I have learned my lesson and I will never make the mistake of apologizing or even interacting with a narcissist ever again, if possible. They don't care about your apology. In their opinion you are always wrong so they expect you to bow down. Screw that!

@Surferess

Ай бұрын

See Rebecca? I am learning from you!

My cn would ALWAYS say, "when you're ready, I'll accept your apology". I was not the one that was attacking his existence, like he did me daily. I never apologized for refusing to live in his delusional world.

When I saw how my friend reacted after my apology to her I ended the relationship. She was extremely passive-aggressive. That was the last straw.

@RebeccaZungEsq

24 күн бұрын

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When i've done wrong and need to make ammends to somebody i will start by trying to apologise. The apology doesn't need to be about what the narc thinks, it's actually between me and God. I've done wrong and i need to clean my side of the street. I'll offer a genuine apology and if my apology is used as a weapon against me then good luck narcissist, you're not in the equation.

It is a mistake to apologize to Her (My Narcissist). Nothing is accepted. I tried Gifting, A Nice Dinner Out nothing was accepted or received. She made me feel I could not do enough. So the only thing I could do was not say anything.

Thanks mummy.. What you need to be able to do is say sorry with a set of conditions that are very clear and fair, to bring light on your knowledge of their usual behaviours when you apologise closing them in further.. no it would be good if there was a way to apologise though then we wouldn't have to feel like we are terrible examples or appear anything like them

Rebecca rocks!!!

@RebeccaZungEsq

24 күн бұрын

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I always would leave the narcissist alone.They always listened closely when I was near.I didn't have to look at them to know.Then I would see them and we would laugh,but they knew where I stood ❤❤

@RebeccaZungEsq

24 күн бұрын

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My ex that I have reconnected with really did me dirty many years ago when we dated. She cheated once that I know of and took off her panties at a bar during a bikini contest and says nothing happened and had sex in the parking lot of a bar where she says she was raped and had me come get her. I do not believe it was rape. She claims she remembers nothing and said no. I think she was taken advantage of but I think she was the instigator of it! In any event, when I try to discuss the past to put it behind me and heal from it even though she blamed me for all of it by saying I made her feel like we weren't serious at the time! It was months into our relationship! So whenever I try to discuss all of this, she says "well, I got saved and my sins are washed away" and it all happened before she got "saved". How do I even counter or respond to that!

@ZZstaff

Ай бұрын

I suspect that many people use religion as a shield/deflecting tool. The truth is that she does NOT want to discuss this with you. Please consider dumping this woman. I realize that may be very difficult because you are obviously in love with her or possibly infatuated, in any event she is an accomplished liar and you are providing her with at least some of what she wants. I am 99% sure that she is simply using you.

@imaanhanif8863

Ай бұрын

Seriously try things to increase your self esteem This behaviour is not normal don't accept it for yourself, do you think this is the behaviour of the future mother of your children?

@ChrisFranco

Ай бұрын

Ditch her. She is going to keep doing this for the rest of your relationship because you’ve show her she can disrespect you and you’ll keep accepting it. You deserve better.

I’ve done it! Don’t recommend it.

@RebeccaZungEsq

24 күн бұрын

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When I realized after I apologized to my narcissistic husband, because I said something that was not nice. You would think he would say it’s ok don’t worry. I get WHY ARE YOU APOLOGIZING FOR!!!!! 😂 what a joke

I must have forgotten to click on the comment button and lost my reply. You have done so much for others and I am somewhat concerned with the question, how are you doing and are you taking care of yourself? I have replaced the "." with "-" in the following address to keep it from being a hot link. The following is much deeper and broader than the title suggests. www.youtube-com/watch?v=IxVNR0Om-lA&t=7178s

@wingit7335

Ай бұрын

Thanks for the tip - watching now.