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  • @WhitneyWhiteOfficial
    @WhitneyWhiteOfficial7 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, so.. "We Broke Up" 💯 Full storytime here on my 3rd channel, WhitneyWhiteOfficial Xo! ❤️

  • @marthawelch9832

    @marthawelch9832

    7 жыл бұрын

    Every young woman should see this ! Very good advice.

  • @iSitPretty

    @iSitPretty

    7 жыл бұрын

    absolutely LOVE the message in this video! I truly adore you, Whitney. you are goals.

  • @thiskenyanwoman

    @thiskenyanwoman

    7 жыл бұрын

    Someone probably already asked, but what lipstick are you wearing? 🙏

  • @JamieLeeBunch

    @JamieLeeBunch

    7 жыл бұрын

    I really, really, really love We Broke Up | Storytime because it's a reminder of me and my husband dating struggles in high school. We broke up and fate brought us back together. We eventually got married too. Simply, cuteness overload your hair and make-up.

  • @teri_p

    @teri_p

    7 жыл бұрын

    Whitney White I don't know why but I was thinking about Love and Basketball but with Love and Track lol Love you Whitney, it was so sweet of you to share this moment in your life cause we know you are a private person lol so yea I love you and Felipe together! Everytime I see you guys I just be like Awwwww! buy yea love you Whit! 😁😍😍

  • @JaysLifee
    @JaysLifee Жыл бұрын

    KZread it's been 5 years why are you bringing this up on my feed

  • @ManifestbyDestiny

    @ManifestbyDestiny

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly KZread is so messy 😂

  • @DixonNas

    @DixonNas

    Жыл бұрын

    Cause it knew their divorce was coming!!

  • @YouAdii

    @YouAdii

    Жыл бұрын

    @@DixonNas The algorithm is a gossip.

  • @Blackbritgirl1

    @Blackbritgirl1

    Жыл бұрын

    My thoughts exactly

  • @yana212

    @yana212

    Жыл бұрын

    Is this the same lady that made a video about getting a divorce and being a cosmetologist? That video came across my page last night it looks like her but it's another channel I cant remember the name now

  • @IDFK__
    @IDFK__ Жыл бұрын

    Idk why this popped up on my recommendations. After watching this and now they’re divorced, further justifies why I don’t give dudes a 2nd chances…. He never changed. However, Whitney is continuously elevating and I’m so happy for her success!😭🤗

  • @joanwalker8594

    @joanwalker8594

    Жыл бұрын

    RIGHT! It just popped up in my feed. Lol

  • @bronzeone752

    @bronzeone752

    Жыл бұрын

    Me, too! Now, I'm mad all over again. So glad she's free!! Go, Whitney, goooo!!

  • @Sheisdifferent

    @Sheisdifferent

    Жыл бұрын

    So we all had this randomly pop up but yes I totally agree couldn’t put this into better words myself.

  • @joanwalker8594

    @joanwalker8594

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Sheisdifferent Yes! It's weird lol

  • @emoo2342

    @emoo2342

    Жыл бұрын

    Right? I dunno if youtube is petty or informative. I’m excited to see Whitney take off with her growing successes.

  • @XandiiJamell
    @XandiiJamell Жыл бұрын

    KZread is trifling for suggesting this.

  • @LoveLacedRN

    @LoveLacedRN

    8 ай бұрын

    lol right

  • @acurlywonder

    @acurlywonder

    7 ай бұрын

    Ikr…😮😢😡

  • @ClaireHaire
    @ClaireHaire4 жыл бұрын

    This video hits different now, I’m wishing happiness for her.

  • @tthomas

    @tthomas

    Жыл бұрын

    I know right. That 20/20 hindsight...

  • @ladylove34
    @ladylove343 жыл бұрын

    Back then, you had to watch him date other people. Now, he has to watch you all up on the tv, building an empire. Queen moves 👑

  • @suraiyaabubakar5262

    @suraiyaabubakar5262

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yas

  • @GorgeousGemini23

    @GorgeousGemini23

    2 жыл бұрын

    This!

  • @jlivb

    @jlivb

    Жыл бұрын

    Oop👀

  • @chavaun1982
    @chavaun1982 Жыл бұрын

    In 2023.... He's still stupid. Glad that she's happy & in a different space.

  • @amamansaafriyie

    @amamansaafriyie

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @StarRoseAngelic
    @StarRoseAngelic3 жыл бұрын

    KZread is so messy for recommending this...

  • @kaytee789

    @kaytee789

    3 жыл бұрын

    Why what happened im clueless?

  • @joannajohn7298

    @joannajohn7298

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@kaytee789 apparently they got divorced. I saw the latest video and didnt know. Then I saw this video on the side...

  • @ladyt4062

    @ladyt4062

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@joannajohn7298 I thought they divorced, but I haven’t seen the video.

  • @joannajohn7298

    @joannajohn7298

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ladyt4062 yea, I thinks so. There isn't a video on it that I know of. I had just finished watching her latest video (at the time I made my comment) and it was just her and the children and a new apt, and KZread had this video after. It was curious, and I was curious.

  • @beaubeauknows3620

    @beaubeauknows3620

    3 жыл бұрын

    Right after all this time😂😂😂

  • @itsnevertoolate5216
    @itsnevertoolate5216 Жыл бұрын

    I just found out yesterday that they're divorced and today U-Tube recommends this video from 5 years ago to me. You're too wrong for this u-tube, very shady.

  • @LolaSunshine3535
    @LolaSunshine35357 жыл бұрын

    "...but I just loved myself more, I suppose..." - Preach Whitney!!! The it's supposed to be!

  • @LolaSunshine3535

    @LolaSunshine3535

    7 жыл бұрын

    *The way it's supposed to be!

  • @hausofrlateish
    @hausofrlateish4 жыл бұрын

    Wow! 3 years later... I guess the saying is true. "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time"~Maya Angelou. You deserve the best mama. Stay true to you💯😇🙏

  • @dogstyle76
    @dogstyle767 жыл бұрын

    "I loved him but I loved myself more" this is a really great advice to give to young girls 👌🏽thank you !!

  • @BarbaraDonuts
    @BarbaraDonuts7 жыл бұрын

    I let my 13 yr old watch this so she can see that if it's meant to be it is meant to be. You don't have to compromise your morals to keep someone. Great message!

  • @babyandromedan9363
    @babyandromedan93637 жыл бұрын

    "I just wanna know" --Black woman proverb

  • @madisilver460

    @madisilver460

    7 жыл бұрын

    baby andromedan 😄

  • @valeriedakota2289
    @valeriedakota22897 жыл бұрын

    "When he needed me I was there for him" story of every females life!

  • @user-e2023
    @user-e20233 жыл бұрын

    She said he knew she was always there for him... When a guy knows that you'll always be around, no matter what, he isn't going to respect you. She was his friend, but personally I wouldn't be friends with a guy that treated me rudely to begin with.

  • @Be1smaht

    @Be1smaht

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sooooooooooooooooooooooo truuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuue. You should have more likes dude

  • @SunsFlowerCreations

    @SunsFlowerCreations

    Жыл бұрын

    Yep. Red flags all in that story but hindsight is 20/20. I pray she continues to rise beautifully 💕

  • @abbi_reads
    @abbi_reads7 жыл бұрын

    "You have to look out for yourself." I say this to single women all the time. Great video Whitney!

  • @girlwiththemagicpen

    @girlwiththemagicpen

    7 жыл бұрын

    w leonard Calm down. Just because she says that to single women doesn't mean it doesn't apply to all women

  • @love4mypeoples260
    @love4mypeoples2603 жыл бұрын

    *KZread* is wicked! Never knew you had this channel and for them to put in my *recommendations* after your *divorce* is so awkward 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @mrsgigi8862

    @mrsgigi8862

    3 жыл бұрын

    Right. Same here 🙄

  • @IAmAdriaRenee

    @IAmAdriaRenee

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ditto! & I've been tryna figure out what happened between them and then this pops up from 4 years ago. smh

  • @Julissa0_o

    @Julissa0_o

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yep, it just popped up for me today.

  • @sdperry00

    @sdperry00

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here!

  • @victoriaonuigbo

    @victoriaonuigbo

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly like what the hell

  • @IjeomaThePlantMama
    @IjeomaThePlantMama7 жыл бұрын

    My blood pressure did NOT appreciate this title!! With all the drama channels popping up on my timeline, I just got really really scared😓

  • @alwaystatiana595

    @alwaystatiana595

    7 жыл бұрын

    pajamagirl123 😂😂😂she raised all our blood pressure

  • @hannahofhorror

    @hannahofhorror

    7 жыл бұрын

    pajamagirl123 Can you imagine Whitney being like "omgosh guys like I literally HATE drama but this what happened" 😂😂😭😭

  • @ashleyibuaka

    @ashleyibuaka

    7 жыл бұрын

    pajamagirl123 girl mine did not to lool

  • @LoveTheChandelierRoom

    @LoveTheChandelierRoom

    6 жыл бұрын

    Me too!

  • @Marie14749

    @Marie14749

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well now they're divorce, he cheated.

  • @ilonachance4461
    @ilonachance44613 жыл бұрын

    It's a shame he couldn't stick to his own advice...but glad Whit did. It's sad people are willing to sacrifice something so special for something incomparable. Praying for full healing for Whit and her babies ❤️

  • @infinitestar6454
    @infinitestar64547 жыл бұрын

    Whitney! You have me in tears. I ended my two year relationship three months ago because I love him so much and he wasn't loving me. I ended it. I'm thinking about him everyday and wondering how he is doing yet I know he is not doing the same. I'm glad you shared this story because I felt confused and guilty like I shouldn't feel this way when I broke up with him. It's great that you shared this because most people think the one who breaks up is the one who doesn't love. Most people never hear this perspective and you gave me an example to share and let more people close to me know how hard it has been for me even though I ended the relationship. I know I did the right thing. Thank you!

  • @CharleyCharlay

    @CharleyCharlay

    7 жыл бұрын

    Infinite Star stay strong

  • @songsofsolace1620

    @songsofsolace1620

    7 жыл бұрын

    Infinite Star

  • @sasukelover91

    @sasukelover91

    7 жыл бұрын

    Infinite Star I'm going through the same thing. I finally parted ways with this guy that I loved and still love but I love myself more. I refused to be a person that he thought of as an option. People always think that the person who broke up first is the one that doesn't care but honestly I think it's quite the opposite. It's harder when you do the right thing. But what I can say is helping me is refusing to cry because most likely the guy isn't losing sleep or crying over me. I encourage myself and remind myself that I'm worth it and you my dear are worth loving and having a person who will love you as much as God does.

  • @Ebizzill

    @Ebizzill

    7 жыл бұрын

    girl, get busy. You have so much to offer, there's a perfect man out there for you, but you've got to get up, dust off your shoulders and get busy. Sky dive? Girl, get on it? Martial arts? Giiirll.... you know it? Heck, you want to travel... get on it now! Trust me, I had the opportunity to mope around, but I decided that I wasn't going to wait and get better... I knew I wasn't get better until I filled my mind with other interests. So I got on it. Now thinking about my ex I'm like.... (gurl bye) I'm SO much more now than I was then. Wiser, smarter, healthier.. richer. ayyee.

  • @anna-mariadavis5914

    @anna-mariadavis5914

    7 жыл бұрын

    It's ok the same thing happened to me I was in a 4 year relationship with a guy who treated me very well at 1st but slowly began to treat me like second fiddle. He didn't care about my feeling and emotions and he took everything I did for him for granted! I mean I was there for him more than his own family he owned a business and I practically ran it for him (pretty dumb huh?). He made me feel ugly, second best, basically like nothing in the end my self esteem was shot! Slowly I started to come to my senses I didn't know who was I was anymore but I wasn't this girl!!!! So I left!!!!! Shortly after I met a guy a great guy who treated me the way I deserved, and guess who ass popped up? You guessed it ol' dude! I didn't want him backed he begged, still didn't budge, guess what ladies here he come with the rock in hand doing what I dreamed he would proposing but it was too late I fell for the other guy and I'm now married to the man of my dreams who has always treated me like a queen

  • @michellepreston9799
    @michellepreston97994 жыл бұрын

    I guess now he’s is going to be the player he always wanted to be.

  • @moncoeurmamour
    @moncoeurmamour7 жыл бұрын

    "LOVE AND TRACK" 😂😂😂

  • @keishacassia

    @keishacassia

    7 жыл бұрын

    vpires do i get it ☺

  • @scifianalyst

    @scifianalyst

    7 жыл бұрын

    vpires do My thoughts exactly..

  • @hanatachibaina7730

    @hanatachibaina7730

    7 жыл бұрын

    lol I was thinking of that movie

  • @chloe_aku
    @chloe_aku4 жыл бұрын

    I’m sorry Whitney. You are an amazing women who has helped me since I was in middle school. You probably won’t see this but We love you and everything will be okay ❤️

  • @shawnjones08
    @shawnjones087 жыл бұрын

    I want to see high school pics now lol

  • @crossing.the.cosmos84

    @crossing.the.cosmos84

    7 жыл бұрын

    sib what's her insta, I hafta see

  • @rpierrelouis87

    @rpierrelouis87

    7 жыл бұрын

    Dayla Renee' 9

  • @teri_p

    @teri_p

    7 жыл бұрын

    Dayla Renee' right give it up we wanna see!

  • @brilliantchic

    @brilliantchic

    7 жыл бұрын

    they have pics in an old video

  • @varonicabryant8253

    @varonicabryant8253

    7 жыл бұрын

    Chiamaka , thanks for the link info. your right.

  • @briamackey6410
    @briamackey64104 жыл бұрын

    Wow. Men do not change.

  • @youtubeaddict5663

    @youtubeaddict5663

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Buddy Darius She never men were horrible. She said men dont change

  • @rtoriq

    @rtoriq

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nope, they sure don’t. That’s why I don’t ever buy when ppl try to say marriage will change you for the better.

  • @youtubeaddict5663

    @youtubeaddict5663

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@rtoriq & thats why I no longer believe in monogamy lol

  • @youtubeaddict5663

    @youtubeaddict5663

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Licinda Stevens I totally agree with you, but statistically, more relationships break down after marriage then with two people who decide to stay together in a long term relationship (with no rings)

  • @michellepreston9799

    @michellepreston9799

    4 жыл бұрын

    For better or worse nobody talks about the worse

  • @viintaget6372
    @viintaget63727 жыл бұрын

    I LOVE everything about this story time. You didn't bash him, you didn't talk bad about him. You have such great advice to young girls and even girls your age that you don't need to compromise your morals to keep or get your guy ! Such a dope message. Your terms your way but it worked. And it was respectful and it shows the growth that you both went through. That's why I love you guys. You can see the love and growth you guys went through and now even more growth since you started KZread. So proud of you for sticking up for your morals.

  • @Genie2386
    @Genie23867 жыл бұрын

    I love that I didn't even remotely question the title of this story because your marriage is SOLID ;-D

  • @leggs4113

    @leggs4113

    7 жыл бұрын

    Miss Raquel I know right. All these commentators talking about how scared they were based off the title. 1. It says story time duh. 2. I have no doubt that these two will fight to the death for their marriage.

  • @shaystuh

    @shaystuh

    7 жыл бұрын

    Miss Raquel yes!! same

  • @Inevachange

    @Inevachange

    7 жыл бұрын

    Right ! I knew this had to be a story time !

  • @twweety9

    @twweety9

    7 жыл бұрын

    That's exactly what I said. I'm like if this isn't no click bait I don't know what is. Lol I'm like Whitney and Felipe? Please lol

  • @aliataylor92

    @aliataylor92

    7 жыл бұрын

    Miss Raquel same lol

  • @yasminholmes8824
    @yasminholmes88247 жыл бұрын

    I don't usually comment, but beautiful story and beautiful lesson. I've been a lurker for years, Whitney. The more that you open up to your viewers, the more great life/relationship lessons have been taught. Keep it up!

  • @RadiantRose217
    @RadiantRose2177 жыл бұрын

    Oh, so Whitney was the original "bye Filipe" 😂 That was a great story with awesome advice for young girls and boys. ❤️

  • @zetake
    @zetake4 жыл бұрын

    First time seeing this. It's funny how youtube is only showing me this now that persons are talking about Whitney. But when it came out in 2017 I never saw it. smh. This algorithm yes.

  • @joythompson9530
    @joythompson95307 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful Video!!!♥ Me and my ex broke up recently because he was moving on from me. I felt like he was not cherishing me (seeing my worth) and it made me feel sad because I cared for him so much; additionally, I felt like I was putting in more effort with upholding my values and morals. He started seeking advice and listening to his friends about what we should be doing in our relationship, and it made us grow further apart. This video was a prayer answered, just seeing a strong woman I really look up to on KZread, who doesn't even know me, Speak Truth. If you read this Whitney I am still moving on from him, it still stings. But I am just staying focused on God and my classes. So thank you Whitney, and I definitely think you two should do more Story Time Videos!

  • @iamieeesha9619

    @iamieeesha9619

    7 жыл бұрын

    Joy Thompson Awww don't worry you'll find someone better

  • @zenlifetv4837
    @zenlifetv4837 Жыл бұрын

    Listening to your update story of your divorce and watching this video now...Whitney you are so right with taking your videos down because this was cringe to listen to. He showed you who he was in the beginning. I noticed in the video you kept saying that he was so full of himself. But everything happens for a reason.

  • @tiara29963

    @tiara29963

    Жыл бұрын

    I noticed that as well. Sadly, seems a lot of red flags were missed. But she got some beautiful babies out of it and I’m glad she’s happy now.

  • @zs9710
    @zs97104 жыл бұрын

    3 years after this video was uploaded, it still resonates with me, especially as a young woman in her early 20s. I just got out of a 3 1/2 year relationship with someone who is incredibly toxic and while it was a hard and confusing step to take, I’m so proud of myself for doing it. Like you said in the video, I 👏🏾 loved 👏🏾 my 👏🏾 self 👏🏾 more

  • @GorgeousGemini23
    @GorgeousGemini232 жыл бұрын

    You two were my first KZread couple. I used to say that I wanted a funny caring husband like him when I grow up lol. Here I am now- grown - got married - divorced and dealing with the hand that life deals us sometimes when we think we know a person . I’m so, so, so proud of what you’ve become and what you’ve accomplished, Whit. You made something out of this KZread shit..I see you in Ulta for Christ sake. Lol. Ex hubb dropped the ball when he didn’t realize and cherish the strong and capable woman that you are. Men are notoriously stupid so it was expected lol I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s not still stalking and sniffing around in one way or another

  • @cwill30665
    @cwill306657 жыл бұрын

    I appreciate your openness. I have shared your video with my 19 and 15 year old because I love that you did not compromise your morals for a relationship. When you are true to yourself, what belongs to you, comes to you in my opinion.

  • @imgrateful7142
    @imgrateful7142 Жыл бұрын

    Past behavior is an indicator (not a guarantee) of future behavior. Move accordingly,

  • @Honestly_Marie
    @Honestly_Marie4 жыл бұрын

    We need more strong women like you. “Look out for yourself “. I feel like our generation hasn’t grown out of that phase of “what are they gonna think?” and into the phase of “what is going to make ME happy?” At the end of the day, we gotta live our lives and no one can fix anything outside of ourselves.

  • @jajajameena
    @jajajameena7 жыл бұрын

    "Not everyone has to be bad." THANK YOU for saying that. Love this post! Little young girls (heck grown women) take notes! Do YOU first!

  • @BooksAndBigHair
    @BooksAndBigHair7 жыл бұрын

    You look beautiful!! I love you and Felipe and This story had such an important message! I love that at 16 you had the presence of mind to realize your worth. 💕 great video!!

  • @KISSwithNatty
    @KISSwithNatty Жыл бұрын

    I just finished watching her latest post..Why KZread be doing that?? 🥴🥴

  • @mariemarie3614

    @mariemarie3614

    Жыл бұрын

    ...he seems 💁🏽‍♂️

  • @MeekahLynne
    @MeekahLynne7 жыл бұрын

    That's great that you recognized the relationship wasn't what you wanted ESPECIALLY AT 16! I tell the teen girls I use to work with that all the time. Stand your ground and know you are so valuable❤❤

  • @MsMamamia20
    @MsMamamia207 жыл бұрын

    Your make-up is ON POINT!!!

  • @CreateYourBestVersion

    @CreateYourBestVersion

    7 жыл бұрын

    Yasssss and skin looks so smooth and flawless!

  • @lial1776
    @lial17767 жыл бұрын

    I love how this storytime comes with a positive message. Whitney stays coming with quality content!

  • @mjgarner123
    @mjgarner1237 жыл бұрын

    Excellent!!! You are so right we as women need to know our worth...regardless of age. Thank you Whitney and Felipe. Much Love and Blessings!

  • @SisiYemmieTV
    @SisiYemmieTV7 жыл бұрын

    Lighting is perfect!

  • @QTiye88
    @QTiye887 жыл бұрын

    Whitney, you have always been strong. I am TWENTY-EIGHT years old and your words of " I didn't want to be with someone who wasn't putting the same effort as me" (and you were a teenager) hit me SO hard. Personally going through it. Thank you

  • @caroljean0220
    @caroljean02207 жыл бұрын

    Whitney, I truly appreciate you sharing this video with us as so many young girls/women need to hear this. We don't realize how many women have low self-esteem and feel that they need to be around men who degrade them, make them feel bad, etc. So this is truly appreciated. Letting women know that they are "worth" so much is so important, and they need to hear it all the time.

  • @Trinitray
    @Trinitray7 жыл бұрын

    The puff, the makeup, everything is so gorgeous I almost couldn't focus, but thx 4 sharing ur story!

  • @Faithmilon40
    @Faithmilon406 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this story, it's important for young girls to understand that it's ok not follow what everyone is doing. My daughter watched with me and it opened up a conversation on the subject, she's only 9 but Im guessing now is a good time to start those types of talks❤you have a beautiful family you two!

  • @tayyyyyyyyyyyy609
    @tayyyyyyyyyyyy6097 жыл бұрын

    Had to run to the comments before even watching....glad to know I had a heart attack for nothing 😂😂😂

  • @mesewhappy5119

    @mesewhappy5119

    7 жыл бұрын

    Girl..... y'all better stop playin. Had me in the Chic firing up my hoopty! Bean town bound, to slap some sense into the both of you. LOL!

  • @iSitPretty

    @iSitPretty

    7 жыл бұрын

    lmao

  • @Debra5115

    @Debra5115

    7 жыл бұрын

    Taylor For real... I was chanting 'no way, no way, no way' as I scrolled down to comments. 😂😂😂

  • @notwrongorright2853

    @notwrongorright2853

    7 жыл бұрын

    Taylor 🤣🤣

  • @Geezeimhungry

    @Geezeimhungry

    7 жыл бұрын

    Taylor okay !!!! 😂😂😂

  • @AFOS94
    @AFOS944 жыл бұрын

    Woooooww it’s interesting how parallel this is to what happened recently. It made me think about my old high school to early 20s relationship and how similar this is to what I experienced. It’s still hard for me to shake it even now in my mid 20s but this made me realize even more now that I have to.

  • @sweetradical
    @sweetradical4 жыл бұрын

    Came fishing for something like this after seeing you cut your hair. Proud that you were that girl! Many women today still need to hear this message

  • @azurisora9836
    @azurisora98367 жыл бұрын

    This is such a VALUABLE STORYTIME that even your children will cherish..Love it!

  • @thatsreallypretty
    @thatsreallypretty7 жыл бұрын

    You had me at that "okay" around 8 minutes in 🤣. Too real. Thanks for sharing. It's very interesting to see the similarities between your high school experience and my life right now. Putting yourself first is a must!

  • @theycallthewind3038
    @theycallthewind30387 жыл бұрын

    It was so great hearing Filipe basically reiterate everything you said throughout the video. You can tell that he did a lot of growing and reflecting after losing you the first time and it's made him a better partner. But it also shows how right your advice is, for both men and women who are dating. Knowing your self-worth is so important when it comes to all relationships, from dating to friends to coworkers. Also loved the end when Filipe talked about Olivia finding a person, and not necessarily a boy! You both are such supportive and great parents. I'm happy Olivia has two people she can always depend on.

  • @teee.1283
    @teee.12837 жыл бұрын

    Im glad i watched this video. Im a sophomore in high school right now and is constantly questioning myself because of everything that's happening around me. This video really gave me the answers that i needed ❤️ great video!

  • @wildlydiera
    @wildlydiera7 жыл бұрын

    your curls are always on point girl! Love seeing more of your life and personality on this channel. thanks for sharing with us (:

  • @xogulxo2
    @xogulxo27 жыл бұрын

    Whit I love you girl! I relate to you so much, I feel like I'm your mini-me lol. I'm currently a senior. Wish I had a "Felipe" lol it's hard out here for an old school girl with standards! High school boys and relationships these days are really dumb/crazy.

  • @CreativelyPhoenix

    @CreativelyPhoenix

    7 жыл бұрын

    xogulxo2 Having standards means you have self-respect. Keep it up gurl ✌💕

  • @trulyjeannette

    @trulyjeannette

    7 жыл бұрын

    Pay attention to what she said, when she got to college she was like, "Hello :)" because she met and dated others that he was no longer her focus. Things now as a high school senior may seem strenuous, but when you get to college, you will meet all kinds of fine men that you're gonna look at the guys in high school like, "who are you?"LOL

  • @mshellokittylover1635

    @mshellokittylover1635

    7 жыл бұрын

    Jeannette Marie Girl, I saw your reply to another comment, i needed ​your wise advices to get my life together. Thank you

  • @jayfergee_

    @jayfergee_

    7 жыл бұрын

    xogulxo2 I'M SAYIN!

  • @ebony_avae

    @ebony_avae

    7 жыл бұрын

    You're not missing out on anything but STDs, teenage pregnancy and drama lol. Wait for your husband.

  • @jasimed2456
    @jasimed24567 жыл бұрын

    I love this Whitney! It's so important that us as women stand firm in our feelings and boundaries. I feel like society expects women to always compromise, but it's important that we don't compromise our self worth

  • @samuri2011
    @samuri20112 жыл бұрын

    @17:36 hit so different now.... He sold himself out on that advice phewwwwww. BE FREE WHITNEY!

  • @itsthekayway
    @itsthekayway7 жыл бұрын

    Loved this! I honestly prefer these kind of storytimes over the extremely dramatic ones 🤷🏽‍♀️❤️

  • @sawnxoxo9744
    @sawnxoxo97444 жыл бұрын

    It’s crazy how men can get on KZread talk all this bullshit and still embarrass you by cheating.

  • @winter5988

    @winter5988

    4 жыл бұрын

    Where’s the proof

  • @sawnxoxo9744

    @sawnxoxo9744

    4 жыл бұрын

    Em ykw I don’t know but it’s been a thing that naptural85 and him divorced because he cheated

  • @anyahm1179
    @anyahm11797 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the story time, but more importantly, thank you for getting back together and coming on KZread!!! You guys are such a great couple and such great people individually. And I'm glad you did what was right for you Whitney, it's a great way to live and great advice!

  • @eveyjones5
    @eveyjones57 жыл бұрын

    I really appreciated the telling of your story and I am super happy that you did so. It is important for young women and girls to hear these kinds of stories with an emphasis on "Self-Worth" and as well not allowing peer pressure to push them into a situation they're not ready for. It is also wonderful that your husband cooperates with you by adding his own personal feelings about that time in your history and to explain what he took away from the situation. I do hope your story is heard by those young ears whom really need some good sound advice. You are doing such a wonderful job with your channels, keep up the awesome work. I really like how you draw your viewers in with the title of your videos. They really stand out amongst all the others and they are catching enough so that all of the right information is heard.

  • @boutux
    @boutux7 жыл бұрын

    I love that Flippe popped in and confirmed everything you said. And his advice for men is perfect. They should be mindful before they mistreat women that they could become fathers of daughters and treat women the way they would men to treat their daughters.

  • @politereminder6284
    @politereminder6284 Жыл бұрын

    Wassup with the algorithm? 😳👀

  • @SunkissedOriginal
    @SunkissedOriginal7 жыл бұрын

    Excellent advice you two! This video needs to be shared at every High School!

  • @chriss7172
    @chriss71726 жыл бұрын

    Girl I have chills!! Girl your words and positivity are so inspiring I wish so many women could hear this and definitely want to share with all three of my kiddos my teen boys and my 6 year old in a few years.

  • @kesirandall2755
    @kesirandall27554 жыл бұрын

    You are awesome! This is going to help so many people no matter what age and stage one is in their relationship. I have been following you for a long time and yes this is definitely a proud past moment! Love this and so agree! Know your worth!

  • @MsVaughnKitty
    @MsVaughnKitty7 жыл бұрын

    Don't even know how much I needed to hear this today. ☺️

  • @ablackgal
    @ablackgal7 жыл бұрын

    I genuinely enjoyed this storytime. I even cracked a few laughs at your commentary. I love how down to earth you are and you aren't afraid to be yourself. I did not feel like I was watching a KZreadr storytime but a best friend telling a story.

  • @alaineemiller6008
    @alaineemiller60087 жыл бұрын

    This is literally what I'm going through right now. Your words are so empowering and I just absolutely love what you stand for! God bless you and your family!😊

  • @LilyB793
    @LilyB7937 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for posting this story, Whitney. I broke up with a guy I've been dating for 4 months a few days ago. I wanted to be with him so much, but deep down inside I knew it wasn't right and I deserve better. I wanted more and he couldn't or wouldn't give that to me.

  • @LilyB793

    @LilyB793

    7 жыл бұрын

    w leonard Thanks love. I fell for the companionship and the conversation. My favorite part about that person was talking with them and spending time with them. They weren't in the position to give me what I wanted.

  • @briolivia
    @briolivia7 жыл бұрын

    aaaaaaye dial up generation 🙋

  • @OnyinyeNwokorie

    @OnyinyeNwokorie

    7 жыл бұрын

    Bri Jackson lmaooooooo 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Younggurlmajic

    @Younggurlmajic

    7 жыл бұрын

    Bri Jackson 🙌🙌

  • @JNikki2001

    @JNikki2001

    7 жыл бұрын

    🙋

  • @musiclady0711
    @musiclady07117 жыл бұрын

    I gotta say this was a pretty awesome story! When we're young we can't really see what restrictive upbringings are trying to help us with, but when you're able to determine what you just don't want to do, it saves you from massive heartbreak. So kudos Whitney! It is also super awesome that date brought you two back together again. So beautiful ❤️

  • @blacksoulsunnie
    @blacksoulsunnie7 жыл бұрын

    This is awesome!! & your "awkwardness" is appreciated over here! Lol It helps me to relate to you! This entire story time did!!!

  • @rachelmm05
    @rachelmm057 жыл бұрын

    thanks for sharing☺ i dated a guy my freshmen year in college. Even though he was nice, we were complete opposites and he was pressuring me to have sex. As a 18/19year old it wasnt gonna happen. i knew my self worth so, i broke up with him and so glad i did... a year later i started dating my then boyfriend. we dated for a yr then he broke up with me cause he wasnt ready for a full committment. it tore me up but i knew i wasnt gonna chase him down. Then one day he calls me, asked to meet, we talked, he apologized, etc asked if we could get back together. we did, got engaged a few mths later and got married at the end of that year. that was over 15 years ago and we are still together☺...a good man will come to his senses and get his lady a boy keeps playing games.

  • @netsanettesfay1323

    @netsanettesfay1323

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wow I love your story.

  • @ashleyinwonderland6804
    @ashleyinwonderland68047 жыл бұрын

    I love when you guys talk about your relationship lol. Your couples 123 tag is hands down my favorite. BTW you look BEAUTIFUL Whitney.

  • @CookyNYC
    @CookyNYC7 жыл бұрын

    Excellent Whitney and Phillipe! Great job sticking to your morals Whit and for teaching young men and ladies how they should conduct themselves. Livvy is a blessed little girl with parents like you both.

  • @tluvjonze8452
    @tluvjonze84527 жыл бұрын

    i love that you made this video! so many young girls get caught up in peer pressure and end up selling themselves short. i love that you are such a strong woman that doesnt need anyone to give you worth and im glad Felipe came to his senses lol.

  • @guinabells
    @guinabells7 жыл бұрын

    awesome. ..I grew up around my hubby also , we were friends before we seen each other as someone to spend the rest of our life with....thanks for your story being friends 1st helps alot

  • @KatNaturalBeauty
    @KatNaturalBeauty7 жыл бұрын

    Girl I remember AOL messenger, lol, we are not old. That neck roll though, that's so me. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Love this video, very positive message.

  • @uncagedlearning

    @uncagedlearning

    7 жыл бұрын

    Yes! Same here. lol

  • @RainShower1st

    @RainShower1st

    7 жыл бұрын

    Kat Natural I remember that and I'm 19 😂

  • @christinaward174
    @christinaward1747 жыл бұрын

    I love you two so much! Whitney it is so special that you are able to share this sort of encouragement to the younger folk who are growing up in an age of much pressure to be older than they need to be. Having access to social media like KZread is such a blessing in this case. The floor is constantly open for conversation and communication about these things that seem so little but will become huge pastimes for the younger generations as they were for all of us. Kudos to you for exercising such integrity at a young age! Also, I LOVE that you both were track stars! Me too! (100, 200, 4x1) Aye!

  • @kesi30404ever
    @kesi30404ever7 жыл бұрын

    I love the fact that you know who you are to be comfortable to share your stories. I think back to my high school days and this wpuld have helped me sooooo much I looooooove it

  • @KatBeautyandBeyond
    @KatBeautyandBeyond7 жыл бұрын

    This is THE video. Great message, hopefully many boys and girls, men and women get to see this video. Can I just send this directly to a specific person??😂

  • @live42dayk1
    @live42dayk1 Жыл бұрын

    Wow I never seen this before. Didnt even know this channel existed. Interesting to watch this video now. Thanks youtube for showing it in the recommend section but weird though to pop up.

  • @silverfoxjohnson9390
    @silverfoxjohnson93907 жыл бұрын

    Great story and truly knowing to respect ones self is awesome. Glad you two stayed in touch, you both grew.

  • @thabeautiful1
    @thabeautiful17 жыл бұрын

    My favorite KZread couple! Thanks for sharing the good, the bad and the ugly. It was like listening to a fairy tale. True love does conquer all.

  • @sabrinawhite7185
    @sabrinawhite71853 жыл бұрын

    I'm here in 2020. Sorry to hear about your divorce. God bless you and your children.

  • @JennyClaire789

    @JennyClaire789

    3 жыл бұрын

    They broke up when they were boyfriend and girlfriend. They are not divorced lol

  • @celesterae2154

    @celesterae2154

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@JennyClaire789 it's been reported she filed for divorce. Is that a lie going around now? UPDATE: I just watched her IG story, from her on words, they are not together.

  • @JennyClaire789

    @JennyClaire789

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@celesterae2154 At the time of reading the post I assumed others mistook the video of breaking up in marriage instead of what the video said as bf/gf. That why I responded the way I did. I usually don't feed into social media spreading things if it was for trends. I just now found out with very few valid resources that clarified they are no longer together which I did not know. So now I know they are no longer together. That's what I get for not being in social networks as much lol

  • @celesterae2154

    @celesterae2154

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@JennyClaire789 I didn't know either so that's why I asked my initial question to you and then thought to myself, "Ummm, research for yourself". I was also surprised as I'm not into people's lives like that either. It is a sad thing to learn, but hope everyone is adjusting well. It's not an easy decision to make.

  • @Eyerusalem_

    @Eyerusalem_

    3 жыл бұрын

    What??? Am here in 2021 I did not know they are divorce. I have been following Witt for so long

  • @pinkchilldivestmentor
    @pinkchilldivestmentor2 жыл бұрын

    KZread is so messy for recommending this. I was wondering if you guys had broken up but of course I wasn’t going to ask that question

  • @dianesehoward
    @dianesehoward7 жыл бұрын

    I've been watching your videos since the very beginning. I've loved the development of your tutorial styling, music(especially in your very earliest videos), and lifestyle storytelling. Keep up the great work and congratulations on the new baby.

  • @NotBrokeForLong
    @NotBrokeForLong7 жыл бұрын

    Such wisdom at such a young age. I wish I had the confidence you had at 16 I would've realized my worth a long time ago. Love it Whitney!

  • @jademoonraven7840
    @jademoonraven78407 жыл бұрын

    Great message for young girls, and older women alike! You rock.

  • @DiscoveringNatural
    @DiscoveringNatural7 жыл бұрын

    There is a famous quote that says: If you love something, let it go. If it returns, it’s yours; if it doesn’t, it wasn’t. If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they’re yours; if they don’t they never were. I am so glad you both are together. Here is to growing old together. Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @Ohyousunflower

    @Ohyousunflower

    3 жыл бұрын

    God i hate that quote

  • @Ms.NoNo2

    @Ms.NoNo2

    3 жыл бұрын

    This certainly didn’t age well 🤣

  • @krystalroney

    @krystalroney

    3 жыл бұрын

    😬

  • @tammy6907

    @tammy6907

    3 жыл бұрын

    I believe they’re divorced now! 😔

  • @ChantalesprettylittleDIYS

    @ChantalesprettylittleDIYS

    3 жыл бұрын

    If they come back it's because they found out the grass wasn't greener on the other side. Never go back to a person who broke you

  • @Adelster
    @Adelster7 жыл бұрын

    I am glad you brought Filipe at the end of the video to put his two scents in. Everything happens for a reason and truly happy you two found each other again!

  • @chantal2920
    @chantal29207 жыл бұрын

    This was so lovely! I've been watching since u and Philipe lived in different spots and I remember how shy he was and how careful u were about what u shared with us. To see the evolution is heart warming

  • @sweetnyouniq
    @sweetnyouniq7 жыл бұрын

    I f*cking LOVE your makeup!!!

  • @Josh-el1lr

    @Josh-el1lr

    7 жыл бұрын

    Why'd you capitalize lady? Are you emphasizing her gender to further your point that she deserves a level of respect? You don't have to be a lady to deserve respect. Matter of fact you don't even have to be human. ALL living things deserve respect. And plus, she was complimenting her. It may not have been in a way you deem acceptable, but that's just how some people talk. Leave her be

  • @BREANNA1234567890123

    @BREANNA1234567890123

    7 жыл бұрын

    Josh George you're being SO extra with this comment. There was nothing negative about what w Leonard said 🙄🙄🙄😒

  • @TheNormalOddball
    @TheNormalOddball3 жыл бұрын

    It took me until now to realize the blog channel hasn't been updated and this fool isn't on her Instagram. I'm glad she's healing but damn this is an eye opener. Like I bet she looks back on this and is like ooofff.

  • @EpicRealistTV

    @EpicRealistTV

    Жыл бұрын

    Right!

  • @amamansaafriyie

    @amamansaafriyie

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @nab239
    @nab2397 жыл бұрын

    Love this. So many women and girls need to hear how you handled your situation