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@gracieburnette3248

8 ай бұрын

In the beginning when Claudia has the curlers in her hair, she looks like Medusa 😂

@z1pz1ppy0_0

7 ай бұрын

hey brit! i have a small question for you...what mod(s) do you use for the smoking and drinking? i wanna add more chaos to my sims 4, lmao

@baile5014

7 ай бұрын

@@z1pz1ppy0_0 its called "Basemental Drugs" mod

@z1pz1ppy0_0

7 ай бұрын

@@baile5014 alr but i cant find the alcohol bottles when i downloaded it-

@baile5014

7 ай бұрын

@@z1pz1ppy0_0 ohh u mean the wine bottles? hmm either there is another mod for these bottles of wine or this is the version for patreon then

If Lacey ever writes a book I bet it's called Mommy Dearest

@rosieplatts3712

8 ай бұрын

Or "tales of a broken princess" description "the survival story of an only child growing up in an abusive household with a narcissist single mother

@saltycat662

8 ай бұрын

@@rosieplatts3712 And the book 'I'm Glad My Mom Died'.

@jenapherburnett2852

8 ай бұрын

It’s totally giving mommy dearest.

@ibuprofriends

6 ай бұрын

“LACEY!!! Bring me the axe!” 😂😂

@marii7892

6 ай бұрын

What’s funny is a wrote a short story called this

Petition for Lacey and the girl from the "One hated and one loved child" video to become besties and take revange on their horrible moms

@Faithheartglr

8 ай бұрын

Yessss

@NateIsNotOkay

8 ай бұрын

Or have them get married, I mean, Lacey did grow up with a literal pride flag in her hand

@Raspberrylover

8 ай бұрын

YESSSSS

@az25blue

8 ай бұрын

OMG yes 😂

@79ARP06

8 ай бұрын

@@NateIsNotOkayYesss

Her standing there smoking that cigarette like a villain had me 💀. 😂

@janmots2829

7 ай бұрын

She reminded me of Cruella Deville for some reason. 😂

@Lilian040210

6 ай бұрын

I hate these animations so bad. Bimbobitchie and alphanimale

@luvkaitlynn

6 ай бұрын

SAME@@janmots2829

@ScarlettGames98

4 ай бұрын

@@janmots2829cuz cruella alwayssss does that lol

@sabrinacalado7654

2 ай бұрын

Felt the same 🤣🤣 so much that I forgot sims can't smoke 💀

“just because it’s their birthday doesn’t mean they get cake” has me DYING lmao

@sweeteuthiedoll

8 ай бұрын

Same! 😂😂😂

@Galaxy_Fire

6 ай бұрын

same

@chynaalyssa3383

5 ай бұрын

Lmaooooooo I lost it

@lilscenechick1995

2 ай бұрын

If Ruby Franke wrote a parenting book.

lacey growing up with a BIG ASS PRIDE FLAG ON HER HAND and this being ignored lmao

@rebbyy95

4 ай бұрын

so?

@macndcheese7323

4 ай бұрын

LMAO I’m likee

@nrth_o

4 ай бұрын

@@rebbyy95nobody said something bad about it it’s just funny

@LaurenJayx0

3 ай бұрын

​@rebbyy95 oh ffs calm urself - it was a laugh is all

@sold_my_kidneys_for_mamamoo

3 ай бұрын

LOLL I was like why isn’t she saying anything ☠️ not Lacey apart of the lgbtq iktr!! U know her moms ESPECIALLY gonna hate that

I like the irony that Claudia is getting all the negative buffs, as she's the abuser. She's also the abuser of substances, but they're definitely punishing her lungs and liver in return. Ah karma.

@worldofdaisy._

8 ай бұрын

Do you have to comment twice?

@sentienttapioca5409

8 ай бұрын

​@@worldofdaisy._Does anyone have to comment at all? Don't be so passive-aggressive.

@SevenEllen

8 ай бұрын

Ignore the troll. :)@@sentienttapioca5409

@onidaaitsubasa4177

8 ай бұрын

Comment as much as you like, don't let negative people sour your mood, and it's probably similar in real life as well, the abuser is always stressed and angry all the time and then takes it out on their kids, so the poor kids learn to walk on eggshells to try to avoid getting their parent mad, cause a happy parent doesn't hurt you, and it's honestly sad that a kid should have to think like that, the Sims 4 is eerily good at replicating these types of family behaviors in families.

@Davidpostingshid

7 ай бұрын

@@worldofdaisy._it’s a free country, they could comment this 100 times if they wanted to.

This scenario takes me back to my toxic childhood with my single mother. Needless to say, I left home too soon with a stupid boyfriend, got pregnant at 19 and it didn't work out. Anything to get away from a narcissistic mom. But, maybe there's hope yet. I ended up marrying a responsible man who's been loyal and helpful for over 15 yrs. And my son is now a responsible man with goals and skills. Dont worry lacey, it will work out.

@baked-beans465

8 ай бұрын

I can relate. I have a narcissistic mother and it was a living hell growing up. I almost left home to move in with a now ex-boyfriend, it really does make you do anything to be away from them. I'm also now with a great and loyal man who I couldn't imagine life without. Happy to hear your son is doing very well!! It makes me happy to hear people's recovery/healing stories :) good for you!!

@Yeah_You_Thought

8 ай бұрын

Damn I did something similar 😢 married this absolute pos to get out of my mom's house. I was slowly dying there... Anyways I'm divorced from the pos and back at mom's 😭😭😭 lord have mercy

@lisalarsen2384

7 ай бұрын

I’m so proud of you mama

@gottalovetheinternet

6 ай бұрын

Congrats to you for breaking the toxic cycle! Not easy to do. And any baby, at any age, is not a mistake. It’s a blessing! Your son sounds like an amazing guy

@Yeah_You_Thought

6 ай бұрын

@@gottalovetheinternet rape babies are not blessings. That's ignorant

She seems like the type of mum that when her kid cuts of contact says it was “character building”

@casperthesociallyawkwardgh6811

8 ай бұрын

I was built like a DM's intended quest that was entirely ruined in the beginning because the party started berating and stealing from the quest npc for no reason

@eggarts9562

8 ай бұрын

@@casperthesociallyawkwardgh6811 I know the feeling well

@casperthesociallyawkwardgh6811

8 ай бұрын

@@eggarts9562 I'm sorry for us both

Imagine her on reddit 20 years later like “AITA for not lending my mother money when she was at her lowest?”

"and all the other kids will start calling you shred-head" "aw dont cry..... youll get wrinkles." im actually cackling

we definitely need to see a second part where she takes “revenge” somehow on her mom or maybe where Claudia tries to redeem herself for being mean with her!

@randil3208

8 ай бұрын

It's not a story time, it was an experiment 😂

@AK4LIMERO

8 ай бұрын

@@randil3208 but still, i feel so bad for the kid🥹

@Abby_.lee56

8 ай бұрын

thats a good idea

@cardeliagatheright158

8 ай бұрын

😂yes !! I would want to see that . poor lacy

@user-ph9wy2qd4s

8 ай бұрын

...yeah, an entertaining experiment..That needs a follow up video 🙄😂

"DON'T SLAM THAT FRIDGE DOOR!!!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I crack up every time she says that.

@stavrouvasiliki8625

4 ай бұрын

Same😂

@stavrouvasiliki8625

4 ай бұрын

Same😂

The "have a shit day Lacey, see you when you get home" part had me giggling. The commentary of this was hilarious 😂

@sexychula19

6 ай бұрын

Seriously 😂😂😂

@Kat-hh7fz

5 ай бұрын

FRFR 😂

@kaitlynadams3949

5 ай бұрын

Mine was the “yes there’s a monster under your bed cuz mummy keeps feeding it” 😅

@nikkib473

4 ай бұрын

Same 😅​@@kaitlynadams3949

I love how you nailed the whole Mommy Dearest theme lol.

@WhinyBrit

8 ай бұрын

I actually only watched the film yesterday because there were so many comments and now I can see the resemblance!

@nevaehhamilton3493

6 ай бұрын

​@@WhinyBrit no wire hangers?

@MickeyP1230

4 ай бұрын

Ever! ​@@nevaehhamilton3493

@fenchurch8725

21 күн бұрын

i'm on the board of directors of this lousy community lot!

@phiaoconnor

11 күн бұрын

This ain’t my first time … at the Sims 4

I feel so bad for the friend. Poor kid. Great video tho. Kinda weird that you don't even get like told off by the game if your kid goes to school or dirty and abuse her constantly.

@Yeah_You_Thought

8 ай бұрын

Ikr they need a CPS mod

@theopowell8815

7 ай бұрын

Lmao. There are no social workers in sims 4, like in the sims 2?

@mrsflamesodessa8224

7 ай бұрын

@@theopowell8815no lol. If you malnourish your kid like Starve them to death or trap them in a room, they just disappear as the sims 4 call that “getting taken away”. However Lacey wasn’t rly starving and she wasn’t trapped in a room the whole game. She had all necessities except bathing but that isn’t considered a need in the sims 4

@HaldjasHelina

7 ай бұрын

@@theopowell8815 There are not, but I mean kids can still get "whisked away" so...

@keepyourshoesathedoor

7 ай бұрын

That happens irl

"Maybe you and Max- DON'T SLAM THAT FRIDGE DOOR!"

I'm surprised you provided her with her own toilet and not a pee bush in her room. So kind.

I love the idea of Lacey getting away and getting a great life somehow. Why not let her fight back as a teen? That could be good for a laugh. Please continue her story and give her happiness.

I love how Lacey fights back. The kids are alright

“Have a shit day, Lacey.” I’m sobbing 😂😂😂

@Angel_mm209

6 ай бұрын

I cracked up at that part too

These videos come up *exclusively* when I’m doing family psychology research and it’ll never stop being funny

I think Lacey and Max from the “one child is loved and the other isn’t” video should meet as adults and team up to get revenge on their horrible mothers. Maybe they can also have kids of their own and break the cycle by being wonderful parents to them. (Oh, and Max’s sister Karissa can be the cool aunt!)

I love how the flag is so big it fills her whole portrait

not her literally coming out at the end

@diamondjules9

5 ай бұрын

Is that what that was? I was so confused why she had that flag on her

@m0zz4re11a1

4 ай бұрын

@@diamondjules9i assumed it’s like an accessory from some mod and since it randomises clothes when you age up it just appeared

4:03 "oh don't cry... you'll get wrinkles." I dont k ow why but I wasnt expecting that and I laughed, then felt like a terrible person for laughing at a childs abuse, but then remembered they are just sims not real people, so it doesnt matter, and I laughed again.

My family did this Sim challenge irl

i love how towards the end you started calling lacey max, it really brings out how much we don't care about lacey

"shes gonna go play in the trash... her only toy..." crying tearsssss

Lacey being a dick is realistic and actually shows her to have a lot of character, her being fearless and brave, and acting on impulsive thoughts

honestly it really bugs me that we technically can have bad relationship between a parent and a child but with all of these advises or teachers call, you only have the "good parent" options. It is absolutely stupid and lame

I freaking love this. This was hilarious. I almost felt like the monster under the bed would have been a preferable parent to claudia. She was Mommie Dearest in the flesh. Or, in the sim.

I laughed so hard at "thats why you got a monster under your bed because your mommy is feeding it " 🤣🤣🤣🤣

the birthday cake story 💀

“Is there not just an option to give her the cane??” 😂

It doesn't hurt that hurt super dry extremely proper English accent makes what she's saying 10 times better

lacey needs to grow up and have a house triple the size of her moms

I feel like EA used your friend's mom as inspiration for the way Sims interact with birthday cakes. It's really the only explanation.

Ok but I'm doing a generation challenge, Gen 5 right now... My middle Sim child is having a hard time and I give her all the love lol. I think the Sims can be difficult sometimes. 🤣... She also has the aggressive trait and loves to bite her mom. 😅

@Misspinknana

8 ай бұрын

Bites her mom 😭

@OhheyitsHelix

8 ай бұрын

Common middle child activities

@krystalthesquirrel4973

8 ай бұрын

​@@OhheyitsHelixIs Lacey not allowed to bathe or something?

@Ezme666

7 ай бұрын

Your sims birth lied to you!! You got a piranha, not a child😂

@yeziakirilaz

7 ай бұрын

@@krystalthesquirrel4973what the hell are you talking about

This video is too real 😭 lmao my mom bought me a cake from the store for my birthday and my family ate it without me. That was the only cake I got as a teenager.

Should get an "unresolved issues" trait 😅.

oooh hope we get a continuation of this so we can see the relationship between the mom/daughter when she’s an adult !

I think Lacey would be good for her own story aging up, moving out, emancipating herself and trying to get through high school with pretty good grades and into college. Maybe even with the new for rent pack. She could get a cheap studio rental. Or like an efficiency or something where the kitchen and stuff is in the shared space, and her room is her own. So she could afford it on a part-time job salary while in school.

@janetwebster5099

2 ай бұрын

And, then have her ( broke and homeless) mum move in with her as an elder and Lacey gets 5 Star REVENGE!!!! 😅😂

I couldn't help but laugh at the part where you said that people with mean parents end up wanting to be good parents because that was the case for me and it couldn't be any more accurate. I had a narcissistic mother and living with her made my goal in life to never be anything like the person she was. So her traits being "good" and family oriented are spot on. great video!

@juliaturk7054

3 ай бұрын

While that's really great that you broke off from that, unfortunately, you would be an exception. Most people who had abusive parents turn out just like them in one way or another.

That story reminds me of the time we baked a cake for one of our neighbours. A nice kid he was I used to play Minecraft with him all the time. We took the cake over the night before his birthday when we returned the day after we learned that his parents got high and ate the cake. In hindsight, that woman was awful with her kids and was very much the reason I don’t want any.

@janetwebster5099

2 ай бұрын

Reconsider that - life goes fast and while kids right now may seem like a burden, once you get older they are an absolute blessing - especially if you are single - would not change mine for anything!

@SilasTheStrawberry

20 күн бұрын

@@janetwebster5099 don’t try and convince people to have kids when they do not want kids, that’s weird. they can figure that out by themselves. just because you want kids doesn’t mean that it’s going to be a blessing for every single person.

I'm barely five minutes into this video and I am already laughing my ass off. This is horribly entertaining thank you.

Your humor is actually what sells me on this channel, i could listen to talk about anything 😂

For a second I thought at 4:10 that Claudia was about to give Lacey some wine (Not that is possible) but the "Don't be sad, you'll get wrinkles!" made me laugh lmao. Hope Lacey can either run away or take revenge on her mom

"Maybe I'll give you a really nice life maybe you and Max DONT SLAM THAT FRIDGE DOOR." 26:20

Can you grow Lacey into an adult and see what kind of kid she has and what kind parent she is?!?!!!!

Many girls had this exact childhood with their mothers

“The kids at school will call you shred head💀💀💀” got me dying😭😭

I once had a sim mom that always treated her 2 daughters badly for no apparent reason, she had no evil trait, no hating children trait, and was even a family sim, her daughters weren't mean or belligerent in any way, and this was before the family dynamics, but it really seemed like she had a bad dynamic with her children, at first she treated one girl worse than the other like yelling at her for no apparent reason and was fine and happy with the other girl, and this was without any intervention from me, I usually played the girl's point of view, then later the mom started yelling at the other girl too, the mom would also never cook group meals even if the girls were hungry at the time, she only would cook for herself, she wouldn't make any group meals unless I made her, the girls would always be stressed while at home, and then one day when the mom, once again, made a nice tasty meal only for herself her daughter got angry and shouted at her mom as if she was complaining about her mom never cooking for them, it was then that I knew the kids weren't doing well in that household, so I moved them into another house with another caretaker, and the girls are a lot less stressed now, and I even get concerned if their mom pays them a visit, which she never does, she doesn't even call them, sometimes they pay her a short visit, but I have them leave before the mom decides to start yelling for no reason, I guess some sims are just not good parents to their kids, even if the traits don't indicate it.

I think this particular challenge would have been better if the mom made the child supplement her income by dumpster diving (selling the 'burnt' items from the inventory) then selling what could be sold on the selling table & having that one mod that allows children to do more like cooking (I literally can't remember the name of it right now) therefore ensuring the mom makes the child cook all her food.

Claudia is so much like my mother, and lacey is so incredibly how I was. My mother would bully my appearance, my personality, my interests and hobbies. She destroyed all confidence. But my confidence isn't what would make me react or be angry, I learnt to be angry from her

You should have given Lacy an instrument and mock her while she practices. I think it works with drawings as well. 16:26

Wow Whiny that's some rough treatment. Great video but I can't play this cruelly to a child even though they're not real

@deirdremorfin4526

4 ай бұрын

I know it made me sad. I always find being evil in sims funny but this one I struggled fsr

@NitreValdane

3 ай бұрын

I thought it was js me. This reminds me of my childhood w my narcissistic grandma and my neglectful unavailable mom. I have an 8 yr old boy. She’s funny asf tho! Still somehow I feel bad for the kid sim!

A man once said"All kids deserve parents but not all parents deserve kids" very true..

Oh my god, can we send a cake to your long lost friend who probably doesn’t speak to her cake-stealing mother anymore

"DONT SLAM THAT FRIDGE DOOR' i lost it 😂😂

I am very glad you made a Joan Crawford Sim for this .

@uglybetty8747

4 ай бұрын

Frrr 😂

Imagine the validation you just gave so many people. Also, loving this How To Not

Not me that actually had a family dynamic like this 😂😂😢😢 "Kids are seen not heard!!" Lmao

@sjanex

8 ай бұрын

😞 honestly I don’t know why she thought this would be a good idea?

@kaylaward5451

8 ай бұрын

@@sjanexur trauma is not a priority to other people. She did this bc she was curious. U don’t know if she’s doing something from her childhood or not, and if it triggers u, its up to u to remove urself and not her to cater to you.

@sjanex

8 ай бұрын

@@kaylaward5451Who said I had trauma? I didn’t mention that in my comment so would love to know where you’ve got that from?

@panpan6222

8 ай бұрын

my best friend's life was like this. she could never come out and play with us or sleep over. somehow she was allowed to have me stay the night once. we ate food on the floor because we couldn't sit on the couch or at the kitchen table. I had to help her do the family's laundry. my parents never let me go back over there. she got kicked out at 17 for doing something completely normal but bc it didn't serve her parents they didn't like it. my parents took her in right away and now she has an amazing life married with her own kids. seeing this be a real life situation is wild.

@kaylaward5451

8 ай бұрын

@@sjanex ur comment implied you were sad and didnt understand why she would choose this topic as a response to someone speaking about how their family dynamic was the exact same. Ur comment implied she should not have made this video bc some ppl have this as their reality. And as a response, i stated that some random person online having experience with this dynamic does not affect whether or not she plays a game just bc of their trauma. There you go.

it has some sort of 50’s style, i love it!

"Welcome wagon, fuck off." me fr

“Don’t argue back, Lacey. Just take it.” IM DYING

"What town is it we live in again? Uhh, which house is mine?" Claudia was way more drunk than she thought 🤣🤣

Lol the way she said “dnt slam that fridge door” totally gave the aunt from Harry Potter 🤣🤣

I’ve seen this channel pop up a couple of times and it’s been this same video. I never decided to watch it until I wanted something to watch while I relaxed and I’ve gotta say, I love your voice, your attitude, the commitment towards character and everything I’m only 3 minutes in and I’ve been thoroughly enjoying this video lmfao Still watching as I type. I subbed right before writing this comment, keep up with the amazing work, you’re so personable and funny!

11:55 ‘Wash yourself with a bucket of tears’. That’s a new one! 👏 I’ve never considered that, lol.

@codyt.346

5 ай бұрын

I was watching a reaction video of Naked Gun 2 1/2, and there is a bucket of tears. But nobody bathed themselves in it. Bravo 🎉

This is the only situation where experimenting on what happens when you abuse a child mentally and physically their whole life is okay.

the way you kept calling lacey "max" is so appropriate because claudia will definitely not remember her kid's name 😭😭

This makes me feel so bad😭.. because there’s children that actually go threw this

You know, I was surprised you didn’t use the chores mod, you can set it so your kids and teens have to do chores at certain times, I can’t remember who made it, but it would be nice to see a video where you use it in a scenario like this. Edit: the mod is by Littlemssam. Hopefully that’s spelled correctly, she makes some great mods, and the chores mod is really fun in gameplay if you add it with the allowance mod, but if not, you’re pretty much just making your kids do things instead of just watching tv or making a mess.

Wow! This was sad but very imaginative. I feel so bad for Lacey!! I would love to see her as she grows up. My hope is that she becomes amazing adult! ❤

Me: thinking Lacey would be a good kid Lacey: cheats on a test, makes a mess, makes friends with a monster, has bad manners

If you would have named Lacey "Heather" i would have died lol

@AwesomeHyperSonic547

6 ай бұрын

I see what you did there. Great Silent Hill 3 reference. 😂😂

“THAT GUY JUST STOLE MY RED WHINE!oh..oh..what a joke!”

I can't be mean to sims I make, it makes me so sad

i had a horirible childhood like lacey. both my parents were narcissists and abusive and neglectful.spent most of my life wishin i could get out and have peace. i did, at 23. I have a good peaceful life now.

I need to see more of this. I am invested in Lacey's growth now

"Dont give me any cheek or ill replace your pillows with shreddies and everyone at school will call you shredhead"

2:13 lmfao this reminded me of the WKUK skit ‘10 Easy Steps to Having the Perfect Relationship’ “Are we gonna do this right now? Do you seriously wanna do this before the kids have even left for school?” “Fucking hit me, Harold! Just fucking hit me!”

The mom gives Medusa from The Rescuers vibes.

I can't stand how funny you are. Loooove your videos.

This is the hardest I've laughed all week. You are utterly fabulous. Keep it going please. New favorite channel 😂😂

The Mummy Dearest vibes. 😂😂😂

Was binging your videos and all the sudden a new one is posted!

My instant response was 'Bojack Horseman'.

I want to see more of Laceys story. Would love for her to find chosen family

This mother reminds me of my own but instead of being a succesful writer my mom uses her bf's to get more money lmao

I watched this with my husband and you had us both rolling with laughter 😂 great video!!!

thank you for giving me entertainment even when im ill as hell :D

*“Have a shit day lacey, see you when you get home.”* Got me laughing 😂

I laughed so hard when u decided to put the spoiled food under lacey's bed😂 that was just straight up evil😂

This made me ponder...is there a mod that allows sims to be pushed to suicide or homicide?

@XoCandyHeartzXo

8 ай бұрын

Extreme Violence does i believe

The monster under her bed was her mother

no, but the fact that her mother hates her so much that her only support at home is the monster under the bed

ur sims videos are my thoughts that i dont say out loud. i love your content sm.

Literally died laughing the whole time watching this I love your videos 😂