Thank you Ms. Debra, this is a video everyone should watch and be informed about dementia. Your video was very well presented.

@answersaboutalzheimers

Жыл бұрын

Wow! Thank you so much! I hoped you've subscribed!

@cathyellis248

6 ай бұрын

I've just found you and subscribed to your channel. Thank you for describing the seven stages of dementia. My husband has Lewy body dementia. I'm not sure if it's stage 5. I'm taking one day at a time. We live in Sweden, where the care offered is amazing. But thank you again for your wonderful presentation!

@sharonlobello2541

4 ай бұрын

Hi Debra this is my mom been having All stages and Decline . Before she died of July 10 2009

@sharonlobello2541

4 ай бұрын

Thank you Debra

@kathrynstewart5863

3 ай бұрын

Same

I think my wife of 47 years is in stage 6 now. She can’t carry on a normal conversation anymore but she still eats pretty good and dresses herself but not well. She was so smart and could do most anything she put her mind to. She did bank mergers when she worked for BB&T, traveled by car all along the east coast by herself before we had GPS and was so quick thinking and organized. Breaks my heart but she still remembers Jesus and church and still wants to go. I know the Lord is taking care of her and helping me along the way.

I'm going through this with my mom right now. She's in stage 6 and refuses to leave her home. This is the hardest thing to go through and watch her decline. PRAYERS! PLEASE🙏

@answersaboutalzheimers

Жыл бұрын

My prayers are with you. The reason she won't leave the house is most likely fear. Poor thing

@ceceliadianehazlewood2813

Жыл бұрын

@@answersaboutalzheimers u

@ceceliadianehazlewood2813

Жыл бұрын

Ty 1

@ceceliadianehazlewood2813

Жыл бұрын

I think the best

@ceceliadianehazlewood2813

Жыл бұрын

Ok I

A person should have the option to take a pill and end an agony for all. Allowing someone to go through thus us heartless and selfish.

@eduardomazarredo5644

22 күн бұрын

I agree. It should be a Human Right !!

@reneelibby4885

21 күн бұрын

agree

@answersaboutalzheimers

14 күн бұрын

I agree!

I was diagnosed with dementia 4 years ago, and I am still doing great.

@answersaboutalzheimers

7 ай бұрын

Happy new! Congratulations!

@LivWestrumEliassen

6 ай бұрын

❤

@ninettehalpin2779

4 ай бұрын

That's so awesome! I'm happy to hear you're doing great & wish you continued wellbeing always 🙏🥰

@sabrinathomas9065

4 ай бұрын

What are you doing to keep doing great? God bless you

@laetitialogan2017

4 ай бұрын

Well done..keep pushing...

My mother, who had was stage 6 at the end of her life, often said: Old age is not for the faint of heart.

@answersaboutalzheimers

11 ай бұрын

That's the truth!!!!

@joanncoopertroupe3506

2 ай бұрын

That's 200% Truth

@jerseygirl2811

Ай бұрын

My FIL says getting old isn't for wimps.

@germccrory5987

17 күн бұрын

I say old age is not for the ELDERLY

My mother’s brother, who was an inventor & had enormous amounts of info on every topic, had bits of forgetfulness & a few dents on his car before we realized he was in trouble. He lived alone & only visited family occasionally. Then he showed up with a battered face & couldn’t really explain who did it or when. His brothers began checking in him. Within 6 months, he couldn’t drive, carry on a conversation or realize where he was & was in a care facility. The last time I visited him, he was at a table being fed. He was in a zombie like state & had to be told to open his mouth, then to chew, & then ti swallow. He did not know me & wasn’t really there. I left with tears running down my face.It is a horrible end to anyone’s life. God bless those who have it, those who witness it, & the caregivers. Heartbreaking for all.🙏🏼

@answersaboutalzheimers

Жыл бұрын

Carol, my heart breaks for you. I too have a horrible story that will be out in a video soon. I will pour my heart out for all of you...

@louisedownie9877

Жыл бұрын

❤

@joanncoopertroupe3506

2 ай бұрын

This scares me too. I am age 66 Husband age 70

@epicellen7299

15 күн бұрын

From everybody I know , who has this awful disease, it truly appears to be the most intelligent human beings who end up suffering with it. More research should be done studying whether overtaxing your brain is one of the factors

@MarieJanssen-ou4fn

14 күн бұрын

Scary. I’m 68, forgetful of words and things. My husband is 76, forgets things and dates.

I cared for my mother with dementia for three years. She died only a few days ago in her own house and bed as I promised her. The experience is something I shall never forget although in the end she died peacefully. Her own doctor never visited her in all that time and she passed away at the age of 97. She always managed to walk up the stairs with me behind her but seven days before she died she suddenly stopped walking while going upstairs and I had to carry her up. She spent the remainder of her life being cared for in bed.

@answersaboutalzheimers

3 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry...

@WTIF2024

3 ай бұрын

sorry for your loss

@NurseChapel_NCC1701

2 ай бұрын

God bless her and God bless you for having her with you all that time. I lost my mother to cancer in 2020. She was 83. Loss of a mother is like losing a part of your soul.

@lynrajahmusician

Ай бұрын

So sorry for your loss.

@traceyhackett3741

Ай бұрын

Exact same journey as my mom but she was only 83. But I'm so happy she still knew she was a mom. ❤

My step mom, and my dad’s love of his life, has both Lewy Body Dementia and Parkinsons Dementia. She is well into stage 6, with some regression periodically into stages 4 and 5. It has been heartbreaking for all of us, and her rapid decline into stage 6 has been overwhelming and confusing and frustrating and scary for my dad. He refuses to put her into a home but I see the toll it is taking on him, and I know that I’m going to lose him quicker because of it. It’s all just so dang awful. No one deserves to lose their mind like this, and no one deserves to see their loved ones take that journey. And there’s not a damn thing we can do other than wish that we had death with dignity options in our country (if you don’t have them, like the US). She is so unhappy, so confused, she had to go into hospital last week and she was violent and had to be strapped to a chair! She’s never had a violent bone in her body, she has always been so reasonable and so informed and so incredibly intelligent. Now she does not know who my dad is most days, and mixes him up with her first husband from over 40 years ago. She will sometimes ask someone who someone is, not recognizing her own daughter or brother or grandchild. She has to be catheterized constantly, has constant UTIs from not drinking enough water, is constantly dehydrated, which just makes the confusion even worse. She then also sometimes loses control and makes a mess all over herself, the floor, the bed, etc. she gets food all over everything when she tries to eat. She can no longer type/can’t make her fingers do what she wants to do and can’t recognize that emails or typing is illegible to anyone else. She falls frequently, is very unsteady on her feet, cannot make her legs do what she wants them to do many times, and has a very slow, very shuffling walk. She still sometimes talks about current events, though that is definitely less frequent now. She often will be speaking but then completely forget about what she was talking about. She thinks my dad is having affairs with people (he would never), or that the hospital is out to get her, or whatever. She hallucinates constantly, always seeing people in their house. She thinks they’re using her toothbrush, sleeping in her bed, wearing her clothes, etc. she sees creatures in piles of clothes or a pillow or a blanket. She does not think she’s in her home but rather a home that looks just like her home but isn’t her home. She’s calling 911 and reporting that my dad is dead or she’s scared or there are intruders. She walks over to the neighbors house in the middle of the night to tell them the same kind of stuff. She does not see or recognize messes. She cries a lot, is so scared and confused. I share all this in case anyone else is going through something similar. You are not alone, but it is hard. It’s the hardest thing I’ve ever gone through, losing this vibrant woman that we love, and seeing its impact on my dad. Every day i wish i could fix it, i wish I could help, I wish that i could somehow make it better, or just make it end (terrible, I know, but true.)

@victoriadavis4339

2 ай бұрын

thank you for sharing

@user-um1sg6kz7i

Ай бұрын

Q WA

@anicetaoliva3847

12 күн бұрын

😢😢😢

@christinewilliams5852

Күн бұрын

Ahh! sorry to hear this and I know how hard this is, the disease is so cruel. My Mum is showing many of the symptoms you have raised above and it is somehow comforting to know that we are not alone, but sometimes it feels like this as others dont see this and when trying to get help it is also hard as the health professionals talk to mum and what she says to them are sometimes automated replies like are you okay with paying bills and she just says yes, when my brother has been sorting this for a long time now and she has no financial knowledge anymore., your last sentence is what my brother and I have been thinking too, although this seems terrible to think that. Thank you for your honest and frank account of what you are going through and I wish you all the love and strength in coping with this.

@the_moo

Күн бұрын

@@christinewilliams5852 thank you so much, I wish you strength and love also!!

I take care of my Mother-in-law. She has always been a mean and hateful person and dementia has amplified it. When i read articles on dementia they always refer to " a loved one". That is not the my situation. I take excellent care of her at the risk of my mental health. She has ni friends and only my husband as family. She has never concidered me family. She is 85 and i have realized i will never put my family through this hell. My husband deals as best he can. Being a caretaker is this hardest job. I can't imagine doing this for "a loved one".

My god, what a nightmare. I'm so sorry for anyone dealing with this.

@gillyb44

3 ай бұрын

it is a nightmare to be honest. I cant think too far into the future, or I couldnt cope with my husband and all the possibilities. Some days it is overwhelming, I just wan t to sit and cry. But i have a hobby and still get out and about with good friends.

@prof4659

Ай бұрын

@@gillyb44 We need a breakthrough!

My mother has dementia, and my sister has altzheimers and yes it’s heartbreaking to witness.😭 I find myself crying most of the time when I’m with them. 🌸

@stevechandler8487

3 ай бұрын

Prayers

@cathypurnell9331

3 ай бұрын

@@stevechandler8487 I have prayed and God is so good. Seems when faced with a new challenge I worry but things have always worked out. Sometimes I work a little harder, prayers without work is a complete waste of time. God is great 🌸

@judyplimpton9583

3 ай бұрын

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@judyplimpton9583

3 ай бұрын

Cold delivery 😢

@philmcchrystal1670

3 ай бұрын

How do think your Mother & Sister feel about their condition, please think about them rather than how it makes you feel

My dad had dementia or altzheimers so bad he couldn't even talk in the end. He was a generator and alternator rebuilder. Had his hands in solvents all the time. It makes me want cry when i think about it. I could never had a better father

@paulohlsson27

Ай бұрын

Hi Diane, how's your day going with you?

This is very helpful. I believe I am in stage 2. My mother died at 93 and I watched her progress through these stages. Her generation was not really aware of this as a diagnosis although they had relatives who "went senile". My children note that I have a tendency to leave things when I visit them (hats, coats etc). I first suspected the diagnosis 20 years ago when trying to cope when visiting a strange city in a strange country in a different time zone. Over the past 2-3 years my memory for current day and date, for names and words has markedly deteriorated (noticeable to me only). I have very poor sense of smell. There are other memory symptoms I could list. I still function at a high level and I don't think friends would have noticed anything. I do a lot of physical exercise, both aerobic and resistance training as I believe the evidence suggests that this slows down progression. I am also on a low sugar diet. I successfully run my own fairly complex investment portfolios though wonder how long I can do this. I live alone so no wife to notice things. I have recently given up some teaching work in retirement that I no longer have the previous great enthusiasm for. I am 78 this year and think I probably have another 2 good years, maybe more. I am a retired medical practitioner so have some medical insight. It is important to try and keep these things hidden as long as possible, because the label or even suspicion of early dementia affects all social relationships. Yet certain things have to be done to tidy one's life and prepare for the worst while still competent. I have had a good life and have made preparations for what I will do when I reach a certain stage. Read into that what you will. Future society will have to face the option of predetermined voluntary assisted dying for those with severe dementia. Let's face it - who would want to continue living in that dreadful demeaning and mindless condition?

My sweet neighbor of many years is getting 'strange' really quickly. Two years ago she seemed really fine, she was book keeper for two family companies .Now her ex husband has moved in and the family are trying to cope. My neighbor has taken to watching for my delivered groceries and Amazon parcels. She 'collects' my parcels and takes them for safekeeping. It wasn't until her husband found my deliveries that I realised I have to check the tracking sites all the time if I expect a delivery. This is the same friend who looked after my cats when I had to be away, shared home made soups and sent little treats. Unfortunately she has become agressive and has hurt people close to her. This is dreadful and very tragic. Your site is useful, thank you.

@evelynblake883

Ай бұрын

❤

My husband has been diagnosed with this… I’ve been in Denial… he’s in 4/5. Just got diagnosed about 6 months ago, they found it in his cerebral spinal fluid… I had no clue what those shuttle signs were but after a surgery last year it came in with a vengeance, and our daughter is worrying us both, I am a retired nurse so I think as far as physical I will be ok, but I am soooo depressed. And watching this video answered so much. He’s refusing the meds, he’s went From a 38-30 to a 30-30 in a little over a year is when the decline started, my 220 strapping strong man is now 160lbs, and I feed him often…he is very strong willed, but this video put it all into perspective.. my hearts broken in a 1000 pieces…we need to pray for each other.🥺🙏♥️

@answersaboutalzheimers

Жыл бұрын

You know Im doing a free bathing master class on tuesday! Just send me your e mail. It's at 1:00 eastern on zoom

@siobhanjohnson8088

4 ай бұрын

Feel for you as I am in the same situation 😢❤

@paulohlsson27

Ай бұрын

Hi Sandra, how's your day going with you?

One of the first signs I noticed with my dad was the way he walked.

My poor uncle is 81 he's at the end of stage 7 It's so hard to understand seeing this in a strong man at one time not long ago. God bless you uncle Franz, and Aunt Dolly for being so strong .

I lost my mother to dementia just days ago. This video describes the last years of her life very accurately. Well done.

@answersaboutalzheimers

Ай бұрын

I'm so sorry

Thank you for not sugar coating, and using words like, terrifying and awful.

Thank you so much. My mother had dementia. I learned to listen to the old stories of her childhood that she could recall. Those beautiful stories are the memories I carry about the last years of her life.

@paulohlsson27

Ай бұрын

Hi Ronelle, how's your day going with you?

My husband is 89, I’m 84 coming up in a month. We both have considerable trouble remembering certain things. I find that I’ll have a word missing that perfectly fits the bill. His is more - can’t remember, when I mention something that happened months, or years, ago. Only today we were talking about vehicles we’ve owned. He could tell me that his first brand new car cost him $888.00 I can still remember what we bought, where we bought it, and what it replaced. He tends to cease to be interested in the discussion when his memory starts to fail him, yet he is still able to paint the lower portions of each of the four walls of the house (outside) and would be prepared to go higher via a ladder, but I forbid it, using the excuse that I NEED him to be around to help. I know if I go out, he’ll probably climb that ladder to start going higher. Basically I think he is only at stage 2, so he hopefully has years yet. He’s been very slowly deteriorating over the last five to ten years. As for me, I have the occasional loss of memory of a specific word, but still do all the telephoning, and bill paying. I hope we can both die in our sleep, as my parents did. He’s the only one left of six siblings, having outlived the eldest of the others by almost ten years. The rest of them died one by one, leaving him on his own. I attribute it to the good food I prepare for us both, and we don’t smoke or drink, although he did both at one time. Sorry for the mini biography

@answersaboutalzheimers

Жыл бұрын

Annie, Thank you for sharing! Get rid of the ladder.....that way you don't have to worry.

@user-cy4vw1qj9m

Жыл бұрын

You and your husband are doing well I sometimes can't remember a word but I don't out that down to dementia. My mother had dementia and died as a rest of it. She always had the best of food she out lived all her sibling but I think you are unfair to your husband's sibling's and their parteners to think your good food is the reason outlived them. There will be one in every family is the last to be alive. I wish you and husband the best of luck in life 🌹

@anniewright6358

Жыл бұрын

@@user-cy4vw1qj9m but they were all heavy drinkers, and that why I say they were author of their own misfortune, although the last brother to die refused an operation that would have given him more years. After his wife died he gave up the will/desire to live without her

@JesusismyKingofkings259

Жыл бұрын

@@anniewright6358I hope you have a relationship with Jesus for He loves you and your husband and cares more than words can say!!! I will pray for you both!!! God bless you!!! ✝️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💜

@marywilliams9858

Жыл бұрын

Very interesting. Cranberry sauce is good for memory.

Been through all of this with my Grandma, an aunt and my mom!!! I took care of my mom until the very end. I kept her at my home with me until her last breath. ❤ it’s been 4 years on 6/3 since she’s been gone and I still miss her every second of every day. Thank you

My mother is going thru this right now. She has turned combative, very rude and nasty. Very hard to deal with.

@annabelavega1642

3 ай бұрын

My mom was mean and lied most of her life and it’s was hard to understand if she was just being herself or it was the dementia. I tried until I couldn’t anymore she had state4 tumorous breast cancer it was the hardest to go through. I did it until I couldn’t because she started to poison us and my animals it’s when I couldn’t anymore i broke down and placed her in a really good nursing home with the help of hospice . God bless you and get lots of support.

@djbail1

2 ай бұрын

Same here….combative with everything, meds, fluids, bathing, bedtime, refusing to be without my wife (her daughter) and it’s been a six year decline. But she eats like a champ and it’s the only thing that keeps her from being agitated. He constant demands are crushing my wife. And, at almost 97, she’s dropping F-Bombs like a Sailor!

@annabelavega1642

2 ай бұрын

Yea my mom too and if she got made at me she would try to poison me it was scary. The focus should be on trumps mental decline he differently has dementia and every he says and does must come from that awareness then it’ll make sense coming from that disease and what it does he’s mind is declining and when under pressure it gets worse he’s mental decline he’s very dangerous and I pray they don’t give him briefing soon knowing full well he’s selling our secrets to foreigner’s that’s very damaging. As president I knew he had the beginning of dementia and yrs later we’ll look at him he goes insane at times but the main stream media doesn’t really shine a light on this because he makes them money how evil that’s is because they rather let him destroy the country they live in for greed they helped make this monster they better wake the hell up. Now I believe he’s going to have a stroke sometime soon I doubt he’ll be alive in November and I’m praying on that but I doubt he’ll become president again but it’s what’s he’s doing right now that’s is hurting millions of innocent Americans that are tired of seeing a old man that wears diapers and does speed you can only tell have us watch a man watch him have deteriorating brain damage get worse when it’s not our business he needs to get ready to be put in jail or start thinking about his long term care and not smashing him in our faces . Please with your mom be very careful and if you just can’t care for her then get the help I cared for my mom myself and she hates me and she had stage 4 breast cancer a tumor that grew to a size of a basketball I’m not joking I couldn’t do both even with hospice care i finally had a mental breakdown and I had no choice but to place her in a 24 assistant living which she went to a very good one thank god. I sending lots of love and light it’s very challenging no matter what. God bless you always.

@yvonnepeyton4291

2 ай бұрын

I’m a caregiver to a 101 year old lady with dementia. I’m at the end of my rope because the only time I get off is when a family member visits. I have health issues that I put on the back burner but the family has made me feel bad when I had time off for melanoma and lymph node removal. Please pray I make it through this because I’m drowning.

@annabelavega1642

2 ай бұрын

@@yvonnepeyton4291 take care of yourself first. My mom was 79yrs old and the pressure was so high I snapped and had a nervous breakdown I had to put my mom in a nursing home and the guilt was overwhelming but I had no choice but to let go I also had health problems and I was getting worse don’t let the family guilt trip you it’s their responsibility to take care of there own by caring for her or placing her sometimes you just have to walk and say good byes to her inside of you and just call the family and tell them to come and care for her and hang up. Families shouldn’t guilt trip you but be understanding. God knows in your heart and soul you did your best for however length of time you cared for her. Trust me the family will have no choice but to step in. God bless you and your situation and god bless her in getting proper help after you.

Just found you on You Tube yesterday and I have learned more in two days than in the past two years. Thank you so much. My wife has Alz. and I'm her hubby. She has no short term memory at all and you have showed me how to respond to her. May God bless you.

Omg! My husband is in the early stages of dementia, and I am so grateful to have found your KZread channel! I am profoundly grateful. This certainly helps me understand what is going to happen on our journey together. Thank you thank you thank you.

@answersaboutalzheimers

Жыл бұрын

Anytime my fried. If you ever need, I do dementia coaching...I hope you're a subscriber.

@paulohlsson27

Ай бұрын

Hi Francesca, how's your day going with you?

@user-um1sg6kz7i

Ай бұрын

⅕²​@@answersaboutalzheimers

I was diagnosed in 01 with M/S it crushes ME every time I think of my pain I have put on my wife after 42 years ! She Doesn't Deserve MY hurt, I Thank GOD everyday I have her ! 😥🙏

@answersaboutalzheimers

Ай бұрын

In sickness and in health!

I'm in denial about having Dementia. I can't stop listening to lectures on KZread about it and shaking my head saying "no, not me" I need to be tested. I'm Bipolar and things are getting weird for me. The things happening in stages 1-4 are happening and I'm not happening.

@answersaboutalzheimers

8 ай бұрын

Going to the Dr will not change your outcome, but it will help you in other ways. Now is the time to prepare and plan while you still can. PLEASE go to the dr....

Thanks so much for this. My father, 90, is clearly on Stage 6. He is now in a hospice since just a month ago, and the caretakers already have noticed a definite and constant decline. So sad.

This is the most comprehensive explanation I have seen to date, thank you. I am in Australia. My husband of 55 years began showing signs around 12 months ago, he is 79 and he is fully aware and understands what is happening. It is so sad to see him needing explanations of many things which he used to explain to me over the years. His concentration level has diminished, he watches a lot of KZread, as do I, for information on his vegetable gardening and he downloads and watches series and movies. He cannot read anymore and retention is not as good. Our GP has noted our concerns and he passed the cognitive test with flying colours. This is very frustrating for both of us but I do keep calm and reassure him that it is ok to ask me a million times what we are doing today or tomorrow, even though he has his own diary he forgets to look at it and if he does can't remember. Some days he seems pretty well his old self but overall he has changed and is quite insecure without me present and has withdrawn from everything other than his lap swimming 3 mornings a week and two friends. I do most of the driving as he feels insecure particularly on busy motorways so he stays close to home, say 10 mins away. We don't have children and our closest relatives, who care, are 2 hrs away by air or overseas. I was a carer for my mother until 4 yrs ago so am aware of the impact on my life. He is very keen to see me do things with others but if I go out to shops etc he has to accompany me except on rare occasions when he is very tired.

@answersaboutalzheimers

Жыл бұрын

I'm so glad you like the information! Thanks for taking the time to comment. I hope you've subscribed. You've got a long, hard road ahead. Try to find some iCal support, including home care. Even a few hours a week to give you a break....

@ginawhittaker2585

Жыл бұрын

Yes I know exactly what your talking about. My mom is also 79 and sounds a lot like your husband. Right now she’s in a rehab because she fell. I had to have a conference call with my mom, social worker, nurse and therapist. Well I made a comment about being concerned about when my mom goes home because when she was home she was very confused. She was taking too much medicine and she wasn’t eating a lot. So the nurse said “ I know where your going with this but we haven’t seen any signs of this” I’m thinking well than you haven’t been around her too much because it was very apparent to my family and I. So it’s very frustrating like you said because sometimes they seem fine. I guess because she’s there and everyone’s doing everything for her, it’s hard to tell. I also noticed she’s very quiet. My mom was always talking. If I went to see her, she would be talking the whole time. And she never calls me anymore. I have to call her and she usually doesn’t pick up and when she does, she acts like she doesn’t know what to do.

@chrisbarbier8950

11 ай бұрын

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@MarionDowns-mw8xi

10 ай бұрын

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@pawsitivenooz

9 ай бұрын

Have her checked so that you have an actual diagnoses and ask for an MRI - if she had not had one, and has insurance, might as well, she is paying them enough. As for my opinion, I'm working on a book of healing foods. A lot of our food is poisoned, this is no joke - processed stuff, carcinogens and worst things for your brain - metals. So you need to know what to eat to keep your health. If my mom was in your mom's situation I would first have her ditch: meat, dairy, sugar and alcohol completely. Then I would detox - this will greatly improve her thinking. Best juices to detox with - follow fullyraw Kristina. She has awesome stuff. Then after detox adopt a healthy lifestyle - I still eat meats, dairy, sweets - but they are all healthy versions of them. The only two oils you should ever heat are organic unrefined coconut oil and flaxseed oil. All others turn to trans fat under high heat and keep in mind - HEALTHY fats are brain food, so you want stuff like avocado, nuts, coconut mana. The best thing to drink when you are mentally impaired is coconut water straight from the fruit. Definitely not processed sugary drinks, coffee or dairy and definitely not alcohol. Green tea is great if you can find it pure. Your mom should be also doing stuff like puzzles or games that make her think, Sudoku, memory games etc. Also, movement that moves your eyes side to side like playing the piano, watching tennis = according to TCM this helps. Check out my healing foods at www.veganalienfood.com

Thank you for this very informative video. I’m dealing with my mom right now. I think she’s at stage 5 or 6. God give me strength.

Very clear explanations‼️ THANK YOU‼️ Have two sisters with early stages of dementia, not easy to handle, they are stubborn and in denial, so, patience is the name of the game.

@answersaboutalzheimers

Жыл бұрын

Yes patients! You got it!

@bobgear5859

10 ай бұрын

Mymom,had It,notmy,dad,but allhis,brother s,had It,my,momssister,both,had it,

@bobgear5859

10 ай бұрын

Mydadssistersboth,had,it

@simonecoria7627

10 ай бұрын

Very good

I took care of my mother for 3-1/2 years before she passed. I used to go home crying every nite after I left her. Bc I could see she was deteriorating and there was nothing we could do to turn it around. It was the hardest thing to watch a loved one deteriorate before your eyes. I fear dementia. Bc I saw what it did to my mother. To me. She didn’t deserve that after all the great things she did for her family our dad 12 children & many grand children & great grand children. It got worse after our dad passed away. They say trauma exacerbates it. I miss her so much. 😢😔 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤

Great advice! I always had to remind myself that it's the disease, not the person.

@answersaboutalzheimers

Жыл бұрын

That's awesome Ed. I hope you subscribed? Happy you're here with us...

@florenceroberts2832

2 ай бұрын

😮

I am 62 years old. I used to have a very good memory. I recently went to my GP and my worries were dismissed after no investigation. The most notable problem is that I can watch a movie and a month later have no recollection of ever having heard of the movie. I do not recall the title, the plot or any of the actors. On one level this it great - I m getting more value from my amazon prime subscription. Normal forgetfulness is getting worse. I believe this is a result of regularly being hit around the head as a child. Has anyone else similar symptoms?

@sissyparker2525

Ай бұрын

I'm almost 80 but I have the same thing. I never had a good memory, long or short all my life. I just laugh about it because what else can I do? In the end, it's God's call, not mine.

Thank you for this i went through it with my Dad who died in 2008. My Mom stayed in denial and demanded that he be “ normal” like driving her around. He had bad behaviors that got him into legal trouble. She felt it was not her problem. My two boys that had been very close with their grands stayed on me until I realized I had to be the informed one, sometimes the bad guy. My only sibling, a brother, refused to see any problem at all, except with me. I got as educated as I could. I read about stages several times but was unable to match him with them. Your explanation of fluidity hit home with me. Thank you. Going through all this was the hardest thing I ever did. How hard is it to notify the DMV that your Father should not drive? My Mom was very angry and thought a doctor had done it. I have to find more of your videos. Thank you again. You know what I think? You never grow up completely until you have gone through old age with your parents.

@answersaboutalzheimers

3 ай бұрын

Very weel said!

@paulohlsson27

Ай бұрын

Hi Linda, how's your day going with you?

Thank you so much. I never thought I would be spending my Thursday evening researching dementia, regarding my Aunt Lila. She has always been the strong one and pillar of our family, and has been a mother to me when my mom passed away many years ago. I believe that she is being abused and neglected but there doesn’t seem to be much that I can do. I am only her niece. God bless those who suffer from this awful disease making them vulnerable to the world. And God bless the caregivers who sacrifice to care for the ill.

Thank you. my sister is in stage 2 , she is in denial saying the doctors are wrong, she does not think she has it. she is on medication to slow the dementia down a bit. you are so great at explaining everything.

@paulohlsson27

Ай бұрын

Hi Joanne, how's your day going with you?

The best video Ive seen so far on this topic..will watch it again..my 93 year old neighbor is losing her memory..I noticed this in January..now in March..her personality is irritable and is sometimes aggressive..shes in denial.😢

Thank you Debra, that was insightful. My mum had a memory test which just as you explained she couldn’t answer correctly, she is now going to see a doctor. It’s heartbreaking, my once vivacious and proud Mum is a shadow of herself.

Thank you for your videos. I also live in the Rochester, NY area. My mother has FTD and I have been trying to learn as much as I can. After watching your video on the 7 stages she is between stage 5/6.

Went through this with my parents and my mother in law. Devastating to all involved. I still vividly remember the first time my parents didn’t recognize me. I fear this happening to me.

@answersaboutalzheimers

Жыл бұрын

It's very scary, because there is no controll. This also my biggest fear!

@jameswhite7693

Жыл бұрын

Firstly,I am not a medical person, however over many years I have studied it and came up as to why dementia happens, I also noted that is happening to people in there 30s and 40s, the brain is suffering from information over load due to the over use of computers, iPads, etc, we are inundated with information that is no use to us, we have forgotten to think, why think when the computer does it for you, mindless numbing ads on tv compounds the problem, turn off your computer, it is bad for you.

@sibalogh

Жыл бұрын

I'm exactly in the same boat, mate! Having watched this video, my mum appears to be in her final stage, and after 5 months, I could hardly recognize her. She also had two strokes which gradually caused to shut her brain down. However, I often wonder if I'll end up like her! Sadly sometimes I recognize some remote traits of hers in me that make me frightened.

@rnesr71

Жыл бұрын

Sometimes my wife thinks I’m her dad or my dad. 12:13

@tselisoncholu7914

Жыл бұрын

Fearing is of no use.What use is fearing death?Make sure you are at peace with all those closest to you so that help can feature when necessary!

Thank you for your kind, empathic talk about dementia. Very informative. God bless you

As my dad used to say, if you live long enough, most people get dementia. I saw this happen to both of of my parents. Sadly they both passed away in 2022 six months apart. My mom declined with this so much after my dad died. It's such a sad thing to see.

@answersaboutalzheimers

11 ай бұрын

It is very very sad! I hope you subscribed.

@kimaglioti7775

10 ай бұрын

Heartrending. So sorry.

@cherylsapcote7327

10 ай бұрын

I had family in late nineties and one was a hundred. No dementia, so lucky. BUT had a cousin with first signs of dementia in seventies. Her grandmother had it even earlier.

@paularudeen5374

9 ай бұрын

The greatest fear for most of us. My parents and grandparents did not suffer with this. As a geriatric therapist this is the long goodbye. 🙏🙏🙏

@answersaboutalzheimers

9 ай бұрын

@paularudeen5374 Long and hard.

Our hearts is broken. Our son in law was diagnosed with Picks desease at 33. Extremely intelligent.. with all his symptoms ..we realize he is in stage 7.. he start to forget his 16 year old daughter name and age....he has a 10 year old son.. he is now 39.

@MargieB51

Ай бұрын

I’m so sorry for you and your family your son in law is in GOD HANDS PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO SUPPORT YOUR Daughter she must be so scared.and help your grandchildren knew you care help them to understand their father love the always and is very sick.maybe GOD BLESS YOU IN A MIGHTYWAY

@YvonneSnow-rp5br

9 күн бұрын

​m@@MargieB51

My mother had to give up driving around 82 years of age. She started repeating herself by 83 . She also began experiencing hallucinations by 84(2016) . The end came in 2020

@sissyparker2525

Ай бұрын

She is at peace now. And at 84, she had a long life. God be with you.

I really appreciated this video and the manner in which was presented. My wife has been diagnosed with MCI. I want to relate for the benefit of others how "we" got to where my wife is at. The first thing I noticed was her inability to keep events in sequential order. Then it progressed to mixing two or more unrelated events together. Along with the aforementioned she began having to ask the same question over and over. When she had a medical appointment it became necessary for me to be present in the exam room to get the instructions from the practitioner. It became necessary that I finally brought the memory issues up to a practitioner. She was given the Montreal Cognitive Exam and scored 24 of 30. She was referred to a neurologist who, with a NeuroPsychologist, made the MCI diagnosis. She was displeased with me, but I think she was more frustrated with having to accept the memory problem. Right now she probably bounces between stage 3 and 4. My wife was always an excellent student and honors graduate from college. It really difficult to be the one who forces the need to get a diagnosis when it is someone you love. She was upset, but now accepts her reality.

@answersaboutalzheimers

8 күн бұрын

You might consider taking the Certified Master Dementia Strategist course.

Thank you this was really helpful. I know an old lady who is 89. She can remember my name but she can never remember her main carer's name even though they have known each other for almost half a century and they live together, seeing each other daily. She can remember most other names but his. It's so strange! Things started to go downhill after a fall and neck break and after that a UTI and DVTs etc.

Very good and clear definitions of stages and how to recognize them, thank you.

My husband has just been diagnosed. After watching your video, I am thinking he is in stage 4. Both his parents had this awful disease, so I kind of know what to expect. Taking one day at a time. Thanks for the great video and am looking forward to seeing more.

@answersaboutalzheimers

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing your story. I hope you have subscribed.....see you soon!

@c.w.9611

Жыл бұрын

@@answersaboutalzheimers😅

@FERRARICWH69

11 ай бұрын

How old is he …. My hubbys mom died from it .. and im terrified my hubby is going to get this

@MelB868

7 ай бұрын

@@FERRARICWH69my pawpaw has dementia

My partner is MCI, I’m thinking stages 3 and sometimes 4. He see’s his Neuro doc every 6 months for progression. I will not let him drive even though he probably could. I do a lot of reading on things I can do for him. He’s on B12, Vitamin D, and Fish Oil. He has always been an avid book reader and he stopped reading. Two months after starting the fish oil he started reading books again. I’m not saying fish oil is some sort of miracle supplement but I’m always trying what we can do to make his life better. To see him reading again and going back to something he loved was so good for me to see. I’ll never be prepared for the advance stages but as long as I’m alive I’ll be his caregiver and advocate. Prayers for all who are diagnosed with this disease. It’s very cruel.

That was valuable. Alzheimer’s runs in the family and is my worst fear. Thanks very much for clarifying the stages of the disease.

@answersaboutalzheimers

26 күн бұрын

Absolutely my friend!

Thank you!! My mom is stage 6. I enjoy your videos and your kind voice. Being a caregiver is the hardest job but worth it too.

Thank you so much for this! I am a 62 year old woman who worked with seniors in assisted living and memory care for many years. This is a wonderful explanation. Unfortunately, my mother and grandmother both had dementia / Alzheimer's. I know so much about it so I am able to realize what's happening to myself. Listening to your explanation, I would say I'm between stages 3 and 4. I only drive a couple blocks from home, my husband does my meds, and I am very uncomfortable with lots of people around. I'm having a hard time getting my family to really see what's going on with me. I think they want to look at the bright side of things and think I'm okay, but I know I'm not. I know so much about this disease, and worked with so many people for so long, I know what's going on in my head. My recall is really bad, I often times don't remember 30 seconds ago what was going on. I have a referral to a neurologist, so I'm hoping I can get a real diagnosis and my family will realize what's going on. Again, thank you so much for spelling things out so clearly. ❤ Marylou

@answersaboutalzheimers

Жыл бұрын

MaryLou, Iam glad your going to a neurologist. Hopefully your family will get on board soon. It's hard for them to face facts. The more training they get, the better. Share this channel with them and order my book.

@answersaboutalzheimers

Жыл бұрын

www.amazon.com/Forget-Not-Alzheimers-Professional-Caregivers/dp/1959096109

@marynoonan6111

Жыл бұрын

I believe you MaryLou. Best of luck with your future life. ❤️❤️❤️

@jnetzah-vl2mk

3 ай бұрын

I am a 67 years old woman working hard to accomplish my dissertation of my PhD in Psy….. I am learning in English as my second language…. I pray in five language just to exercise my brain …. My hobbies are painting and make jewelry…. I almost forget to mention that I returned to college when I was 48 years old…. Then when I was 54 I was gunshot in my head by a man who I never see him before…. Two months later I was again in colleague but this time I choose to study psychology…. I believe that learning constantly new skills has been a good strategy to keep my mind in good shape…. Oh …. I take a minimum amount of medication. Yes, my brain is programe to keep learning forever!

@user-um1sg6kz7i

Ай бұрын

❤

Just had my Mums funeral. She passed from old age and dementia. Her last 4 days of life were beyond cruel. Im traumatized by what happened at the end, I cant get those days out of my head. I had never heard about false saliva for patience until they cant swallow to eat or drink anything not even a sip of water from a spoon a tiny amount to keep her mouth moist. When we tried she would choke, she couldn't even speak at the end. Nothing feels the same anymore. Dementia is horrific once it takes over a patient. It hurts your heart seeing loved ones suffer. although Mum found her peace I lost a huge piece of me when she left.

My mom is in 6/7. Can’t speak or write But can feed herself. Knows us. Moves slowly. Incontinent. Had written all of us off a few years ago so we didn’t know this was going on until about 8 months ago. We have her in a care home. Trying to learn about this horrible condition.

I lost both parents to Dementia 3 years ago just 3 months apart. Caring for them was HARD and I had to retire because I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia and depression (which started after a car crash and long term recovery). I get terrible brain fog with the fibro and can no longer read books so I worry that I’m following in my parents footsteps 🤯

@answersaboutalzheimers

11 ай бұрын

Wow that's tough. I'm here for you...

@allykatharvey

11 ай бұрын

😢 so sad for you. God bless. x

@denabaird935

11 ай бұрын

My wife had 2 bad strokes in her 40s and was diagnosed a few years later So frustrating to deal with on a daily basis. Especially when the meanness comes out I know it's not her fault but those words still hurt.I still see some of the woman I fell in love with 27 years ago. I would trade places with her in a heartbeat if I could .My counselor said I'm pre grieving but it's hard not to. This is a cruel long windy road and hard to travel alone.

Thank you, Debra. God Bless

Thank you for this eye-opening piece on the stages of Demetia, my mother is currently in stage 5 from what you describe symptom wise. I realize know that she has slowly be going through these stages in the last 5 to 8 years. I had an inkling this maybe her issue but its so sad to know the truth now. Thanks for the info.

So glad I found your channel. Mom was just recently diagnosed with dementia and will be moving in with my husband and I in the next few weeks. It will definitely help to know the stages as she progresses. Her younger sister has early dementia, I'm guessing about stage 3, and their dad passed away with Alzheimers. Just subscribed and will be binging on your content. Thank you for all of the information and all that you do. 🙏🏻

Thank you for the information! I appreciate the advice about expectations. Sometimes they seem fine and you forget, and then the odd behavior catches you off guard. Managing expectations is important. My family member is not diagnosed but seems to be between 3 and 4. The fear of losing control must be really terrifying.

@paulohlsson27

Ай бұрын

Hi Alisha, how's your day going with you?

This has been the best explanation of dementia I have ever watched. Thank you. (Ingrid Acosta)

@answersaboutalzheimers

11 ай бұрын

Thanks! I hope you subscribed to our family. We would love to have you.

thank you, my dad and best friend😢

Thank you Miss Deborah I’m so glad that I found your KZread channel. My mother is in stage six I believe right now it is very difficult. She’s become combative rude nasty and she likes to fight. That is so hard to deal with. I look forward to your next KZread. Thank you.

@paulohlsson27

Ай бұрын

Hi Rose, how's your day going with you?

Thank you so much, Ms. Debra. You are my life raft through this. I feel so bad that my husband will have to deal with this. He is my rock but I just hope and pray that I don't take him down with me.

@answersaboutalzheimers

4 ай бұрын

I'm here for you!

Very well presented. My mother is currently in a very good memory care nursing home in stage 7. Incontinent, wheelchair bound, losing the ability to speak, but I think she still knows me. She's been on hospice care for months now. My greatest challenge right now is what to do when she outlives her assets. She was diagnosed formally about 5 years ago, but was declining for some time prior to that. I'm currently trying to do whatever I can to prevent this disease in myself. I'm 64, working and don't notice any cognitive decline yet. This is more than just an illness. It's an excruciatingly slow death.

@answersaboutalzheimers

11 ай бұрын

If you are in the US medicaid should kick in if she runs out of money. Talk to a social worker where she is living. They should be able to tell you what will happen. Even if ahe dosent know you she will feel your love....I hope you subscribed to our wonderful family.

@cathyallshouse2981

11 ай бұрын

@@answersaboutalzheimers Yes, medicaid will kick in and she'll have to move to a different nursing home and she'll likely pass within weeks.

@answersaboutalzheimers

11 ай бұрын

@cathyallshouse2981 she will have to move? That's horrible!

@user-cy4vw1qj9m

11 ай бұрын

@@cathyallshouse2981 That is so sad that she will have to move. My mother died of dementia 🙏

@answersaboutalzheimers

11 ай бұрын

@user-cy4vw1qj9m I agree!

Thank you very much. This is very helpful when someone in the family is beginning to deteriorate.

This was incredibly informative and I thank you so much for explaining how the stages progress

Thank you Debra, for teaching me and helping me to understand little ways to redirect and to not stress over things. My Dad just passed away on Jan 8th, 2024. Thank you so much for your help. I especially enjoyed attending one of your live classes recently before the holidays. Sincerely, Cyndi

@answersaboutalzheimers

4 ай бұрын

Cyndi, I'm so sorry to hear of your dad's passing. Can you remind me which class you were in, and where?

@paulohlsson27

Ай бұрын

Hi Cyndi, how's your day going with you?

My father has dementia that varies from 3 to 6 hes just been diagnosed with it it came on suddenly months after my mothers death. Hes 83.

Excellent video. Thank you. My exhusband was diagnosed with dementia 1 year ago. I believe it began 2 or 3 years ago. It is heartbreaking. My ex-husband became belligerent, aggressive, violent. It was frightening.

@paulohlsson27

Ай бұрын

Hi Lauren, how's your day going with you?

Hi Debra, Thank you so much for the informative, detailed and extremely organized video. The order in which you shared the information was understandable and straightforward and your timing was great. I appreciate your guidance and will be watching again. Rose

This video is VERY HELPFUL and fascinating! Thank you so much for sharing this information.

@answersaboutalzheimers

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Sharie for your comments. What else would you like to hear about? Have you subscribed? We'd love to have you in the family!

Outstanding professionalism . I was seriously studying about myself. I will watch more for sure.

@answersaboutalzheimers

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Brian. I hope you subscribed!

Thank you Debra. I appreciate you!

very kind and helpful comments. thanks so much.

My 90 year old aunt is somewhere along the dementia line. I relocated to live with her because she wasn't eating properly and I worried about her wellbeing. She doesn't want to deal with anything. She only goes out once a month to her doctor appt. The rest of the time she stays in bed until I call her to the table to eat. She is constantly taking laxatives, and doubling up on them, then takes Imodium. I try to monitor it all but she takes them when I'm in my room. The other day she couldn't find her reading glasses and we looked everywhere for them. I told her the must be in her bed. Later when I took her a cup of tea I seen the glasses and said "oh good, you found them. where were they?" She looked at me like I'd lost my marbles and said "they're right here, where I always keep them." I will watch this video again, and your other videos, so I can understand the situation better. Thank you.

@susanb5058

Жыл бұрын

God bless you Missy for taking care of your aunt! What a wonderful niece you are. ❤️

My husband is now 84, I believe he is now between stages 4-5 He was diagnosed with PCA 18 months ago. Its so sad to see a once vibrant man slide into decline. We have been married for 62 years. Thank you for this video which has helped me a lot. We take one day at a time.

@paulohlsson27

Ай бұрын

Hi Gill, how's your day going with you?

@gillyb44

Ай бұрын

@@paulohlsson27 still plodding on. He had major surgery recently which has set him back. Memory worse. Anaesthetics do not agree with him. At least he is home . Hopefully he won’t deteriorate any more.

@paulohlsson27

29 күн бұрын

@@gillyb44 Good morning Gill, how was your night?

My sister was a top journalist for NBC, in NYC. She retired, at 64, to her house in Ridgefield, CT. She started to lose her balance, almost immediately. She would forget things. She was diagnosed with Lewy Body Dementia, at Mount Sinai, in NYC. She started speaking quietly in jumbled up sentences and words. The first 4 yrs, she had tound the clock care, diapers, etc!. The last 3, were at the assisted living facility, The Residence, in Darien, CT.. At the end, she couldnt walk or talk, and went blind.

@margueritemazzeo2904

3 ай бұрын

😢😢

@paulohlsson27

Ай бұрын

Hi Sally, how's your day going with you?

Thank you Debra. Very informative.

Thank you for this video. Informative and so perfectly presented. My mum is currently undergoing tests, but this has given me in real insight into what lies ahead.

@answersaboutalzheimers

11 ай бұрын

I'm so glad to be of help. Please subscribe if you haven't already!

God bless you for sharing this life giving information! Going through this with my husband 😢Wouldn't wish this on anyone. Thank you angel 👏🏽

@paulohlsson27

Ай бұрын

Hi Janice, how's your day going with you?

Thank you dear lady

Excellent information! Thank you!

So well explained and presented, easy to understand…. Thank you !

@answersaboutalzheimers

6 ай бұрын

Thank you I hope you subscribed?

I am starting to go thru this with my brother, I believe he is in stage 2. Thank you for this information.

@answersaboutalzheimers

Жыл бұрын

Chris, you are welcome. Be sure is subscribe so your in the family.

Thank you so much! I just found your video. It is so helpful. My husband has dementia. I will be checking back daily!

Bless...I've got so precious informations from you that confirms me the reality !! We all looking for informations when one of the relatives is developing this horrible disease...so glad to find informations that's connecting the reality in different way !! Bless🙏

In the throws of long haul COVID-19 I personally experienced what dementia is like. Compromised by a lack of oxygen to the brain from COVID-19, the forgetfulness was especially difficult because it robs one of time, quality of life, so one surrenders to it. Fortunately, I was able to overcome it, I'm back to normal, but what an experience.

@sibalogh

Жыл бұрын

Have you received a Covid vax and which one?

@answersaboutalzheimers

Жыл бұрын

We are so glad your back to normal. It's a wake up call Isn't it? I hope you've subscribed to the channel!

@nomebear

Жыл бұрын

​@@sibalogh The first three injections were Pfizer, it was determined the second Pfizer caused "vaccine damage" according to the researchers at O.H.S.U. who have been studying my long haul COVID. The fourth injection was the Moderna in May. I passed on the fifth jab in October and was infected with COVID-19 December of '22.. The infection was little more than a head cold.

@louiseray9274

11 ай бұрын

You actually sound smug when you say "but don't worry, they're on their way" 😢

@1971dave

3 ай бұрын

​@@sibaloghthey can't answer because they're dead

My grandmother was sharp as a tack when she died at 92. Unfortunately, she spent years almost blind, with very limited hearing and could no longer walk. Just as much a living hell for her as she was still alert but living with endless days of cloudy darkness, near silence and using a wheelchair.

@answersaboutalzheimers

Жыл бұрын

Poor dear.

Thank you for this video

Thank you Debra❤

Thank you for such an informative message. God bless.

@answersaboutalzheimers

10 ай бұрын

Thank you! I hope you subscribed!

My mother had symptoms probably 13 to 15 years B for she was diagnosed. She would forget that she was bringing something to holiday dinner. She would be in a parking lot and forget how to get out onto the street. Little things like that and she was forgetting things at work I found out later. When her husband died four years ago my brother and I started caring for her and realized it was much more serious now. She has been diagnosed with moderate dementia, which is probably higher now, because that was four years ago. She is, was able to care for herself for a long time as long as we were feeding her. Slowly we were taking things away. First with her car, then went cooking. Then she started dropping off activities. She quit going to church because she was too tired. She quit sewing because she couldn’t remember what she was supposed to do. She quit crocheting because she couldn’t remember what to do. She’s an assisted living facility now. I didn’t realize these early signs were dementia.

@paulohlsson27

Ай бұрын

Hi Cyndi, how's your day going with you?

Thank you very much for this very information. Knowledge on dementia today.

Thank you so good …for the information

Thank you for this. So informative.

@answersaboutalzheimers

Жыл бұрын

I'm so glad you liked it. I work hard to help others.

Very informative ! Thank you.

@answersaboutalzheimers

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Wendy. What else would you like to see videos on.

Excellent presentation! The best I've seen!

@answersaboutalzheimers

10 ай бұрын

Well! Thank you very much! I hope you subscribed!

Thank you, Debra….🤍