What is a Woman?

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  • @ghita8270
    @ghita82702 жыл бұрын

    I m Muslim and I like your teaching ♥️

  • @melissafannon3818

    @melissafannon3818

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Christian! And I also love it! It resonates so well!

  • @jedidahn.dladla4889

    @jedidahn.dladla4889

    Жыл бұрын

    I really appreciate this teaching. Even as a Christian, I never heard this teaching. I will now apply to my marriage. Thank you so much.

  • @denisegoetz5864

    @denisegoetz5864

    9 ай бұрын

    ALL relugions and cultures have something to bring to the table.

  • @Silas.Marner

    @Silas.Marner

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@@denisegoetz5864here here!

  • @sarameiragootblatt1819
    @sarameiragootblatt18192 жыл бұрын

    I was at that class!!! I hear my laugh. LIFE CHANGING AND TRUTHFUL AS ALWAYS. Thanks Rabbi Friedman

  • @hezkez8734

    @hezkez8734

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hahahahahaaa..., thats okay Sarah! I wish i had such an opportunity to meet this man of God face to face.., his speech are soo nice and breath taking..

  • @farhan.naushad

    @farhan.naushad

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are one of the lucky ones who got to attend these classes in person.

  • @lh485

    @lh485

    11 ай бұрын

    You were horrible for laughing.

  • @milank335

    @milank335

    7 ай бұрын

    whats funny about the deepest fear of man?

  • @melancholiusmonkey-mann5749
    @melancholiusmonkey-mann5749 Жыл бұрын

    This man is truly a beautiful soul. He is one that is worth listening to.

  • @Io-Io-Io

    @Io-Io-Io

    Жыл бұрын

    Who are you to call someone a 'beautiful soul' and others the opposite? What do you know? ...

  • @chanoellemusic2037
    @chanoellemusic20372 жыл бұрын

    Rabbi, the wisdom HaShem has given you is astonishing and I follow you faithfully

  • @ulemulion5969
    @ulemulion59692 жыл бұрын

    Friedman is the greatest teacher ever on KZread

  • @margaretcole6264
    @margaretcole62642 жыл бұрын

    A lady I worked for told me she always made sure something was broken when her husband went out of town to work. He would grumble and then fix it. I thought that was a strange thing to do. Until I got older. Once I understood I could see the logic and her husband knew he was needed.

  • @incorectulpolitic

    @incorectulpolitic

    2 жыл бұрын

    ' she always made sure something was broken when her husband went out of town to work' - that right there is being called a psychopathic demon.

  • @human-qp1mf

    @human-qp1mf

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@incorectulpolitic you missed the point. How many grandmother's call their sons or daughter's to come do something because they haven't seen them for awhile ( sadly) We do not pay attention to people's needs anymore there seems to be always some trickery going on... Narcissism.

  • @888ssss

    @888ssss

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@incorectulpolitic lol. in a way yes, but in another way she was protecting this mans self worth. he was a lucky man to be cared for both ways.

  • @phatcat3705

    @phatcat3705

    2 жыл бұрын

    @margaret cole If only men under-45 these days would have this drive to be needed. Most of them seem to be irresponsible and emotional, and just want to be coddled and not have to take care of or do anything themselves, and find "independence" a must-have quality in their women probably because they expect their partner to take care of everything. And it's the women who suffer from men being "feminized." Men like these are why my sister's always had relationship problems, which she recently called to complain about. No surprise why so many people are still single/never been married into their 30s and 40s.

  • @margaretcole6264

    @margaretcole6264

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@phatcat3705 many people are this way now days. They have been spoiled by parents trying to give their kids stuff they never had. When the reality of it is they didn't get what they needed from their parents.

  • @molivson
    @molivson2 жыл бұрын

    The humanity and the humor of this is beautiful.

  • @emmanuelb.8723
    @emmanuelb.87232 жыл бұрын

    Dear Rabbi, each of your videos could make a huge book. I get this much edification. I'm glad I know you, virtually!😅

  • @ta_93
    @ta_932 жыл бұрын

    i definitely needed this video, what the heck! actually going crazy, i could write a book on every sentence, the delivery hits like a tonne of bricks. this is just everything that's missing in my life, this is the vital piece of information! i was wondering about women, fearing them because of this very difference. you are so needed Rabbi Friedman, so very necessary. This needs to be taught in schools, important heavy information for every guy. I confirm 100% this is true, from my own experiences, from everything i've done, you are correct about the 0-100, it's one of my greatest desires. i just feel so alone and that's my zero, i feel like a zero all the time! so girls feel like a 1 at least? incredible

  • @nomorecensoringme
    @nomorecensoringme2 жыл бұрын

    Such a great discussion about what a woman is. What a man is. Thank you Rabbi. Surrounded in this secular world by incredibly awful confusion, your clarity is refreshing.

  • @myriamlukoff2307
    @myriamlukoff23072 жыл бұрын

    Brilliantly said in lay person's way of understanding. Thank you Rabbi Friedman

  • @georgekasongo3240
    @georgekasongo32402 жыл бұрын

    Wow - I'm glad I tuned in. This is so powerful. Thank you, Rabbi!

  • @KingLarbear
    @KingLarbear2 жыл бұрын

    I clicked on this as fast as I could

  • @namjistudio

    @namjistudio

    2 жыл бұрын

    Then?

  • @tbishop4961

    @tbishop4961

    2 жыл бұрын

    🤣🖐

  • @thekingwilsonshow2414

    @thekingwilsonshow2414

    2 жыл бұрын

    I couldn’t get here fast enough.

  • @KingLarbear

    @KingLarbear

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@namjistudio what do you think I did?

  • @KingLarbear

    @KingLarbear

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@thekingwilsonshow2414 me neither lol

  • @barbaracunningham288
    @barbaracunningham2882 жыл бұрын

    I love and admire your deep wisdom and how well you show God's thumbprint in every facet of creation.

  • @mlondichule5363
    @mlondichule53632 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Rabbi. This is so profound.

  • @wpyyang5161
    @wpyyang51612 жыл бұрын

    This is beautiful! I'm feeling very... at peace.

  • @jaimegoenaga7273
    @jaimegoenaga72732 жыл бұрын

    You are a wise man so much to teach. I wish I had known about your teachings before.

  • @guylaurent8138
    @guylaurent81382 жыл бұрын

    I learned something, that all my wife needs is a thank you...

  • @catherinewebster6405
    @catherinewebster64052 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Rabbi. This talk immediately changed my marriage. Yours is the most simple and clearest message/information/insight I've ever heard on the topic of men and women. I am grateful and pray for you and your ministry.

  • @susanlett9632
    @susanlett963211 ай бұрын

    At first I was offended. I thought he was saying that men are allowed to tell women were garbage because it wont bother us. Im so glad i continued to listen. Im only a fourth of the way though. When my now ex husband left me for someone else after 27 years was devastating. However not once did i ever think that I was nothing and deserved it! I saw the woman he left me for and felt sorry for him!

  • @alextrezvy6889

    @alextrezvy6889

    10 ай бұрын

    And what about the woman's fear he described? The possibility to be "reduced" into a man? Does it fear exists?

  • @kristipetaloti
    @kristipetaloti2 жыл бұрын

    What a brilliant interpretation. Not Jewish but this speech has been a great enlightenment. Thank you Rabbi

  • @crimsonhawk4912

    @crimsonhawk4912

    Жыл бұрын

    Omg. Helloooop thicness

  • @selahr.
    @selahr.2 жыл бұрын

    I would add though that women, having come from a man, have just as terrifying fears of being abandoned by the most important man in their life (ie the one they have given their heart/love to such as father and then husband) because that feels the same as “becoming nothing.” That is why a woman will remove her love and become cold or angry at a man (making him nothing in her heart) before she has the ability to end a bad relationship with that man. As long as she can still feel love towards him, even a small amount, she will hold out hope and stay. And if a woman has already been hurt in this way by an abusive or neglectful or absent father this fear becomes much more amplified regardless of how great her husband is.

  • @wallyreyes9493

    @wallyreyes9493

    2 жыл бұрын

    Coach Greg Adam's Rollo Tomassi Kevin Samuel's Cheek Slaying Headquarters Donavon Sharp Or you could go in another direction, study the WORD OF GOD,but it's a deeper study given the teachers of today. My suggestion, Arnold Murray's teachings on genesis ch one through six. Especially ch1 vs 26. That would be a nice foundation, add the word picture Hebrew too it. The ABC'S are essential for any decent study and understanding of it.

  • @Elsie144k

    @Elsie144k

    11 ай бұрын

    I would agree. Abandonment is a big one. Abandonment = death.

  • @ayrsine
    @ayrsine2 жыл бұрын

    The Torah IS the bedrock. This is profound and rich, wow. My non-Jewish mind absolutely appreciates this. I remember always Zechariah 8:23 💪😎

  • @alexluthiger731

    @alexluthiger731

    Жыл бұрын

    In this case I can recommend you the view from one of the thrones of David in Psalm 2. 🍷🍖

  • @esthermatmon2158
    @esthermatmon21582 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely amazing 👏 thank you so much Rabbi Manis Friedman

  • @andreicoman267
    @andreicoman2672 жыл бұрын

    You clear out the fog,Rabbi. 💖

  • @elainehorne188
    @elainehorne1882 жыл бұрын

    I so enjoy this, Rabbi. Your teaching style is so good!

  • @jonathanjones3091
    @jonathanjones3091 Жыл бұрын

    This was absolutely wonderful. I truly understand why I feel different being a husband.

  • @cordsman
    @cordsman2 жыл бұрын

    This is a really valuable insight that he brings. Glad I heard this this AM.

  • @hablasohablasespanol2865
    @hablasohablasespanol28652 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for every single video you put your heart!

  • @bellaosetinsky-tzidaki6159
    @bellaosetinsky-tzidaki61592 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Rabbi, you are so perfectly explaining me what a motivation stands behind my reactions and decisions, both the big and the small ones.

  • @geraldkristjanson2109
    @geraldkristjanson21092 жыл бұрын

    My favorite Rabbi

  • @karenoyama8950
    @karenoyama89508 ай бұрын

    Rabbi, I admire and love your teaching manner. Combining humor with wisdom is the winning recipe! May God bless you and all of your loved ones. Peace. ❤

  • @tiffanysanchez9184
    @tiffanysanchez918410 ай бұрын

    I’m Catholic and I absolutely love your teaching, thank you so much for sharing your wisdom.

  • @adornproductions1683
    @adornproductions1683 Жыл бұрын

    I learnt so much from this video it is potentially life-changing! I only wish I had found your teaching’s sooner…but universe had other plans! I am esoterically minded, pagan as it were, but do study Qabala and have Hebrew threads through my mystic path. You are insightful and delightfully funny whilst teaching pertinent lessons for growth, dynamics and living right. Thank you

  • @davekleyn3010
    @davekleyn30102 жыл бұрын

    Thankyou for your words

  • @angelandolo1027
    @angelandolo10272 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the gems you drop

  • @donnadegori3823
    @donnadegori3823 Жыл бұрын

    Amazing teaching! Thank You

  • @victoriacrochet7334
    @victoriacrochet7334 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your lessons and time.

  • @barbaranielsen2888
    @barbaranielsen28882 жыл бұрын

    Excellent perspective!

  • @miriamkayman1846
    @miriamkayman18462 жыл бұрын

    Thank you rabbi for this very important knowledge .

  • @willieluncheonette5843
    @willieluncheonette58432 жыл бұрын

    " A woman is more centered than a man… She is more serene, more silent, more patient, is capable of waiting. Perhaps because of these qualities she has more resistance to diseases and she lives longer than a man. Because of her serenity shecan fulfill a man’s life immensely. She can surround man’s life in a very soothing, cozy atmosphere. “But the man is afraid - he does not want to be surrounded by the woman, he does not want to let her create a cozy warmth around him. He is afraid because that way he will become dependent. So for centuries he has been keeping her at a distance. And he is afraid because he knows deep down that the woman is more than he is. She can give birth to life. Nature has chosen her to reproduce, not man. “Man’s function in reproduction is almost nil. This inferiority has created the greatest problem - man started cutting the woman’s wings. He started in every way reducing her, condemning her, so that he could at least believe that he is superior. He has treated women as cattle - even worse. In China, for thousands of years, the woman was not thought to have a soul, so the husband could kill her and the law would not interfere - she was his possession. If he wanted to destroy his furniture, it was not illegal. If he wanted to destroy his woman, it was not illegal. This is the ultimate insult - that the woman has no soul.”

  • @Muslimah1987

    @Muslimah1987

    2 жыл бұрын

    TRUTH!

  • @alexluthiger731

    @alexluthiger731

    Жыл бұрын

    It's in a way miraculous that whatever alpha-men do alpha-women want to copy. The better side of God has much more potential and finesse. 🍷🕵️

  • @lukeodhiambo1994

    @lukeodhiambo1994

    Жыл бұрын

    Dude, stop lying. Men are simply afraid of being regarded as nothing, but I've never seen a man feel inferior to a woman. And when men feel threatened, they try all means to remove the threat first, and if they fail, they start killing what makes them threatened. And to say "“Man’s function in reproduction is almost nil." is an outright lie. Can a woman conceive without a woman?

  • @lukeodhiambo1994

    @lukeodhiambo1994

    Жыл бұрын

    A woman can't create anything, let alone a child. But they can nurture a fetus until it's born and it becomes either a mature male or female adult. So, where does inferiority come in? And men reducing women to nothing; that's because the world is evil. If you read the Bible, you'll see GOD commanding the man to love his wife as he loves himself. A husband that lives by that principle won't "reduce" his wife.

  • @herelookinatu

    @herelookinatu

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@twoplustwoequalsfive6212 because of men and the chaos they have created around women. Women can't seem to just be themselves they are only a good person if they have a man around. However I believe when men are around that's when they become the worst person. It's like they feed off of the destructive and and chaotic energy of men.

  • @sofiayudelzon4830
    @sofiayudelzon48302 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Rabbi! It helps very much.

  • @claudihombauer8565
    @claudihombauer8565 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your wonderful teaching 🙏🏻❤️

  • @mestawetendaylalu2977
    @mestawetendaylalu29772 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Rabbi for answering many questions!!! Our kinds' fathers God, God of Abraham, God of Isaac & God of Jacob; let make this world the better place for our generations!!!

  • @wallyreyes9493

    @wallyreyes9493

    2 жыл бұрын

    Why not the GOD of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob?

  • @rosaliemiranti
    @rosaliemiranti3 ай бұрын

    Your voice is so humbling! Shalom to you and your family. Happy, Passover to you, and yours!

  • @suzybailey-koubti8342
    @suzybailey-koubti83422 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Rabbi!

  • @jeffreyrwilliams9345
    @jeffreyrwilliams93452 жыл бұрын

    thank you

  • @mestawetendaylalu2977
    @mestawetendaylalu29772 жыл бұрын

    የደጋግ አባቶቻችን አምላክ የአብራሀም፤ የይሳቅ፤ የያቆብም አምላክ በሱ ፍቅር እንድንኖር እሱ፤ ቅን ልቦናን ይፍጠርልን!!!

  • @helenberhane2479

    @helenberhane2479

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen sister from Ethiopia. Surprise to see you her

  • @christhompson325
    @christhompson325 Жыл бұрын

    I’m Christian and I like listening to him ❤

  • @alifi5475
    @alifi54752 жыл бұрын

    This is the one rabbi who is sincere about his conviction. Likable and also a humility that is hidden behind him and he doesn’t present himself to know everything.

  • @Io-Io-Io
    @Io-Io-Io Жыл бұрын

    I like this guy. Refreshing views and insights

  • @rachelkennedy2161
    @rachelkennedy21613 ай бұрын

    Fascinating insights Thank you Rebbe

  • @thankyou3998
    @thankyou39982 жыл бұрын

    Thank you ❤️🌹❤️

  • @maryw4609
    @maryw46098 ай бұрын

    Thank you ❤

  • @cristinayutronich3188
    @cristinayutronich3188 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you rabbi!!! You are extremely smart!!!!! You speak very well and with a lot of knowledge.

  • @karenmiller7218
    @karenmiller72182 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Rabbi

  • @ayrsine
    @ayrsine2 жыл бұрын

    This is yet another reason why Rabbi Tovia Singer is so very important. There are Jews out there who have left this for other religions and as such have forgone this wisdom, practical and applicable. 💪😎B”H

  • @jocquemorrison9785
    @jocquemorrison9785 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 😊 💓

  • @bettyhaines2570
    @bettyhaines25702 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 😊❤🙏

  • @tamarakuhn1634
    @tamarakuhn16342 жыл бұрын

    “Marriage means a relationship between a husband and a wife-not a man and a woman.” Rabbi Manis Friedman

  • @michaelscott8691
    @michaelscott86912 жыл бұрын

    Golden Content

  • @gregglockhart9551
    @gregglockhart95512 жыл бұрын

    Thanks! Makes sense.

  • @Topinteenationalrealty
    @Topinteenationalrealty10 ай бұрын

    Thank you rabbi

  • @williamfletcher5146
    @williamfletcher51462 жыл бұрын

    I wish there was a Christian preacher as chill and cool as this dude.

  • @tbishop4961

    @tbishop4961

    2 жыл бұрын

    Joel Osteen doesn't do it for you?🤣

  • @woodstockxx

    @woodstockxx

    2 жыл бұрын

    Kent Hovind

  • @tekoabailey3243

    @tekoabailey3243

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is preaching not the shouting and jumping where can hardly hear every word

  • @woodstockxx

    @woodstockxx

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@tekoabailey3243 - WHAAAT ?! 🤷‍♂️

  • @tekoabailey3243

    @tekoabailey3243

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@woodstockxx I said this is preaching.....not the shouting and jumping that I be seeing these days where you can hardly make out what they saying around the podium....

  • @xoutofgum
    @xoutofgum Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Rabbi.

  • @mareksozolins6347
    @mareksozolins6347 Жыл бұрын

    Hit deep, thanks.

  • @user-ru8pp8qw6o
    @user-ru8pp8qw6o Жыл бұрын

    I don't think women tolerate abuse for a lim justification, but for a great purpose, they are willing to suffer to keep the house because it's part of her meaning, she is the Home

  • @SahasraraIm
    @SahasraraIm2 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful! :) My father told me at some point that I am good at no-thing. I added the hyphen recently after the incursion in spirituality and contact with English speaker.

  • @kresivarivkah612

    @kresivarivkah612

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hyphen add was cool.

  • @SahasraraIm

    @SahasraraIm

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@kresivarivkah612 That is cute :)

  • @shaniroga
    @shaniroga Жыл бұрын

    It’s an amazing thing “when you hear the truth” of something…….the AHAAAA …….and the profound relief of that follows 💗

  • @divinegracejesuslovesyou1466
    @divinegracejesuslovesyou14662 жыл бұрын

    Before listening I pressed Like. Now let's hear 👂

  • @ridasz7954
    @ridasz79542 жыл бұрын

    תודה רבה

  • @dineojeanettechakakutumela7618
    @dineojeanettechakakutumela76182 жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @cherylvargas8861
    @cherylvargas88612 жыл бұрын

    Okay I was sent here by this modern day question. Very interesting information. Needed to be informed so I'm ready when ask.

  • @richyburnett
    @richyburnett2 жыл бұрын

    Hearing the sound of that woman cackling in the background only proves his point.

  • @m.s9146
    @m.s9146 Жыл бұрын

    Such truth!

  • @KMAR2132
    @KMAR2132 Жыл бұрын

    Rabbi your so smart I never looked at it this way but it’s so true

  • @randomdude7384
    @randomdude73842 жыл бұрын

    "What's hateful to you don't do unto others"

  • @Elsie144k

    @Elsie144k

    11 ай бұрын

    So, don’t make others feel like they are nothing ?

  • @Elsie144k
    @Elsie144k11 ай бұрын

    This is so fascinating. Maybe that’s why it took me 22 years to realize I was nothing to my husband. It’s still hard for me to wrap my head around. Just so confusing

  • @thearchangel9835
    @thearchangel98352 жыл бұрын

    Wisdom of the world!

  • @toracomtirtsa7279

    @toracomtirtsa7279

    Жыл бұрын

    Wisdom of the Thora.

  • @nqobilemahlangu3812
    @nqobilemahlangu38122 жыл бұрын

    I’d love for you to have a long chat with John Vervaeke. And thank you for opening access to your content🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @OvadyaAharoni
    @OvadyaAharoni2 жыл бұрын

    ישתבח שמו. תודה 🙏

  • @leonidd00
    @leonidd008 ай бұрын

    This is so true and to the point. Sometimes I am wondering how does the Rabbi manages to be inside me psyche :D Excellent video, thank you Manis Friedman!

  • @shannonpezzelle6444
    @shannonpezzelle64442 жыл бұрын

    1corinthians 11:3 Blessed be Manis

  • @graceurbanski
    @graceurbanski2 жыл бұрын

    😍Thank-You, SZALOM Greetings 🇨🇦

  • @renericken6117
    @renericken6117 Жыл бұрын

    AMAZET&SEDAZED◇

  • @lindaleeratti5391
    @lindaleeratti53912 жыл бұрын

    I am an old widow, 5 grown and gone children . However ; as a youngster , I was as aggressive as my brothers and sought to win all the athletics and studious endeavors . Lucky my mother took me away from ice hockey and my brothers . And put me in Figure Skating , Classical Ballet , and surfing the ocean . Only my marriage , really changed my aggression . Why was I born so male like . Lucky , not born in these years of political decisions of gender ! I have never been attacked to females . I had a great friendship and cooperative loving marriage . He was murdered by 3 illegal aliens , on way home from the children’s swim team event . Now living in sorrow and isolation . What’s wrong with me ? Loving Kindness, lindalee

  • @novo611
    @novo6112 жыл бұрын

    Hello from ireland. Rabbi 🇮🇪🙏

  • @IT-zx5jc
    @IT-zx5jc2 жыл бұрын

    I am a woman, I agree, I have never felt that I am nothing. It has never been a fear for me. I also never feel like my "existance is in danger", no matter what the danger. Have experienced abuse as a child and I always found I needed to know why to be able to bear it. Dad was tired, I said this thing wrong, dad was under pressure, finding a reason even irrational made things bearable. Protecting myself never came to mind. It makes me very sad to know that men fear being worthless/nothing. So sad. Are there men here who can confirm this? Horrible thought. I agree it is totally unfamiliar to me.

  • @richyburnett

    @richyburnett

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes it’s true, but not all men can articulate it because it is such a deep seated knowledge. That’s why the modern feminist movement has been so privately/secretly devastating for men who are in touch with this deep concern. It’s a denial of all that is and could be in our world. Men can become ignorant as a way to cope with this constant sense that whatever they give/offer will never be good enough, they are often frightened that they won’t be able to give enough, so sometimes they don’t… and that whatever they give will be ripped away, and then they will be denied giving love to their own wives and children, which is what gives us the most pleasure in the world as long as we are acknowledged as the creator of that pleasure/contentment/happiness etc. If I’m having a really bad day, nothing makes me feel better or gives me energy like solving a problem for someone and then (importantly) having them acknowledge it with their genuine happiness and genuine gratitude. We don’t feel ecstatic when that happens, we feel deeply peaceful and for men, that is ecstatic.

  • @phatcat3705

    @phatcat3705

    2 жыл бұрын

    Had a bad childhood and grew up always trying to justify my existence. My parents didn't plan to have kids, either, so I never felt welcome. It was like nothing I did was ever good enough. I felt bad just for existing. But even the one time I got a compliment, at work, which I thought I wanted, it only made me very uncomfortable. Never really occurred to me why. Just assumed this mindset had to do with my upbringing. Been hurt too many times, so have a tendency to build walls around myself to avoid risking the threat again. It's probably just a "me" thing, though. Everyone copes differently.

  • @mothermovementa
    @mothermovementa2 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @rodrigonoschese9981
    @rodrigonoschese99812 жыл бұрын

    Very interesting! I have no religion, but ancient wisdom come from ancient knowledge…

  • @ladyhawthorne1
    @ladyhawthorne12 жыл бұрын

    That explained a lot about my past relationship.

  • @happybergner9832
    @happybergner98322 жыл бұрын

    We are intelligent people😉

  • @janosistvan5226
    @janosistvan522610 ай бұрын

    I guess that's why some happily? married men live longer. Purposeful existence... With age there is wisdom, Thankyou...

  • @hinaakhtar9901
    @hinaakhtar9901 Жыл бұрын

    I m Muslim but like your teaching

  • @cameronalbert4220
    @cameronalbert42202 жыл бұрын

    really nice jacket man !

  • @margaretgrodzicka9160
    @margaretgrodzicka91602 жыл бұрын

    so much to learn from a New Testament, Titus 2, young women are inspired by older women, taught to have Godly character, equal in value, different in function

  • @VitomirMilosevic
    @VitomirMilosevic2 жыл бұрын

    It was the happiest day of my life. When I realized I am nothing. Or not a thing.

  • @francismotherway1490
    @francismotherway14902 жыл бұрын

    They are the beauty and bane of my existence.

  • @888ssss
    @888ssss2 жыл бұрын

    putting together life without learning from the creators wisdom is like assembling your product with no instructions. shalom.

  • @myangelvalusha
    @myangelvalusha2 жыл бұрын

    Shalom Rabbi.. Thanks for your wisdom. What to do when the husband leaves the answer in relation to money and his income. Always says no money. Gets annoyed when I ask him to tell me how much he has to pay bills. I want to understand what the problem is and why it keeps me away from financial issues. He always pays for the rent of an apartment late. Buys groceries and pays bills. I work but my income is low. There are no gifts or trips. He is a chiropractor. I understand that because of the pandemic, many patients did not come and business went down. Now he has all 5 days busy. Two days in his office and three days working for another doctor. What to do? How to live with such a husband who hides the sphere of finance from his wife? Thank you. Be blessed 🙌

  • @Elsie144k

    @Elsie144k

    11 ай бұрын

    Could be a control tactic. A narcissist will often do this

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