Ever wondered how to evaluate if you're ready for marriage? In this insightful video Mufti Menk breaks down the marriage point system. We explore the criteria that contribute to building a successful marriage and the importance of self-development in this journey.
The point system involves assessing key aspects:
1) Deen (Religious commitment): A foundation of one point. Without it, there's a risk of having zero in the equation.
2) Good looks: Add a zero, making it ten, acknowledging the physical aspect.
3) Family background: Add another zero, now reaching a hundred, emphasizing the significance of family values.
4) Wealth: Add yet another zero, making it a thousand, recognizing the practical aspects of financial stability.
This video is for you if:
- You're interested in Islamic perspectives on marriage.
- You're seeking guidance on finding a compatible spouse.
- You believe in building a marriage based on shared values and mutual respect.
- You're looking to challenge superficial notions of compatibility.
However, the hadith emphasizes that the core is Deen - the consciousness of Allah. Without it, the entire equation collapses. No matter the external factors, without a strong foundation in Deen, the marriage may face challenges.
Practical tips for preparing for marriage:
- Develop your consciousness of Allah and connection with Him.
- Build physical capacity through maintaining good health.
- Work on character, habits, and values. If you swear excessively or have anger issues, it's time to reflect and improve.
Remember: Marriage is a sacred journey, and choosing a partner should be a thoughtful and introspective process. Don't get caught up in assigning points or seeking instant gratification. Invest in building yourself and seek a partner who complements your values and aspirations.
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Video: Mufti Menk (@muftimenkofficial)
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