I’m forever grateful for all your love and support. Please remember ones “outer world” doesn’t always reflect their “inner world”. About a year ago I had a really tough conversation with my mum after she had messaged me saying that she was glad to see me “looking so happy” in what was my most recent video at the time. The conversation that followed was tough because I then had to open up to her and say that actually, in reality, I had been feeling extremely low throughout the filming and had ‘faked it’. It was during the van build, I was stressed with the build, I was still getting used to being on my own, I had been isolated on the farm for months due to the Covid lockdown, not looking after myself properly, missing my dog and to top it all off it was fucking cold. But I had committed to deadlines so I filmed anyway. The fact that I could fool my own mum just highlights how good we have become at ‘putting on a brave face’ when in front of others. Or cameras. Social media is a prime example of where this happens most. People rarely show their down moments. And the issue with this is that it can make those that are struggling feel alone. Comparison is a bitch, especially if you’re comparing yourself to a highlight reel. We need to normalise letting our true emotions show, especially in front of those close to us. Not only does it open us up to receiving support, it also shows others that it’s okay not to be okay. The funny thing is I only feel comfortable talking about it now because I am feeling good. I am motivated. I have plans. I am excited for what’s to come. However. I no longer only ‘smile for the camera’ Love you all 💛

@Liz11679

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Max! ❤ you too my friend!!

@Island_Times

2 жыл бұрын

PLUR , if you are old enough to know what PLUR means :)

@jayoz6310

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing Max. And we all love you and Occ too! PS do you have the blueprints of this van for sale? 🙏❤️

@cindareid7701

2 жыл бұрын

Putting on the company face you leave by the door…….we have most likely all done it. You sir again teach……and I thank you for that.

@manonboucher1036

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for making that extra effort when you’re not feeling on top of things to get the message out that it’s ok not to be ok. Thank you for this video.

Occy coming after you when you jumped ❤️ Have a good time seeing your family xx We miss you

That moment when Occy was worried about you is so sweet. What a good buddy he is

@luns486

2 жыл бұрын

Such a good boy.

@janebrommet7942

2 жыл бұрын

I can understand Occy, he already lost one love

@luns486

2 жыл бұрын

@@janebrommet7942 💔

@janebrommet7942

2 жыл бұрын

@@luns486 yes i know

@katemckay6173

2 жыл бұрын

That's love ❤️

A noncomprehensive list of things I loved about this video: - The feature wall in the van - The sideways shot with the canoe - The slow pace of this video - The openness about mental health

@MaxandOccy

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Nessa, so glad you enjoyed it and love the list 💛

@lwfuqua

2 жыл бұрын

@@MaxandOccy I love that you and Occy took time to play in the rain! A wonderful way to refresh your soul.

@divekatdreaming

2 жыл бұрын

I love that instead of seeing the rain as a bad thing, Max found some positive aspect and decided to enjoy his day. I also loved Occy feeling empowered to go off to the water on his own and his love of Max showed through when he was worried about Max suddenly being flung from the nice safe shore out into the middle of the river where all kinds of mysterious things could befall him without Occy right there close by his side. I loved that Max got to spend some time back in Nature and that it made him slow down and relax. I also chuckled of the irony of "water water everywhere, but not a drop to ...shower with. "

@felixbrandau4751

2 жыл бұрын

Nessa in the house ❤️

@felixbrandau4751

2 жыл бұрын

@Gossip Girl I have reported your defamation to you tube !

That spot looked like absolute paradise - even more so in the rain! Can't wait to see what the future holds for you mate. Always room in Custard for a Max and one Occy 😆

Definitely had a chuckle over Occy sneaking down to the water 😊 Glad you are also able to enjoy the simple things (nature and a good meal) and excited to hear what your potential plans are coming up!

@MaxandOccy

2 жыл бұрын

That sly dog. I honestly saw it coming a mile away. He thinks he's subtle but he is not haha. So excited for what's to come!

Max, as someone who is having no major problems with the lock down, it's hardly changed my life, I still appreciate hearing how hard you find it. I am a reader, gardener, bird breeder, have 2 dogs and a house to run. My 3 kids are in Canberra and Adelaide, I'm in Sydney. I have elderly parents who need to be driven to appointments, they're my day trips. My husband has worked throughout, not had any time off. I am alone 90% of the time, but I am happy in my own company. Getting into nature is the best therapy, walking barefoot on the grass is beneficial for your health, it grounds you in many ways. Even if you're in a city, you can pull weeds in the park, my sister in law has done that for years. It calms her. Love seeing Occy so clean after all that swimming, he's such a happy dog.

I'm not sure what was the most attractive aspect of this video... Occy being adorable, your gorgeous self, the amazing surroundings, the calming rain, your perspective on life, the music choice 👌, or your choice to bring love to the world, it's all just beautiful & very appreciated, so, thank you 🌊

@amandaspearman7898

2 жыл бұрын

Can I just agree and appreciate everything said here?

@xxxvcvv

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, Ditto🙏💙✌️

When you said Lee’s name and then moved your arms in the water....it looked like angel wings. ♥️ Thank you for being so authentic....we appreciate you!!!

@sadiejosiemom

2 жыл бұрын

That's exactly what I thought about the angels wings!

@christinecravens4028

2 жыл бұрын

I noticed it too.

Really appreciate your honesty and the way you normalize the highs and lows that everyone goes through. The slower pace and chill vibes of this video brought me some peace for a while. Thank you for that.

Never heard Occy that upset before; he definitely didn't like you taking that high jump! He's really a great companion. In all honesty, I loved the pacing of this installment; it's nice to see you taking the time to restore your balance and contemplate your future. The locations were gorgeous, and loved, loved, loved how snug the van is in inclement weather.

I love that you shared the “reality” that comes with living: happiness is fleeting just like every other feeling we experience. The good news is, it will return, and will be even sweeter when we live in gratitude. I liked this simple, slower paced video aka: peace. When You jumped off the swing and Occy had something to say about it, he sounded just like my sweet pup who visited me in my dreams last night. I miss my road-dog; treasure every moment with Occy; such a blessing to have the love/companionship of a furry best friend! ❤️✌🏽

Max, this video has it all. Beauty, honesty, a doggie, food that doesn't harm animals...you are an incredible role model. Thank you for putting it all out there for us. I hit like before I even saw it and dropped what I was doing when I saw the notification. That's how much respect I have for you and Occy. Please stay safe and healthy. Love what you're doing!

@earthangel8730

2 жыл бұрын

All massed produced human food harms animals. Insects are animals. Please enjoy your life choices without the hypocritical and judgemental nonsense. It's sooooo boring. Unless you live in a cave as a hunter gatherer you are harming the planet and it's creatures too.

@minoutv885

2 жыл бұрын

Be Kind | Always

Occy was so adorable worried about you. No one can convince me that animals are devoid of feelings and I appreciate my pets very much. 😍💕

We (my mum and me) would much rather watch a slow-paced, real video than the highlight reels. Glad you're staying true to yourself. It's always good to see you two, no matter how exciting or mundane the content.

As someone currently struggling with mental illness, it helps a lot knowing I'm not alone. Thank you for normalizing the conversation around our true feelings. I love your videos and continue to look up to you 💕

@aussiegirl7145

2 жыл бұрын

Be well Caraline, love & light.

@KristinaKk_xx120

2 жыл бұрын

@@aussiegirl7145 Thank you 💕😌

@Sweetlyfe

2 жыл бұрын

I see you and hear you, am struggling too, grief, isolation due to Covid and lockdown, and my CPTSD, Mental illness can be a very lonely and othering experience. I went and shared it with an ex girlfriend of 20yrs ago and got some real hugs and cried, so being seen in my vulnerability and by someone I love has grounded me again, it doesn’t fix it but it definitely helps to lighten the load. Sending heartfelt compassion and empathy your way, and virtual hug’s, and a cuddle from my big dog who loves cuddling total strangers. Take care and know we are all perfectly imperfect.

@KristinaKk_xx120

2 жыл бұрын

@@Sweetlyfe This was so kind. Thank you very much for your support. Sorry to hear that you have been struggling with a lot of the same things I am, but it must be helpful to have a big dog cuddler alongside 😌 Sending virtual hugs back

@Sweetlyfe

2 жыл бұрын

@@KristinaKk_xx120 Yes it definitely helps having a dog best friend & companion it also helps to be responsible for another living being and their welfare, as that helps to ground me at times when I’m not coping so well, and he makes me laugh, and if I’m down I watch funny dog & cat videos, or people falling over videos which I know is sort of mean, but they just make me laugh until I cry, both my parents were like that too, and my Sister so it doesn’t make me feel so bad, only when they don’t get hurt, but also because I’m very clumsy myself and have managed to break both my ankles from silly slipping over, so I reckon that means I can laugh at others when I can laugh at myself. Remember try and do one thing a day that’s positive for you or your living environment, doesn’t matter how small, and remember you are a warrior for what you have survived, and that it’s ok to not be ok, one day at a time, and if that’s too hard on a particular day just get through the next hour or 2 hrs. The whole of everything we have to do is too much so take small bites we wouldn’t try to fit a whole pizza in our mouth at once because it’s too big no way to chew and we would choke, it’s the same with everything else little pieces at a time and even if it takes all week to finish the vacuuming it’s ok because you did it, doesn’t matter how long it takes, we don’t have to compete with some arbitrary time limit we aren’t failing, we are getting there in the time it takes us to do it in. One small bite at a time. It helps me when I say out loud what I am grateful for I don’t always remember to do it, but I try at least to be grateful for one thing especially when I am struggling, so like I’m grateful for the sunny day today. Sending kind thoughts.

You are just one of my favorite people. You have really turned the over glorified van life and KZread expectations upside down. Your real life is so much more attractive than the polished one. Thanks for balanced, and enjoyable content.

@valerieohara3649

2 жыл бұрын

Well said

@celestryalcelestryal6690

Жыл бұрын

@@valerieohara3649 I was thinking the same thing!

Max, your kindness and authenticity shine through. It's so important to slow down and take care of your mental health, such a beautiful video! And Occy is the sweetest! 💛

Don't know why but this video brought back memory's of you Lee and Occy doing van life

@tarynnicosie846

2 жыл бұрын

I so agree! So miss Lee !!Love Max and Occy

@elboycio

2 жыл бұрын

Miss the magic that Lee brought to you both 💕

Max more than useful it was soul reaffirming. Made me feel less alone within challenges. Made me look to gratitude in my own life. I’m sure I speak for the community you have grown by saying we appreciate you so much. ❤️

What a beautiful video. That swimming hole was gorgeous, the colours behind you as you talked face on in the water was magical. I’ve really been trying to live by “ the way you react is in your control”. It’s not easy when I’ve let myself react badly throughout my life to situations but man, it’s a more positive mindset when you remember that, I feel happier too. Thanks as always for the video, it was right lovely, honest and genuine. Good luck with the future travels 🌊

@MaxandOccy

2 жыл бұрын

Aw thank you Luba, I'm so glad you enjoyed it! You're so right in that if your mind has it's own 'muscle memory' of sorts where it wants to go a certain way then it is hard to shake that trend. I believe that is where important tools like therapy and meditation come in. I know they have both helped me. And yes! how nice was the promised lands in the rain? I think I actually enjoyed it more in that setting than I had in the stinking hot. Shows sometimes when it's wet outside you should just go for it and enjoy the shower!

@suzannealcantara7725

2 жыл бұрын

Love your comment, Luba. And Max's reply.

My heart wrinkled when you jumped and Occy cried worried about your safety.

The pursuit of happiness is a misleading concept. Its fleeting, like most emotions. The practice of contentment, gratitude and peace of mind are states one can live in. 🥰

Everytime a new Video of you & Occy is out, I need to watch it immediatly. So good to see you, love the music, nature and the true words of you that you share with us. Thank you 👍 Love, Chrissi

I don't usually read the 'pins' (mainly not realizing what might be in them), so when I was preparing to make a comment your words threw me for their truth. One of my daughters recently went to her GP to discuss her growing anxiety - something I had not piced up on despite living in the same home. I am glad she said something to me, discussed everything with the doctor, did not hide it all behind her migraines (probably why I did not pick up on things) and is taking medication. The tell for her was not being interested in reading - for pleasure or academics. For anyone already suffering from a mental wellness, or any other wellniess crisis, the last 19 months only added to confusing map of life. Yes, be kind. Always. We do not know what others are going through. Thank you Max.

You wrote “thank you for the support”, but honestly thank YOU and Occy for your support that your videos give to us out there! While iam stuck in lockdown in Auckland it makes me so happy to see one of your videos truth and all they support us to so thanks. 😊

@mayrar2321

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Heather , my name is Mayra and I live in CA. Your comment above is from 4wks ago, is lockdown over in your area now? Sending you hugs 💜

@heatherhickman9116

2 жыл бұрын

@@mayrar2321 Hi most of NZ are out of lockdown but I live in Auckland and it has eased up but iam a hairdresser so iam still not allowed to work and we can’t leave out region’s . :)

I’ve missed you guys. So glad you posted today. The food looked yummy. I may need to get me an air fryer. It was interesting to hear occy’s response when you swung into water. You are such a good Dad moving down lower not to upset him again. Love being in nature too. Heals body, mind and soul. Thanks for sharing the truth, ups and downs.

Aww, sweet Occy didn't want you to swing into the water. He is so precious!!! Another great video....thanks for sharing. Glad you took time away, to regroup, and refresh. 💛

Occy in a life jacket swimming was the cutest bit ever! Edit to add....And then when Occy woofed when u went on swing and swam up to u , hes just the cutest! 🥰

Occ has such a personality I loved watching him sneak off to the water and ride the kayak

One of your best, no, The Best, video diary. Australia has so much to offer ... Occy sure loves his down-time with you. Hope you choose to explore more shorelines of your beautiful country.

Oh Occu was so scared for you when you jumped from the rope. He loves you so much. 💗 what a loyal and loving companion

I had a counselor explain grief and depression to me in a way that really made sense to me. Imagine life being a long piece of string that is wadded up in places instead of being in a straight line. The wadded or bunched up areas are when we have to deal with tough things and work our way through them. So grief and depression will take as long as they will take for us to work through them. 💜

@aussiegirl7145

2 жыл бұрын

until you discover your new normal.

You don’t need to be “up” all the time and it’s good to balance adventure with introspection! The best literature, the most worthwhile ideas come in this interplay… you got this.

Occy seems like a loving good natured pup!!! ❤️🐶❤️🐶 He seems older, but seems puppy like heading for the water. My heart ached for him when he struggled to get up off the floor. ☹️ Maybe I could send him a memory foam dog mat? Thank you for sharing your restful beautiful day(s) 🤩🥰

@rebeccaphillipsmullins8124

Жыл бұрын

That is so kind of you xxx

Take it easy Max all good. I just love the way Occy swam out for the kayak as if he knew it was not meant to have floated off and would get it for you and save the day 😊 and no jumping from ropes lol he really loves you Max how precious is he🌻

What a wonderful way to wake up Sunday morning and watch you and Occy just taking it easy! Thank You for getting me out of my funk! I have had a lot of things getting me down even on medication it isn’t always easy getting motivated. You did that for me today so TYSVM! 💕🌎✌️

2 STEPS FORWARD AND ONE BACKWARD, LEAVES YOU ONE STEP AHEAD!

Awww occy coming to save you after the swing was beautiful, what a beautiful country we live in. Thanks again for sharing your ups and downs with us all ❤️

I found your van videos the same day it was announced of Lee’s passing. It made me think a lot about my family. I’m grateful because it made me realize the medication my son was taking was causing him depression. He is now taking a new medication and he is much happier. Thank you

Max, I was happy to see you put out a video again. It’s great that you had the opportunity to get out in nature and recharge. What a wonderful location. I wish you all the best! Enjoy your time with your family. I always enjoy your videos and I think it’s wonderful that you open up and let others know that there are ups and downs. I think it’s a very important message. It was great to see Occy having fun, I’m sure he loved the little adventure. Stay well!

I have a feeling Australia has seen they can control its people and will make it a norm.

What a beautiful smart dog is Occy! You are so lucky to have him with you. Stay strong Max.

Max, you and Occy always bring a smile to my face when I watch your videos - the faster ones, the slower ones, and everything in between. They're sincere, heartfelt and wonderfully genuine. A true standout from other channels where reality is terribly glossed over in post production. Thanks for keeping it real and best wishes to you both.

I was just thinking yesterday I hadn’t seen anything from you for a while. I’m so glad to see you both again. Your comments on mental health and lockdown are so true and I’ve felt the same. You take care of yourself 🤗 Sunday dinner looked amazing , I’m just cooking mine, in my house, in Scotland (it’s raining here too)

I totally get your Covid fatigue and anxiety… I think most of us have suffered… I am 66 and feel that 2 years of my life has been wasted because of this pandemic… I know that’s maybe not how I should feel but I think being younger and knowing there is life ahead of you after this pandemic is a bit easier to handle than being 66 and HOPING to get out of this and travel again… love your videos by the way xxx

At 66 what I’ve found is life is a series of ups and downs…like the tides of the Sea… no getting around it. Acceptance with no expectations has been the key to my happiness. Just going with the flow. 😊… oh and Perspective is everything.

Wow even though it was raining that lake place in the woods looked like paradise!

So incredibly happy to see you. Worry when you don’t post. I am also glad you are addressing the fact that people only post the good times and not the bad times. I had to stop Facebook a long time ago because it made me so depressed to see people I used to know living amazing lives and traveling and happy and I wasn’t. I’ve been much better not comparing my life to other lives because they did not show their own problems. Thanks for keeping it real.

Great video. You're right seeing everyone living the dream when you're struggling can make me feel even worse. I've tried to find something special in each day. Last night was a beautiful moon shining behind the clouds, lighting them up. Stay safe x

Everyone in my life here in Aus has struggled so so much and is absolutely traumatised by what’s gone on here. Thank you for being honest and sharing your vulnerable self. Occy is the cutest thing ever :’)))))))

We sure do live in a beautiful part of the world. Poor Occy when you jumped into the water from the rope. He really does love his Dad.😉 I hope you are feeling much better and were able to see your family as planned. I am currently in NSW and it has been a very rough couple of years, having to go through all this on my own. P.S. Airfryers are the BEST invention ever. 😁

Thank you for being true not only to yourself, your family, but also all of us that you've let into your world! We all just have to take things one day at a time.. even the crap days... And remember they aren't always going to be bad ❤️❤️

Ha. I was going to comment about the drifting boat as a metaphor but you beat me to it. Good travels buddy.

I know this comment is very late and that you are probably busy with newer movies, but my daughter has had problems after COVID, and I can not wait to show her this episode allowing her to comprehend that what she is going through is not unique. Thank you Max for being so open and honest

Beautiful video. I love how protective Occy is and his reaction when you jumped into the water off the swing. I've never seen Occy so upset and fearful. Great that you didn't repeat it because he probably would've been more upset. Nice you chose the lower swing to be with him.

Beautiful vid. Grateful for the reminder to slow down and enjoy nature. It feeds the soul 💜🌷

I love how Occy adjusts to everything so well. You can tell how much he loves you, he listens to you so well. Sending love from Florida!!

Dear Max. Thanks for posting a video. I hope you will continue to share some of your life with us because it really helps me to cope with some inner struggles. You and Lee were my introduction into vanlife and I was enthralled with the adventures. Then that chapter and ended but your lives became so relatable. How to pick up and begin again. Lee’s unexpected death hit me so hard and triggered some feelings and emotions I’ve dealt with intermittently. Both of you sharing this real life, the authenticity of what it means to be coping in a world fallen apart since Covid. You have such a kindness about you that is truly rare. By continuing to vlog and share real emotions you are inspiring probably hundreds maybe thousands to seek therapy, to embrace family, to immerse in nature and stay hopeful. I love your van build. It’s the best one on KZread. That hatch overhead is a favorite. Being able to see the sky, the rain falling. And to have fresh air flowing through. Your van is such a practical way to live close to nature. Hugs from Idaho.

Love seeing you and Occy this morning. So cute Occy jumped in the river to fetch your boat. You couldn't have a better companion. Stay healthy, safe and always be grateful.

Always enjoy your videos. Enjoy the fam when you get there and safe travels.

@MaxandOccy

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Mendy! 💛

Thank you for showing real feelings which is refreshing and rare on these platforms. You’re doing great🐶❤️👍🏼

That is so true. I have lupus and it’s hard to show when I feel bad around people because I’m afraid I’m going to bring them down or they will just judge me because they don’t understand my condition.

It's so important to understand the healing strength of time alone. It is time that we all spend without much thought of alone time. Learning to be comfortable with your own self and your feelings. These are the issues that become front and center when we are alone. Quite healing and very important. Cheers Max & Occy!!

You are teaching, as you share. Truly the most important moments are the ones we are living in, but it is also imperative that plans and dreams allowed. Lovely start to my day sir.

I love how Occy is with the water. And his little wee life jacket is so cute

I love that you put your mental health front and center. Yes there is almost always only the good shown on social media. Thank you for being real. I’m quite verbal about my own mental health and it’s refreshing to see someone be so open in a place where people can be so judgmental. I can’t wait to see where you go. Thank you for sharing.

Omg occy was so pissed that that you jumped off the high swing! Lol if never seen that side of him he really loves you. Also, nature is my therapy too it gives me the opportunity to get out of my mind and just be peaceful. I love to go hike or discover new places with my dog too.

Just good to see you and Occy enjoying some time together. Keep up the talks about mental health, so important to show the tough times too. Never know who is touched by a few kind words. Take care! ☀️😊🐶🚐🤗👍🏻

"There's so many things that are out of your control, however, it's the way you react to them that is in your control..." So true, Max; great you could take advantage of the situation, spend time in Nature and have fun to boot... Occy is one awesome dog btw...

So thankful for your honesty. You model assessing yourself and finding what you need! Thank you for taking us on your sacred journeys.

Max you are such a beautiful, honest, down to earth guy.. much love to you and occy 🧡💛🧡💛

Occy's cry broke my heart. He was truly scared lol. He's such a sweet boy. What I got from this video is Occy loves you very much

I hope you continue to heal. I’m glad you have Occy by your side. 💛

Simple, realistic, honest, without posing, unobtrusive, honest and well-intentioned, regards from Europe !

Awesome to see you and Occy as always!! Beautiful spots for some time away😊

@MaxandOccy

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for joining April 💛

So glad to see U. & occy .. brings joy to my heart 💕

Lovely video. That water in the rain was so pretty, I was worried about snakes tho. You probably weren’t. Occy barking at you when you jumped off that rope swing was precious! All the best! ❤️🇺🇸

The nature and all the happy animals singing are so beautiful to listen too. Always so happy to see you and Occy. He reminds me so much of my dog 😍.

Occys like your health and safety adviser on that swing 😅. Thank you for opening up about how you been feeling. So easy for people to look at other peoples lives and compare them to our own. Even thinking other peoples lives are better but we all have struggles and no matter where you are or what your doing in the world, those struggles will follow you. And it's exactly what you said, it's how you deal with those struggles that count 🙌

Love the slow pace of your filming. Thanks for being authentic. Enjoy your time with your family. Hope it helps ease your heart to be with people who love you. And your alone time in nature with Occy was pure gold. Thx again x

Thank you, Max, for a beautiful video. Love its pace and flow, love the rainy days and time you are giving yourself and us. Fake action-packed, fast-paced videos are not my thing. This leaves me feeling so good. Enjoyable to the end... Be kind. Always. ❤️ Thank you.

Man the rain and that scenery was so calming and peaceful 😌

Thanks for touching base with us and opening up about fluctuating mood states. Even though I have been on a mood stabilizer for a couple of decades, I notice my fluctuations. Now that I’m retired, I can go with the flow with less performance stress. I enjoyed seeing you and Occy have your boys time together. Also, good choice to film in the rain anyway. See you next time.

If there is anything from lockdown I have learnt, (I'm in Melbourne and (unlovingly), call it the most lock-downable city in the world), it is to go with the flow. As an introvert I loved lockdowns at the start. I was recovering from cancer surgery, and, as a form of therapy, began making videos of all sorts of arts and crafts. Choosing what brings me joy, and what I had put off for most of my life. By now, a year and a half later, missing important birthdays, being far from family - I take each day as it is and as it comes. Whatever emotions come, sometimes days of seeing no-one and only doing some art. I don't feel like making videos so much. I feel there's nothing much to say. I'm studying and painting. I love the run away boat as a metaphore for 'this whole weird covid time and some self exploration. Do we chase it or let it go? How important is it? Does going to get the boat create a new current, a new decision, a new pathway? Making decisions to jump only when and if it is necessary. Just some thoughts as I am about to come out of the longest lockdown. It's been great to see Northern NSW, rivers and beaches. So thanks for sharing that Max. I cant wait to get going after we come out of it this Friday and get into nature.

Thanks for all the content here. Loved seeing Occy sneak down to the creek❗️My heart broke when he was worried about you though. Poor little man. He needs you just like you need him 🤎💞

You hit the nail on the head: Feeling crappy and watching others online having the time of their lives. Thank you for being authentic and honest. There has been several times in the last 6 months where I've had to stop watching some of my favorite channels, due to them appearing super giddy and I was feeling like dung.

I’ve been wondering how you were and it was lovely to see you (no matter the state of mind) out and enjoying Occy and nature. Don’t worry about the pace of your videos, they are real and lovely. I identify so much as I have gone through a major life change and my life is also in a hold pattern with options but waiting for borders etc to open again. I joined BetterHelp thanks to you and Eamon & Becca. And I too have hi’s and lows. Hang in there!

Beautiful vid Max. I am 60 years old and when I was about your age I came up with my personal mantra for coping in this roller coaster we call life. "I cannot control the things around me. I can only control my reaction to them." You said it Max. I'm happy to say that this attitude has kept me healthy, happy and successful in reaching my dreams. I loved seeing Occy tuckered out on the back of the kayak. Priceless.

Loved the slower pace vid. And yep, it's awesome being in the van when it's raining too, the sound of the rain on the roof. I find that very calming.

It’s been 6 years since my husband took his own life AND it never gets easier or better 💔 Sending you so much love ♥️♥️♥️♥️

@aussiegirl7145

2 жыл бұрын

and for me, it was my much-loved sister 3yrs ago

@mefford67

2 жыл бұрын

*For me it was a beloved nephew…* 🤦🏻‍♀️

@robynregan1096

2 жыл бұрын

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@robynregan1096

2 жыл бұрын

I am so sorry for your loss to you all. I struggle at times and the check out option seems so much better. Reading comments like yours helps me to think of my husband and those who love me and how I would transfer my pain on to them

Como alguien que ha intentado terminar con su vida dos veces, te puedo decir, esa "numb sensation" nunca te abandona, te atrapa, no se va, y aprendes a actuar a esconderla y silenciarla. Lo que haces, en cada vídeo, es compartir un poquito de esperanza que las cosas pueden llegar a ser mejores. De corazón te deseo lo mejor, porque gracias a ti y a Lee, existe un Universo Nuevo de personas con un Universo Nuevo para soñar. ¡¡OY, OY, OY PURA VIDA MATE!!

@monicamarrero5387

2 жыл бұрын

Te entiendo muy bien, yo he estado ahí también. Te envío un abrazo fuerte.

@tonifoster6253

2 жыл бұрын

I am so sorry you have been through so much. Please take each day at a time and no you are enough just the way you are xx sending you the biggest hug

@whiteeulogianraven7995

2 жыл бұрын

@@monicamarrero5387 Gracias.

@whiteeulogianraven7995

2 жыл бұрын

@@tonifoster6253 Thank you very much.

I love Occy he is my favourite vanlife dog!

Our border collie watched with great interest when you told Occy to fetch the kayak! (the storms have indeed been wild in the Northern Rivers )

So happy to see you again, I’m glad to see you taking time for yourself and your sanity. Whatever you choose for your next step I’m sure will be good and thanks for sharing with us, remember we care and are with you.

This video was super relaxing Max, and that free campsite next to the creek looks amazing!! I'm looking forward to seeing what you are up to next. Enjoy your time in nature!

That video was magical Max, love how frank you are about mental health, so important x

Understanding that life has its ups and downs is so important! Stay strong

Hi Max and Occy, so good to see you again! Loved the ‘slow’ video 😉 and sneaky Occy. The way he was looking back to see if you had noticed, was so precious. You talk about feeling good and feeling sometimes low… is, to me, so recognisable . It really takes time but the lows will become less deep and you will recover faster from them. Take care, looking forward to your new adventures. All the best to you and Occy!

Nice to see you back. Nice to see Occy and I'm sure the slower pace has been good for Occy too. He really didn't like you doing the swing, your his everything.