Unpacking Addiction, Finding Yourself and Our Strict Girlfriend rules with

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Another week another thought provoking, thought unpacking, thought digesting episode with Caiah and Mpho. Our guest for today is non other than Malome KZread himself Thato Rampedi.
In this episode the girls tell us what their strict girlfriend rules are, and our guest will be rating them on a scale of 1-5 (1 being unreasonable and 5 being reasonable). He also tells us some of his strict boyfriend rules. Don’t be afraid to tell us what are yours.
In today’s game the girls and Thato play a fun game of One must Go, where they decide what would they rather live without amongst the things they love.
On our next segment the topic of discussion is Addiction: Where the girls and Thato share if they have you dealt with addiction ? What is at the root of addiction? How did they overcome their addiction ? Forgiving yourself after relapse.
For our members: We will be delving into the concept of Finding Yourself. If we subscribe to that notion. How we individually define finding ourselves and if we ever will find ourselves.
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  • @Thatohatsiiiiiiiiiii
    @Thatohatsiiiiiiiiiii15 күн бұрын

    One thing about Caiah, she is always comfortable and cozy here. What a healthy work environment. Big ups to the big boss Thato🎀

  • @CaiahM

    @CaiahM

    15 күн бұрын

    Thato is the best boss ever ! I’ve got my feet on his couch and everything 😂😂😂

  • @MoetK21
    @MoetK2111 күн бұрын

    We want Lebo with the girls too please🥲🥲🥲

  • @Botse_Maaboi
    @Botse_Maaboi15 күн бұрын

    Editor please THE PINK SPARKLES 😭

  • @nkosazanatshabalala2711

    @nkosazanatshabalala2711

    14 күн бұрын

    Broo😭😭

  • @JachinDitle
    @JachinDitle15 күн бұрын

    I agree with Caiah's second strict rule. I don't want anyone to know about our relationship😂I don't want to meet your mom or cousins unless we are engaged. That's valid

  • @newangotsopeng3926
    @newangotsopeng392615 күн бұрын

    i high high high key miss the pink shining stars when a new topic is introduced😪

  • @CaiahM

    @CaiahM

    15 күн бұрын

    We’re gonna confront the editor fr fr 😭😭

  • @lindiwegama412
    @lindiwegama41215 күн бұрын

    Well first ( correct me if I'm wrong pls) it is against the bible to have a partner who's not christian when you are Christian.( 2 Corinthians 6:14) It is just not good for your spiritual life and will eventually bleed into all aspects of your life but I'm glad you recognize that Caiah. Also thank you for being a Christian girly who's so real and relatable, it's so refreshing. I agree with Mpho about the example of a Christian who is addicted to pornography correcting other christians on lust because for the fact that you would be aware of their addiction it means they are seeking help and like Paul they are dying to their flesh everyday as long as they are correcting you and not judging you, you can both help each and hold each other accountable. Great episode as always guys. Very knowledgeable and eye opening ❤

  • @esethumthembu8935

    @esethumthembu8935

    3 сағат бұрын

    Wonderful❤

  • @elli-t
    @elli-t14 күн бұрын

    liked how Mpho was so appreciative of her healthy relationship and how she is proud to have a partner 👌

  • @rosemah
    @rosemah15 күн бұрын

    Caiah is in the coziest outfit. 🥰😂

  • @CaiahM

    @CaiahM

    15 күн бұрын

    Well I tell you I was COMFORTABLE 😭😭😂

  • @liisaimmanuel
    @liisaimmanuel15 күн бұрын

    I'm so glad that Caiah is being honest and transparent about being a Christian and dating a Muslim. I'm not for it but coming from someone who asked the question last week, thank you for answering and addressing the topic and being so transparent about it.

  • @florencemoyo499

    @florencemoyo499

    11 күн бұрын

    Is the guy knownnn?

  • @seipati_

    @seipati_

    6 күн бұрын

    ​@@florencemoyo499 Isn't King Omar?

  • @kattsomething
    @kattsomething15 күн бұрын

    Caiah is just like me. As my partner, I don't want to meet/know your friends or family until we're going to be engaged to marry.

  • @CaiahM

    @CaiahM

    15 күн бұрын

    Yebboooo💃🏾💃🏾

  • @dineovalencia

    @dineovalencia

    15 күн бұрын

    I also agree but I had a situation with my bf where he introduced me to his family, I told him that let it be us for now before anybody else because i don't want pressure for either of us but he said he felt the need to in order for me to see that he is serious about me and his parents told him that he should only come with a girl only when he sees a future with them...

  • @naomimwikali6329
    @naomimwikali632915 күн бұрын

    I love how you've represented Christ without fear or shame, I enjoy listening to your update and progression on your relationship with God. On Caiahs' relationship with a Muslim, I think the bible is clear on being equally yoked and the reason you're finding it difficult to post as usual could be a conviction from the Holy Spirit. Being with a Muslim is difficult since the basis of Christianity is Jesus being the saviour and that's what they don't agree so their faith discredit everything about your faith. Talk to God about it though, He will guide you as always😊

  • @pilisapiliso9647
    @pilisapiliso964715 күн бұрын

    I love Caiah so much, she debunks so many religion norms ! She is ssooo open about how ones real walk with God truly is

  • @CaiahM

    @CaiahM

    15 күн бұрын

    Ugh man, this walk is so difficult. And I want nothing more than to be an example that God carries us through it ALL. No matter how difficult, confusing or destabilising a season is. I’m so glad you received this❤️

  • @mballynkosi6518
    @mballynkosi651815 күн бұрын

    This channel has beautiful conversations! Thought digest and Seated are beautiful shows. I always learn and reflect almost every episode! Love, love the content Thato!❤️❤️

  • @lebontshweng7472
    @lebontshweng74729 күн бұрын

    Mpho is so smart, I agree with her on the genetics part about substance addiction and one being susceptible to it if let's say a fam member was or is addicted

  • @ethichadebe
    @ethichadebe15 күн бұрын

    This is a tough pod to listen to, this is a very uncomfortable but extremely necessary conversation, thank you guys for this

  • @liisaimmanuel
    @liisaimmanuel15 күн бұрын

    Caiah Is such a smart girl, she really knows how to speak, her body language, posture, everytime she speaks I immediately want to listen.

  • @liisaimmanuel
    @liisaimmanuel15 күн бұрын

    I love the way Mpho reasons and the way she's such an open minded person, I love it🤍

  • @shammahshirinda4280
    @shammahshirinda428011 күн бұрын

    Mr editor sir, please give us our sparkles hle😢

  • @thotoaneramakhula9140
    @thotoaneramakhula914015 күн бұрын

    I hear the friends chat. But truth be told, seeing your man with his friend reveals a lot about him, I am 50-50 with that one😅

  • @CaiahM

    @CaiahM

    15 күн бұрын

    Actually🤔🤔

  • @liisaimmanuel
    @liisaimmanuel15 күн бұрын

    Thank you for joining us this week Thato, thank you for being so open and transparent.

  • @Rorisang_.
    @Rorisang_.15 күн бұрын

    I do think the equally yoked chat wasn’t mentioned when Thato asked the question of dating outside of Christian faith

  • @Prince_Haremgard
    @Prince_Haremgard16 күн бұрын

    I so want a seated with lebo and thato rampedi please thatoooo!!!

  • @itsjustmpho5978
    @itsjustmpho597815 күн бұрын

    Caiah, your bravery and openness to talk about real issues and relate them to yours is so inspiring❤.........you go in girl

  • @RizzMedalion
    @RizzMedalion15 күн бұрын

    As a gent that pour a bit too much when I'm with a partner I can relate to where Thato is rn and I'm also on that journey of loving and appreciating myself lately. It's always tough at the beginning because of limerence but it gets easier as you go. Big s/o to you bro and s/o to the ladies dope pod, keep em coming.

  • @kekeletsolicela5961
    @kekeletsolicela596115 күн бұрын

    This was such a good episode !!!! Thato must come back

  • @NeoTshoagang-yq1wh
    @NeoTshoagang-yq1wh15 күн бұрын

    I love you Caiah and Mpho❤

  • @CaiahM

    @CaiahM

    15 күн бұрын

    We love you too !!

  • @lerevofficial4683
    @lerevofficial468311 күн бұрын

    Caiah dont switch..i know its easier said than done..praying for you❤

  • @nnonhle341
    @nnonhle34115 күн бұрын

    Thoroughly enjoyed this episode. Also learned a few things. Thanks guys!

  • @SibsM93
    @SibsM9315 күн бұрын

    Thee best Thought Digest episode ever!!! By far!

  • @nokhwezikhumalo3970

    @nokhwezikhumalo3970

    11 күн бұрын

    Neeeee❤

  • @kumkanikazi.27

    @kumkanikazi.27

    5 күн бұрын

    Word

  • @lethabolekalakala6652
    @lethabolekalakala665215 күн бұрын

    this was such a wholesome episode . thank you ladies 💕💕

  • @lethuvinindwa2597
    @lethuvinindwa259714 күн бұрын

    First-time watcher here. I'm definitely coming for more, very informed and informative convo👌👌

  • @Lerato_Makgati
    @Lerato_Makgati15 күн бұрын

    Your outfits are jelling together guys🔥🔥❤

  • @CaiahM

    @CaiahM

    15 күн бұрын

    Unplanned too😂😂

  • @LethoMbonane
    @LethoMbonane15 күн бұрын

    I thought I was crazy for not wanting to meet family and friends while I’m still a girlfriend 😭😭, there is NO need

  • @CaiahM

    @CaiahM

    15 күн бұрын

    No need whatsoeverrrrr😭 Then I get super attached unnecessarily

  • @mokhantsoletsela
    @mokhantsoletsela2 күн бұрын

    I'd love to hear the three of you talk about attachment styles

  • @_Montlenyana22
    @_Montlenyana2215 күн бұрын

    Beautiful episode guys! 🙏🏻❤️

  • @pitutie_girl
    @pitutie_girl15 күн бұрын

    Finally, yall uploaded on time. I was soo excited when i saw the drop ❤

  • @mphorakodi7347
    @mphorakodi73472 күн бұрын

    Caiah's Second strict rule used to be my number 1 strict rule. 😭😭 very reasonable though!!!

  • @Yandie425
    @Yandie42515 күн бұрын

    I love the bond 🥺❤️

  • @everybodyknowswhitey
    @everybodyknowswhitey15 күн бұрын

    This was such an amazing episode man i loved it ♥🥰

  • @Thabii_
    @Thabii_14 күн бұрын

    This episode was incredible! I loved it and found it so educational and relatable. Thank you much!

  • @natasha.kafumbe
    @natasha.kafumbe13 күн бұрын

    Every week I am here. This podcast is everything and more

  • @katlegophiri79
    @katlegophiri7916 күн бұрын

    Finally made the time to come watch 😊❤

  • @loideuuzigo697
    @loideuuzigo69714 күн бұрын

    I learn so much from this channel 🥺, i love and appreciate you guys soo much❤

  • @karabolepheana7657
    @karabolepheana765710 күн бұрын

    If someone is going to cheat on you they will, it doesn't matter if you have rules, have access to their devices, curfews, etc. Unfortunately a relationship is a risk, can't runaway from that🤷‍♂️ some risks pay off and some don't 😊

  • @neonation6801
    @neonation680115 күн бұрын

    very informative on addiction❣i will definetly FORGIVE myself💓💓💓💓💓💓

  • @ofentsemorobe
    @ofentsemorobe15 күн бұрын

    Very informative and delightful episode❤ got to learn a few things about myself and also I took away quite a lot of things.you guys are an inspiration

  • @Mr_Munene
    @Mr_Munene14 күн бұрын

    First time I’ve sat through an entire episode cause I mostly watch seated.. equally an amazing time🤞🏿

  • @Thatohatsiiiiiiiiiii
    @Thatohatsiiiiiiiiiii15 күн бұрын

    Caiah with the friends and family chat? She cooked. I don't want to love your family too much, then when it ends I'm attached to your family because I come from a toxic and now you've introduced me to your healthy family. Now I find reason to stay in a toxic relationship. No thank you

  • @pilisapiliso9647
    @pilisapiliso964715 күн бұрын

    the way i was so excited and expectant to see the pink sparkles

  • @nokhwezikhumalo3970
    @nokhwezikhumalo397011 күн бұрын

    This is one of the best episodes touched down 😭♥️

  • @lindiweQueenFoko
    @lindiweQueenFoko8 күн бұрын

    Enjoyed this,thank you guys!❤

  • @nkosazanatshabalala2711
    @nkosazanatshabalala271114 күн бұрын

    This was super informative as always ofcourse ❤

  • @WetsoMogorosi
    @WetsoMogorosi15 күн бұрын

    and is like "iyoo"😂😂😂❤i love Thato so much!!

  • @siyethembamahaye9144
    @siyethembamahaye914415 күн бұрын

    That addiction topic got me like “Hi, I’m Kevin. I’m an addict.” 😅

  • @khanyisilekhanyi5428
    @khanyisilekhanyi542814 күн бұрын

    I looove this episode so much! Thato should deffs come back

  • @kut-words
    @kut-words11 күн бұрын

    This is a great show! 😆I enjoyed this, especially the part when Mammi dearest looked at the camera on the "God and singleness" question part. 😄

  • @snikiwezamazwide7566
    @snikiwezamazwide75665 күн бұрын

    It's my first time here and I'm loving this❤❤❤

  • @msrorisang
    @msrorisang12 күн бұрын

    When Mpho said “Thank God”😭❤️

  • @ItsRauha
    @ItsRauha12 күн бұрын

    Appreciate this Episode ❤

  • @Moeti2915
    @Moeti291515 күн бұрын

    When are the gents gonna get Seated with Lebo and Thato though❤🤲?

  • @Geegee-r1n
    @Geegee-r1n15 күн бұрын

    Thato is right, sometimes the opposite company is great even if you not dating.. Guys stop being too hard on yourselves! Sometimes as ladies when we go to clubs then guys just come chill with us we have a good time,part away after ,no messing around!thats how life is!

  • @BRIGHTONMATHEBULA
    @BRIGHTONMATHEBULA15 күн бұрын

    Great episode ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @rosemah
    @rosemah15 күн бұрын

    Still no sparkles 😭

  • @vuyokazimjomle1323
    @vuyokazimjomle13234 күн бұрын

    Thato is very diplomatic, the way he answers

  • @misstereo
    @misstereo8 күн бұрын

    I LOVED THISSS

  • @dephneyramphisa6724
    @dephneyramphisa672413 күн бұрын

    Lovely episode

  • @lekaka_le_brown
    @lekaka_le_brown8 күн бұрын

    Thank you guys for putting me on. Now I know to keep my data off for find my iPhone hun let it slip that she tracks me "sometimes"

  • @KwaneleSikhosana....
    @KwaneleSikhosana....14 күн бұрын

    My addiction is that I am always on my phone form the time I open my eyes till I close them.The reason for that is like I am always on my thoughts which result in getting sleepless nights so I am on my phone till I get tired and also my phone is my bestie cause that's where you will find me laughing and happy cause I can't stay with people for too long

  • @loideuuzigo697

    @loideuuzigo697

    14 күн бұрын

    Same 😢 and for me it's because I stay alone most of the time. I'm unemployed and depressed and I treat my phone as as escape goat from reality . It's not good but that's just my life 🥺

  • @KwaneleSikhosana....

    @KwaneleSikhosana....

    13 күн бұрын

    @loideuuzigo697 I hope you find a job that you will be excited about and also find some podcast or show in KZread space that can keep you laughing and help you in a way❤️love and light

  • @loideuuzigo697

    @loideuuzigo697

    13 күн бұрын

    @@KwaneleSikhosana.... thank you so much ☺️

  • @wakunyambomwalusi6484
    @wakunyambomwalusi648415 күн бұрын

    On the live location part, Caiah and I are literally the same please 😭🤣

  • @CaiahM

    @CaiahM

    15 күн бұрын

    😭😭we know ourselves. We’ll drive ourselves crazy

  • @NolwaziSibiya_
    @NolwaziSibiya_11 күн бұрын

    FIRST THINGS FIRST, YOU GUYS LOOK GOOD AND THE COLOURS ARE COODINATING😍

  • @phographyandlife9932
    @phographyandlife993215 күн бұрын

    I truly relate to Mpho's addiction, Nd it's something that I need to work on because I'm always on my phone

  • @thulzzz583
    @thulzzz58312 күн бұрын

    I'm not a podcast person but I'm enjoying this❤

  • @sibusisiwemabusela7330
    @sibusisiwemabusela73302 сағат бұрын

    Smart young group of people, my heart is full ❤

  • @kabodithabe
    @kabodithabe14 күн бұрын

    This was beautiful!!!

  • @kabodithabe

    @kabodithabe

    14 күн бұрын

    Thato must visit more often

  • @apollosmartyn
    @apollosmartyn15 күн бұрын

    Great work ❤❤❤Namibia 🇳🇦

  • @judithngake9577
    @judithngake95778 күн бұрын

    I love Mpho so much

  • @thecelebriteagossip
    @thecelebriteagossip10 күн бұрын

    Can we have Lebo next😊

  • @Shuzz_Production02
    @Shuzz_Production022 күн бұрын

    Damn this is powerful. 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @walterwhite7976
    @walterwhite79769 күн бұрын

    Nah that's enough seated with. I'm a Though Digest broer now 😭 I'm healed.

  • @delleuniverse2735
    @delleuniverse273515 күн бұрын

    First of all I loooove this podcast and this is constructive criticism coz I love y’all. Mami, I think you interrupt people when they try to get their point across, it used to happen to me a lot when I was talking to my friends and it’s a habit that I’m working on letting go and I think you should too. I get it , sometimes we’re so passionate within a conversation that we wanna add something immediately but I still think it’s good to learn the habit of controlling that❤️❤️

  • @JoyLutangu
    @JoyLutangu13 күн бұрын

    Seated is the top on the list❤❤

  • @Rorisang_.
    @Rorisang_.15 күн бұрын

    Ngl and not that my opinion has value because I’m literally a stranger but when I saw Caiah date a Muslim…I found that a bit questionable.

  • @nzamafamily7nzama766
    @nzamafamily7nzama76614 күн бұрын

    Editor was like, “I ain’t doing that”😭😭😭

  • @Imvubu.dablack
    @Imvubu.dablack15 күн бұрын

    Yoh I also love kissing hle I've dumped a lot of people because of that issue

  • @vuyokazimjomle1323
    @vuyokazimjomle13234 күн бұрын

    Very informative and interesting episode

  • @jessicakleinbooi7750
    @jessicakleinbooi77508 күн бұрын

    Its always Mphos giggle for me 🤣🤣

  • @ApheleleButhelezi-n5c
    @ApheleleButhelezi-n5c15 күн бұрын

    they must read life of pie 🤣

  • @dinelagomutota9240
    @dinelagomutota924010 күн бұрын

    Caiah, can we please talk about how you couldn't hold it in about " I always date people who are nonchalant "😭😂

  • @CaiahM

    @CaiahM

    10 күн бұрын

    😂😂I was instantly concerned

  • @demberamel7197
    @demberamel719713 күн бұрын

    No because watching this came up with some life lessons ❤

  • @user-cj2vc3fc8w
    @user-cj2vc3fc8w13 күн бұрын

    I have not watched this in long time and it's like I was in therapy thato must come back more for bros please and bring Lebo also

  • @Anomthajaco
    @Anomthajaco14 күн бұрын

    "that's a real thing because our alcohol problem is deep" 🤣🤣 Mammi nhe

  • @phumelelamkhonto2219
    @phumelelamkhonto221914 күн бұрын

    Interesting👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @den.ii_se
    @den.ii_se15 күн бұрын

    Does this mean we are getting an episode of seated with ?😭😭😭 it's been a month Thato

  • @vukonaanita9879
    @vukonaanita987915 күн бұрын

    “your saying bye to your husband?”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @kamogelothamaga5751
    @kamogelothamaga575114 күн бұрын

    Wisdom dropped ❤️ 🥹 sound track title?

  • @loideuuzigo697
    @loideuuzigo69713 күн бұрын

    Let's talk about the video quality 👌 ❤❤

  • @shashat.w.o7497
    @shashat.w.o749715 күн бұрын

    I can relate with Thato a good kiss feels like heaven

  • @vincentmacamo6301
    @vincentmacamo630115 күн бұрын

    13:00 I believe before religion we are Humans and a Principle or base of Human intention should be placed as FIRST to create a family. you can't say I won't leave religion and deprive yourself of creating a family. and this is the mistake alot of people make, its something everyone should learn from our elders when a woman is married by a Man she leaves her church and joins the Mans, you can choose what to submit on and what not to submit on. relationship is not that hence alot fail because people create double standards.

  • @charlottemygal528
    @charlottemygal52813 күн бұрын

    I really like caiah

  • @WetsoMogorosi
    @WetsoMogorosi15 күн бұрын

    Mpho's phone addiction is me😫👍🏽

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