What If A Black Girl Knew? // DYLEMA // Spoken Word Poetry // Official Video

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Poem & Concept by: DYLEMA
Directed & Edited by: Richard Kattah @Reddy_Kay
Special Thanks to:
Julie Oye @Ju1ie_b
Jae 5 @Jae5_JOAT
Music by:
Dylema
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  • @cozyinmycorner
    @cozyinmycorner7 жыл бұрын

    You were born a black girl because you are strong. Like they say, beauty hurts. Black women get looked down upon because other people are jealous of our beauty, or features. Like big lips, wide hips, and big butts. You are beautiful. Black women are meant to go on their own personal journies to discoveeing how beautiful they actually are, no matter what people say. Black girl, keep your head up and let your beauty shine, because you are Golden💗

  • @faiththomas1749

    @faiththomas1749

    6 жыл бұрын

    A pedal can not turn into a flower unless their is SOME DIRT THROWN UNDER IT

  • @laynahurley4101

    @laynahurley4101

    4 жыл бұрын

    I personally think black women are absolutely beautiful, and I make sure to tell my daughter that everyday. And sometimes strangers when I pass them by...if I’m feeling brave...I can be shy sometimes. And I’m sorry anyone has ever told you guys different.

  • @catherinejohnson5727
    @catherinejohnson57277 жыл бұрын

    "If you can breathe black girl, you've succeeded." This is beautiful!

  • @botshelolife4973
    @botshelolife49738 жыл бұрын

    "what if a black girl knew she does not need to rely on Kylie Jenner to make her lips entertainable." Damn u can preach

  • @briggie28

    @briggie28

    6 жыл бұрын

    Botshelo Life Only a fool would rely on Kylie Jenner for anything!

  • @sholaarowosekila6171

    @sholaarowosekila6171

    6 жыл бұрын

    *..kyile Jenner to make her lips an attainable thing

  • @scarlettmaurice8576

    @scarlettmaurice8576

    5 жыл бұрын

    😍😍😍

  • @solomoncomfortemike2547

    @solomoncomfortemike2547

    5 жыл бұрын

    Botshelo Life

  • @coljam21

    @coljam21

    3 жыл бұрын

    I was like 👐🏾👐🏾👐🏾!

  • @sydneyalexispender1795
    @sydneyalexispender17957 жыл бұрын

    "What if a black girl knew? : that life is what you make of it, and opportunities are what you take from it" Love, Love, Love. 🙏🏽❤️

  • @pinkisharts5392

    @pinkisharts5392

    7 жыл бұрын

    Sydney Alexis Pender I read this when this she was speaking it I was shoooook ❤️❤️❤️

  • @onthejourneywithcass
    @onthejourneywithcass8 жыл бұрын

    Her voice🙊🙅🏽🙅🏽🙅🏽💯💯🙆🏽🙆🏽🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @27TaLisa

    @27TaLisa

    7 жыл бұрын

    cassandra mapanda

  • @aishasheriff

    @aishasheriff

    7 жыл бұрын

    She sounds like a British Nina Simone 😻😻

  • @macleatakirkwood6516

    @macleatakirkwood6516

    4 жыл бұрын

    aisha sheriff or Monique voice

  • @tiffanyi.6459

    @tiffanyi.6459

    2 жыл бұрын

    Her voice is what I felt in my bones 💛

  • @periodtpoo3031
    @periodtpoo30313 жыл бұрын

    I found myself here somehow.. I needed to hear this. Many other black women and girls still do. Thank you💕

  • @jordansky7704
    @jordansky7704 Жыл бұрын

    the sound is amazing they are talking about the little flaws that people make fun of us for like we can control it and not just because of the color of our skin. this poem was beautiful

  • @kekedream
    @kekedream2 жыл бұрын

    Only 200,000 something views in 6 years? For SHAME. This is grand on an impossible scale. Yes black girls, YES.

  • @akhonajokwanaa.j9451
    @akhonajokwanaa.j9451 Жыл бұрын

    Greatness is personal And though it is black girls at the bottom of the social totem poll Pressure makes diamonds So it's time black girls to make your diamonds glow ❤🖤

  • @doaahasan4962
    @doaahasan49627 жыл бұрын

    Amazing! This should be watched by every black and African female

  • @Quinarra

    @Quinarra

    Жыл бұрын

    Are Black and African mutually exclusive? 🤔

  • @yize.mckenzie
    @yize.mckenzie7 жыл бұрын

    Preach girl, this is teaching me to be myself and not to be someone I'm not it teaches me to go where the world 🌎 takes me most importantly it teaches me to be free

  • @mamalegba777
    @mamalegba7778 жыл бұрын

    This poem is toooo real

  • @nakitajackson1980

    @nakitajackson1980

    7 жыл бұрын

    Nekia Thornton

  • @nakitajackson1980

    @nakitajackson1980

    7 жыл бұрын

    Nekia Thornton

  • @travisblair3189
    @travisblair31892 жыл бұрын

    As a Black Man who adore & adorns Black Women, I absolutely honor you & this beautiful masterpiece ✨👌🏾

  • @bthoughtdaughter
    @bthoughtdaughter7 жыл бұрын

    And if can breath black girl you have succeed

  • @teashah25
    @teashah256 жыл бұрын

    Powerful video and message....What If my Black Girls Knew? My job....to educate, inspire and motivate them; help them see their worth!

  • @PoeticalTvLive
    @PoeticalTvLive8 жыл бұрын

    Very powerful poem & visuals.

  • @BYDYLEMA

    @BYDYLEMA

    8 жыл бұрын

    Thanks a lot!

  • @nakitajackson1980

    @nakitajackson1980

    7 жыл бұрын

    PoeticalTvLive thanks

  • @DadePomsouvan
    @DadePomsouvan5 жыл бұрын

    Poetry is not just words, but also the silent voice that speaks to our soul!

  • @ready2talksis
    @ready2talksis8 жыл бұрын

    all i can say is wow, your words stabbed thru my soul, beautiful very needed poem.

  • @MsThelmz
    @MsThelmz8 жыл бұрын

    every black girl needs to know!!!

  • @BYDYLEMA

    @BYDYLEMA

    8 жыл бұрын

    :)

  • @jasminejohnson5671
    @jasminejohnson56718 жыл бұрын

    i absolutely love this omg!!!

  • @BYDYLEMA

    @BYDYLEMA

    8 жыл бұрын

    Thanks glad u do

  • @AdrianWareBPP-Poet
    @AdrianWareBPP-Poet8 жыл бұрын

    Wow this poem hit the nail right on the head. I love it. It's powerful

  • @cosmicwolf8217
    @cosmicwolf82177 жыл бұрын

    I am growing up in a very white community and I rarely see a black person in real life maybe in the car driving somewhere or in church but it's not very often and I have only ever had one conversation with a black person and it was in the 2nd grade I don't remember it that well but he was very nice I always grew up loving black people just as much as white people and not understanding how someone could put them into a group and hate all of them some are good and some are bad but I always wanted to show love and respect to these people and often if I saw a black person I would look away out of the up most respect I didn't and don't want them to think I'm judging them and to this day standing in line at McDonalds with a black person in line with me makes me very very conches of every thing I do how I stand where I look ect and I just want to say that I want to give every black the most respect and love I can give and I want you to know that you are equal you are capable you are beautiful you are strong and you don't need me to say that much love

  • @GyeongmiBaeb

    @GyeongmiBaeb

    3 жыл бұрын

    So treat them as equals and not like some extraterrestrial being. You're trying so hard not to offend, not to look, not to stand too close that you don't even realize you're fetishizing them. Black people are not some peregrine animal that need tiptoeing around. They are human. The exact same as every other. If you don't act that way around white people, don't do it around others. Your comment, though meant with good intention, reminds me of Get Out. You marvel at blacks like they are another species. This is an old comment so I hope you've learned by now. Just re-read it as if it were a black, latino, or Asian person speaking about you. Wouldn't your reaction be "That's too much. I'm only human"?

  • @RyleeLouisaPrenatt
    @RyleeLouisaPrenatt7 жыл бұрын

    her voice is so beautiful

  • @Mooncinder
    @Mooncinder6 жыл бұрын

    Powerful words. I wish all black girls knew.

  • @eenejeelyat3836
    @eenejeelyat38362 жыл бұрын

    I hate me.. I hated me for so long that I forgot how to love the darkness of my skin, the frizz in my hair.. I'm finally finding the love for my race, ancestry, frizzy hair, and dark skin. Thank you for this, Dylema!!✨✨

  • @happygrandma4ruthP
    @happygrandma4ruthP2 жыл бұрын

    This is my 1st time hearing THIS👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿💖🙏🏿

  • @henrijeune
    @henrijeune7 жыл бұрын

    Powerful... I hope this hit home my beautiful sisters.

  • @fadzaimuvingi9497
    @fadzaimuvingi94978 жыл бұрын

    powerful powerful voice..cannot be ignored

  • @NissyTee
    @NissyTee8 жыл бұрын

    Amazing amazing amazing! Visuals, message everything! WHAT IF A BLACK GIRL KNEW! 👑🙌🏾💕

  • @BYDYLEMA

    @BYDYLEMA

    8 жыл бұрын

    Thank you :)!

  • @dreamygray3337
    @dreamygray33377 жыл бұрын

    Her voice..The way she says black girl, like it means god...

  • @mandlamabaso8824

    @mandlamabaso8824

    4 жыл бұрын

    Broo🥰🥰

  • @ZoeSenpai
    @ZoeSenpai8 жыл бұрын

    very poetic approach! i love the passion and realism in the scenes

  • @dajamaicangirl
    @dajamaicangirl7 жыл бұрын

    a strong message to all of us ✊

  • @malekdit6011
    @malekdit60117 жыл бұрын

    beautiful, powerful...i love it!

  • @i_ambeautyinthedark8009
    @i_ambeautyinthedark80098 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!!!! Beautiful, and Powerful.

  • @yahnyahudah4466
    @yahnyahudah44666 жыл бұрын

    One of the best spoken words I have ever heard! ❤🖤💚✊🏿

  • @tonyrae2952
    @tonyrae29528 жыл бұрын

    Gorgeous performance!

  • @BYDYLEMA

    @BYDYLEMA

    8 жыл бұрын

    I appreciate it thank you

  • @muaariana8247
    @muaariana82478 жыл бұрын

    The story behind the visuals and the spoken word gave me goosebumps. Everyone black, white, Asians whatsoever needs to watch this.

  • @BYDYLEMA

    @BYDYLEMA

    8 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your comment :) please share!

  • @ren5485
    @ren54858 жыл бұрын

    YASSSSSSS! Beautiful! Black girls are magic!

  • @yogodde7431
    @yogodde74318 жыл бұрын

    This made me cry. Great great job!

  • @BYDYLEMA

    @BYDYLEMA

    8 жыл бұрын

    +YoGodde$$ hugs* please share

  • @nthabisengmaimela1281
    @nthabisengmaimela12817 жыл бұрын

    powerful stuff girl, love love love

  • @petersugar2185
    @petersugar2185 Жыл бұрын

    Yes well said I'm a black man and only a black woman is for me and will always be! And many of our black brothers need to stick with your own. These nothing sweeter or better than your own I love my black woman even better when we embrace our natural selves 🙏🏾

  • @antwaunhobson3493
    @antwaunhobson34938 жыл бұрын

    ase 😎

  • @kgadimaswinyaneng7465
    @kgadimaswinyaneng74657 жыл бұрын

    guuuuuurrrrrrrrrlllllllll this is amazing and well said. May she continue to know. thank you

  • @corrinediggs2565
    @corrinediggs25658 жыл бұрын

    literally sent chills down my spine, so powerful! ✊

  • @OblongPolkaDots
    @OblongPolkaDots2 жыл бұрын

    A post on Instagram brought me here. I'm so glad that it did.

  • @angelabland7773
    @angelabland77732 жыл бұрын

    BRAVO, 👏🏽YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL SUPERWOMEN QUEEN WARRIORS MY BLACK GIRLS AROUND THIS PLANET, MUCH LOVE 👑🙏🏽❤🌹

  • @yvettevitacaponigro
    @yvettevitacaponigro7 жыл бұрын

    This message is awesome! Stefan Wilson, thank you for sharing your wisdom with Miss Caribbean Beauty! 💗 👍

  • @coljam21
    @coljam216 жыл бұрын

    I can't stop listening to this! So relevant. So true. So visceral. I will write it down. Print it out. Burn it into my mind. My soul. Teach it to my son. So eye opening.

  • @gwenniegrant5287
    @gwenniegrant52875 жыл бұрын

    Amazing! Great poetry and great voice.

  • @BYDYLEMA

    @BYDYLEMA

    5 жыл бұрын

    Donna Eliza thank you!

  • @Ami-ml7gp
    @Ami-ml7gp Жыл бұрын

    This is my first time hearing this poem and the Most High knew that I needed to hear it today.

  • @laneece2010
    @laneece20106 жыл бұрын

    wow! message on point, her flow is on point, her delivery on point, new subie :)

  • @vampireskeletonjai
    @vampireskeletonjai7 жыл бұрын

    "pressure makes ♢" omg this got to me so much love

  • @patricia2grant865
    @patricia2grant8652 жыл бұрын

    Black women is power

  • @weusimalkia7697
    @weusimalkia76978 жыл бұрын

    Ase!! Amen!!

  • @susanhooper7046
    @susanhooper70468 жыл бұрын

    Yes i adore this poem.🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @TheBishop111
    @TheBishop1118 жыл бұрын

    jumping jeshophat. I know a black girl knew that would probably say that

  • @jabuwiskeyngobeni8133
    @jabuwiskeyngobeni81336 жыл бұрын

    My lord. This is magic. Every black girl has to hear this.

  • @babypoet5428
    @babypoet5428 Жыл бұрын

    This poem looks like the voice of the gods of your ancestors speaking to you to wake up, be you and do you before you finally meet them. The world must know we ain't inferior. Nice piece and visuals. Bless up!

  • @marabunya
    @marabunya5 жыл бұрын

    Power to the sisters who know! Power to you black Queens.

  • @agyemangsamuel8235
    @agyemangsamuel82353 жыл бұрын

    Wow

  • @sheryl9967
    @sheryl99678 жыл бұрын

    That deep. I am glad someone said it.

  • @lezzzd6137
    @lezzzd61378 жыл бұрын

    beautiful. really strong message delivered.

  • @tburnett79
    @tburnett792 жыл бұрын

    I love this poem. It's beautiful. It's both powerful & empowering. Thank you.

  • @stellaSOreal
    @stellaSOreal6 жыл бұрын

    Powerful; beautiful message. I urge every woman reading this to make it your mantra. Embrace every word until it's no longer a thought; no longer a decision. Side note: plz dnt fall victim to bitterness. Explore your feelings & where they come from along w the message/attitude u want to present to the world. I wasn't even aware of my own bitterness (or the effect it had on every aspect of who I was/what I did) for a long time... Just wanted everyone to be aware of their own shit! ✌

  • @fadzaimuvingi9497
    @fadzaimuvingi94978 жыл бұрын

    powerful voice love it

  • @alicebenton3326
    @alicebenton33268 жыл бұрын

    I'm a black girl,. now I know

  • @melanin_queen22

    @melanin_queen22

    6 жыл бұрын

    Same fellow goddesses

  • @ElegantlyBrown
    @ElegantlyBrown6 жыл бұрын

    standing in the midst of the desert i saw a figure approach it was like looking at the sun the leaves scattered around, singing and finding their way down in autumn, upon a skin that glistened with every step mesmerizing was the scene like a dancing waterfall the darkness of you radiated and touched me like a light you danced with the wind and it made you look glorious even the sun watched as its child was magnanumous the earth embraced you as you had its hue it smiled at you just like strange men do a touch unimaginable so soft you felt how do you glow so , what is your confession? how do you whisper life into my reflection how the leaves find you wherever you hide, like a lost child they search for their mother they cuddle you and play with your hair they dont want to leave, because it feels like home did the sand lose its way when it found you or was it from you that it was born did the sea cry when it saw you or where your tears what meade the sea beauty in variety you are magic something unexplainable you are tragic you blacken your mirror you are pathetic you give yourself away for your hearth is pure the irony of love, yet so cruel the world watches as you are ripped to shreds the pigs laugh in chorus because they know they wonder how can a queen bow so low? if only, my GOd if only.... if only you knew how much diamonds were worth. by Ghane Mundih

  • @ea7109

    @ea7109

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥺👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @beckyyyyy3076
    @beckyyyyy3076 Жыл бұрын

    What if I knew too😩✨✨✨ This is beautiful

  • @patricia2grant865
    @patricia2grant8652 жыл бұрын

    Praise be to the most high God. This woman voice has touch my heart to the core. Now ends my struggle to maintain relaxed hair.

  • @onelovemaharani
    @onelovemaharani2 жыл бұрын

    That poem is like a whip

  • @cierragoldsboro7829
    @cierragoldsboro78298 жыл бұрын

    this is so beautiful

  • @Maria-kg1nh
    @Maria-kg1nh Жыл бұрын

    Nice. God's love and blessings!!!

  • @asiamarie4
    @asiamarie47 жыл бұрын

    absolutely wonderful

  • @shannonsanders5580
    @shannonsanders55802 жыл бұрын

    One of the most beautiful prolific poems I've ever heard

  • @humphreyteitei759
    @humphreyteitei7597 жыл бұрын

    Very very very Inspiring, makes me feel like i wanna be a black woman!!

  • @thephoenixrising4614
    @thephoenixrising46147 жыл бұрын

    Yes!!!

  • @faithkerekere7958
    @faithkerekere79588 жыл бұрын

    amazing

  • @Malaika880
    @Malaika8808 жыл бұрын

    This is amazing

  • @shawnesek.5146
    @shawnesek.51463 ай бұрын

    Speechless!!!!!!

  • @denisesalt9729
    @denisesalt97294 жыл бұрын

    In awe of this poem every time I come back to it. So powerful and so true. Thank you.

  • @JonathonSiminoe
    @JonathonSiminoe8 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this. A wonderful piece that I hope reaches everyone.

  • @sexychevy
    @sexychevy7 жыл бұрын

    My Goodness, I am in tears! Thank you!!!!

  • @springfresh4344
    @springfresh43448 жыл бұрын

    I love her voice

  • @esther-janeosawaru5696
    @esther-janeosawaru56967 жыл бұрын

    you said it all... thanks for this

  • @BEASTMODE19779
    @BEASTMODE197794 жыл бұрын

    man man man so real

  • @sweethearts86
    @sweethearts868 жыл бұрын

    OMG … such beauty and power.

  • @sherraineflores9423
    @sherraineflores94237 жыл бұрын

    figure out black girl figure out ! love it

  • @Browndigs69
    @Browndigs696 жыл бұрын

    Preach 🙌

  • @ronicaferreira2154
    @ronicaferreira21547 жыл бұрын

    this spoke to my soul

  • @BHOUSTON405
    @BHOUSTON4058 жыл бұрын

    Love this.

  • @Arrakis40
    @Arrakis408 жыл бұрын

    perfect !!! you win....

  • @PositivityMinded
    @PositivityMinded4 жыл бұрын

    I'm sharing this with all the black girls on my list. I love it

  • @krowbabie
    @krowbabie8 жыл бұрын

    wow wow wow, amazingly deep, logical and inspiring

  • @ninithegemini4767
    @ninithegemini47672 жыл бұрын

    This message💙💫

  • @WendyMwansa-qh2cl
    @WendyMwansa-qh2cl7 ай бұрын

    This is a beautiful masterpiece ❤️🔥"what if a black girl knew that pressure makes diamonds"❤️

  • @AnyNameIsFine
    @AnyNameIsFine7 жыл бұрын

    This hit me right in the heart.

  • @richardkaber2785
    @richardkaber27857 жыл бұрын

    I'm white and damn he's right

  • @creativeraven2222
    @creativeraven22225 жыл бұрын

    Your voice, the message and the words!!!! 💯

  • @akorfaamaakoto8904
    @akorfaamaakoto89044 жыл бұрын

    I love this 💗

  • @sylviaboyani1707
    @sylviaboyani17072 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful just beautiful 😊