When Sharleen said she doubts her decisions in life but choosing Andy is the one decision in her life she is absolutely sure of. Wow! ❤️

I’ve watched this conversation twice and cried each time. When Sharlene said, “I want to do everything with you”, followed shortly by “there’s just not enough time”, my eyes welled with tears. This love is timelessly beautiful!

@claudiafegari5116

11 ай бұрын

And they are so young... Can you imagine the people that happen to find love later in life? 🥲

When Sharleen said: “I would tell you that you’re enough.” That got me 😭🥲. So beautiful!

@DaMixta

2 жыл бұрын

This literally broke me. That’s all I ever wish for someone to say to me and I didn’t even know it until hearing her say it.

@Callmelucky

2 жыл бұрын

Ngl this got me too felt like she was speaking to me

When she said there's not enough time to experience everything they want. My heart started to race😧

@Black_Rose1234

3 жыл бұрын

I started to cry 😭

@ThisIsMissCheeky

3 жыл бұрын

Same! I wonder if one of them is sick?

@Black_Rose1234

3 жыл бұрын

@@ThisIsMissCheeky Gosh, I hope not... I didn't think of it this way... I just thought about there not being enough time to experience everything about life in general... I hope not.

@havenasnip5110

3 жыл бұрын

That was the sweetest thing 😭❤️

@kikib8434

3 жыл бұрын

Same here - that just got me hard in the feels. I've had great relationships in my life so far but, when I find "the guy", this is how I want to feel and their dynamic is very much what I want 😊❤.

am i the only person who remembers her from the bachelor? she was way too smart and classy for the dude her season. glad to see her here! this is a truly beautiful relationship.

@Varaidzo1

3 жыл бұрын

They also have a podcast here on youtube called "Dear Shandy" Where they recap bachelor/bachelorette and give relationship advise

@atlien5320

3 жыл бұрын

@@Varaidzo1 oh thanks for sharing! will check it out.

@Rachel-rs7jn

3 жыл бұрын

Yep, I do! And I remember at the time thinking "this show's not good enough for her" lol.

@Sdority905

3 жыл бұрын

She' too smart for the whole franchise. She definitely brought the bachelor stock up

@gloriakajjumba

2 жыл бұрын

I remembered her...opera singer and damn! Juan Pablo ieeeshhhhh I don't want to remember him. This guy is smarter

This is what LOVE should be like. What does my love feels like “It feels like super power.” They’re just in love and I love them. What a beautiful couple? May God bless their union until eternity. Wow.. My bf told me “He feels at home with me.” I couldn’t have asked for more.

The fact that Andy is wearing a real shirt with buttons instead of his rumpled white v-neck tee has me shook. Love Sharleen and Andy aka Shandy!

"I want to experience everything with you...There's not enough time." I felt this so hard. 💔😭

@claudiafegari5116

11 ай бұрын

And they are so young... Can you imagine the people that happen to find love later in life? 🥲

She is so beautiful and I love listening to her laugh and speak. What a beautiful couple!

The answers they give truly show you just how strong their foundation is. Andy said they tell each other everything, communication is key for them and they really understand that about each other. Ugh, so good. This one got me a couple times and I am with everyone else - when Sharleen says, "you are enough", LOST IT. LOL

"I can see infiinity, it's a heavy burden" Lol I feel you. Truly a beautiful couple though thank you for letting me witness a healthy relationship for 15 minutes and 44 seconds.

@MaximovaTatiana

4 ай бұрын

They ve podcast about healthy relationship

This couple has really set bar on so many levels. I genuinely hope I'm equally as luck as you two are, just to be able to have this authentic, raw and unapologetic relationship is goals. And your responses could not be more subtle and powerful in the same breath. Beautiful ❤

"I love you and see you, on the deepest of levels." 💜 Such an authentic love that they share.. 🌼

When she said, "we're tough in different ways.", it's like a greatest line to define "mars vs venus"

When she said :"There's not enough time" I was done. Made realize what I'm looking for. So beautiful!!!!!

He loves her. I know it’s obvious but man, it deserves to be said. She loves him too, but… man he loves her.

Wow! I’m almost speechless. These two have what many dream of, hope for but sometimes never find. They would be amazing parents.

"So you got me for life, sorry" Relationship goals.

She’s got a beautiful smile and this warmed my heart.

My partner is the same way about hesitating to share his deepest secrets/demons/things he hates about himself. And I have the same reaction as Sharleen, that I wish he would share more because I feel closer to him when he does. P.S. Recently subscribed to Shandy's channel - they are awesome! Super intelligent and insightful but in a really genuine and open way. No affectation.

These are difficult conversations to have! But you can tell they know and understand each other on a level we can’t see. They talk with their eyes 10:25 when she said “you know what I mean”

@Black_Rose1234

3 жыл бұрын

Yup... They are on the same wavelength and understand each other.

@ayeeshahm9078

3 жыл бұрын

They truly do. They have the most adorable podcast on their channel - dear Shandy they do bachelor recaps but even better are their q & a's and relationship series called love fest. They're so in love, in sync and grounded and I totally admire them.

Her face when she got asked about their last conversation you could see happiness drain from her :( but that’s love. Wow I love them as a couple

I am a big “shandy” fan and this video was so wonderful because it showed an even deeper side to their connection than maybe we have seen before. I absolutely loved it. These two are the real deal, and I hope everyone gets to experience even a taste of this kind of love in their lifetime! ❤️

I cried watching them and see the deepest love they have for each other. Such a beautiful couple

How beautiful and touching! She comes across as not just confident but also warm and funny at the same time. So inspiring to watch.

This is my favorite KZread crossover that I didn't even know I needed. I totally adore dear Shandy, and skin deep is one of my most beloved series on YT. Thanks for this ❤️

@TheSkinDeep

3 жыл бұрын

So glad you adore all of us! We adore you!

They really really dig eachother. Like they Dead ass like eachother. 😍♥️

The one person that has disliked the video at this point, is probably the girl he was supposed to meet.

One of the best feelings is when someone can't get to a word that's on the tip of their tongue and you get it for them.

You can feel the love with Sharleen and Andy. This is what relationships should be like - and we should not settle for less.

they're literally so perfect for eachother, no questions asked !!!

My favorite for sure. I see a whole lot of love but I also see reasonable adults, great sense of humour and loads of caring for each other. Beautiful humans that bring the best out of each other's.

This love has magic and divine timing written all over it. ❤️ moving to my soul, to see an authentic healthy relationship such as theirs. ✨

I truly think they have one of the purest and most profound relationships I’ve ever witnessed. Hearing them speak to each other is like reading age old love story made out of poems. I can only hope to one day experience such a deep connection with someone.

Crying...their love is so deep. Beautiful!

Here again…I feel blessed to have this channel in my life. The storm to my chaos. Love the skin deep.

I can feel the weight of this warm blanket and the depth of your unbreakable love for each other..... And I know why everybody loves seeing you both together because it gives us all a little bit of a sense of that beacon[ that Beacon that we all strive for].... And what great love does for all of us who can maintain that in a very healthy, high functioning loving relationship [where u are THE YNG TO EACHOTHER'S YANG]

so much love from this couple. you can see how much they care about each other.

This is one of my favorites on this channel. You're both beautiful souls

May we all experience a love like this before we die 🥺💙 damn love is fuckin beautiful this makes me wanna cry I hope I’m loved like this by someone

@lwazimandilivematiwane3044

2 жыл бұрын

And that you also love someone like this! I hope and pray we both experience this kind of love it really is beautiful. 🤍

I love their thoughtfulness. That was skin deep to the bone.

😭😭😭 This is so beautiful! "Your love feels like a super power." This love is so liberating! 💛

I hope they have a long loving happy live together

This just feels really great. It feels close and loving and supportive and sincere.

This channel is the reason I believe in real love. This made me cry...💚

Such a beautiful couple inside and out. Touching!

Ah “I’d tell you that you’re enough”, I’m not crying you’re crying! So beautiful!! 😍❤️

Sharleen and Andy, thank you for sharing. Listening to you speak about your relationship makes me happy. You both add sparkle to our world!

This channel has helped our relationship in many ways thank you all so much!

Gosh the love you have for each other and share together is pure magic.

this 1 on 1 is way better than juan pablo ever could xD

Oh my!!!! Those last few questions and the answers you gave literally gave me chills , deep beyond words!!

My god, this filled me right up! What a beautiful relationship to get a peek into. Adore Shandy!

This is truly a dream come true. The best couple with the coolest concept. Love this pairing so much.

Omg, these two are my fav couple! Such a beautiful energy exchange, and the conversation so warm and genuine! 🥰💖

Compared to this, I’ve never even been in the same ball park as love. This is like the kind of live you see in the movies. The way they look at each other

My two favorite worlds colliding!❣️Nice shirt Andy 😜

I sobbed to this video. How beautiful to watch. Thank you.

My favourite couple, so mature, so open and SO respectful ❤

When She said that I would tell you you're enough wow right in the feels .

I wish he’d share his dark existential fears with her! 🥰🥰🥰 they seem lovely

wow, i love how articulate and mature they are. and yes she does seem like a superwoman

The answer to the last question was so beautiful .

Damn you, Shandy! Got me crying in my cinnamon apple oatmeal

This is wonderful - made me cry

Wait, what?! Sharleen and Andy 😍😍😍

This truly warmed my heart! I hope to experience this kind of love someday 💙

I love their relationship! I can’t wait to have this connection with someone in the future

Loved this couple. They remind me of my husband and me. So nice to watch.

I love when two good looking people get married

@joejellyfish

3 жыл бұрын

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When ever I wanna have a good cry I watch this video ❤️ The love these guys have for each other is powerful, real, and sobering... Always brings me back to myself in the best way ❤️

When he said id kms, he never thought about leaving her, hes so inlove that he cant handle being without her, love these people

Praying for a love like this 😭

I don't even know them and I love them together!

I love you two so much. Thank you for being on this planet with all of us and sharing yourselves with us.

For some reason I always saw this as a childfree couple. This brings a bit of background to the conversations they have with podcast guests who have kids ❤️ Myself and my partner are not having kids for a variety of reasons (largely mental health/illness related). But I often feel he'd make such a great dad and such an example of positive masculinity. It will never happen for us, but it's still a lovely quality to see in someone in all the ways it shows up.

I want what they have with some one, that deep connection. both amazing people

The meeting story with me and the woman I like is almost legendary and so unexpected. It's one for the ages. I hope we become a couple because it will be fun telling it to people.

@shreyabasu676

2 ай бұрын

well, did you?!

@NoName-zb1gm

2 ай бұрын

@@shreyabasu676 No I gave up. It was too "intellectual" and too "spiritual" so there was nothing there from her end and I didn't mind giving up. A few months later I started liking someone from work totally unexpected. We're not together yet but she's sweet and emotional and I'm attracted to her and she feels the same for me (although she's trying hard to resist it).

“You want a little me, I want a little you” their love is so sweet

I would love to see the full version of this one!

Well this made me cry a bit more than I was expecting when I originally clicked on it... but love y'all relationship and the way you laugh and speak to each other in every way!

I cried when she said, " you are enough."

I would love the full version of this one please ❤. I love them

Wait I’ve watched this episode before? 😭 I’m coming back as a Shandy and I’m screaming ❤

@mellie1827

3 ай бұрын

Jk I’m actually crying 🥹

I really hope to experience a love like this one day❤️

She's brilliant! and they're definitely a happily married couple ❤

I love these two.

Wow thank you for sharing. I want what you have.

So heartwarming💞

I could have watched this for hours (future Dear Shandy episode???) It cured my headache. Thank you.

The love between them… it is so special

Sharleen is insanely gorgeous!! My goodness!! I felt this intimate episode in my heart. ♥️♥️♥️♥️☺️😊☺️😊

Beautiful couple....love their love. ❤

I love this video so much! Keep coming back to it every few months. 💞✨

6:30 this is the exact conversation my boyfriend & I have, the other way around. It's soothing to know other people feel the same, simultaneously though I'm dying to know how the other person actually would feel if you truly open up about stuff like that regularly

They are so sweet. Sharleen is gorgeous ❤️

I love the answer - your love feels like a super power

Wow. I love them so much!! The tears are flowing over here.

I keep coming back to this video. You two are really beautiful souls.

I'm not crying, you're crying! Love the love!❤