It took me many years to understand that forgiving someone who has hurt us is in fact for our own peace and to stop hurting ourselves. Forgiving is not easy but brings such calmness in life

@touchwoodofgod9196

3 жыл бұрын

sir ki bate mujhe etna heal kr deti h ki me unko words me nhi bta skta

@GTDGAMINGTILLDEATH

3 жыл бұрын

Forgive for them too because somewhere or the other even they got hurt! Shit happens because of both sides, nothing is one sided. If you were subject to bad behaviour or insults out of anger then you also gotta closely observe WHAT made the other person react like that! No one will say shit out of the blue moon without any reason! Forgiving only for yourself is nothing but selfishness,it only funnily means that you really haven't moved on and have only forgiven to satisfy your ego.

@vanitanaga1280

3 жыл бұрын

@@GTDGAMINGTILLDEATH To each his own 🙏

@GTDGAMINGTILLDEATH

3 жыл бұрын

@@vanitanaga1280 agreed!👍 Hope you find people who would treat you nicely and with same enthusiasm! We all deserve to be loved unconditionally.

@virensridhar9985

3 жыл бұрын

But a dog who has bitten you once has the potential to bite you again... That's why I find it very difficult to forgive and reconcile with a person who hurts me even once... Because if I do, the person will again hurt me in future...So you just have to recognize sometimes that such person is not the right person to have a close relationship with...

Forgive, not because they deserve forgiveness.💔 But because you deserve peace. 😊❤️☮️

*Forgive not for the other person, but for your own peace of mind.*

@himal_pillay

3 жыл бұрын

@@SA-jj3em absolutely. Time heals :))

@foodie1885

3 жыл бұрын

Superb

@himal_pillay

3 жыл бұрын

@@SA-jj3em I've made a video on this! have a look if you want :)

@GTDGAMINGTILLDEATH

3 жыл бұрын

I feel it depends a lot on what connection you have with the person, sometimes forgiveness and apology both aren't required at all!

@GTDGAMINGTILLDEATH

3 жыл бұрын

Because sometimes like guruji said, in a close relation We say thing's We don't mean so it's up to both of the people understand this and at the same time remember all the great things which We have done for each other, all the lovely moment that We have spent together and move on instead of looking for an apology.

Maturity is when you know the art of letting go! U r superb sir.. Loads of respect for you

@virensridhar9985

3 жыл бұрын

Letting go is different and forgiving is different

Forgive someone even if they are the reason of your tears and distress, it does gives you peace of mind and also forgive yourself in your heart for hating that person

@shreehari2681

3 жыл бұрын

I Forgive But Not Able To live like before again . my Life is completely different Now

@gourabghosh3455

3 жыл бұрын

@@shreehari2681 i think u have understood the mistakes which u did previously ... now start a new journey .... start your new life ...and try to life your life with enormous joy and try not to commit the mistakes which u did previously , okay ?? Btw good morning and have a good day😊🤗

@enjoyfullife-naturalminimu6534

3 жыл бұрын

Propaganda of a Betrayer and FAKE, FAKING Others!! In whatever we do in life, we look for essentially one thing! How do we get that one thing? What is the process to achieve it? Take a look to know the answer BE ORIGINAL instead of Sinking with Man made. As the Original God has created you as Smart and intelligent, find out that Original God who has created good things on Sky and good things on the earth than following the Man created and made Religions and Gods and following them like a fool.There are a Minimum of 199 Man made Religions and their Gods. Man copied the Scripture of Original God. God has NOT created any Religions on the earth but Man Created Religion and God. Find out your number from it, 5 You shall Not bow down to them or worship them ……….. the LORD your GOD am a jealous GOD, punishing children for the inequality of parents to the third and the fourth generation of those who reject me.: 7 You shall not make wrongful use of the name of the LORD your GOD, for the LORD will not acquit anyone who misuses his name,

@sahiba2087

3 жыл бұрын

And it also motivates them to do more wrong n bad deeds. Isn't it?

@shreehari2681

3 жыл бұрын

New Journey Joy i m living Still Not THAT Happy No Emotions Or Puri zindgi Kharaab Hone k Baad Galti Pta chalne ka Koi Mtlab Nai Wkt Pr Paani dvaai zrurii Hota Hai

This same story i've read in your book "Amazing secrets of life" Guruji.

@aradhanaekmallick4585

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@enjoyfullife-naturalminimu6534

3 жыл бұрын

Propaganda of a Betrayer and FAKE to FAKES!! In whatever we do in life, we look for essentially one thing! How do we get that one thing? What is the process to achieve it? Take a look to know the answer BE ORIGINAL instead of Sinking with Man made. As the Original God has created you as Smart and intelligent, find out that Original God who has created good things on Sky and good things on the earth than following the Man created and made Religions and Gods and following them like a fool.There are a Minimum of 199 Man made Religions) and their Gods. Man copied the Scripture of Original God. God has NOT created any Religions on the earth but Man Created Religion and God. Find out your number from it, 5 You shall Not bow down to them or worship them ……….. the LORD your GOD am a jealous GOD, punishing children for the inequality of parents to the third and the fourth generation of those who reject me.: 7 You shall not make wrongful use of the name of the LORD your GOD, for the LORD will not acquit anyone who misuses his name,

@moharmitra519

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly chapter forgiveness, right?

@touchwoodofgod9196

3 жыл бұрын

me too but sir's voice is so magnetic i love to listen sir's sound

@goodvibes3571

2 жыл бұрын

I hve just started reading this book 2-3 days back

To forgive someone is tough but when you do it, your soul feels much better.

@shreehari2681

3 жыл бұрын

Not Always Even if Forgiving , Pain is There ZAB koi Bimaari k drd se mr Raa Hota Hai TAB Koi motivation Kaam Ni aata

@UnwindDivine

3 жыл бұрын

And that what is important right Sahil?

@virensridhar9985

3 жыл бұрын

In my experience, you can forgive, but the person will hurt you again

Often forgiving someone is easy but forgetting and trusting again is the difficult part.. waiting for the video Sir 🙏

@ASR_4_U

3 жыл бұрын

💯

@shreehari2681

3 жыл бұрын

i Forgive But Not Have SAME Feelings of Love Life again Very difficult to live

@vksomji

3 жыл бұрын

Yes I agree with your thoughts.👍

@promesthetic

3 жыл бұрын

My friend back stabbed me..She just shattered me at that moment. Maybe i forgave her for her hypocrisy but even after facing me afterwards she showed as if she hadn't done anything..You're right forgiving is easy but not forgetting..

@sangeetanair1209

3 жыл бұрын

Very difficult to forgive and forget....

We are blessed to have you Prabhuji💓🙏 so proud to be a part of Krishna consciousness for so many years 💕 Hare Krishna 💓🙏

Such a deep concept but so lucidly explained. Guruji, you are great!

Forgiveness displayed by you is simply exemplary prabhuji...dandavat .this gives all of us great strength and confidence in Krishna consciousness .hare Krishna ! ! !

Thank you God for recommending this video. And Dad I Love you ❤️

Thank you for this video.. Guruji.... From now.. Whenever I'll feel anger for somebody... I'll remember your msg.... I should memorize all the good things... That the next person had done for me....

Thank you so much for this video, a friend hurt me very badly in the last week and embarrassed me and I have found it difficult to reconcile until I watched this. Hare Krishna 🙏

Yes yes I have read this chapter in your book "Life's Amazing Secrets" and I did love this story a lot ❤️.... So much of my doubts went away just by listening to this story ☺️ Your stories come exactly at the time when I am in doubt relating to that very particular thing that you talk about in the story....I don't know how does this happen but I am really really grateful for all your teachings.....❤️ I don't know whether you will read my comment or not but Thank you so much for always guiding me to the right path even from distance....❤️❤️❤️

Each word has encourage and highly motivate give positive energy....

I had tears of joy in my eyes... Feeling calm

Forgiveness is the only thing we should follow to be as a kind person..

It's simply wonderful message by GGD ji

Very touching message

What a wonderful message

What a wonderful message sir. Wish everyone who has wronged someone and truly repents, receives forgiveness from them.

So wonderful message to get inspiration

"People are not bad from heart, it's just the situation or the circumstances which is the cause of their particular behaviour at some point of time"..my husband's saying..... I thought about it several times (aise hi) but when I started observing people's behaviour, then I realised the true meaning of this line..and it's very true...as Guruji truely said, have a pause button and go in memory lane, think of his positive and the importance of her/him in your life...which is heavier..the life with him or without him... Go with emotions...and believe me, you will get your answers and forgive that person from your heart... Jyada ho to " JAADU KI JAPPI" bahut kaam aati hai...Save your relationships and CHILLLLL , kyuki " yahan se Zinda bach ke koi ni jaane wala" 😊😊

@erroldcosta9674

3 жыл бұрын

Wow I really like your way of thinking. Superb. 👍👌👏🙏🌹

@enjoyfullife-naturalminimu6534

3 жыл бұрын

Propaganda of a Betrayer and FAKE, FAKING Others!! In whatever we do in life, we look for essentially one thing! How do we get that one thing? What is the process to achieve it? Take a look to know the answer BE ORIGINAL instead of Sinking with Man made. As the Original God has created you as Smart and intelligent, find out that Original God who has created good things on Sky and good things on the earth than following the Man created and made Religions and Gods and following them like a fool.There are a Minimum of 199 Man made Religions and their Gods. Man copied the Scripture of Original God. God has NOT created any Religions on the earth but Man Created Religion and God. Find out your number from it, 5 You shall Not bow down to them or worship them ……….. the LORD your GOD am a jealous GOD, punishing children for the inequality of parents to the third and the fourth generation of those who reject me.: 7 You shall not make wrongful use of the name of the LORD your GOD, for the LORD will not acquit anyone who misuses his name,

@erroldcosta9674

3 жыл бұрын

I believe that everything on this earth which is “ good “ and that which takes you to follow the right path is Godly. God = Good. Other religions also teach us to be good human beings . So how can I term them as bad? No way. You are a Christian by the way you are quoting verses from the Bible. I am a Catholic. But I see all around we so called followers of Christ do the most treacherous and disgusting things to other humans. That’s what Jesus said “ stop behaving like hypocrites “. Practice what you Preach . That’s exactly what we are not doing. Reminds me of the song by The Eagles “ Last resort “. Perfect for people who have made God a business. Good = Good. Nothing else matters. 🙏

@touchwoodofgod9196

3 жыл бұрын

i just love sir's way of talking........i agree with you

Forgiveness is only the key,you speak on todays life guruji it's very amazing thanks for teaching us life lessons.

Forgive n move on - yes prabhuji .we are sincerely grateful to you for this powerful lesson ! Hare Krishna ! ! !

He has made our thinking better.....jai prabhu jii🙏🏻🙏🏻

@enjoyfullife-naturalminimu6534

3 жыл бұрын

Propaganda of a Betrayer and FAKE, FAKING Others!! In whatever we do in life, we look for essentially one thing! How do we get that one thing? What is the process to achieve it? Take a look to know the answer BE ORIGINAL instead of Sinking with Man made. As the Original God has created you as Smart and intelligent, find out that Original God who has created good things on Sky and good things on the earth than following the Man created and made Religions and Gods and following them like a fool.There are a Minimum of 199 Man made Religions and their Gods. Man copied the Scripture of Original God. God has NOT created any Religions on the earth but Man Created Religion and God. Find out your number from it, 5 You shall Not bow down to them or worship them ……….. the LORD your GOD am a jealous GOD, punishing children for the inequality of parents to the third and the fourth generation of those who reject me.: 7 You shall not make wrongful use of the name of the LORD your GOD, for the LORD will not acquit anyone who misuses his name,

Thank you Gopal Das Guruji ❤️

Absolutely....yes,I understand...Yes,sometimes you are thrown away and you feel like trash and deep down the hurt and negativity is too much because its by a close person...But,yes,its better to not talk abt it or try to remember good times to forgive the other person. But,what I have been practising is forget rather than forgiveness...However,forgiveness is little difficult but,I will try to..after watching this video of your's..Thank you so much ji. 🙂🙏🙏👍🏻

Thanks for sharing your own life experience, it touches us more than anything else.

Forgiving someone close its truly tough. However we forgive but, don't forget. Definitely with all due respect of love and good memories we forgive, but forgiveness also doesn't come from one side it's mutual. If it's mutual it's create further stronger bond because one who hurt also consider for take responsibility to not either repeat the same or also discover why it happens otherwise it's can't be healed. Sometimes it's good have also thought to forgive with understanding something happened for a reason or for a season.

Thank you Guruji for helping us pass through these tough times. 🙏🙏🙏 Wish people understood the other end of the story.

One of my fav lessons from prabhuji's book lifes amazing secrets❤️🙏

Very true . Thank you prabhu ji

Wow... A beautiful message ❤️ Thank YOU Prabhu Ji🙏❤️🎉

Watched so many of your videos just to find this ... actually what I needed right now. Clarity.😊🙏 thank u guruji

Before this i was spending life, now am living it. ❤

A truly enlightened soul

Amazing spirit & thinking

Biggest pray or thing in this world is to LOVE Biggest charity is to FORGIVE BUT WITHOUT KEEPING EXPECTATIONS

@IshaSharma11

3 жыл бұрын

So true

True....wonderful message...🙏🙏🙏🙏

Forgive hits different!💥

All these lessons are full of deep insights. Every video of this monk I watched taught me something great which I could not have learned on my own....

@sagarshende192

3 жыл бұрын

Initially I felt it works but it doesn't work really because unless people realize true Krishna consciousness they act according to their whimsical mind. I regret to say that I was absolutely wrong about these videos. I have realised it now. All Glories to the Lord and all his eternal servants

We can forget only if we forgive someone first.it really helps decluttering your mind. Only for your peace,forgive.thanx for the nice video

Sir thank-you for this morning lectures, it had blasted me with good & great potential energy this morning 😃🙏💖

There are no words to describe how gurujii relate our life into spirituality... Amazing stories.. Which will inspire me everyday.... Thankyou @gaur gopal das... ❤❤

Hare Krishna Prabhu ji🙏.. Very awesome and inspiring real story this was.. I have also read this in book written by you☺️

A few minutes of pause or silence diffinely save in any relationship or save up our a lot of anger words at that very moment. If ppl understand this truth, worriesless life we have. I'd watched it before, but now I'm still felt like a fresh new one reminder to myself. Thank you Guru ji! Hare Ram! Hare Krishna!!! 🙏❤

Great share Prabhuji. It happened to me too once ..and I guess probably everyone faces such a situation in life where he or she feels absolutely lost and awkward. But it totally depends on the person how we decide to deal with it. 😊 good morning to all. Have a great day.

Guruji you are so so cool and so godly. Please continue to help me affirm your thoughts. Om tat sat

I have listened earlier before it sounded nothing useful for me, but I am seriously hurted now by my close one, I can actually relate it, it feels good now. Thank you🙏

Whenever i go through an existential crisis...u help me out of that prabhuji.....thank u❤️

Thank you so much sir. ...🙏🏻😊🙏🏻 For sharing this valuable lesson

Acceptance and forgiveness are the greatest strengths we possess..❤❤

Great GYAN

as always he has absolutely Top values in every aspect he had shared. Thank u very much 🥰

Pranam guru ji... It's a speechless video.. outstanding thoughts. In normal life it's not so easy to pause the moment but hereafter I will think on this video and try to press a pause and delete button. Thank you guru ji 🙏 pranam

I too believe in it F&F formula.. Forgive & Forget. Thank u Prabhuji for such a wonderful video. 🙏 Stay healthy and keep sharing us such spritual and motivated videos.

Very difficult to forgive a person who hurt us. But what a lesson of forgiveness 🙏

I needed this , can't thank enough for the wonderful guidance/ sharing of experience, hare krishna

Excellent lesson for all of us to learn. Thank you Sir. Rushen,Trishen and Suminthra Oojugir Kwa Zulu Natal South Africa

i needed it very much. Thanks alot sir .😄

Thank you prabhu ji for such beautiful and motivating videos ☺

Often a Pause made while in different situations can help to maintain relationships. We have to evaluate what is more important, the situation or the person. And the pause at right time helps. Thanks Prabhuji for the insight.

Nice video...👍forgiveness is proportional to the respect we have for the other person and also proportional to our humility..second factor is universally applicable..

I have read the same story in his book ' Life's Amazing Secret' U know what, when I read the title of this video, at once that story clicked in my mind and I clicked this video 😅 and I was right this is the same story Sir you are a really great personality of India and a truly amazing gift for us And for you all I suggest you all must read that book it's really wonderful

What a great thought.... We are so blessed with mentor like u🙏🙏🙏

Fantastic explanation. It is true that people who are close to us only hurt and very practical solution that we must also count the depositories by them in our life and exclude this particular withdrawal.

Very inspiring!!!

Thanks for everything ❤️❤️

A Guru is a Guru dispells ones darkness in which ever way he sees right thank god I have been blessed with more than one

Thank you, may u always be happy 🌻

Press the pause and after react n respond 👍 guru ji extraodinary one my Pranams to u ji..

his words are more than anything !

This vid made my day🙌 thankyou @gaurgopaldas 🙏

One of the best ....🙏

Radhe Radhe 🙏🙏🌺

I liked ur lecture.

Thank u Guruji.God Bless You.

Thank you Guruji🙏 Shat Shat Naman

Amazing 🙏

moved by hearing this live example on how and why to forgive...

Such a genuine person you are ❤

@UnwindDivine

3 жыл бұрын

That he is. Right Isha?

Guruji had also shared this story in his book 'Life's Amazing Secret '

Well said prabhuji🙏

This is so helpful really easy simple but effective thank you gopal god bless u

Thanks a lot sir... ❤️

Thank you sir ❤️ Love from Bangladesh 🇧🇩

Excellent lesson Prabhuji. Hare Krishna 🙏🏻🙏🏻

Awesome

I read this amazing story in guruji's book 'Life's amazing secrets'.

wonderful lesson sir

Absolutely..we are human s ,forgive,reconcile and let go...life is too short to hold grudges and resentment.. thank you.🙏

@shreehari2681

3 жыл бұрын

I'm Not Holding Anything But How That Person Live whose all Feeling murdered

Same story I have read.. The book Life amazing secrets.. Guru ji

Love u speech sirr

I had read this story about a year ago from your book "life's amazing secret". It's nice to recollect the memory btw book was awesome.

This instance is in his book 'life's amazing secret'

Very important message Sir a very big thank you Guruji

Very nice spiritual lecture.

Heart touching lesson and video