick. I don't want to be this way and I FEEL BLINDED AND so deceived. I wasn't this way and sit here what to do. I look at CATHOLIC channels and KNOW I am not CATHOLIC and wanted to marry Long ago ad and have a family. I am a pastor daughter and mess up. I feel God gave me over and wasn't Battling .I seriously didn't STAY in my lane and wasn't counting the cost of salvation. I got into trash life an wasn't this way. I WANT GOD AND be in a better mind I don't understand why I didn't wait on God for my PURPOSE. please pray. I want LIFE

i just turned 18 but watching your videos helped me to further understand marriage. for my generation it is usual to be constantly exposed by that narrative set by the media so i was blindly following it but you changed my mind

Im 19 and I appreciate you being my older internet sister❤

Go you Joyce. As a fellow sister-in-Christ who is very outspoken about the evils of homosexuality and the damage it can do, I have gotten A TON of backlash from the world and Christians alike but, just like you said, people's lives and souls are on the line here. Being nice so you don't hurt anyone's feelings simply isn't worth it. Praise God that you have the guts and care enough about people to say what needs to be said. I highly respect you and wish we could be friends in real life. We'd be spitting all the fire lol

As others have said, thank you for sharing this with our sisters in Christ. I still struggle with things of my past, yet I know I must seek forgiveness and then move forward . I appreciate your honesty!

I pray this reaches as many young women as possible.

Absolutely sister. No matter how conviction makes us feel as believers, it is truly a blessing to hear his spirit working in love through another believer warning the body of Christ. What you said is biblical and backed by scripture in both videos and we see the consequences of error in today’s times. Marriage is important and was created to honor God so we MUST choose wisely and on the grounds of what a husband should look like biblically and what the husband represents. This is what the women in the body of Christ needs to hear 🙌🏾

I would wash the greens first before cutting them. Soaking them already cut in water would suck all the minerals☺️.

I fully agree with your massage. Yes there’s forgiveness in Christ Jesus, but the consequences of divorces and sex before mariage is so great😢 beware to the younger generations. Keep on with the good work. Gold bless you.

These are tough conversations that need to be had, thank you for sharing your wisdom Bindi

Bindi, Your teachings have been truly blessing me and helping me break my single feminist informed perspectives. My boyfriend and I have these conversations and I'm so hard hearted, but I realize that this resistance is because I've only seen "strong" women and broken homes so it has been difficult to see myself become a wife that pleases God. The frame through which you teach speaks to my spiritual desire to honor my future husband and God. Thank you

Not judgmental not harsh it is Truth! And I truly appreciate what you share. People no longer what to hear the truth BUT the truth shall set us free. God Bless you my dear sister. Like some sister who have shared. I also had a child out of wedlock and let me tell you how difficult it can be but Christ forgave me but yet consequence’s still follow. But there is grace in it all.

Wow, such an important message! Thank you for sharing, Bindi! ❤

I love your videos Bindi. They honestly force me to always be self reflecting and avoid foolish decisions. May God continue to use you in your Ministry ❤

So much wisdom! Thank you Bindi. Please don’t stop speaking the truth, all women and men need to hear it. God bless you.

I appreciate the truth being told. It will set us free when our hearts are open.

We stand in agreement with you sister❤. Keep speaking the truth!!!! People are so easily influenced by spiritual leaders that have compromised. We have to read the Word for OURSELVES to understand God’s will.

You hit the nail on the head with this one, mama. Praise Yah, and may He bless and keep you and your family.

For anyone who has additional questions, I really appreciate Mike Winger’s very detailed review of scriptures on divorce and remarriage.

This is very sobering. Thank you for sharing the TRUTH in LOVE & unwavering! My favorite part was the understanding that forgiveness is NOT the absolving of consequences and most of the time the consequences are for life in some level the same way the marriage was supposed to be for life.

This was an incredible explanation of marriage from the Bible. There were messages I didn’t know and i have a new lens on what is at stake when it comes to marriage. 🙌🏼 this message needs to be shared.

Beautiful. The truth is always beautiful. Our younger sisters need the truth. Thank you for modeling what it is to speak with courage and grace.

I love that you speak of marriage in the light of a spiritual covenant. As a Christian, this perspective is much appreciated. 🙏🏾

I wish I would have seen this before I got married and subsequently divorced. I was not the one who filed but there are obviously still consequences to choosing the wrong partner. 1 Corinthians 7 (not so ironically) was the passage that was read in my parents’ church the day my now ex-husband came to meet them for the first time. I should have heeded the warning. I was the only one who really questioned that passage of the 4 of us. So a word of advice to women… don’t listen to what your boyfriend or even parents are saying if you feel God is showing you something else. I ignored it and now am suffering the consequences of having chosen the wrong spouse.

I missed these sit down videos with you cooking 🥰 loved everything said in this video. It's all in the bible. Keep up the good work

Your videos are edifying. God has taught me a lot through your videos about my position now as homemaker. Thank you sis for your obedience to our Lord!

Welp as usual you smacked me over the head with some bars lol Happy Holidays to you and your family!

Bindi, you are truly a blessing to the body of Christ. Love should always speak truth.

GOD Bless you Sister Bindi, for sharing this powerful information on Christian Marriage. Always watching your channel from The Gambia West Africa. Keep up the good work. Remain Bless

Thanks so much for speaking the truth of God’s Word!! It is very refreshing!

Wow! Thank you, Bindi, for another well thought out and well presented discourse on marriage and our responsibilities as players in this God given institution and contract. That being said, I believe marriage is more than the cold description above. It is a vibrant, loving, affirming creation God gave us to nuture, grow, and enjoy despite its challenges. My husband and I have been married 37 years. We both are products of dysfunctional, unbiblical marriages which each ended in our late teens. When we started dating, we decided, if we married, it would be for life and it would be grounded in God's Word. Before and after our wedding we educated ourselves through classes on marriage and parenting at our church and through observing and listening to our elder brothers and sisters who were married for decades and were thriving. We accepted that marriage is work, that it is also a blessing. We met the struggles and trials from outside forces as a united couple. We have challenged each other to grow in our individual roles. We have leaned on each other and on God throughout. One thing that surprised me was the second reason for divorce that also allowed a Biblical divorce and option for remarriage. Abandonment by an unbelieving spouse. Wow, all of the studying we have done, we missed that. My husband and I even looked it up together. It has sparked an interest in further study of this verse. Thank you.. I pray you have a very blessed Christmas. Without the reason for this holiday, where would we be?? 💖🙏🙏💖

This is an amazing video and very insightful in depths of the seriousness of marriage. As I was watching, I just finished reading 1 Corn 7, which Paul talks in-depth about staying celibate or being married. His reaction is the same reaction as the disciples, that it’s better not to be married, but in the same chapter that disciples said “Then it is better not to marry,” Jesus replies “Not all men can receive this saying.” Some are called to singleness. Some are called to marriage. Both are holy. We know this because we are waiting for the true Bridegroom and the marriage supper of the lamb.

Merry Christmas Joyce. I loved this video. If anything I think it should give younger sisters in Christ pause to enter into marriage with much wisdom and prayer. I generally find women that are looking for a reason to divorce are trying to cover for their own lack of discernment when they were looking for a mate.

I love what you said about approaching marriage with fear and trembling. In my religion only sexual immorality is an allowed reason for divorce. A spouse whether unbeliever or not abandoning you is considered separation. So we only have 1 reason. Im 29 and engaged and im “late” compared to many of my peers who are into their 2-4 years of marriage already but many of them are struggling. I approached marriage with great fear and humility before God. I knew this covenant is eternal and i cannot do it on my own. I surrendered before God’s feet and admitted that i know nothing and can do nothing and please please please guide me. You created the first marriage, you have seen millions of marriages, please choose for me and guide me. And that he did. Im so grateful and honored. I can see God’s hands all through my relationship and am sure this marriage will endure for eternity as God intended for me. But you are right. Many approach marriage flippantly and with shaky superficial emotions. I think if more people understood the depth and gravity of there marriage choices they would take it more seriously

Thank you for this!!! ❤️ its good to learn

Thank you for being our big sister in Christ ♥️

This has convicted my spirit in ways I cannot express or fully explain in a comment. Thank you for speaking this truth. I will no longer choose the divorce I was set on.

Keep it real Bindi I’m here for it

Very convicting! Thank you so much for teaching.

Thanks for that video and topic. This was need it !

Thanks sister in Christ for the encouragement.. I totally agree with this teaching 💕

Great video and breakdown, as always!

I love your podcast. I am playing catch up and so far the videos I have managed to binge watch have got me. I am taking down notes, praying and asking the Lord for forgiveness and everything. lol. I am married but wow, I have made so many mistakes. The Lord showed me that I have built my marriage on sinking sand the other day and I agree, but I also believe that in showing me that, He was reassuring me that if I hand my marriage over to Him, He will redeem it. Because with Christ, nothing is wasted and no situation is irredeemable. I think your vlogs are a way that the Lord is speaking to me in this season, I am seeing a lot of the mistakes I made but I am even more hopeful that Christ will work them out for my good.

Another great edifying video Joyce! I could highlight so many wonderful points but I'll make a statement that pertains to my experience with my Christian friends and family. I have found that many of them are only Christians in the traditional context. A lot of them do not fully believe in the Word of God and have been taught they have grace in all things, including willful sin, and that Gods laws statutes and commandments are done away with, when even Christ said different in Matthew 5 KJV.

Sis this is the best breakdown of marriage and divorce I’ve heard! Wow. I’m on the process of divorce now and I’m so torn spiritually!

@donnamayoh1196

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🙏🏻

@TriciaRP

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Why. Can you not try to keep him? I wish you didn't. Sorry.

Glory be to God most high for this. I agree with all this because its rooted and grounded on the word of God.. As harsh as it sounds, it Godlt truth. Amen.

Thank you for sharing the hard truths about what the bible has to say on divorce. It is a teaching that you don’t hear these days from the pulpit. Thank you for fulfilling your purpose in instructing your younger sisters on marriage and how to keep a home, Titus 2:3-4.

Omg love Darius Daniels 💕 your message is so true

💕 Looking forward to this sis 💖

Im so excited for this!! I love you Ms Bindi

God bless you for doing the work of Jesus in this day and age with honesty!

Loving the verse in the video 😁🥰

2:30 hahah so funny. Thanks Bindi!😂

(Very very good my sister. The Lord have given you much wisdom. 🙏🏾)

May God bless you and your husband you are a very wise young woman

Hi @Bindi_Marc I enjoyed this video!! Great content as always. What do you use to clean your greens? Was that baking soda?

Continue 2 speak the truth and let God direct your path.

I can't wait...

Thank you for sharing such rich information

Although I disagree that a victim of abuse can’t take another spouse, I look at my divorced cousin saying she doesn’t want to marry anyone ever again, it kinda makes sense

@Jenny-fl5cn

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You can disagree but that is disagreeing with the bible.

@Svetlana_Zakirova

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@@Jenny-fl5cn let me put it this way - the bible doesn’t say that a divorced person (who was not the initiator of the divorce) can’t marry another person🤷🏼‍♀️ And I personally believe that God doesn’t want to rid a victim of divorce of a chance for happiness

@Jenny-fl5cn

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@@Svetlana_Zakirova I want to see Bible quotes. Unless on grounds of adultery, remarriage results in adultery, according to the Bible. It sounds harsh but it is what it is. It is possible to experience Joy and peace without marriage. Happiness is not our goal in life. If what bring one happiness is against God's commandment, the fact that it brings the person happiness is not enough justification to engage in such an act. I will extend it to say that if the initiator of the divorce remarries, he commits adultery against the victim which may be a ground to dissolve the covenant of marriage rendering the victim of the divorce free. This is the point I am at in understanding the principles of marriage. May God grant us more understanding as we sincerely seek his face.

@Svetlana_Zakirova

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@@Jenny-fl5cn I see what you mean, but it only relates to the initiators of divorce. And again, there are no bible verses saying a person who was left by their spouse can’t remarry.

@Be1New2You3

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Staying single doesn’t matter unless she’s being celibate.

Thank you for this video!

I totally agree with you . God bless you .

I share all the exact same views as yourself since watching you and I believe it is amazing that there are othr women like myself

Excellent teaching.

Exactly! Peoples lives are on the line

You have such good posture. You remind me I need to work on that. :)

I’m not sure what DIL means but I jumped at the chance to see your video live. Been loving them. I’ll be doing some housework at the same time.

@stacey281

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It may mean day in the life. I think …

@dumfriesspearhead7398

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It could also refer to "Daughter In Law", but probably not in this context.

@TriciaRP

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I am in serious spiritual Trouble and got back into sins God did for me. I feel my body DEFILE and so much me being tricked and Spiritually not focus. This is sick. I hate this all this sins have cause me separate from family and HYSTERECTOMY and mind Deceived. I want God back and my soul saved. I didn't understand what I was thinking. I ran back dive into and 2016 been tricked. Depression this is not well. FORNICATION and sick this made me sick. I hate this. Why didn't I listen and stop

@naoedouard4422

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@@TriciaRP I pray in the mighty authority of JESUS name that you're bondages are broken! By the BLOOD of our LORD and SAVIOR, be free!

100% agree!

Thank you!

Anyone see the deeper meaning God is trying to convey with the breaking of the marriage? Remember marriage is two flesh becoming one as we ourselves join to Christ and become one. Marriage is a mirrored example of our relationship in Christ. That is why we are His bride. Now think of the two reasons divorce are allowed. Cheating and and unbeliever leaving you. What do you think then are two ways that we can be separated from God? Idolatry and unbelief. Matthew 22:37 Though shalt love the Lord your God with all your heart, all you soul and all your mind!

Its the truth, go ahead and speak it sis!

Pleaae continue speaking the truth, im sitting here crying and repenting. We need truth and not for our ears to be ticked. Thank you for using scripture. ❤ may the lord bless you for this

Yes thank you for sharing your wisdom, young sisters today really need this guidance. I did not have this guidance when I was younger and made many many mistakes as I was not taught how to be a godly woman, but now it is our turn, knowing these mistakes, to teach the younger woman the right way ❤.

Another great video

Yes ma’am

6:25 - 7:02 yes!

Totally agree

Thank you for this sobering sound message. I think of Abigail and Nabal. She could of allowed David to kill Nabal and left but she allowed God's will to be done. And alas he died to his own dimise of his appeared Alcoholism and his wickedness also towards David. I've come to peace knowing God will make things work out for His good and your good.

That's realy true thank you 😊😊😊

Hallo dear sister in Christ💕 can you make a video or do you have an advice for woman that love shoping und buying clothes almost every month. I have feeling all the time that i have to buy one more dress, shirt, blouse etc did you have similar exprience and how to fight against it. All the best from Germany💕

Thank you sister for sharing! You are speaking the truth. If people get in their emotions so be it. (It is good to refer to our Savior with His original name in the original texts:))

Hi there. I've been married for over ten years now and I feel like I'm having trouble submitting and feeling like I don't know how to be the woman my husband fell in love with. I've lost myself in many ways especially when it comes to my physical upkeep. It's been really hard for me especially because I come from a family/culture of people who are pretty much anti-marriage and single motherhood and independent woman mindser. I don't how to find help/wise counsel pertaining to biblical marriage especially on the topic of submission and being a wife while also still being myself if that makes any sense.

10 min into the video and I agree. I just want to add to the consequences of divorcing as a biblical Christian, you will have to stay alone until your husbands death, or until the coming of Christ. That’s going to be a tough, and hard battle. If you feel you can’t go through that battle than the other option is to be reconciled with your husband.

@TriciaRP

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There are no Biblical reasons for divorce. People are Deceived. It is death. Many are going to be Mislead. We are to remain single or RECONCILE with the first living SPOUSE only.

Sweet one, I’m going through divorce as my husband has been unfaithful multiple times. This last time was the final break. It’s not an easy thing. 25 years and I have to take care of me. I love the Lord and He loves me that I know for sure.

@amyknapp6275

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@Codv3mp12 I am so sorry. How painful. What an encouragement to see you pressing into the Lord, though. I am praying for you this a.m.

Do you happen to have a podcast? Just wondering 😊

Good video God bless 🙏

Hi Bindi, what constitutes desertion or abandonment? thanks.

You know you mentioned that a great percentage of divorces are initiated by women, have you come across any information claiming that women experience a hormonal imbalance which cause them to “fall out of love” with there spouse? As a result, they seek a divorce from their husband…

@dumfriesspearhead7398

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If they're on hormonal birth control, then that is definitely a possibility.