What is it really like having a bar girl in Pattaya as your girlfriend

This video I tell you my experiences having a bar girl as a girlfriend living in Pattaya, Thailand

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  • @beareatsworld7637
    @beareatsworld76378 күн бұрын

    Men, remember they are not your girlfriends, they are someone you rent. Ans you are not their boyfriends, you are their client.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Spot on mate

  • @ingwisingwis8336

    @ingwisingwis8336

    8 күн бұрын

    When you see it like this you will have no problems.

  • @davothefirst9371

    @davothefirst9371

    8 күн бұрын

    Flies that hang around the buffalos ass are valued higher !!!

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Haha

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Agree

  • @RomanArmyCapodecina-hm7en
    @RomanArmyCapodecina-hm7en8 күн бұрын

    If you dont live in Pattaya a 10 day holiday is enough - Dont take a girl from a Bar on the same Soi as your hotel - Party in the Bars in other areas - Butterfly is best -Dont look for a girlfriend - dont exchange numbers or emails - Enjoy yourself, be friendly to everyone - Go home and save up for the next one - Simple rules but in the heat of the Steamy Pattaya nights some Guys let these Rules slip

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Very true!

  • @Tex_Symbol69

    @Tex_Symbol69

    8 күн бұрын

    Very well said !

  • @paulpablo7810

    @paulpablo7810

    8 күн бұрын

    @@Tex_Symbol69 spot on

  • @tuscanleather8023

    @tuscanleather8023

    7 күн бұрын

    what is the reason about the same soi as your hotel rule?

  • @Tex_Symbol69

    @Tex_Symbol69

    7 күн бұрын

    @@tuscanleather8023 because over the course of time when you bring other girls back to your hotel , your previous girls will see them and jealousy will occur !

  • @marcom2248
    @marcom22488 күн бұрын

    Mate, please don't forget: She is never yours, its only your turn.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Agree

  • @timphillips9954
    @timphillips99548 күн бұрын

    After living here for years and in many areas of Thailand I would say you are spot on, but it applies not only to bar girls, but to a huge majority of all women in The country.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    100% mate, the ones who works in hotels and stuff are just as,bed

  • @philliproberts7294

    @philliproberts7294

    7 күн бұрын

    Exactly the temptation for both men and women is just to great I'm very happily married to a wonderful Thai lady in Australia if we lived in Pattaya I'd be deforced by now to many beautiful young girls available if you have reasonable amounts of baht 😅

  • @NomadicByNature

    @NomadicByNature

    7 күн бұрын

    The dating pool of who is available for rent or keepers is the same everywhere you pay your way in all of SE Asia that's a given.

  • @andyjackson5986
    @andyjackson59868 күн бұрын

    Your right webby and in pattaya it will never change,i have met teachers office girls in different places udon ubon korat we are just atms always will be

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    100%

  • @chrisgilling543
    @chrisgilling5438 күн бұрын

    Cracking vid mate, that echo on the audio under that roof canopy is very distracting though. Definitely agree with your points though. It’s always about money. It’s all just a transaction, nothing more. Their ‘love’ always comes with conditions attached, even though they have very little to offer in return, apart from boom boom.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    They have to return or give apart from stress amd hassle, yeah I really need to get a new mic mate

  • @bogwoodmoonrocks9709
    @bogwoodmoonrocks97097 күн бұрын

    good to hear about your experience, thanks for sharing!

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Thanks for watching!

  • @WillSmith-so1km
    @WillSmith-so1km8 күн бұрын

    Brilliant video Every word is so true

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Cheers

  • @lordbountifulitsme7919
    @lordbountifulitsme79198 күн бұрын

    Absolutely spot on 🏆👌🙏

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Glad you think so!

  • @marksaunders5877
    @marksaunders58777 күн бұрын

    Absolutely spot on, I've been to Thailand 5 times not even come close to getting loved up, i just have my fun that's it just be a butterfly!

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Absolutely

  • @Stuffed007
    @Stuffed0078 күн бұрын

    For once I completely agree with everything you said ,and one very important thing it’s not just bar girls who have this mentality it’s all the Thai girls from the educated affluent Thais to the pond feeding bar girls ,all are same same simply facts

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Wow you agree 👍 lol

  • @kippsguitar6539

    @kippsguitar6539

    6 күн бұрын

    Not always true and it's age and education dependent, some of the girls in my department I managed in Bangkok earn more than most expats in Pattaya and are independent but that's rare for sure in Thailand

  • @Stephendiggle
    @Stephendiggle8 күн бұрын

    Excellent information mate 👌

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Glad it was helpful!

  • @gibberingwreck9977
    @gibberingwreck99778 күн бұрын

    You cant call them girlfriends your just the customer until someone better comes along.. All game you have to be smart play game better than them..

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    I have always said from day one Pattaya is a game learn how to play it

  • @matthewmiles9626

    @matthewmiles9626

    8 күн бұрын

    @KeyboardWarriorTH Two way street, I'm human too.

  • @matthewmiles9626

    @matthewmiles9626

    8 күн бұрын

    @KeyboardWarriorTH They're using each other. Plenty of other jobs for them but they want more money. It's a disgrace that their families are happy to live off them selling themselves.

  • @rdefacendis

    @rdefacendis

    8 күн бұрын

    @KeyboardWarriorTH Thailand is not a 3rd world country anymore. In many ways it is highly advanced with sophisticated and modern infrastructure. Even farmers in rural Thailand have high speed internet. A stroll through downtown Bangkok, Chang Mai etc is all you need to conclude the same.

  • @matthewmiles9626

    @matthewmiles9626

    8 күн бұрын

    @@rdefacendis Spot on. The only third world entity here is the keyboardwarrior.

  • @sandhurstwolves3956
    @sandhurstwolves39567 күн бұрын

    Cheers for your honesty

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Your welcome

  • @MrGavinova
    @MrGavinova8 күн бұрын

    I completely agree. Even with my experiences with girls from other cultures. Boyfriend is just well down the list of priorities. But never forget, he who has the gold makes the rules!

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    I love that mate he who has the gold makes the rules I'll use that

  • @chriswilliamson590
    @chriswilliamson5906 күн бұрын

    Absolutely spot on. So true.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    6 күн бұрын

    Glad you think so!

  • @brettchun38
    @brettchun388 күн бұрын

    very spot on summary,i can confirm myself been through all the same shit,after a while you become jaded because of your experience

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Agree 👍

  • @keithd1219
    @keithd12197 күн бұрын

    Wise words, and as long as your eyes are open and you know the deal and are fine with it, i see no issue.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Agree

  • @postbro1
    @postbro17 күн бұрын

    Good vid. The honesty is commendable because a lot guys won't admit that they've fallen into the bar girl trap, etc, and will try to pretend they've been to wise and above it all. In the end, we are all emotional creatures, and it takes real practice to learn how to stay out of the entanglement$.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Agree

  • @user-ti2ob1em6r
    @user-ti2ob1em6r8 күн бұрын

    Without doubt this is THE most important video you've done mate. I speak from experience of meeting a bar girl and going from "I need money 1000bht for my sick buffalo" to me being completelt drai ed of over 750 grand in 5 years. There are lovely girls but there are BAR girls, and you must draw that line! Thank you for saying what you have Webby and I mean that!

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Wow, thank you, my friend, I thought I was,going to get shit making this video

  • @user-ti2ob1em6r

    @user-ti2ob1em6r

    8 күн бұрын

    @welshboywebby You're not afraid to say how we can feel when living in the real world of Pattaya. Our western morals don't matter as far as being susceptible to a manipulative girl and that should be highlighted more often. As I said there ARE nie girls but you need to get to know them as friends too

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    I've always spoke what I think it's,the only way to get through life mate

  • @regnorse

    @regnorse

    Күн бұрын

    :)) 750k over 5 years is birdseed for a girl way out of your league

  • @davidthanks2979
    @davidthanks29798 күн бұрын

    Greetings from Llantwit Major! Absolute truth, it can only be viewed as a game. Pay as you go is the strategy, be respectful and polite, but keep feelings in check! That said I saw a lot of Farangs being disrespectful and ignorant of Thai culture, this gives us a bad reputation too. I’m a fit 70, and I just enjoy the company of a pretty girl, not really into aerobics anymore, been there done that 😉 As a result I have made friends with the girls, and have never been asked for money. I made it clear. Anyway it’s just an old duffer offering an opinion. Great Channel Steve, may bump into you when I come out for another month on July 8th😎

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    100% mate defo meet for a beer

  • @briansallery1295
    @briansallery12957 күн бұрын

    Great video as always. For me i will either go for an older woman who speaks good english or one with their own career. Also can be an advantage to date a cop.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Great comment cheers

  • @marksallai2289

    @marksallai2289

    4 күн бұрын

    I think older is better than a Barbie doll

  • @DaveyB-uo5ts
    @DaveyB-uo5ts7 күн бұрын

    Thx for sharing Web. 👍🏼😀. Could you possibly do a follow up video on the positives of having a Thai girlfriend? Best Dave

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    There ain't any

  • @DaveyB-uo5ts

    @DaveyB-uo5ts

    7 күн бұрын

    @@welshboywebby 😀😅😂😂😂😂

  • @BarnabyBarry

    @BarnabyBarry

    7 күн бұрын

    Davey-Less gossip/jealousy than a Flipina-better skin -thinner-easy to divorce

  • @robiewonga6539
    @robiewonga65398 күн бұрын

    I live here and had girls stay with me years ago money money money now prefer my own company and call in my regulars who i have known for around 10 years when i feel the need which is not as often as years ago lol saved myself a fortune

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Good advice

  • @NomadicByNature

    @NomadicByNature

    7 күн бұрын

    Or look at it another way you invested in your happiness, so money well spent. Sweet memories.

  • @richiep2028
    @richiep20287 күн бұрын

    Been going to Thailand for ten years Straight for 60 days at a time and you’re 90% spot on

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    What's the 10% I'm wrong lol

  • @paulsetter2989
    @paulsetter29898 күн бұрын

    I had a real Thai wife (never bar girl or freelance). Not too bad on the money but the Jealousy was insane. Even when i bought her to UK. In fact it got worse over here. It is what split us up in the end.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    It's mental mate in it

  • @daundertaker3980
    @daundertaker39807 күн бұрын

    I like your vids Webby because you keep it real and don’t BS. They’re never your ‘girl friend’ they just allow you to rent them until the $$$$ runs out… simple.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Agree

  • @luv2roam879
    @luv2roam8797 күн бұрын

    I'm 62. I've been coming to Pattaya since 2004 after my divorce. I lived in Chiang Mai 2005-2009. I never considered my lady friends in Pattaya as my steady girlfriend. I stayed with girls in Pattaya, but my girlfriends over the years I met in Bangkok or Chiang Mai under social circumstances. All worked jobs, one girl gave up working in a hair salon, and I helped her with an automatic 10,000 baht per month, and I picked up our living expenses. She only had her mother to take care of between her siblings. She would even do hair for wedding parties and personal clients. All my girlfriends were industrious at business and saving. I always understood pay for play in Pattaya. I made the arrangements, and she accepted. Your bar girl is making pretty good money, so if you want 100% of her time, you will need a very clear arrangement.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    I'm single mate but like your comment

  • @tonyyandell2112
    @tonyyandell21127 күн бұрын

    Eye opener, interesting!

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Cheers mate

  • @matthewmiles9626
    @matthewmiles96268 күн бұрын

    Get yourself a doll Webby. Don't have to listen to it and throw in the cupboard when not needed.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Haahah

  • @scambodia147

    @scambodia147

    8 күн бұрын

    And get a puncture repair outfit for an emergency!

  • @TimK2646

    @TimK2646

    8 күн бұрын

    Make sure just the one-half and not the mouth speaking part...

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Haahah

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    So true

  • @user-xp6qx1nb6s
    @user-xp6qx1nb6s8 күн бұрын

    Nightmare want want want I learned after my first trip 4yrs ago you can take the girl from the bar but not the bar from the girl money is the ultimate goal not you ,you would be cast aside like trash if a richer sponsor comes along and guys no matter what you think she will be screwing once you go home even if she goes back to the village ,some guys get lucky but many get burnt ,when you live here it's a different ball game cos your here so beware ! webby is spot on with everything

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Cheers mate

  • @TimK2646
    @TimK26468 күн бұрын

    Honest dialogue. I am born Burmese and married to South Korean 37 years now. Not all HUNKY DORY. 37 years is a huge long time. I do dream of Thai Girl Friends a lot but I do learn a lot from you and other vloggers.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Cheers

  • @donsharp6908
    @donsharp69088 күн бұрын

    Spot on mate

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Cheers

  • @nigelwood4977
    @nigelwood49778 күн бұрын

    Fantastic advice Webby but in all honesty you will never stop guys going there and falling for the girls, you might as well stop the sun coming up. I fell in love with a bar girl on my first visit, tried to marry her later, it all went wrong( surprise) but luckily had a great time and didn’t lose a fortune. However had a succession of friends did the same thing, 4 mates all married bar girls, one got divorced, 2, married older bar mama types and remained married until they died, and one mate married has 2 kids and lives in England. I’ve been married to. Thai lady for 20 years now, though she’s a Thai chef and never worked a bar. So what you say is 100% true, if you can get her out of the bar and say back to Wales you may, just may stand a chance, although as you say you will have responsibility for her family.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    100% awesome comment

  • @gerardpor3191
    @gerardpor31918 күн бұрын

    Its spot on, it all evolves around money. When you only in Pattaya for holidays, dont even bother, just fo short time, have fun, go home and dont start chattin on Line with the ladies. living in Pattaya is another situation, you can have company but you have to deal with jealousy, cultural differences, a lady who has no real interest in you and last but not least a constant demand for money.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    100%

  • @gerardpor3191

    @gerardpor3191

    8 күн бұрын

    @@welshboywebby i made all the mistakes in the past, but we learn. We simply are no match for these hardened girls. The pressure on them put by the family to bring in money is enormous. Pattaya is no place for naiev and sensitive guys

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Totally agree

  • @grahammccrae2740

    @grahammccrae2740

    7 күн бұрын

    @@gerardpor3191 that sir is a fact. Gotta be ruthless in the game

  • @andrewmarshall3891
    @andrewmarshall38918 күн бұрын

    In May I was just playing pool in a bar, nothing more, and the lady started talking about her leaky roof. It soon moved on to can you give me 10k to fix it and it didn't stop even after I laughed it off. That's the first time I've experienced such a blatant push for money and it made me drink up and move on.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Haahaha

  • @cheapcharliepip.4015

    @cheapcharliepip.4015

    8 күн бұрын

    Then they wonder why no customer !

  • @michaelstuart8775

    @michaelstuart8775

    8 күн бұрын

    I’ll fix it 555 Krap Pom

  • @lovelady1116
    @lovelady11168 күн бұрын

    Webby I have 24 years of Thailand,whilst I don't know it all I've learnt a lot on the way,you are spot on mate.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Cheers I do try

  • @KieranWxm
    @KieranWxm8 күн бұрын

    I’m sorry to say that we’re having cutbacks at the Pattaya Bargirls Union Marketing Dept and we’re having to let you go 🤣😂 Telling it as it is as always Webby 👌🏻👍🏻

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Haahah

  • @allangreenley9901
    @allangreenley99018 күн бұрын

    Great video webby. Full of truth all the way. In my opinion every thai girl thinks a farang is a ATM machine money is all they want and once u stop it they go.. Very cold hearted girls as well leave in a second once u stop money

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    They leave in a heart beat mate, the thing is,they are so respectful to thai men

  • @allangreenley9901

    @allangreenley9901

    7 күн бұрын

    @@welshboywebby thanks for the reply, yes unbelievable respect for thai men but none for a farang once the money stops no matter if a bar girl or freelance or working in hotel or Shopping mall. Money no 1.👌

  • @leroytom1329
    @leroytom13297 күн бұрын

    Do a video bout the misses u brought home to wales webby the pros and cons the upside n downside

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    I have I did it last year mate

  • @RJ986S
    @RJ986S8 күн бұрын

    Thanks for confirming this, Webby. Based on your experiences, the comments of your viewers, and the reports of many other vloggers, it's not sounding very good. I might as well just stay home here in the States, be alone & miserable, and hold onto my money, lol.🙂🙃

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Hahahaah

  • @alanpodmore6028
    @alanpodmore60287 күн бұрын

    Spot on,,,,,,

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Cheers

  • @johnflynn4923
    @johnflynn49238 күн бұрын

    On the money (no pun intended) with that one Steve. Been there, done that and need less to say had the same money money outcome. Maybe some day I'll find a way to take possession and turn the place into the Issan Hilton.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Everything is about money money money 💰 anyone says anything else is living with their eyes closed

  • @johnflynn4923

    @johnflynn4923

    7 күн бұрын

    @@welshboywebby 100% mate!

  • @topcat9350
    @topcat93508 күн бұрын

    True words 😂👍

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Thanks

  • @Ryu-lz6rq
    @Ryu-lz6rq7 күн бұрын

    Spot on mate whats your advice for 'girlfriend' outside of pattaya is it much the same. There are different levels of society as it is here as well.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Don't know mate I haven't really gone around Thailand but I will say they all seem the same

  • @Ryu-lz6rq

    @Ryu-lz6rq

    7 күн бұрын

    @@welshboywebby as it is here too haha

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Haahah

  • @raidenraiden8258
    @raidenraiden82588 күн бұрын

    I think a problem is some men set there standards too high they might aim for an 8 or 9 out of 10 but back home they will get a 5. So if they are not that picky there might be good heart Thai women middle aged that do not work in bars but for many Farang they will not pass , but I guess it's a man thing most of us men go for the looks women go for success , status and wealth

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Maybe

  • @marksallai2289

    @marksallai2289

    4 күн бұрын

    they think they are too Old after 30 - 35 so it is good and better chance

  • @thesheperd7567
    @thesheperd75672 күн бұрын

    Many of these girls know the various holiday seasons for different countries. They know how to have boyfriends that won't clash due to different holiday times. I watched a friend drop her boyfriend off at the airport and with crocodile tears wave goodbye. Leaving the airport I asked my gf why her friend wasn't coming. Oh she has something to look at here and then taking a taxi to see her mum. That evening we were back at the bar in Cha am and the friend turned up with a new bf. She had just dropped one off and picked another up. She sat looking at a small diary working out the next departure/arrival set up. Talk about hunting season. The long inbetween stretch is for the ultra gullible who remain at home sending money across for every excuse in the book. That was way back since 2002 and with my wife passing a few months ago I will never entertain another girl again, no lady nonsense drinks nothing. Take a woman home yes, but no typical bar girls and the set up. Before, I kept away from bars with foam bottle coolers and stuck to Thai bars and restaurants sat at a table, listening to live music and meeting decent people. I would be handed the bill and many times be joined to drink up and take a girl to a Thai night club. I can not stand entering a bar and being pestered for drinks. It doesn't happen in the Thai places. Learn the language, keep learning and enjoy the true experience. No more family support and the book of excuses although they still ask to borrow money (give) but that's normal amongst themselves anyway. The new single me, round 2 more wiser than ever. Freely roam the bars alone or sit feeding a stranger and her friends, just to collect the foam bottle cooler full of bills. Might as well stand out 7/11 handing out beer, cheaper.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    2 күн бұрын

    Thanks for sharing and sorry for you loss

  • @mikedezo424
    @mikedezo4248 күн бұрын

    you are right about that. money money money. you could give her money 364 days of a year and if you don't on the 365 day you are a bad guy and she will treat you like you never gave her a penny. I will NEVER be ok with giving them 10 or 15k a month to send to their family so i guess will be single/fun life for me

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Snap

  • @user-bf5fi4ss2q
    @user-bf5fi4ss2q8 күн бұрын

    You want to try the Philippines Webby.Girls just the same except for one exception.They all speak good English.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Cheers

  • @oldmanuncut4499
    @oldmanuncut44998 күн бұрын

    I once bought a bar girl a toastie I’m still not over it

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Haahah

  • @philliproberts7294
    @philliproberts72947 күн бұрын

    Spot on pay as you go rent everything and I mean everything and it actually works out cheaper 😅

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Thanks for sharing

  • @nickjones8867
    @nickjones88678 күн бұрын

    You should do a video breaking down the costs off a girl living with you for 6 months.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    That would be a great idea

  • @paulhoey2956
    @paulhoey29567 күн бұрын

    After watching your very honest video I'm guessing your not looking for a new GF.Cheers

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    God knows mate they just turn up for weeks,on end lol

  • @kevkloster3259
    @kevkloster32597 күн бұрын

    100 % correct Webby in every way

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Cheers 🍻

  • @johnerdelyi4208
    @johnerdelyi42087 күн бұрын

    After a few day's they will do your head in with dramas like a real relationship best is short time every one's happy 😊

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Thanks

  • @ExiledGlobal
    @ExiledGlobal8 күн бұрын

    Never forget fellas your the Prize 🏆

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    You know what, mate, that is so true

  • @ExiledGlobal

    @ExiledGlobal

    8 күн бұрын

    @@welshboywebby My Thai male friends told me to avoid getting serious with the women, had a whale of time butterflying around.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    One thai guy who is with a thai owner said you men are thick as shit paying for thai lady's 😆 something like that anyway

  • @waynea8020
    @waynea80207 күн бұрын

    On the list of where you stand, you forgot to add you are behind the famous sick buffalo 😂

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Haha

  • @richiep2028
    @richiep20287 күн бұрын

    If you Could do a video on Girlfriend that doesn’t work in the industry but live in the city

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    It's all the same in pattaya

  • @jangeo0724
    @jangeo07245 күн бұрын

    👍🏼🦋

  • @mead6754
    @mead67547 күн бұрын

    would love to go and see Pattaya, what do you think about if i brought the wife with me will she enjoy it? any nice resorts to stay at

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    I've bought a girl from the uk great fun, loads of places to stay

  • @pauljay5478
    @pauljay54788 күн бұрын

    100% agree.. All boils down to one word - MONEY Btw, you have placed Ferang too high at number 8 below the dog. We are below the fleas on the dog! 😂

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Hahaa

  • @cathanderson6852
    @cathanderson6852Күн бұрын

    Hi, I am genuinely interested do you want a partner or are you just happy being on your own ? Going to Thailand and spending all that money have you had bad experiences in the UK? It's hard finding someone who is genuine i know since my husband died , it has frightened me I wish you all the best bud genuinely intrigued take care x

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    Сағат бұрын

    So I take you are a lady, Thailand is all about money

  • @daydreamer4902
    @daydreamer49027 күн бұрын

    This is like a confesssional haha.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Haahah great fun in it

  • @LUCKHEF
    @LUCKHEF5 күн бұрын

    I live here and I didn’t hear any lies 🙏🏽

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    5 күн бұрын

    Haah

  • @bbmw9029
    @bbmw90297 күн бұрын

    Is it possible for a western expat to have a girlfriend in this area who isn't essentially an employee?

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Nope

  • @Dharry70
    @Dharry708 күн бұрын

    Fuck that and yeah been there and done that and got the t-shirt far too much hassle, and the weird mood had put me off, Thai girls !! Best go to the Philippines, bro

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    I'm defo going one day

  • @BarnabyBarry
    @BarnabyBarry7 күн бұрын

    If she is an 8-10 Just give her severance pay-monthly (if you want her 24 hours)-take care of her financially-that way-if you break up she has cash and is not abandoned-better than a divorce settlement-don’t say you love her (yet)

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    I'm not given anyone money on the monthly thai men don't, so why should we

  • @user-pi5jn6qx6u
    @user-pi5jn6qx6u6 күн бұрын

    So after experiencing this once why would you do it again?

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    6 күн бұрын

    Because it's fun when you know what the game is

  • @user-pi5jn6qx6u

    @user-pi5jn6qx6u

    6 күн бұрын

    I would prefer to keep my money and dignity

  • @4WDJeepDriver
    @4WDJeepDriver7 күн бұрын

    You said you'd save talking about money till the end, but then never talked about it. Like how much does a GF cost?

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    I did say all the way through mate, it costs a fortune

  • @craighambrook1951
    @craighambrook19518 күн бұрын

    Spot on 👍💯

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Cheers

  • @cphilpster
    @cphilpster8 күн бұрын

    These girls should work for CSI - they can spot a single hair a 100 m away and hold it up and declare its not mine - no need for DNA or any microscope to compare different hairs - its a fact!!!! My other pet hate is they don't understand exchange rates - apparently getting lots of baht for 1 pound means that you should be giving them loads more since its lot more in THB than in USD/GBP - not realizing the cost of living is more back home. And they all know the daily price of gold for some reason LOL. Lastly - the expectation that you will need to go along with all the nonsense regarding lucky numbers and all that goes on stops being cute - your place stinking of boiled tuna and weeds sitting in your sink ready for some meal next week - means one thing - pay for short time/long time if you must and then just tip them to leave! Its best way to stay sane!

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Great comment mate

  • @paulmanning9540
    @paulmanning95407 күн бұрын

    Pay for play only with a bar girl. If you really want a girlfriend, try and find someone who is a civil servant or has another regular job, she will still expect some sort of support but it wont be anywhere near as much agro as a bar girl.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    They are all a nightmare

  • @robtodd199
    @robtodd1997 күн бұрын

    Based on this video. No one ever would. Hope people take advice. I’m about to emigrate to Thailand and so t be going anywhere near the women!

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Say again there are letters missing 😆

  • @andrewnicklin6728
    @andrewnicklin67287 күн бұрын

    Fucking hell Webby, you been visiting Pattaya for over a decade, living there for over a year, and you have only just released what the brasses are all about lol😂

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Not at all mate I knew the first time I came here, no sorry about the 5th time lol🤣🤣🤣

  • @andrewnicklin6728

    @andrewnicklin6728

    7 күн бұрын

    Lol well stop falling in love then, every other month, 😂, you have to remember your falling for young girls, who would have nothing in common with you in your own country, so it's pretty obvious to anyone,, my mother is 83 never been out of the country she was born in, and she knows what Thailand is all about 😂

  • @A_Sen_0
    @A_Sen_08 күн бұрын

    👍👍

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Cheers

  • @sociallypatterneddefect9580
    @sociallypatterneddefect95808 күн бұрын

    A business transaction is better than nothing here in usa ive been single for 8 years im 48

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Haha I get it mate

  • @davidbuckley9307
    @davidbuckley93078 күн бұрын

    Nice one webby, have you ever had a thai GF and thought, ok this ones different i can deal with this. The other thing is how have your break ups been, heard so.e thai girls go chucky mental on break up

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Cheers

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    They go mental then leave and find a new boyfriend in about 20 seconds and that's the end of that lol

  • @davidbuckley9307

    @davidbuckley9307

    8 күн бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣

  • @owencorrigan9033
    @owencorrigan90333 күн бұрын

    What you said is 100 percent on the ball. I'm here now in jomtien, no interest in dragging a girl along for a month. I go where I want, but I when I want. No pressure, I no hassle. 😅

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    3 күн бұрын

    Enjoy mate

  • @pepeee548
    @pepeee5482 күн бұрын

    Freelancers are the same, i got into trouble with one in pattaya, luckily i got rid of her, was just all about money and long game, until i told her that i dont have money and leave me alone, so she left. She didnt want to work, lies over lies, about everything, and full of foreign men on her line with password to access...plus every time i left for a trip she went back to pattaya with an excuse

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    2 күн бұрын

    Thanks for sharing

  • @tuscanleather8023
    @tuscanleather80237 күн бұрын

    this could be about any kind of women and girlfriends, not only pattaya =) stay single everyone!

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    I do like being single

  • @PumpuyiPresents
    @PumpuyiPresents8 күн бұрын

    While I think you make some very valid points, it’s not all Thai ladies, as a lot of your comments imply (not you). There are many successful and happy relationships with Thai ladies but I would agree wholeheartedly that avoid a bar girl. People may believe they are the one that turned them, that is only true as long as the cash is flowing. I would also add that you have a 99% chance of finding the wrong lady in Pattaya, there are the odd gems out there. Just wanted to add a little balance, more to the comments, than the general content of the video. No offence intended.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    I love all comments. I agree. I know my friend,has been married over 20 years, happy as living in Wales, I said it on my live today, pattaya is,not a place to find love that's for sure

  • @PumpuyiPresents

    @PumpuyiPresents

    7 күн бұрын

    @@welshboywebby yeah totally agree

  • @ubiquitousdiabolus
    @ubiquitousdiabolus8 күн бұрын

    She’s your employee not your girlfriend, but that’s okay as long as you realize that

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Brilliant

  • @blackwell7601
    @blackwell76018 күн бұрын

    Searching for hair, yes You forgot counting how many condoms are left

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Yes all true

  • @ViewTalay

    @ViewTalay

    7 күн бұрын

    What condoms lol

  • @dubsdolby9437
    @dubsdolby94378 күн бұрын

    Basically, don't bother 😅

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Yeah

  • @davothefirst9371
    @davothefirst93718 күн бұрын

    Money, money, money ... No money no honey !!!

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Agree

  • @allenontour
    @allenontour7 күн бұрын

    They are not jealous at all!! You have to have feelings to be jealous all there are doing is looking after their ATM they loose you cos you fancy someone else they have lost their income a nd will have to find another customer its all about tbe Baht!

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Yeah I get that

  • @Rio-mn1cw
    @Rio-mn1cw7 күн бұрын

    Guys its a case of PAY AS YOU GO!!!! you are ONLY A ATM Machine!! and your own family comes first Not hers!!!!!!

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Thanks

  • @user-tk7rf8vp6h
    @user-tk7rf8vp6h7 күн бұрын

    Its a hilarious game, its like you dont even have to be considered a boyfriend, dont you dare take another girl from the bar you saw the girl from last night. Let alone she had 5 customers already...this sums up the jealousy but x10 if boyfriend.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Agree

  • @desmondcurtis9392
    @desmondcurtis93928 күн бұрын

    Similar here too butty. Money, money, money. Welshman in Costa Rica.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    It's,all about the money money

  • @alistairnewton8898
    @alistairnewton88987 күн бұрын

    Every girl / woman has moved to Pattaya / Phuket from the provinces in Thailand , has gone there to earn money ?, do I need to repeat money ? , enjoy your time Pattaya .

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Thanks for sharing

  • @davothefirst9371
    @davothefirst93718 күн бұрын

    Me ATM of Bank of Falang !!!

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Haha

  • @PG-kd9mc
    @PG-kd9mc6 күн бұрын

    Its not your girlfriend ITS YOUR TURN

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    6 күн бұрын

    Haha

  • @toaccgiadb
    @toaccgiadb8 күн бұрын

    Forget money! Even if you have more than what they ask the phycological damage their work, bad past and bad habits create is beyond our imagination. So....best case scenario is If you are an expert and know how to100% handle them you will be fun for a while and nothing more, in the end they will succumb to their mental issues. Conclusion is its not worth it.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    Thanks for sharing

  • @johnfreeman4458
    @johnfreeman44586 күн бұрын

    This is why you don't take lady from a bar if you want her as girlfriend .it's OK for her to butterfly. But you can't. She only after money that why she working bar .pattaya not best place to find lady to marry .

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    6 күн бұрын

    Pattaya ain't the best place to find anything lol but I love It

  • @keepitrollin3977
    @keepitrollin39777 күн бұрын

    Now a new super hero in thailand not bat man but BAHT MAN !!!!!!

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Haah

  • @thesheperd7567
    @thesheperd75672 күн бұрын

    Stand outside 7/11 handing out beer. Same thing, buy them nothing just walk into a bar and enjoy your beer. Cheap Charlie so what you don't know them and they don't know you and don't want to know you.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    2 күн бұрын

    True

  • @Phat-Monkey
    @Phat-Monkey8 күн бұрын

    You have to catch them fresh, before the Pattaya bug sets in 5555

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    8 күн бұрын

    I have and it still gets down to money in the end

  • @rudygeerts7384

    @rudygeerts7384

    8 күн бұрын

    Farm fresh you will not find here. They are al ready in de game back home, going whit the boys and doing the caraoke bars. Here it's just next level.

  • @davothefirst9371

    @davothefirst9371

    8 күн бұрын

    Anacondas !!!

  • @Phat-Monkey

    @Phat-Monkey

    7 күн бұрын

    @@rudygeerts7384 I guess I am lucky then ;) 5555

  • @TipsyTraveller
    @TipsyTravellerКүн бұрын

    You can always date a girl that has a regular job, there are a lot of them

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    Сағат бұрын

    Same mate they still want money 💰

  • @RapiD0007
    @RapiD00077 күн бұрын

    Not all girls are the same I think if they’d been in a bar girl for a very long time it is very difficult for them to change and let’s be honest. They have been through a lot of mental health problems due to the fact that they picked up and dropped on a regular basis. Imagine someone coming along I’m telling you, they love you and spoiling you then dropping you like a stone. As I said not everyone is the same we all different and you can’t typecast people.

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Not a chance in hell is,that true mate, everyone are the same, it's the same old she is different, thanks anyway for your comment

  • @chollis380
    @chollis3807 күн бұрын

    #1 rule always remember you are a customer. Once you know that there is not a problem and a load of fun, they get more money than they can ever dream of from working farm and we have a million times better life than drinking Brains (shit pint) in Weatherspoons with zero chance of having the company of a young fit bird, not that you would find one in a UK Wealtherspoons

  • @welshboywebby

    @welshboywebby

    7 күн бұрын

    Cheers