Babe I've been following you for years and I'm literally crying at the fact of you getting married !!!! You've come so far and we all couldn't be prouder of you, sending so much love and light ❤❤❤

love that you are being us along through this new chapter! it’s so exciting for you guys ❤

2024 bride here! My best advice is research everything taste everything take pictures of everything even the chairs table settings napkins etc! Also not be afraid to negotiate on prices I am an Orange County bride and I have found that alot of places a vendors high ball you!

This was a great video Gretchen, thank you for sharing. So excited for all the wedding content. The 2nd venue is absolutely stunning, they all are pretty but the 2nd is just perfect. ❤️❤️

Gretchen I am soooo excited for all this wedding content to come!! You are a ball of sunshine and it's great to see you shine through this exciting stage of life

Fun! Venue #2 is incredible :)

I love the wedding venue content

Hi Gretchen! I'm so happy you found your Cape venue! If you're looking for some nice cocktail hour music for your wedding, my hubby and I have played at all three of those resorts. If you want to check us out, we will be on the Veranda at Wequassett every Saturday night starting June 22nd. Cheers and Congratulations!!!

The second venue is absolutely stunning, but honestly the third one seems the most your vibe. I won't lie, I'm a little bummed you're not doing a Boston wedding because I feel like you're such a Boston girlie at heart, but wherever you choose your Cape wedding will be amazing!

gratuity is for the banquet staff that serve food!! ❤

The second venue was my fav! Congrats again, Gretchen and Max!

I can't wait to wear something that is rare and symbolically represents just how special, precious, and unique my relationship will be someday 💜 Thank you for sharing this

AHHHH! Not me jumping for joy for you😂

they are both so nice, I feel like #2 suits you guys most!!! it just screams you haha

Love all the wedding content. The venues are beautiful.

thank you for bringing us along this beautiful important chapter of yours:,)

all cape venues are absolutely stunning, i know wherever you chose will suit you both well :)

I love this vlog Gretchen

Venue 2 is a dream!!! I love that!!

lol max being basically done with his burrito before Gretchen even gets hers out of the bag is giving that tik tok trend where girls can’t keep up the pace of their boyfriends eating 😂 made me laugh

This is sooo exciting 🥹🤍 looking at venues is so fun & I can’t wait to see what you choose! I’m a New England wedding content creator & have been dying to get to these hotels 😍 if you have any questions about the process I’m a July 2024 bride & work in the industry 😘

I'm so excited for this wedding!

Honestly, there's so much mixed messaging out there when it comes to diamond ring shopping, so thanks for sharing your take on why you chose a natural diamond. I feel like a lot of these positive values get buried under the misinformation around other options. There's so much we don't know!

So excited for you both!!!❤❤❤

Definitely get a planner before you book venue!!

Heyy lol i luv ur vids u guys slay gretchen and ur husband

the second venue is so dreamy! the scarcity of diamonds is false btw, super successful marketing ploy by debeers

@brookecoleman9589

5 ай бұрын

This is actually false! Diamond recoveries are decreasing (there’s only so many on earth) hence making them rare :) they’re super hard to recover too unlike other natural resources which is why they’re valuable

6/28/25 bride over here!!! maybe we’ll share the same wedding date :)! excited for you guys

I got married at the third venue this past August and it was a dream ❤

My cousin Andrew is the head chef at Chatham Bars Inn!!

Thank you for talking about your natural diamond - I can't wait to have one one day, so special knowing how old and precious they are

What lip color are u wearing?

Soo surreal!!

#2 i felt like was more you! And was gorgeous views!

If 2025 is a bigger wedding year than 2024, that is crazy!! 2024 is a huge year for weddings! I am getting married this year and I am invited to 4 other weddings!

#2 “feels” the most like you 😊

WOW THE SECOND ONE

That second one!!!! 😭

Chatam's bar inn would be the dopest. Or second.

I like the second one

You both don’t want to be married here in Vegas 😂 I was actually thinking maybe Hawaii 🤔

Wedding season vloggsss 🩵🩵🩵 best wishes for you guys

Get married on Martha's Vineyard!!! Super beautiful!

Congrats 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

tipping for a venue is cray lol if it's a vendor you def don't need to tip them, that should be included in the price

@kms2814

5 ай бұрын

It might be for the servers, bartenders, etc

@Erin_29

5 ай бұрын

​@@kms2814could be. Hopefully it is, if it's not, I find that ridiculous especially if you're spending thousands of dollars.

@capecodblonde

5 ай бұрын

For Chatham Bars Inn it goes directly to the waitstaff for the wedding as I worked weddings there for a few years!

I’m feeling like it’s Wychmere…

Not sure if you know Clancy Burke. She shared the venue she picked, it didn’t share the date. Viewers found out the date, it wasn’t an issue at all. No wedding crashers.

@kms2814

5 ай бұрын

Good for her. Doesn’t guarantee the safety of anyone else.

@sallyhudson7196

5 ай бұрын

I never said it does. You put your life on the internet, it’s a chance you take. They could hire security if they desire. What I’m saying is the date and venue will most likely leak to the public,

Diamonds aren't rare :)

@user-ex4qh1nd9x

5 ай бұрын

Bain and Company actually did a study that confirmed there is no evidence of deliberate stockpiling to systematically drive-up prices!