Watch this if you FEAR public speaking

Hot tip to reduce nerves before a presentation: It's NOT about you.
By shifting your focus to the audience and the value you'll provide them, this reduces your nerves because you're no longer focusing on you.
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  • @askvinh
    @askvinh Жыл бұрын

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  • @motiva8in241

    @motiva8in241

    Жыл бұрын

    The link says it expires? Wow it's only been here 2 days

  • @karthikreddy8567

    @karthikreddy8567

    Жыл бұрын

    You are awesome sir. Respect from India.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @FiddelCastro
    @FiddelCastro Жыл бұрын

    I fucking love this guy.

  • @askvinh

    @askvinh

    Жыл бұрын

    Ohhh cheers mate 🙏🏻❤️😊

  • @jasephisaaccastillocanton6618

    @jasephisaaccastillocanton6618

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow

  • @markturner2561

    @markturner2561

    Жыл бұрын

    Does Castro really need public speaking tips tho?

  • @mansourshah8856

    @mansourshah8856

    Жыл бұрын

    Gay

  • @BRO_A-11

    @BRO_A-11

    10 ай бұрын

    Agreed

  • @ShinsekaiAcademy
    @ShinsekaiAcademy Жыл бұрын

    I literally stopped fearing public speaking the second you said stop being selfish, I understood everything and in my mind I immediately knew I wouldn’t fear public speaking as long as I keep thinking about the audience and how I can help them

  • @kloverwise7317

    @kloverwise7317

    Жыл бұрын

    I swear you took the words out of my mouth. Is this not the most incredibly instant changing advice? I’m shook how instant my fear left.

  • @cherylecooper906

    @cherylecooper906

    Жыл бұрын

    ^^^ Wow!! So true!! 🎯🎯🎯

  • @honor9lite1337

    @honor9lite1337

    10 ай бұрын

    Understood 😊

  • @konyvnyelv.

    @konyvnyelv.

    9 ай бұрын

    Fearing public speaking is not selfish

  • @piercelee9421

    @piercelee9421

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@konyvnyelv.the act of worrying about yourself is He was saying worrie about your audience

  • @jrcjmari
    @jrcjmari Жыл бұрын

    Vinh summarized what took me 25 years to figure out. And he inspired me to public speaking to another level!

  • @honor9lite1337

    @honor9lite1337

    10 ай бұрын

    😊😊😊

  • @curiousmind456

    @curiousmind456

    9 ай бұрын

    Don't worry, Vinh might have also taken 25 years to understand and distil it down 😊

  • @mindwiseco
    @mindwiseco Жыл бұрын

    Ones self conscious is the biggest hindrance to the physical actions

  • @helenk4357
    @helenk4357 Жыл бұрын

    This advice is gold! What also helped me is knowing that everyone in the audience wants you to succeed, they are not sitting there hoping you stuff up, they are all barracking for you.

  • @pe9147
    @pe914710 ай бұрын

    This is some solid advice. Reminds me of Jay Shettys advice on service. And how serving others brings meaning and purpose to our lives and removes the focus on self.

  • @MoneyIsLifeee
    @MoneyIsLifeee2 күн бұрын

    Omg I didn’t expect this to help I’ve been scrolling for a while trying to get over the fear but this guy has showed me that it’s not about me and it’s about giving the audience the info and helping them out.

  • @UtenaTendo
    @UtenaTendo Жыл бұрын

    I have autism and have been using your videos to help me present myself better to people for lack of better terms so I really appreciate the work that you're doing keep it up

  • @ChronicAquatic

    @ChronicAquatic

    Ай бұрын

    How are you doing now mate?

  • @brainactivity737
    @brainactivity737 Жыл бұрын

    This man is doing a brilliant job! I'm happy for him because he's sharing very useful and helpful tips that all of us could benefit from.

  • @halo7172
    @halo7172 Жыл бұрын

    This is so beyond true. Never thought about it as me being a vehicle for the audience but that is exactly what it is like, just like a comedian.

  • @Agent0oh
    @Agent0oh Жыл бұрын

    Or, alternatively, you can potentially focus on your purpose if it’s easier to think about that instead. A mindset of “man on a mission” - it at least helps in cases where you are afraid of others judging you, which can also contribute to fear of public speech. I noticed it helps me to not care about others’ opinions and judgement (or convictions as a byproduct of judgements) by shifting my focus on the here and now and, most importantly, on the importance of what I am doing. What I am doing is too important to let others influence it in a negative way, so why should I even allow others to control it if it brings me more harm than good? I don’t know these people, so whose to say that what they think is relevant? Questions like that. As an example: you want to go to a gym to become healthy due to obesity. However, you always feel like others are watching you and judging you. Are you exercising because of your peers? No, you are doing this for yourself. Other people are irrelevant to your goal, and more than likely you are to them as well for the same goals: health and well being. As I said: you get into the mindset of someone on a mission that would not get deterred from the right path. If soldiers can carry out their missions and not care who thinks what because their mission is too important and it NEEDS to be done, then why can’t we?

  • @buchiokeke7573
    @buchiokeke7573 Жыл бұрын

    The nerves start to calm themselves down ❤❤❤

  • @ManolisPolychronides
    @ManolisPolychronides Жыл бұрын

    Well put! Communication is about (and should be more of) sharing value! When you give value by sharing, fear is replaced by caring 😌

  • @rivierapalms6485
    @rivierapalms64852 күн бұрын

    Man, you’re so good at this. So relatable and such great tips, thank you 🙏🏼

  • @mvoyage7282
    @mvoyage72827 күн бұрын

    It's so true! I always get nervous when I'm doing a presentation of 10min for an exam. But I deliver lectures of 2hrs without any problem. I always wondered why & I think I found the reason. When it's all about others your nerves are calm but the more you focus on yourself you get nervous!

  • @pinnazhussain
    @pinnazhussain Жыл бұрын

    I've been looking for someone like you all my life , thank you so much for giving ppl the confidence that they've always wished for , you are a GENIUS

  • @z.joshuaramirez7484
    @z.joshuaramirez74849 ай бұрын

    YOU ARE THERE TO GIVE VALUE ❤ Thousands thanks Vinh

  • @clementsunny1170
    @clementsunny1170 Жыл бұрын

    This is new communication mentor and friend from a distance.. maximum intelligency Vinh you are the best of your kind!

  • @clementsunny1170
    @clementsunny1170 Жыл бұрын

    This has been my principle from the half of this year..I consciously decided that I will create value to solve problems and meet needs

  • @shade_soul
    @shade_soul2 ай бұрын

    This! This is the answer, This is what I need!!

  • @seanmerlyn
    @seanmerlyn Жыл бұрын

    Everything you say is incredibly eye opening!

  • @cherylecooper906
    @cherylecooper906 Жыл бұрын

    Wow!! That's exactly how I've messed up in the past (with public speaking) -- getting stuck in my own head and going internal ☹☹. So true!! I love what he says about getting into the mindset of service and giving to others. Wow!! Praise God! Very helpful advice!! 🙏🥰🙏❤

  • @emeraldgem4815
    @emeraldgem48159 ай бұрын

    My grandpa had a saying "always have something in your basket". When you are asked to talk in front of people always have something insightful and meaningful to share with those people

  • @rianshisingaal8171
    @rianshisingaal8171 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Vinh for this..... I always get nervous of getting on stage for anything so I usually avoided it.... But now I've got more courage than before to do public speaking!

  • @stephaniebaker2526
    @stephaniebaker2526 Жыл бұрын

    I've always had stage fright and this advice is absolutely right on. Now I know how to overcome the fear! Thank you!

  • @SharmeeV
    @SharmeeV8 ай бұрын

    OMG, i can't believe I found the right guru, u r nailing it all tips perfectly... Wanna get coached by you

  • @monaminas
    @monaminas Жыл бұрын

    I admire how passionate and smart and on point you are! Chapeau!

  • @knightlyhaze
    @knightlyhaze Жыл бұрын

    Easier said than done, but I do agree!

  • @user-km6hw6zo6y
    @user-km6hw6zo6y Жыл бұрын

    Such a good advice, and such a good mentor you are

  • @franchellcarter2166
    @franchellcarter216627 күн бұрын

    Amen✨ God bless you, I've learned so much from 3 of your videos on Shorts like it's insane you just catapulted my confidence & delivery 👏🏾

  • @MrDafous
    @MrDafous Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for bringing me into magic and now teaching me to communicate 🙏

  • @kloverwise7317
    @kloverwise7317 Жыл бұрын

    This is absolutely life changing advice. My mind was just completely blown away. This is so true and I never would have ever realized this on my own. He is absolutely so correct. I am taking this advice and running away to a public speaking engagement wherever I can find one.:)

  • @westfieldartworks8188
    @westfieldartworks81888 ай бұрын

    Man.....this guy is CORRECT. Gosh....I've never thought about it that way....Boy that changes things. Thank you.

  • @icesparkstudios
    @icesparkstudios8 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for this! This is exactly my problem. I think everyone is judging me instead of focusing on what I am there for.

  • @SteveGia80
    @SteveGia802 ай бұрын

    Probably the best advice in a minute than I learned in all 4 years of college and the 3 spent in graduate school

  • @duaafrewan7824
    @duaafrewan7824 Жыл бұрын

    You WOW me EVERY . SINGLE . TIME !!! .... you just don't run out of amazing ideas and inspiring ways of thinking !

  • @neil1820
    @neil1820 Жыл бұрын

    I love your stuff Vinh, I've got a big presentation on Wednesday and I've gained so many great tips from your channel. Keep going mate it's great stuff

  • @sinnehtmoijuehofficial
    @sinnehtmoijuehofficial5 ай бұрын

    This’s quite strong - best I’ve heard so far - so encouraging and true!

  • @mavuhrik
    @mavuhrik7 ай бұрын

    This guy is unbelievably good.

  • @calebdeborde9605
    @calebdeborde96053 ай бұрын

    You made me cry bro, our awesome

  • @omithakurr
    @omithakurr5 күн бұрын

    Thank you Big brother 🙏

  • @the.olawale
    @the.olawale6 ай бұрын

    What a perspective. This should work. Thank you 🙏

  • @elizabethcooper9815
    @elizabethcooper9815 Жыл бұрын

    So very true. I remember when this happened to me at a funeral. I did the eulogy and I was nervous then I did just that. I told myself, it was for them not for me. I gave it without fear but with love.

  • @RS-fz4ps
    @RS-fz4ps5 ай бұрын

    This is even more true from the standpoint of education. In school they teach you about public speaking with the purpose of teaching, but you can’t really master it until you’ve done it, failed, and tied again until you’ve succeeded.

  • @100samanthamarie
    @100samanthamarie Жыл бұрын

    I tell this to people when they say they’re thinking about being in the nursing field. I tell them that their yearning to help people should be magnified and they will forget about being shy or scared. Empathy is a super power. 😊

  • @jasephcastillo464

    @jasephcastillo464

    Жыл бұрын

    Alright

  • @kenhard
    @kenhard Жыл бұрын

    hope you nothing but success dude, I appreciate this kind of videos popping up to my recommendations

  • @ravn6531
    @ravn65318 ай бұрын

    On my way to present to 2000 people exactly what I needed !

  • @Jayce221
    @Jayce22110 ай бұрын

    [Add to playlist] Will be needing to hear this one again before a big presentation 😊

  • @sonyazibbahbimari4904
    @sonyazibbahbimari49045 ай бұрын

    This message is recorded as one of my core memory now. Thank you❤️

  • @OmFrikenNom
    @OmFrikenNom10 ай бұрын

    A short message, powerful enough to change the lives of countless people ❤

  • @science_spectra_
    @science_spectra_7 ай бұрын

    When I think about public speaking, my heart beats really hard even I am alone :(

  • @kathrynna11
    @kathrynna11 Жыл бұрын

    Makes sense, giving them service is what will push me to think, hey start the presentation pronto

  • @B1ANC4A31G1AL
    @B1ANC4A31G1AL9 ай бұрын

    Thank you, Vinh, for influencing a more beneficial perspective on fear! ❤

  • @Alexgudmusic
    @Alexgudmusic5 ай бұрын

    Best public speaking advice I’ve heard

  • @sizewiseclosetcoach
    @sizewiseclosetcoach4 ай бұрын

    Great tip! Shifting the focus from oneself to the audience and the value being provided is a powerful way to reduce nerves before a presentation. It helps in keeping perspective and delivering with confidence.

  • @knowyourworld9605
    @knowyourworld960511 ай бұрын

    You should make an audio book on speaking. I'd love to listen to that while moving around

  • @yolkycheeks
    @yolkycheeks Жыл бұрын

    This is gold. This guy belongs in the top of the top.

  • @ReEkklesia365
    @ReEkklesia3654 ай бұрын

    ❤Vinh you in less than a minute have REVOLUTIONIZED my life… thank you.… when I Serve it overcomes my Nerves.…

  • @racqueldcrown3953
    @racqueldcrown39538 ай бұрын

    I love this approach. Thanks!

  • @burtonhanna
    @burtonhanna Жыл бұрын

    I have to listen to this several times over the next few days so it gets embedded in my mind! Thanks!

  • @johnylegend1709
    @johnylegend17094 ай бұрын

    Thank you. This sparks something in me 💥💥💥🥰

  • @jonathanchia8954
    @jonathanchia895411 ай бұрын

    As a teacher this definitely helps a lot in a classroom setting too.

  • @sinmiloluwa3617
    @sinmiloluwa36176 ай бұрын

    This is so true, totally worked for me during the oratory competition I partook in last week. Thank you Vinh

  • @mazinwarsi16
    @mazinwarsi162 күн бұрын

    This is the best advice I've ever heard! 💡📚

  • @askvinh

    @askvinh

    Күн бұрын

    Thank you

  • @EddyTheMartian
    @EddyTheMartian Жыл бұрын

    Holy crap this has got to be the best advice on this easily.

  • @user-zn9er7en5m
    @user-zn9er7en5m6 ай бұрын

    Great ever advice. Marvellous I'm glad to follow a humanity lover. Thanks God

  • @djjiang3718
    @djjiang37185 ай бұрын

    Love you my Vinh! Thank you for your great sharing!

  • @DesignDen673
    @DesignDen6733 ай бұрын

    This is easier said than done..Only practise practise practise will get your fear out.

  • @gabriellarymbai1910
    @gabriellarymbai19105 ай бұрын

    Wow this one opened my eyes

  • @menoflight
    @menoflight Жыл бұрын

    Wow! Blow my mind! Your absolutely right! Great info. Thank you.

  • @lailanitukuafu
    @lailanitukuafu4 ай бұрын

    Looking in the comments, I'm glad this advice worked great for some people. I, personally, really don't care for it. So this is a reminder to my fellow mentally-ill folks to not shame yourselves for struggling. And remember that no piece of advice will work for everyone and that's okay. I recognize that there's some truth in his message and I absolutely do think it's important to improve your communication skills. And most people aren't judging you for the little things you're stressed about unless you make a big deal out of it. However I just want to point out a few things. First of all, this information is presented as sort of a cure-all, life-changing lesson that applies perfectly to everyone who fears public speaking. It is not as simple as waking up one morning and realizing you've just been really selfish and you need to care more about people. This leads to my next point: *shaming people for having fears, insecurities, and anxiety often makes things worse*. As someone with multiple anxiety disorders, I have tried to "just stop worrying about it" and tell myself I'm being selfish. But once again it is not that easy. I ended up STILL being anxious, but now with the belief that I'm a bad person who doesn't care enough about other people, as well as thinking there was something wrong with me because I was still scared. I don't like that this video so directly and assertively tells the viewer that they don't have good enough intentions. I care so so much about serving other people, but my gut response to that pressure is to think I'm not good enough to be of service. I'm not worthy of the responsibility and they shouldn't trust me to do a good job. Using "tough love" on someone with these thought patterns is a recipe for disaster. So y'all, be kind to yourselves. Definitely serve others and work on yourself, but don't invalidate your own feelings in the process. K I'm putting the soap box away now, have a nice day

  • @minecraftcommandnerd1280
    @minecraftcommandnerd12803 ай бұрын

    School teaches us differently sadly. But hey, we got people like vinh who are amazing at teaching us correctly, so that's nice 😊

  • @taeblends
    @taeblends8 ай бұрын

    As someone going into a new year of school which means talking to new people for the first time and giving a bunch of oral presentations... thanks for this

  • @kruzzo1569
    @kruzzo1569 Жыл бұрын

    The only thing I needed for my poor public speaking 🔥💯👏

  • @jmulderscully
    @jmulderscully9 ай бұрын

    Wow this is good!! Thanks for sharing!!

  • @mrcallitlikeitisfan2788
    @mrcallitlikeitisfan27889 ай бұрын

    That is it !! You are there to give value

  • @PumaSchatz07
    @PumaSchatz07 Жыл бұрын

    Started to understand this recently - thanks for formulating this so CLEAR and memorisable.

  • @workthentravel
    @workthentravel Жыл бұрын

    This such a good reminder! I get nervous even conducting a virtual training.

  • @BastianSteffens
    @BastianSteffens6 ай бұрын

    Thank you for your videos. I think this the whole time when i m at work. But i get so often back in my head. But you think like i think.

  • @amisaunders1317
    @amisaunders1317 Жыл бұрын

    Brilliant advice!!! Greatly appreciate your words of wisdom

  • @ngwa-chejunior8277
    @ngwa-chejunior82776 ай бұрын

    Thank you soo much Vinh

  • @mohdayyub7051
    @mohdayyub705110 ай бұрын

    Simple but deep. This what I need. TQSM.

  • @hardiac1298
    @hardiac1298 Жыл бұрын

    Em từng rất tự ti trước đám đông rất nhiều nhưng từ khi xem những video của anh Vinh thì em đã thể hiện những bài thuyết trình tuyệt vời! Em cảm ơn anh Vinh ❤

  • @MaryamKhan-vf3zo
    @MaryamKhan-vf3zo6 ай бұрын

    It will work as a chilled glass of water on a sweltering summer day 🌊

  • @kingkong003
    @kingkong0039 ай бұрын

    you're a fucking expert in communication,you exactly told what i did and game the solution.

  • @madamoisellehannahsalv2191
    @madamoisellehannahsalv2191 Жыл бұрын

    thanks again. just reminded me of selfless teachers - they provide value and serve others / listeners ❤❤

  • @shotadgebia7046
    @shotadgebia70467 ай бұрын

    You are awesome dude!!! God Bless you!!!

  • @Hor_heyyy
    @Hor_heyyy6 ай бұрын

    Listening to this as I’m about to speak 4 times this weekend! 😮‍💨🥲🙃 thanks!!

  • @Jeff_y
    @Jeff_y9 ай бұрын

    I could listen to a 12 hours podcast of him and remember everything tbh.

  • @phatrabhornwongthaveepkij1527
    @phatrabhornwongthaveepkij1527 Жыл бұрын

    your videos transformed lives! you are truly gifted. thank you for sharing all this!

  • @user-pq5jd6rh4z
    @user-pq5jd6rh4z2 ай бұрын

    Thank you.

  • @darielserrano6466
    @darielserrano6466 Жыл бұрын

    I really appreciate your speeches. Thank you!

  • @Salvation123..
    @Salvation123..9 ай бұрын

    This is very helpful...Thank you so much

  • @lifelonglearnermahir
    @lifelonglearnermahir Жыл бұрын

    "It has Nothing To Do With You" Boom.... 🤯 Changed how I will talk to people after now.

  • @DinoG100
    @DinoG10010 ай бұрын

    I really needed this. Have an important speech coming up and your videos have popped up at the perfect time for me!

  • @Well-Put
    @Well-Put5 ай бұрын

    Such great advice

  • @Mary_Okosi_International.
    @Mary_Okosi_International. Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Mr. Vinh. This is learnt.

  • @SirGregg
    @SirGregg Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for that.

  • @voronovychda
    @voronovychda10 ай бұрын

    This is a great advice!