I've had insomnia for years on and off. My insomnia comes in the form of self abasement, I beat myself up at night, as soon as I put the light out and I'm alone in the darkness, I remember every bad decision I've ever made, every bad financial move, any arguments I've had my failed relationships, and I turn them over and over in my mind, this can go on for weeks, I've spent so many nights sitting up in my armchair watch the TV in wee small hours. I have noticed that some people worry in the day time and look forward to sleeping to forget their worries, I'm the opposite, I don't worry when I'm awake, but when I go to sleep the anxiety wakes me up!

@carolwyban3947

5 ай бұрын

Yes this is a problem for me. What has helped is to focus on my breathing.

@user-yi3fe1pf2t

4 ай бұрын

I also look back at all the bad decisions, all the negative things that have happened in my life,I made etc and feel so guilty about it all. But maybe mine is due to the fact that I am reaching the end of my life and naturally re-assessing the journey I have been on. But I don't understand why the things that always stand out are the negative things that happened, not the good things. Maybe this is part of man's survival technique of trying to and avoid making similar mistakes in future. Or maybe it's a case of a belated conscience catching up with me now that I am no longer too busy surviving work, family etc. 1:06 1:06 1:06

@userfile007

Ай бұрын

Write a letter of forgiveness to yourself? Maybe your mind has punished you enough for your mistakes? I did it and it helped me massively.

@terryhyde8380

Ай бұрын

I listen to music and focus on the words.

In my opinion, depression is a very natural response to the societal insanity most people are experiencing in the modern world. If you had no genuine human feelings, then you wouldn't care about anything. Depression means you care about yourself in the context of existence. Managing depression is the issue.

@malikzafar7232

3 жыл бұрын

Gy Bx. True. R u there??

@cliffkonkle3467

Жыл бұрын

You hit the nail on the head for me I can totally relate.

@1LaOriental

6 ай бұрын

Yeah, but: It’s no measure of mental health to be well adjusted to a sick society.

I clicked on your video at 3.50am 😆😂 I just stay awake until the next sleep time.

I actually fell asleep while listening to this video. Your voice is quite comforting. Thanks.

@DouglasBloch

3 жыл бұрын

You're welcome.

Your videos got me through a nasty depression recently Douglas and I would like to thank you. I sat beside the computer playing them over and over. They gave me great comfort until I came through the other end. Many thank`s

@DouglasBloch

3 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome. Were there any videos that were particularly helpful

@garysimone4977

3 жыл бұрын

@@DouglasBloch ýe i would be interested to know to

@hogarthay

3 жыл бұрын

@@DouglasBloch Yes my friend. The ones that reinforced the fact that this too shall pass. Also, depression lies about the future, Hang in there one minute one hour at a time etc, your personal recovery story and the positive affirmations. I felt safe as long as they were at hand. Your sincerity was integral to their power Douglas. Thank you again

@hogarthay

3 жыл бұрын

@@garysimone4977 Hope these help my friend

@garysimone4977

3 жыл бұрын

@@hogarthay hóws that Frank ..what am i mising or mised

Doug Bloch is the real deal. He is very intelligent and compassionate and he speaks from experience.

"All you seniors; they can relate to that." No, I've had that happening since my early 20s. Except I didn't always usually _have_ to go. It was usually just an annoying urge that awakened me, but I could go right back to sleep seconds later. And wake up dry. But it would _keep_ waking me up, so it was best to just go the first time and sleep through the rest of the night.

I hope all shall be well. I have so many troubles. I’m a Christian and I keep reading Philippians Chapter 4 verse 6. It helps with the anxiety but I still can’t sleep.

I listened to you for less than five minutes and subscribed to your channel.

I live in the UK and the BBC radio app has the recordings of Hancocks Half Hour from the 1950s. Almost without fail these will send me to sleep.

You get up and get on with your life. Since 2020 when I lost my wife (aspirated pneumonia) I've been getting 3-4hrs sleep a night. Didn't sleep at all for over three weeks, just stared at the ceiling or walls. My Doctor didn't know about this until 3months later when I talked to him about a Covid jab that I'd refused, my OT made the telephone appointment as she was worried about my health and wellbeing. I have tried the methods you describe but they didn't work for me. I no longer avoid sleeping as I have found that Dreaming is the only way I get see or talk to my wife. Well at least while I'm alive that is. It doesn't matter what time I go to bed I'm awake 3-4hrs later, but I found it best for me to go to bed at around 2am so that when I do wake up it is between 5-6am so it's not too bad getting up then. If I try staying in bed I end up with a headache and feeling sick.

@mindbodymondaywithmrs.b.3561

9 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry. Grief is horrible. It’s physical and mental and it’s exhausting. My spouse died in 2020 too, and I still can’t sleep well. Eating on time, walking, and sleep rituals have helped some. I listen to yoga Nidras on my phone for when I do wake up. Sending you peace. “Sleep knits up the ragged sleeve of care.” Shakespeare

@nigelnightmare4160

9 ай бұрын

@@mindbodymondaywithmrs.b.3561Thank you. I tend to eat when I'm hungry but not after 8pm and now I try to go out on my recumbent trike that my wife bought me, it helps. Plus I'm getting the car she loved fully restored, a 1992 Vauxhall Carlton diplomat.

@t.k3025

9 ай бұрын

Many of us know how you feel. Just give yourself time, do what gives you comfort, and be kind to yourself. Please make sure you are eating and at least walking for the stress.

@nigelnightmare4160

9 ай бұрын

@@t.k3025 Thank you. You never 'Get over it' but it does get easier with time.

Thank you, Douglas. You are a mensch.

I wake up in the middle of the night and cant sleep. It has been like this for over 20 years, now THIS is a living nightmare. Not depressed

The information continues to be great and my anxiety is more easily understood through this video. Helps take away the complexity of anxiety and more notably. Thanks Douglas Bloch

Square breathing always works, for those of you who try this you can amplify the effect by placing your hand on your stomach. Put your hand on your stomach and feel yourself breathing in and out. Concentrate on how your hand feels and your counting and breathing, you will fall a sleep because this will quite your mind. I am a vet with PTSD, it does work so I suggest you give it a try

@DouglasBloch

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for Sharing This valuable technique

@Delmarvafishing

3 жыл бұрын

@@DouglasBloch thanks

@Bigjamez2011

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this comment ! I am gonna try it every single night

@PadméAmidala2004

3 жыл бұрын

I can’t do that because I get anxiety on how I breath

@Delmarvafishing

3 жыл бұрын

@@PadméAmidala2004 that's understandable, still happens to me sometimes especially when its hot. I normally try to take smaller breaths on purpose when that happens and I remind myself that there is no threat to my life and I am safe

Awesome tips to overcome insomnia. Thanks Douglas

Thank you for your concern and heartfelt advice

@DouglasBloch

3 жыл бұрын

You are welcome

Great to see you again Douglas.Thanks for the video and info.May you continue to help and give great advice and peace,to so many people for a long time to come.👌💚

@DouglasBloch

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kind words John

i recite " Hail Mary's" as many as i can until i fall to sleep

Thank you, Douglas! 😄

I’ve just discovered your videos and it brings tears to my eyes that you are so kind and helpful to so many people. I am currently going through a depressive episode and I really needed something to connect with. Your videos are really amazing

@DouglasBloch

3 жыл бұрын

🤗

Thank you. I found you just when I needed your instructional video. I will certainly try your suggestions.

very interesting I will try some of these suggestions . thank you for posting this

Love your humour interlaced throughout the good advice.feels like a natural conversation. Thanks for the advice 👍

@DouglasBloch

2 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome.

Douglas, thank you so much for your practical down to earth advice on techniques to get back to sleep. Very, very helpful.

Good morning, Douglas. You have clearly described my frequent experience of waking at 4 a.m. and finding difficulty falling back asleep. One of my coping techniques involves planning tasty meals for the next day. Thanks for your practical suggestions which I will start to implement!

Wonderful! I came across your video in middle of the night & as I listened to your suggested list of affirmations I thought of the mystic Julian of Norwich’s “All Shall Be Well…” & you quoted it right then😀. I visited my brother in London Christmas (1998) before he died & he lent me his car(!) to drive to Norwich to visit the Cathedral. I also saw Mother Julian’s cell attached to a nearby little parish church where she spent her hermit years. It was unusual (in the middle ages) for ladies to write mystical literature. I also say the Lord’s Prayer in my mind -it is quite difficult to think it inwardly word for word & I’m usually asleep before I can to finish it… & Yes, a lot of laughter in life is a boon! Thank you for your video. We are well blessed. Greetings from Australia 00:49 a.m.(!) Julia🕊️

Listening to your video helped me relax too. Thanks a bunch. Your friend is right. That afternoon senio or insomnia slump is almost overwhelming.

@lillieknight

8 ай бұрын

Senior

Thank you. I will try your techniques. I really appreciate the help.

Gracias por su ayuda. Este es el mejor canal sobre depresión y ansiedad.

@DouglasBloch

3 жыл бұрын

De nada

Such a nice explanation thanks

Terrific advice.

Thank you Youngman your timing is great! I can't SLEEP. I am so distracted, but I will try your Techniques and Prayerfully get the rest I need so desperately.

Thanks Douglas

Very nice video, I enjoyed it and will try some of your ideas. Thanks

so timely, I woke in despair and it's 4 am..ruminating about all the tragedies of last few years...despair....ty so much for these videos and lifeline, Douglas, all my best, you are an inspiration for many of us bc you truly understand this hell and have overcome it

@anguskennedy7734

9 ай бұрын

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This just popped up today, I have done all but counting backwards. Will try, thank you

I am so glad I found you Douglas !!! These videos help me so much and help me cope with anxiety and panic attacks. Keeping them at bay . How can I gain more energy thru the day ? I feel so lethargic during the day like everything in my body is out of balance .

@DouglasBloch

3 жыл бұрын

Talk to your therapist and your doctor. There are many things that can cause fatigue, Both medical and psychiatric. Once you find out what’s going on, you’re more likely to help it get better. I find that when I exercise, if I am tired before, I end up coming out with more energy

lots of good ideas here, some of which I already utilize successfully thanks Mr Bloch

Yes, helpful!!! Thank you!

Another great video Doug, I recently find that temperature in the room really affects me, and I move to a cooler room which doesn’t always work but helps a lot of the time.

@DouglasBloch

3 жыл бұрын

Sounds great!

Thank you for this

Thank you Mr Bloch. The methods you teach are good and true - I’ve just forgotten them . Compliments on your pleasant voice - very easy to hear - you could read books for the blind . Forgive disjointed non sequiturs - I am a lot older than you. Goodnight. 9/23

Thank you for sharing. Will try some of the techniques

All excellent techniques! I have tried them in the past AND they work! Keep it up Douglas, great video.

@DouglasBloch

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks, will do!

Thx for the ideas, most I’ve never heard of before, Hod bless you for sharing

@DouglasBloch

3 жыл бұрын

You're welcome

Very informative and thanks ..it helps a lot.

Thank you for sharing

Focus the mind, with my cell phone and listen to interviews. Works for me. Thank you for your video's.. ❤

Thank you. Great video

Thankyou, for all the options, of getting back to sleep! 😊

Thank you much appreciated ❤

THANK YOU FOR SHARING THE VIDEO ON SLEEPY. NOW WE CAN WEAKUP .WITH A. FRESH DAY.

@moonnightsky300

3 жыл бұрын

You mean wakeup

Very helpful info thank you

I've been a terrible sleeper since childhood, and advice like this may help with transient or new onset insomnia, but it's not generally helpful to those with long term chronic sleep issues. We've tried it all, and still can't sleep. I'm putting this out there for those who do try these techniques, then wonder why they aren't working.

@lukio3441

3 ай бұрын

Sadly that's true.

@Snow-wlkr7Xplorer

13 күн бұрын

Yep

Douglas your very good

I meditate and it helps also……Deep breathing helps a lot and relaxes you. Breathe in through your nose to a count of 7, hold for a count of 4 and exhale through the mouth, not the nose!

Good video- thank you.

Excellent!

Great video thanks for helping me sleep 💤

Thank you so much for these recommendations. ❤️ I've tried these and they do work most of the time. Thank God. I was really stressing out about it.

@DouglasBloch

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad!

Meditation is what a lot of this sounds like. Good tips to try.

Thank you Doug! These suggestions are helpful❣️💜😍🌎🙏

@DouglasBloch

3 жыл бұрын

Nice to get your comment. What city do you live in again?

@Krystal620

3 жыл бұрын

Douglas Bloch You are welcome Doug. Las Vegas here 😃

Thanks a lot - It's great to have all your tips in the one place. Not sure if you have tried the 'worry notebook' idea, before you get to the point of getting out of the bed. Sometimes it works to list both things you have no control over, and also things you want to remind yourself about for tomorrow, then end with three things you are thankful for in your life. - as I said, thanks a lot. Elizabeth from Ireland

@DouglasBloch

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the great tip!

Thank you!

I have found that thinking positive thoughts and doing something worthwhile before bed works for me, for example doing some kind of workout or exercise, painting ( a room or on a canvas). I also use an eye massager before sleep which helps me relax. If I wake during the night I change my negative thoughts to positive ones and go a do a small task like putting the washing machine on or washing dishes as this is a good distraction then I go back to bed. I unfortunately only sleep for around three to four hours a night but it’s enough for me to function the rest of the day.

@TheEchelon

3 жыл бұрын

Exercise before bed is a bad idea, for me at least. You're increasing your heartbeat and adrenalin...

Very helpful- thank you.

@DouglasBloch

Жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

i‘m very glad you were in my timeline :)

@DouglasBloch

3 жыл бұрын

I'm glad too.

Thank you for the tip it really helps

@DouglasBloch

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome

Thank you.

Thanks so much for this, I had a 4am night just last night! I finally got up, made a cup of decaf., washed the dishes, and finally got back to sleep for a couple more hours...time for bed now.....I really like your tips and the way you do this video...my 70's are proving to be sleeping challenged in cycles....must be normal eh.

Thanks Dr❤

Thank you very much, very helpfull

@DouglasBloch

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome.

Thank You❤

Good and easy methods

Great help , just had a bad night and poor sleep. John in Wales UK

Thanks

God bless you

Thank you 🙏

@DouglasBloch

3 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome 😊

I have tried most of these, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. I have never tried all shall be well. I will try, especially that in the morning the problem is not as important as I imagined at night. Thank you for the video.

I've memorised the periodic table and I bring each symbol to mind in sequence - usually this works for me. I vary the starting point in the table. I often can remember the point I got to when I wakeup.

Dame Julian RULES!

Thank you ! I searched online for a counselor who would do video chats but they’re so expensive! You and God are all I need to guide me beside still waters... no one is interested in WHY I am broken & suffering, which is a BIG part of why I am still broken & suffering! I needed your practical advice on so many areas... I am encouraged!

@DouglasBloch

3 жыл бұрын

I’m glad the information was helpful. There are people who do counseling and therapy online if you think that might help. Two websites that I know of are called better help and talk space

As a kid I was diagnosed with ADD as they used to call it and medicated with Ritalin (my son had similar issues but we fixed it 100% with love, care, and a change of environment and educational approach - but that’s another story). As adulthood has progressed (I’m now middle aged) I have suffered from bad depression (sort of bipolar 2). I did a sleep study the other day, and the results said I am only getting 1% REM sleep when a person is supposed to get 20 to 25%. It is profound how these pathological/neurological issues affect you. It really is. I don’t often have trouble falling asleep but I always wake up at 3am and that’s it for me usually. But I’m very grateful for you Douglas.

Pray, hope and don't worry :)

@escapematrixenterprisejacq7810

3 жыл бұрын

doesnt fix it

@pringledingle8427

3 жыл бұрын

@@escapematrixenterprisejacq7810 helps though.

@escapematrixenterprisejacq7810

3 жыл бұрын

@@pringledingle8427 then ok

@milky9618

3 жыл бұрын

@@escapematrixenterprisejacq7810 mad

Your right about listen to audiobooks, and all shall be well, I like that. Thanks a million.

@DouglasBloch

3 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome. Did you get my email with the Audiobook file

@luguy8347

3 жыл бұрын

Douglas Bloch Absolutely, excellent reader, gentle, tame but works the sentences with a great rhythm. Makes every word count. Supper lucky finding him, engaging voice actor. The audiobook is going to be a huge hit. Perfect combination. Words and voice, ideal.

@mbkzilla2240

3 жыл бұрын

Douglas Bloch when is your audio book coming out

Thanks...

I started listening to audiobooks . I started out with boring books. And set a timer for 20 min. It puts me right out. Every time I wake up. I just go back to the audiobook.

You are on the right path ! Don't be aftaid

@DouglasBloch

Жыл бұрын

Thank you

Asmr works really well for Me!😊👍

Great!

count back from 100, visualize sheep going to pasture. progressive muscle relaxation, toes to head and repeat. box breathing/4s. music player. relaxation mantra(all shall be well and all shall be well and all manner of things shall be well). if 20 minutes of failure, then just get up and do something physical. sleep hygeine/habits(room cool and dark, regular schedule/etc).

Square breathing was a major turning point for me. So simple but incredibly effective. I bring the amount of seconds up to 10 or 20 sometimes.

@DouglasBloch

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for your testimonial

@deborahferguson1163

3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes I do “square breathing” too. It helps sometimes. At least it calms my mind.

Counting backwards keeps me awake and i don't have visual imagination.

Thank u sir

Occasionally I take 5 mg of zolpedim, works like a charm. Hot bedtime tea helps too. Good advice on a typical OLD people situation, pray and thank God we are here!

So true

I have this every night due to anxiety, usually I put on a podcast or audiobook and I'll be able to fall asleep eventually

It used to be a common practice to have a “second sleep” - breaking your sleep into two sessions. Benjamin Franklin used the time between sleeps very productively. Thank you Wikipedia.

Yes I use KZread hypnosis or audio plays its the best 👌 I get up have tea then back to bed works !!! 😊 excellent Douglas I'm subscribing