spoken like a true friend. he didnt bash him, spoke highly of him, tried to sympathize and expressed concern. I too hope Bam finds his peace. we all deserve it but unfortunately we all dont find it.

@brain189

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@kevinmcqueen9180

Жыл бұрын

Are you doctor Phil or something

@guen4413

Жыл бұрын

And the thing is, he CAN empathize because not too long ago he was in the exact situation Bam is in now. He understands the struggle, so he doesn't look at him with condescension

@Kinseliplier

Жыл бұрын

@@kevinmcqueen9180 Dr Phill: what are you talkin about Buddy?

@mikemichael777

Жыл бұрын

Facts 💯

One of the most well-spoken rockstars in the business

@Randomjackass135

8 ай бұрын

Comments like these are so stupid. In what way do you determine this? I need to start seeing evidence instead of observations from unobservant people.

@BUlrich-dw7xi

7 ай бұрын

@@Randomjackass135 IN HOW HE JUST SPOKE,CARINGLY, ETC.--TRY N LISTEN GEEEEENIUS!!!!!!!!!!!

@dh6565

6 ай бұрын

​@@Randomjackass135the fanboy/girl Syndrome is a strong one.Ville could fart during an Interview while simultaneously hunting his boogers and People would call him a well-mannered Genius

@francescoroych3984

5 ай бұрын

we can see you are also well-spoken, congrats.@@Randomjackass135

@riot_cats

5 ай бұрын

​@@dh6565actually, the guy was being genuinely sweet towards Bam here. Now as for OP, sure it was a little hyperbolic, but jeez unless you're jealous of the dude in the video, I don't know why you'd write your comment 😂

Vile speaking better English than 98% of people who speak English as a first language.

@juliadaimio7445

11 ай бұрын

I've been to Finland multiple times and almost all finns that I met had really great English. And of course being an international superstar helped a lot as well

@jamesblake5176

11 ай бұрын

i was just thinking that myself

@aimfuldrifter

11 ай бұрын

Not necessarily but he's good at it.

@jr28778

11 ай бұрын

As long as its not a white guy doing ebonics idc what tf they sound like

@JimBoFet171

10 ай бұрын

Speaking better than Bams Pennsylvanian aass

A rock star celebrity having wholesome, compassionate worldviews. It's great to see

@ComicusFreemanius

Жыл бұрын

He also enabled Bam for over a decade.

@kalin9ne651

11 ай бұрын

@@ComicusFreemaniusNo one enabled Bam other then himself

@ComicusFreemanius

10 ай бұрын

@@kalin9ne651He was Bam's hero, I guess that why I guess they say "Never meet 'em".

@phatboy4321

8 ай бұрын

​@ComicusFreemanius never meet your heroes.... who want you to stop dicking around with drugs and start taking care of your family??

@samholdsworth420

4 ай бұрын

​@@ComicusFreemaniususually it's because they disappoint you. Bam is the disappointment

Ville is such a humble guy

@Dorothyann436

Жыл бұрын

Yea except his family did in fact frame him before to stick him into involuntary treatmentfor almost 2 years straight while living off his money like hes britney spears. Unfortunately bam has a drinking problem however hes also being targeted because hes in a vulnerable position

@Alansworstnight

11 ай бұрын

@@Dorothyann436what does that have to do with Ville being a humble guy?

@jamesdecker1990

9 ай бұрын

​@atavistic_platypusHe's not judging Bam. He's hoping and wishing Bam gets help. Yeah, Ville had his own problems in the past but faced them and changed for the better.

@PneumaNoose

9 ай бұрын

@atavistic_platypusas someone who studies human behavior and emotion, you’re mistaking empathy for judgement.

@Cinder_311

4 ай бұрын

And smoking hot

The monster he's speaking of is addiction, he's not bashing his old friend. He's simply saying he hopes Bam gets help and support. The title took a very classy and compassionate statement and twisted it for views.

@TwizTMcNipz

9 ай бұрын

as usual

@wolfgangshmit7333

8 ай бұрын

100% The title is not what he said at all. Anything for a click these days

@fadeuhhway

7 ай бұрын

Also the title says "turning into a monster" while he literally says "turning into THE monster (that he's turning into)". If they used the actual word, then they'd have to use the full, real quote, which would make it harder for them to twist it. That's so fcked especially the circumstances

@mediumChungus69

6 ай бұрын

No he's not lmao Bam is fucking up even when sober. It's 100% okay to acknowledge that someone is becoming a monster and needs help. Addiction is only one of the aspects turning Bam a monster right now. That doesn't mean Ville is just talking shit or "bashing him" lol

@mediumChungus69

6 ай бұрын

You're twisting his words yourself to try to make it sound like he wasn't saying Bam is turning into a monster, because you think that's mean for some reason?

Ville is a class act. Isn’t bashing him, he is showing concern, while relating to him and wishing him well.

@SAMEntalhealth

3 ай бұрын

While also being the lead singer for him😅

“Monster” was by no means a condescension. Ville has been where Bam is and had turned into a monster HIMself for a season of his life. He can relate to Bam’s struggle. People are twisting this out of context.

@TarnTarn-zv6cp

Жыл бұрын

Himself 😂

@Acidlib

Жыл бұрын

Idk Bam that well and I barely know anything about HIM (that “wings of a butterfly” song that was popular when I was in high school and the heartogram logo are pretty much all I can remember), but as an addict I think it’s pretty obvious that he’s using the term from a place of love, plus I’d think the context of the rest of the video would make it a bit more obvious that he’s not trying to be derogatory or overly critical towards Bam.

@KahlessTheUnforgettable

Жыл бұрын

I think they are both lame twats

@germangonzales2008

Жыл бұрын

hes not even techincally wrong bam has become an alcoholic monster. If i call milk milk its not that i am a condensation is because is milk is what it is

@ryannorman8898

Жыл бұрын

I see what you did there😂. And yes he said nothing wrong. Drugs absolutely can turn you into a monster. I’ve been that way myself.

Don't contort this man's perfect synopsis of the situation for clickbait. He did not say "He is a monster". He said "he's turning into 'the' monster" that is an extremely important distinction. He meant Bam is in the throes of full blown addiction and anyone truly familiar with it has the capacity to both realize and distinguish between the true self and the shadow self. That is the Jekyl and Hyde of active addiction.

@victormature344

Жыл бұрын

You're wrong

@damianocalypse2303

Жыл бұрын

@@victormature344 literally what? How was anything he said in that comment wrong .

@iamryan9234

Жыл бұрын

No one is saying that in the comments

@DrSpoculus

Жыл бұрын

He did say he's turning into a monster though. It's a quote. You clicked and expected something else said in a different way based on how you read the quote.

@jaythomas7062

Жыл бұрын

​@@DrSpoculus A quote is meant to be verbatim, you know word for word. They definitely contorted his wording on purpose.

He said it really well. “He’s a sensitive special fella.”

Ville stopped drinking but Bam continued... And they are about same age yet Bam looks like Ville's father at the moment... Drinking truly fucks people up

@drunkenmmamaster419

Жыл бұрын

Yes it does , it will age a person 10 years in 3

@eltonwild5648

Жыл бұрын

Of course, but Ville has great genetics

@DeejayVillain

Жыл бұрын

It does indeed… It turns the most amazing people into complete arseholes… It really sucks that it’s legal…

@retrocompaq5212

Жыл бұрын

his face is full of makeup and bam eats food regulary, not villle, bam still look younger than many women in their 30's that took care of themselves

@saarapollonen8138

Жыл бұрын

@@retrocompaq5212 thanks for the laughs 😂 I don't remember when was the last time I laughed at some comment this much 🤣

You know its bad when even Ville cant reach or help him ._.

@metalvox89

Жыл бұрын

Doesn't help thar Bam had been in a conservatorship and is not having a good time. Look up The Surprise Witness regarding Bam.

@sgt.lincolnosiris4111

Жыл бұрын

Bam pushed him away with all bams bs while Valo was getting sober. Bam feels betrayed by everyone while he raps with busted chick's in a crack house. He doesn't want help. It's everyone else's fault and he won't let Ryan's death go.

@bradpity

Жыл бұрын

@@sgt.lincolnosiris4111 that video is years old, taken when he was still with nikki

@Chaelsonen

Жыл бұрын

@@bradpity Good thing theres been years of him doing dumb stuff in between to fill the gap.

@sgt.lincolnosiris4111

Жыл бұрын

@@Chaelsonen it was the first of many that came to mind. How low can you go after making 100s of millions. I remember when he was the youngest person on Forbes list.

I’m sure Bam is just killing loneliness..

@5Demona5

Жыл бұрын

The fact that that song is speaking of hard drugs.... I certainly hope Bam isn't Killing Loneliness in the same way

@phillychild122

Жыл бұрын

Novak was the inspiration for that song

@masterofwit339

Жыл бұрын

That’s the funny thing about voids…. They just get deeper and deeper when in active addiction. It’s the cycle of hell… he could be lonely (we know he’s forever devastated over Dunn’s passing) but he’s actively desecrating relationships, pushing anyone and everyone away (from his paranoia, anger, situational hatred, etc) thus the void expands and the drugs ingested ten fold.

@Majessty333

Жыл бұрын

👀

@doomtho42

11 ай бұрын

@@dr2599 Oh god, I know exactly what you mean, and you’re spot on about the twisted romance of destruction/death. I mean, I think the romanticization of death during addiction is perfectly understandable, so I get why I felt the way I did at that time and I don’t feel ‘bad’ or ashamed about it, but it definitely makes me cringe to think about now - and I don’t say cringe to mean “makes me feel embarrassed” but more like “makes my skin crawl.” And yeah, I also have a really hard time listening to some of the music that I listened to then, for essentially the same reason I just mentioned. It’s somewhat ironic, because it’s the music that quite literally kept me alive - I mean it was truly the only thing that preserved what little will to live I had left - and now it just brings back all those feelings of cold, empty, darkness that I never want to experience again.

He answered in such a good way, like a true friend

Does this dude even age?

@DoubleDash28

Жыл бұрын

Vampire

@dthlive1

Жыл бұрын

No.

@dthlive1

Жыл бұрын

May all the hats have something to do with it.

@5Demona5

Жыл бұрын

He's always looked like a vampire, sounds like one too, seducts like one too. All the clues are there

@WiseAngelUK

Жыл бұрын

His family dont care, they are trying to force him into a conservatorship with Aura, who have a bad rep. HES been sober for a year, he cant have a phone as they track him constantly.

Bam needs to hear/see this

That's a friend right there.

I've had a crush on him since highschool. He looks so good still holy shit!!

@nicholaigardner8150

Жыл бұрын

I ama straight man and I have a crush on Ville. He is so classy

@terribrandt0305

Жыл бұрын

He aged like fine wine.

@ClickClack_Bam

Жыл бұрын

The guy is wearing eye liner lol. He's into men.

@samanthamarie6640

Жыл бұрын

Same here❤

@andysux1

Жыл бұрын

​@@nicholaigardner8150im not the only one 😭

My guy has stunning eyes

@silver47official

Жыл бұрын

My guy? I wish people would stop saying that. It’s really annoying.

@positivepsycho2932

Жыл бұрын

​@@silver47official😂😂😂😂 it's not just me. That shit and bruh/bro.

@Beef5

Жыл бұрын

Smoke his pole then and ask him for eyeliner advice. You fruit cakes can be happy.

@ItsNikoHIMself

Жыл бұрын

​@@silver47official Don't worry about that, my guy.

@michaelgarica8195

Жыл бұрын

That’s hella sus my guy 😂

Ville valo so humble for real I went to his show last week and it was amazing he’s an amazing singer and person I hope I see him again soon

purest most humble statement on Bams state of being these days.. spoken withvtrue compassion and humbled...

At least Ville is being honest… and he sympathizes with him because Villes been on the same boat

Dang. That’s was loving but hard. That’s how friendships should be. This fella has an amazing way with words.

Words of truth from Ville. He understands what's important in life - family, love and creating beautiful, meaningful things. It takes guts to openly say the truth and Ville nailed it, calling Bam a "monster". I can only imagine the pain he's gone through after losing Ryan, his best friend but enough is enough. He can't blame everyone for his situation...So many people have offered their help, family, friends, even some skaters from Italy but he stands by his means...Hope he will triumph after all.

Someone need to send this to BAM. Immediately

@dogbog99

Жыл бұрын

He will hear about it/see it I’m sure

@tommyfraz.

Жыл бұрын

Issue is, Bam is blaming everyone for his issues. April even blamed Ville for Bam’s Issues. Bam likely won’t hear the words, except “monster,” which would be out of context.

Is this the lead singer of HIM? He is so handsome!! Always had a crush on him.

@alicemornie2303

Жыл бұрын

he definitely is, handsome and humble as ever

@JumpinJackClash

Жыл бұрын

That is yeah, Ville Valo. He just put out a solo record.

@gregpickett8816

Жыл бұрын

​@@JumpinJackClash his solo stuff is great because he can get as weird as he wants to with it. Those songs wouldn't have fit with HIM's theme.

@anthonydelange4128

Жыл бұрын

still do

@faked_my_death

3 ай бұрын

@AnAdorableWombat1 Agreed, Ville is an absolute BEAUTY. Such gorgeous, captivating eyes 😍🤩

His own idol is out here giving advice wanting to see him better, we all want you better bam you are great you aren’t the only person who has these issues just power threw them :)

That is one good looking dude, from one dude to another. Bam really looked up to this guy and his band had a huge influence on Bam. Kind caring person who wants the best for Bam

One of the best clean vocalist all of Time

I like his elegant way of putting harsh truths he's a good friend

Holy cow, his voice sounds so much better and different, I'm guessing since quiting smoking a d drinking, his health has improved

@5Demona5

Жыл бұрын

Indeed! His skin looks way better too

@Kwwwyjibo

Жыл бұрын

He got veneers too, cause he has a thing where he grinds his teeth so that affected his voice too, but in a good way!

@googledofferhas

Жыл бұрын

No need for guessing there!

@xerrymx

Жыл бұрын

Not cocaine tough lol

@hithere4719

8 ай бұрын

@@xerrymx some guys just like the way it smells 👍🏻

Man it is really beyond tragic that even his hero cant get through to him :(

Glad I watched the full video rather than judging him based on the title. Beautifully put

This guy still looks young and healthy. Like look at Ville and look at Bam...

@charlottecobain6986

Жыл бұрын

Dope sometimes pickles people rather than ages them 🤷‍♀️

@Crunch_Buttsteak

Жыл бұрын

I was thinking the exact thing

@jameshinde7207

Жыл бұрын

Genetics though. Look at Phill and then look at Bam…. Or even Don Vito

@Th3Downz

Жыл бұрын

Not to be a contrarian, but he looks like the Thin White Duke Bowie and he wasn't healthy at all at that point. I'm sure Ville is 100x healthier than Bowie was at that time, but he has that same pale and gaunt look

@deadassdgaf100

Жыл бұрын

ummmm....👀 he looks like the poster boy for Hepatitis, but that's just imo.

Ville is sooooo gorgeous, and has a beautiful soul. 🖤🖤

@shainshartershwate7421

Жыл бұрын

A beautiful hole

This is full of love and compassion. I think he cares a lot. He said this with so much care and intentionality. I wish I had someone like this in my life. I hope bam will find strength peace support love

Ville is aging in reverse! Getting off the booze & the cigs & getting his mental state in check has done wonders! His new solo album is amazing as well!

What a beautiful human, gorgeous voice, and a good friend ❤

@frauwaltraud2214

5 ай бұрын

Wer ihn bekommt, wird sich freuen....

Ville is spot-on with the advice and straightforward concern for his friend.

It's wild to see the complete flip in Novak and Margera's stories. Goes to show that incredibly terrible situations can become better, and seemingly great situations can go awry in no time a'tall.

@arthurmilano2920

Жыл бұрын

Aged terribly

@anghellicone87

Жыл бұрын

That's what I always tell people who talk down on addicts/homeless/down-and-outs... You're only one bad situation/choice from being where that person is. We are all human and have struggled at some point. Some peoples struggles was worse than others. That's all.

@slygarci6138

Жыл бұрын

novak was worse , idk why people saying that shit,

@brandocalrissian3294

Жыл бұрын

​@@anghellicone87 as the Joker puts it, "everyone is just one bad day away from becoming me."

@Secter84

Жыл бұрын

Novak is a major liar though. He might be clean but the majority of what he says is complete bullshit. Like he was never a pro skater, he was never on Viva la Bam as a permanent cast member he was just there for the actual cast to beat up and make fun of.

Ville is such a lovely man ❤

Ville ages like fine wine 🖤

@Febard

9 ай бұрын

im surprised how good he looks after all those cigarettes, booze and drugs :D good for Him

Ville is such a beautiful soul. I'm really hoping he returns again to Seattle or the West Coast sooner than later. I missed this recent show by one day. One of the most special voices on the planet. More songs please 😅

We’ve all lost someone we loved deeply. Bams gotta get himself together for his son

The only man who has a severe drinking problem but came out even more beautiful after he quit drinking. Bam thought he could drink to the same extreme as Ville and come out the same. Lol

@frauwaltraud2214

5 ай бұрын

Ja, da hat er Glück, das sein Aussehen nicht so gelitten hat. Seine schönen Augen hat er behalten...

Ville is an amazing dude. Super down to earth. I got tons of respect for him. And we want to see Bam better.

Wow so beautifully spoken. I really hope bam sees this and is able to reach out to ville. He seems like the one true friend bam needs right now

Hope he sees this. He's got a lot to lose.

@kdizzle901

Жыл бұрын

He’s already lost it

@Redmist-se7ld

Жыл бұрын

@@kdizzle901 bams already too far gone in his madness that some of his fans lost hope and used to look up to him 20 years ago

This guy is responsible for deaths of countless butterflies 🦋😂

My mother asked about Ville the other day (I was in love with HIM for several years as a teen), and I was so happy to be able to tell of how his life has turned around. Good on you, Ville ❤

I can't believe he is more of a beautiful, cool dude than he was ever before. Im really happy for Ville.

That was well spoken. He is right to the point in a respectful way.

Wow what a great and honest message

I think the world of skating misses Bam so much. But I also know his family misses him as well. If he comes back sober, he’ll be an icon in a way he never understood was possible

Very good friend right there. Bam is lucky to have people that care about him. Hopefully he realizes this before it’s too late.

You’d think if anyone’s gonna get thru to bam it will be Ville, nice to hear him wanting the best him

Valo is so much more mature, nowadays. This guy used to be a party monster himself.

“It’s not going to lead to anything better or beautiful” I like that a lot

"Of the same ilk" if you mean they struggle with addiction. Bam was incredibly cruel to Brandon Novak for that same reason and Brandon still loves him, not the same.

GREAT RESPONSE. Hope Bam hears this.

Bam started drinking hardcore because he wanted to be like him

@rybo0072

12 күн бұрын

Bam was already off his face on drugs and everything else waaaaay before he met ville which everybody fails to realise

Addicts blame everyone else. They think everyone else is the problem, not them. Its truly sad to see him struggle.

It sucks that the title of the video wasn't "He's a nice guy," or "he's a sensitive, special fella," or "I can understand some of it" or one of the numerous positive things Ville said. The ONE negative thing he said was picked out and turned into the title of the video like it was gonna be one more video trashing a guy who's in one of the worst places he's been in his entire life, kicking a man while he's down. But I get it. It's just gross what gets views, I guess.

I am sooooo glad he is saying this. Cuz bam absolutely LOVES this guys Music And He called bam a monster. Not to diss bam. But It’s the TRUTH His behavior is ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING And Bam has a CHILD that should be his main objective ….PERIOD NOT drugs and chaos

That was very well said! Kudos to Ville! 👏🏻

This guy is super genuine

That's a very empathetic, but firmly logical answer.

Bam partied harder than most rock stars

Its me or ville valo looks younger?

@imoutofideasfornames

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, he definitely doesn’t look 46 years old…

@frauwaltraud2214

5 ай бұрын

Einfach gute Haut.

You got to love Ville! He is such a good guy. And we all know he wants the good old Bam again 😢

I'm so glad he didn't bash him , poor bam lost his best friend , as both me and my fiance did also and have been rooting for him to make a come back and said we'd start skating if he did , so we're. Back skating at 37 years old , thanks bam

April blamed Ville Valo for Bam’s drinking, but VV still sends love and support towards Bam. Just goes to show you who the biggest enablers truly are, and they need help too.

@Nick_4545

Жыл бұрын

Im sure it didnt' help bam's cause but i think the passing of Ryan Dunn is what really did Bam in. I believe that if Dunn was still here Bam would be a completely different person

@Febard

9 ай бұрын

bam and his ''friends'' that enable him needs to grow a pair and start taking responsibility for their actions rather than blaming their degeneracy on others -_- Pirun tussut

What a very loving statement by Ville.

Funny that you all believe what Bam said that his issues are Villes fault. Well, Bam was never a person who had to take accountability for their behavior so it‘s always easier to blame others when their shit goes sideways. There was a lot of shit going down in the beginning of their friendhip in Helsinki that a lot of people (me including) weren‘t fond of Bam. They became poison for each other. I‘m glad that they don‘t hang out anymore and that Ville got hold of his issues.

When your own hero says this to you. That should be all the motivation, inspiration and encouragement you could ever need.

Meanwhile Bam is abusing his family with pots and pans.

He's still a gorgeous man and so humble and so loveable.

For a guy named "Vile" he really is a class act. Glad this guy's music was such a huge part of my young life

Bam's tried to emulate Ville from the jump, he worshipped Ville. Gerard Way is that for me, I can't imagine hearing him say I was a monster... Still rooting for Bam. 🖤🤘🏼

@KahlessTheUnforgettable

Жыл бұрын

🤤

@HatlessAtlasHA

Жыл бұрын

You know.. You have something in your eye! 👀

@KahlessTheUnforgettable

Жыл бұрын

@@HatlessAtlasHA I also see some on her chin

@HatlessAtlasHA

Жыл бұрын

@@KahlessTheUnforgettable ...Yawotm8? 😆 Geez

If bam turned this around, got his health sorted and got slimmed down it would be one hell of a comeback story

Extremely well put. Extremely sad situation.

Beautifully said

What he's saying about Bam happened with me. When someone you care about goes off the rails, you gotta try. But at some point you must cut the cord & let a fool be a somewhere else.

@salravioli

Жыл бұрын

My brother is turning into a monster too 😢

@MrKevlarkent

5 ай бұрын

@@salravioli try to see if you can get him into some kind of psychedelics study or program. they have amazing effects on all kinds of mental problems, from depression, ptsd and addiction

Awwww this man….. he is such a lovely person. The fact he was waiting for an insult breaks my heart. Earl, you’re a fucking legend. And you inspire me. ❤

I love the care shown by this man. What an articulate, thoughtful and kind human. Bam wished me happy birthday and I could tell he was getting clean :)😊

That's cool to hear,Bam has always been his own worst enemy! I wish him the best too

@jpmnky

Жыл бұрын

That’s almost always the case. Especially with addicts.

@DudesIn101

Жыл бұрын

@jason m. it's not just because he's an addict.Thats a personal issue and I'm sure he's working on that.he knows he has issues with substance abuse and he is working on it. I'm proud of him for reaching out to get help,it's not an easy thing to ask for ya know.

Love Ville 🖤

... Oh my God... Ville is absolutely stunning... So beautiful... It's impossible to take eyes off him... This beauty became absolutely unreal with ages...

@frauwaltraud2214

5 ай бұрын

Absolutely!

💖💖💖 Ville's empathy and response was perfect. I hope his friend can be back one day. Love Ville so much 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

HIM is always special to me now and forever

Concentrate on the essential. Thanks Ville!

Speaking to Ville is probably really hard for Bam. I'm assuming he probably feels shame and is afraid to speak with him. I've gone down a path to hell and required a lot of healing. I don't know either of them, I met Bam a long time ago while skating and we discussed the tricks we were trying, but you can see from this that he has a lot of support. I hope he realizes how much support he has around him. I may have talked shit about my own friends, but I also found out they stole from me and took advantage of me. Like come on Bam, I'm a dude with no friends, I'm broke, and I still changed things.

Love you and your kind and real words ❤

I love this guy❤ he's good people.

omg valo is one of those people who dont age

Wow vill has really changes over the years

Tand this is just another addition to the reason why I am so in love with him ❤ I'm do glad I got to see him finally after 20 years of trying to in austin last year. He's extremely talented.

Shoutout to Bam Margera❤ (wishing you strength brother)... and off course to Ville, thank you for your kind and delicate words sir 😘

Smart man. We love you Ville!

He said it like friend would. He cares about him