omg loved loved loved it

@melissatelier

17 күн бұрын

thanks dazita ily 💓🥰

mel new video 😍😍😍😍

@melissatelier

17 күн бұрын

we loveee

Such an interesting topic! Beautifully put! It is always hard to do things when you constantly feel like you’re being judged, but at the same time you love doing what you’re doing. Figuring out a different mindset is so important and not focusing on the negative 🫶☺️

@melissatelier

14 күн бұрын

Abbie!!! Thanks so much for always supporting

so relatable i just started my channel

@melissatelier

14 күн бұрын

that's amazing Natalia !

@Natalia_Belen

13 күн бұрын

@@melissatelier thats exactly what I needed to hear it definitely helped

@melissatelier

13 күн бұрын

@@Natalia_Belen I'm really glad

Randomly stumbled upon this video and found it really helpful. I've always been anxious about doing things out in the open bcoz of peoples' judgement and still working on this anxiety. Also been avoiding ppl a lot recently.

@melissatelier

16 күн бұрын

hey! I'm glad it was helpful, to be honest, I'm still fighting that anxiety of knowing that people will see me and judge me too so I get you, if you want to talk about it, why have you been avoiding people? in my case, cause I've done it as well, it happens when I don't want to talk about what I'm doing knowing the person wouldn't vibe with it, but maybe it's something else either way, I'm sending you a hug, we can work on this together !

Hi Mel! Another fire real talk once again 💯😍 l This one in particular made me think. It always came to me as a guilty feeling idk, not wanting to be seen by locals when I did not care about randoms online. In my case, I just graduated HS and still have many connections with friends and peers through my socials. I even have my small business tied to my name for some, and that itself makes me so anxious because I plan to keep this growing as a separate entity from my face and identity. You could see it as a way to help it grow by telling friends about it, like yeaa that's a normal thing to do, and at the time it made sense since I started my biz during HS, it just feels so weird NOW. Like knowing that there will be people from MY high school who know the person behind my brand/content/etc. I don't know, LOL the whole concept just feels squirmish to me. But, maybe it's because I have always lived my life under the radar, and now that my Identity is being tied to things, I feel conflicted in a way? On a good note, this video brought out the realization, and before this, I haven't really given any thought about what my HS connections thought of me HAAHFHA we gonna keep growing and never go back!

@melissatelier

15 күн бұрын

Hey

@renilaur

15 күн бұрын

@@melissatelier HI MEL first, thanks sm for taking the time to reply :3 and YESS omg looking at myself from a standpoint, I look self centered af LMAO but, the feelings have been almost natural. I am sure it has something to do with like ancestors and our human psychology of wanting to fit in and conform to their norms but, IDK it really is crazy haha. I love how you considered these feelings part of getting out of your comfort zone, cause it makes sense! I mean, I didn't have these feelings again until years ago when I started an editing account on Instagram and would edit people in my school (anonymously, no identity behind the account) and would only tell my close friends about it XD Which really shows how getting out of your comfort zone can make your mind test you with all these scary feelings, I like to see it has a test because it is hard to get out, and not a lot of people have the willpower to change their life for the better. And watching this video was more of a realization and put the names to a lot of feelings that were kind of buried in my mind for a while,.I also haven't been reflecting recently on just my wellbeing so XD your video was eye opening!! + I do feel a bit better knowing that you don't care at all or remember anything about your High school LOL. Deep down I know that people are all going through their own problems and paths after, but the feelings you get when you leave are so weird and hard to ignore, humans are weird 🥸. I do agree with you on how this experience is something that I had to go through in order to adapt and get more comfortable in growing in different pathways. I will try my best to not care anymore about what people think of me 🫡 because who knows, they might be thinking the same thing, scared to be seen/what others think, which hinders their own growth and success 🤫 but that's just a test to filter out the resilient people to keep a small percentage at the top MUHAHAH dang why'd I lowkey cook. But anyway, I love your perspective on this weird human feeling

@melissatelier

14 күн бұрын

@renilaur don't thank me, I'm more than happy to see that you shared this, and being of some help :D regarding looking self center, DW, i think it's normal too (to some extent ofc) but it's the same as me thinking of doing short form content and thinking everyone will be there 24/7 judging LOL it def has to do with our desire to fit in !! i believe this is natural behavior since as human we have the sense of community and union, yk? so ofc we want to be and feel part of something ! I really loved what you said: " _really shows how getting out of your comfort zone can make your mind test you with all these scary feelings_ " cause that's exactly it, and i yk how not everyone face these tests, and go back to being scared and not doing anything, normal too but shouldn't be :// you have no idea of how happy i am to see that i helped you realize and spot these feelings and reflect and i know you got this and it'll be okay ! sometimes we need to reflect a bit to acknowledge what's going on inside of our minds and, acknowledge our feelings, and just, work from there. the high school THING LOL AHEBRFJIWERBF it's so real tbh, but maybe it also has to do with the fact that i moved to another city, not too far away, and i still have everyone from hs on social media, but i just don't see them lol, plus it's been years, people have changed, etc., so at the end of the day i think this is natural, but ofc you have it fresh cause you graduated recently, i'm going through that rn but with college, that's why im so scared lol def everyone is scared of being judged, and that's stopping them from doing something they love, so I really hope we can all do it, and encourage others to do it too :) I'll work on not caring too, we got this !!! AHDJAHSA ON TOPPPP, again we got thisss letsgooo

This video is so relatable...youtude algorithm read my mind.

@melissatelier

16 күн бұрын

thanks for watching ! I'm glad I was of any help :) fear of being seen is something definitely normal, but we must overcome it if we want to pursue our passions !

100%, why would we want ppl in our lives who refuse to support our authentic selves? IM SO EXCITED FOR YOUR SHORT FORM CONTENT BTW 🫶 and the mic sounds great 😎

@melissatelier

18 күн бұрын

thanks for leaving a comment ily