Office pora apo namma lunch ah nama dhana eduthutu porom.. Normally muhurtam ku previous night la bride and groom family ku egapatta velai irukum you know what even they would have not eaten properly due to all the stress and work burden. They are paying n dealing with multiple professionals like Makeup artist, photographers, catering, mandapam staffs, decor staff, security, car/van drivers, light setup staff, singing n music setup staffs, etc etc.. Ellarayum saptingala thunganingala nu gavanikarathu kashtam they have to concentrate on the wedding rituals as well as relatives with priority. You are a professional nenga oru work panna poringana unga food and safety neenga dhan pathukanum because you are not doing it for free. There are many families that treat professional staffs well there are some families that do not. Profession nu vanthuta you have to follow work ethics..sentiments ku edam ilai..saptiya kekala safe ah vanthiya nu kekala nu polambitu iruntha enga ponalum survive pannave mudiyathu. Office goers, freelancers, business people everyone are suffering here. Don't expect everyone to treat you the way you want them to. There are many male staffs who are doing rigorous works yet don't complaint. Privileged and entitled women like you cannot accept or overcome even small hurdles in professional life.

@vinothraj7117

10 ай бұрын

😂

@hemalatha-dp3sm

10 ай бұрын

Ooh nee ponnu vittu side du polla.... Adha neega evalo time yaduthu typing panni eruku.... Oru base respect kudo kuduka theriyala peysa vandhutiga.... Chi....

@lp8688

10 ай бұрын

@@hemalatha-dp3sm Ponnu veetu side ah iruntha dhan pesanuma? Oru mayirum theriyama pesatha.. She is a makeup professional not a guest, sapadu potu travel arrange pani bed room kudukarathuku.. Unaku ella facility um venuma quotations la first laye solidanum client kita - Enaku sapadu venum, stay panna vasathiyana bedroom venum, night travel panura apo escort venum, car venum, respect venum nu.. Sonna dhan unga expectations yetha mathiri client kedaipanga.. She is setting a bad example as an entrepreneur and influencing others in a wrong way. Business nu vanthuta adjustments and sacrifices are prime things when it comes to customer satisfaction. Adjust pannama nogama vela pakanumna business quit pannitu veetla ukkarunga..

@hemalatha-dp3sm

10 ай бұрын

@@lp8688 naa yavalo respect ta pesiruke... Ana neega paruga.... Ungaluku Frist tu eppadi pesanonu theriyala social media la na... Chumma eruga.... Respect Ela kettu vangakudadhu. Avagala kudukano.. ungaluku yavalo sonnalum puriyadhu.. andha situation la erukuvakuluku dha theriyum... Sarigala.... Waste of time texting this....

@lp8688

10 ай бұрын

@@hemalatha-dp3sm First nee respect kudu apo dhan unaku respect kuduka mudiyum. "oh nee ponnu vitu side pola.. " "Chi" Idhelam unga oorla mariyathai ah.. Un appa amma ithuku per dhan mariyathai nu kathu kuduthangala... Mariyatha ilama pesana nanum thirupi apadi dhan pesuven mooditu po

இந்த நிகழ்வு மிகவும் வேதனை அளிக்கிறது 😔மனிதர்களை மதிக்க தெரியாதவர்கள் 😠

உங்க மேலயும் தப்பு இருக்கு. இவ்வளவு long travel எல்லாம் accept பண்ணாதீங்க. Your safety is important. Travel facility குடுகாட்டி போகாதீங்க. கறார் ஆ பேசுங்க.

Actually I'm not beautician. . But after this video.... Everyone comes to know how not to treat like this... U people such bold and go ahead

Full video um pathan mam romba emotional agitan hats off mam don't worry mam ignore negativity 👍

Neenga solrathu kekave payamaa iruku sister, you are very bold and genuine,unga field evlo katchdam nnu theriyuthu,very sad

Self Respect is Everyone's Birthright 💯

Hi jayanthi mam Your a honest person u truly deserves this position Sai appa blessings & varahi blessings always will be there for you jayanthi mam.

I respect your decision sister ❤

I am first time watching ur channel, I am really really awestrucked by ur way of sensible speech, ❤❤❤❤ yes u deserve respect ma. I didn't get a chance to do any make up with u😢 u r so beautiful as well. I am telling from bottom of my heart.

@positivity8415

10 ай бұрын

Thanks

Oru oru person kum Money and work second option, Self respect must important keep it up sister you are strong woman 👍👍👍

@positivity8415

10 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 🙂❤

I feel sorry for such inhumane people. 😔 It is scary to think that the three girls came alone in the middle of the night. It will be something you will never forget in life.😒😔

Yes each and every human being deserves basic respect food and proper safe place when we seek their services. Every bride and groom's family should be aware of it

@positivity8415

10 ай бұрын

True

Very very true 😢 word's She has explained her experience..... I have watched it fully

Very sad to hear this🥹 Varahi Amma is there to take care❤

Hi , this is the first time I am watching your channel, very worst experience you have faced, basic humanity we can't teach others from BLOOD and FAMILY it should be there, thanks for sharing your experience, this video really helpful for new commers into this profession.

I feel very hurt when I see this video akka, but ur decision is correct

Omg… where are these ruthless people from? So sick to hear the way you have been treated. Good that you left the place and not try to adjust further. May God bless such pathetic creatures & lots of love to you❤

Me too experienced like this sis 👍 be brave and bold

Don't feel mam. Everything will be all right.

Sorry for the horrible experience. Thank you sharing your experience and opening up eyes and empowering other professionals

நான் கோயம்புத்தூர் வந்த போது பார்த்து வியந்த ஒன்று அவர்களின் பிறரை மதிக்கும் பாங்கு My goodness I Adored them

@gowsikrsg8114

10 ай бұрын

Yes true

Ninga pesunathula unga situation puriyuthu sis.dont worry sis.karma punishes them.same situation happen to me and sis as beautician.unga self confidence and boldness super sis

Yea mam, everything u mentioned is understandable...... If this is wht ur going through, I would like to make a suggestion " Y dont u prepare a contract listing all the things that should and shouldn't take place, if both parties r ok with this agreement then accept the bridal order. Y i am saying this is bcoz contracts r a very strong legal evidence, so u wouldn't have to suffer so much.

Mam you are bold enough to tell that don't care about future orders but share the pros and cons. Everybody needs self protection but please share the requirements with small bit notice to the customers. So there will be some awareness

Return vanthadhu super sister ..... Self respect is important...

Always we get a hint before any tragic situation like u got cal frm one lady tat tym we have to think twice to go ahead r not.. many of them fails in tat.. take it as learning point..also as u said everyone should be bold enough to handle such a worst people around u..

Ladies we should not be worried about the fake things and negative people around us who's tries to use us as slaves in name of makeup artist.. stop being coward... Be bold🎉

@vijayalakshmis.v.9762

10 ай бұрын

Hi ma this is Vijayalakshmi from Chennai. I started to see your videos from 2yrs . All ur videos are class. I lv ur Pooja videos . What u have spoken about Bridal experience are true I quit this profession 22 yrs back due to this type of attitude and treating us like slave. Hats of to you for the decision u took in this case. Take care kannama God bless you.

@positivity8415

10 ай бұрын

​@@vijayalakshmis.v.9762thank u mam... But we shouldn't quit... We have to fight back

@puvaneswarichellah7568

10 ай бұрын

@@positivity8415 Exactly mam.

@rose_sk18_official

10 ай бұрын

❤bravo 👏

Well said. Mam Stay blessed 🎉

வீரப் பெண்மணி நீங்க 🙏🙏👏👏

Bridal vlog podunga akka

U such a beautiful and bold person sister enaku 1000 rs la kuduthu anupunanga sister very sad😢

You're done right thing akka such a human beings we all had a common sense like someone came for us from another native they dont know anything about this place so kindly pick up and come nu hats off u akka

I saw your Video Mam .. all your expectations are Correct . I think when you are accepting for a Place that is very unfamiliar please make sure what is expected and if they are not able to pay for it , do not take up their work . Because you guys have to travel n Odd hours, so be clear in your requirements and accept for a discount with people you know . If they cannot afford something they have othr options .So if you think you are reasonable, then Stay strong on your asks

Where is part 1??

Akka 4 months before than part 1 potinga la. Please part 3 knjm sikram potrunga ....❤

Where is part 1? I understand tamil but don't know to read

Bold decision ❤

Realy hurt .....but u r very bold.... good decision....

Police complaint for what? Did u return the money on spot and cancelled the order??

Romba interior village konjam avoid pannalam,except for sweet families! Andha midnight la return poneengala sis! Am also in Thanjavur,inime problem na call pannunga sis!

In kerala,makeup artist never took appointment if client doesn't provide 2k for car & AC room for makeup....

No one will bother about ur shelter and travel things ma u have to plan about the things na .yes ur paid for ur services and u might discuss with them clearly about the location pick ups all .before going to rural areas u must look well whether it will suit for u or not u can able to manage or not .its a interior area they will not treat u hai welcome u kind of .nega pesura apova clear pesi irukanum need pick up and drop of to location ma .

Super akka God bless you ❤

Where is the next part ? Its good gesture you are sharing your experience but share it completely so that it will be useful for others

Super mam...hats off to you..

Akka super super bold da pesuniga... Don't feel akka... Go head akka. Ungaloda experience sa share pannadhuku romboo thanks.. everyone need a self-respect...

Yes you Dan a good job Sis well done 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👍 and I am from Malaysia ❤️

@positivity8415

10 ай бұрын

Thanks

Kodumai, but you did good decision, proud of you❤

U. take right decision in that situation👏👏👋👍👍👏👏

Hats off to you for this. Kudos to you. Respect and Salute 🙏

First of all we need to treat humans as humans ....whatever their profession may be...... whenever my maid akka comes, my first reaction is a smile and next word would be sapteengala akka.......this is a very very basic humanity........ Mam pls take this as a lesson.....next time pls be prepared for everything......now a days v cannot expect humanity from many people.....i thank God that u came back safe......take care mam

Bold sppech hats off u mam❤

I like your speech your my inspiration dear❤️❤️❤️

100,% true sister , many peoples like epadi thaan irukanga nanum neraya face panni iruken.

hi jayanthi sis self respect pathukapana atmosphere anbana vubasaranaiya kidaikum food is very important athai ezhanthu yethuvum sathika nalla manithargal virumba mattargal I really understand your pains from your words antha ponnum mapillaiyum jadiku yetha moodi than pola by anandhi

Hats off sis👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻...We respect your thoughts....What you have done is right.

Ivlo vela seiyanumnu theriyum.....apram edhukaga vera ooruku makeup pana poganum, first ellam solli irupangalla unga oorla irundhu vaangitu poga vendiyadhuthana...... Ungala book pananga avanga neenga pannadha velaiku kaasum kuduthu irukanga, ipdilam pesaradhu romba thappu.....neenga manushanga tha illanu yarum sollala....vela seiya poi irukinga ungala maagaraani maariyo illa CM or PM maari treat pannuvangala..... next day marriage na andha day ponnu azhaipu irukum.....yarume mandapam la illanu soldringa how it is possible..... Ipdilam enna treat pananumnu neenga advance vaangaradhuku munnadiye ponnu kita soli irundhingana may be avnga vera makeup artist book pannitu poi irundhu irupanga.....

annaiku night sona udaney avanga anniku makeup pana alu varuvangana avanga anniyavey makeupartist kutity vara sola vendiyathaney.. Vanthutanga namakita kasu vangitanga nama ena sonalum ketuthan aganumnu ninapu avangalukellam.. Varahi amman than ungala safe ah vettuku kutitu vanthurukanga sister. You are always rocking🎉🎉

Correct ka ninga sonna yellame ...oru manusiya kuda mathikka mattanga... vegetables cut pantravanga cook ,pantravanga , photography a to z yellam aalukum payment pogum ,sapatu pogakum ..namala mattum kilaiyum melaiyum pappangale thavira entha respect kum ketaikathu...50% aptithaan irukanga

Expecting car expense is luxury Not every one can afford. Expecting respect food & pickup are basic things which must be provided. Sema lengthy video😢

@positivity8415

10 ай бұрын

We expected only basics. And yes thanks that u watched fully. Yes it's lengthy that's y u understand clearly

இப்படியும் மக்கள் இருக்கிறார்கள் என்பது ஆச்சர்யத்தையும் கோபத்தையும் உண்டாக்குகிறது.

@udhayakumari6013

10 ай бұрын

Very cheap mentality people

Yes ofcourse its a bad experience...i agree, but when we take or fin an events please think twice whether we need to do this kind of service or not... distance everything

Sorry it happened to you in our district thanjavur. I still have a good connect with my make-up artist who did makeup on my wedding even after 12yrs. I recommended her for a holy communion function makeup to my sil. After finalizing for 10k. My sil made her to do makeup for 2 more people. But didn't give the amount. Later i settled the amount to the artist. Sil didnt settle the balance and went to her home state. I got scoldings from my husband for involving in this. 😡

Eppedilam pannuvangala mam.. nenga feel pannathinga mam. Ethuvum nanmaika

😡🤬😡 J akka enakku intha vedio pathathum romba kovam varuthu... Pavam antha situation ah enala nenachi kooda paaka mudila 😢 but you're very brave and courageous enough to handle the situation, we know varahi Amma is with you, waiting for 3rd part ❤❤❤

Part 1 link please

Semma speech ka . Ya neega busy ya erukigala😂😂😂. Neega feel panni solliriga akka. Erutha lu atha word ya na neega busy word super 😂😂😂😂😂

Akka i took my bridal artist with me from Tiruppur to coimbatore. We stay in same room . We eat together.😊

@deepikapavithran3318

10 ай бұрын

Super dr bride vanthu ipditha irukanu apatha engalukku work panna kastama irukathu

Super sister neenga sonna ellame correct

yes very emotional romba correct pannirukinga pa namaku respect kudukatha edathula namba iruka kudathu pa

For this bold lady this should not have happened this way, everyone need to be respected , I don't understand why each of the jobs are the rice bowls, so need to be respected Aum Sai Ram Baba.

@positivity8415

10 ай бұрын

Shit happens ..

@puvaneswarichellah7568

10 ай бұрын

I have not seen you personally but you are close to my heart and your motivation is really movitivating me and many more ladies out there to move forward.

@positivity8415

10 ай бұрын

​@@puvaneswarichellah7568I know... And I'm reading all ur comments in all my post

@puvaneswarichellah7568

10 ай бұрын

@@positivity8415 Love you mam and be my inspiration always and please keep yourself safe always.

Hats off to u mam🫡🫡I'm aari designer in Chennai, mogappair

Wat u have done is right "J".... 👏👏👏👏👏 Stay STRONG & BRAVE ❤

@positivity8415

10 ай бұрын

Thanks

Not only for u some male photographers also faced horrible situation worse than u mostly they are not giving full money to photographers defenitely they who conducts function reduced rs 500 or 1000 on their payment...but defenitely i really feel sad for ur situation not only for u most beauticians in tamilnadu have gone through this situation...they marriage conducting persons not know the pain of working people....i quit my photography profession because of the same problem u faced.

Here is what you should have done. Talk clearly to the bride about food and accommodation arrangements. If not, you just stay in thanjavur hotel for a night and early morning book a cab to go there, do your make up and come back to room, sleep for some time then go back to coimbatore. You should take care of your food and accommodation. Without communicating anything in prior, you will go to a place thinking that that other person will give you food and accommodation and treat you like a guest? You call yourself professional then be one.

Hi akka... what you did is correct but full amount repay panni iruka koodathu...very worst... I've huge respect for drainage cleaners and housekeeping staffs...but after my marriage beautician and gynaecologist maela yum respect jasthiya aiyuduchu...my beautician akka did sooper make up for me and mingled with our family...

Sorry to hear about the bad experience. Not a makeup artist but I can connect with your feelings. Everyone deserves for respectful hospitality especially when you put all your efforts for her one big day. All, please consider in your future bridal bookings assign someone to take care of make up artist

Good decision mam for police complaint

Money cloestral la dan person ku person Human tendency ah eila actually Edhela romba asenham akka

Omg thats terrible...do take legal actions dont leave these kinda pple...hope you come out this and do well further

Good sis neenga makeup pannala sonnathu than best choice

Really it is a bad experience. But before all this you should enquire all this things. If you asked all this things before itself this won't happen. Also some brides also think this before a issue like this happen. It would strike them when you ask them

You take a good decision 👌

hi my dear pretty sister how are you i understand your feelings sister god always help you my support always with you sister daily upload video sister please sister

Actually sisy neenga poirukavae kudadhu ..... En marriage ku enga makeup artist evvalo scene potanga ... Just 13km than veetuku vandhu mehandhi poda mataen sollitanga ... Adhuvum accept panni kitton ... But andha mehandhi avvalo kevalama potanga .... Naanga avanga veettula irundhu pick up pannitu ponom ...solla pona avanga then engaluku seriya respect kudukala ...but we have given all facilities and total settlement too... But Yu r great .... Evvalo travel panni irukinga.... Even enga sister marriage naan than un time la thoongama pick panni kittom. But avangalum seriya response pannala ....neenga ivvalo casual ah ellam work and travel panni irukom .... Actually kalyana ponnuku endha workum ilayae sisy 😂😂😂😂

I’m makeup artist from Chennai By god grace so far my clients are good one client dhan remaing balace amount kudukala keta makeup half an hour dhan panninganu but avanga kudutha time half an hour dhan 😢😢😢😢

@positivity8415

10 ай бұрын

Mmmmmm I'll make a video in this topic

@Randomstuffstamil

10 ай бұрын

Okay 👍 sis

@sujivlogger3123

10 ай бұрын

​@@positivity8415Yes,maa.. Iam waiting for your video

Pls Bride Nnu Solladhinga Peedai Nnu Sollunga😂😂😂😂😂😂

Well done for your braveness must be bold like you

Antha ponoda name mention pnirknum nenga

Correct ah solirkinga sisy...

Sema akka police complaint tha highlight a.....spr

Iam also in thanjavur but i didn't know that village name..sorry for the incidents..its ridiculous..plz dnt take ds kind of bookings..they are very worst people..beaware..and plz dnt hate Thanjavur here also lots of human beings live not lyk them..

You did the right thing.I would have made a big commotion there.File a consumer case .legally.

Entha maari ugga experience sollum pothu, yagalukku oru thairiam varuthu mam, aana antha time negga thaniya yeppidi handle pannunigga nenaikku pothu, 🫡 vera level mam,

@positivity8415

10 ай бұрын

Krishna Kumari Mohandas... Thank u

Yes mam Naanum anthamathirii brides aturn pannii naa tension aggii iyooooo kadavuleeee 🥺🥺🥺

Hi sis good morning I am thiruvanamalai all ways welcome to God Siva it's my home 💖💖💖

Super Speech sister....good...

Vanaja saree darpist from Redhills ninga yellam correct solringa ethu yalam nainga face Pani erukom but u r very bold person in ladies beautician community thank u very much for ur truth words to convey all critical situations and responsibilities 🫡🫡🫡🙏🙏🙏

@positivity8415

10 ай бұрын

Thanks

Seriously that was a horrible experience ..... The great thing here is that ur sharing the incident that happened, without any hesitation this video may help many PPL to overcome their fear to respect their own self respect in front of ppl.... I really appreciate ur video 🙏 Its not only an awareness video but also a motivation Be brave girl Self-respect is 1st than anything else.... ❤frm AP

@positivity8415

10 ай бұрын

Thanks mam