Love listening to you x I've always been a 🐸 🤣 ... it's a shame but it's best staying on your own, nobody else looks after you better, than yourself.... but I'm a Virgo so it's hard, we care.... but at 49 I really have to look after myself now.... we only live once x thanks so much for your reading x

@butchtarot5730

24 күн бұрын

You’re so welcome. For every person we meet who isn’t the one gets us closer to the one. Stay safe my friend

@danielleszarell

24 күн бұрын

Peg-Ham ¿ no?

Virgos have the most love for you Butch❤❤❤

Thank you, Butch. This person is my mother. It’s heartbreaking when you have to disengage (finally did a few years ago), but you still care. Can’t help someone who won’t help themselves, and hates you for trying to help them.

Thank you butch for the reading and for your honesty. It means a lot. You are just speaking the message my heart has been knowing. Somethings just dont change. Unless the person wants to change them. I've been hoping he would push past his fears to build a great relationship. Right now he is just hiding in his work. Avoiding talking about anything at all. Can't stay forever. That is only torture for me. But as Virgo we want people to love as big as we do. Sometimes they just can not.

Accurate reading...thank you. This person seems to self sabotage at each turn. Your description of my thoughts/feelings about them is a good one. I do believe they need a friend, but I am unable to be more than that again. I did see so much potential in our short lived connection; but learned the hard way about 7 months ago after "hot and cold"...I walked away at that time....I would like to feel that way about someone in the future, that does want a partner, however that manifest itself. Thank you again.

You can never change a person unless they want on their own!!thank you Butch❤ be good!!

Yup- it’s been hot/cold since I’ve known him. (2016). Still stuck on negative thinking, still living w/ sum1 & doesn’t hav his own place. . Won’t open up abt his feelings but wants me to confess my love to him. I was hopeful things would get better & we would progress together. I’m tired of allowing him to come/go & drain my energy. I give of myself emotionally & get nothing but frustration from him. I been seeing the 🚩. Classic narc😳.

I helped my big brother too during hard times. It was hard but worth it. He was clean for so many years and helped others from then on. He got therapy and lots of help and he did it.Saved his life. He would not mind me telling the story cuz he told it alot to others to help them. He wanted to get help though. Thank you Butch! I will be careful. I dont know for sure who this maybe for me. God bless! xx

Mannnn I remember watching TheCryingGame from 1992, and they used the frog and scorpion analogy in the movie so so well. Scorpion straight up says, it’s in my nature 🎉. And yes they both drown.

This reading can really help people ❤ thank you for speaking your truth, Butch.

the frog-scorpion story made me cry

This person is an avoident man and I don't have what he needs to go forward with this. He's lovely, I've never had someone that makes my heart beat the way it does when he is near, (sounds so sappy 😂) Iiking him is suicide for me, there is only so much rejection a girl can take before knowing what's best for herself. Thank you so much for the reading, I had this wake up call few weeks ago x

@FoolintheRainSDMF

25 күн бұрын

My ex girl is avoident & more things absolute poison to me but she was perfect all at once. So now the keys been to work on the parts of me that would think that someone like that was the for sure one when she wasn't/isn't. Sucks to admit the person we really wanted was moreso imagined rather than a reality.

@lindsay1770

25 күн бұрын

@@FoolintheRainSDMF very true. Fantasy was always better than reality 😂😂 but then you're at risk of putting yourself in Limerence 😂😂. know you're own worth, lesson to be learned I guess 🤦.

@FoolintheRainSDMF

25 күн бұрын

@lindsay1770 that's the whole point of why some people come into path to begin with so we learn later on. Apparently some of us needed something/someone to rattle us so damn bad that we would be sick of their shit but not as much as we are of our own! Then we think,"damn these lessons were expensive and cost a lot of every resource we have, so now have to apply them or else it was all for nothin." Given that we see how bad it sucks we damn sure don't want to go through it again and history does repeat itself when we don't learn. That's why it's good that people are sharing openly their wrongs and how they've been done so that maybe others won't have to or will at least know they're not the only ones because most of us wouldn't have listened ahead of time, it would of interrupted our "bliss"😆

@lindsay1770

25 күн бұрын

@@FoolintheRainSDMF I agree with this completely, I don't fancy repeating any other mistakes, I do believe these thing happen for a reason. To be fair, I think you may have had it much worse than me, this man didn't let me in enough to really do me any real emotional harm, hurt enough for what it was / wasn't. Think he was doing me a favour holding me at arms length, don't think he was trying to hurt me, more so guarding himself. I don't hold any Ill will towards him, in fact my heart actually goes out to him. I'm just not interested in chasing something that's not meant, I'm not the chasing kind anyways 😂😂.

@FoolintheRainSDMF

25 күн бұрын

@lindsay1770 I've been in similar situations as what you're describing not fun and can't do what they/we don't know. It's definitely good to not chase things at all. Shit gets old real quick. Games are cool but not to play with people 😆

I definitely appreciate this and you sharing your experience. It's been about two years now since I've talked to my little sister and I think about her every day. We didn't have the easiest childhood, and I wrestled demons for years myself: I have been sober for 8 years now, but I enabled her addictions for a long time, because when I looked at her I just still saw my little sister and then she had my nephews and my niece which made it even harder for me to tell her no. I finally had to take a step back and see that all I was doing was enabling her to get worse. I don't know how she's doing now, because I had to quit answering the phone like you said and block all contact it was stressing me out so bad the things that she was putting herself through and inevitably me since I was the only one who was there in the end, really I was the only one she had; we had different dads and unfortunately she didn't have the type of father I did and our mother.... we won't go into that but it's really hard for anybody going through this I definitely sympathize and I pray for you and your loved ones. as a recovering addict I will say, you have to hit bottom, you have to there's no other way! nobody can save you from you and like what you're saying you have your messes cleaned up for you so there's no reason to quit until you have to do it yourself. If you happen to be in the position of the enabler I can tell you this do not allow your mind to tell you that you have to help them or they will die, because your "help" is actually killing them and you are 100% the reason they're not getting better. I know this from experience until my father dropped me on my **** and I watched not only the pain that it caused him but then I had to face my own mess/clean my life up myself, I finally realized it had gone too far and it was time to fix my life you have to let them do it and it's hard to watch somebody who love struggle, but theres just no other way my friend.

Glad I don’t have anyone when I hear readings like this…

Your allegory was surreal..... I'm a Virgo (frog) going thru exactly what your reading says with a Scorpio.

Thanks for giving heart felt truth.

I have been in this situation. I am not any longer. Thank you Butch ❤

yep its a fable, stinging is in the nature of the scorpion so if someone exhibits that behaviour they get cut off quicker than a quick fit fitter ;)

That is a good story ❤️ Love and friendship. Thank you so much!

Spot in Butch it's a Sagittarius can't quit his acholol addiction been through this before with someone who passed away from this addiction not doing it again. Being a Virgo always wanting to save people. I know it doesn't work like that 🙏😞

@tawnywhitney140

24 күн бұрын

Spot on I mean I don't have edit on my comments

Butch, I looked and looked and looked for someone who reads cards that resonate with me. Every single time I have watched your videos they have been so damn spot on. Word for word conversations we’ve had. I really wish I watched this one yesterday.im so happy to let go of this person.

This wholllleeeeeeee read was so spot on!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you Butch. My friend has no intention of addressing his addiction. The guilt from having to set boundaries is intense, but only he can want to do it. Incredibly sad to witness his demise 🙏 you made me release my tears here

My holy this reading was really 🎯💥👊 And the metafor-story was Spot On too 👍

Wow thank you❤ just confirmed everything I've known and felt for a long time, not that I really needed confirmation but you could not have been more accurate . Thank you 😊

Thanks for the analogy. It really makes sense. I’ve broken up with them. But he keeps coming back to try to get my attention. I have to let him go

The moral of the story is Don't go out with Scorpios LOL JK ;)

@opharahanglin9624

24 күн бұрын

So so so true 👍

@gherbie7705

23 күн бұрын

Hey easy now not true! Virgo Sun Scorpio rising

@opharahanglin9624

22 күн бұрын

@@gherbie7705 big up scorpio ♏️ 🤪. For real. Do not change. Thank you.

Thank you soooo much for your honesty and genuine concern

❤🎉 Thanks Butch🎉Clarity. And Honesty are a must🎉

Self Denial!!!..I'm Ignoring It!..But, Still Wanna Help Him!❤

Yes This Is A Friendship Yes There Is To Much Going On With Him Yes Butch So On Point Too Many Secrets

I feel this deeply due to being actually dumped from a wonderful and fulfilling connection I had with them. So in truth, I am worried that he may ask again and then get dumped once more. I definitely feel the hot and cold zones with this situation, I do want to have hopes for the best but I do feel the worst when thinking about it. So just been thinking of my future, as in career and my life. I just want them to focus on themselves before committing to an actual relationship again. And yes technically we are trying to be friends. So wish me luck, cuz idk how this road trip will go. Thanks for the lovely reading, it helps with boosting my guard up on this matter.

Always enjoy you sharing your personal stories ❤

Thank you, Butch. Your ability to pick up on things is uncanny. Hope you’re doing well!

Butch how resonating! Im currently dealing with an ♏ who has a pronography problem in the last 27 years and Im ready to walk out 10 years ago!

Yo I use 2 watch u when I was at my lowest point bk in 2022 now am more grateful than ever thanks 2 u🎉

this just brought me to a huge realization. wow, thank you.

Very clear message, thank you ❤

Thank you for sharing your story. It helped. I needed to hear it.

appreciate the confirmation Butch. thank you 🙏

Thank You Dear Butch For This Reading

Thanks for the knowledge reading, it was good to hear it even if knowing? 🎉❤

I seriously needed this right now.. Thank you for the confirmation 🙌🙌🙌

This hit HARD. Thanks, Butch😊

Michigan virgo, water energy, lady of the lakes❤

Love the stories...You have a heart of Gold...❤

Thank you Butch. Have a fantastic weekend. 😊❤

Thank you... Butch...❤

Thank you Butch!! I am Virgo Rising , I wrote under Aquarius, ( my moon sign) about what is going on... THIS READING has to play into what I wrote on Aquarius... as Leo has always been a Big drinker. He needs Healing and only HE can make it happen.

So on point!! Thank you

Love ❤you brother, lol I am the frog, he is a scorpion! Thank you for your beautiful stories

Scopios R 2 Deadly! lol

Resonates. Ty so much for the guidance.

@butchtarot5730

24 күн бұрын

You are so welcome

Thank you❤

Butch, thank you for this, so much. I needed to hear this and it has triple-confirmed how I'm feeling. Sex addiction is horrid and destructive.

Kia Ora ❤ long time ♍😁your dad says hi son yes we love to help and teach the truth 😁r awesome BUTCH WE LOVE CANCERS ❤❤❤❤❤ havd a huge heart. Sending you love from the Divine 🎉❤

Breaks my heart ❤… and I know this is true..

Thank you, confirmation!

You are soooooo goooood!!!

Yup iv walked away too im a virgo

Omg you are soo right about this guy I just met. Wants a relationship but runs hot and cold. I think he has a sex and alcohol addiction but you’re right he hides it. I’m over it. He’s a Gemini too

Good afternoon. Love ur readings

Wow this was spot on and it sucks bc I don't want to let him go but I know I have to .. 😢

So on point ❤

Thank you 👏🏻good reading

@butchtarot5730

24 күн бұрын

Welcome!

Thanks for the truth

❤ Great reading Butch. I've wasted 2.5 years on Pisces, hot, cold, in, out, I love you, I don't, I want my Independence, but I miss you, yes he's got addiction Alcohol, he's a functioning alcohol, he's not aggressive towards me. I see potential in him, as he can be caring, loving sensitive, but then he goes all cold. I waited, helped, gave all my time to helping him try understand he can be a much better person, but he left me down BIG TIME, 1st when I had an operation, he wasn't there for me. 2nd My dog, my soulmate died last week, he knew that dog was my world, he again wasn't there for me, oh he said he was sorry about the dog, but said he'd come round help me get through the 1st day/night but he was a NO SHOW 😢, so I'm done 100%, I've walked away in the past and always went back, but this is the straw that broke the camel's back, we broke up at Christmas, so we were just meant to be friends now, but friends are supposed to be there for you, he's no friend of mine, I'm OUT.

@SuperChicago101

25 күн бұрын

Been in your exact position. Glad I separated three years ago. I dont know myself with the " peace and quiet" in the house. A functioning Alcoholic will always let you down. I wish you the very best, stay strong ,you deserve so much better!!

@lanamays7136

25 күн бұрын

I'm sorry hear that, I'm dealing with Pisces now and we Bern talking for a year on 8/12. He so hot then s cold I was just looking for a sign because I Been feeling he's going thur drinking cycle again. I'm wishing you best break the cycle . I'm trying not to get deep in . Thanks for sharing

You can't Change A Person They Need To Change Themselves Yes I Tried Butch Yes He Needs Me Yes It's A Friendship Yes There Is To Much Going On With This Person

Lies & SECRETS are like CHOKEING & DROWNING IN YOUR OWN VOMIT.

Hey Butch , hope you are doing well.❤

🎯 Thanks Butch! Sadd but true. Moving on, deserve better. 💔

Good reading 👌

Ty

Bless you. You should have been my big brother. Xx

He a saturtrius and Virgo Humm so true

WHANAU BRO 😎. Absolutely 💯💯im a Therapist I'm straight up 😅 exactly 💯💯

Im a Indigo VIRGO ♍🤟

I Think I Jus May Know Of That Person!..And, I Think!..U R Rite!..2 Much Going On In His Head Where He Is!..I Would Feel The Same!.. If, I Was Where He Is! Thanks!..It Makes Sense 2 Me!😮❤❤

Yes this is my ex. Weve been seperated 6 years. He is an addict and it's hurt me so much. I know he can't be honest or in our lives. I did see the potential in him. Idont want to be with him, I just wanna see him do well. I feel guilty for letting him go knowing he won't create a good life for himself. I don't know how to let go of the guilt it feels like I chose my life over his death even though he's still alive. I know he won't change but it's very hard. Thank you for this message I needed it today.

Exactly 💯

I’m Scorpio and love with a Virgo man I don’t know what happened tbh we just couldn’t get over the hump

Facts

That's sad, find your strength and self worth if you're going to be picking up the pieces of your 💔 alone 😢

Dishonesty leads to KAIOS & CONFUSION.

Crosswatcher pisces here. I love virgo with my whole heart. We were making a life, plans, memories together. Out of no where virgo left me to go back to his ex wife. He told me he was broken and needed to heal. He told me he missed his wife and there life. When said all that and just disappeared he completely let me down, im crushed. He left all his stuff in my house. He cut me off and threw everything we created in the gutter. I can not trust him if he did come back because i know he will not let his past go. So, as much as i want to continue believing in the lies i have to go. Im getting on plane and moving 3k miles away. I dont trust myself to say no to him because i am in love with him and all he will do is play games with me. Im really really hurting over what happened. I dont even think he really loved me.

No, I don't know

Wow I’m dealing with a Sagittarius who is dealing with addictions and he is definitely hot and cold with me. I feel like he definitely is hiding shit from me bout the fact that he sneaking and getting drugs

Hi Butch

He has bipolar and drug addiction but we only dated..he is with someone else he is a Scorpio

💙💙💙💙💙

I'm a Leo woman and got none of this me and my Virgo man are good this is not me lol 😢😅

🙏🏻🙏🏻

hot and cold a player type shit

multiple addictions due to childhood sexual trauma. anything to block the pain. I can't turn my back.

A 🦂 jumped kermit 🐸 in the desert he was never the same after

You hit me and my exact 15 year off And on I’m Virgo she narcissist addicted Scorpio. Every detail is what she has done and what i have done and im the funding for my and her addiction she never has paid for any….. any I have

I didn't wanna hear it, but now that I'm listening, it's all pretty much true. Thank god I didn't have sex with them LoL - I'm not losing out on much except a lil bit of my time and energy, nothing that I can't bounce back from. Time to get back to what makes me, me. I just wanted to feel what it's like to be seen as the epicenter of someone else's life. I just wanted that feeling, but ok, time to evolve and face the music, it's not gonna happen with this individual. At least I kept my power and kept my pants on.

Divorced now Butch ,moved on bless

I want to like this, but I like seeing 777 views 💓✨

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