Those that are complaining about the growth are projecting. They are afraid of change/resisting change in their life so now they are triggered by your growth and how its positively impacting your life. Possibly they were using your old version as something to justify whats happening in their life and now that you have moved on from that version of you, the light is on their doing and they dont wanna face it so they start indirectly blaming you for that. You not the problem❤ Your growth is beautiful and thank you for being true to yourself because thats a trait that many lack.

@ByendaNk

Ай бұрын

Speak on it sis 🙌🏾

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

Thank you for your kind words mama ❤

@veemphuti

Ай бұрын

Wayibeka kahle Phumudzo 💯

Am I the only one likes it when Xoli is talking or if she’s giving and advice 🥹Pleaseeee I Love You Mama🥹❤️❤️❤️Stay Blessed

@Neo_Mokhehle

Ай бұрын

I can listen to her all day ❤

@nhlanhlakhwiyane

Ай бұрын

Siyafana🥹🥹 I watch her more for when she speaks than when she’s showing something😂

Whoooooo love the growth "I'm 30 why am I talking abt sneaky links🙄... My content has evolved " 😊😊

@valerieval-veeshiviri203

Ай бұрын

Right, love the growth. ❤

Not me appearing on Xoli's vlog bathong, mama i MADE it LMAO. It was so lovely meeting you aunty darling 🥰🥰🥰

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

it was such a pleasure meeting you aunty !!!

@ntombikayisemthembu7711

Ай бұрын

Can I hv yo yo-tube channel name plz

The ladies are so right, this is the only channel I've ever commented on and that's because Xoli acknowledges every comment💯❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

thank you love

It was so wholesome to see you getting your flowers from the ladies. You really never know how much you're impacting people's lives hey. ❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

thank you mama

Kuthiwa “Work until you no longer have to introduce yourself!” And you did that Xoli🙌🏾😍❤️

"When Xoli vlogs, she vlogs" periodtttt!🥺🥺❤️

Xolile ‘Consistency’ Gcabashe❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

NDIM MOS !!

@lesedi_pheto

Ай бұрын

Washaa!!!🔥🔥

Thandi's event?? Oh Xoly you'll always be famous!🥺🥺 What a wholesome vlog!❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

it was so beautiful im so proud of her sana !!

@MendaManju

Ай бұрын

@@Xolile_GcabasheThank you very much for tagging us along, we really love and appreciate you❤️

God bless your heart. You might not know it but as your subbies, we’re blessed to have you and there’s so much we learn from your vlogs ❤ I loved the advice you gave at the event. Definitely taking your advice and running with it.

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

You are so welcome

As an OG, I get goosebumps watching you grow into being the best version of yourself. "Matured like fine one',❤🥺

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

thank you beautiful

“I feel like this hat would EAT with a BEAT”. Not me screaming ATE!!!!😂

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂❤❤

I love how Xoli said "I just don't feel comfortable guest speaking" and ended up hosting a whole round table 😅❣

@tendaisithole5868

Ай бұрын

She’s so shy. But once she gets comfortable…it’s so beautiful…

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

@@tendaisithole5868🥺❤️

People don't like good change. The minute you try better yourself, it becomes a problem, I remember when I became a mom and I was like a lot of things have to go and started my walk with christ and grew spiritually that alcohol never tasted the same that I even stopped drinking, and the people that I used to party with left, and the real people who enjoyed my company drinking and sober are still here. Walking with God is awesome it even gives a certain glow, Sana. I love it here

You’re one of the most selfless people I’ve ever come across, God continue blessing your big heart🤍

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

Thank you love 🥺❤️

" Do you know why Xoli Gcabashe is successful " ...did I not just stand up from my desk within my colleagues to applaud the Aunty??? Are you mad!!😍😍🥰 Well done ma'am 👏👏👏👏🤌💯 #RoadTo200k subbies 🙌❤️

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

Thank you my beautiful love ❤

@Buhle_M019

Ай бұрын

Girl i scrome and forgot i was at work lol.

@tebogomashilo6

Ай бұрын

​😂😂❤@@Buhle_M019

I love the way you're so unapologetically authentic. I'm one of your ride or die!❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

❤❤

They spoke so highly of you at the event, and I couldn't agree more ❤️🥹

Mina I am still saying this production team is working over Time because it's vlog after vlog ❤❤❤🔥🔥🔥

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

THANK YOU AUNTY !!

“Do you know why xoli gcabashe is successful?” Periooddd❤️❤️

@user-ej6vw1gt5f

Ай бұрын

fav part of the vlog

I don’t understand why people have an issue with Xoli growing and evolving. I mean it’s natural. I am not definitely the same person I was in high school vs varsity vs employment. People who know me from different seasons of my life will all have different versions. It’s life. Who u are and what u did in ur teens vs adulthood vs old age will never be the same. And lets me clear here, Xoli is not about begging ppl to stay to please, and it’s because of the work u have put in and the community that allows u to be you. I teared up a bit when the KZread guy mentioned u and ur influence, and everyone kind of gave u ur flowers, because you honestly don’t get given enough credit.You are one of the biggest KZreadrs in the world. Not SA, the world. Hell…queen of real-time KZread. And u are so humble. So proud to be a darlin ❤. Also, pls consider a master class in the future…I feel like a lot of up and coming KZreadrs in a room with u would be so powerful…

Aaah not my Aunty Darlin getting her flowers ❤🎉 I love that everybody sees what we see. You are a queen!

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

😊 thank you

That event, full of black beautiful women. Empowering each other. Them giving Xoli her flowers Beautiful beautiful ❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

Thank you love ❤

I love the Xoli that speaks more of God that helps me a lot actually ❤❤😊 and the fact that you’ve outgrown a lot which is teaching us young women to be ourselves and put ourselves first along with God❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

THANK YOU MY LOVE !

Not me trying to think how I am going to face KZread🤣🤣🤣🤣 I thoroughly enjoyed my presentation and you made it so enjoyable by being such a great spot. Thank you for your beautiful heart and humility. Looking forward to more connections like these.

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

Love love love you please can’t wait to have you at my event ❤❤❤

@ClantisOnBusiness

Ай бұрын

@miss_xo6 Love Love Love you back and I am so looking forward to it🙏🏿🤗❤️

@_itsruexx

Ай бұрын

Wena you are one of us ❤️

@ClantisOnBusiness

Ай бұрын

@@_itsruexx Nje❤️🤗

There's soo much to say about this vlog😅 1. If as a person you don't grow and outgrow things, then you're definitely dead. Therefore, leave other kids alone thy have grown and have found Christ. I'm not so sure what the problem people have is. And more than that you can only tell soo much stories ey yoh. You're a beautiful woman to watch never doubt that. 2. Your nails❤❤❤❤ 3. This Vlog was a spiritual gift 😂 the KZreadrs Connect was harsh truth but lessons worth learning, thank you for sharing. 4. You ARE A GOAT😂if "for example" was a person it's definitely you. There's no bigger youtuber I know that doesn't deserve her flowers like you!!! I love you, and keep it up, Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!❤❤❤❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

Thank you love ❤

They can never make me hate Xoli or her content, never. I'll still watch even if the vlogs are 3 hours. I loved the old Xoli and love the new Xoli, it's great to witness your growth mama, we love you.❤🤗

I used to be a fan when you spoke about sneaky links but now that you talk about Jesus I am definitely an air conditioner!

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

screaming lmao ! sakthandi !!

@janedoe5510

Ай бұрын

😂 this is toooo goooood

@Mattie_Moleofane

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂same here..

@JackieKimathi

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@noxolomthabela9443

Ай бұрын

I see what you did there 😂😂😂😂

When I didn’t see a video on Sunday I said mhhhhhh ikhona into e big ezayoooo.. 1 hour and 12 minutes my darling 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 there is the big thing!! Let me go watch 0:03

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

lol , im screaming !!

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

😂😂❤❤

One thing about Xoli she’s so supportive ❤God bless you more mama

“What do you mean?” Tututuntu 😂 totally get your talk on growth. People are weird, we grow and we change.

I wanted to show the world but remembered miss xo's vlog about shutting up about the things God has done and he is doing for you. No need to brag just let God work. I'm in my shhhhh era. God is great ❤❤❤❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

Sana God is blessing us abundantly and sometimes its okay to keep quiet and let him work , people will see his grace in your life whether you show out or not !!

@ntombihadebe4822

Ай бұрын

@@Xolile_Gcabashe Amen 🙏

"In the next 5 years I won't be here" that sounds sad❤ anything that makes you happy Aunty

Oh Xoli! The smallest things about you are influential. Yesterday i was at a mall I'm not familiar with. I kept on rounding the same place several times. I remembered your words when you say "These people don't know me and they'll probably never see me". I asked the other ladies for direction to the exit.😭😭🤣🤣❤ I love you, and how influential you are.

Arg man I got so emotional when they started talking about u😢is like ikhow u in real life Xoli🥹 everything they said about you is true ❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

thank you love

❤❤❤❤ Spitting wisdom with the girlies. Lorcia Cooper/Khumalo only posted her son for the first time when he turned 18. Your feelings are valid

He made an example out of you and this is a reflection of how good you are at this, love to see you winning babe❤👏

Lol I had to go back to the part where he said “do you know why Xoli Gcabhashe is successful?” Proud moment ❤❤😊

I love the fact that I was introduced to you by Kamo and Naledi. Like I found Naledi through Channel O, I saw you on her channel but didn't look for you on KZread, she then introduced me to Kamo and Kamo did the formal introduction to you and the three of you always talk about each other. I love you ladies so so so much ❤❤❤

I love that the ladies gave you your flowers while you still alive mama ❤🌷you truly are changing alot of many women's lives

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

Thank you beautiful ❤❤

I fell inlove with the old Xoli during lockdown. We all grow and people should allow you to evolve. We are here because we love you and your content. We were with you during the sneaky links era, we are here during the new Xoli who shares bible verses❤. That life we evolve.

When you are big.. you are big I beg 🔥🔥🔥🔥... The referencing 💃💃💃🔥🔥🔥🔥.. Xoli the vlogger !! Put some respect on the name 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

🤗

I wanna subscribe 35times❤coz we are blessed to have aunty😘

YITHI AMABOZZA , HAPPY NEW WEEK DARLINS WE'RE OFFICIALLY ON 165K SUBBIES , WHAT A PERFECT WAY TO KICKSTART MY WEEK ALSO WITH A VLOG THAT'S 1HR CMON , LOVE HER 🤭❤

Astounding transition Sis Xoli. You’re a testimony of what God is doing in this season. Keep responding to your calling to use this platform to effect transformation 🙏🏿❤️

The thing is people are afraid of change and they have normalized not growing up. It makes no sense to not evolve, while the world is evolving. Your content is amazing and we love the new you. Christ is life, what would we be without the higher divine power❤😊🥰lots of love, have a blessed week ahead.

First darlin in the comment section 😅🎉🎉❤ obsessed is an understatement

"You know why Xoli is successful " and I said that's on puuurrrr ❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉love it for you mommy❤❤

I remember how I was over the moon for your channel's growth yet very sad bcoz "you wont pay attention to all of us" aibo gal you're still the Dzaarlin that takes her time to respond to us😢 you're highly appreciated sthandwa we don't take your work lightly. Uyathandwa ke mama❤❤

I really don’t understand how can people hate growth seriously. People change people evolve we love your content keep going.

One thing about Xoli she’s so supportive and authentic. Love her to bits and pieces❤

I don't think words can express just how much this vlog meant to me ......Aunty you are amazing and you have such an amazing soul please never change.❤.. im aspiring to start my own thing but your words just guided me ......thank you so much ❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

thank you so much darlin !!

'i am almost certain i wont be here in the next 5 years' broke my soul😭, i love this angel with all my heart bathung that i can't take this news at all, XOLI is just a beautiful breath of fresh air❤❤❤❤❤❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

thank you so much darlin

Why is this making me cry ?? Xoli I hope the event showed you how impactful you are , how selfless you are. You are amazing and those that know , know !!

“Olamide relax”😂😂😂😂😂please she’s soo funny. I was trying to listen to her talk about how she’s not gonna expose her life to content. I was serious and not laughing until she said “what do you mean tu tu tu”😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

One can be nothing but proud of you .the level of maturity we see and love .am older than you but i feel that i have grown with you . The fact that you didn't want to be on the spot killed me😂😂😂 .God has put u on the spot lady.❤❤❤

Mama you heard from the speaker at that event, that we love you for who you are and when you change we change with you. We love you lots❤❤

I came when the growth was starting and I love it here. They can truly unsubscribe ✌🏾 The hat is so cute ❤❤❤

The lady that hosted that YT event adores you!! You can literally see in the way she looks at you, omw beautiful scenes I literally got goosebumps. 🥺

That man from the KZread connect even did not tell a lie ,you’re such a great story teller sana I can never get bored of your content

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

thank you so much love

‘Do you know why Xoli’ Miss ma’am you are haaaaaaaaa ❤

Its you holding back your tears when that lady was speaking 😢

You came ALIVE during the conversations. Auntie Darling the next time I hear you decline being a speaker, I’ll bite your nails off!. WHAAAAAAT?!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 I really pray you get over the anxiety and practice public speaking. You give great advice and you’re killing it. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😍🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

If grow quietly was a person ❤❤❤❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

thank you mama

Xoli getting her flowers is so beautiful to witness. Love it!!

That man watches and is a darling. Because no lies were detected. We watch because you bring us in. You never just ambush us with content, you take us in.. ❤

We can't expect you not to grow while we are growing xoli

We love your content darling don’t worry about them. I do not know the 4 years back miss xo, but I came across the new miss xo and I loved her Your content is real and we learning a lot from you babes 🥰

The guy that spoke at the event, love it. He literally explained why I'm here. I've tried to watch other vlogs but I stop watching because why siseDischem, sifike nini kwispa? Love, love, love it here. As the darlin's we love the growth. Keep on shining bright like the diamond you are.

They’re giving Aunty her flowers and I’m here for it 🤗💜 You’re amazing mama!

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

tank you love

Xols, aunty Darlings you such a good person, and I'm sure you must have been even more emotional reflecting back on the testimonials you got from the ladies at the KZread Connect Event. Continue being the light of the world, and helping wherever you can, be it advise or whatever, May God bless you abundantly. 😊

Am personally obsessed with you, my darling queen ❤❤ mu woman crush ke sana. One thing I love about this amazing young lady is that she's not afraid of change and being true to herself and her God no matter what people say she's selfless and no what she wants. I once said you are a living angel sent by God, that's true, darling. That event was a stamp on what I've said. ❤❤❤ stay blessed, Xoli

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

thank you for your kind words mama

Xoxo I know that you know that the God you serve was not lying to you. In your private space, you cried to Him, and He listened, comforted you, and asked you to trust Him, which you did 👏👏👏. All I can say is your faith and obedience has lead you to where His plans for you will meet you. 💝🤗 So happy for you Mfati. Love and light 🙏🏽💐🤍

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

thank you beautiful

I like how respectful you are even when you are annoyed❤️

Road to 170K subbies!!🔥🤭

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

🎉

Road to 200k Let’s make it happen fam 😭❤️

I love the Lord's work in your like mama🥺, it's so beautiful to see you evolve and becoming a woman of God🤍🥺. Love you so much ke sana❤️.

Your growth is so admirable, and I am here for it. ❤❤❤ I will forever support you on all your platforms cos Ilysm❤❤❤

Rakgadi wadi darlings 🤭🤭🤭🌹

Xoli, would you ever do a Christian girl chit chat where you invite Christ centered creators and have conversations on different topics? A Christ link or something

I loved when that guy made reference to you- blueprint ke sana 🎉❤

Your growth is something else! I love the woman you’ve become, so calm and loving! I love it here 🥺❤️

You are SA youtube GOLD!!!!!!!! Biggest vloggger in the country. Grow.. Please evolve. Your audience is growing with you❤ the others dont matter.

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

🥺❤️

To us who like before we can even watch 🎉😅

Hi Xoli … I would like to say, don’t think you have lost followers and content .. i think that most women in our age, are slowly evolving into , grown church girlies with grace and this is the content we want to to see and enjoy ..please don’t say shy away from anything ! We love it 🥰

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

❤❤

It’s you getting your Flowers mama 🥺🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️ Love you sooo much

Aunty I've always loved your content but Jesus Girl Xoli is my Big Sister OKAY!!!!! Pls I love you♥️

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

love you more love

We miss the grocery hauls 🥹even if you buy the same things all the time

@nothandomonica9822

Ай бұрын

Real. I miss seeing her open her nik naks. Seeing her bananas and eggs🤣🥺

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

@@nothandomonica9822 im screaming lol , ill try do them again !!!

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

haha oh bandla , ill do them again aunty !!

"Welcome back home" because it's HOME here fr!!❤ Also your skin looks amazing as per usual 😍😍

The KZread connect event 🥹🥹🥹🥹! You looked stunning ♥️.. enjoyed the vlog!! ❤😊

This is my 1st comment on any vlog and it took a lot from me to even type this. My first encounter with your amazing spirit is when you did a collaboration with Mihlali and I've never looked back. I watched all your vlogs from the beginning (just to catch up lol) . I watch you religiously and I consider myself a Darling through and through. I love you so much Xoli ❤. I've grown and learnt so much from you. You're so genuine and authentic. You're gorgeous and I'm definitely coming to the brunch❤❤❤

#1 Been bored. I am so happy how you inspire people unintentionally I loved it for you, how everybody kept referencing this and that about you/chanel was amazin. 🎉❤ love you ke sanas.

The Nails look so good!!❤🥺🥺

Wow I honestly didn’t know you had a child 😊 I love how you’ve been protecting them ❤ so beautiful cc

When Aunty Darlin set you straight, listen, you will be like a ruler. We embracing this change because we learning and realistic here. Keep going strong mama🥰🥰🥰🥰

And that's whyyy "Xoli Gcabashe is successful" love that for us🌺🌺🌺

@Xolile_Gcabashe

Ай бұрын

❤❤❤

You definitely deserve all your flowers!🥹💐

Finally my Favourite Dropped!!!❤❤

What a beautiful vlog Sis, I even cried, watching you interacting with those women. Damn Sis ! God is definitely showing off with you ❤️🫵🏼🥰💯