The sad part is unfortunately it's the parents fault for not correcting his behavior so it's not going to change unless the parents get on top of it. They need to get on that soon as possible before it gets even more out of control. I'm right there with you & having Shine defend himself. ❤❤

Awwwww, we can't have no bullying especially to Shine. Shine too sweet for all of that

@katyavelichko

6 ай бұрын

That not okay

@fc849

6 ай бұрын

Free Palestine 🇵🇸

@theresasimons9403

6 ай бұрын

I'm exactly like Quan 😂😂😂I taught my kids the exact same ..if they hit you ,you have a Devine right to protect yourself, and if it ever gets to it ,mommas got it ❤😂

@adriennegiles_2021

6 ай бұрын

Facts

Seeing your family makes me realize how lonely it can get when your family isn’t around anymore, my mom passed a couple years back and ever since then I’ve felt alone, but watching you guys brings me comfort and joy! ❤

Its ok to feel the emotions you guys are feeling to protect shine.The best you guys can always do is teach him how to stand up for himself. You guys are amazing parents!!!

I swear Riss and Quan’s boys are some of the smartest little people I’ve ever seen! Shine’s vocabulary is better than mine lol!

@clariseharrington8252

6 ай бұрын

😅❤

I am not a parent, but I would also teach my kids how to defend themselves if they were in any situation or a situation like this, and Savi is such a happy baby.

Shine is so freaking cute and you can tell he loves everything you guys do for him 🙏🏼🫶🏻

Shine really loves playing omg I cant wait till Savi grows up and play with him 😊❤

Shine is such a good boy. He listens well and follows directions great teaching mom and dad.👍🏾👏🏾💪🏾💓💓💓

Nothing is wrong with telling your kid to defend themselves Shine is too nice of a kid to deserve that you guys are doing the right thing ❤❤

Caribbean parents always say, "Anybody hit you, hit them back!" Don't take bully from anyone.

I pray I raise smart sweet happy kids like yours in the future They literally light up the whole house with their smile The diy snow was so creative good thinking momma ❤️

Savi is such a happy baby. He's always smiling. I love it

I love seeing Shine helping his mom in the kitchen❤

Yup! Definitely teach to defend yourself. We always grew up if someone hit you, hit them back. Kids can be mean 😢 & you guys definitely motivated me to make snow with my little one tonight can’t wait Happy Holidays Unbreakable Family 🎄🫶🏼

every time i see my internet nephews i get so happy 🥹! they’re just so happy and loving bundle of joys. its more than obvious that they’re surrounded by love and joy so a huge shout out to rissa and quan and their parenting ✨. you guys are doing amazing !!!! and also a huge thank you for the consistency and keeping us entertained! love you guys so much ❤️

I teach my children to defend themselves!! My daughter is super sweet but she definitely knows how to defend herself! The momma bear would’ve instantly come out of me if I saw that lol.

I’m a toddler teacher & I definitely understand it. We have a strict policy for it with actions to take at certain steps up to leaving the school (reasonably) This project was so cute ❤

i’m not a mother , but i definitely feel this way when it comes to my siblings. I tell them all the time to defend themselves if it ever comes down to it. one of my biggest fears is them getting bullied 😩

It’s so beautiful to see the boys growing and doing things together as a family!! To many, many more years to come!! Blessings & Happy Holidays!!!🙏🏽🌸🎄

I just love the way all the boys are interested in whatever there parents do for them to be happy

Quan wanting to push back the kid is def the Caribbean blood in him😂😂😂

@islaand

6 ай бұрын

not even almost anybody would wanna do the same thing 😂 cause i definitely would’ve

I love the way you all are so involved and "hands on" with your boys. That's so important to the positive growth and development of children. As a retired educator (pre-school/kinderarten teacher and schol counselor I've seen and dealt with parents and children who bully. It's a learned behavior. So. the "aggressive" child in the gymnastics class has learned to be that way from other people-maybe his/her siblings, parents, care giver. To return that agression only teaches kids that to way to deal with negative brhaviors is to do something negative in return. Kids/people are ALWAYS going to come up against difficult and negative behaviors. Shine is a gentle soul, very smart and learns fast. The best way to handle your situation is to talk to him in language on his level about positive/ negative behaviors and how he can talk to kids who display negative behaviors toe=ward him. Hitting/pushing back is not a good way to deal with bulling. I would also speak to the parents of the child and let them know that you don't approve of the pushing/hitting, that you aren't raising your children to respond in that manner. Shine sees that you all don't yell at him or at each other, you don't hit,etc. Kids aren't too young to learn conflict resolution skills. I know "Papa Bear" doesn't want to see his kids get picked on but you want them to be able to handle situations that will come up without them (situations) turning onto physical altercations. As Savi gets older and begins to assert himself into the family mix, there will be times when he and Shine "get into it". When that happens you'll want them to talk it out, not fight it out. Parenting is a learn as you go life-long project. You're doung well. Blessings and Happy Holidays.💓💓💓💓🙏🙏🙏🙏

Shine is too sweet! Definitely keep teaching your children the importance of self defense/when to use it😊❤

I love his verbal skills he is so intelligent. So much to be admired

i love how when shine makes a mess Rissa says “it’s okay” so cute .😭

@Barren98

6 ай бұрын

That's so cute 😂

What a wholesome video! I love how hands on you both are. Shine’s vocabulary amazes me every time! And Savi wants to be involved in everything, I love it!

I absolutely love the vlogmus videos this year! The activities are very creative and it also give us ideas to what we can do with our kids. Thank yall for this!!!❤❤❤

The first thing Shine said is “hit dada”😂😂😂😂 I’m dead 😂 but this was such a good sensory activity for Shine !! And he loves snow so now he can really have snow whenever plus the snow machine ! Perfect lol

Period Quan !! That’s exactly what you do cause no ! My kids are so nice and sweet I tell them the same thing there’s nothing wrong with him defending himself.. yall are doing right ❤

I love how you guys do anything to make your boys happy 😊

I love seeing Shine in the kitchen lol helping his mama. Such a beautiful family.

I'm with Quan on this one. I experience this every day because I am a school bus driver, and kids hit kids all the time. I don't allow bullying. They get kicked off my bus after the first right up, and they do it again, they gots to go.

Snow is soo enjoyable, and with making fake snow you don’t have to worry about the aftermath of the slip. Soo cute ❤️

I appreciate you guys for being so consistent

The Christmas tree was lovely 🤗. Shine is such a good helper 🎉

Shine is so sweet 😊only knows love and happiness !! But he will grow up defending himself Savi just so sweet😊

Savi hair be funny wild and cute at the same time!😂😍

i love the activities yall find, Shine really seems to enjoy them🥹❤️

Its how u all even come up with these fun activities ..i admire how u guys take time in creating ur own fun for ur kids ..its like yall are so inventive with doing new stuff,keep up the fantastic parenting

Any time i see this family i feel so happy ❤

@annettacarr5713

6 ай бұрын

Me 2😊

@shaunawalters3340

6 ай бұрын

Me 3 😊

@JuneScott-vl3dj

6 ай бұрын

Me 4

This is honestly the perfect family they go above and beyond for their kids❤

thank youuu for this beautiful video, lovee both of your dedication and i really enjoying seeing the boys in the videos

I cant wait to see the vlogs of you guys in the snow when it finally snows! It will be cute!

You guys are teaching Shine the right thing in this situation. Shine was having so much fun playing in this snow.. I’m gonna have to try this one day. ❤

Never underestimate Baby Shine he always out smarting y'all 😂😂😂😂😂❤❤

@renemalan4416

6 ай бұрын

No way that child parents must teach him not to bully, it's only right that Quan teach Shine to defend himself.

@user-jf8hr1mb7u

6 ай бұрын

Shine little "mama and dada" is the cutest ❤he talk so well y'all so Smart ❤❤❤

I love that you guys are a constant positive figure im both shine and saviours life. You guys always show the boys right from wrong snd constantly show them love. From a single mother of three this means everything to me! Love being part of your community ❤

I hope a truly in need family gets your help. I’m so happy you guys do this for someone.

The kids loveee the snow. Their smiles are so precious🥰❤️

Awww poor Shine. I agree with both of you with teaching him to defend himself it would give him confidence too in the long run when he grows up. My parents always taught me to defend myself. You guys are such good parents. Keep it up!! 😊

You guys are so creative❤ Y'all did the best thing ,teaching him how to defend himself

I just wanna say thank yall for being consistent and all the hard work yall put into making these videos on a regular basis

Loving the way as young parents you always do things to make your children happy ❤❤❤❤

I love that you are finding things to do with the boys. Such a great idea. Now I need to do this. 😍😍 They will be able to look back on this and remember the fun time. ❄️❄️

I am with Quan. From a little age I’ve always taught my son, who is the sweetest soul, how to defend himself. I encourage him to never start a fight, but has full reign to end one. Now that he is 11, he deals with a lot of bullies and kids saying mean stuff to him. I teach him empathy, because we never know what others are going through at home. I teach him that misery loves company and people will try and hate and bring you down to their level. Feel bad for them and move on with your life unbothered is the advice I give him. But again, if a kid puts hands on him, he needs to shut that down and punch them in the face!

y'all really make my day rissa ,quan, shine , and savi i love yall ❤best family i know honestly !

Definitely taught my kids to defend themselves and hit back, nothing wrong with that. Love the DIY ☃️❄️. Boys are excited and so happy!! ❤❤

I think you guys handled the situation right. I teach my son the same way. They have to protect themselves and you also have to know if you are not there he wouldn't get bullied.Hope shine doesn't have to deal with that again. I love that idea for the snow. Shine enjoyed it. Amazing if it really snows, Shine would have a blast ❤️❤️

Bullies suck , it's so important to teach them how to speak up for themselves . Great parenting . Shine is so bright . So is savi , I truly admire your family . Please continue to look over and bless the unbreakable family .

The snow turned out amazing! Shine and Savi screaming and having fun in the ballpit at the end is everything 🥹

@Barren98

6 ай бұрын

Nice

You guys definitely handled it well. Shine is such a good boy❤️

What a cute neat idea for family time! ❤ gotta love how smart Shine is

@millielivermore5182

6 ай бұрын

I have always teach my kids to hit back if a child hit them the parents come round I can give them what my kids didn’t get to there child so I agree with all the way

@SweetJenn2001

6 ай бұрын

@@millielivermore5182 I 100% agree to. Kids should definitely learn how to defend and stick up for themselves. Am glad he has a dad like Quan to teach him and Savi

Shine is soooooo smart. Never underestimate him. I love him sooo much❤

Love the snow! Can't wait to try it out!

Wow snowman says Shine and now Saviour is going to enjoy. So nice to watch Family Fun such a beautiful way of bonding more. Beautiful blessing from God. Prayers

I love when shine gets so excited 🎄

Aww that was quick and a simple way to make snow at home definitely will try that cus we definitely lacking snow in CT doesn’t feel like Christmas. Glad to see shine enjoyed playing with the snow you made

Thanks for the idea! Definitely trying this with my boys🤗

😂😂 Go Quan! Confront the parents first because if Shine puts his hands on him without talking to them first, they may kick him out. Even if they know it's going on. That parent could make a big fuss about it. But lo key.....I agree with you guys.

I love when rissa and Quan put a smile on baby shine & baby saviour 🥰🥰🥰🥰

Awww definitely trying this with my kiddos!! Thank you for the idea ❤

Savi always made my day just by him happy and smiling

Awesome idea for the snow! Rissa you are so creative! Love to see the boys smiles. As far as the little bully in gymnastics class Quan you told Shine right. Talk to the parent too and let them know what you don’t appreciate ❤

Shine's little voice and Savi's smile is sooo cute ❤.

You guys are definitely great parents. it’s always good to teach them self- defense at any age tbh❤️. I definitely enjoy watching y’all videos all the time.

This looks fun! Never thought to do something like this. Thanks guys for the idea!

Aww I think that was so cute , what a fun way to make snow with your little ones.❤❤

Y’all parent like you have 20 years experience I’ve learnt so much about parenting from you guys. Genuinely, Thank you ❤

That is so cool! I love it! Shine is so smart!🥺💙

That is such a great learning tool. Great job Rissa❤

shine is sooo smart, he's definitely a mommy's helper

There smiles are so priceless.. ❤

Great idea riss this was super cute. Im glad the boys enjoyed themselves 💙💙

this was so warming and fun to watch🥹🥹🫶🏼☺️so cute seeing Shine grow and see his personality adapt!

@Barren98

6 ай бұрын

You love that is it

I teach my kids to hit back as well!! Definitely nothing wrong with that, I understand the feeling when you see your child getting bullied and it’s not the best feeling so you guys are definitely teaching him right!! He’s too handsome for that! I’m glad the babies enjoying the snow and lights!!🥰

@Sonic_yt12356

6 ай бұрын

Right, I agree with Quan 💯. If someone hit you, hit them back. I don't like violence at all, but I do believe in self-defense. We taught our kids how to defend themselves. Now they're all grown with kids, and each one of them are teaching their kids how to protect themselves. And yes, they also tell them not to hit first.

@traceygrant3386

6 ай бұрын

What being handsome has to with it.

@demariahemphill

6 ай бұрын

@@traceygrant3386 because he may get hit in the face and end up getting a bruise or a scratch he too handsome to have marks on his face

Rissa your daughter is coming, you’re just glowing. 💜 You and Quan be careful 🤣🤣 I’ve been watching you two since you started and you two are the perfect example of true unconditional love. I’m always rooting for you 💜

Definitely agree with how you and Quan decided to handle bullying , defending himself would be the best bet. Aww the excitement with making the snow, ❄️ definitely will try with my kids. Thank you for sharing!!

I love Savi smile it's just sooo cute. Shine is the cutest.

Rissa and Quan you guys are simply amazing with coming up with adorable activities like this for Shine and Saviour.....❤

I have to try that. I never knew you can make snow. Good idea❤

This idea looks so much fun😁💯

Awwww it’s so cute to see baby boy shine playing outside in the snow making snow angels you guys are my favorite KZread channel because you guys always doing things with your two little babies being creative 💙💙💙💙💙

Baby shine is so smart ❤

Y'all are doing a great job as parents absolutely love it

This is my first time seeing someone make snow👀 such a cute idea!

Savi is such a happy baby, every time he laughs or smiles i laugh and smile😁😁😁

I love how rissa and quan include baby savi in everything 🥰🥰

I love seeing Shine happy 😌he’s such a smart kid❤️❤️

Poor Shine,Shine is really too sweet and has a kindred heart ,he really doesn't deserve that treatment at all 😥

❤😂First 😅❤❤❤It's rissa and quan the queen and the Don he's from Jamaica she's Italian they come together......... #rissandquan I found Myself singing you guys old intro today and don't know why 😂❤