I’m a dude, who doesn’t have kids, and the look on her face when she said she was going to bite the bullet and suffer for her daughter made me tear up. This is a MOM. What an amazing woman.

@OctoberRiot

18 күн бұрын

These 3 are so amazing. I feel you

@southernlady5085

17 күн бұрын

Such sacrificial love! You, ma’am, are the definition of a great mother! My prayers for you. You have a new follower here. ( I deal with a chronic pain disorder called Ankylosing Spondylitis, a nasty condition that causes the vertebrae in the back to collapse and fuse together. So just know you have a fellow sufferer who understands, walking along this path w/ you. ( And you have a gem of a husband as I have, that helps tremendously! )

@pseudopuppy160

17 күн бұрын

No… it’s a victim-playing martyr, suffering unnecessarily

@sharonparker4427

17 күн бұрын

​@pseudopuppy160 how is it victim playing when she explains that all the stuff they could give her would pass on to Bean? (I still love this nickname) Not all woman want to stop breastfeeding asap. Watch the rest of their videos!

@nephalium

17 күн бұрын

I get she wants to breastfeed but here health is also very important. If she needs medicine to be able to have days that are functional then she should do that. I get breast is best to most people but I think that saying should be thrown out the window. It doesn't matter if your baby is breastfed or bottle fed as long as your child is fed. I bottle fed all my babies because I have to take medication that keeps my mental health correct, the only time I didn't take it was while pregnant cause they can cause birth defects, so my mental health suffered for that time, I did make sure my therapy sessions were upped to every week though. My little ones were making weight if not weighed more than breastfed babies. I love her thinking but I hate that she feels she needs to bite the bullet and suffer, Mama needs to be healthy herself so her baby can also be happy and healthy, only because babies can feel when Mama isn't herself and can make for one grumpy baby. She's an amazing mom and you can see she will definitely be that mama bear when need be.

A mother putting her child first and a husband putting his wife first. So much love here.

@GenerationalDisappointment

12 күн бұрын

Poor husband has no one putting him first though 😢

@sehrlimagic2689

12 күн бұрын

​@@GenerationalDisappointmentdaughter will as she grows older❤😊

@GenerationalDisappointment

12 күн бұрын

@@sehrlimagic2689 Hopefully but it's not a given like it is with mom and baby. She could very well put her mother first as she's the one who has always put her first while we put our wife first. We can only hope to be put first but we never actually expect to be.

@astartevalentine8883

11 күн бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤

@celestite__

10 күн бұрын

@@GenerationalDisappointmentwomp womp

He’s a good husband supporting a sincerely wonderful mommy - hope she has less pain

@SwordRose_Azusa

3 күн бұрын

This is how relationships should be. He understood the assignment. Mama does the house stuff. Her hubby does the providing and support stuff. And all is well with the world. Unfortunately the moms who think they can hack it single are trying way too hard and shouldn’t have had kids to begin with.

@DaraxXxDevious

10 сағат бұрын

@@SwordRose_Azusa yeah this isn't the 1950s anymore. Both parties need to provide for their life. Both parties need to raise their kid. Both parties need to care about their home. If both parties can't do that, one can just fine whether it be a single mom or single dad.

@SwordRose_Azusa

6 сағат бұрын

@@DaraxXxDevious you’re right it’s not the 1950s anymore. And you’re right, one *can* do the job. But it really is a burden that way and it makes it very hard to raise kids without both parents. Women can participate in the workforce-absolutely we can. Personally, I do not have the mental capacity to deal with a workplace that does not care about me or my wellbeing. I’m an emotional creature who cares more about being well-liked than successful. Men have more capacity for workplace stressors and ability to achieve success: solely because of the way their brains work. This doesn’t mean that a woman can’t be successful in the workforce-it’s just that I am not the typical “B*ss B**ch” that can handle that. I am soft and not suited for that life. I know much better than to take that route and fail-for the literal tenth time. I’ve done everything differently each time in hopes that the outcome would change, but it did not change. So rather than doing the same thing over and over and over again (constantly trying something different and ultimately failing), I am opting for an alternative approach-an approach that has historically worked for millennia that we have only started to deviate from in a little more than the past century and a half. If someone is raised without a mom or a neglectful mother, they’re more likely to be emotionally insecure and have social problems. If someone is raised without a dad, they’re more likely to have confidence and self-esteem problems. So yes, someone *can* be a single parent. Is it ideal? No. If I can’t be successful in the workforce and I can find someone who is on track and can support the family as a whole while I do something fulfilling-and we’re able to trust each other to get each other’s respective jobs done… then what’s the problem? It’s not the 1950s, but at least I can be secure in the fact that I’m supported and loved, and my future kids will have two loving parents who provide them with the emotional and physical needs that every child has. According to today’s society, having a stable and good childhood is a privilege. I don’t want to have kids if they’re not going to be put in the best possible situation that they can be in. Any child of mine will be well taken care of in every sense that they need. It’s not a privilege to be properly taken care of. Kids are being deprived of their needs. If I can’t fulfill their needs, then I just won’t have kids. I refuse to perpetuate the epidemic of single moms (and single dads) that has deprived children of their needs and continued to cause confidence issues in men and promiscuous behavior in women.

@SwordRose_Azusa

6 сағат бұрын

@@DaraxXxDevious you’re right it’s not the 1950s anymore. And you’re right, one *can* do the job. But it really is a burden that way and it makes it very hard to raise kids without both parents. Women can participate in the workforce-absolutely we can. Personally, I do not have the mental capacity to deal with a workplace that does not care about me or my wellbeing. I’m an emotional creature who cares more about being well-liked than successful. Men have more capacity for workplace stressors and ability to achieve success: solely because of the way their brains work. This doesn’t mean that a woman can’t be successful in the workforce-it’s just that I am not the typical Boss Woman that can handle that. I am soft and not suited for that life. I know much better than to take that route and fail-for the literal tenth time. I’ve done everything differently each time in hopes that the outcome would change, but it did not change. So rather than doing the same thing over and over and over again (constantly trying something different and ultimately failing), I am opting for an alternative approach-an approach that has historically worked for millennia that we have only started to deviate from in a little more than the past century and a half. If someone is raised without a mom or a neglectful mother, they’re more likely to be emotionally insecure and have social problems. If someone is raised without a dad, they’re more likely to have confidence and self-esteem problems. So yes, someone *can* be a single parent. Is it ideal? No. If I can’t be successful in the workforce and I can find someone who is on track and can support the family as a whole while I do something fulfilling-and we’re able to trust each other to get each other’s respective jobs done… then what’s the problem? It’s not the 1950s, but at least I can be secure in the fact that I’m supported and loved, and my future kids will have two loving parents who provide them with the emotional and physical needs that every child has. According to today’s society, having a stable and good childhood is a privilege. I don’t want to have kids if they’re not going to be put in the best possible situation that they can be in. Any child of mine will be well taken care of in every sense that they need. It’s not a privilege to be properly taken care of. Kids are being deprived of their needs. If I can’t fulfill their needs, then I just won’t have kids. I refuse to perpetuate the epidemic of single moms (and single dads) that has deprived children of their needs and continued to cause confidence issues in men and promiscuous behavior in women.

I have rheumatoid arthritis and it flared so badly when each of my kiddos was about three months old. I went as long as I could without my meds until I literally almost couldn’t do the buckles on their car seats. I decided I needed to go back on meds because I was to a point where it could be dangerous for me to handle them. I couldn’t grip tightly, walking was a struggle and it was just time.

@purpletalons7682

5 күн бұрын

My second and last kid brought out my RA and Fibromyalgia. A few years after she was born I was diagnosed. He just have to do what you have to do.

@spiritualbattle5039

4 күн бұрын

Please look into the carnivore diet on inflammatory diseases.❤

@tracim3080

4 күн бұрын

It’s dangerous kids are fine on formula. It’s studies have proven it. Women do not need to torture themselves trying to breast-feed, thinking that they would be a horrible mother if they didn’t.

@stephanieking4135

3 күн бұрын

I feel ya, cant hmove my thumbs hardly at all half the time. Its hard

@ananolastname1605

3 күн бұрын

I have three kids and I did not have the help and support that I needed to be able to breastfeed my first two but I did with my third and I was so excited and it was an amazing Bond but unfortunately when she was 6 months old I got diagnosed with multiple sclerosis and I had to stop breastfeeding her to be able to take the meds that I needed to help me out and it was so freaking devastating like really really hard to have to stop feeding her like that after the long journey that it took just to get there

“I worked so hard to get here” broke my heart 😢❤

@andrewhawksworthwood1372

25 күн бұрын

Your baby girl is precious

@louisejenkins6539

24 күн бұрын

​@@andrewhawksworthwood1372 Eh?

@lucindaojeda15

23 күн бұрын

Mine!!!! It so hard we work soo hard and sometimes it just not the path for us but damn!!

@HoneyBear13

20 күн бұрын

Cabbage leaves work

@et4615

20 күн бұрын

​@@HoneyBear13 How?

I love hpw he immediately says NO! His wife is his number one focus! Its so refreshing!

@lindsayomary8774

16 күн бұрын

Well the baby is also his number one. They both put the baby first

@edithnackers7127

15 күн бұрын

and I love how he immediately offered to do baths nightly when she set boundaries about not taking meds. So sweet and supportive.

@the_accused

14 күн бұрын

Yeah and it seems it would have been better for her and the baby if she would have bottle fed.

@karisbish

11 күн бұрын

Yes, the father of my children is such a good dad, we both focus on the children to the point that myself and him are like ghosts avoiding each other around the house. I made my parents and grandparents first time grandparents and great grandparents and I’m really proud of that but today I needed someone and I had no one. I don’t think our relationship is going to last. To anyone on the fence about children, just know it really does change every aota of your relationship with your significant other and everyone else.

@lyssakate

10 күн бұрын

​@@karisbishI don't know your situation, but I'd venture to guess he feels the same way you do. Talk to him. Maybe even read him this post. Please, you both deserve a supportive co- parent. He needs to understand neglecting his marriage is neglecting his children by proxy.

I'm in tears and Taylor saying I'll make you a bath when you start hurting. What a wonderful mamma and a wonderful daddy/husband.❤

He really is a wonderful husband, father and person. HE'S A KEEPER! ♥️

Choosing your health IS choosing the baby's health. I dont know if your baby can take formula, but I struggled for four months to feed my baby. It caused me depression everytime I pumped or breastfed. I had to pump on my conference and before and after school. It was uncomfortable and exhausting and I was so stressed and my husband, who is a huge breast-feed as long as possible guy, gently told me its okay to stop and just give her formula. My milk dried up in two days. Thats how hard I was fighting it. And i felt so much better now that I could provide for my daughter and not be as much of a zombie. Do whats best for you - but she will be fed and happy either way

@lcc8042

25 күн бұрын

They say that the first few weeks are what’s important. I had to do the same. I tried so hard…but at 3months (I think that was how old he was…it was 21yrs ago) he was losing weight and I ended up having to switch him to formula 😢 that’s when I found out he was lactose intolerant, poor baby would waterfall his milk after 5 min of feeding him.

@keylanka940

22 күн бұрын

This is so reassuring to here. Don't wanna share my story here. The guilt of changing away from breastfeeding was heavy, but the pain of doing it was way worse.

@beeech1080

21 күн бұрын

Yes THIS

@tinysatan1155

21 күн бұрын

@@keylanka940 I have no idea if this is going to make you feel better but I was a formula baby and that’s because my mom couldn’t produce milk and like somebody else said the most important part is the first few weeks of breast-feeding you do what you have to keep your baby fed, and that is perfectly fine

@Beanisbosssty

20 күн бұрын

God loves you and Jesus Christ died on the cross for you

She has the biggest, most beautiful, gray eyes I have ever seen!!! And they express her love for that pretty baby!!!

@michellepernula872

14 күн бұрын

Very rare color. As is green color. Lack of pigment.

@GDS2024

14 күн бұрын

@@michellepernula872 Very true! Went to school with a girl from Vietnam with green eyes!

@Grammichal

13 күн бұрын

@@GDS2024wow!! 😮

@kelliewhyte_85

8 күн бұрын

My fiance tells me I have beautiful grey eyes. To me, they were always just blue, so to hear this was very surprising.

I love that he is trying to help as much as he can

Hearing her say that she was gonna suffer to help her daughter eat made me cry 😢❤ she's so sweet 😊

“I can’t take the tap from her” had me dying 🤣 You guys are hilarious and so down to earth. Girl, don’t stress over not being able to breast feed. I was the same way and stuff happens. Remember, you have to be the best version of yourself to by the best momma and wifey!

@craftypetgroomer267

22 күн бұрын

😮😮

@michaelamartin6137

22 күн бұрын

😮😮

@aleenmohammed3067

22 күн бұрын

😮😮

@BerkleyColburn

22 күн бұрын

😮😮

@maryfolks9368

21 күн бұрын

Great comment and so true 🤗

So much love 🥰 The mother for their baby and the father for the mother, doing everything he can to support her. ❤

@julieelmer9176

17 күн бұрын

Beautiful parents and spouse. Good job, guys. 🙌

The greatest respect n love for all the mothers who sacrificed so much for their kids. The purest form of love. You are the real heroes moms. Yall are blessings on Earth

This is the love I want to experience. Cherish each other..people like y’all that love hard are very hard to come by.

You have to put yourself first, I had this with my kids as I have lupus and kidney disease plus other big problems. My nurse told me I managed the first 6 weeks and I’m no good to my children if I’m struggling. I know it’s heart breaking but sometimes you have to put your health first 💜💜💜💜 my kids are mid to late 20’s and they both said I should of put my health first and gave me a massive hug as I’d been carrying guilt for 26 years

@natashasullivan4559

25 күн бұрын

Yeah, I have a friend who's had a lot of kids. And not only does she not put herself first ever. But her family refuses to help her now too. And it's getting to a point where she's breaking down. And it's gonna get bad.. Not enough people realize that if you don't take care of yourself as a parent. You won't have the energy or ability to take care of others properly

@ashleysmith7324

25 күн бұрын

Carrying guilt for 26 years indicates that you are a very great mother... Your baby's love you and you did the right thing.

@Raremgt

25 күн бұрын

Release your guilt mamma, you did what you needed to do so that you could continue to care for your family. I hope you forgive yourself as it seems your babies (no matter now old they are) already have. ❤

@jenniferhorne3711

25 күн бұрын

Honey, please pick your health. You DO NOT have to breast feed and formula isn't going to seriously hurt her. I promise you she will be perfect and so will you if you take the treatment

@pearlkt

25 күн бұрын

I found being a mum over the years I’d worry myself over the smallest things and when they’re adults you worry more , unless that’s just my kids 🫶🏻😭🫶🏻

You can't pour from an empty cup momma!! Bring present is more important! She will still be fed. ❤

@andreabrown1847

21 күн бұрын

Yes! Formula is not the end of the world and it will make that baby chunky ☺️

@amandasheppard8865

21 күн бұрын

Absolutely fed is best, and you have to self care to be at your best for your babies.

@kt11540

21 күн бұрын

Yes!

I know this pain. I have been in a similar boat. When you imagine your future as a parent I don’t think that any of us imagine moments like this one. It is always idealized. These moments are purely jarring on so many levels. It’s truthfully a labor of love, parenting. And sacrifice. I think talking about the pressure…the literal blood sweat tears, needs to be less stigmatized. 😞

I teared up hearing her say “I worked so hard to get here.” I remember a year before having my daughter naturally being told due to endometriosis I’d be a guaranteed fertility case. So I was surprised but so happy to be pregnant with my daughter and nurse her. It was an emotional struggle postpartum between work/college, colic and her health. A doctor wanted to put me on meds that I’d have to stop nursing and I refused. I didn’t want to rob her or I of the nutritional and bonding benefits. My daughter is 9 now and the bonding may have worked too well 🤔 my beautiful shadow 🤣🥰

The sacrifices a Mother goes through for their children!!! You are a wonderful Mother! HAPPY MOTHER'S KAY

@simoneevans6824

18 күн бұрын

There’s no medal for sacrifices that are not necessary, for what? Stop glorifying martyrdom

@jojomasipa379

18 күн бұрын

​@simoneevans6824 Wow, a lot of compassion there. Happy mothers day to you also.

@maxsparks5183

18 күн бұрын

The horror! The horror! Trust me, your kids will do absolutely fine without your mama milk. Personally, I didn’t get any until I was 17 and my health has been great. Swear to Buddha.

@lindsayswarthout9227

17 күн бұрын

She sounds like a wonderful mother. I don’t know what medical issue she is facing - if she decided to stop breastfeeding to follow one of the treatment options from her doctor, she would still be a wonderful mother.

Hearing Tay in tears choked me up. My husband of 32 years is exactly the same and he is so supportive through my bad pain/exhaustion days which are more common now. It’s such a rare trait to have and I love that for both of you. 🌻❤️🌻

@annettewayne1988

23 күн бұрын

It’s really hard when you want them to be able to take your pain away and they just can’t for some reason or another. You just feel so helpless and all you can do is cry. I know that feeling! Hang in there Kay! You’re a great mom just please remember to take care of yourself as well!!!

@Whispersfromtheuniverse5

22 күн бұрын

Where do you find the supportive husbands

@thtawkwardnerd

22 күн бұрын

​@@Whispersfromtheuniverse5this is gonna sound so cheesy, but from my experience, by not looking 🤷‍♂️😬 it just kind of happens when it's gonna happen

@dawglover1726

20 күн бұрын

Same! It just "happened". It was all God's doing. ​@thtawkwardnerd

@cristineconnell7803

19 күн бұрын

​@@annettewayne1988Having the caring spouse/caregiver makes all the difference!❤ It makes key differences in real suffering or learning to cope & problem solve life's many challenges! My husband was the opposite I will just say! Makes the pain & misery so much worse!

Cabbage helps cool the burning. Cabbage leaves also will help.pull the milk thru so much easier

I love how he’s so supportive.

I promised myself if I can’t breast-feed my baby I am not going to stress over it. This can be such a downer for people. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I wish people had more of the mindset that the baby can be fed other way and I’m sure you know this, but don’t stress your body out it’s not worth it. You are beautiful. You are strong and you are such a good mom.

@michelewalkerwebb

25 күн бұрын

I'm epileptic. I never breast fed. My medication would have come through the milk. Never a second thought. Bottle fed. I was still there for her in every other way.

@kittyanna5240

24 күн бұрын

Searching for this comment. 👏🏻

@markdvorak6909

23 күн бұрын

You could buy baby formula

@laurencrawford8692

22 күн бұрын

I can appreciate having that mindset and I thought I would if it came down to it but there was a point where I thought I'd have to stop and I was heartbroken and that looking back was postpartum hormones heightening my emotions. Its always good to go into it with an open mindset, but the reality in the moment is often aggressively different and that's okay too.

@cd2290

22 күн бұрын

It can be wonderful but challenging. My doctor reminded me that not only does my daughter need to be fed, but more than that, she needs mom to be healthy mentally and physically. It’s so difficult to put your health first as a mom, but it’s often the most necessary for us to be the best mom we can be. I’m not sure if this treatment would be temporary for mom, but maybe she could pump and save ahead then do the treatment and pump and dump milk but keep her supply going. If need be, formula could help supplement. Sadly, parents feel so much pressure on themselves to do right by their kids and feeling like breastfeeding is the only right option places lots of pressure when in reality there are healthy alternatives.

Mama picking your health means you are putting her first you are doing an amazing job!!! Taylor you are an amazing husband and father ❤

@maryreese4822

18 күн бұрын

It's the same as being on an airplane and putting your oxygen mask on before you help anyone else. If you're messed up, then you can't help anyone else.

Her eyes are incredible... and she's a sweetheart

True love is a beautiful thing! Bless y'all! ❤❤❤

She cares so much about the baby ❤❤ i wish you all amazing health

Your such a good mummy don't you worry these things happen. I'm 8 months pregnant currently and because of my medication I can't breast feed her ☹️ makes me sad but these things can happen. I've got to rely on formula for my baby makes me sad but it'll be best for her. As long as babies being fed that's the main thing ay! Sending you love from London ❤

@VickyTheVikram

22 күн бұрын

There is nothing to be sad about. It's not going to change anything.

@thepeersfamily8020

22 күн бұрын

⁠@@VickyTheVikramit can change a lot. Formula can literally save baby lives if a woman can’t breastfed but it is in no way the same as breastmilk. There’s a tonne of risks with formula, so it can change a lot, breastmilk can’t be replicated.

@krisa3528

20 күн бұрын

Aweee sugar I’m sorry I know those feelings. You really want to breastfeed and can’t and that’s not your fault. Fed is best. If you can supplement with breast milk at all check out some of your local organizations. Plenty of people do sell their breast milk but many also donate it as well. Maybe you can catch a little luck and find someone who will donate at least some. That way you are supplementing so baby stays fed and still gets some of that liquid gold. But if not that’s ok too.

@kamivelasquez3119

19 күн бұрын

​@krisa3528 She us still nursing. She can't take the medications which help her symptoms and doesn't want to wean her baby yet, because the baby is now chunky from breast milk alone.

@krisa3528

18 күн бұрын

@@kamivelasquez3119 Yes thank you that’s what the person in the video was talking about I was talking directly to the person who commented. 😊

Good on you man. I have a mate who will literally do anything for me. He's helped me through anxiety troubles, went shopping for me and for zero praise (i do give him praise though) he deserves it. ❤

Made me cry. So much respect to this couple. It’s refreshing to see the love of family and each other on display here.

I couldn't breastfeed my son because of medications I was on because of my scoliosis. I was in too much pain and had to be on medication or I wouldn't have been there for him. He's a strong and healthy (almost) 12 year old and we have the most incredible relationship ever. Even at 12 years old, he is a momma's boy through and through and would rather be with mom and dad than with his friends sometimes. We have to put ourselves first sometimes because in the long run, it's going to be better for our kids. You got this hun! You guys are already surrounding Bean with more love than she knows what to do with. Everything will be okay. ❤️❤️

@emilymartin1172

19 күн бұрын

This comment means the world to me I think it’s what I needed to hear. My son is three and I know what’s best for us but it’s a big risky scary move, and the longer I avoid it the longer I will be distracted by this stresser in my life, thank you!! Have a wonderful Mother’s Day!

@chimeratruely3129

18 күн бұрын

Mine turns 19 in a few days. This video, & your comment took me back to being told I had to go back on my medication a month after he was born. While it was a hard transition when my son left for college, he still reaches out to me when he needs support & encouragement. I have no doubt you will be in the same position in a few years. 🥰 I hope your body is having an easier time

@brandiehammond

18 күн бұрын

Im sorry u had to go through that . I had to not breastfeed(did want to) to keep me from pulling my son away from it, due to a major surgery I had on my left chest area when i was 4 years old. It left a massive scar and the whole breast I had barely any nerve endings and when I did feel, it was like massive hot pokers auto poking non stop over and over and would last a day or two. My other side has no feeling and just at times pins n needles feelings. For that reason I wanted to be comfortable and if I wasn’t he wasn’t going to as well and was afraid he wasn’t going to get enough breast milk. I ended up never producing any milk , so with that devastation I was already prepared for formula, but it sucked I wasn’t able to. My son is 14 now and such a mammas boy as well and such an empathetic teen.

You guys are so sweet! My heart broke for her when she said, "I worked so hard to get here!" 💔😢

You fed her for any amount of time, thats winning. I had supply issues and had to stop breastfeeding at 6 weeks. I felt like such a failure and got mom shamed for not breastfeeding. You are doing a great job mama and dont let your health suffer. Baby girl will be fine on formula.

She is a wonderful mother! Her husband is a wonderful father!

Oh honey. You are so young to be experiencing chronic pain! Bean will still be healthy if you switch to formula now and you can feel better too. You have already given her an excellent start and great immunity!!

@ItalianCottonPrincess

24 күн бұрын

Ive had Lupus since I was 15 definitely not fair to loss Your whole joy of life ao young I refused to have Kids cause if it was a Girl I risked passing it on I would never wish this Horror on anyone

@trashbasket11

24 күн бұрын

I think we kinda forget that it's also a really great bonding thing for momma and baby and even though realistically it's not any different than holding the bottle it does feel different and takes getting used to that difference.

@user-zp7qf5yn4o

24 күн бұрын

I had a full spinal fusion at the young age of 12 years old and also only have 1 kidney. As I age I’ve started experiencing chronic pain. You’re never “too young” to experience anything.

@BridgetSzuminsky

24 күн бұрын

Sadly there’s no such thing as too young. Have had lupus and RA since I was 14.

@lexir7504

23 күн бұрын

@@trashbasket11it's beneficial in every way possible. for bonding for health for mom's health. formula is horrible for babies

I had to formula feed my daughter after 2 months of her being born. I cried. She's 6 years old now, and she grew to be so healthy and strong. It's ok to make decisions for our health too, we need to be healthy so we can raise them with the love and care they deserve. It will be OK, whatever decision we have to make in life, it all works out in the end. Ellie will grow short of nothing with the amazing parents she has been blessed with! xx

@annielynn8730

20 күн бұрын

Exactly. Formula isn’t poison. I wish people people stopped acting like it is.

@marimercy14

19 күн бұрын

​@@annielynn8730formula is horrible

@basheerahadams2031

19 күн бұрын

@@annielynn8730 I get that it's difficult, because for me, finding the perfect formula was challenging but, when we found it, she was a very happy baby, and her weight improved within the 2nd week of formula feeding. Sometimes our health trumps convenience and preference, and that's ok, our kids need healthy parents at all times and formula feeding really isn't as what people make it to be.

❤he’s such a good hubby❤the baby is gorgeous ❤your a great mommy! God bless You

Awwww! Kay it’s ok , u have the best hubby ever. You are an awesome mom💞😊

Chronic pain takes so much from us. Choosing your health and comfort is the best thing you can do for her health at this moment because it means you will get to be more present.

You Guys are the cutest couple ever I hope all of you are doing fine I wish the best for you guys❤❤❤❤ Edit: TY for all the likes I never ever had more likes then 5 so ty ty❤🥹

@user-sr3ip6lt9l

25 күн бұрын

169 likes and no comments let me fix that❤❤❤

@ValmueBulderby

25 күн бұрын

Ty I never got any comments or this many likes🥹 Ty

@user-sr3ip6lt9l

25 күн бұрын

CONGRATS 🎉

@brigidmcnulty4856

25 күн бұрын

hope yall get better

@iluvAJR

24 күн бұрын

Congrats on the pin

I love this kind of love... God's love! she's so sweet. bless her

He’s so good to her, action speak loudly of how much you love someone. That was so kind of him to think of ways to make her feel better. Such a sweet face on baby…enjoy your time with her they grow up so fast

I know many families that adopted so that was no breast milk...they are all fine dear. You've already done the most amazing thing to breastfeed. You did it! Now its time to be well hunny. Im a mom too and oh I know about chronic pain and health issues. We have to make sure we can be the best mommy possible.

@cariley667

23 күн бұрын

Years ago when my 1st child was born my milk dried up due to relocation of the family unit. I had to switch him to formula as the family unit relocated. His life thrived. 🎉 ❤ He is presently healthy & about to celebrate his 50th birthday this September. I don’t think it affected any of his development to have switched him to formula. U can still snuggle as U give them their bottles. That has an important role towards their development too. Please know I’m praying for U & your family. I also enjoy your content & I say: Thank U, continue !!! I’m a grandma today - 😊 ❤

@deathbloom27

22 күн бұрын

In a few years it truly won't make a difference if the baby is formula fed or BF. But a few years of chronic pain can change everything, including how you interact with your kids. I had to learn that the hard way and now I always prioritize my health.

@maryleeleach8475

21 күн бұрын

Remember what they tell you when you fly, if you have a child with you and the oxygen apparatus falls down; put yours on first. You will have time to take care of the child, but if you struggle to get the child’s on and you aren’t able to put yours on because you have passed out, who is going to take care of the child. Important rule for all of life, take care of you, so that you are healthy enough to take care of them.

@julieberry2793

19 күн бұрын

Breastfeeding can be induced in a mom who adopts! It’s a thing! I have actually assisted with it. Fennel supplements and red raspberry leaf tea can bring in more milk!

@deathbloom27

19 күн бұрын

@@julieberry2793 I follow a lesbian couple and one wife was the pregnant one and the other had her breast milk induced so they could both feed the baby. I had NO idea it was a thing until I watched them! What a relief it would be to have a partner who could do it too and not have to be solely relied upon for it lol

My sister had to stop nursing her youngest, the only one of 3 kids to successfully nurse, because she has RA and the pain became too unbearable for her to handle anymore. The medication of course would be toxic for the baby. It was heartbreaking to watch her go through, but now Katrina is 17 and she grew up strong and healthy. I know momma’s milk is the best, but if you can’t handle the pain, you do still need to take care of yourself for your baby girl. I’ll say prayers for you and hope you’ll find a way to make this work. 💕

@Mashy8722

22 күн бұрын

Aww, my father has RA and I know how ridiculously tough his life can be sometimes so your sister is a Rock for doing it while pregnant and then nursing! What a strong dedicated woman!

@snowythealicorn5784

22 күн бұрын

I always hear the debate on milk vs formula, but as my favorite KZread obgyn says, fed is best. Feed baby in whatever way works best.

@c.swinford8283

22 күн бұрын

exactly. if mom needs medications that she won't be able to function without, choosing her meds is for herself and her baby.

@thepeersfamily8020

22 күн бұрын

@@snowythealicorn5784fed is best is an awful saying, it’s a completely misinformed statement too. Informed is best. Fed is the bare minimum, you literally have to feed your baby so it doesn’t die, it’s not “best”. Otherwise you could feed them a McDonalds and it would be “best”. Informed is always best. If you know the risks of formula but the risk of breastfeeding for you is greater then you have to make an informed decision and choose what is best for you.

@snowythealicorn5784

22 күн бұрын

@@thepeersfamily8020 i meant fed is best as in formula vs breastfeeding. Im not an idiot.

Oh my heart, what a precious mom and dad!! Not gonna lie I 🥲 so sweet

Oh sweetheart!!! Look at you being a warrior!

Oh, bless you, Kay. You are a wonderful mum, and Ellie is so lucky to have you ❤

He really is one of the best husbands EVER! He is so compassionate towards her needs it’s amazing!

You have such a beautiful family!!! Congratulations!! The love and support you guys have is amazing!

Kay you are a amazing mother putting your child before you is a great mom and I hope you never forget that

You're a great mom. It just shows how much we sacrifice for our precious little Angels. I would choose the same thing Kay 😊

Now thats a momma bear right there. Shes will fight for them babies like a mommy should. God bless you sweet woman. ❤

@simoneevans6824

18 күн бұрын

Stop with your BS. Mum is no good of she is depressed! Her health comes first ! Baby would be just fine on formula and the whole family would be healthier and happier.

@lindsayswarthout9227

17 күн бұрын

She is making the right choice for her and her baby, like a mother should. In some situations, the right option is to continue breastfeeding. In some situations, the right option is to follow the treatment plan she needs so she can be healthy.

Awwww! I’m sad for you. You are a great mom, all will be well don’t worry.

GURL YOUR THE WORLDS BEST MOM EVER!❤😢

Awwwww honey…. I was devastated when I had to stop breastfeeding 😢 I had to start chemo 4 months after baby was born. My heart goes out to you. Either choice you make.

Kay you are such an amazing mom and don’t think anything other than that. You are trying the hardest you can and that is an amazing trait to have. Wishing y’all the best of luck and I hope everything goes amazing for your family❤😊

This is the cutest momma ever ❤❤❤

Your baby will be fine on formula. She deserves 100% of you. You can hold her close and bottle feed her, and she’ll feel just as loved.

@thepeersfamily8020

22 күн бұрын

You can’t say her baby will be fine on formula, formula comes with a tonne of side effects. If she chooses to switch that’s her choice she should make by herself looking into what’s best for her and her baby. But to say her baby will be fine might not be true.

@annaosipchuk9338

22 күн бұрын

What if her baby is allergic to formula?? Mine was allergic to all formula because of the synthetic iron that’s in all formula. You can’t say her baby will be fine because you really don’t know. I was told the same thing wish people just shut up and not say things they don’t know, how about encouraging the mom and keeping her uplifted saying she can do it instead of insinuating she basically give up.

@redheadgirlygirl7

21 күн бұрын

@@thepeersfamily8020I think the op’s point was for her not to judge herself if she isn’t able to breastfeed her baby. If she is in pain & needs shots to help alleviate that pain, then she shouldn’t have to suffer just so she can breastfeed her baby. I know the health benefits of breastfeeding but it is okay to give formula.

@redheadgirlygirl7

21 күн бұрын

@@annaosipchuk9338I think the op was trying to be encouraging to the mother. Clearly she is in pain if she’s going to the doctor. However the mother wants to breastfeed & that’s fine. But if she is in a lot of pain, she also shouldn’t be suffering if her baby can take formula. This video doesn’t provide the whole story, so we shouldn’t jump to conclusions about what the situation is

@The_SeoulJourner

20 күн бұрын

You can give her goat milk if you can't breastfed. Its the closest alternative to breast milk. My boss had to do this with her kids.

Super MOM!!! Taylor, you are a blessing as a husband and father. May god bless this little family

Sweet sweet family. Wishing you comfort and blessing

Aww Kay your such a good mum ❤❤

@Missmouse16

25 күн бұрын

Yes she is a good mum

I can understand 100% how you’re felling. Be strong sweetie. You got this.

It's OK if you have to stop, Kay. My mom had trouble nursing me and had to stop, but I have never been closer to anyone. 😊 No one will judge you if you stop. GIRL POWER!

You loving her like you do is going to keep her happy and healthy

A beautiful mom putting her child’s health before her own. That baby is going to have one hell of a strong role model growing up! Great job young lady ❤

@jennifercorrell1009

16 күн бұрын

Baby's need a healthy mom right? He baby isn't going to become un healthy to switching to formula

@fantuckstic

15 күн бұрын

It's not something to congratulate. She should put her health first...bc a healthy and happy mom can care for her baby better. Sacrificing her health bc she doesn't want to "cut the tap off"....it's ridiculous. She's being stubborn. She can switch to formula. Baby will be fine.

@Ab.b.e

15 күн бұрын

@@fantuckstic❤

@Ab.b.e

15 күн бұрын

@@jennifercorrell1009❤

@Ab.b.e

15 күн бұрын

❤

Their baby is so happy all the time, you can tell how loved she really is! ❤

Aw she’s such a beautiful babyyyyy ❤

Yeah it hurts but eventually it gets better ❤

Thank you Taylor, for being so supportive. You have no idea how lucky your family is to have you.

It’s ok, you’ll get through it. I wish you all the best. ❤❤❤

You both are the personification of unconditional love.

She’s getting chonky awwwwwe her sweet lil baby needs her momma and her Mommy needs her guy…. They will do it together … so sweet and I do hope those baths help you sweet pea!!!

Bless your heart mama bear! Taking care of your little one above yourself is literally the definition of motherhood. God bless you two! Love watching your videos.

@kimberlyhemminger3822

18 күн бұрын

You still need to take care of yourself to be the best mom you can be. If not no matter how hard you try you will fall short somewhere or just be so stressed that it's not good for your health. You can't take care of your children if you're not around. Plz take care of yourself and your health. You are important to. I love sometimes we just love our kids so much but it is really what is best.

@simoneevans6824

18 күн бұрын

Not true! Put your mask on first before helping others applied to Motherhood!

I have Lupus, Fibromyalgia, Epilepsy, Asthma, and Depression so i understand achy and having to make health decisions for your self before your little. The hardest decision i ever made was to put off my sons specialist appointment to go have neck surgery. Non of my sons were breast fed because of my medicine. My health had to come first and trust me my boys were chubby haha, they still are 🤷 at 10, 24, and 28 they like their food. Formula is better today than a decade ago.

@user-df9ew4pv3o

19 күн бұрын

who asked

@NessaOfDorthonion

19 күн бұрын

@user-df9ew4pv3o In case you hadn't noticed, the majority of the comments here are sharing their personal life experiences and trying to advise and comfort the mom. Sorry if that has upset you, but I hope your day gets better soon 😊

@777hc777

19 күн бұрын

If you stop eating glutten, onions, tomatoes, and red meat your symptoms and pain will go away. Also have turmeric tea to reduce inflamation.

@AnneDalton82

19 күн бұрын

​@@NessaOfDorthonionThank you for sharing and I'm happy for you and your chunky babies ☺️💜 I had post partum psychosis with my baby, so I had to stop breast feeding because I needed time away from her because my hormones were so out of wack it was insane. The worst part is my body was still trying to lactate for over a year after!! 😱 I was having aches in my breasts unlike any other for years and still to today after that experience 😩 the worst!!

❤❤❤❤❤ Love these two True servant hearts for each other

Awww …. I am so sorry Your such a good Momma ❤❤❤

I can definitely understand why you would want to choose that but you have to care about yourself also because she's going need her mom around for a long long time! 🥰

Thank you Daddy. For your loving care of your wife. Supporting her in a tough time. Mama, bless you for your willingness to suffer through just for your baby.

You are a strong momma and I’m so glad you have a good supportive husband. I remember these moments so strongly from my breast feeding days. I specifically remember being a new mom and needing dental work done but I was scared something would go through my milk and hurt him somehow (I struggle with OCD so it was all magnified with hormones also) I told them to just pull the tooth… when I came home my husband looked both in awe and terrified of me 😂 My health is always going to come second to my children’s because my love for them is the biggest thing I’ve ever known.

You two have to be the absolute cutest couple to ever exist in the history of ever! 😊

what a sweet, caring husband and father. blessings to all y'all!

You are such an AMAZING MOMMA! HAPPY FIRST MOTHER'S DAY!

@Rashnak66

17 күн бұрын

she has another kid who is at least 10yo.

@PaisleyOnthefarm

17 күн бұрын

@@Rashnak66I think 13

I'm not 😭 you are! 😭😭 Sweetest people ever

What a sweet girl. I'm glad she has a great husband to treat her well.

You’re the sweetest, most devoted, most amazing parents. You have a beautiful family ❤ And you’re doing such an amazing job, mama. 🩷🩷🩷

I know how u feel. I have ddd, nerve issues and anemic, I sacrificed alot for my son. 5 years on, it was the best decision ever.

That's priorty right there. Your a good Momma and You Sir are a good husband and Daddy

Go as long as you can. With support you can only do your best!

Your a great Mama! Prayers for your health and sweet babies also. Just know a loving Mama is the most that you can give her! You both are such sweet people. ❤️

what a wonderful little mother!!! putting your baby first is what being a great mother is all about!! happy Mother’s Day, sweetheart

@lindsayswarthout9227

17 күн бұрын

Sometimes putting their own health first is what allows women to be great mothers. She sounds like a great mom because she is making the best choice she can for her and her baby - she doesn’t have to make the sacrificial choice to be great.

@liseklerekoper2441

15 күн бұрын

Neglecting your health to continue giving your infant breastmilk isn’t something that anyone should aspire to, especially if they’re living with chronic & potentially debilitating pain. Too many women have been raised to believe that they come last & are supposed to become martyrs for everyone else & their needs, & that is no way to live. It contributes to immense amounts of mama guilt that isn’t warranted. Sacrificing her health does not make her a wonderful mother. She already is a wonderful mother, regardless of how her baby gets fed. It’s ridiculous that we put so much pressure on mothers to be perfect & then look down on moms who aren’t able to breastfeed for whatever reason. It’s insane & we’re are modeling that insanity for our children. No wonder why there is so much mama guilt if we’re not the perfect moms doing all the things … & doing it all w/ a perpetual smile on our faces. What makes this young woman a wonderful mother is taking care of her health & wellness so she is able to be fully present, mentally & physically, for her child. The unrealistic & overwhelming pressure we put on mothers to be & do all the things contributes to so many problems, including physical & psychological illness, & moms feeling they’re always falling short. Nonsense. Enough of celebrating motherhood as martyrdom. It’s not making any of us better.

Nothing is better than a healthy, chonky baby! God be with you all.

Y’all my heart is exploding 🥹🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️

Poor baby I hope you find some relief. Your entire family is just so precious!That baby is truly adorable🥰🥰🥰

You are doing a great job with Ellie! She looks so happy and healthy. Taylor, you are an absolutely amazing husband. You two rock.❤️🇨🇦

I feel so bad lol I’m so sorry for you guys you are a great mama!!!! And I’m gonna pray for you and your family I’m so sorry 😢

It's emotional to watch. I don't know these guys but it warms my cold dead heart.

In years gone by, so many women did without meds for ailments or illnesses for the sake of their babies. It warms my heart that you are a selfless mom. God bless you.

@SweetTea-Stephens

4 күн бұрын

They had wet nurses back in those days for things like this. You can buy breast milk for issues like this if you’re set on feeding breast milk. Of course only go to banks where they scan and do what’s needed to make sure it’s safe. Tons of us who fed our babies, donated extra milk for women just like this. You’re no good to your child if you’re not good yourself.

I’m so sorry, I hope everything works out ❤❤❤❤❤