Briffaults Law= Caveman gets sick or injured while out hunting and can no longer provide food,fire & protection. The cave woman quickly leaves in search of another of another caveman who can. Things haven't changed much since then, it's embedded in their DNA.

The law and narcissism apply to pretty much all women today. They don't like routine and stability. Apparently they believe a man's job today is being an entertainer who is supposed to bring something new and exciting every day so they can get their "feels".

@MoFoDaRoad

6 жыл бұрын

Joe Jones I have been observing this parallel between hypergamy and narcissism in my search to make sense of my situation. At what point does one determine that this behavior is pathological versus accepting that this is just the way women are? What are your thoughts?

@tazmania7785

5 жыл бұрын

Which is why they belong on leash.

@JonathanB258

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly....wife got bored and left whilst I was working 12 hours a day to provide for her

@rjbz554

5 жыл бұрын

@@JonathanB258 thats your mistake right there - working for her

@alexg2k2

4 жыл бұрын

​@@JonathanB258 Same. Working on a joint business for us, so she could leave the job she hated. And I helped her buy 2 properties she could Airbnb out for more income and security so we could start a family - something she wanted. I knuckled down for a few months - 16 hour days, as we had a very tight deadline. The very day I got the idea working, she declared 'I'm going to find me a man for which I am the center of attention and we can go out dancing!' What spectacular mature choices and well thought out actions. Benefits rendered - off she goes. Two months prior we were in counselling where she had the nerve to write down 'I am a responsible person who can be depended upon'. 'Women', are nothing more than promiscuous, spoilt, narcissistic girl children. Don't believe a word they say. Don't waste your time with them and for the love of god, don't invest in them emotionally. They sure as hell don't. It's all a dog and pony show, a typical female lie.

Date - don't marry. Bang - don't marry Make as much money as possible, save hard, make her pay her own way, always be willing to walk away. And above all.... Don't Marry. Marriage is a set of shackles on a man, and a financial death sentence. Just don't

@terencem723

6 жыл бұрын

Today marriage is nothing more than shackles and emasculation. Most women do not even like their husbands. They like what these men do FOR them. Why we men are so damn stupid beats me. I guess it is all the mis-education. As the hip hop rap artis Chris Brown says, "Hoes ain't loyal!"

@CorporateShill66

6 жыл бұрын

Why would you date? Dating is a waste of time and money.

@nisuperman

5 жыл бұрын

Dwayne Johnson What about having kid(s)?

@Freedmevr45

5 жыл бұрын

I know men who worked 30 plus years and have nothing to show for themselves, rather then learning from the first divorce the remarried twice after.

@JonathanB258

5 жыл бұрын

Well said Dwayne..so true

Briffault's Law I read and learned about 10 years ago. He nailed it!! I understand it as being; "A woman will have no association with a man whom she doesn't benefit from, including your wife or girlfriend."....and...."Loyalty means absolutely nothing to a woman who isn't benefiting from a relationship."

@jonjonboi3701

Жыл бұрын

What Briffault says is bullshit and it has been disproved by many psychologists and philosophers

@jonjonboi3701

Жыл бұрын

Briffault’s law is basically a misogynist idea

@Lovelysoul2

11 ай бұрын

wait but doesn't that apply to men too? It s actually human nature 😅..A man will also enter a relationship with a woman to benefit from S*x ofc and satisfy his eyes with her beauty as much longer as he can..also if she doesn't satisfy him sexually or mentally he could just leave..or don't start the relationship from beginning. Am I wrong ?

In the middle of a divorce and been flopping between mad and crushed/ hopeless. For some reason this video made me feel less alone and self loathing about the failed relationship. Thanks brother

@beachruckus7145

2 жыл бұрын

Same here brother🙌🏾

A good test to see if a girl is all about the money is to ask her what kind of wedding she would like to have... I have noticed these girls that want an elaborate wedding and honeymoon are the ones that take the guys to the cleaners when the marriage ends. If she tells you she wants a small simple wedding and a cheap honeymoon than she probably won't be materialistic. A simple girl will usually stay simple. Of course, there's always an exception to the rule. But that goes for a lot of things in life. Most likely those girls will stay with you if you hit a financial drop.

@sigmaboi2946

5 жыл бұрын

Katherine Elaine But sometimes the words of women are not the same as their actions. They just might be saying that they want a simple ceremony to fool the guy into thinking that she is a simple non-materialistic woman, a keeper.

@sonicfoxxmusic4281

5 жыл бұрын

You mean like "buying you the first drink" when you take them out. A MAN CHASES A WOMAN UNTIL SHE CATCHES HIM...do the math.

@PragmaticOptimist_N7

5 жыл бұрын

Mostly I agree.. However, if the woman is gaming the man then all bets are off as if a man were to do exactly the same thing he's looked down upon by society general, for a female it's liberation even though 'nobody wants to be bored throughout life '

@sheed321

5 жыл бұрын

@@sigmaboi2946 the words are never the same as their actions. Women are actors. The problem is, all good movies come to an end

@YeaRGOA

4 жыл бұрын

Depends on how deep the financial drop is and the level of potential she sees in you to handle that problem. Time is not your friend in cases such as this because it shows incompetence.

This is 100% true and I learned this the hard way three weeks ago. I hope she enjoys her rides on the carousel!

5:45 - "All her husband wanted to do was when he came home from work was to be with the family, with the kids and with her, and be a father." - That's really sad, but it's also really common. Also, this is precisely the reason why no-fault divorce laws are such a BAD idea! Thanks, Reagan! These laws incentivize women to leave for stupid reasons! I decided about a year ago that I will no longer try to date women with kids. When I have talked to them in the past, I always find out they left the fathers of their children for stupid reasons. And that means any one of them would leave me for the same reason in the future. And they'd do it to you too! Of course, I ask women without kids how their past relationships ended too. If I find out that past relationships ended for stupid reasons, then I'm out.

@naezjinra

4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely the best think you can do is bounce.

@Grinlathak

3 жыл бұрын

One BIG rule I learned is "How they are when you find them is how they will be when they are with you."

@chrisevans8694

2 жыл бұрын

Excellent strategy 👏👌👍

@weaksignal8009

Жыл бұрын

Only a widow, and only if she didn't kill him

@monoracional

10 ай бұрын

@@weaksignal8009 i tried that, was a Fing hell, took me 18 years child support and lost my son. he hates me now despite me paid his child support 50K in 16 years.

Briffaults law applies to every single Mom in the U S when she starts getting her free government benefits.

Once I hit a financial fall my ‘loving’ wife lost hope in any future potential. I also had an eye accident that at the time may have ended my ability to work ( I got better ) . Her only concern was : “but can you still go to work?” She was a big face booker and instagrammer. I left her but only because she had become unbearable to live with and always out with others and not me. This law is definitely true.

Had just this after 26 years ... Red pill all day

I have been watching your videos for a while. I totally respect most all your views, hey I'm a woman. I am hoping to get my youngest son to watch your channel. He just got his heart broken after he nurtured and loved emotionally and financially back to health. Then his time expired. And at least she was honest, she said thank you but I don't need you anymore.

@terencem723

6 жыл бұрын

You see this woman FIRED your son. Men MUST start doing the same. But, I think so many men out here are so starved for female attention they are blind.

@scot909

5 жыл бұрын

Your a good mother looking out for real concerns of your son & not about your own ego feeding of grandchildren . My mom was same she saved my life

@iloveamerica1966

5 жыл бұрын

@William Scott I'd say it's because many men who marry still trust women- or at least the woman they are marrying, and "hope" to succeed; they haven't found the red pill yet, let alone swallowed it. And/or they want kids and a family and have accepted the chances, believing they can make it work. Clearly there are still some adequate women out there; maybe religion helps? But I do hate this damned diamond ring commercials. What a waste.

@user-ib5gk1hn5m

Жыл бұрын

A thank you is a lot better than most women do. My wife was cheating while my kid was battling cancer.

When you talk about this stuff, I have Vietnam-style flashbacks

@oletom6970

6 жыл бұрын

Wesley Chapman Sorry about your wife that passed man my first wife is an undiagnosed narcissist Current wife is a frickin saint nothing like the stereotypical woman I've noticed that women who really love their father. Or those who were raised by a single dad with out being abused but loved like dad should love his kids are much more loyal and family centered

@rjbz554

5 жыл бұрын

@Wesley Chapman sorry man on your real wife- Godbless

@Nemesis861965

4 жыл бұрын

The "Dear Johns". Know one that returned home to find his wife living with another guy and he, the guy, was driving Marine's Camaro around like it was his. And to add insult to injury it was a long hair.

@bernitaldown9136

3 жыл бұрын

That's because you're a beta bro... acknowledge it and change it.

@Catholic-Redpilled-Spaniard

3 жыл бұрын

HAHAHAHAHA... Oh, man, you made me laugh hard. Thanks for that

I really liked the video and the drive. It's amazing how the topic is universal. I'm from Spain and women here are just like that, selfish and only interested in you if they can get something in return. I'm 43 and single, no kids, I feel more and more lucky each day as I see many friends getting divorced and ending up with the worst end of the deal.

@markymarknj

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like this stuff is worldwide, not just the US.

@adautonogueira2601

5 ай бұрын

Came here, in Brazil, and you will see the same.

The new format feels like I'm in the backseat of a really high end taxi. It's not so bad. Entrepreneurs, cars, coffee and MGTOW...Not a bad concept.

As Jordan Peterson and Alfred Hitchcock have said, the face is the most interesting thing a human can look it. Intercutting between the 2 POVs would be cool. "He didn't give me enough attention." "He didn't give me my space." "He was boring." "He was lacking in oomph." Whatever that means. "I found out he didn't have as much money as he said he had." This from a woman in her 50s married for 20 years. I've heard so many ridiculous reasons.

@terencem723

6 жыл бұрын

In other words he did not do enough FOR her.

dude, I like this angle. feels like I am in the car with you.

My current to be ex-wife, was a great wife up until her 2 boys, wanted to live with their dad. Instead of them being honest and just saying they wanted that, they started making situations, and they eventually moved to be with their dad, because I was mean and difficult. That was when it really ended. That WAS 4 YEARS ago!! 😂 😂 We've stayed together, but I really have no idea why. Where were these videos in 2009??? I would have never married her or even dated her, had I had this valuable information. Thanks for your work. I've only been using your techniques for 2 weeks, and I'm already Chasing Excellence, and seeing results.

It simply speaks as to why you can not project a man's value system on woman, who's nature will guide and drive her to do otherwise. They do not consider any equity you may place in the relationship. All she is concern with is how she feels and she will be unwavering in the pursuit to just feeling better...no matter whom she hurts. Mais Tarde

There are many phrases that comes in my mind, Richard, but this is the main one. "Be so good that they can't ignore you." This also means that if you are not good enough now, she will leave you and ignore you. Thanks for the vid!

Agreed! Women will throw you away like a dirty rag once serve no purpose or a diminished one to her. I haven't even been in an official relationship and I sensed that happenning.

Richard, I love the new type of video. Its a good rule and definitely one to always keep in the back of your mind. It reminds me of the quote that whoever tries the hardest in a relationship, usually loses. It's amazing how much your life can improve if you focus on yourself and your own wants. It may sound selfish, but you are foolish if you don't think others are doing the same.

I dated a 29 year old single mother. She didn’t even like her own kid. She always expressed how annoying she was. After an abortion and 5 months of dating she dumped me because she lost “feelings”. I felt so humiliated. I cut all ties and moved on. But I won’t lie, that really hurt.

@markymarknj

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like you dodged a BULLET, Mister! Thank your lucky stars, please.

@troyvan6952

Жыл бұрын

Dodged a bullet.... more like dodged an artillery shell

Love the new view!!

Yes. Wholeheartedly agreed but sometime hypergamy doesn't mean she'll go for another man in the physical. My experience is not unique but worth noting. My wife became a Jehovahs Witness and our relationship hit the rocks. When I would not comply with her requests to become a Witness too. It became obvious. This is where logic and reason hits the wall with women's feelings. Our marriage broke up because I was of no use to her. My relaxed atheism did not fit in with her new lifestyle and beliefs. It didn't help that their doctrines discourage contact with non-believers. When she said I was 'dangerous' to her spritual growth i think you can grasp the frame of the relationship at that point. Even being relaxed eventually about her religion, even though my objections of being a spiritual cuckold had already caused a rift, their doctrines crept into the bedroom wrecking what little we had left of the marriage. I'd class this as Hypergamy because she was looking for better. She found it in the 'feelings' of devotion to the holy spirit and Jesus. She had everything in the organisation, her friends and her new boyfriend Jesus Christ and Jehovah who was going to provide everything including eternal life with paradise on earth. Hard one to beat huh? Yup. Odd I know, but to me, she'd left me for another man and her blueprint had changed for the doctrines of the religion. She'd been brought up in the USSR. Uncanny but the group control mechanism of cults is very Soviet in nature. However, the crux now is she still wants to help and support her even after 5 years of separation. The eventual NO to helping her, after my realisation I was just being used devastated her world. So where is the material support form Jehovah? It's only promises. Nothing material. She's fallen for a cad and wrecked her path to a normal life. After watching many of these videos it is a confirmation that the red pill is actually correct around this matter.

@lagroad

6 жыл бұрын

rekt. I enjoy stories like this. Not out of bitterness towards woman, but the results of short sightedness. I also dated a woman for a few year. Our life became very relaxed because it brought her up to a level where she didnt need to struggle to survive, she had plenty of love (men are the ones who romance) so she went to look for something else. Not even a month later, when I no longer provided for her, she came back confused. Like what did you think was going to happen? You thought this nice lfestyle would stay forever and you can upgrade from there? LoL. In a way it is a karma, but it is short sightedness and inability to just appreciate.

@johnc.8298

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I've had my experiences with Jehovah's witnesses as well. They are a mind controlling cult. Their book studies (they call it a home bible study), where they study out of a watchtower published book systematically reshapes their thinking about the world, the "others" ( you and me) and Satan's control over all the world, etc. Before long they are brainwashed and obey the organization (HQ in New York) even to the point of death. Very difficult to reason with them, the WT organization is their hope for salvation at this point. What they say goes. Leaving is paramount to eternal death. I'm sorry her victimization by a cult also victimized you as well. My condolences. John

@thebesttheworst2277

6 жыл бұрын

Casul OrNah .. LOVE that last part ... "inability to just appreciate" so simple but so true and I've seen it in my own relationships with women ... It's like they get something they really wanted and that box is ticked and hours/a day later they are chasing the next thing before taking a step back to appreciate the thing they just got ... Mental. Meanwhile I'd get a new car, appliance, electronic or phone and be appreciative and looking after it and keeping it new for years.

How did you like the camera view btw? Smash like, and leave a comment below, and if you are stuck and need coaching, book me here: clarity.fm/richardcooper

@ameikeies

6 жыл бұрын

Entrepreneurs in Cars close the top and find a way to stick it to roof so point from up down. I wanna see the road, hood, stick, dash

@ameikeies

6 жыл бұрын

Or wear a helmet with go pro on it😂😂😂 and look down everytime u shift

@austin2245psn

6 жыл бұрын

I really liked the view Audi R 8 is my Favorite car !!!! Its nice being able to see you shift and see the road ahead

@aaronfrl

6 жыл бұрын

Entrepreneurs in Cars looked good

@laceyhansen9878

6 жыл бұрын

Entrepreneurs in Cars your car is dope dude, enjoy the feels 😀

I had a friend who is six figure earner, financially independent type who dated and married a single mom. She up and told him one day out of the blue that she no longer loved him and wanted a divorce. Prior to marriage, she was a struggling single mom working 2-3 jobs and saw him as a “way out”. She racked up $100k in debt, which he wasn’t aware of, and found another guy not to long after the split. Now, to her credit it didn’t get nasty as far as I know and things ended more less as best as they could. I suspected she was a good digger when he first met her and turns out that suspicion was correct. Oh, plus she saw herself as a victim and didn’t take responsibility for much of anything.

I felt like I was literally in the back of the car my first experience in an Audi R8!!! 😂

MAN, YOUR VIDEOS ARE LIFESAVING!!! YOU SAVED ME AND FOR SURE LOTS OF MEN FROM WASTING GOLDEN TIME AND MONEY! I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL AND SANDMAN'S!!! KEEP IT GOING!

5:45 she divorced her husband basically because he was being a husband lmfao

Sound & video were great. I've dated women who said this is exactly why they divorced their husband. He got old, he got boring. And they wanted to have "experiences" i.e. men. Keep up the great content!

This explains some of my behavior so well. Thank you, for all the in site! Now, I can practice conscious awareness in my relationships and use this towards better connection and communication. Thank you, again

@Istpmom

6 жыл бұрын

Also, women don't just do this in our opposite sex relationships... Or at lest it seems this way.

@bruteboy123

6 жыл бұрын

Victoria Paulik That's why the term "these hoes ain't loyal" exist, women by nature are not loyal.

Please do more videos with the camera in that position. That was rad.

I like the view from the back. It seems like you're riding in the car just talking.

@cashflodigitalsportsnetwork

4 жыл бұрын

kvnmcinturff1 Uber/Lyft driver style

@wishpunk9188

3 жыл бұрын

I enjoyed it too.

Your mention of the comment at 5:31 had me perplexed. "wait what?" -- Strange world. I think back to an older video of when you mentioned to 'find someone that compliments your life'. I feel that is now-a days more true than ever. Thanks for all that you do man.

The initial 3 point description made it sound like the relationship credit card. Rather than her paying with savings, she gets her perks on credit. When it comes time to repay, she's got no cash (or just doesn't wanna pay), defaults, and goes and applies for another credit card with a better lender. To tie it in with SMV, she eventually goes bankrupt. Lol

this law is absolute truth. I can't tell you how many times i've gotten with women when i told them about the big projects that i'm working on and who the have legitimate potential to turn out. They love it, claim they love the creativity, intelligence, and future forward thinker that i am, but about 3 months later they leave with a really dumb answer to follow. Idk about them, but building apps, prototype car engines, and investing into stock usually takes a decent amount of time to turn out strong.

thankyou . sent it to my 25 year old son...hope he listens ... o learnt the hard way

I love the format, and again, awesome wheels. Got an RS-3 myself, love it.

Yes, I think that alot of people are also unaware that they might be using others, but it's still something that people do when they lack appreciation.

@veggiegurl06

6 жыл бұрын

Good point, fellow vegan :). I think loyalty and good values can also be taught if it's done at a young age.

@rjbz554

5 жыл бұрын

nice try...but the data shows women are the primary actors in this behavior

It's true. The what have you done for me lately shows up in different forms, but it does. No matter what you do, there's no such thing as relational equity. You can be right there through the worst times and a year later it can be like you weren't even there or it didn't happen. Just understand how this stuff works guys

Paul Elam explains the problem with Briffaults musings very nicely. You should have a chat with him about it on your podcast.

Awesome bit of acceleration at the end there Rich! Great video. Yep, a lot of women are crazy, especially single mothers, who seem to think they are entitled to Superman, and even if they get Superman, they'll eventually dump him too, probably for being too heroic.

marriage is a raw deal

@terencem723

6 жыл бұрын

It's not even a deal!

@anonymousnearseattle2788

6 жыл бұрын

Not anymore... We need to eliminate no-fault divorce laws and hold women accountable for their actions.

@TundraXD

3 жыл бұрын

This is the worst trade deal in the history of trade deals

It took some "Briffaults" guy to figure this out??? I knew this since I was in the 4th grade.

@mrk19901

3 жыл бұрын

No joke. Everything's transactional. Either one-sided or two-sided.

Came from twitter. Brilliant video. Definitely a point of view to ponder about.

Digging the new camera angle. Good video as always

I like the format. Great info again!

Love this format man!!!

These short videos really do help people who need answers spoken from a position of honesty and experience , why is life programmed to put the blame at the feet of the men in all thing marital ..

@katherineelaine1500

6 жыл бұрын

William Scott OMG...I actually understand what you said and I agree with you.

@anonymousnearseattle2788

6 жыл бұрын

William Scott - That is one way to look at it, but I see another possibility. It doesn't seem like the top elite really benefit either. Celebrities get divorce-raped all the time, as do politicians (of course, we don't feel so bad for them). It's more likely that feminism and cultural Marxism exist because weak leaders have allowed them to exist. While the police and military of the US is very strong, our government is morally weak and pathetic. It's a dystopian combination, and it really doesn't benefit anyone.

I love the format its feels like I'm in the car

Thanks for the video. Love the R8.. and the law is flawless. It’s resonates with my every day life

This reinforces (Rollo’s) advice for men to be their own mental point of origin; considering one’s self first. That way, when a women dumps you, you’re not thinking of the relationship, but rather thinking about yourself, your future and the next step to keep you going on the path you were on before you met her and while you were with her. This method is the best for uninterrupted “continuation” in a man’s path in life and goals. Be your own mental point of origin the minute you wake up in the morning, my fellow brothers. 💪

Great experiment. I prefer the original format, bro. Thanks as usual!

Yeah, it is funny how many marriages end around the 7-10 year point. My understanding is that many states, alimony does not kick in until around the 7-10 year point. It would be interesting if any studies on average length of marriage and if there is a correlation with years of marriage to collect alimony.

1. I love the new format brother! Maybe a rear facing cam (placed in the lower right of the video) would be nice for you to talk to as you drive. 2. Definitely true on the subject material. That is until the equation changes and a woman hits the wall.

Film more from this perspective. Especially in the 720. Good stuff

I like the format

was fun to watch the ride

The solution is stay single, play the field , let the lady prove herself to you. See her for what she is. Let her pay her own way. Keep her enticed but let her tell you what she wants. Keep all assets protected. Don't show off, but keep it at a level where it keeps her guessing. Women will eventually tell all.. their true nature. If you truly are in love, she will feel it too. Soulmate connection is when two minds are as if they are one. All else is a conditional one for users and abusers.

You nailed it. I agree 120% with this video.

I agree with everything yiu have mentioned...I've lived it!

whoa this kind of videos from this angle is great

Manual with the gated shifter. Rare nowadays. Nice.

I like the backseat experience. Like you are steering us in the right direction.

Just watching this video now. You should really consider doing future videos with this perspective. Feels like a cab/uber driver dispensing life advice while were along for the ride.

Even if you dont like to talk to a camera behind you, please upload some povs in this same angle where we can see the shifting going on, i love it!

That was cool . The power brother.

sounds good, i like the camera angle,...good video!

Prefer this format. Works well.

I love it you are driving whilst looking backwards 😊 .. a lesson in taking the red pill.

Agree..knowledge is power..

The first part of video was hard to understand but thanks for breaking it down rich.

This is cool. You could have both the front and the back cameras. You could focus on the front one and switch back and forth in your post-production.

This is rule is law, read it, know it, understand it, live it and internalize it. Make no mistake

Total truth.. I will post an article .. a bit long 5 pages.. that goes a bit further into what you are saying. It is the truth and the faster men understand this the better for them. Love the sound of that R8 btw.. blessings man.

Sweet car man. Better to do both angles from time to time. Especially if you do reviews for other cars. Rarely see a stick shift here in the U.S. so this video was the tits!!.

@2:34 LOL--just crumples the paper and throws in the R8'd passenger area LIKE A BOSS xD

Loved the camera view Richard and video as usual... But I do actually prefer the front on view for discussions brilliant content as usual though love and peace from England ✌️

Nice car, good camera angle and great information. Honestly, im not even sure if i want to get married anymore. Lol

Looked good, sounded good. I'm from North York and grew up in Agin Court and New Market so I enjoy the Ontario scenery. I'm in Dallas Ft worth and it just isn't as pretty.

That gated manual, great taste

Hypergamy does not care in what the man has given or sacrificed for her, if she is bored and looking for a better deal - there is no "credit" return for him. Where as the man feels as if he has invested in a bad deal or got robbed, hypergamy is using her power (it's just how they are naturally and lawfully in a feminized society) while beta man is lost and fooled. It's sad, and blatantly obvious when it comes to money, it's usually always about Money in the end. Not emotions, ethics or compassion or even love. Hopes this made any sense? /I'd rather see vids from the original view.

@VoiceOfThe

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, they describe it as ‘resources’, which again, comes down to money!

@charliesmiler5618

3 жыл бұрын

"No matter how well you are doing in life, always wear a shepskin coat" ;)

I liked the fact you could see what you're seeing and I could also hear what you're saying. Perhaps a 180 - 360 degree camera might work? Anyway the content is what I'm after at the end of the day. Thanks for posting

Mothers usually refer to the children as "Her children". It is natural to think this way. The child grows inside her and she goes through the discomfort, pain and risk to birth them. At a visceral level they are hers and most people understand the "mother bear" concept. Even when she does not want them it is often because the weight of having them is to much to bear. Fathers can become a threat to her when the children prefer the father over her which is often now that fathers provide the fun and the mother the rules instead of the father being the disciplinarian (role reversal). At the same time young son's may see the father as a competitor for the mothers attention and want him gone. Daughters may feel the first sexual stirrings with fathers as that primitive response to the "sexual other" but daughters also recognize mothers are the same as them and the bond with Mother goes deeper than with Father. The father remains the other. Once there are children the father is pushed into an outer obit around mother and children. Some fathers gladly accept this because of the freedom it offers but others feel rejected. Whatever truth there may be to Briffaults Law it will be expressed through the non sexual ménage à trois between Mother, Father and child(ren). Most mothers will push a father out of the relationship if he becomes a threat to her children as the relationship she is having with them. For better or worse women are at their most selfish even when they appear to be acting selflessly when it comes to the children. Mothers rarely see the children as being separate entities from her and it is the mother not the father who is most likely to violate boundaries with the children. IMO the most important role a father can play is to protect the children from the mother because the very nature of mothers makes her their best protection while also being their greatest danger. Briffaults Law was not correct in the past but it is now, due to feminism expressed as greater financial freedom of women from men and the state protecting women at the expense of men. Briffaults Law was the reason men in the past kept tight control over the state (laws) and the money but I suspect this was done far in advance of Briffault. The biological oppression (nature/Briffaults Law) of men trained men to be the "social oppressors" in response to the maternal instincts.. Ancient men already understood Briffaults Law before it was ever named, yet they also were the supreme ruler and mainly valued the male child who they removed from the mother around their fifth year. Briffaults Law only makes sense when men are politically and financially powerless because women hold these powers (as they do now). In the past women controlled the world of instincts (nature/emotion/maternal/family) and men the world of rationality (social/law/justice/state/financial) and both worlds were created in response to each other.(Balanced) The west is no longer balanced as the power sharing between men and women and this is why it's civilization is in danger. Once women moved into the domain of men and men into the domain of women they begun to act contrary to nature and the family structure disintegrated (which continues the present into the future and is labelled civilization) . I suspect this cycle is endless. The community is formed out of the family and the state out of the community. Whatever happens between men and women sends ripples upward to the very top and than back down again to the men and women. It is an endless dance.

@DIVISIONINCISION

6 жыл бұрын

That is why many men opt out. I don't think it's wise to give up on women completely. If a man can find the right situation that suits him and his needs, it can work. It's just that so many Westernized women are completely delusional as it pertains to sexual market value and the wall. It's gotten to the point where I almost judge a woman based solely on her sexual value and bypass the rest. In some settings like college, the women outnumber the men and the leverage changes.

@katherineelaine1500

6 жыл бұрын

Katherine Kelly Most men in my opinion make better mothers. Women in the past 40 yrs have proven to be very methodical and manipulative because of the rise in narcissism and extreme feminism.. Which is a dangerous trait to have when raising a child. I was fortunate to be raised by my dad. More dads should retain custody. Mother instincts is almost extinct. Some of what you stated is Freud... he is and always will be debated. I don't agree with most of his thinking. That's just my opinion.

@DIVISIONINCISION

6 жыл бұрын

In Psychology we look at Freud as a quack, basically. I'm an LCDC, in a Master's of Psychology program for my LPC. The only reason we even mention Freud is because he came up with "Psychoanalysis", which is the basis for assessment today. Otherwise, his theories are rooted in his own sexual perversity.

@nellatl

6 жыл бұрын

Katherine Kelly i see a women is writing this because it's way too long to read.

@katherinekelly6432

6 жыл бұрын

I agree. They make better mothers because they are not mothers. All things being equal it is harmful to a child to be raised not knowing their biological father but devastating to the child to lose a mother. The maternal bond formed in the early years decides how the child will relate to all others afterwards. This power is so great and decisive and so many women are themselves damaged that the damage is increased to the child in the absence of a father except when that father is violent, irresponsible, absent, damaged... Two mildly flawed parents may protect the child more than the child being with one seriously flawed parent. Each situation is unique and this is why there can not be a blanket solution in the family court system but the family court system is flawed itself in never being in a position to know what is actually best for the child. Childhood is a game of chance as to the circumstances you are born into but fortunately childhood adversity has given humanity some of their best citizens because of this adversity. Adversity can teach positive lessons and many children have learned the lesson to not be their parents.

great view richard. and the mike is ok.

IDK, I've been married almost 25 yrs. Though we are not rich, I am a stay at home, work from home, homeschooling mom! Yeah, I do get board but I realize my happiness and content comes from within, from God given talents and desires. I do not expect my hubby or my teens to please me. I could find a comfortable life in Miami via another man but I know that happiness and contentment comes from within.

@rjbz554

5 жыл бұрын

@Nicholas Ennos don't be so sure she overcame,...ask her, how long ago was it:) and do you still keep "in Touch"?

Spot on info

Burgundy is on point playa.

A girl who thinks it’s boring that you want to be a good husband and father is a terrible choice for a wife.

I now love my Honda Fit due to the fact that I can run it through all the gears without getting my license taken away lol

An intellectual red pill car enthuesiast? Im watching this guy

Lmao i feel like a passenger sitting in the back

VROOOM!! Audi R8? Canada looks like a nice place

your videos are helping me a fucking lot, thank you so much dude, you are blessed!

In the future, reposition the rear view so you're talking into it - and we see you talking to us. Probably be a cool change of pace shot as well. Thanks for the content.

I think a 360 Vr video would be awesome.. In the future, you can look at the road if you want, or look at rick when hes talking.

Perhaps multiple camera angle views , with an external mic , cmon Richard!, we're counting on you brother!..you've got the editing savvy 👉🏼👍🏼

Love the vid

I just keep it simple, I never discuss with any woman anything that she can potentially use to destroy my life, For example never tell a woman what you value most in life, where your assets are and details in how you make/spend your money. it's not her business period.