Very Detailed Lessons That'll 100% Improve How You Talk to People
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This video will teach you how to just be yourself and be loved for it.
While filming some other videos, JD and Marcus sat down and started discussing charisma.
This is the kind of behind-the-scenes stuff that nobody ever talks about in front of the camera.
Well fortunately cameras were there and we started them rolling, started the conversation over, and are releasing it to the world in the hopes that it answers questions you didn't even know you had about charisma, leading a charismatic life, and so much more.
Take notes on this one. It'll change your life.
NB: The flickering on the titles seems to be a KZread encoding problem. Or it's subliminal messages. Hard to tell.
Just a sampling of all of the wonderful things discussed:
- 1m10s Just be yourself is misunderstood advice…and here’s why
- 3m01s A quick tip for taming your chattering monkey mind that will make you more charismatic
- 3m26s How to avoid a classic rookie mistake in conversation… and build connections fast
- 3m54s What the advantage of speaking the truth gives you
- 4m03s How vulnerability is a measurement of courage and what to do about your own
- 4m50s Is being playful the fastest way to develop your social skills? The experts weigh in.
- 6m20s Why the mantra "Don’t react, respond" is the key to your own success
- 8m35s Understanding why risk taking is sexy…
- 9m03s Avoiding the perils of polite society so you're not trapped by it
- 9m18s :eadership is the challenge to be something more than average. Here's how to do it.
- 10m03s The important difference between being polite and having good manners. One will doom you, the other create your destiny.
- 12m27s How to create connections by overcoming the "economy of movement" (…both yours and theirs!)
- 14m0s One way to radically redefine rejection so that you never feel the sting again
- 15m20s How being curious makes you more charismatic!
- 15m44 How curiosity and persistence are the antidote to anxiety and rejection
- 16m26s Zen mind, beginner’s mind… what’s the difference? Which one do you want?
- 17m40 Your past can be a library of useful experiences for future conversations that will propel you toward success
- 18m47s The big insight to living a charismatic life…
- 20m02s Why neuroscience says there’s no such thing as bad emotions, just negative responses
- 21m15s Want to be one-in-a-million? Express your emotions!
- 22m01s The simple magic of turning water into champagne (being the son of god not required)
- 23m08 A wonderful question to ask yourself and improve your life…
- 24m29 Are there different types of charisma? Does it have to be a formula?
- 25m14s What the biggest problem in the self development industry is today.
- 26m55s How to pat your own back
- 27m50s The importance of always looking for the win in everything you do, especially the "failures" that will come to help you
- 29m08s BEWARE! This dangerous word creates false evidence to beat yourself up with
- 29m42s An example of how to shoot yourself in the foot before you open your mouth
- 30m30s The reason why engaging conversations often look pretty boring to outside observers
- 34m45s How to invite material into your mind and life so that your beliefs are changed for the better
- 36m0s Being yourself when you don’t know who you are? You’re not the only one! Let's get towards fixing it.
- 36m27s Four powerful ways to write a really amazing story for your life
- 40m0s Attachment vs. detachment (hint: both are extremes) and why they are dangerous
- 40m58s Unattached vs. non-attached (hint: both offer degrees of freedom) and how to strive for them
- 43m19s How to avoid the misery trap of (inadvertently) picking up other people’s pain
- 46m02s Understanding the ripple effect of ancestral psychology
- 51m33s How to just be yourself whilst developing your skills
- 55m17s Why are most self development students unable to get the same results as their teachers? What does YCC do different that helps get results?
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Thanx for deep conversation🙏
2 videos in 1 week? ... It's early Christmas boys!
@YourCharismaCoach
6 жыл бұрын
More to come! Stay tuned.
Great video. I find that I feel there is a lot of (Self)judgement which is holding me back and negative emotions. After interactions, I'll feel guilty for looking weird. I also feel really frozen sometimes in mid-conversations -- I don't know what to say or do, and it feels so awkward. If I try to be playful, it feels wrong because it is forced and I come off nervous.
@YourCharismaCoach
6 жыл бұрын
May I suggest this video then? kzread.info/dash/bejne/Y6KXk9CffKawnps.html
Great and very deep conversation between you! Thanks a lot for your work!^^
Charisma Coach is the best!!
@YourCharismaCoach
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you! We do it for people like you.
THIS WAS GOLD! I finally have a word to what I'm looking to learn more from, Psycho-Social Education. There has been so many mentions of things I have semi solidified in my thoughts about this and now that you've talked about them they have the weight needed to learn more from them. Thank you. By the way, what's in the vase?
@YourCharismaCoach
6 жыл бұрын
Hey Adam I'm really happy this video was a useful jigsaw piece. I checked out your awesome and inspirational channel and see you're on an adventure yourself! Take on the world! As for the vase...what would you have liked it to have been? I figured it would have been cool to have a coiled rope in there that just extended out half way (Aladdin style) through the talk...
You guys are really cool and this was a good speech. Could we see some more of those cool videos like when you defused the drunk homeless guy, with the gun banana? That was my favorite. You have such a different take on cold approaches and I love it. I think you have a lot of potential to be different from the charisma guys and everyone else. Keep up the good work
About norms: it is good to know the difference of charismatic confidence and insecure attention seeking. Often norm brokers are the latter.
Amazing content, thank you guys! 👍🏼
@YourCharismaCoach
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you! More to come shortly.
Hey hey cricket is a hella entertaining game today... It's not the English early 1900s anymore :p
Really good talk. By the way have you read the power of now?
@YourCharismaCoach
6 жыл бұрын
Yes. A great book.
@zendavie7032
6 жыл бұрын
Steven Lee I see your point, but I listened to the audiobook and it was way better than reading it
Can you make a video on how to be playful or have a playful mindset?
@YourCharismaCoach
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah. Any situations in particular?
Fucking fantastic!!! I WANNA FUCKING JOIN YOU GUS I WANNA BE PART OF THIS GOD DAMN ORGANIZATION!! AHHH I JUST WANNA BE FREE AND EXPRESSIVE LIKE YOU GUYS ARE!!! I guess ill have to fall in love with myself before I continue my journey isn't that right?
@YourCharismaCoach
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your support! Consider yourself joined! The journey unfolds in little pieces. More of my life was spent unexpressive than being free. What's important is that you have an idea of what you want to become and take little steps to get there. A little risk here and there to push yourself outside your comfort zone. Sometimes it works and sometimes it falls flat (which happens to us, too), but by just pushing yourself a bit further than you would, you've already won. Falling in love with yourself is the key, so give yourself lots of reasons to love yourself, too!
Vulnerability is not cool when you are ugly ,skinny and not confident. It only works for confident people like Marcus.
@YourCharismaCoach
4 жыл бұрын
I was not always confident. But I certainly felt skinny and ugly. With time, I realised that such labels are superficial (negative ones like 'ugly' and positive ones like 'confident'). Only your own mind or the minds of others can hang such labels on you. The first goal is to take control of the mind to prevent such loathing self talk. The second is to understand that negative labels from others are expressions of their own inner pain. Neither mean anything...or they mean everything, depending on your own feelings of worthiness. Vulnerability is about going beyond either of those judgements and opening yourself to be praised or ridiculed with the understanding neither mean anything in the scheme of things. You are mighty and capable of great and amazing things. Get your mind under your discipline then the rest will follow.