vlog 60. Day In My Life: Empty Office Tour of new Chambers, Moving fatigue & Cozy Evening Cooking

My 60th vlog!! I can't think of a more apt vlog to upload than one of me moving offices and starting afresh for the first time in 5 years.
There's always this internal resistance to change that washes over me whenever major changes occur in my life. I used to go into full on stress-induced panic/anxiety mode, unsure of what the future held, unsure whether or not I'd made the right decision, unsure I was handling everything the way I was supposed to.
It has been one of my life's missions to peacefully and gracefully meet the ever-changing circumstances of my life, especially in relation to my career. I have not always gotten it right, but I can say for sure I have gotten much better at it.
As you will see in parts of this vlog, the two things that have assisted me most in dealing better with the stress and anxiety that come with change are gratitude journalling and meditation.
Gratitude journalling because we get so consumed in obsessing over the future and the unknown, that we forget to take stock of what an amazing position we are in, or what an incredible opportunity has been presented by the change, and how far we've come. When you meet change with a heart full of gratitude, it is often rather difficult to be simultaneously stressed about that change.
But when the stressful feelings remain, that is where the magic of meditation comes in so handy. Observing all your irrational thoughts in meditation and calming your mind is truly a game changer. Understanding that your fearful thoughts are not the truth, simply thoughts - that concept alone has stopped many a would-be anxiety attack and quite frankly liberated me.
I am therefore so grateful for my career, I am grateful to have new opportunities and extremely grateful for change and all it has to offer me and teach me.
Onwards and upwards!!
See you soon!
Xx,
Loyiso
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  • @rakesiamuller4757
    @rakesiamuller47573 ай бұрын

    Another good day because my favorite law role model uploaded a video.💕 I pray that your new chambers are blessed ,that only success and blessings comes your way, that no evil eyes shall prosper & disrupt what the Lord has planned for you.

  • @loyisomakapela

    @loyisomakapela

    3 ай бұрын

    Thank youuuu!! 🙏🏾🧡🌼🧿

  • @monasomatla
    @monasomatla3 ай бұрын

    Not a lawyer, not an advocate, not a law student, not moving into no chambers, just here because I looooooove your content and your Dark❤❤❤ Chocolate

  • @loyisomakapela

    @loyisomakapela

    3 ай бұрын

    😂🙌🏾 I love it! Monaso you’ve made my day🙏🏾🌼

  • @rumbidzairuwende6467

    @rumbidzairuwende6467

    3 ай бұрын

    That makes the 2 of us

  • @anwabone7
    @anwabone73 ай бұрын

    Dearest Loyiso 💕 celebrating 🥳 your new chamber space. I loved that the new space was completely not 🫗 empty, cause once you move in it will be amazingly beautiful to see how you activate your chamber to be apart of you. I have also been loving how you intentionally share the architecture of places in JHB. It helps a viewer like me have the opportunity to step into a place i have never seen or been to before. Thank you for the exquisite meal prepared. Lovely to see that Choco has grown into a handsome teenage. Loving your wins and to more of all round wins 🎉🎉

  • @loyisomakapela

    @loyisomakapela

    3 ай бұрын

    Wow. Anwabone, what a heartfelt and genuine comment& compliment. Thank you so much, I truly appreciate your wonderfully kind words so much🙏🏾🧡

  • @aishadiop6015
    @aishadiop60153 ай бұрын

    Such a wholesome, pleasure to watch 💛💛 Thank you for sharing yourself with us. You are so peaceful and zen 🧘🏾‍♀️

  • @loyisomakapela

    @loyisomakapela

    3 ай бұрын

    You are so welcome, and thank you A’isha🌼

  • @PalesaS17
    @PalesaS173 ай бұрын

    I really like how you take care of yourself, eating healthy, taking your walks. I also like how your space is soo beautiful and cosy. The table setting always beautiful. The food looks amazing 🤌🏾🤌🏾 loving the wins too 🤗

  • @loyisomakapela

    @loyisomakapela

    3 ай бұрын

    I try hey, don’t always get it right, but I make sure to vlog the days I do😅😂 thank you as always for the lovely comments under the vlogs Palesa, appreciate it🙏🏾🌼

  • @phumzilenkomo9571
    @phumzilenkomo95713 ай бұрын

    Love it 👌🏾👌🏾,can’t wait to see the office once you’ve settled in. ❤🌹

  • @rumbidzairuwende6467
    @rumbidzairuwende64673 ай бұрын

    Love your vlogs so much

  • @tshegoblooms
    @tshegoblooms3 ай бұрын

    Love everything about this vlog❤❤

  • @user-ln6dk9fg1n
    @user-ln6dk9fg1n3 ай бұрын

    So wholesome. Loving your vlogs ❤

  • @avumilemenziwa1076
    @avumilemenziwa10763 ай бұрын

    Your chambers are nice and big, can’t wait to see the final furnished look. 🫶🏼 Your home office is so nice and cozy in the evenings, I also think the meal was an amazing form of celebration! 🥳 Loved the vlog overall, and as always the music is top tier! Thanks Loyiso! 🫶🏼

  • @loyisomakapela

    @loyisomakapela

    3 ай бұрын

    Thank you Avumile, such a wonderful comment🙏🏾🙏🏾🧡

  • @nomkhosi_nqobile
    @nomkhosi_nqobile3 ай бұрын

    I love this channel so much🙏🏾. As a Law student it’s so motivating to watch💌

  • @loyisomakapela

    @loyisomakapela

    3 ай бұрын

    I'm so glad Nqobile! Thank you🌼

  • @thecafebyk
    @thecafebyk3 ай бұрын

    I had to drop everything for my homie 😫

  • @loyisomakapela

    @loyisomakapela

    3 ай бұрын

    Ayyyyeee!!!

  • @pearll.7876
    @pearll.78763 ай бұрын

    Those proteas look so cheerful on your table. It's such an underrepresented flower 😂.

  • @loyisomakapela

    @loyisomakapela

    3 ай бұрын

    #JusticeForProteas indeed😅

  • @qhawewrites
    @qhawewritesАй бұрын

    Hi I just recently discovered your channel and I am loving your content😍

  • @madiyaish
    @madiyaish3 ай бұрын

    Wholesome content❤

  • @pearll.7876
    @pearll.78763 ай бұрын

    You motivate me to think about my plating. I often forget that we also eat with our eyes.

  • @siphiwongobeni157
    @siphiwongobeni1573 ай бұрын

    Wholesomeness 🎉🎉thank you for sharing your beautiful journey with us.❤❤ I'm always inspired to dream further....

  • @loyisomakapela

    @loyisomakapela

    3 ай бұрын

    You are so welcome Siphiwo, thank you🌼

  • @Ongz695
    @Ongz6953 ай бұрын

    If you not watching Loyiso's content over and over and over, what are you doing on KZread? Thanks for this, cant wait for the next one.

  • @loyisomakapela

    @loyisomakapela

    3 ай бұрын

    Ayyyeeeeee💃🏾🙌🏾

  • @nkulihadebe_wieners
    @nkulihadebe_wieners3 ай бұрын

    Fresh new subbie 🥳. I love your content so much that I pressed the subscribe button only after watching 2 videos and that is a first for me 😍.

  • @loyisomakapela

    @loyisomakapela

    3 ай бұрын

    Aaaah welcome to this lovely community of ours Nkuli!! Thank you🙏🏾🌼

  • @LuseanLamine
    @LuseanLamine3 ай бұрын

    My favourite KZreadr!!❤❤

  • @-msssbuthelezi3319
    @-msssbuthelezi33193 ай бұрын

    Have you been working from home? So as an adv you don't necessarily need to work from chambers?

  • @siyandaquentinfojile1759
    @siyandaquentinfojile17593 ай бұрын

    I'm in my second year of the LLB and I know I'll make it to your level. Thanks for always being an inspiration to those of us who are still in the baby steps of the profession. ❤️⚖️🙌🤍

  • @barryi4420
    @barryi4420Ай бұрын

    P R O M O S M 💞

  • @crystaln1808
    @crystaln18083 ай бұрын

    Hi Loyiso, I really love and enjoy your blog. Thanks for sharing your creativity ❤🎉. Wha is your IG handle please, I could not find you when searched.

  • @pm4594

    @pm4594

    3 ай бұрын

    Loyiso mentioned in a previous video that she's off Instagram for almost a year now I think.

  • @crystaln1808

    @crystaln1808

    3 ай бұрын

    Okay cool thanks, missed that.

  • @loyisomakapela

    @loyisomakapela

    3 ай бұрын

    Thanks Crystal! As @pm4594 has said, I don’t have any social media hey

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